302mm Anne Bond: Women’s Editor. Phone 4-8508 The Guardian, Chariotteto HAPPE wn, Tues. Nov. 20, 1962. 7. NINGS Miss Edna Power returned to Saint John. Monday after visit- ing he pare ts, Nicholas Power. the latter now a patient in the Charlottetown Hos- pital. Miss Power recently was in Chicago where she attended the International Interscience Conference on antimicrobal agents and Chemotherapy. Miss M y r n a Pitcairn. RN. East Royalty, left by plane Monday for Montreal to attend the conference of o p e r a ting room nurses being held at the University of Montreal. Mrs. Lester Mellish, North River Road. Charlottetown, is a present visiting her son, r. H a r old Mellish. Petitcodiac, N .B The wedding of Charles Mac- Eachern. Banff. Alta., youngest son of Mrs. Gordon MacEach- ern. New Argyle. P.E.I., and Patricia Pollard. Burnsley Lana cashlre. Eng., took place re- cently at Belfast Presbyterian Church. Rev. Donald Nicholson officiated. Mrs. ohn Haslam was matron of honor and Ray Kearney, Banff, was best man. Telegrams of best w l s h e s were read from the bride's par- ents and friends in England. Following a reception at th e Queen Hotel Mr. and Mrs. Mac- Eachern spent their honeymoon touring the Maritimes. T h e y have taken up residence in New Argyle. Miss Jean Sommerville. Unit- ed Church missionary to Trini- dad. delighted her aildience on Wednesday evening at an open meeting at Kensington United Church Assembly Hall. led the worship service and introduced I speaker related recollections of time spent in China and Hong ong, and of the work now be- ing carried out in Trinidad. She challenged the need for Chris- tian education workers and for encouragement for the people of Trinidad in their role of a new nation. Also of interest was her graphic description of con- ditions in the country and its 90 e. . The CGIT and Tuxis groups attended in a body. Roger Kennedy. Kensington. is making a good recovery after undergoing surgery at the PE. Island Hospital Charlottetown, on Monday. Elmer Paynter. Kensington. was taken to the Prince County Hospital, Summerside. on Fri- day by ambulance, after becom- ing suddenly ill while at work. Mr. Paynter is employed with the firm of W.S. MacLean, Ken- sington. A large number of friends and neighbors gathered recently at the new home of Mr. and Mrs. Elton Woodside, Clinton. assembled, Louis O‘Connor as chairman, explained the purpose of the ga- thering, and called upon James S 'th who read the address, while a purse was presented by Wilfred Pickering on behalf the friends and neighbors. . oodside, on behalf of his family and himself. thanked all for the gift, and extended an invitation to all to visit them at any time. All joined in singing. “For they are jolly good Fellows". The remainder of the evening was spent in social c at Re- freshments were served by the Miss Sommerville. The guest ladies. _ELI.EN’S DIARY White Flurry In The Valley Is A Foretoste And the piglets last night gave us were cuddled in closely to the mother in the strawy bed this morning. to rouse. and urse. and intermittently. and thrive throughout this day. “Close the door after you, Ellen. to keep the place warm — Quiet now!" James whisper- ed when we came to look at them there in the sty. Cool the morning was. And the after- noon? “See!” Alex at a window ex- claimed, 'ing then at the sight. “It’s snowing!" In a foretaste of winter, a white flurry moved in along the valley. And back of it, the spru- ces and firs wore the d ark green of the wintry shade. Snow! And we pictured the un- reaped harvest-fields here and there Island — over, the rows of stocks unthreshed, the pota- toes not yet safe from t frosts, and the turnips unstored. “We must" we sai to James, "get those other storm-windows down from the closet. and finish up those chores about that will make us ready for winter!” im w , we remembered with some nostalgia. when one of the chores, in farm-homes we knew. at this season. was to move the cooking-stove from I ‘50- I am 35. I have known him t he should take action now, if he Off Girl’s Bri Dear Mary Haworth: Jack is for nearly a year. He is the only manl have ever really loved and I would like to marry him soon. There lies the problem. He, an only child. admits his mother has always tried to over- protect him. The father died when he was in college. In 1942, when going to w a r. Jack couldn't bear to leave his mother alone (although she has a sister and o t h e r relatives nearby). So he m a rried Jane. an occasional date. who was a fierfect companion for his mo- er 7 On his return from the war. their marriage failed, but they still occupy the same house. leading separate lives, with his mother as queen. He has be- come a business executive. re- spected and esteemed. He takes me to dinner once a week. always out of town to pro- tect our reputation. He gives me lavish gifts, calls me often. says he loves me and is living for thedday when we can be mar- e . r1 At first he said we can‘t mar- ry until after his mother dies. as the rift would kill her. When I said that could easily mea a waiting 10 years or more (she is 75) he set a date for next Spring. Later he postponed it to fall. He says she may die mean- while and if not he can ease her into a new situation (m a y b c with her sister) and continue to support her. s we love each other and want to marry, I feel this year should be ours as man a n (1 wife, not lost in secret meet- ings. I would wait for him for- ever, for sound reasons. But I feel his delay is childish, that really wants to marry me. Am I being selfish, as he s a y s? E.C MAP" HAwinH Married Mom’s Boy Puts doI Plans early marriage on him? Plainly his interest in you is selfish. expedient and essential- ly impermanent. He wants you as a sweetheart, without wait- ing for a contract. which is 'pretty sure sign that he's n ot fundamentally resolved to be your husband. He is willing only to say whatever.is required ( th at doesn’t pin him down). to keep you on the string while his in- terest is high. And very likely he feels justified in this. in a cynical vein. inasmuch as you are equally willing to be his girl friend on the sly, while cam- paigning furiously to displace his mother and wife and legal- ize your invasion. general. your unscrupul- ous performance is so much on a par with his. that neither has any margin of righteousness for crying "foul" at t e at er. I might add. too, that the pen picture you give. of this s elf - styled devoted son. hopefully looking ahead to his mother's death. as a consummation de- voutly to be desired— in terms of setting him free to do as he pleases— this isn’t my idea of a lovable trustworthy character. He sounds rather chillingly in- competent. emotionally as if the capacity to care deeply just isn't in You ask for help in promot- ing our marriage campaign. Actually the help you s h o u l d have is help in renouncing this quicksand ambition. You must be very lonely. to have gotten so involved. Mv advice is. to] things over with a clergyman or psycholgist, to regain per- spective on how to deal wisely with your needs.— MH. ary Haworth counsels through her column. not by mail or personal interview. Write her in care of The Guardian. Please help!— . Dear E.C.: It is a case of pot calling kettle black, for you to be calling Jack childish while he calls you selfish. As he already is doubled fen- ced-in by the fact of having wife and being a mom’s b o y— whose marriage probably "fail- ed" due to his latent effeminacy —in view of this background. WINNING THESIS MONTREAL (CPI —- The 12th annual Canadian Construction Association competition for the best thesis on construction sub- 3 jects went this year to Lars Erik Vikander, 24. a Stockholm- bom Montrealer. who gradu- ated this y in engineering from McGiil University. what on e a r t h are you think- ing about. in pinning hopes of I and grabbed — and the’mirror. young face smiled back at one WOULD GIVE UP TASK MONTREAL (CP) French - Language Lay Move- ment has adopted a resolution r-l :- m happily. as we added, by littles. to our take OI Winter family sung throughout the wintry days. Indeed its sh ort flight. like that of the Canada Geese marked two seasons for the children of then: ap- proach of winter with its var- ious delights, and that of the summer. The former went with the plowing. and the banking of the house and farms with th e ~ summer-bl e a c h e seaweed, which breathed still of the sum- mery shores. The latter? It brought us blossoms to the orchard, and lilacs to the yard — and trouting in the little brook which “wimpled' in through a corner of the orch- ard, beneath a silver-railed fence, and out to ripple awa in many a curve to join the ri- ver below; it brought too the smelting. in those bygone days, which knew little of fish-con- servation. But what counted the y e few we and the children of the neighborhood down there toward ma shy lands where the tides ebbed and flowed. and kept trysts with moon and stars. and dawnings and dusks. in the abundance of gleaned p. 3" Q Did we net them? Oh no. Ly- ing at full length on the green bank. toes gripping tightly ag- ainst the chanceiof a sudden dip in the cool flow below. like its sojourn in the summer kit- chen to that, which kept the MERIN ,BLANIIE tori-tome Usonool GrounYclowu-Whito! Tabby. we reached out a paw 0 TS IdoolGifr...forChrisrnm. . .ForWodcings. . .For Shem. . .Forlirlhdays. . .ForAnnivorsarics. . .For HousoWumingsl Pretty. Practical and Price - Appealing for "Maam"...m oofely...wem and wean. Rid). thick. densely woven merlm wool. m-woint, warm, with cashmere-like tenure. Finished with 6" pouring rayon mm. am. 70:90" size. samuw deca- mum: ‘Rooe, sale, Sanddwood. Squi- Value “‘I' o 3“" i That was a delightful pastime — a challenging one, in w ic Time itself seemed to stand still. There was sun, and laughing wind. and a new blue sky. an ' white clouds afloat. Hunger was the factor which finally coaxed us home to enjoy the meal of tiny fishes rolled in the flour of the oat- meal of those days, and fried in the pork-drippings of then. And. oh the sweet delicacy that they were. fried in the hea- vy iron pan on the low-hearth- ed stove then come to the sum~ mar-kitchen! It though one could hardly bear to wait to savor them, so tantaliz- ing was the aroma of the cook- ing. Equal. we decided to that the buckwheat pancakes, which fried in the same manner spread. and fulled. and crisped and browned. delicately, and often marked with the quaint stove‘s fall-flight to that inner room. we remember so well. Odd snow-flurries. this day brought. But now the stars blos- som in a nice promise, it would seem. for tomorrow. "But signs aren‘t dependable — not these times. Ellen" Jam- es commented. when we spoke of them. At any rate, rain or shine, tomorrow will bring a new .November day. Until tomorrow —- — Diary-— Good-night"... O we EATO N' 5 Super Value SAVE 10.96 "Moth-Proofed" calling for the Roman Catholic Church in Quebec province to cede to civil authorities the re- . sponsibility of registering births. deaths. marriages and divorces. a The group held a meeting here Saturday. It was formed a few years ago with the objective of establishing a neutral school system separate from the hurch. Young Couple At Holy Redee The church of the Most Holy Redeemer in Charlottetown was the scene of a pretty wedding when Leona Catherine, daugh- ter of Mr Mrs. William Weatherbie. Charlottetown. was united in marriage with James Kentford Kennedy. son of Mr. and Mrs. Charles Kennedy, Kensington. Rev. Francis Ma- loney. CsSr performed the dou- ble ring ceremony. Basket of flowers adorned the altar. and tiny bouquets of lilies of the valley tied with white satin bows ." AND MRS. JAMES KENNEDY carnations. Tho groom's moth- er wore a green printed sheath with white accessories and a corsage of white carnations. The groom's grandmother wore navy dress with white accessor- ie 5. Following the wedding. a ception for 95 guests wa at the Queen Hotel. A th ree- tiered wedding cake made by Mrs. Leo Dowling, aunt of the bride centered the main table. A.J. Dowling. uncle of the bride acted as master of ceremonies. and called on Father Maloney to propose the toast to the bride. The groom responded. Other guests offered their best wishes. Mrs. George Reid, sis- ter of the bride, circulated the guest book. or a honeymoon along the Cabot Trail and on through the Maritimes the bride wore a re- held _ white suit with light green ac- cessories and a corsage of pink Pledge Vows carnations. Out of town guests included Charles Reynolds of CBC and Mr. and Mrs. Rae Simmons. Prior to her marriage the bride was entertained at a mis- cellaneous shower by Mrs. Ralph Josey, Mrs. Roy Thompson and Mrs. Leo Dowling, Sr. She was also entertained at a shower at the home of Mrs. George Wea- therbie. Mr. and Mrs. Kennedy are if- ving in Kensington. mer Church ’ es of green nylon net over taf- feta and of pink net over taffe- ta with matching picture hats Spiders help keep a balance in insect and mite populations and thus perform a service in agriculture. [IDA BAILEY ALLEN Try Unusual New Ways With An Old Favorite l THIS Thanksgiving Week. the {Chef and I are starring old fa- 1vorite foods in new ways, or Iexample. new uses for cran» lberries, first introduced to our ,early settlers by the n ians radd a glamorous highlight t assemblies of holiday relishes. I The relish dish, passed ’ many a successful restaurant orous treat. Yet it is easily pre- pared at home. You will need a compartment relish dish. The relishes should include plenty of raw vegetable sticks such as carrot. celery, turnip, beet or cucumber and—or cher- ry tomatoes: coleslaw if a salad is not menu-d: cottage cheese and a tart fruit relish such as cranberry chutney. Measurements are level CRANBERRY CHUTNEY 2 cups fresh cranberries. halv- ed 3 slices canned pineapple. diced 6 dried peaches, cut small , cup roarse- chopped crystal~ lized candied ginger to cup dark raisins IA cup sliced blanched almonds 1 cup unsulphured molasses 1 cup wine vinegar 1 teaspoon curry powder 1 teaspoon dry mustard or hotel dining room, is a glam-‘ 1‘2 teaspoon ground clove ‘] teaspoon ground cinnamm. 1 teaspoon sat Mix cranberries. pineapple. peaches. ginger. raisins and al- ' monds. , In saucepan. combine remainv line ingredients. ni Bring to boil; simmer - cook I 10 minutes. omovc from heat berry mixture. (‘over and let stand several hours to blend flavors before servmg. Refrigerated. this keeps in- definitely. Makcs 1 quart. TO-MORROWS EASY - D0 DINNER Add cran- Tomaio-(mlon Soup Celery—Carrot Sticks Seeded Crackers . Oven-Baked Shoulder Lamb Chops on Mixed Vegetables Cranberry-Orange Muffinette. with Cottage or Cream Cheese Coffee >-] m w Milk POOR ISLAND Sicily. largest and most pop- ‘ulous island in the Mediterran- ean. is plagued by poor soil, drought, lack of fuel. and diffi- cult transportation. and‘bouquets of yellow mums. Flowergirl, Jacqueline Flan- nagan. niece of the bride, wore a hot pink dress with white headpiece and carried a basket of flowers. Ralph Josey, cousin of the bride. was ring bearer. The groom was attended Emmett Driscoii as best man and George Reid, brother-in- law of the bride. were ushers. For her daughter's wedding Mrs. Weatherbie chose a mauve 6" '< marked the guest pews. Alex MacLean was organist, and Miss. Leah Darte rendered appro- priate hymns during the , tial Mass and the signing of the 1 register. 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