WOMEN Page 8 The Guardian LIT! IA! Gay Kitchen Equipment Need Not Be Expensive Iy lda Bailey Allen The stunning store window stopped me short. It featured kitchen and serving equipment in black. white and tin mium. with an occasional touch of bright color; reasonable in price. too. There were even black enameled coasters with a gay flower decoration to use un- der beverage glasses. at the un- thinkable price of s nickle apiece! Of course. I stocked up. Try Now Decor If you are redecoiating your kitchen this spring. try a black and white decor with an occasion- al splash of color. White enamel ed ceiling and walls. Black base- boards. chair and table legs. The phenols of wooden cupboards lined black, the inside walls in Chin- ; ese red. Black and white linoleum ' on the floor. A new red tea kettle and set of red canisters. Kitchen curtains of white no-iron fabric with a black "doodle" design. A pot of red ger- aniums on the window sill. A gay red and white apron. You'll feel like spring! TOMORROW'S DlNNER Snappy Tomato Cocktail Lamb ShanlrDried Lima Casserole Tossed Green Salad Rhubarb Compote Dropped Cookies Coffee Tea Lamb Shank-Dried Lima Cas- serole: Add boiling water to cover 1 lb. dried lima beans. Put on lid; let stand 50 min. Add 2 tsp. salt. Milk Friday, March 1371955" Meantime. cut meat from I lamb shanks. Remove as much fat as possible. Skin and slice 2 pork sausages. Add 4 sliced peeled onions. Ar- range in layers with cooked lima beans in 2 qt. casserole. Mix ills tsp. thyme, V4 tap. ore- gano, 2 tsp. salt and V4 tsp. pepper with 2 (8 oz.) cans tomato sauce and 2 . n-measures hot water. Pour over and into meat. Cover and slow-bake 2l's hrs. Enough for 2 meals. Dropped Cookies: Add 8; tsp. salt to '11 c. lard; heat until melt- ed and frothy. Stir in 1 c. sugar and 2 eggs beaten light. Add 1 c. sour milk or buttermilk. Sift 396 c. already-sifted en- riched flour with 1:5 tsp. baking soda and 2 tsp. baking powde. Beat into first mixture. Then add 2 tsp. vanilla. 1 tsp. nutmeg. or any desired flavoring. Drop by heaping teaspoonfuls onto an oiled cookie sheet. I" apart. Top each with a whole nut- meat. bit of candied peel, a little coconut. raisin. or half a paste ized date. Bake about is min. in a mod- erate oven, 375 degrees F. Makes about 60. THE CHEFS SNAPPY TOMATO COCKTAIL To 5 c. (40 oz.i canned tomato juice add link c. water, i chopped good-sized green pepper. 1 chop- ped small onion, is c. cut-up cel- ery leaves. 1 tbs. sugar, 1 isp. salt. in tap. pepper. 1 bay leaf, 5 whole cloves, 4 peppercorns, and 2 tbs. vinegar. Simmer 10 min. Add 2 tsp. Worcestershire sauce. Cover and boil 196 hrs.. or until skins loosen. MARY IIAWORTIPS MAIL Wonders If Marriage Would End Jealousy DEAR MARY HAWORTH: I am a divorcee wit.h a child. I married at 21. mostly to escape an unhappy home. I realize now. I didn't know the man very well. and durin our marriage he had several afairs. finally running away with one of his girls. Now. after is months' courtship. I am engaged to marry Clyde (I'll call him). He is in many ways a fine unselfish thoughtful person. who enloys outdoor life as I do. And he loves my child. However. he is L. jealous of my worksday associates-a trait that showed up after three months' dating. As it happens. I am the only woman in a group of men. in the department where I work. and Clyde accuses me of being "too friendly." He sometimes says it jokingly, but underneath he is serious, I know. Jealous liven of Strangers Although we are together nearly every evening. he often imagines that a secret admirer of mine is in a car driving by e and he doesn't like me in wear high heels or earrings to work. This is a small thing and I don't mind humoring hirn-but I feel that such jealousy is unnatural and I wonder if you can help us. We have discussed the matter and Jeff's manner has improved. But after marriage. what? Will his jealousy be magnified, or will it tend to disappea ? It would be heartbreaking to renounce our engagement after in months' as- sociation; but it would be even worse to go through with an- other unhappy marriage. ls this a problem that can be worked out? I have prayed and asked him to pray. E. N. Self-Contempt Cripplcs Man DEAR E. N'. Clyde's jealousy kl pathological. it seems. both in the sense of his "imagining things." and in the implication that he feels markedly inferior to average men. in the matter of rleaslng a woman or holding her ove. in asking you not to wear high heels or earrings to work, he is trying to mark down your femin- ine appeal. on the theory that if men don't give you a second glance. he will stand a better chaos of having emotional se- entity in relation to you. which Iignifies that he has no confid- msce in himself: that he is ailing with self t i ',.. I-Ila fancy that you are bein trailed by secret admirers when and 4 drops tabasco. Strain and chill. Garnish with lemon wedges. to uncover the supposed attempt to deceive him. Problem Merits Grave inquiry Unable to quell his doubts. he keeps putting his beloved to var- ious tests of honor. devotion and honesty, which sadly cripples the relationship. This is what you are going through; and what it means is that Clyde himself is emotion- ally unstable and weekly disposed towards undcrhanded actions. and nconaciously jumpy about his "guilty potentials." All of which he projects on others by constru- ing that they would react as he fears he might. in tempting cir- cumstances. . It would be a colossal mistake to marry Clyde. with his prob- lem hanging fire. It is somewhat encouraging that you've been able to discuss the matter pacifically. and that he seems a bit improved. But still you were only easing symptoms. not getting at the cause of his distress. In my judg- ment. he needs intensive psychia- tric help to determine whether he can overcome the difficulty. And my advice is to delay marriage until you've both had the benefit of s specialist's slant on the fu- ture prospects. M. I. Mary l-laworth counsels through her column. not by mail or per- sonal interview. Write her in care of The Guardian. Charlottetown. GOOD RECOVERY Norway's industrial output Id 1954 was 56 per cent higher than the pre-war year of 1038. gulmor through a machine washing with- out in effects. But if they look a bit fragile. best he on the safe side and do them by hand. or put them in a bag in the machine to prevent undue twisting. Twe ludslngs ' them in warm soapsuds and rins- es. If very soiled. two quick suds- lngs are better than one long one. tains. hang them carefully on the line, smooth out wrinkles. square corners, and ease ruffles gently into place. Treating ynthetics rics" should be hung quite wet to I GHOST up rho gxbik -:8 Xmr I use in 1-ans Are You Young For your Years? I: Ida Jenn Kain Just 0 hours till spring. Spring . . . there's a lifting word that won't stay on the ground. Since spring is a time of renewal. let's catch hold of some fresh ideas. it takes mental gymnastics to pull out of the rot and feel young- or than springtime . . . oday. it's a natural to feel young for your years. The good news is that many of the com- monly accepted notions about physical changes that occur in later years are now discredited. For example. we frequently hear. "I'm too old to learn." Non- sense! An intensive series of tests made to determine loss of learn- ing power revealed that the im- portant factors are interest and will to learn rather than ability to learn. Interest -e there's a key word. Add enthusiasm to Interest and you have a perfect keeping young combination. I like Elsa Lancast- er's greeting to her husband Charles Laughton. "You look tir- ed out and 15 years younger." was her sprightly comment upon his return from an arduous but happy story telling tnur. Anyone in his audience could catch his enthusiasm and sense that this T versatile actor was having the time of his life. Boundless enthusiasm is a typi- cal characteristic of youth. Youth looks 'forward -- the best years are still ahead. That's the test. Do you feel that your best years are still ahead? "Man starts to get old, not when he puts on bifo- cals - but when he begins to dwell on the good old days." says Dr. Winfred Overholser. nation- ally known psychiatrist. "And." he added. "the more one thinks of himself as old. the more like- ly one is to accent the traits." The way to stay young most of your life is to be young all through middle age. By the way. what age do you term the middle period? It may be later than you think. From 40 to 65 is young- middle age. from 55 to 70 is still midde age the latter half. Young old age is reckoned at 70 plus, and old age from 95 on. How young you will be at 70 depends a great deal on your food habits from. 40 on. Aging is a process of wearing out and tear- ing down. The foods which furn- ish the material to make good the wear and tear and promote the smooth functioning of the body will keep you young longer. These are called protective for they pro- tect against the ailments that hast- en old age. Check this list to see if you are staying physically young. Do you have these foods daily? For pro- tein and tissue repair: a liberal serving of lean meat. fish or fowl. with a meat organ once a week; a pint of milk; and l or 2 eggs. For body regulating materials and needed vitamins: green and yel- low vegetables plus a salad with dark green leafy vegetables; fruits. including a citrus fruit or juice; and whole grain cereal or bread and butter. These are the protective foods -- and they are MR. AND A quiet wedding was solemn-. ized at St. John's Presbyterian' Church. Almonte. Ontario, on Feb- ruary so. 1955. when Myrtle Eliza- beth Spencer. formerly of Char- lottetown, was united in marriage to Mr. Rayunond MacNeish of Jac- quet River. N. B. The Rev. James M. Ritchie officiated. The bride wore a navy blue suit and a white hat and acces- sories. She wore a corsage of white carnatlons. Miss Kathleen Davidson of Hamilton, Ontario. was the honor attendant. She wore a teal suit and gold hat and accessories. She wore a corsage of white car- nations. Mr. Mark Spencer. Jr. of Ham- ilton. Ont.. was bcst man. Mrs. James Zaccanina of New. better than a spring tonic. That Spring Cleanup Calls For Judgment By ELINOR ROSS We're at the glass curtains stage; of our spring cleaning. and here! it is well to use good sense and judgment. Exercise Care Many sheer curtains will come Whatever method you use. do If you don't stretch your cur- Many of the new "science fab- dry. That way. no ironing is indi- cated for the body of the curtain. But curtains of synthetic fab- ric hang better and look better if ruffles are smoothed with a warm iron. Pu snent finish cot- tons need no starch; otherwise use I light starch solution for the final rinse. While curtains and drapes are down. suds the window frames. sashes and sills. Wipe off curtain rods with 'a soapy sponge and wash and polish the glass. Thus. when your windows are dressed up again. they'll really be clean. Bed Covers Cotton quilts and mattress pads can be washed in the machine. pure, rich dateup within . "ruin sandwiches take on .;... wet with Aylmer Cetaup." says Mr. Sunshine. the Aylmar Hired Men. "All summer long. I pack sunshine davor hto Aylmer tnrnatou till t.hey'rI red-ripe and lhdyftrpicking. 'I'lsassAylsnxuptusIIlltIHr 'podneuanddelic-iousdavorbymakingthesnintp Soperk upyourmealswithdseliveliersunehine Iavorof'Aylmer Cetaup." AVLM an More generous use of suds is in- dicated than with other launder- ing. Rayon quilts should be hand- washed in lukewarm suds. wring them as little as possible and let them drip dry. Hang quilts on parallel lines a foot or so apart. square the corners with your fin- gers while they're still wet; re- verse their position and shake them occasionally while they're drying. and they'll come through all smooth and fluffy. Blankets can be machine- :. ed - if they are done with speed and caution. Carefully follow in- struction book for your machine. if you hand wash blankets, dip them up and down in lukewarm lands and rinses. A rubber plunger helps to force the suds and clean water 6 k repeatedly. Avoid rubbing. twisting or wringing. Hang blankets in shade over parallel clothesllne a foot or two apart. and out of high wind. When partially dry. fingerpress edges and brush for fluff appeal, when storing. wrap blankets in paper or plastic. sealed securely against dust. Place on top of any pile on shelf to prevent crushing. MORNING SMILE Porter - "Where's yo trunks. suh?" . Salesman-"I use no trunks." Porter-"But Ah tho't you was one of these travelling salesmen." Salesman-"I am. but I sell brains, understand? I sell brains." Portere"Excuse me, boss. but you'se the first travellin' fella that's been here who ain't carry- lng no samples." s. e'1ew house of York, mother of the bride. wore. a light grey suit with black and' white accessories. l corsage of American Bcauly roses. Presiding at the organ was tilt- church organist, A. Jones, who rendered "Mendellson's Wedding March." and "0 Perfect Love." Following the wedding a din-. nor was held at the Hotel All monte. 4. She wore as i MRS. RAYMOND MICNEISR After a wedding trip to New York the couple will reside in Almonte. 0nt., where the groom is on the staff of the Royal Bank of Canada. Out-of-town guests included the bride's mother, Mrs. James Zac- canina. New York, U. S. A.; Miss Kathleen Davidson, Hamilton. 0ut.; Mr. Mark Spencer. Jr.. Hamilton. 0nt.; Mr. John Mercer. Montreal. Que-.; Mr. and Mrs. Stewart MacNelsh, Montreal, One; and Mr. and Mrs. James Clerk, Montreal. Que. Wile Preservers .-... A paste of lemon juice and salt rubbe- on an lion nut stain is a good tnatmeni for white cotton Follow t.he pasta treat- ment by washing Did some other besides this farsnwlle rest her work this even- ingtoadmlrethegloryoftbe sunset. watching the day fling greet colorful banners across the gates of the west? crimson "and flame. orange and royal purple. catching in the bright folds the wild March clouds of white. edg- ing tham with wlnsome pastels. Or moments ago. from window or yard with a great reach of countryside about-fields and woodlands and the winding dark of a river maybe. watch the moonrlse? See the pale gold push aside silently the blue curtains or sky above a dime hilltop to appear even.as we stood there as ever awed by the miracle. gracious and serene. How beautiful are Island places -the quiet farmlands by day. whether sun-leved or storm-tost. by night as now, washed by elfin moonbeamsl 0 0 "Each season has its own parti- cular beauty" one writes in an American farm-paper. "the frosty moonlight of winter. the greening of spring. moonlight on a cstalpa tree in bloom. the drowae and peace of the growing landscape. a waterfall over the rimrock after a summer shower. the greens and golds and reds of autumn. No doubt other farm folk get as much 'lift' from the farm horizons of the prairie land or the endless rows of the corn lands as I do from the moun- tains." - "There must be a subconscious longing for quiet in all of us" the writer continues. "Nearly every one of our visitors from the city. at some time during their visit will say. "My. but it's quiet' or 'It's so stlll' or 'I envy you this peacefulness.' Even darkness in the city is something of which to be wary; here in the country it hides little cause for fear; it only makes the stars shine brighter. And who can look at a sky full of stars without sensing the Creation? . . We country folk must definitely have problems and worries Just as try- ing as are those of our city cous- ins but at least we have the op- portunity to work them out in peace and quiet." eiLEN's? by an Island Farmers Wife DIARY leaaswswenttoday her own fireside her schoolday bu eootl. sound of the returning truck. face wreathed again in smiles. And yiesently all gathered to this house to enjoy the evening meal INDIAN SUPPER 1 lb. sausage 2 tbs. fat 1 tsp. salt about an old. t:bl:. ? up. pew" This is the day which now 1,:",:,,,k ends. It is one we should wish ,5... con, to remain longer with. us. gracious and kind it has been. Until tomorrow - - - - Diary Good t grediente. Turn in semis. Bake in oven about 30 minutes. Household Hint Do not use a linen napkin for a potholder. You are warned that if you do. you are likely to get car- bon-containlng grease on the nep- klnusnd this stain is practically uln-aposslble to remove from table en. LONDON (Reuters) Mother Elizabeth and has announced Monday. sh i Royal Lodge. Wlndsor.ewlier.: Heat shortening (it should be t I g 00 370' in I dup-fryins pan. (If: r::uth::n:ol::tl: :0”) available. fleet fat temperature with a cube of breadmllif-It bread should brown in 00 seconds). Cut 1 pound an." 0; any suitable dab into serving sired pieces and sprinkle jium with salt. 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