A very impressive ceremony took place recently at Govern- ment House. Mrs. T. W. L. Prowse, wife of the Lieutenant Governor of Prince Edward Is- land was presented with a Life Membership in the National Chapter of the Imperial Order Daughters of the Empire. Mrs. Pnowse was awarded the mem- bership by the four primary chap- ters in recognition of her out- I ELLEN’S DIARY Care Of All ‘ Exemplifiecl At Alderlea on a night like this, when a wind blows wildly in the treetops and blusters gustily a- bout the eaves, it is good to come abroad to the barns with James, and follow as he settles away his last chores. These are of course, shared with the younger farmer and it is always interesting for us to see how perfectly the two work together ‘to completethe set pattern. The stables are never cozier than when high. winds blow, warmed as they are by breaths and bodies of the animals, so comfortably sheltered w i t h in. And reflectingon this, we could heartily agree with James when, shaking another flake of straw on the youngest’s calf’s bed, he offered “I often think Ellen that if a traveller were to be bewilder- ed in a snowstorm, a stable would be a right good shelter to come to” - Outside the wind blew, not one seasonally edged with frost, nev- ertheless of Fall cool and gusty, making the indoors seem an oas- is of. safety and content. , There is a saying that a far- mer’s goodness, indeed his reli- gion we have heard an old Minis- ter say, is reflected favorably or otherwise but most obviously in the appearance and attitude of his cats. A pair of ours, silken coated, black as ebon except for the‘ white of their vests emerged softly from the shadows of the group and pressed against James’ overalled legs for. a word of at- tention, during a moment’s halt there. , ' YORK POINT W.I. The ‘regular monthly meeting of the York Point W.I. met at the home of Mrs. Stanley Mur- chison on January 7th. with ele- ven members present. The meeting opened by singing My Bonnie, followed by the creed in unison. Roll call was answered with 11 membership fees paid. The minutes of the last meeting were read, approved and signed. Reports were heard from differ- ent committees. , ‘Correspondence was read which included a letter from the annual meeting at Cornwall Hall, Thank You note from a bereaved fam- dly in the district, also several Verbal thanks from Shut-ins for Christmas gifts. . After a discussion they decided to hold a card party in York Point School. All members were asked to bring lunch. Mrs. Gauthier and Mrs. John MacEachern were appointed to get Prizes for same. It was mov- ed by Mrs. Reta MacPhail. Sec- onded by Mrs. Fulton Sanderson on that we pay annual fee for the Musical Festival Associaton. ! *. ....o MISS JOAN WILSON ENGAGEMENT i standing work in the Order. Standard bearers of the four .chapters, Mrs. G. R. Greenough, Royal Edward, Mrs. W. A. Cur- rie, Abegweit, Mrs. E. M. Phil- kips, Earl of Hillsboro, Mrs. A. E. Lehnen, L. M. Montgomery presented the standards before the ceremony, while Miss Lena McLure played Elgar’s Land of Hope and Glory. ' Left to right: are the following Animals Is At Alderlea “You haven’t seen the summer he said preceding us down steps and along a corridor to their stall, where in a company they were cleaning up their supper of hay. “Why, they’re done well!” we said. — , , “Not bad, are they" he smil- ed. “These are only cross-breds, but they're fair-good in shape, and growthy I’d say. When they get a spell on the grass” he nod- ded, thinking ahead to the June- time. We like to follow him to that last rite of his round, which takes him to open, one after ano- ther the shutters in front of the horses and drop handfuls of grain to the mangers. Not hurriedly but taking time to smooth a fore- lock, or pet a velvet muzzle and chat with each one in turn. And tonight, names ‘of remembered horses came back to‘ our lips -- Old Cleveland. . . the old-mare- of-all . . the young mare, a come- ly animal we lost, of whom all, like the years flown, have now vanished into the past. We came then from a world of animals, none anywhere we may say better tended, to the quiet house that is ours. Back to the old clock’s tick and the scent of maple sticks’ burning, to the peace and serenity of, a work- day’s close. . When a wind blows wildly in the treetops and blusters gustily about the eaves it is good to come abroad to the barns with James and follow as he settles away his last chores. Until tomorrow —— — Diary - Goodnight. . . . Mrs. John MacKinley read a paper on retarded children and Mrs. Fulton Sander-son gave a very interesting reading on Rob- ert Burns. Mrs. Gordon MacEwen kindly invited the members to meet with her for February meet- ing. Roll call to be answered with an article for a grab bag, not over 40 cents. Lunch committee Mrs. Aubrey MacPhail, Mrs. Reg- bie MacEwen, Mrs. A. C. Mac- Eachern. Program Committee Mrs. A. C. MacEachern and Mrs.\ John MacEachern. Collection for evening 70 cents. Mrs. ,John Sanderson put on a contest which was won by Mrs. Gordon McEwen. Meeting closed with the Queen. Lunch was ser- ved by committee in charge. HOUSEHOLD. HINT To make‘ durable cushions you can buy pre-fabricated vinylfoam sections and cover them yourself. Cereal can be used as well as crackers to stretch meat. MR. MARSHALL SWINIMAR. ANNOUNCED Mr. and Mrs. Augustus Wilson, son of Mr. and Mrs. Arthur Swim- ,harlottetown, P.E. Island, wish to announce the engagement of their only daughter Joan Eliza- heth. to Marshall Anon Swinimar. mar, Western Shore, N.S. Marriage to take place Febru- -‘ ary 8, 1953. 5 pm. at Zion Pres- ‘byterlall Church, Charlottetown, P..I‘..I. 1. HIEBERSHIPE |ladies: Mrs. A. L. Roop, Regent Earl of Hillsboro Chapter, Mrs. W. E. Smallman, Vice Regent A- begweit Chapter, Mrs. T. W. L. Prowse, Mrs. C. H. B. Longworth. Member of the Royal Edward Chapter, Miss Margaret Riley, Nastional Councillor for Prince Ed ward Island, and Mrs. B. Earle MacDonald, Regent of the Royal Edward ‘Chapter. MT. STEWART W21. I The January meeting of the Mt. Stewart Women’s Institute was held at the home of Mrs. Ernest Affleck on January 7th. The pre- sident Mrs. Roy Lcard chaired the meetings. The meeting open- Stewart collect. The roll call was Presiding at the urns were Mrs. W. M. Brehaut and Mrs. W. E. Smallman, Assisting in the tearoom were Mrs. B. Earle MacDonald, Mrs. W. E. Massey, Mrs. Arnett How- att, Mrs. W. A. Currie, Mrs. A. L. Roop, Mrs. Frank Johnston, Mrs. W.‘W. Reid, Mrs. Edward ,Miller, Mrs. Ian Rankin,-and iMiss Margaret Riley. cess in 1958. The report of the school com- mittee was given by Mrs. James Lena Caroline McLure. Women’: Editor. Phone 85U Page 8 The Guardian Thurs., J an, 23, 1958 cloudy memory in middle age.f Davis-—Let‘s Eat Right to Keep Fit. You mentioned this nutrition expert had said (in the book) that insufficient iron in the diet may be a contributing factor. Please let me know Where the public can get this book. - F. Y. Dear'F. Y.: This book was published in 1954 by Harcourt. Prace and Company of ‘New York City; and may be special-ordered through local bookstores, if they don't have it on hand. Or get the publisher’s address from your local library and write to the Service Department of the pub- lishing house, to ask the price of 3! cent column discussing a woman’s ' Dimes you referred to a book by Adellel campaign. Three past members re-1011195 the W1‘ Minutes Of the were read, approved and signed. .- t was the Chustmas Concel‘ gig? passed in. C01‘1‘€5P0nden°e was read, including “Thank YOU cels. some Red Cross Work handed in. The programme Cf‘: sisted of tWo_ contests conduc ed by Mrs. Phllllp Maclnnis an Mrs. Harry Blrt. Which were 1“/’IV°“ by Mrs. Chas. Marshall and. 1's- Samuel Wooldridge. 1‘95Pe°t1V°ly° last meeting ; A donation from the proceedsf news from the matrons of both, orphanages for Christmas Dal‘-. was l Heals Rift Dear Mary Haworth: Recently my husband bought a business and never mentioned any thought ;of doing so until it was all over. I was, and am, deeply hurt by this, as we always have been so close. We discussed everything. I”ll grant you that if he had mentioned it to me, I feel sure that my response would have been to leave it all to his better judgment. But he says now that he “didn’t feel that his business was my business.” Affleck. The report of the sick committee on the north side wa‘ given by Mrs. Robert Pigott am’. on the south side by Mrs. Merton J ardine. New committees I am not a child in years; but am I being childish in this mat- :er? I am not angry, just plainl hurt. Both of us read your column‘ ldaily and have found them very interesting and helpful . . . , the book plus mailing costs. Then 1“ send a D0Sl'.€fflCedIlil10l'ley t(1)11;dt=g‘0(ill; that amoun , an ave ~- . 'ldt .-M. H. Dru ES Dame Flora MacLeod, who is‘Vocat1onal School. _ male ° you . . Factpory arriving Monday on. Prince Ed-l£be'fh€vI:%’1:‘s1:)eI11: ‘glgsgieenlxhssf 3%; COVEHEAD RD- W-L Tailored Ward Island’ 15 havmg t° leave'Prince‘ Edward Island Teachers’ h C h d Rd WI held Q Made to the province a day earlier than Federation Miss Matheson Wm T_ e We ea '_ ' ‘t th . Measure planned. Consequently there has discuss the purpose and organiz- then‘ January meetmg ,8 e Super Kem- _been a change in lans here. It ation of the Canadian conference home ‘of Mrs. Harold MacDonald « Tone and fl1sW:I‘l:lr xivflcomel alidleniuch willarepresent the P.E.I..T.F. - . vliifigringggiegn ripened by singing Paints fine hospitality awaiting her. Mr. Des Burge left by plane ;;ta’;§.nt:d,Go%d)11TiI;'11tl:'vtggifisw-z‘; F‘. A. S. Jonesg The regular meeting of the Tuesday for London, Ontario, ed with a “New YeaI"S R€S011|' 19.9 Kent M. Dial 3188 Charlottetown University Wom-‘where he will be associatedwith tion” and a dime for “March of __ en’s Club will be held on Thu§ls- llzlhe Mrs, Burge will join day, January 23, at 8 p.m., in e. im a er. MARY HAWORTH iiiléfiiabfféiv li“‘R§f1§f3§‘gth%°‘i§ BROKEN PEKOE —- a normal outgoing wifely reaction A 'G¢°d Sense to a beloved husband’s sudden . u u up 0 o o 0 switch from sharing behavior to a lone wolf brand of thinking. I see no justification for kick- ing yourself about your dismay. What the situation calls for is understanding—(1) of the inner meaning of your husband’s de- fiant standoffishness; and (2) of the reasons why you feel emo- tionally bereft, or hurt, as you say. . If you can grasp the fact that your husband is presently afraid of business failure, and con- sequent loss of standing with you; and that you are afraid of losing him — of becoming the forgotten woman in his routine—you will begin to come out of the woods rin this matter, I think. You can stop feeling hurt, and start using l your good common sense, to grad- ually heal the rift in comrade- ship. - M. H. calves lately,’ have you, Ellen?” l ' rolled. ap- ed by singing the Institute Ode followed by repeating the Mary ‘answered by each member bring- ing a pencil. Five members en- pointed were: School committee, Mrs. Leslie Douglas and Mrs Roland Jay: North side sick com mittee, Mrs. Bruce Affleckan The minu-tes of the last meet- ing were read, approved and signed. A letter was read from J. Lincoln Dewar concerning the March of Dimes.” It was moved by Mrs. Ernest Affleck and sec- onded by Mrs. Bruce Affleck to canvass the district in"ald of the “March of Dimes." Marion -Aff- leck volunteered to collect on the north side and Winnifred Peters on the south side. A very interesting letter was from Mrs. Charles MacAulay, who is now living in Prince Geo- rge, B.C. While she lived in Mt. Stewart she was one of the most valued members. And though she is far awa, she has many happy memories of the a.en.in-gs -together. The report of the Red Cross- convener Mrs.’ M. MacKay was then given. There is considerable sewing and knitting on hand which the ladies are asked to pick up as soon as possible. A letter was read from Winni- fred Peters, of the Senior De- partment in Mt. Stewart School, thanking the members for the Christmas treat. A letter was read from Mrs. Margaret Affleck wishing the Institute every suc- the south side Mrs. Merton Jar- dine and Mrs. Arthur MacLauch- lon. A contest was put on by Mrs. Ernest Affleck was won by Mrs. Bruce Affleck. The handicra’ Van will be in Mt. Stewart for _en days beginning January 20., offering courses to all ladies interested. The meeting closed by singing “Auld Lang ,Syne.’’ WEE ekesniveks A’ small plastic or rubberized has melted in your suitcase pocket can be u life-saver if you must move on befére a recently laundered item is . thoroughly dry. It will also late a i, we! washcloth safely. . Mrs. Emmet McKenna and onlAFRAID OF FEARS I hope you can find time to give me some needed advice. be- lieve me it will be,heeded, even if you tell me to kick myself. Sincerely. - G. S. WHERE TO BUY BOOK Dear Mary’ Haworth: In a re- 1 Dear G. S.: Evidently your husband was secretly so ‘unsure of the soundness of this venture that he didn’t dare risk any dis- couraging comment from you. P t he wanted to try it, so he took the plunge and informed you aft- ,erwards. ‘ I Now he still refuses to discuss ‘_it, mainly because of the anxious !conflicts in his own mind. He wants to sit on his fears and ignore them —— and not let them out in the open, where they might scare him. That is why he says that he “doesn't feel that his business is your business." In a mixed-up way, he is trying to shield both himself and you from rampant worry and de- tailed anxiety. As for your special distress, it is linked with a fear-feeling that he is moving out into new areas of life, and leaving‘you behind,_ stranded as it were, with a sense: that you are of no further use to‘ him, and of no interest to him, in this adventurous new chapter of his experience. You say you laren’t angry, but hurt—meaning shocked and desolate. as if ab- ruptly rejected. WIFE’S AFRAID T00 . . THE FINEST MEATS . THE BEST‘ SERVICE . 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