Dorothy Dix Says:- '»~.1)\'\r~ _> “Husband's Night on Wile Shouldn't Let ller Family liiileet To" Nate's innocent Weekly Frolic . DEAR. DOtRDTl-IY DIX: I have been married for ten years to a. good, kind man. He is a wonderful. husband and father and I love him dearly- m” m“ 15 my problem: lie likes to play cards and one night a week he indulges in this pleasure with some of his men friends, playing for very small stakes, but here is the rub: My family is about to drive me crazy by constantly warning me that in time my husband will want to play for big money and that he . will become a confirmed gambler, and that I should put a. stop to it right now. He has never dictated to me about what I should do and I hate to make lily Oblections to anything he wants to do. What ls your opinion? IQ}. ANSWER: There isn't a particle of harm in your husband having a little game of cards with his friends once a week. and there isn't the slightest _ danger of it leading to anything except an evening's innocent. diversion. You should speed him on his Cay instead of raising ructions about it, as your family want you to do. There is no quicker or surer way of alienating a husband's 5,1. “w”! Khan by being a spoilsport and standing in the way of every- thing he wants to do. For no man marries to get a jailer. nor does he marry to set somebody to supervise his morals and tell him what be may do and may not do. And particularly, he doesn't get married to have his wife's people censor him. _MAN NEEDS Tlltll OF!‘ What a man wants to do he ls going to dc, that is, if you mar- ried a and not a mouse. He will do it openly and above board if you let im, but he will lie to you and do it behind your back if you force him to, for the sake of peace. 5o the sensible thing is to do cs you have done and acquiesce cordially in your husband's desire to ave an evening off every week with his men friends. Tell your family that you and your husband feel perfectly com- petent to run your own affairs and that they must keep their fingers but of your pie. Q DEAR DOROTHY mx; I_ am a girl of l8. My mother and father will not allow me to go out with boys or girls. They say that when am older the right man will come looking for me. But I don't be- eve it. I feel that I have to do some of the looking myself. Don't you think I am right? ; DISGUSIEID. ANSWER: I certainly do. ‘rheee are the days of the go-getter, ‘i! mBi-Pimofly I! Well B8 Business. and those who sit at home and suck their thumbs while they wait for fairy princes to come snooping around and find them have a mighty poor chance of ever being discovered. LET MEN CHASE Of course, a girl shouldn't rim after men. That is bad policy, be- aause men like to think they are the hunters instead of the hunted. But, all the same, the girl who wants to have a good time and plenty of dates has tc keep herself in evidence. Men don't go out of their way nowadays to seek the shrinking violet. Therefore, I think your parents are making a mistake in trying to segregate you from the crowd. They should let you go with other girls and boys and have all the innocent pleasure to which you are Qntltled to at l8. DEAR. MISS DIX: Why is it. considered ridiculous for men and women past middle age tc want to marry’! Having spent the greater part of their lives in their own homes in married contentment, why should they not again seek companionship and the shelter qr a 119mg? It is awful to be lonely. v -A_ WIDOWIB. vAhSWER; No sensible person thinks it ridiculous for an elderly widow or widower to remarry. On the contrary, every intelligent in. dividual must consider it the wisest thing they can do. provided they pick out suitable mates. It is only when an old man marries a gold- digglng youn! girl, or an old woman marries a boy young enough to be her grandson that they make themselves objects of derision. ww- “RM peat the dose. Q. How can fmake a fertilizer for plants? - A. A little ammonia added to the water affords a rich fertilizer for the plants, and also aids in preventing bugs. Q. l-low can I make a good prune salad? , A. Stuffed prunes ma a, dQug- ious salad when stewed, en chill- ed and seeded. Stuff with cream _<Z\-%\Ch<|"a€a (‘awn-ovaw‘ How Can I!!! ‘ Q. How can I get relief from Iilccougho? / A. They can lf-Stlmlly be stoppgd "Ty ffil-ifiiiiy by taking s teaspoon- Iul of granulated sugarand vine- if 0i; Yours IlIII-Iltlelzll GETTING READY 1'0], my FIVE! - 9591M the “quick” cures . tlsed ‘for hay fever, for the “Q3. malority of sufferers the jnjggflun M the pollen o! Nflweed is the best method of Preventing attacks or rc-‘ dllclng the severity o1 gympwyng Th0 ifllwtion of ragweed pollen is given over a number or weeks De- fore tihe onset of the hey fever m. son, about 8 to 10 weeks. About 15 to 20 injections 31g givw, about two each week. the last couple or m" “m8 u"! llrgest. Once the hay fever ‘season arrives, mull 4°“! my be given every two weeks. in "General Practice Clinics," Dr. Giles A. Koelsche, ‘Mayo c, states that the above method o; treatment gives 75 to 80 per cent relief to 80 per cent of sufferers (about one-quarter completely rc- lieved). ‘ This desensitizing method by ll‘.- lection of anall doses of the pollen causing hay fever should be given, once it is known that hay fever is the cause of the symptoms, Th1; method should not be in children under six year; o1 _ In those cases where injections of pollen do not give relief, phyala. ians now try the new drug; hey-mg- ryl and peribenzamine. . “Seventy-five per cent of the pat- ients with seasonal hay fever who have ben treated with beaiadryl at “it Mayo clinic during the past two years have reported that they hive received 50 to 100 per cent relief from their symptctns. The dosage used is 50 milligrams two or three times a day. As srme undesirable reactions - extreme iiowsinesi, nervousness, inward feeling of trembling - occur in some cases, half the regular dose can often be used without the unpleasant re- actions." The other new drug to relieve hay fever symptcms, perihenzamine was used at the clinic the past year and the relief of symptoms was shown to be as great or greater than that obtained by benedryi. Hay fever sufferers, then. should first try to be desentized by the iiuections of pollen beginning sev- eral weeks ahead of the hay fever season. If not cured. then the great majority can be temporarily re- lieved of symptoms by the drugs- benadryl. peribenzsmlne and Ill- renallr. DUES INDIGESTIDN WALLDP YOU BELOW TliE BELT? us; y" r "as" r» The sue: IeheIThaH-I pe MaleYeu RsrifToGe More than half ef-your digestion ls done he a “Mr-e...“ n mica-ans an Whatyou used a Carter’ ute- Uvr ..,....“.'.:Z... an, to m’; "ramm- Blast of Tnlre one Carter's Little Liver Pill befon - a...‘li'..‘.2"-‘ri?;°i."i Ttkdm“ larger “' .. e p e up a ow oft-h 3 ' d uisee m; ttfitii-fifm - RWJT J1 eaten in Nature's . makes you .-~ j cuanmkiy. CHAl§L_0_'I"l_'_Efi'O EFSO" . . illi n ll '11- 1110i‘, photogrB-Dhiid ieavinr tilt Chiltitt; gfxdthyriiolvirv uiiiilrliiityfTorcnzo. Ont, following their marriage on May 8th The bride is a daughter of Mrs. Nettelfield and the late -» B» am a ‘assay cat-ex: l-loll Trainer, formerly of Charlottetown. 110W B - ' V Household l Scrapbook 5y Roberts Der Prevent Sm caring Oftcntimes the ink-written ad- dress on a. mailed package will be- come smeared if the package should come into contact with Water or snow. This can be poe- vented if you rub over the address several tfmes with the stump of a white candle. Spilled Wine Should wine be spilled on your best white linen tablecloth, cover the spot immediately with some salt, and then proceed with your meal. Q. How does one mrrectiy use a dryer-bowl? A. Dip into the water the tips of the fingers, first of one hand, then of the other. Never place the fing- ers of both hands into the water simultaneously. The fingers are then dried with the napkin. , Q. How does a woman introduce her husband? A. To her friends as "John"; to iwquairrtances as "My husband." "Mr." is incorrect. Q- Does a woman precede or fol- low her escort down a receiving line at a wedding reception? A. She is received first. r English Set the Colors If iihe colors in one of your gar- ments aren't as fast as you'd like you can remedy this by adding a little acetic acid or ordinary vizie- gar to the wash wa/ter. Bette ~ was?“ W" The Stars Say-- By Genevieve Ilemblo D. 1. What is wrong with this sen- tence? “A crowd of yoiing people attended the v " g." 2. What is the correct pronunc- iation of “eclalr"? 3. Which one of these words is misspelled? Heightih, heinous, heli- trope. 4. Wihat does the word "phm- taaim" mean? ‘ 5. What is a word‘ beginning with fe that means “malicious; vil- lalnous"? For Thursday, June s A CIDNFLICTTNG and intriguing planetary set-up, while indicating a decisive gain and much progre" to be made by a clever strateg q may have unusual or urisuspect. factors of dramatic force which could crop up to baffle or disin- tegrate. This might be the sudden withdrawal of support from high places, possibly ‘caused by unsound, erratic or imprudent moves: Any impulsive steps, litigation, or wild emotional decisions, could cause heavy loss. ~ For the Birthday Those whose birthday it ls may ‘Bile? into a. year of dramatic prol cedures and experiences, ln their ANSWERS 1. Say, “A group of young Pie.” 2. Pronounce a-klar, first m in ate unstresed, second a as in care, accent last syllable. 3. Height. 4. An image formed by the mind. “They be but phantasms or appari- tlons." - Sir W. Raleigh. i5. Felon- Iar. 1f this does not give relief, re- cheese and nuts. toes. Just beaure you get fun Little Liver Pills your own determined effort- to recoup icus. past errors, blunderlng losses or even in hardest water. ' fi w/fiazw‘ ' IEISQIS "l" Yfllrll. PIIEFER "l. FDR IIISIIES . llll FIIE Fllllllii i VEL gives you Soft Water -Washing, Vii. penetrates, cuts grease, loosens dirt taster.- Vll. is milder to hands-by " test-than anyothei-leadirig product. ASHES implying: l 1 S . I ‘ “annual MWlN ‘i i.. ~O’_(_\ U V‘? 1 other imitations and disintegra- tioris. Such may be tabled with sound ideas, keep purpose. ‘bgacity and perseverance, seething to gain firm foundation by exceptional strategies, bright coups or Just haid work. Yet an abrupt rupture ivith those ln influential places who mr" not. se eye to eye, especially a; l- I originality, ingenuity or innova- tion, may in the long run prove de- vastating. Preparation or just such dilemma could save t e day and with dramatic and iLnamlc eul- mlnatlonf Dig deep, go slow, and "stlok to your guns" in crises. ' A child born on this day has ex. cellent staying power, with shrewd "if! Profound insight into quiasical situations. This- wlll spell p progress against odds. in the face of cal- Again today. and still holidaying. we have lived "the life of R-leily" so to speak. As in recent days. and from the point of view of an aver- age Island farmer's wife, we rose leisurely this morning tc a life of indolence and shall presently retire neither bored nor weary from v our day. I think now of the ease with which the necessary housework was accomplished. so dlfiferenl. from that at Alderlea. Here one lights the gas to have a cup of coffee or tea ready in the shortest time. One "plugs in" as a matter of course to prepare toast in a twink- ling and the electric redrigerator yields the most delectable of foods at any hour. Indeed only to open its door is to have pleasant anticl- pations. I I If I have snpriocd a vague leng- lng for s few smelly chips garner- ed from the vicinity of the chop- ping block and pictured water cold and sparkling from the pump with later a. pot of porridge bubbling, these are unworthy thoughts and as such quickly banished from mind. Butbooking is an impersonal activity here with never a kettle to sing one a happy tune and thus far I m. found no sleepy cat on a cushion in the kitchen! We could do very well at din- ner with a few mealy island pota- toes, the same as we at-home bring up from the cellars of our farm- houses, in pairs, in dozens or by the peck. Our host bought potatoes from a farmer today at 70 cents a peck. “What do we pay 101' cream?" the two echoed my ques- tion "whipping cream is ‘i2 cents a pin-t" and fresh eggs at the moment are about "70 cents. Butter is a deli- cacy at 90 cents -"We dent U59 it at all" one woman said "it's too expensive"-but if one chooses mar- garine two pounds may be h“ l" the same price. This latter is gen: erally used in restaurants. "Steak! a friend" whom we visited spoke respectfully "We don't buy W0 much of that-it's more than a dollar a pound"—roasi.ing pork a- bout 65 cents. O l Fruits and vegetables are abun- dant at a Drice, strawberries. im- ported from more southern states at 45-60 cents a box rand lettuce was interesting and likeflbit 8t 29 cents a head. To one from a farm. the people we meet here are ex- tremely food conscious and they speak wlstfully of the foods that at home we take for granted. Iii making a cake this mornlnB. which my iellow-voyageur mixed witha den, hand, when she asked: ‘Now what shall l do with the egg yolk that's left over?" and I remarked off-hand: "throw it in the garbage gun!“ Oui- hostess turned on me with; "oh, no, we don't, Ellen! iwould you do that with a half orange down on The Island? v This was the day we went to see "the Farmer's Daughter" now showing at one of the city thea- tres. “New you two will like this‘ friends said. It. is an interesting picture. not th t lt features farm- ing so much. b t because_ the set- tings were beautiful and also that Ethel Barrymore, a favorite alibi actress played a leading and es- ceedingly lovely role. We enloyed the ,, - ~i-a selections and singing that preceded the picture -a.nd l pect was repeated in turn -and a. trained dog act was ianiiliar é Morning Smile . ' m l1ii.°.‘i‘§i“i.'.2t‘€i‘.‘2.'.ii‘;ii“..“"“ °"“°" ‘re-mt... "°_..°°°" v _ mus/mummy a man ‘euiiaii into the iii-e- ‘ ~ VII. is safer, leaves fine washablcs spam/nip“, "Ailmwflvgng? n“! fTCVQhCP-‘bfllhtfls ' “WWI, gggqwgfin “,5, yflg h! (Mg-p. one of the. firemen looked up. "net's too bad." he tylweth teed. ‘but why tell ll? i Why not allFashions/Literattiré b l When the earth was finished and fashioned well, - There was never a musical note to tell ‘ How glad God was, save the voice of the rain And the sea and the wind on the lonely plain And the rivers among the hills. And so God made the marvellous birds For a choir of ioy transcending words, That the world might hear and comprehend How rhythm and harmony can mend The spirits hurts and ills. —From “The Chorlstcrs" —.Bliss Carmen. A summer salad that never fails to please is cottage cheese and dried fruits. Let your imagination guide‘ you in arranging the fruit. and cheese or make individual posy salads by placing the cottage cheese in the middle of each garnished salad plate and surrounding it with cooked dried apricots. Klppers make a good Sunday morning breakfast served with hashed browned potatoes and a hot bread; saute them in butter on top of the range or put them in the ‘noiler. ._ since ii. was the same one that Jamie had been so amused with at Fair time last Summer down on The Island. l Buttercups held up golden cups to catch the sunlight today and dandelions bloomed. though most of these have come to the hoary- headec‘. stage. Spireas blossomed in a wealth of creamy-white bios- soms and horse-chestnut trees as well. Folks bought and set out vegetable plants and flowers. A lawn bare yesterday fleunted siz- able red geranlums today. lawn trees. Arbor Vitae, which must be a pettecl cousin of the cedars, and yewa and spruces and hemlocka sheared to neat shapes and sisea and as base plantings - thoiilh li- Alderlea, James would not suffer thlsi-are set close to the dwellings to make even the most ordinary attractive. e a i I O But here again lsthls indolent life, we lead for the present in "what will you have for a night- lasso is all useable. T l1 e re is no waste. "It is sensible to BuriiNur Brian LivingcSlLéilsu zTHE WOMAN'S REALM _ a CABROTB AU GBATIN Ingredients: two cups cooked diced carrots; one tablespoon minc- ed onionkone-third cup grated cheese; one-quarter teaspoon pa- prika; cream sauce. Make a cream 7 sauce by using on and l-half cupi ~ milk; two tablespoons butter; two tablespoons flour. Cook until thlck__ re To this add the cheese, onion anew- paprika and finally the diced car- rots. Mix well, place in a buttered baking-dish. and cover with butter- 5:: ed crumbs. Bake in a moderate oven for I minutes. Serves four. UNTIDY GIRL! All UNPOPULAB Don't be the kind of girl when-l untidy habits cause her family des- pair or threaten to alienate a room- mse. . _ 1f you are given to such care- less habits as wrecking a bathroom cramming i clothes into bureau drawers or closing doors on ciosei disorder. start while you're youn|g ' to take yourself in hand. You'll dis- cover that tldler habits will make living in crowded quartcrs easier for you; more pleasant for people who must share them with you. One way to take yourself in hand is in begin restoring order in thl bathroom after you use it. Be lust » as careful to pick up after your- ~_ self, to hang up your clothes, tr - pull order out of any confusion that may exist in your closet oi bureau drawers. One criterion of this new disci-v’ pllne is how tidy are the contents of the dressing table drawers that'- you use every day’! You can pass the neatness test by first lining the drawers with fresh paper, then by keeping cosmetic Jars in regi- rnented rows. While you're at thii business, herd your cosmetic gad- ‘gets into neat little boxes. a Keep facial tissues in a neat stack; pow- der puffa in their own wardrobe OISE. girl in her practice of tldler hab- its are powder puff wardrobe! ,_ which provide a supply of cuffs . in comparimentcd plastic cases. As _ puffs are used up. - these see- thrcugh plastic cases can be put intc use as neat containers for stockings, handkerchiefs or ribbons. a —--—-—-————-—. . coffee to be served after dinner in small cups should be stroller! . . than the usual breakfast sirens"- Bugar should cap. Ellen?" Until tomorrow- Diary — Good- and cream may I110 b! PH!“ u ma)‘; desired. No. did-Basque Bodlceg-Bsth- img suit with a f cuff and waist- line bow of ng waffle Willi!- lt has a circular dancer's skirt fur new found freedom. Slat 15 (M). I yards 35-inch. 96 yard contrast. n-iea 20 cents. Sizes, 14, 16. 1A. a0. Send 20o for each Pattern. which includes complete sewing r- Pri your Name. Address and Btye Number plainly. Be lure to state also you want. Iiiohide postal unit or eene ninber in your ad- dress. - Address htcern bowl-ll!"- The Charlottetown Guardian. ‘ Pattern No. 4232.. VII. keeps lny"New look" leelilnl New! ‘i mg‘: mrzh m‘ “'4' ..,............. ........ ° i mmh was-mg: e I" . G ‘q “frilly eons and ellpqpaadee and ‘brafweslsed . m" II" . llW-‘IM "i" C‘ la em and lukewarm waeenseey fresh-looking, P "fli- fliii llid 1011M 1101*" . a be d their shape without shrinking." ~ ‘ —--.- d) Colours my briglli up to eaa times as long. IUIPIIII.‘ I t- - .- o was" w" r" savsiuuvliinuawoian sac Plebege at? W“ . , _ u . b tfim nggtrsfcim "a bf. v ""»""‘*‘»#i,.,._i‘:.-."""*. i 2‘ flfiffll“ ‘Ilile . 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