- .W “q ..—‘«‘.-M .. I“. I“ ME. AND . RUSSELL s. WARD LeLocheur-Ward Vows To ken At St. David’s Bouquets of spring flowers decorated St. David’s U n I ted urch. Georgetown in June when Jean Elizabeth LeLac - eur, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Cecil achaur. Georgeoown Royalty was united in marri- age to Russell Scott Ward. son of Mr. an d Mrs. Lester Ward, Bridgetown. Annapolis County. Nova Scotia. The ceremony was perform- ed by Rev. M. R. Pocklington. Guest soloist was Rachel Min- chin who sang, “0 Per fe ct Love" before the bridal party entered the church. Given in marriage by her fa- ther. the bride wore a floor length gown of white embossed brocade. with a fish - tail train, rounded neckline. and long pointed sleeves. Her head-dress wedding ring band with a shoulder length veil. She car- ried a bouquet of sweetheart roses. The bride was attended by her two sisters. Ruth and Mary ml the groom’s sister. Mar- lene Ward. They were identical stree. length dresses of no and rose peau de soie. and car- ried nosegays. Darrell Wood of Cold'brook, N.S.. was best man. Ushers were Gordon Ward. brother of the groom and David MacLean of Charlottetown. The bride’s mother wore a blue linen suit with white acces- sories and a Corsage of pin carnations. The mother of the 00m wore a brown brocade dress with beige accessories and a corsage of yellow car- nations. A reception for 100 guests was held in the church hall follow- ing the ceremony. where friends of the ride served. Da Dewar was in charge of guest book and Lincoln Dewar proposed the toast which was responded to by the groom. Following the reception the bride and groom Ich for a hon- eymoon trip to the St. John River Valley. the bride wear- Ing a figured silk dress green. brown and orange with a matching green linen duster. white accessories and cor- aage of red roses. the O ~. United Church Out - of - the province guests lnclu d e d those from ruro. Syd n e y. Windsor. Halif a x, Kingston and Middleton, and Kentville in Nova Scotia, Mon- treal. Quebec and Trinidad. Prior to her marriage the bride was tendered a shower by members of the secretarial staff of the Nova Scotia Agricultur- al College. The couple will take up resl- dence at 4 Poplar Street. Pic- tou, N.S. where the groom ls employed with the Nova Scotia Department of Agriculture and Marketing. and the bride with the Department of Agriculture in Truro. (Photo by Cudmore-Murphy) Sell-Sacrifice DEAR MARY HAWORTH: Years ago when we were child- ren I catered to my younger sister. who was withdrawn, in- trov , mood We didn’t have much. but any- thing extna that I had I would give to her. mainly because she said nobody loved her. And on many occasions she threatened to jump out of the window. Now I am reaping my re- ward: she is my constant critic. she must be the center of attraction, and she wants to be highly thought of. Mean-while she tears me down. cuiticizing my speech. conrecting my gram- mar. wisecraclo’ng about my facial mannerisms. my mental e ability, etc. She does this any time. any place. in front of mutual friends, just for amusement on some oc- casions. I resent this and object to her ridicule. She gets haugh- ty and says I’m sensitive: that I have to learn to laugh at my- self I I can. but I dislike being laughed at): to learn to laugh at that I'm stupid, etc. A doctor has told me she is jealous of me. that I am the stronger person. that one who "°‘""'y criticizes another is hard believe, as she Is inttractzive. intelligent. witty in l ’sarcastic way. able to hold friends Her friends melee many of the same mistakes I do. yet' She tolerates them all. even finds them and asses them over. She has walked off and left me standing. in the street, subway or depa-nttheht gator-e. because something I said was “idiotic.” Thus she aims to make me alpipear small and com- pletely wrong. I need help to cope with her ' tongue. Lately I have an over- powering urge to slap her face. Please advise me before I do something I may regret. G.Y. I Dear G.Y.: As I get the pic- ;ture. your sister's personality :is almost inremedl'a'bly arped and bitter. She is psychologi- cally incapable of experiencing love - always mis- judged your early protective- type generosity towards her as a form of wealmess. for this weakness (as she construe: it) she despises you. neurotically. Also. because you are sisters. she tends to identify with you. as If you were a " r- Image of herself. in company. Again. a neurotic distortion of reality. Thus. when she is criticizing .11. grammar. facial expressions. mental ability. etc.. in the presence of others seem- ingly for amusement at times. she is (in effect) speaking the "repectinig" lines that she fan- cies others may be thinking of both of you in the situation. In a sense she may be jealous of you. as the doctor suggests; com- of herself as is: to-wlt. an un- person who will vii hate i and brother-in-law. M-r. By Jealousy And Spite l mhs'wbodywhocuuhowfllemwufl gym s The Guardian, Charlottetown, W-ad., Jay—29, 1954. t of her parents. Mr. and Mn. Claude Gavin. Tignish. Mrs. Robin Clay who is ‘- tending the 6 Week summer course in music at Mount Alli- son University, Sackvflle spent the weekend with her family Bridgetown. Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth Moase and sons Lee and Brian have returned to thelr home In Hall- fax after spending their vaca- Ion with Mr. Moase's parents, HAPPENINGS Audrey Jenkins. Women's Editor; Phone 4-8506 Mr. and Mrs_ Allan Metherall. Natick. Mass. are guests at the Sea-man Cottages, Mill River, while visiting relatives an friends in the vicinity. William LaFosse of the RCAF and Mrs. LaFossc (nee Audrey M u r p h y) Dartmouth are spending a holiday at Jac- ques Cartier Park and renewing friendships In Alberton. Mrs. Waldo Matthews, Jr. has returned to Montreal after spen- ding two weeks with her sister n d Mrs. Kenneth beard, Fortune Cove. Constable Allison Jay 3 nd Mrs. Jay. Curtis and Craig have returned to their home in Syd- ney, N.S. after spending a ho]- iday at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Roland Jay, Mount Stew- art. . I Mrs. George Noseworthy and her two sons arrived om Fair- view, N.S. on Saturday to spend several weeks with Mr. and Mrs. J. R. Bonyman. Alberton. Mr. and Mrs. Bill MacRae of Montreal were visitors to Mon-i iague on Saturday. i Rita Ann MacDonald has re-‘ turned to her home in Glenfin- nan after having spent a holl- day in Ottawa, the guest of her grandparents. Senator J. J. Mac- Donald and Mrs. MacDonald. Rev, and Mrs. W. J. Phillips, 'Dartmouth. arrived In Albertonl MARY HAWORTH i Rewo rded 5 probably Is because you put upi with this “inner self" of hers, In a spirit of wanting to be friend- ly. loving and kind. hopeful that I lforbearance may tenderize her heart eventually. . Very likely her friends. 30-. called. would give her shortl shrith if she spoke her moods as I freely to them. So she says onlyl what they want to hear. as a; necessity of keeping-in-ttwch. 3 Now for advice: You've got to‘ tougth towards your s‘stcr, become self-reliant and essen- tially detached as regards her’ neurotic unfairness. to‘ need nothing from her in theiI way of sisterly consolation. Asl wean yourself from emo-l tional hunger on that score. she will treat you with care if shel sees you at all. M.H.. Mary Hawortih counsels thr-I ough her column. not by mail or personal interview. Write her in care of (The Guardian). Saturday evening to spend some time with Mrs. Phlllips‘ mother, Mrs. Herbert Champion. Mr. and Mrs. Donald Camp- bell and children of Point Claire PQ., are holidaying in the pro- vince. guests of their respec- tive parents. Mrs. Martha Hatch. Montreal has spent the past week as guest of er sis r and brother-in- law. Mr. and Mrs. James Cud- more. Montague. She also visit- aunt, Mrs. Novella Cummings at Oxford, N.S. 8. Mr. and Mrs, Douglas Pickard EWestfield, N.B.. spent the week- ‘cnd in Alberton. guests of Mr. and Mrs. Erskine Clark. Ronald Miu-ndicl of Campbell- ton. N.B.. has been visiting In to P.E.I. for the past week. On Friday he attended the Eastern Canadian Track and Field Meet held at Summerside. Visiting the home of Mr. and Mrs. Wilfred Boyce. Tignish are Mrs. Tom Burke and sons Tom a d Bruce and Audrey Boyce all of Halifax. Mr. and Mrs. Alexander Lee Furgey and family, Montreal. are spending a holiday with Mrs. A. A. LeFurgey at her sum- mer home near Alberton. Mr. and Mrs. Clifford Hughes and son. Gary of Oakvllle, Ont. are vacationing at the home of Mrs. Hughes’ parents. Mr. and rs. Ambrose Monaghan in Kel- ly's Cross. Edward Fitzgerald returned to his home in Tignish from To- ronto where he spent several weeks visiting his brother and sister-in-law. Mr. and Mrs Fred Fitzgerald. Nola Perry. Tignish Is spend- Ing part of her school holidays with relatives and friends in Boston. guest of her sisters. Jean and Tish Perry. Mr. and Mrs. Allister Adams and son Bruce of Campbellton. N.B.. have been visiting friends in Montague for the past week. they have been guests of Mr. and Mrs. Wm MacRae of Mon~ treal who are holidaying at their summer home at Re Pnint. Thrw were also Guests of Mr. and Mrs. James Cudmore. Montague. Mr. and Mrs. Montreal. are visiting at the home of his parents. Mr Mrs. Howard Doucotfc. Harner Rd. Also Visitinct the Doucette homo is their son-In-law and flurrh'cr and famiIV. Mr. and Mrs. Don Harris. Montreal. Q! 3 Ga Irene Gavin. Toronto. Is soen— ding her holidays at the home I James Doucotte' Mr. and Mrs. Major Moase, North River. Mrs. Roy Dixon. East Baltic Is visiting her sister, Mrs. Ruby Gay. Halifax. N.S. Sgt. Clarence MacDonald with his wife and children Margo and Karl of Petawawa. Ont. are spending their holidays visiting with his mother. ‘ MacDonald. 'Ililg-nislh and his sis- ter. Mrs. Carlyle Trainor and his brother. Earl MacDonald. all of Tignish. Mrs. Murphy is visiting her parents. Mr. and Mrs. Steve Murphy. Alberton. Mr. and Mrs. Colin Dixon left on return to their home in Wa. terbury. Connecticut having- soent their holidays with their daughter and son-in-law. r. and Mrs. Alvin Rose. East Bal- tic. ‘ Mr. and Mrs. Freeman Mas- sey, Bothwell had as their guests Mr. and Mrs. Percy Reandon and Mrs. Florence Fields, Bos- n Nancy Martin of Toronto Is spending her summer holidays with her grandparents. Mr. and s. Aubin J. Doucette. Tignish. Mr. and Mrs. Earl MacLaren Kitchener. 0nt.. spent a few days with Mr. and Mrs. Free- man Massey. Bothwell. Visiting at the home. of Mrs. Wlll ing Prayer before tlhe andtthe Lord’s Trinity United Church. Sunk merslde. was the scene of an afternoon wedding Satur d a y. July 1-1. when Marjorie Joy, only daughter 11 Mr. and Mrs. John Ireland and Peter Gray. Terrace. B.C., ehiest son of Mr. and Mrs. W. J. Gray. Tor- onto. Ont. were united In mar- riage by Rev. C. R. Webber, D D . The church was decorated with baskets of lacy yellow and white daisies and mum. guest pews were handled by ribbon bows and Indy Slippers. The soloist for the occasion was Rev. W. . Weale. Charlotte town who rendered the Wedd- cere- mony. - during the signing of the ter_ He was accompanied by Hester MacPhee at the organ. Mrs. MacPh e e was also in charge of the wedding music. The bride. given in marriage by her father,'was lovely in a full - length sheath - style gown of white embroid e r e d cotton. cut onrsimple lines with round 9 neck, e w - length sleeves. and a tiered detachable train. Her w ' - length scallop- ed nylon veil was held in place by a head dress of simulated white roses and forget - me nots. She carried a cascade bouquet of yellow roses, white shasta daisies. and trailingivy. The bride’s only attendant was Mrs. David Darby (Sue), of Charlottetown who acted as matron of honor. attired i street - length dress of horizon blue pe a u de soie with short sleeves a nd a' side train, She wore a pillbox head dress with a s h ort veil. and carried a ‘casoade of yellow alias daisies. Couple Wed In Summerside‘" Reside At Terrance, B.C. Thou-comma attended by 3 in. 1:. 11'. Butler, REAR. unmet-side u but nun. The where were. sergeant Robert Jachman. RCAF and Robert may. The bride's mother was at- tiredlnatwo-piecedreas of pink lace with matching straw hat. Her corsaae was of pink sweetheart roses and white carnation I. The two- piece suit of beige lace with matching petal hot. Her cor- wu yellow sweetheart fl roses. The reception was held at Birch Hill Lodge. The bride's table was centered with a three tier wedding cake topped with a floral arrangement of yellow sweetheart roses. The toast to the bride ' w a 3 proposed by am 3 a y. Telegrams from Nelson and Terrace, 3.0.. and Nova Scotia were read by the best man. The book was in charge of Mary Woodside. For the honeymoon trip the bride wore a two - piece suit of light beige sculptured cotton withahat of beige and Carl— bbean blue petals. and a cor- ~ blue (centered oat M a. R lions. Mr. and Mrs. Gray route to Terrace. B.C.. where the groom is in business. and the bride will be a member of the teaching staff. are en CaIbeck; president, Mrs. Louis Vessey; McNeill; Mrs ._ George J ardine; mg secretary. Mrs. Jardine; treasurer, Mild re 0 allbeck; day Schools:_Mrs. Frank Deac- on: Scientific We. Doulse Callbeck; fisheries and lighthouses. Mrs. Fred Shaw: Tidch ray. A nice manned cooperation and help timing the 1' year. An address was given by Rev. Ross Howard. who was intro- duced by Mrs. Dotqu Younk er. Mrs. Hardy moved a vote of thanks to the speaker. The winners of the oratorlcal contest were: 1. Blair Macca- lum; 2. Gary Linddetter. ..The memorial service was conducted by Mrs. Bishop Read. The . nominating committee chosen was Louise Callbeck, Mrs. Hugh Smith and‘Mrs. Fred Shaw. The following officers elected: president. Mrs. . 1 lat vloe-presid e n t. Mrs. Douglas Younker; 2nd vice were M 3rd vice- presldent. Mrs. Hubert recording rt d temperance In Sun- edittor. Mk3. Willard Mur- soclal hour followed th e ting. Out - of - town guests f o r the wedd i n g were Rev. and Mrs. W. O. Weale and Mr. and Mrs. Don Hubley, Charlotte- Joseph A. Richard. Tignish is her son-in-law and daughter, Sgt. and Mrs. Al Harris of Mon- treal and her son, Thomas Ri- chard of St. Catherines. Ont. Eugene Hennessey, Toronto. Ont. is spending his vacation with his parents. Mr. and Mrs. Pat Hennessey. St. Catherines. Mr. and Mrs. Michael Hatch, Bangor. Me. are visiting Mr. and Mrs. Lester McAlduff, Tig- nish and Mr. and Mrs. James Shea. Pleasant Vicw. Emery Bruce. Windsor. Ont... is visiting his parents. Mr. and Mrs. Ray Bruce. Red Point_ The 38th annual convention of the P.E.I. Women‘s Christian Temperance Union was held Wednesday. July 22 at Jewell Gardens. York. The president. Mrs. L.M. Callbeck. presided. The meeting opened with a devotional service led by Mrs. Albert Stetson. president of the Freetown Union. who was as- sisted by Mrs. Hubert McNeil]. Mrs. George Jardine and Mrs. Eldon Drummond. Elmer Perry of R.C.N. Hali- and Mrs. Joe Perry. Tignish. CGIT Camp Completed Tuesday. July let. senior girls from CGIT groups throughout the Island completed a seven day stay at Camp Abe- gwoit. Augustine Cove. The camp was directed by Mrs. Hazel Ross. Trenton. N.S. The leaders were Linda Ross. Trenton, N.S.; Edith MacPhail. Loch Broom. n ‘ Mayne. Emerald. 'l‘he swim- ming instructress was Wenda Crozier. Kensington. Mrs. Viola Black ctt and her son David were the cooks. During the previous week 60 intermediate girls enjoyed a week's camping at this popular JEAN HAGEN WEDDING Mr, an Mrs. Edwin Hagen. North Wiltshirc. an- nounce the engagement of their daughter, Joan Cather- ine to Ronald Joseph Bolger BA. son of Mr. and Mrs. Aus— RONALD shoal: P LA N N E D tin Bolger of Hope River. The marriage will take place on Saturday. August 22. 1964 at St. A n n ' 5 Church, Lot 65 P.E.l. _ Ross: sitc,‘ This camp was also direc- ted by Mrs. Ross with Mrs. Adelaide Wood. Mrs. Priscilla Myers, Linda Ross, ' ' Baynt‘er and Linda 5 as leaders, Mary Wbodside as nurse and Wanda szier _as swimming lnstzmob'ess The pro- ora-m at both camps consisted of I. B'ble study. crafts. interes groups. swimming and recrea- tion. ' ' Barbara MacNevin. Charlot- tetown was elected chief senior camper and Debby McLean. Woodstock, N.B.. chief inter- mediate camper. C ro s 5 swimming tests were given at both camp: by Andrea Duvar. Those who passed swimming tests at the senior cam-p were: beginners. Beverley - Smallman. Norma Smallman and J o a n Mayne; intermediates. Nora Proud and Brenda Currie; ele- mentary life saving; Shelley bronze medallion: Deb- bie Webster. Passing tests at the interme- fax is visiting his parents. Mr. A ne A Porter and Debbie Rip- ley; juniors. Joyce MacLeod Joan Waddell and Silvia Cou- sins: intermediate life saving, Shirlee Tweedy; seniors. lene Myers. Janet Dianne Moore. anda Debra MacLean and Suzanne MacLean. Both camps were sponsored by the P.E.l.. IT commit- tee of which Mrs. Robert Car- & ruthers is president. Gray, Toronto, Ont. A US. Navy jet fighter plane crashed ' killing its pilot and two wome wh third burned. A navy spokesman a the single-seat plane. a F-IE Fury jet. was making Its final Temperance Union Has ,8...“ Its Annual Convention crashed into the house about a mile from the end of the runs W3 JET mm HOUSE MARIETTA. Ga. (AP) — into a house Saturday. 11 0 were Inside the house. A o m a n was seriously approach when it y. Mrs. Parker Jewell welcomed the delegates and guests. Her address was responded to b Mrs. Hugh Smith of Summer- 'de. U! a.- Mrs. L.M. Callbeck was ap- pointed representative for the National Convention at Niagara Falls to be held in September. Tidings editor, Mrs. Willard Murray, reported and asked the unions to send in any news items of their meetings. Mrs. Edison Wright read the report of the _work accomplish- enmns. Louise Callbeck reported on RIGHT WIIIGIIT B e I! SHOES PURITY DAIRY “Parents Prefer Purity Products” 317 Kent Dis! 4-7125 Youth Temperance Week April 19th.. The report on scrap books was given by Mrs. Eldon Drum- mond. Nine books were receiv- ed: Senior. 1. Donald Muslim; 2. Velda Leard; 3. Elaine Rob- inson; ntiemmedia e: 1. Joy Howatt; 2. David Leslie Waugh; 3. Mary Isa MacDmraald: Jun~ AAAAAAA. vvvvvvvvvvv ll. BENNETT CARR Insurance Counselling District Supervisor Sun Life of Canada Phone 4-8817 - 4-5435 Charlottetown. P.E.L AAAAAAALAAA SOciaI Items Are Requested I This Is a wonderfull Theo! ye.“ J Social are receptions for visiting convention delta: es. showers. luncbeons and cut. ee parties for brides . to - be friends and relatives vacation: lng here, the prospect of your own vacation to some point out. jsidebae province, and those en. oya summer t- to with friends. “ semen Share your social news ' readers in the women’s 1:1": in; Charlottetown. Gail Magee at 6-9331 or 6,5063 (evenings) in Summersidc, or re news bureau of The Guard» in and Patriot at Montague and Alberton. There is no charge for publi- cation of such i and staff will be very happy to 112:; from you. GRANITE 4 MARBLE * BRONZE Cf VERE BECK 6: SON LTD. Montague and Charlottetown Skilled Memorial Craftsmen Since 1870 . diate c a m p were: beginners. ‘duct of the damn goes out In ac- ‘tuaI trade . . . times will speak not without a certain nostalgia of those ELLEN’S DIARY - And Haying When the wind Is not pleased to smile brightly, and for the haying. the wind sulks up the creek. how do our farmers pass th at Interval of waiting which sooner or later sets the machinery in once. more? Not lndolently of course. None of these long summer days are allowed to “slip Idly though skies may he - cloud. and s h owers wash our world about. always some work of the farm comes to hand. In the suspension of fieldwork. flt various pieces of log together to pass in a satisfyim pattern. skies smile again. Such a day was this: one of no fieldwork. True. if we. as once were growing that Island cult crop that Is potatoes. c r- the hours untII have «lava- tivwlm or apt-am. because W the out w m vi the come by. ad of h At Alderlea. we saw the far- mers check the machines to have them in readiness for ill away." No matter the weather. Ibe Rain Washes The Fields Is Delayed when skies should clear favor- bl card James make repairs to a sly in the piggery. ml the younger tanner and Mack. from the house across the Ian e. at like work in the barns, They appear: those bro- ken panes. to be now replaced; the hinges that hang awry, the door o fasteners that need to re-set. There are too. on a day like this which was neither fair nor yet "foul". but merely indifferent as to haying - weather. the outgoings and In- coming: ample exclaims over, which attend to the bust- nea of the place It be . m that an annual goes to market fat one 'of the pastor-lug herd. or a choice lamb ottho flock. And in return. mill~fecd. or some other of He countless need; of the farm ls brought In. Sometimes a necesnry ex- cursion may bring In as little as the yeast the housewives re- quire for their breads. in which instance as in all our require- ments of groceries now. no pro- days when through the warm- er seasons. eggs from the farm. "boulm ." the c r o c k s. and flrklns. and prints of dairy butter. carried in the back of the buggy or ex- press ampere. emit? - ted no small share toward the expenses of the farm. Others will recall too those days. not all it may he with a longing. And yet to look back Is to see how altogether challenging and good those times were. possl becaue In the main our hearts were young. ' Then. on such a day as this. suddenly we are aware that the little truck Ia mIssIng from the yard at s prevails about. We spy It afar In a field. or following that Inc which leads away to a range of pu- ture. And we smIle. The farm era. with Mack and maybe the elite no. In M. me off on a happy outing "to “We've clean forgotten to Its- ten In to the weather tonight!" Whether or not we shall be fav- whh hayt comeabnndnewdayln the morning! ' Until tomorrow - Diary — Good - plant"... ' sparks your sal ..__~ :zo-‘ll-i' - I rinkI ads with such fIavorZihg, . . . comes in apretiy table decan er, too l'il‘ll‘l llB N EW .nafl.‘ .— O"::00 on» scant-Ho nan fits-a», min Efiffiiifi'i‘ilfiiifis- trust. -535 § 22’: E: 5’24 I: