ee ae ste 9 a their co opereticn during the rerne following slate of officers |was elected for 1966 president, |Mrs. Alice MacNeill: recording | secretary, Mrs. Preston Senter; 3 vice- pres., Mrs. Beaumon New- port; recording secretary, Mrs. Preston Sentner; correspond- ence secretary, Mrs. Beaumcnt Newport; treasurer, Mrs. 0. Ne- HAPPENINGS.--~ 4 ; ae eer Cae Audrey se, Women's Editor; Phone 4-8508 Mr. and Mrs. Austin L. Burg-)Caseley at Junipef, N.B. They ess left recently for their home| were accompanied by Mrs. in Belmont, Mass., after spend- Heath Mayhew, Margate, who fing several weeks at their home was the guest of-her son-in-law ' in Murray Harbor. © and daughter, Mr. and Mrs. T. | ii; community and friendship " C. MacKenzie and family, Dou- i sec’y, Mrs. Lester Johnston; "> James Hughes, Mrs. Bernard glas, N.B. i manse committee. Mrs, Mur 4,. McQuaid, Mrs. Elmer MacDon- | dock MacSween; flower com *. aid, Philip Hughes and Joseph Mr. and Mrs. Floyd Jay, ac- mittee, Mrs- Austin Senter; lite 7% (McQuaid have returned to their companied by sons Merlin and ae erature and communications 7) homes in -Tracadie after attend- Irwin and Mr. and Mrs. J.P. 'Mrs. Golden Dollar; supply and *»./ } social assistance, Mrs. Frank Crabbe; and Mrs. Ivan ae press reporter, Mrs. ¢ Sentner and organist, Mrs. Fra- nk Crabbe. - CENTRAL BEDEQUE | Arthur Craig is a patient im | the-city hospital, Charlottetown, ing the funeral of Mrs. Emile Hendricken, Pisquid East, left Charron in Lynn, Mass. The late recently for Boston, Mass. They Mrs Charron was the former pian to attend a couple of hoc- Annie Hughes of Tracadie, key games while there. PEI. Alton Bulger, on the staff of Mrs. Floyd Jay was hostess to the Bank of Nova Scotia, Ken- the members of Pi:quid East WI sington, spent the past weekend | recently. Following routine busi- jat his home at West Point. — | ness, a contest was put on by | Mrs. Wallace Birt and won by Mrs. Emmanual Gallant and Mrs. Alton Jay and Mrs. Floyd Mrs. Anthony Gallant recently Jay—drawn by Mrs. Alton Jay, returned home after attending ; P * ae Refreshments were served by |the wedding of Mr. and Mrs. tn mae asa ; the hostess, assisted by Mrs, Ronnia Allen in Hamilton, Ont. nn = ao _ — epg fai b* Harold Jay. Gary Champion of the Bank him a speedy recovery. “ Ss of Commerce, who was transfer- i. : | John Stuart, formerly of Cen- Mr. and Mrs. S.L. Caseley, | ; oa tral e, is a patient in the Kelvin Gr Save “vet red from Saint John, N.B., to| s = cpa a tra Bedeque, a the vin ‘ove, ha urned 'Nassau, Bahamas, left by air | ee A *3 att N arn Manor Home in home after spending»a few days | after spending a day with mem- | visiting their son and daughter- bers of his family at Kensington in-law, Rev. L.G. and Mrs, |and Summerside. IODE-PRESENTS PAINTING ! | . lant, Oromocto, N.B., and toma | An original off painting by ed by Art Director Moncrieff jhave recently rented a house ia Georgie Reid Barton was pre- Williamson from a one man nr where they will spend sented yesterday, December 9 show given by the artist se- the winter months. at 4 p.m, to the Confedera- vera] months ago. Shown mer oak She, Sikead a Ernest Rogerson, formerly of | Victoria, left on Saturday for. (Sudbury, Ont., where he has ac- cepted a position in the Nickel | Mine. SS ‘HOUSEHOLD HINTS Quick and easy chip dip: mash a couple of tablespoons (By Tracy Adrian) | of blue cheese, blend in half e pint of sour cream, a drop of soy sauce, a dash of onion pow- der and it's ready. HEATHER SEPARATES with a Peter Pan collar. Com- pleting the outfit is a plaid heather action skirt tailored with a kicky centre pleat and an angled pocket tabbed at a slant. Grade schoolers can reap a harvest of heather for the coming Christmas holidays in a new separates set that adds up to real fashion fun. The solid-colored heather wool tion Centre Gallery at a short b |Amherst, N.S by | cardigan is worn over a con- e the : above (from the left) are , N.S., accompanied » Tandacape in oll eotited “Sand Wanda Wyatt, provincial pre: IMrs.” Richard” Caston, ‘Torooia | trasting cotton tuck-ja- blouse Dunes” was personally select- sident of the IODE, of Sum- Mrs. Daniel Hichox, analani * a diplomatic obligation, in st Mr. and Mrs. Eric Adams and | WOMEN’S ORGANIZATIONS z MARY HAWORTH Mitchell of Saint John, N. B., . : Summerfield CWL Reports picture on behalf of Confeder- | ation Building Trust. A recep _ tion followed the presentation. family .herarchy, was to bear | * : scnaatlie: it tin aaah | The Guardian, Charlottetown, Sat., Dec. 11, 1965. 7 jrere weekend visitors ‘with te H. BENNETT CARR ent generations’ sturdy assum- | Insurance Counselling oa ° a John W. Adams, Elmsdale. istrict Supervisor Mother Insists Children bel em = guaentles ELLEN’S DIARY Mrs. James Currie, Elmsdale, | On Catechetical Program harlointown. PE “'° Bit now, have you youth- | : we | | has returned home from a visit | Phone 4-8717 - 4-5435 Should Be Treated Alike — Dear Mary. Haworth I am in; -eome disagreement with your answer to ES, the mother of two sons, one brain-damaged, whose problem is her own mother’s fa- voritism towards the normal child. In effect, you charge ES with being officiously managerial in the family relationships between the. generations. You indicate that special preferences are to be expected in any case, and should be taken in stride and considerately counterbalanced, by providing special notice for all from other sources. We too, have a retarded child, our second, John, 6. We find the caretaking difficulties increase as he gets older, on the score of trying to treat all the children alike. This point*was emphasiz- ed to us by psychologists: AH the children should be treated as nearly alike as possible, for the we'fare of each. We also. have the problem of grandmother favoritism. One grandmother definitely prefers our firstborn, Ellen, 8, which j As the mother of one, I' can tel you that the biggest prob- lem I face is our other chil- dren’s resentment of the atten- tion..showered on the handicap- ped boy, which, to their way of thinking, he does nothing to merit. Meanwhile, grandparent, and sometimes husbands, ‘‘diag- nose’ the problem by stating simply that there's nothing wrong with the handicapped child that proper training couldn't overcome! We mothers wouldn't be hu- man if we didn’t resent our plight. And psychoanalytid prob- ing of our emotions isn’t the way to harmony. Institutional care for the child would be the an- swer. But it is out of reach, fi- nancially, of most of us:—G.R. Dear Correspondents: Time | was when the youthful intermed- iate generation of parents sub- scribed to the theory that their wasn't a problem until John rea- lized it.The other grandmother favors John. Grandmothers are very spec- fa] persons to children., Our chil- | dren see their two grandmothers several times a week, but. still each visit is a special event. We finally had to put our foot down on the favoritism. We had some trouble bringing my moth- er around, but now she cooper- | ates. ot While I was and am. grateful for the relief, so to speak, of the other grandmother’s special de- votion to John, nevertheless I've had to «show her the unfairness of. giving all her time to him. Both grandmothers still have their favorites, but have learn- ed to manage in such a way that itin't obvious. I can’t see any good in favor- {tism for one child over another by anyone closely related to the family. I feel it would do consid- erable harm in the long run to the child who feels rejected- Sincerely, V.F. Dear Mary Haworth: Doubt- less you are flooded with; mail in reply to your surprising comment to ES, concerning her problems with her exceptional child-and--her- mother’s marked preference for his normal younger brother. My guess is that ‘any letters praising your stand ~ will come from doting grandmothers, or from persons who've never had a handicapped child. ‘Moncton Couple Observes 25th Wedding Anniversary The home of Mr. and Mrs. Ce- dric Campbell Cape Traverse, tt '| _P.E.1was-the-seene-of-a-happy- gathering recently in honor of Mr. and Mrs. Richard Carver of Moncton, N B. who observ- ed their 25th wedding anniver- sary. tend their geod wishes. The table was centered with a decorated two tiered anniver- sary cake topped with anniver- sary symbols arid flanked with tall white candles. It was cut by the guests of honor. ~ Mrs. Carver was the former Dora Lord of Cape Travérse, P.E.I. and the couple were mar- | Mr. ried by Rev. Barker of Bedeque at the home of her parents Mr. and Mrs. Walter Lord. The couple were escorted to the seat of honor by Mrs. David Murphy and Gordon Garland: Mr. E. C. Bell was master of ceremonies for the evening. Aa address was read by D. Mur- phy while Mr. Cedric Camp- bell and Mrs. Gordon Garland made a_ special presentation from the Lord family. er silver gifts . were | presented/ by ‘Mrs, Cyril Wheatley and Mrs. Frank MacWilliams also made a presentation. Appreciation and was expressed by Mr. and Mrs. Carver for t kindness of all; “ful intermediate parents under- | aking tal he wransrerens| HoOOy Memories Remain grandchildren. And to that I say: Come off it. What are you | trying to do, translate fiesh-and- | blood grandparents into mech- | As The Year Is Ending | More than 50 relatives) and friends assembled to ex-| anical robots, geared to make least “trouble” for you? ea Even supposing you juce the grandparents to wear a false face of impartiality, over- all, for the sake of peace, afleg- ed, you don’t think for a minute that the camouflage fools the kids, do you? They still know who the favorite is, even though tby their grousing and griping, they've managed to umhorse him, . somewhat) Have you ever stopped to con- Rider that God Himself has fa- vorite persons, so the Bible tells jus? Among others, the apostle |John, for example.—M.H- (Mary Haworth counsels | through her column, not by mail or personal interview. Write her in care of The Guardian. ber days wing toward it, we pre- pare for the Festival of Christ- mas, now nearing. Its anticipa- tion, its significence, its charm, and its plannings, enter now in- to our daily round. There is an increasingly warm feeling at heart. Now for a time. all too brief surely, yet to make a bright weaving in the fabric of the year, we see the spirit of love being made manifest. Now thought:,-that in our ‘too- busy lives have been, before this, more or less suspended. de mand some reflection. Now we think not so much of ourselves as of others. Christmas nears. | A new kindliness dwells in our | hearts. “It won’t be long now before Christmas comes” we overheard Peter say today to Alex, well pleased to have it so. And with its coming, another year draws to aclose. We do not rejoice in its aging. It is as [though we are aware of the de- jparture from. our surroundings lor island of some proven good friend. The memories however Ri fecal lwil remain. We shall review eee pthegensib re ithem, take them out of our trea- came. hour sometimes do with the little me- mentos we have saved through EAST BALTIC | the years: a bit of ribbon, a Lyman Rose, Lakeville, un- faded four-leaf clover, a pebble or other souvenir from some distant excursion and _ scene, | ‘ happy reminders of days and \Somnak Chacldietine, PEL times bygone. : Roy Robertson returned to his home in Red Point, having beeen a patient in the P.E.I. Hospital So we shall recall items of the year, we have loved. We shall receiving treatment for a back ailment... see the sparkling over-all white Alfred Stubbert, Souris; is a of the winter-spread fields, hear patient in the Souris Hospital. : of friends the blithe tinkle of the spring Stubbert’s host streamlets, which at Alderlea wish him a speedy recovery. More and more as the Decem- jwild strawberries ruby- red a- to quite a sum,” his thoughts mid the ferns of.a dell. And the | sweet- sad of the change which | sets the autumn colors sweep- | ing in flood over the length and | breadth of the farmlands. | We will remember the bright rippling notes of a ‘goldfinch, the sound of young voices at play.. the fall of.the familiar footsteps, the face of some lov- ed one and friend. Sweep of some morning’s break we have especially enjoyed, will come back to us, the magic and glory of a day going to rest-slipping off into the shadows which set in pretty relief the trees on the hills. The wash of a tide, a sun- dappled woods’ path-- there me- mories too we shall carry with us on into the new year’s ways. Meanwhile, during the time. leading up to it, we shall holi- day. But not without first ex- pressing thanks on behalf of the Faivily for so much, so many kindnesses received throughout this year which now nears its close. So from all of us, from James, the head of his line, down to Cathy Ann, the youngest of the name, we once more in ithe—turn-of —Time—send—out—to}-— each and all who read these words, the same old wish, warm and sincere: A Merry Christ- mas and a Happy New Year! “We wish you the joy of Christ- mas, The spirit’s sweet repose, | We wish you the peace of Christ- mas To mark the year’s close: with her son, Lorne, who has been transferred to the Bank of | Mrs. Everett and Mrs. Earl|ter recently Nova Scotia in Mone ton, N.B. ; things they want would amount raced on. “Suppose I spent one- third for these Christmas gifts and set aside the remaining two- thirds in a special bank-account toward paying the experises of a two-week motor vacation trip for us all next summer. I'll give the kids a set of Mobil Travel Guides for Christmas to. read, and to each child a Christmas letter telling about the trip, and appointing each one to carry out an important part.’ Half dreaming, half awake, he imagined the children get- ting ready to start. The family received the “dream gift’ with delight. The oon was carried out the follow- g Summer; and. when they re- turned, the children were ‘al- ready talking about ‘‘next year’s motor trip’’ and what part of the country they would visit! MONDAY DINNER Grapefruit Juicé —Véal Chops (any cut) Baked with Spaghetti in Tomato .Sauce— Buttered Chopped Kale with Diced Cook- ed Celery— Pineapple- Banana Clow were hostesses for the De- cember meeting of St. James, Summerfield Parish Coun cil, CWL. In the absence of the pre- sident, the meeting was chaired received from |Mrs. Reginald Holman now liv- ing in Florida who was one of lthe organizers of the guild in Kensington. ‘ ' Money was voted for apples by Mrs. Reginald Smith, vic e-|for the Christmas party for. the president..A report was given of Sunday School children. the meeting held at Mt. St.| The next meeting will be held (Mary’s in connection with the |in the church vestry after the catechetical. program. This was week of prayer service in the attended by Rev. Basil Croken, |Anglican Church. spiritual director Mrs. St. Clair| Gifts were exchanged by the Croken, spiritual convener and | members. : Mrs. Joseph Croken, education pinceTOWN ROAD UCW convener. , The social action programs Mrs. Preston Sentner was de- | had been received and it was |VOtional leader at the annual decided to study these in con-| meeting of the Princetown Road junction with the constitution |U@W which was held recently on the church. jin the Church. The devotional The January meeting will be |Period was a Candle lighting devoted to report forms, and /Service and the leader was as- conveners were reminded to sted by Mirs. Beaumont New- bring their papers. At this meet-| port, Mrs. Alice MacNeill, Mrs. ing subscriptions to the Canad-|Golden Dollar and Mrs. Lester ian league will be received by |Johnston. The organist was Mrs , Mrs. Everett | Frank Crabbe. aoe Crary e Roll call was responded to by FV PPCCOPOOSSCO SOOO OO VOSS SOO OOO Altar committ ee for next mon- | members repeating verse of th will be Mrs. Ambrose Curley scripture containing word ‘‘Jud- apd Mrs. George Cyoken. Plans |ement’’... Minutes and reports were made to d orate the|were given, with Mrs. Omar ;, and Mrs, | MacNeill, the treasurer, report- ing a successful year- It was decided to remember shut-ins at Christmas. sist the committee.’ Money was Compote—Coffee,: Tea, Mitk, _ Measurements Jevel; recipes for 6 VEAL CHOPS WITH SPAGHETTI IN TOMATO SAUCE 6 good-sized. veal chops (any cut) 12” thick 1 tsp. seasoned salt 1 tbsp. vegetable oil 2 (1 Ib.) cans spaghetti in toma- to sauce - We wish you the hope of Christ- | mas, No og oe | To cheer you on your way, And a heart of faith and glad- | ness, : | To face each coming day!” | Until the New Year--Diary— ever point a course down hill to the stream; the flowerings of summer past will come to mind, Congratulations to. Mr. and.,e scent of hay new- mown, Mrs. Arnold Bruce, Cherry Val- ley, who, on December 4 cele- brated their 25th wedding anni- versary. Mr. Bruce is a former resident of Kingsboro. Mr. and Mrs. Richard Ching returned from their honeymoon in South Carolina and will take up residence at Basin Head where Mr. Ching is a prosperous farmer and a large potato grow- er and Mrs. Ching teaches échool at East Baltic. Congratul- ations are heartily extended to this popular young couple. Francis Lappiere, Black Pond, The children had been making out lists of what they “wanted for Christmas.~ Late that eve- ning, when Dad was alone, he read them over. ‘‘Rather expen- sive,” he mused, “perhaps I ‘can think up something that ‘wishes IDA BAILEY ALLEN | ‘Veal Chops, Spaghetti -—Dreamy Combination Good-_night.... | would be less expensive yet wor- thwhile for all of them and that Mom and I could share.’’ FAVORITE SNACK He settled down with his fa- vorite late evening snack sand- wich and a cup of hot tea at a small table, next to his favorite chair. ‘ “Perhaps, I'll find a Christmas idea in one of these,’’ he thought, opening one of the seven books j}min. Remove from oven. Un- |cheese; return to oven 10 min. to 1 tsp. instant onion % tsp. Tabasco | \% c. broth 3 tbsp. cheese : Rub chops all over with sea- soned salt. In large skillet that "Tho! , re a satisfac- | - rant rarneses Romper cart wt| WINTER Next meeting to be held at the~home~ of” Mrs: Ivan Senter, when roll call is to be answer- voted for chirch expenses. Next meeting=wilt-be-held-at the home of Mrs, Everett Reeves. Refreshments were \ed by a verse of scripture con- oe — GUED [es word aa. — . MARK votion leader . A pot luck supper preceded | Frank Crabbe, and food com- the December meeting of St. | mittee, Mrs. Ivan Senter. Mrs. Mark's Angiican Church guild | Golden Dollar and Mrs. Preston held in the church rine ra Senter. : sington on Tuesday . ' i president, Mrs. David L. Mclm- |, Pecisiitn iy the members for nis presided and led in the open- | 4?! ing devotions. | The treasurer, Mrs. William | nual pantry sale and bazaar. can go- to-table, heat oil; add chops in one layer; saute until Mrs. J.G. Townsend read a let- COMFORT browned, Add spaghetti in toma- to sauce. instant onion, Tabasco-| and broth. Cover. Simmer %0 cover; dust over the Parmesan brown. . Note: For a Continental touch, season veal chops in tom- jato sauce further with I tsp. an- \chovy paste. Dad Explains His Favorite Sandwich te the Chef “First I spread a big piece of lightly- toasted French bread on | one side with chopped egg salad seasoned with a little table-mus- tard. Then I put on a slice of icooked ham. Over this goes a slice of Swiss cheese. Then com- es a layer of thin-sliced tomato, jand a sprinkle of salt and pepper. On top, I put a thin /SCHURMANS | FUEL | AFTER 34 YEARS OF CON-| Kensington, P.E.I. aeons MPROVEMENT ONLY MIX-O HAS SUC Phone Kensington | CEEDED IN PRODUCING A FULL STRENGT IBLEACH WITHOUT THE DISAGREEABLE ODOUR JPOP Pm SCCee + O66SOS8 May We Accommodate your When you are in Halifax the modern comfortable. centraliv located STERLING HOTEL is the place to stayi 06666666 FOSOOeos@ SSOOOSESSE SSS SOOO OOO A THOUGHT “Ray Stewart Crockett & Storey of Every suc- cessful busi- ness is based upon public . confide nee } and good ' will. These things can- things cannot be bought. They must be Ray Stewart: ‘earned’. The public knows that cer- tain stores are recognized as “reputable’’ and. others are not And what is the secret in- gredient of this important thing which every store wants .—a good reputation? It is many things. It is reflected in everything the owner and his employees do in their business dealings and even in their civic and social activ- ities. ‘ It is the way the phone is answered. It is created by-the type -of -advertising--a~-firm does; by the service given to customers; by the manner | complaints are handled; by the courteous and helpful at- tention given to customers by everyone from the _ sales people to the delivery men; by those little things ‘‘ahove and: beyond the call of duty” which every customer re- members - and . every good AT CHRISTMAS TIME : A ‘ wor le restaurants. It even tells how lh to save money while traveling. It | — ave my order for your favorite sandwich. Et yoila!?’ in a travel guide set. “I under |siice of lean bacon. Then grill in", F | ; : THIS IS WHY EVERY BOT- 267-3130 | business man tries to do. on P negara god ee a ee UM Tie BEARS THE INSCRIP- And, of course, it is the big ered_in the seven areas, the ho- et be ee ee Summerside Phone bs ae . oa istagiey. “ee i : lerisp. : 5 air prices, and integrity. You tel and motel'rates and availab- «ah! tres bien, Monsieur, you | QUALITY ANALYSED | 436-9400 just can’t beat this- eombin- \ , 7 * «The Ladies’ A Georgetown branch yal Canadian Legion recantie to visht: are of the CHEQUE PRESENTED TO LEGION ~ a cheque for $75 to president of the branch; Har- the presented the Ro- the branch Shown from left Alex Arsenault. ey Yorston, secretary: . Waller Maclean norasident ef oe cellus Gotell, secretary. - Auxiliary and Mrs. Mar- | sure would be fun if the wife and | {I could take the kids in the sta- - |tion wagon on a vacation motor trip so they could get acquaint- ed with our great country. Wish I could afford it.” He looked over the children’s Call ‘us for programs, club bulletins, busi- » Mess letterheads. All work guaranteed. i | GUARDIAN - PATRIOT CENTRAL © PRINTERY Phone, 4-8506 Christmas gift lists again ‘‘The | Wh | = living room ( nee Address ae ey FREE Colour Catalogue Just mail this coupon to - House of Braemore, 4646 Dufferin St., Downsview, Ontario, WM Sook ckeuescececsycssceiescaal eet ereesee PAP OC eT OOR Hee ESSE Ee eEeeeeSecs Coens eee eee snisteiapetcre MPiitveies ana ianind