The program convened by In Aubrey Found was a ladle Play entitled "Especially loi . which was entertaining. m”i'5..5.;..?.li'. i2Li.i.?.'.1'i..."'&- -an --new by -11- wins to be held in Spring Park Hall closed with the National Anthem. Mrs. Hudson gave a concise re- port on the activities of the flower committee who visited the San. .deepile coats A for 57 Jl-OIL" .741!--'lKf? flmi eiwyi .r"C;5i . 541. Moore 8. McL.od Limited WILD!-Isagg", mm". sen. Iu”'.m Inn”: lets: nu; MOORE 8: LEO Ltd. For this modern active life... WEAR '0. LLITDNI FIIIIOIII. I Soroog fashions your More for ectivs, eewilerteble living. Iandeeu with elholoitic beck gives you perfect 50. Sites: 30-0 34.00. i Other soylgg, from 818. Serene WC with the leases also-cross lune slim as to crisis gdtoouvuuusanwsosossrooan gi.i.fsii'vi;L.oa Ltd. i were small I never would leave 3 attitude as described is rigidly - sistence that your hunger 'i social camaraderie. on a two- i some basis in marriage. is in- MC-EY H6W.0.ET.".' Wife Li ices Attention it is. and insists I haven't grown up. because I'd like a wee bit of sweetheart attention once in a while. We have two children whom I love dearly, and when than with a baby-sitter. How- aver. now that they are oldg and sleep well, i feel it would be safe to leave them with a so- liable person. But my husband never ask use out to dinner. ortoainovimnrtoanykinsl of social event--unless his bed insists that wives attend some special gsthesing. Then we go anld enjoy the evening immet sey. Don it'll call him) is very at- tractive. quite brilliant. I Rood anti-social; never wants psny and dislikes visiting. Once when we had dinner guests.'he had to get up and leave have an escapist attitude many ways. LITTLE LOVED IN CHILDHOOD lie lies to go his own way and be left alone; and l've tried to help him by letting him go. He likes to vacation by himself and have his own friends. can't figure- him out. He was an orphan, reared by is grandmother. without too much affection given him. I. on the other hand. was deeply loved by my warm-hearted family, and I do love him with all my heart-but this situation makes me terribly depressed at times! if only I could make him un- derstand how I feel-but all to do is cry when I try to talk toi him about it. He loves the children. but not to the point of taking them oni picnics and liolidziys; i do those things all tiym ysclf. lie claims he can't change his emotions. but I feel he should at least try. I feel our lives would he so much happier if only he iiniild give a little. Just how iioiilil you tackle this problem? P.Y. RUINOUS BRAND OF SELFISHNESS DEAR P.Y.: Your husbandls selfish and also on the emotion- ally sick side. He is ruinously selfish. insofar as close relation- ships go. in his overriding in- for fantlle. unwarranted. "wrong" etc.-and that his rejection of hen he says he can't change woeful appeal for under- his emotions. he lies. As long as there is life. there is the poten- tial of spiritual health. available to the human being who con- centrates on embodying it. Anyone can change. from the deadness of pure selfishness to the llveness of compassionate re- gard for other feelings. if he wills to change. if he stays un- changed-with a stone in his bosom. in place of a tender heart-that is his choice. And it is not to be whitewashed as fate-as a misfortune wished on him by circumstances outside his control. CHANGE INHERENT IN HUMAN NATURE The formula for emotional change is. simply. actual change Emotion follows action. psycho- logy teaches. And it works both ways, may I remind your hus- band. The less he considers your feelings. the less sympathy he can produce. As Shakespeare said. adopt a virtue if you have it not. and eventually it will be truly part of your character. As a matter of fact. one of the absolute differences between mankind and the animal king- and other forms of life in earth. is man's equipment -0! eonscloiueess. self - aware- nsu. powcs of discrimination, decision. etc.-for engineering, as it were. desirable changes and lmprov ms in his own behavior. within the span of his little lifetime. In a sense. it was for this he was horn-to carry the evolutionary push. on its highest level (namely. man) a little further ahead. HIS ATTITUDE I8 NIGGARDLY Your husband married you be- cause he was drawn to your warmth. as to a necessity of life. of course. But he recolls from your comparable need. in both a beggarly and a nlggl'd- ly way. He feels he hasn't got warmth to give. and . he'd rather not be bothered. Ec- hoing his guardian grandmoth- er's enmple. he's nsccustorn- ed to making the effort to be fully human. Thus he has be- come emotionally shrlveled. and emotionally sickly-and it is this "lmuianenass" in him that re- ducss you to tears. when you try to communicate with his HOUSEHOLD HINT To prevent clismois gloves hora hardening after wsstiina. add a few drops of olive oil in the water in which they are washed. The on also helps to prxrve the denote. provider. has no temper; and I liusti l TO VISIT CHARLOTTETOWN Dr. liilschmanova, executive (llrt'L'.0r of the Unitarian Service Committee of Canada. is visiting Cliai-lntletown. during her brief Itour of the Illaritimes. Her latest viorlil tour included USC spon- sori-(l priijcris in iourtcccn dif- irrciit (-iiiintries. Dr. llitsclimanova will arrive in Charlottetown on Saturday. September Elsi. in the early eve- l1lllE. and ulll leave again on Tiiesrlay afternoon. She will be 9 staying at the Hotel Charlotte- town. Dr. Hitsclinianova will preach at the evening servire in Trinity United Church on Suuilay.'the 22nd. Al er the scrvicc she will show her latest lilni uii lnilia and Ktirea. The Business and Profession- al Women's Club are sponsoring an open meeting ivliirh Dr. lilt- srhmanova will address on lion- dav evening at the Prince of Wales College Auditorium. deaf-mute soul. How tackle the problem? Well. you might give l)on the ni-nelit of this impartial esti- mate of the situation. And turn self - relianily in society. in search of suitable satisfying companionship with other adults if he continues to disobltge. if H M a r y Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or personal interview. Write to her in care of Charlottetown lascwonassseun. IQ.-'slm.P&sZ Page 8 no Guaridhn.'I'hurs, Sept. 19. 195 llloswritss lahsrdierrtlils week in Nllrd as prominent Vishnu at Algerleaz "His wife? Bowwewomenllketohesraosnr to describe this lady and it mak- es for delightful ieading. Mrs. John G. Dielenbaker. wife of the Prime Minister of Canada. is another lady whom we "like to hear something about." A vis- it from such an illustrious pen- sonsge as a prime minister is made even more interesting when his wife accompanied him.” So on Tuesday waning the lad- ies - and the gentlemen - were all eyes to see the lovely look- ing PM's wife. Mrs. Dlefenbaker was wearing In early ensemble. Her dress was a toupe colored. sheath with medium size matching fee- ther hat and squirrel stole. She seemed! along with her husband to enjoy meeting everyone and there was a very large audience on hand to enjoy meeting the Dlelenbaksrs. HAPPENINGS Mr. Ildlts. d and Mccorinach steamship lines. While in Charlottetown they were the guests of Mr. and Mrs. El- rnsr C. It i -1. Highland Ave. Misses Martha and Enid Mac- Farlane and Ella Gay, Ftizroy st.. Burnmerside. recently return- ed from an enjoyable holiday trip to Boston and other points in the U.I. This full. win student hurrahs for good looks. ease-of-care and handsome styling in clothes Stripes and plaids made with Acrilan. the man-inade fiber which combines with wool: or worsteds, will re- ceive stfaiqht ”A's" for packa- bility, washability. wrinkle-reslr tance and versatility. Recent colleges will be enrolling more and more students than ever be- fore this Fall. Authorities claim the reason is a growing aware ness in the younger generation Guardian. K d. ciao a..muim6ostcotevrpossUs . . . . splendid wW come. green, muscles and eta. h tut, Meslgold Yellow Is boastful; adaptable to oq eetowsde-syesemtsiqas. of the need to set and achieve Stripes And ”PlCllCi-ll'UCi-GS” Rule The Campus Crowd stripes and plaids higher standards of education promise to rule the campus and and living. This year's college set surveys have shown . will be applying this some new awareness to their dress habits. loo. choosing for their campus wardrobes practical. smartly styl- ed and easy-to-care for clothes for every occasion. Co-eds will be "rushing" bright and matching them with a variety of outfits from shorts to sheaths. . double duty reversible plaid skirts with sharp and neat pleats that will last and last; "junip- suits" iii happy plaids. to serve equally well as study and lounge .4.-. ii... .- .w xi-1.... COU RAGE sign when she lost her leg after she was dragged under the wheels of a bus. tier courage paid off and she is shown above ual "coke" dates. College "BMOC" will vote for striped shirts for classes and en mp us living; neat loohlg slacks which laugh at wr&u and are washable (by machine or hand); plaid bathrobes which make a "book-worm" look like a football hero (and hold up through all four college years). So if you're college bound, get pajamas or entertainment garb in the swing. for a brilliant stripe for soroliy got-togethers and cas- and plaid happy Fall semester. Loraine Turner became a sym- bol of courage to many five years .4. PAYS OFF dancing at her own wedding in Toronto after her marriage to Gordon V. Grant. All artificial leg hasn't marred Lorainc's life. CP Wtrephotol. ROCKET EXPLODEB DOVER. NJ. iAPi-An experi- mental rocket engine exploded Monday while being tested at the us. naval air rocket test station at.nearby Lake Denmark. One man was killed and six severely burned. . mam,” m. IIAY-FEVER HAVENS Alaska and Puerto Rico have a distant link--both are said is be free of ragweed. bane of hay- fever sufferers. Colour-lisysil to midi or mix with your favourite liotlmiom colour sdisme, by Doris love: Isl-howl (ensdisii Colour Consultant. Now. you can make your bathroorn decorator perfect. 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