..._v. ‘a. Alla loud. Women’: Editor. Phone 4-3500 E; Glnndhll. Oharlottetown, '.l.‘llurs., Oct, 4, 1932 7 HAPPENINGS —_>‘ Dr and Mrs. Frank MacKin- non entertained at a supper party at their borne on Tuesday gvening for the faculty mem- bers of Prince of Wales College and their wives. The regular meeting of Alpha Chapter Beta Sigma Phi was held on Wednesday evening at the home of Mrs. James Allen. e evening "Painting the Person". Her guests, Mrs. Norman Ste- wart and Mrs. Jack Boomhow- er. gave a very interesting dem- onstration of the use and appli- cation [of modern cosmetics. Refreshments were served by the hostess assisted by Mrs. Ste- wart MacKay and Mrs. D oug MacDon d. Mrs Doug MacDonald was the hostess for a ru s hin g party for new members, held by Alpha Chapter Beta Sigma Phi on Monday evening. Following a delicious covered dish supper, Mrs. Stewart Mac- Kay showed slides taken on a recent trcip to Central and South Amer a. The members of the Lu cy Maude Montgomery Chapter of the IODE met at the home of Mrs Earl MacLeod on Monday evening. . Mrs. Donald MacMillan, the regent. presided at the meeting which dealt mainly with rou- tine business matters. A sum of money.was voted by the chapter to be donated to Park- dale Junior High School for the purchase of books for the school library Money was also voted for a Christmas parcel to be sent to the Canadian Women's Club in London. England. At the conclusion of the meet- r. Jr., Miss Catherine Be- tl'llllln€ and Mrs. Ewen Camp- be Miss Adele Moreside, Bright- on. Mass.. and her niece, Mrs. Lois Grasshoff of Medford. Mass.. both former residents of North River, P.E.I., returned by plane after a pleasant holiday spent with the former's sister, Mrs. P.J. Berrigan. Mr Wendell N. MacLean left by plane on Monday for Boston, . where he will spend . his sister. Mrs. Marjorie Crouse -and brother. Mr. Gordon Mac- Lean and their families. The Misses Thelma Andrew. Wilma Deacon, Irenaeus and Kay Duffy left by car recently for a month long holiday trip to Florida. After spending several weeks on the Island, Mrs. John Mc- Cracker. (the former Pearl Fos- ter of Charlottetown and Bed- Mass where she will visit with her daughter and son-in-law. Mr. and Mrs. Wesley Hill. From there she will go to Miami. _|_ELLEN’S DIARY _ Vail Fla. where she will spend the winter months. While on the Is- land. Mrs. Mccracken visited with he. sisters. Mrs. Harry Ellis and Mrs. Elmer Foster, Charlottetown. Mrs Harry Frankel has re- turned to her home in New York City after spending the past three months with her sis- ter. Mrs. Gertrude Jack, Tyne ey. Mr. Bill Andrews. who has been stationed with the Royal Canadian Army in Edmonton, Alta. recently spent a week vi- siting with his parents, Mr. and Mrs. Sidney Andrews, Freetown before leaving for Kingston. out. Mr and Mrs. Everett Mac- Leod and family of St. Peters’ Bay have taken up residence in Upton for the winter months. Mr. Wallace MacDonald. Dun- , reiluried home firom the Kings County Hospital recently, ‘after bein a patient there for some tim . He has resumed his studies as teacher at the Little nd Soliool CHA RMAN Mrs. Alex Wilson, 157 North River Road, Charlottetown has been named to head the pro- vincial “Shell-ou-t" for UNICEF campaign. which will get underway later this month. Mrs. Wilson will be working to organize various youth groups, in the 8 to 15- year-old a g e bracket, to col- lect for UNICEF on Hallow’- en night or to sponsor Hallow- e'en parties for this purpose. Any groups wishing to partici- pate in the campaign are ask- ed to contact Mrs. Wilson ear- ly so that they may be given the kits of materials needed for the campaign. Last year Canadian children collected over $300,000 for UNICEF in "Shell-0ut" campaign. The amount Island children have collected has increased over 300 per cent since the c a m- The marriage of Winifred Jane Shetler, daughter of Mr. Leonard Shetler of Montreal, Que. and the late Mrs. Shetler to Flying Officer Richard Ros- coe Farmer, son of Mr. and Mrs. Roscoe Farmer of Barba- dos,West Indies, took place on Saturday, September 22 Mount Royal United Church in Montreal. Rev. Arthur Organ officiated at the ceremony. He was assisted by Rev. J.A. Breckenridge. The wedding music was pro- vided by Mr. Montague Mat- thews and bouquets of white gladioli, shasta daisies and mums: and white tapers in candelabra decorated the ch ‘:7 The bride, given in marriage by her father, wore a floor length gown of white silk organ- za, fashioned with a bodice of alencon lace. having a scooped neckline. The bouffant skirt was softly draped over the hipline and featured a lace-edged pan- el falling into a chapel Her waist length veil of tulle il- lusion was held in place by a lace coronet and she carried a bouquet of pale yellow roses and stephanotis. Miss Miriam Hyde, as maid of honor, and Miss Ann Land as bridesmaid, were in gowns oi‘ peacock blue peau de soie and lace with matching head- dresses. They carried bouquets of white shasta daisies. .. 5 MR. AND MRS. RICHARD R. FARMER Wedding Of |n’reresiTo Islcmd Friends Is Solemnized In Que. Mrs. Gordon MacLean, aunt of the bride, wore a sheath gown of blue lace over satin with matching hat and a cor- sage of white roses. Mr. Peter King was the hon man and the ushers were Mr. Anthony Easton, Mr. J a m e s Shetler, brother of the brid and Mr. Neville Wilson. Following a reception in the church hall. Flying Officer and Mrs. Farmer left for Vermont. The bride travelled in a n a vy shantung sheath dress with matching jacket. Her accessor- ies were navy and white and she wore an orchid corsage. Among the out of town guests at the wedding were Mrs. Gor- don MacLean, North Wiltshire, P.E.I. Miss Miriam Hyde. Miss Eleanor Hyde, Miss Ruth Mac- Phail. Mr. John Crosby, all of Meadowbank, P.E.I. Dr. and Mrs. Frank Farmer, Guelph, Ont. Miss Rosemary Farmer, Toronto. Ont., J Ann Land. Mr. Peter Annand. both of Edmonton, Alta. and Mrs. Evan Bayne of Barbados. oyce Mac- ' tra , Kinnon, Charlottetown; Miss Dear Mary Haworth: I have read with interest your answer so‘ the boy, 18, who longs to go away with his kindly dad to live in peace, apart from his selfish domineering mother. I would like to express my thoughts on this case. First, I understand the boy’s feelings, because he is the real victim ‘ (as the children always are.) And yet I have sympathy for the mother. perhaps because I am something like her. I don't agree with your words, that she is “singularly lacking in knowledge. perception. taste and judgment in respect to hu- man love... so far short of ma- ture undcrsianding on this score as to be an emotional moron. However. it might be true in some cases. Possibly she, like me. in younger years, had great abil- ity to love —— even poor stray homeless animals. Maybe e cried over poorly clad children in winter. Perhaps she was a good wife. at least in so in e ways; none of us is perfect. Maybe her husband took her for granted, coming home to a shining house and tasty meals, never taking her out, though giving her money to buy things. thin at was enough, th n she should be satisfied. Because he warns a good living, as he puts it, he thinks that makes him a good husband. Finally, as you get older, your once good - and - loving dispo- ’ tion turns to hate; yes. hate! Why don't we leave? Well, be- cause we have no grounds for divorce, even though our mates would be gladly be rid of us. But who suffers? We do. We aren't prepared to earn a liv- ing, so we continue in the same old grind.— I.J. Dear I.J.: In the language of psychiatry, you are rationaliz- ingr You are holding you hapless husband to blame for the sense of failure that weighs on you. as you compare the life you have to the vision 'MARY HAWORTH ' Husband And Wife Love Sometimes Tu rns To Hate you had. of what you meant to , be and do and possess. You feel as if you've “had it" —-your chance at the prize, and missed out. You feel oldish, blighted. obscure. unwanted. not needed, unfulfilled, soured by bitterness (which you c a ll hate). And all because your personal history didn't unfold as you had expected or hoped it would. in your iuveniele day dreams-— which apparently you carried over into marriage, to handicap and mislead you in . dealing with reality. You try to persuade yourself, looking back, that if your hus- band had been different, you'd be a vastly different person too. But I doubt it. “Great 0 a k s from little aorns grow." a max- im says. And by the same token “you can't make a silk purse of a sow's ear." * We are what we are, more or . less, from the cradle to th e I grave. It isn't so much wh at happens to us. as how we create to it, that forms the character we become, in the long run. The values we have, the sub- stance of our thinking, our in-' dustry, application or negligence l in respect to developing the: great potentials inherent in hu-; man nature — which every individual has a birthright por- tion —- these selfhood factors are tested and recorded in: the crucible of living, the so - called daily grind. Perhaps it's not too late to do better in your situation. In t h e July 28 - August 4 issue of the Saturday Evening Post, read Mil t on and Margaret Silver- or Mrs. Henry Ford, tteiown, was the gu honor recently at a party on the occasion of her 87th birth- day. Attending the affair were Charlo- est of man's article “Psychiatry In- side The Family Circle," which may inspire you to get special- ist help in pioneering a break - through from moody hate to hopeful growth, in the afternoon of your life.— M,H, Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or personal interview. Write her in care of The Guardian. ELECTED PRESIDENT MONTREAL (CP) — Count Nicolo Carandini, president of Alitalia Airlines, has been elec- ted president of the Interna- tional Air Transport Association, it was announced Wednesday. Count Carandlni is a former Italian cabinet minister and for- mer Italian ambassador to Brit- n. FIVE GENERATIONS ATTEND five generations of Mrs. Ford's family. Seated is Mrs. l Ford and standing left to at the home of Mrs. Fords grandson, Ivan Ford and Mrs. Ford. was held right are her daughter Mrs. Franl: Roberts; granddaugh- ter, Mrs. Parker Ford; great granddaughter, Mrs. Ernest Mac-Kay; and great-great granddaughter, Lo Anne Mac- Kay. 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Like James. his ears are attuned c air a sounds about- as thin: astraydown there" ‘I0 commented. soinli ..d0Wll ‘° ll“ site to investigate. There wasl A worn piece had at last given w ay. I-‘ortiinatelfymfor the cooks. "'0 I and by funk; wgfg h|lIbIiid- his the water supply l-h¢|‘9- V‘ managed toda . Manal¢d- 5"‘- oh. the lack the canal plenti- fu. flow. ,, "An! I never was so thirstsi Alex said. "Nor I" lack - "-W9‘ to think H till! idle Pumi) s‘vca me. a basins’ for I 4'1"‘! 1:’: a true ssyllll. isn't it? ‘You never miss the water ‘till “I0 well ru ’ “The ‘O0 .:.in‘usthaveiIadiheir blestoo is as mod 0 this was. for fog lay on the hills grass. derlea, with this blessing re- stored, how good their day s! There was a wind in the aid- ers at mailtime this morning. The stream ran cold-but not empty. Inscribing a quick sil- tro leaped...and ed. “0h!" he _, the sig “ her: he comes near, the pebble you have in . hand, and see.what happens. 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