HART IAWOI'lI'I Ill: Lad Dismays His Parents By Being Disagreeable Critic DEAR MARY HAWORTH: Our Page 10 The Guardian Wed., Dec. 7, 1955 4 . . tyounger son Sid. 24. is causing us mm! ' quite a bit of worry. We managed 'j-.-r- . to send him to an out-of-state col- lego where he did excellent work "For Christmas Eating and found time for fraternity life. football. etc. We had a nice family relation- ship and he was always proud to -- w- n-rm :3;':?.:":..".: :2 3:: :.i:.:':d:...i'":: were cooperative and lent uim the car when he needed it. We didn't mind th sacrifice as he was so appreciative, always doing some little favor for us. l After graduation. he was called , linto the Army. it was a drastic change, difficult for him. but he was able to adjust - and as he was stationed nearby at first. he could get home often. Later he was sent out West. where he met I a girl whom he seems to like very much. I think he would like to marry. but hesitates as he has another year in the Army FAMILY MOVE , Rcccntly hc has been returned to a nearby camp and we find him a completely changed person. llc naizgcd us until we were forced to move from our comfortable apartment for his sake. even at great inconvenience to ourselves. But that didn't solve the problem. tie is still surly. moody and criti- ;cal when home: and I am begin- :ning to wonder how we ever man- ) day cookies. in fanciful shapes, W. ”'lmaKiM”nn and P. l i.nc' l wraps them attractively for Ch- "Rd '0 "V9 ""5 l0nE' Sid even sat and sneered-ignor- transforms good dough into holi- l ristmas. . iinz our request for help-when we "Nothing." I told the Chef. "but roll to 1-16" thickness on a lightly.C8lTlPd heavy parcels from the no.mng' Md! me" to fesme floured board or cloth. car. Should we tell him to stay . . . . Si, in, k u . , 3 k, away from home until he is able Christmos eating than cookies in 7 mianliemwll hgflovlgnvclzooelgeglarq m ".93. us decently? or shomd . - e - em . 21'lS'i'ec?..Zl5E' -ilfly f.."l1'L'"t'J.'l3 0' ""'” Wl-V b""""?da CW Etfllliktfl i'3,'.ll ” f3””'"' ”" gifts, especially if packed in ntiggeiidwgzgr fcr(::;ft?'C"?on?!r adirigg His girl came lg town for I. plastic container through which bunk Wm, unbeam; egg 'whne' short visit and we find her to be? their interestinl shapes and decor- heron baking and decorate Wm. I IOVCIY PEFSOIL I know they are ntions show. And it's not a minute thud mm or colored "gar "””'h in 10V? Ind BIIXIDUE '0 too soon to make them. either E-pn Bum”. In . mixing ma”'y' Perhal" lt '”9"'l'-'5 Sid "lit Ln-I um mwg Chet... bowii combine W-cg sugary B tsp. he has another year in the Army .. l and can't k i ed't l , But how about planning he din- ground mum md W up. around Em why hritsiactemiginnlin E31-eu:?allAll H to W” '”m- M'"'3'"97" he "km cinnamon Andra c it stickl butter 1 - - "After all the family can't live on wmned &o mom tiem nyf V" always Md ' 5'” family .. I perature. relationship in the past. Pl a d- '”H"i Gradually stir in IV. c.- li-eady- vise us. 2 s'r,.,.y, rouoitiiovrs nmmsn gltgdhei-rlgghegnfgow. Ch lulhltalr. IN MID-CRISIS? 0 s C "9" W ' 8 Y DEAR E..I.: It sounds in if Sid Tomato Juice Cel floured board or cloth- Shape with i. just nrmng at the long pm” 3 " round cookie cutter. ace on an ungreased cookie isheet. Bake 4 to 6 min. in a hot oven. 400 deg. F.. or u til the edges are slightly brown . Cool. Then put 2 cookies together. sandwich fashion. with a thin lay- er of current jelly. Frost the tops with plain confectioner's sugar- and-water icing. Decorate with bits of red candied cherries and green citi-on. Makes 24. To shape in a cookie press. make p double the quantity and do not chill i the dough- Rollt Loin of Por Rout Sweet Potatoes Hot Broccoli Vinaigrette Lemon-Filled Cake Coffee Tea Milk "Thin dinner will prove especi- ally tasty because the richness of the pork roast is balanced by the tart broccoli vinaigrette and the tang of the lemon-filled cake. Now to bake our Christmas Cookies. the kind flavored with pure vanilla extract. packed in lay- orn separated by waxed paper. in tigitly closed containers. Keep soil. but do not freeze if frosted. u;most lctngs tend to crack when frozen. Christmas lift. together 4 e. enriched flour, lisp. double-act- ing. baking powder and 1 tsp. salt. '1” Vi t- Wu" and 1”: e- TRICK OF THE CHEF sugar together until fluffy. Beat in! oggs and IV: tsp. pure vanilla Add chilled pineapple extract. Stir in the flour mixture; sliced orange cup. " stage in his psychological devel- Ollfnent. He seems to be in mid- crisis of delqved adoles nu: - now suffering the distaste for par- tints. and family patterns. that nor- mally fledgling boys usually exper- ience between the ages of 15 and 18. Perhaps the omplete change that overtook him, while stationed otit West, has to do with his get- iting partially weaned-for the first ,time-from erstwhile total emot- ional involvement with, and de- pendency upon. his parents. Chocolate Dipped Cookies: Shapel Um” "'9 Army "Wk him, ""33 empire biscuit dough into thitmbfm". "f reach M fa""ly V.l5,”5' 3”" lengths and bake. Dip the ends intlvisits liotiic. perhaps Sids fnlkst semi-sweet chocolate melted over' . . hot water, then into, or sprinkleispeamngt whmh may have Men Vanilla Cut-Outs: already-sifted ldue to a maternal policy of well ltive sentiment- with.n sesame. segds. tcolored de mean overly pm” co" 95 "V m"'” "" 5' al care of him. And when this ar- h c v C 9 juice entertain c. e rt a i n resentments iaizainst authority (including. his parents'i that he hadn't admitted. to tuii.st'ousn(-ss before. I 'E'iHtNon noss REACTION i Habttually dominated persons us- Give A Silk Petticoat! ually have to make p transfer of in these sliiii lines that make them dependency feelings from one ''im-. 3 charming holiday gift item portant" sustaining relationship to There are allover floral prints that another b9l0l'9 UICY 0311 kl "Wm" look so new. as well as smaller solves feel or reveal any marked prim patterns with dgep gm-g nnfriendliness or criticism as re- borders at the hem. A sitlc pit-at cards the previous set-uiz. And it or slit makes for ease in iii-iainn. "l3.V be that Still. Felssllfed b.V I now To i-iANm,1: lscnsc of mutuality with his sweet- M if has been some rm... ...,...Ulit-zit-t. now finds courage to "fight" you actually wore real silk and ill" l3mllY- Alld- in letting 0" for so many of us that is illl' t'.lxP Slcillll ”lU5- maylm he i5 5150 Vents Fashion is on the gold stand- ard this year. That goes for lingerie u"well so lovely afternoon things. Vyith so many gifts to buy for . the family and the house. some of us will settle for one of those silk sheath petticoats. slim as a reed. fashioned of silk print. in tur- quoise with gold. or gold with bright blue or vivid green. or one we liked in rich red with exquiste Enid and Mack Prim. 1-hg mum” tlicn lci's rcvicw thc VIII) ilicy llilllllll 8 8095 393! Of T959”-mel" are inspired by luxurious fabrics 5h""'” h” h3"f”"l- '" Ml"-V me-"wmc." "9 ."nco"" (rm-n indie and gm, pemcoais are Suds -lllftm in liikcuziriit sllJlll- Kriuiisl,V mnfuses With l3mlllv"b0Gr pl-any emugh in wear ,5 in. with suds. rinsc in liikcwariii tat:-r. Knit: g naming aver "mm. They .N.r.pRoll a silk garnicnt in a liatli l" "HWY gW0Fd5- m3ybF Md l3 gamiy are 8 dmmauc change imm towel both in lilol out timid-ire li;ninL' Lzrowlllg P3m5-.dl"'lnEI P91” "W usual Slips M MCDL and U, kpon ;, ......,,tv .4”... (M. ltlfl oi mounting weanness. caused Sim-9 tho fashion um. gap”; . ironinz A w.'irm iron. of mitrsc. l” """l3"ilC f4'l-'5'-l'3u0" -335 the ll:tll)' monotony of Army drill. lncitlcntally, silk irons so tit-.it.1i. llhalcvcr the inside story. how- flly smooth and ltioks Kt! l....iV "l('l. lhc family was foolish to aitcr the Job that Ullillltttts arc wiii "l”"l1-'l' "5 amid? 3' 8793i lnclmf M Ml”. it-iiiciitc. in an effort to please M,” of liiiii Wlicn a lad 24 doesnt like his p:trciits' mode of life. he ought to I'slt'llIllSll a place of his own; slim ctiiirsc. pctticoats follow the '5 llNlPIl than 8 hot mic some tiny and ll('W to the line. Wcll. tht-rc's nothing slimmcr titan. sicltc silk. ycl it doesn't ('lll1i1 in ciihcr vcri hot or very cold vi'calh- "””'l mind that llllllt llll or. as smnc syiitliotics used for '('"9'”'”" lll'('llf'll inf this llmz,-rm ,i., llI).lIl')' Iiiiizcric THEY'lHi WASliA iI.F. Tliq-it llI'(illT ii0l'llt'tI'llK air pcr and wlmhlc Daren” Wm so ad- I ' - ' - ' iiw liiiii Your mistake is in trying mitt unshnhlr. and tlicrt-it-rv inst in "c:ii'n" Stirs approval nowadays. ins pi';it'-lit-til as aiiyihiiig you ttlllllfl Wm-, W. lmmh with ummmums; min Not that you ll foot a hit. hm (1,, am up 0” your faces, and it H In xi-ititliiiii iiall fiiiislics planted in one lazy muscles. and since those are the least disturbed spots. the fat were his whole life. figuratively ation. if F ELLEN'S "let's ltep inside a minute and s talk to the wife. She": somewhere sboiit- -likely in a rocking chair by the fire," James chuckled to the visiting farmer who came with him indoors" this afternoon. And there we were! Knitting two. purling one, in the round: we . this time on a cuff of one of the pair ofygray mittens which in to help it! bring the wood with more comfort to the box. Less effort from the knitter this requires. than that which must go to the Sunday socks we are mak- ing for James. Routine this it - no counting and etching. Opportun- chair. Not one has over said in of it in a larni-paper that when grandmother in the old rockr for her knitting or her evening she rocked away may of stone and troubles that today. Young people give amused look when I all then he quotes the doctor's words. say they haven't got time for ting in a rocking chair. I are deluding themselves." DIARY l Byanlnhndlmsnofawllo aid. "is if they own a 3 "Hit belief," The ohurv Egg E .i s-iitiiih-a ities it affords to look out on the work. and day about. A quiet day weather changing over to colder settings. . - gracious she is as she smiles over the still valley of the millstream, - bringing a sweet peace over all. she is pale and remote, the moon tends to the earth her stillness, making unreal all turmoil and dis- haps it would be a wonderful thing if as in Italy, Spain, Latin Amer- ica and other countries we brought back the 'slesta' period - a short sleep after the midday inaal." "You'd never accumulate a an,- 000 home and a cabin at the lake doing that", one of my doubtful friends told me. He may be right. But this I know: neither would you lbe as likely to drop dead from a 'heart attack or wind up in a state was. mild and pretty with the And the moon now- how high but or as some one has said. "though i 38-. oil ' . YULE CUSTOM cord and giving reality to harmony X and peace." "You'll have to be like old Mr. .. .who lived in our district- he dead and gone these years now, the visitor smiled. "He didn't be- lieve in having as he called them COMING our PARTY Ottawa's plush Chateau Laurier these happy girls made lhei illui. at the annual Garrison Ball. flanked by a mgman guard of hang 9"" or to curtsy before Governor-Gcn- Wendy Elizabeth Ferguson, eral Massey. tCP Photo) cook? CORNER otel was a rainbow whirl of bit- wing evening gowns and be-med alled military and formal dress asted, T ' tti1:'iT1v "Tins For Slim Pntuids are so contrary! Invar- -'i.cft to right, Helene Mantha. s Measurements By lda Jean Kain tone is increased, Think of mu.-zclcl ltone as elasticity and of flabby picious spots, largely around thep middle measurement. On a diet.;pi ou the figurc and help you look triml and slim. More important. you will have an enhanced fedling of olive- ness and well-being T nwcvcr. the fat doesn't readily, OIIIP off the spots it went on! That axing siiiiatlnn can only be ex- wny. . .fai pads the tings. The solution is exercise. and that , inches. and while that isn”t synon-1 TDYOUS Wllh ltedllclntl ll'l S9015. ill? slimming the middle measurement. ffect is streamlining. hwy they V”! a" the mo" cm” muscles as lacking this tightening quality. From that it is easy to cture how flabby muscles bulk t and spread. Toned muscles hug' The role of exercise in figure fix- Here is a single exercise for Position: Lying on left side. hood 5l'l0"llll('3lly- he” l5 ill? l'Xl)l3"' on folded arm. legs straight down. With exercise. circulation ies are below your normal needs.- llowevcr. calorie burning is an. all-nvcr proposition, not a localiz- ed proccss. As you exercise. cal- ories are expended. but since nat- ure rincsn't draw the needed fuel. just from the spot you're workingi on. exercise is not strictly reduc-i ing in spots -- but is beautifully' sliiiiniiiitz. Now the strcamlining part . . . . .. thruiicli spcciric exercise, musclel Will? lat C9”5 3"? l"'0k9" Have palm of right hand on floor l down with exercise and made more ; for hm”. readily available for use. specific Movement. First pull up and in t'm latcd in a particular area aildlsnugly iwnh middle muscles and 5 l U ; gmainta n this pull as right knee ifl';i?.'"ti'”n-&iief"ine”ii;,.;lEilttt'2i l?2if...'”'wilf-'.l5 532' lliiaihiailfiliiisliilexefl””Sk;y1fWerd,;hes'- Reveal to of satisfactory companionship t..tth'i;.i1, be" ready to be used for engltijven ;I'i':f5S'lin?n':l' aid: Ex:;;"v:a'r':,' 3 ':"l' perhaps he also began mlcm-V " l"'"Vld9d WU" dim-V calm" swing. Like this -- flex knee, shoot He asked, leg straight down. then swing vig- orously toward rear and hold. Change sides and rcpt-at move ment. Words Oi The Wise He proves nothing with proves too much. -ll.:itin Proverb) See flue NE W 1956 o. T henuiug dinca to change. for all thicknesses of BLENDER FREE-ARM mending and dnrning. nitsms can come TRUE! Give Her FURS for Christmas triers ltd. IIIII IECCIII 337:" practit-iii wt-:-riiig tiiic. liowcvcr if or H ,, , 1 f thct'c'.- any ciisy viny in imit”.(. n.falirics. rcnicnilicr that rtiiiizli lt'x- ('llt)..,l.),l";&n:(?3T1:;:nscls "".oukI; it,s so for-ling nf liixiii'y. it is with fincllUl'l'5 500?" "1 dull and hl1'llll ll0l0l'S hcr column not bv mail or person- silk linsicric. while. smooth siirfat-cs rcilccl light .11 into.-.-,m.', w.-ifc he, in can; of sim Several slylcs arc liciiig slitiwn and intensify colors this newspaper P m i " " " ""' dz - 5--v 7- Ila - l operate C C I complewiy automatic it makes other sewing machines seem old-fashioned i A clever. compact portable that does straight, nig-zng i and embroidery stitches completely automati cally. NO AUTOMATIC TENSION CONTROL ndjtliil ' material and thread la is perfectly shaped only Made in Switzerland - covered by lifetime guarantee. Oallyourniccll-IIlMNADanlr H a frat homo dsnionslndaon Icahn-0 O Clown is. r de-IS hirley Slatihrook and Joan Mor- risey walked tiown a red carpet l l l ,.Moeliinos (Canada) limited vk Avo., Montreal. Canada ii. I. iioi.iiiiiTi.rn. e '1 l l l HEALTH COOKIES ing is to reshape. So. if you are ill cup brown sugar overweight and out of shape. yo need both diet and exercise. If your brinzs up the query as to whether weight is normal. hut your figure or not exercise is reduciniz in spots. has gone soft. arotind the edges. EXPFNSP hell?! i0 Slim 0” bllllllllg exercise is the slimming measure. u 1 cup butter tsp. soda in H cup hot water cup pastry flour cup whole wheat flour t-up cooking hrnn Pinch of salt Mix all together. roll out not too, liln. cut in oblonr shape. Bake in iiitlcrziic over 350 ting. for Ill to Ill miiiuics. lirmixzh Arizona. noticed the dry lusty appearance of the country. Stranger-"Doesn't it ever rain licrc"" ' J Native -- "Why say. friend. ..;i g tlt('f'c's frogs in this town over lit - years old that havcnit learned to . swim yet-" N,-; 5 A MORNING SMILE A stranger. while travelling Ninh Collected by (Mother of 5) One would think '" - ' that the coming of a sixth child would hardly be I novclty or cause for complete do- lirium. Quite the contrary. writes the fathcr. "We had almost for- gotten what a wonderful thing it is to have s new baby in the house. it's a cozy, warm feeling. with all of its newly drawn to ther. Three full-fledged Davy (Franc kctts and two future brides (who are natu- rally spirited) are quiet with awe and enchantment. Lots of starry- eycd pccking into the crib-and of- fcrs of help we havcnlt heard in I long time. in short. it's a hap event. and we do feel fortunnln. O O 0 Now habits grow fast and need I good supply. of body-building yo teins surprisingly soon. That's why many doctors rec- ommend meat at the same time fruit and cereals are introduced. Gerber Strained Meats are protein rich, savory and snliooth-textured. Made from juicy, sec-cted cuts, they' ' I cesscd to remove :1eimut,e:ilt'. and him for extra-easy digti . All 6 varieties are solid meat. lust enoutth broth to enhance luv: and consistency. . Tell it to this column. Many ofib anecdotes and helpful him: In & OIO column from no In you. if any yotiydmlt share. bag makes good baby's soiled-clothes. easier. prevents odon wash hampe . g Cold iviino.of odd w -building HQ 1 Strained E oils are video (and dads) Ilka MW M D send tit: Iorneat Box 68, Toronto 18, Ollntbt I O C III "I A luau. inexpensive plan: nt:i'.'.'?"t..'lit.'9 tsoft seats' in his kitchen- not even a sofa. It encouraged laziness. he said. A wooden bench, a few chairs and the woodbox”-I can mind when I was a slip of a lad, at a dance there after a hooking frolic, sitting on that old woodbox with I girl on my knee. She was I pretty one and I was quite taken up with her," he chuckled boyishly at the memory, "all the same. I was glad when we could get it turn on the floor. Quite sharp those edges were he smiled". And we too smiled recalling an opinion of a psychiatrist we had recently read. "One of the first questions I ask my patients," bet '5 tits 4 of nervous collapse at forty." It is we can affirm a nice place it-in a cushioned and comfort- " able old rocking chair. by the fire with a book; with James close by in the armchair at his reading. land the peace of a fall night like 'this at the windows- Until tomorrow ---- Diary---Good Night. . Relieve Canada from Ukralnia. Specials l Lingerie SlINTEli'S LAllIES' WEAR iiiiiiuiiniii iiuuiasit or Pltllis evergbodti with & million wins! 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