- race TWO " 7 l l rug CHARLOTTETOVYQQLIJAIQIAQL ii gllllti? 6,1941 Dorothy Dix Says- EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEELEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEIQE@E PARENTS MUST RECOGNIZE THEIR GROWN-UP CHILDREN I \ E l 9 - {Foo Many Mothers And Fathers Try To Keep fir / - » ,, Their Authority Over Their Offspring "' will ,.i a E All Through Life [- l- al.l?é'fill‘é‘.e?.'i.'é‘f‘ém‘t“.fi‘“ini“.“fé‘.li'lll wfililé flthyfifilli: ‘ “f l» suit of happiness on their own account. John may be 6 feet 2, weigh [. '4 -. . _ pounds. be a football star and hold down key position in _a big business concern, but to hi E father he is still a little boy who has to be tol to wash behind his ears and to watch out f0 automobiles when CPOSSlIi the street. Mary) ma be married and have chil en of her own, ut her mother she is still a baby in a perambulatu and Mother feels that she has a perfect right to boss her and run her life for her. Of course, this desire of parents toykeep their children in a state of perpetual infantlllsm is founded on vail-‘ ity. It is only our children who ever look up to us as gods and believe that we are the embodi- mem of power and wisdom and the foiintaiin from which all blessings flow. It is only little Johnny who boasts that his father is the lggest and strongest mail in the world and who settles every question in debate by declaring my father says so and so. It is only little Mary who be- G c“ Ga b0 lieves that her mother is more glamorous than r r and. a greater authorlt on u l world. To others we seem verv orlirlinaiyugnglttgoigl-Lifiilonfiiiacgeiréidihidlugllise but our Vlllll€ children, when they are too voluig to know any better sre’ ‘us clarified, possessed of every charm and rirtile. Theirs is the only leaf uncritical adulation we over get in Dlli‘ whole lives and so it is no WOllCWl: . that ivc ll'\ lo hcld oil to it. as long as we can. ' _ m bglou, lihllc it is soothing to the parental ego for children to continue . mcie automatons who squawk yes, "yes!" virhqn Mgmnim and PM“ W“ ll"! strings. and who let Mother and Father plan their lives and pick out thcii" professions and their wives and husbands for t-heiil it ‘ls disastrous for the children. For they never grow up. They never bc-l cilillll‘ adiili. And when they are 50 years old they are as helpless as thry were ivhell llicv were 5. ‘ l 2 _Or clso. ii lhcyi do have the courage and strength to cut the paicntal lfvidllll! Slllligs. llicy break their parents’ hearts. Half of the time when i nonon@nunnnnnnnndégfiéhfinnonnnnnnnnn@ DFROM THESE POPULAR MERCHANTS OF i§ ELECTRICAL A I‘\X GHARLOTTETOWN SHOOLO WATCH FOR UVERSIOHTS ‘WJFWS imd 1110111911“ “'99P 0n your breast and tell yoli how ungr tefiil f b\ I _ ; their ("hlldTPil have been and how bitterly they have repaid the SHCLHflCCS LE ' " P A N c I N P R E R I N G L E s tlim- liiadc for them. the only crime the children have committed has ' i -, been to assert the right to a little individual independence. E e I , Z Dnni.‘ Direct Children's Fates g IRONS, TOASTERS, W A F F L E I s i , F tglohln XVQULDdbe a (iinstead of golnglinto the grooeiy trade as E IRONS’ SANDWICH TOASTERS’ -——- B, GT‘ ‘i8 Gilli! , l D 1 01’ m 0 Mary W0 l-D marry the poor young BED LAMPS, SILEX COFFEE Qng of the first problems with 0f the note naturally depends upon chap she loved instead of the rich widower Mother selected for her. Mil- , lions of fathers and mothers are estranged from their children because 4 duéililréiéit concede the youngsters the right to their own personal tastes S A . y Perhaps the parents who are so insistent upon dominating their how well the writer knows the per- son to whom her note is going. While the actual decismu as to the type of invitation is siilinle, tile i AND TEA MAKERS. which mt bride-to-be has to cope in her wedding plans is the matter of invitations for the lIHIDOHBXiv, and E E E the announcements children do not realize the harm they do, but we see it on every hand. "em" makin of ll e list of those to oe l We see it in the sons of rich men who lose all the money their fathers wgffitgglolgg gammy o! count be invite presents greater difficulties. 4 have left them when they died because Father had never taught them , anything about business, or laid any responsibility upon them, or let theln have any say-so in the management of the firm. I Tiler had been nothing but errand boys who had done what Father told them lo do. They had never been permitted to stand on their own feet and libel-i tlial- tried to walk alone they fell down. I, And ire have seen rnarlv a divorce that was the NSlllL of a daughter's i l aubservlence to her mother. Mary had always minded Mother heca-use lyfrither knew best. and so when Mot-her told. Mary she should leave Tom , bP"5lUFP h1- lvasift making enough rnrmey. or because Mother dldnw hqp- A wise bride-to-be will begin weeks beforehand, perhaps on a dandy little loose-leaf note-book. A neigh- borhood lfst, an old school list. s club list. a relativg list, e family friend llsb-they are all important, if no one ill to be OVGYLOOKPH. Then she must extract the same tabula- tion from her fiance-or bellel cur bliss SILVERWAARE WINE GOBLETS, c N . ~ I Gm ALL SERVICE snrs. FLOWER BAS- f] WATER r iu . . 2'13,“ and snignggniliig: bars. RELISH msiiascaivnliu a HOLDERS, BUTTER DISHES. sent out three weeks before the wedding day, and llze announce- ments which are lo go those not lnvitatcd to the ceremony. should be ready for mailing on the day after. In the matter of formal iii- vltatlons, there is a definite pattern to b». followed. Regardless of tyfit For The Kitchen Shower DOUBLE BOILERS. ROASTERS. TEAPOTS. DINNERPOTS. STRAIGHT SAUCEPANS, DISH- PANS, MIXING-BOWLS, MIXING- l] E E E El E] E D E e i enclosed in i . -, fancy hlm for some reason, Mary packed her trunks and went hack g VASES and CENTREPIECES. CHESTS 0F SHJVER SPOONS- PRESERVE POTS’ PUD‘ §§l§11ellvl=iio§§.'°lll°§““§§lei one ad- ggfreemsggulgsbgalgléllédilllsglgial ‘ . E “m PM“ "E PLAT“- ,."li,=;r@ . - n of note a er an enlralicin ' L Frequent can" o‘ "hm." E ma“ we "lumber “I a ‘Emmy H‘ be‘ monograms fiI-imI-Jl which tlie bfltig i i t Often parents‘ love of bossin! ~ and Perhaps we all have a inner E] 1 ‘"8 i""“'~’d- “Pam” *""""‘°“§ m’ may choose for "er "Tlimll you" i l streak in us somewherwwredks their children's lives. as ls the case of one . ‘PM "P “n mo” °r “'3e_am‘°“ h 110195. “W56 ECRHOWRFdQMPYIiS 0T ‘ l mine Woman of my acquaintance who says that lief father-ili-law is [E] e 0 ‘ i‘ l! Wmlfislbh‘ i° 1“°'“d° l“? wedding slits must be on formal l most generous and kind; that he has given them a lovely house, a fine Q I daililhtt-‘TS 0f ‘he T191159 in B 9°11?“ paper. For the wedding breakfast, Cl tive invitation. For an informal wedding ilte in- vitations are written by the ‘iride herself, on fo‘ded stationery of or- dinary size. The date and time. of the wedding, as well as the place. the church and the reception. are and relatives who have been unable the main topics, but the formality to be present. BRIDEGROOMS _ _ Bmiesmauis l Small Wives Best Should Be Remembered Without s doubt the wcddlnil day is of all others the moat es- pecial day of the bride herself. l-irid [or at least once, in all her life. "l9 world moves to obey her slilhlfsl- behest. But i! by chance this is t0 be YOUR day of days. here's a Dlfl for the merry maidens who are to form your bridal coterle. When S0“ are completely engrossed n1 "c! schemes for wedd rig frocks at al. do for a moment give a tllol-‘Ehil to the friends who are to play Se- 9. l car. fiimiliire. a charge account at the stores, but that he I single, solitary thing they have, even to her hats, without iegard to their tastes or wishes. He doles them out movie money, but her husband. who is his father's very able assistant, has no salary. Just what Papa gives l hlm. And the bride doesn't like it arid is going back to her old job. l The moral of all of which is that parents should not baby t-heir child- l ren. 'I‘hev should let them grow up. They should teach them how to walk. They should recognize their right to independence and to plan their own lives. DOROTHY DIX. A iNee-dlecraft— .-—~F0r The Home The new longer waistline and‘ front skirt fullness are fashion fea- tures of this smart veision of our favorite jumper style. Buttons down m, side and on the shoulder are decorative as well as practical. A tailored shirt blouse is also in- cluded in the pattern to make this the perfect jumper style of the season. Later on you'll iove wearng the jinn-per alone as a sunbaok dress. Ohoose plain plqi e, li-ien or spun rayon for the jumper and picks out every n. place card engraved with the combined last initials or the bridal couple is most appropriate-and it ls a charming custom m send liliy boxes containing pieces of the wed- ding cake to near and dear friend: QmlflflflFIIUTZEJEETDEFEHED@EIHEIEEETUCiIDEIEFIITYITJ- F-VFFIFIF-‘l- rrlrrlmrrirnrri PHONES 105-1301 FREE CITY DELLVERY if For The JUNE BRIDE l ;\ . \\ Beautiful DIAMONDS and WEDDING RINGS. Let us save you money on your purchase. Order your Up-io-date Clothes from the man that has learned the business, and get properly fitted. We sell Tuxedos, Full Dress. as well as Suits. We learned the Measuring. Cutting and Fitting, in ltirge cities. J. P. MacPliERSON 8r SOH Small women make LLIP best viilves acccrdln to the Riot Reverend Mi‘. Fre crlc L. Deane, Prolestilit Blsho of Aberdeen, He. sals that ‘Smlll wives can "bully their nus- bands but big wives are nelrli’ a" ways bullied even by small hus- bands." Guarantee and insurance on all diamonds. WATERPROOF WATCHES Military and Nurses, we handle nothing but the best. Perfect Watches, Perfect Style at Money- saving Prices. cided ln favor of the lradlllnnil satin, do remember that aslmilar fabric would be of n0 practical Hit to your bridesmaids, for Summer even‘ng wear. So Why Ml H min‘ bow. from matron of honor to flower girl, of the marflill-ifm“ ‘W, tulle whch will sivlrl so luattillii at county club dances? If you fancy a cotton vlr-ldliig. t» lllfiil, cl ' stripes for the blouse fol a really A _ _ h d m “dd d m, n, - m» do». "l"! WATB" REPAIRS IIEPT- l" Mm pa. ~ :::“.;::.:.:;.r". bu; .. n? 2:; :..:°"::..:::;r".l.s"u..:....2. my“ N“ ‘no L‘ design“! 1°‘ AND ' important oecas on. bodices vour bevv of attend“! ‘We 12- 14» 16' “l “- S” 1° And so—-wh_v not prov! yourscl! maidens will delight in their rrisp requires S yards of 39-inch fabric . ff i. 5-8 yards for blouse. h M xlé/Q - a boon to bridesmaids. When the moment arrives for planning your ‘l; Can give you prompt service at all times. brginay frocks Willi vlrd m’ Jumper; 1 wcsklts. Or if you are bellic inar- Wedding Rings n v L I i - ddi . l.l.~.lilcl t,dlilif BMCKLEY you“; SCHOOL Only Watch Specialists do oui repairs. was“ p112; 5gb grads: nlgllggue cggofitde‘ r530 asléglllllcllgy géifwlgiitp unique‘ frocks which, while they are an your attendants will wax delirious Mimi“! 15 the Few“ °F Brad“ effectve background for your own over eyelet linen frocks ‘n flnirrr ley Point School for the month of May; , Grade X (al-l. Dorothy Robin- 2. Bertha Stewart. 2920 llzes leiéo rid twenty (200) ooin il pro- Ierred. for Pattern. Write plainly your Name, Adlress and the style number, Be sure to stain the sine you wish. Stile No 2920 Size Nlllll ltreot Addius Cit! rrovlncs AMomiruSmile "Fat-her says will you lend hlm your garden roller?" said the snail bsy. "Haven't you forgattei. soma- thing, my boy?" said the very polite old gentleman. " ti, yo?’ was the bllzhe reply. "Father _ refuses, try next door! ' ‘ogmle x (b)—-1. Clayton Ford, QUEEN 5T» Grade VIII (a)-—l. Allied M111‘- U E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E my. 2. Alex Murray. Grade VIII tbl——i. Annie Mas:- Callum. ' Grade VII-i. Derrell Mao- Lure. 2. Ruth Stewart. 3. Ellwood Shaw. _ Grade V-1 Gerald Robinson. and smiley Murray (equal). 3. Dorothy Murray. Grade 111-1. Bradford Murray. Glade 1I—1. Lome Murray. v Grade I (ai-l. Betty Hughes. Grade I (bi-i. Donald MacCall- HORO v. Highest average in Senior Grades: Alnriie MacCallum-aba per oen. Highest averaae Graéies: Bradford Murray-MB per oen . Perfect Attendance: Bertha Bile- wart. Derrell MaeLure, Ellwood Shaw Ruth Stewart ._'Iieggher; Georgie E. WLLLLS. ________.__. Man has done more in the last 500 years to alter the earth's sur- face than Nature has done in 5.000,- o00vyears. CLEAR THE CAUSE OF BABY’S llllllll llo EA ho ‘a at h. Low bk mie- tanmowlsgylzsvsgglm a p?‘ to other llclinuses. Regulate tha bowels sa banish it immediately. Read the experience o! Mrs. Edith Slmiiil. of Brown's Line l‘.0., Ont: "l have nlils rhil- had one serious fillies among ls B '5 Own Tablets. For disrr cu ma. us Invaluable. 1120:) quickly slur up cause." Pmnpfl eflefiilve, also, in u: of slwplo lever co cot. lune soul: cons rm Hlmplli awe, indigestion slid will“; mum". f in llni d l Bus! l5 glfiflineiiliil Elite fndnhsmltis, Ana- For Friday, June 8th MARCH 21 to APRIL 20 (Aries) -Beilween '7 am. and 7.06 p.m. the most favorable aspects exist. es- pecially for mental work and very practical, uselful occupations Be wary of unscrupulous persons. APRIL 21 to MAY 20 (Tallulah- Not so stimulating and encourag- ing as yesterday but favorable for finishing work previously started, correcting errors and accomplishing in familiar and urgent matters. Keen striving. MAY 2i to JUNE 21 (Gemini)- Especial caution advised in mari- time affalrs handling or dealing in chemicals, rugs and other liquzds. Your usual routine and business, and industrial matters in general are favored. Don't expect the im- possible but try hardel to sciileve quality. JUNE 22 to JULY '23 (Cancer)- AM. particularly favors delectvcs. confidential clerks, nollce, investi- gators and you em" yed in all mental activities. l? emoon tops for scund endeavors advises care in personal affairs. snzpulnll. JULY 24 to AUGUST Z2 ilkol- Yoirll need to have ylur wits abzut you. Think and investigate before you speak and act. Refuse to be annoyed by petxy trrriallt es D.) your best and encourage others to do theirs. AUGUST 23 to SEPIEMhER 23 said, "llf the old bliflhifilfl Your Individual “owls 1 <¢>—1. new um- l———-By Frances Ilrake———J CHESTER A. CAMPBELL JEWELLER PHONE 163-1 EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE EEEEE C. W. PATTERSON centre-of-the-stage Wedfllnz! sown, are not only easy on YOU‘: maidens‘ clolhcs allowance, bu‘ lrlirmlngly tints. Indeed, there is no oild tn the charming effect: you may lli-lilrre J EWELLER pracilcal for future wcaz‘. Just for instance-if you've. dc - v-Hle earrllng the undvliic crati- tvde of your wedding coferle. FEEEEEEEEElEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEETQIEEE @TETEIEEIEETEIELIETIEI@EEIEIEIET@EEE@@IET@EEIIEIIEI "1 [E173 SCOPE and 1:10 pm. and midnight Guai-‘d against errors. Balance of day fav- ors substantial interests. BEPTEMB 24 to OCTOBER 23 (Libra) - 1f you don't measure your advancement or gains by a yardstick, you'll profit in a con- structive, lasting wsv. Losses may be avoided by forethoiilmt and care- ful planning. OCTOBER. 24 to NOVEILVIBER 22 (Scorpio) - Dexterity and finesse highly approved. Give you: work and other activities f'csh enthus- iasm and clever management These are important elements to success today, slid they are natural gifts with you. NOVEMBER 23 to DECEIWBEH. 22 (Sagittarius) — Gains in writ- ten matters, govemmz-nl interests, Lllterary efforts offered in p.m. es- pecially, Steady, though not es- pecially spectacular. achievement day. Avaid extremes, hasty action. DECEMBER 23 t0 JANUARY 21 fCapi-iccrnl - More favorable and extensive vibrations L-r ysur ac- tivit'es tdav than YIZJTJETGBV Go all out in those lntz-rcsts o! para- mount importance today Be a lead- er. Profts newbie. JANUARY 22 to FEBRUARY 20 fAquarlut) - Goad period for mechanics. technicians, engineers: you wrrlckiz on government orders. vols, machinery and vehicles Navy and sblrllfniz interests need alert attention. Confer 1w :n superiors rvlrgcl - The pericds llkelv to re- quire most patience and greater effort are between 1:20 and 8 am. U08. 6G1 . IL i d . Hiili-{i-‘Toheilvflgliu in lilfliiilfli 3E1 Huey back if m an l!!! "m5"!- nnd legal minds where, necessary to avoid misjudgmenh , . FEBRUARY 2i to MARCH 2O (Pilzcesl — Oil the favorable side, but inclinations warn against un- premeditated changes and decisions, Take time to think things out. Don't be hurried" into agreements, contracts. legal difficulties. _A CHILD BORN ON THIS DAY will be shrewd, a quick thinker; but inclined to want its own way tco often; intelligent and devoted to good causes; generous on whole Must learn to OVENXXIIQ: obstinancy and dictatorial tendencies. Spiritual training will be a good balancer. Success ahead for the effort. Cut-out enlbrolderies, off-diculd- er deeolletes with lon sleeves, and a hair-do very up an to-the-frorlt, piled with crisp curls - these are all of fashion interest. ‘2- ’ - 1 '. uni w. f 1 r 1/. Z012 FOR THE lllNE BRIOE Monograms Im p o rtanl Monogrammed wedding gifts no lovely and all that. But a. rl doesn't particularly like them ii’ the monograms are all wrong. One girl tells me that the Old English "L" of her future husband's name was printed on the lilvitation in such a way that t lcokcd like a "J". Alld the result vrus that one fr‘end who Iiad nver mo»; her man before, nor apparently ever heard of hlm. sent her a whole dozen towels marked "M J". irhlch ivcre _ initials that had ntrh iz tn do lllll.llllll:ll'l'll ' / ¢ r. i )_ 1' /IIF(/¢//’AVI/ /< /1.'./ ‘ with any one. it llldil’! her new bathroom look as though she had been out shop-lilting to furnish it. Of course. you can see that that would be upsetting. If your maid- en initials are M. Q. and your married initials are to be M.Q. L.. you don't particiiarly enny getting ll lngs marked “M J". So l would advise those who don't know the couple well enough to know their names to steer away from mono- grammed gifts. Then, of course. therr. is that whole question of whether the in- ltlala should be the irl“; maiden initials or her marre ones. Usage has it that they should ‘ne her maiden initials. . even if you lve the present after tl"e wedd rig. Some modems claim that tno married initials are quite accent- ._,, o, %bu f0 all iilm l OI! Ll ll NC! ' Selected Iowcllen overv- Mlm Iuiim Bridal Wmih rings. Above is allovm one of the chm which Identify liloalowsllm. Tllelvlnhg- wily deceive: you: complete confidence! ‘ ‘able now; and barlze will“ m.” because what if you g ‘ later, and then have to exlilli"? w every one about those P1P\"-°“* initials which are no all?" -"°““ to sport around. Adding all the ilfglllllilllbpw‘ ether, subtracting six and dliltllllg five, I'd say stick to the girm maiden initials if you k110i" i ° ' LIVER Tioru‘ ism-veil 4 ill t" One Aviiilid b"! l1 OHL-Jsgv EADS BLACKl-l dd Get two ounces of geroxinc WWW‘ from our druqglst. Pfinkkw a | , wet c oth and aP91Yi° m‘: f“ m Every blsckhesd W ‘ The one ssfe. sure an remove blacklles c! 9 dlsiolvl d simple WIY ”