PAGE TWO {Dorothy Dix Says- WISE GIRLS CAN ASSAY LOVE DEPTHS IN “SWEET N OTHINGS” Vanity, However. Makes Many Believe Everything Young Men Tell Them Dmenmssnlltiariiaounimanuatbe toateoout among thegirls. Ofcourseltlake alltliepl aI-nddarioeelnd! find it very easy to say pretty things to every pretty new lune. Do you think that a young fellow should be governed by a. sense of honor and not make love to a girl unless he means it and is going to one it by pop- pinirthe question, or that the girl should have intelligence enough not to consider all the soft talk a boy hands her as a bonafide proposal? JOHN GIRLS MUST RECOGNIZE SALVI ANSWER: I think any girl should have Fumption enough to be able to assay a boy's conversat on at its true worth, and to distinguish between a flirtation and the sort of attentions that are with intentions. When a youth tells a maiden that she has the love- liest eyes he ever saw and that there ““ different about her from any other airl he ever £29. i . and that she is the dream zirl for whom he has n seeking all his life. she should let these dulcet sounds caress one ear and go out oi the other. Thereby a pleasant time is had by one and all. for there is no woman who does not enjoy being flatter- ed. and there is no man who has a nifty linewith women who does not like to exhibit it. --, The trouble is that many girls have so much vanity that they be- lieve everything of a complimentary nature that a. mm saivs to hem- Particularly they believe that every man they encounter falls for their charms. and this makes it dangerous to .iolly a. girl who may think that you are asking her to marry you, when you are merely attempting to make light and pleasant conversation. ' Many a man has found himself engaged to a younit woman w o put her own interpretation upon his words. so this makes it inadv able for you to go around malt ng indiscriminate love. This is a pity because it cramps the style oi many an amateur Romeo and prevents many a. girl from having even one hour oi love-making in the moonlight to re- meander _’I‘he prettythlncs that men soy to women are like the flowers that springup along the arid pathway of life and that they like to gather up in their memory and make into nosegays and preserve among their treasures . The world would be a poorer place if we had to dig down and grub these up to see if they had any roots. So go along and scatter your compliments broadcast, and rnflb’ Heaven protect you from a breach of promise suit. DEAR. MISS DIX: l am a schoolgirl of l8 desperately in need O1 good advice, for I have no mother. Here is my problem: My father's friend. who is a married man. started a flirtation with me some time B80 and I lintc and loathe him, but I do not know how to rid myself of him. My father is a widower and I keep house for him. He goes out every Friday night and I am left alone. and this man takes advantage of knowing that to come to the house. pretending that he wants something. Hz- seizes me in his arms and kisses me. no matter how I struggle and protest. I told him that he had no right to treat me that way and that I was goin»: to tell his wife. but it did not scarce him off. I have threatened him so many times that it does not bother him now butI am scared. What can I do about it? Shall I tell my father. althouih this man is friend? Or shall I tell his wife about the affair? TERRY. FATHER'S FRIEND DANGEROUS TO GIRL ANSWER: Tell your father about it. and if he is anything of a. men. to say nothing of being a father. he will see that this loathesome old Lothario keeps his hands off oi you and comes no more to the house- You are in terrible danger. so act at once. If there is no other way of avoiding this man. so out yourself the niaht your father not a home An old man who has set his filthy eyes upon a. young girl is far moxc dangerous and merciless than any young man. So beware of him. 'I‘licie is no use in your Kolna in his wife. because he would lie out of it and probably accuse you of pursuinz him. It is your father who should protest you. DEAR. DOROTHY DIX: What do you think of soldiers’ brides who continue to have boy friends with whom they go out on necking parties, yet say they are being true to their husbands? What do men and boy-S think cf a girl who will allow such familiarlties while be: soldier h - band is off fighting for his country? A DAILY READER NECKING NOT FOR. SOLDIER-S‘ BBIDES ANSWER: It is too much to expect of a younir Rirl that she should oe cut off from all the pleasures of her age all the time that her hue- band is in the army. and do nothing but sit at home and knit sweaters and worry over her Tom. Dick. or Harry. Hence I can see no biectlon to her going around a bit with the crowd oi boys and girls sh has been FIECUSILDIIICO to going with. provided that they DO go in cm and not A rs. pBut it is a very different thing when she resumes the petting party with some draft dodger that she called off when she married her soldier. That made all kissing and caressing and love-making taboo. and she is breaking her marriaile vows when she does . . Certainly any wife who had a particle of affection for her husband. or a spark of patriotism in her, would not wish to add to h that he is undergoing on some battle front by keeping h with jealously by picturing her in the arms of another man. - cause so many soldiers have their morale shot to pieces by their 111K197»? about what their wives are doing while they areawav from them thlt makes the high commands in the army frown on war marriages. DEAR MISS DIX: I r offlc w have be arzulnit about the . of clothes a "flapper" wail‘: OIIEEDEEEV thinksexthat the term is aplitlllg to the type of girl who wears flashy clothes and spike-heeled ehoefl. The other party says it is used to describe a girl who flaps. ‘veers loose cl hel. twecds. low-heeled shoes and has a generally d°fl'li'<>lfe attitude. Which of Us b right? E3- ANSWER: Neither. The term “flappei” originated in England where it was applied to a very young gawky girl. and it has no reference what- ever to her clothes. Over here we used to call adolescent alrls fla-Diltf-l’ for want of a better name. but the term is DOCOIXIlIIR obsolete. Hell-Cit is the word now. vi children can't luvs real eta I uaIAB? and energy fast every stamina e "one beat cereal" family other valuable foods are ration guitar: LONG RIVER. W. I. The September meeting of Long River W. I., met at the home Mrs. Elmer Paynler on Tuesday evening. Oct. 21st The president presided and meeting opened the usual manner. Roll call was rrspondcd to by l8 members and 5 visitors. Minutes of previous meeting were read, approved and signed. The reports of different committees were then given and new ccmmittees appointed for the coming month. Sick, Mrs. Don cnmrfscll, Mrs. J"scnli Dunning and Mrs. Allan A. Gimpbell. School Iéiis. Edwin Bernard. Mrs. ynter. Programme, Miss Vna Brander and Mrs. Allan A. Camp- bell. Miss Elva MacKay, Irene Paynter and Vera Brander were of appointed to collect for Salvation Army appeal. The leaders of sew- ing club were reappointed for the in coming year, Mrs. Murdock Mac- Leod and Mrs. Oliver Paynter ae- sistanis. A committee was appointed to pack Christmas boxes for boys overseas, boxes to be packed at the home oi Mrs. A. O. Johnstone. Mae Found kindly lrwlted members to her home for the October meeting when roll call will be answered by each member passin Oliver Du in every cup QAIIEIYS cocoi Aholvefofflenonlfooda WHOLESOME GOODN ESS HERE'S a wholesome goodness in Baker-h Cocoa that will please and benefit every member of your family. Baker’: is a quality cocoa — the result of over 160 years‘ er- perience in fine cocoa making. The 1 lb. economy size package makes up to 90 serv- ings. Good for baking aa well. JUST CURSORY Judge (questioning elderly wo- man who saw the wreck): "Isn't it true that the plaintiff made only a cursory examination 0f his fill-tn- aged car?" Woman: "Good gracious. yes. It was so cursory I had to put my hands over my ears." T00 FAMILIAR. The bus was starting in the midst of a torrent of rain, when the con- ductor put his head inside and in ulred: “Will any Gentleman get ouflside and oblige a lady?" " said a pus- th senger. iocularlv, and. t his great surprise in bounced a xom wo- man. w o forthwith appropriate the offered knee. After a time ilie man trot into a. conversation with his burden. and aslced her where she was going. On hearing her destination. he ex- claimed. "Bless rne. that's my house." “Yes. sir." replied the won-i . blushing. “I'm the new cook!" NOW underwent: i Cream Deodorant “fill Stops Perspirulion l. Doea idreuei ' iauahim“ m not Milka-us: 2. ljlowaiciogtodry (‘subeuaed nglir after ahaviog. " l“.’$‘£“lli.‘f’5l.’.°.'li’i'253.?'°‘ l. A-pure. white. greaseleaoi ‘. lmnim varnishing cream. A d d A l Se l0! fillies‘... lnslfijfuzvo-ILI I . in: for being lunnlm to f HO . _ ‘i ..':;?::. gelllng deo Aiaolo Iihadflflail CHILD'S MORNING PRAYER a bout 9 12 inch lth m! ‘z.’ es w complete To order patte : Write. lend above picture will? your page and addren with l5 cents in stamps to Needle work Char ottetown Guardian Denim No. m NAMl---_.-__-__ IIIIIITADDREQ ----._ eo or Bureau. OITY———PROVINOI——- “oars _THE _ GUARQIAN. More than any other neural cereal, whole-grain , oatmeal hel make u shortage of men's t ' reieneagpProtciii-wirliou: £17k i-iy and adults cannot eada every natural cereal vitamin B1, essential eo good nerves, digestion l More and more mothers are serving bl; delicious bowls of hot Quaker Oats for break- day-and insuring urn growth and don for ahei: families. Serve your now that a0 many ‘no Quota I Oats Company of Canada United nn-u-i-ia-n-n-ma-n-ak-w- HE COOKS CQNIR Butterscotch App]; Hg 1-4 cup brown sugar l dmuuncocked. nine inch pie sprinkle 1-4 cup br wn lizar- over the boitom of th: unoigoked Kile shell. Peel apples and slice apigillay; fill he pie shell. heapirg --y in the centre. Cream in blespoons brown sug er with e ats and the flour until well blended. Crumble the mixture over e .op of _the apples. Pour the milk into t.\ pie and bake in hot oven. 40o degrees ll‘. until top is brown and apples are tender, about 45 minutes. Cool and serve. Squash Puff 3 cups mashed squash 1 cupmoft. stale bread crumbs 1-2 teaspoon salt 1-8 teaspoon pe r 1-2 teaspoon b g powder 2 egg whites l t"; Iglfilifll fat e row ugar “gombine squagnbbrkejad crunébe, , pepper an a er. in the stii n8 paw Turn into a. greased cusse- over with melted fat and sprinkle with brown auger. glgedeléi a moderately hot Open. BT95 -. until well f d ggiiliteig. about 40 minutes. gfil lo A Job‘Only You Can Do . Irloe Control Queeflofl And Anawera Questions and Answers on Control will appear in The Guard- lan as a regular feature each ill! The qneationa are those which have reached the Wartime Prloea and Trade Board from hoiucwlvea ill writing to the Women's Regional Advisory Com- mittee of the Wartime Prices and Trude ard ' Q. In about a month I am going torentmyfarm. DoIhaveto aniiéerentals forms of the WQrt-lme Pr and Trade Board? A. No Lands and building used solely for agricultural urposea are exempt from tho ren als regula- ones. Q. Recently the Prices Board announced an increase in the rat- ion of honey and syrups. Does this mean that I now can get more a half pound of siiar with my “D" coupon? A. No. The pound per coupon su ar ration remains unchanged. . Is mince meat among the commodities rationed? A. No. Mince meat may be pur- chased without surrendiniz coupons. Q. what is the new honey ration? A ‘One pound oi’ honey or‘ one section of comb honey may now be purchased with one "D" coupon. PACK LAUNDRY IN LAYERS The government would like as many people as possible to do their laundry at home. but if despite this you are too busy with war work or other duties to accede to their request you can still aave precious man-hours for overburd- enued la-undries by packing laundry bundles in layers. ‘Ihiaflinethéid. incidentally, will speed e re urn. or proper pac - i enables a sorter tn handle a t d more work. fly beaten egg h . IMIIJIAYI Beware darken - . a Uvezidtiliif w. will have pal- a . OoIDIl‘. ‘OOAUIIAIPI 00A!“ OI VILOUI the ' ac- n olothea in keepink ' of f I a) . Jacket. midway in length between the hip and knee. had a rounded hunline. cut away in front. It was form fitting and flared modesty at the hem. Rover facinga were of flat Persian lamb. It was worn with a slim skirt and a gold and black sweater type blouse, interchange- abkl’: with other skirts in the ward- ro . atoll suits and insets of velvet. e and satin. Double-surfaced men's woolen suit. was worked both ways of the fa rlc. one in a tailored suit trim- med with Safari seal. the other with the reverse side of the fabric. Two colors were featured —alate blue and raisin. The number of evening and afternoon dresses in this collection reflected a demand for this type of clothes. BEBAUBANT DINEBS "First come. firu. serve" is the rule in restaurants. Since restaur- ants, cafes and hotels are rationed on a quota basis. the situation may arise when there are not suffici- ent rationed meat dishes to serve the number of diners who diaire them. If there is not e L serve everyone, lEI-B-OOIIIEI‘! will have to select other items from the menu. HANGER SACIIETS Do you know that a scrap of chiffon. organ-idle. lawn or velvet can be turned into pretty little colatixllianger sadiets, to includ- e a package or tucked in a card or letter? Attach the sachets to a short lenkth of ribbon. looped to slip over the anger. HINTS ON ETIQUETTI If our country's flag is used tn cover a casket. the blue field should be at the head and cover the left shoulder of the deceased and the casket should be carried foot first. The fie must not touch the ground nor e lowered into the grave. SMART NEW BOLERO l8 WAIST-LENGTH NEW YORK —The smartest and newest suit in a recent showing was one with a anus. walsmenath bolero of black wool. The fore- runner of this costume was a cuta- way coat wlth a double row of buttons. The was slim as a of uaeu. The white crepe louse worn under the jacket had a single frlll that fell over the riitht lapel. This was suggested by the ruffled shirt of Rochester. Oddly enough. a inelor portion of the modern and very sophistic- ateed clothes derived their styles from masculine attire. The coats were double-breasted with high and wide revere. The buttons that held them and fastened the dou. hie-breasted front were gold four- lea.f clovers. Pockets on the coats were deep-slashed affairs edged by a double flange of the material Other coats were of c wool (truly Victorian) dark areen and Iray Jersey tweed. A special drawer. section of a. drawer or a rack should be provld. eds for knlv W h R a a if to an- other peraon. hold the blade with the dull side toward the palm of your hand. To eliminate accidents iii your bathroom, put soap and towels within easy reach before using the tub and hold on to something se- cure whlle stepping t of the tub. Never touch light switch- es or electric appliances wlule a din: the tub or holding onto a faucet. Mr climbing to make repairs about the house. use a ladder. not boxes. machinery or other make- sblfta. Set the ladder firmly on the mood. at a safe angle. Face the dei- and avoid carrying ob. leota auch as nails and screws in your mouth when climbing. The practice of running u nd down stair open lnvlltlaon is an to accidents. Alwag w$‘ and ofdeaoenh new: the. White snuff, praised as o pro. iii.‘ ‘smut’? "°' iwnm . one o Kingdom's new products. IIDIB IIAGGABD‘! FAMILY Lady Haggard. widow of Sir Henry Rider Haggard. famous no- velist. who died at-her Ditchlnif- h li lk, at the ale , ill health for five years. Three daughters survive. Af- ter cremation at Norwich, Hagg ‘s ashes were placed in the family vault at Ditchingharn shuéch beside those of her hus- an . MIRRORS NECESSARY FOR QUICK PHOTOS IAJNDON. Oct. B — (OP) - Fiirhter planes which swoop on enemy positions and come back with p o in ' do it wi hel . com set of pictures is taken by our night bombers and an?‘ fitbaliki can be checked in every e a . "We know exactly where the bombs have been dropped and of ten the actual bomb burst can be seen," he added. He revealed. too. that a mobile unit has been established to speed delivery of army l orinaissance photographs to the leading troops Film ma azines are droppld to it by parac the prints are tumed out as quickly as at the home base. riilllilililillilllil SIIFFEIFROII- llllllilllllll If you lufler from bot flashes, dizzy apella, irregular periods. are wea . MUG to the lddle-oge" period in a woman's life. take Lydia . . 'l Vegetable Compound. It'a helped thousands upon thou- aandl of women to relieve auch aymptoma. Pinkham’! Compound la also 5 fine stomach toniol Worth trying! Made in Canada. l OCTOIBERJ}, ma Woman's Realm "1. Social and aliierlsonal zFashions ‘z L[iterdlure Living fifLeisure The Woman's Realm Simmering’s the Secret You gel the mosl from meals in group: C and D by slow, motel cooking The bones in meats give extra value in meat stews. These extend the appetizing meat: flavour and make the most of its nutritional es ' ' by combining with other foods. Meat stew is a. time saver, too. It is as good, or better, served the second day-may be cooked at any time and reheated at the dinner hour. Wide variation can be obtained by different seasonings and different combinations of vegetables. SEVEN TIPS FOR STIWS I Cut meal into uniform pieou. 2 Coat with well seasoned float. a Brown mm in fat. 4 Add iust enough liquid fwaoef. vegetable it . tomato mice) to cover men. I Cove: closely and cook a: simmer- ing temperature. Never boil. Q Add vegeoables inst long enough beforeserviog to cook. 1 Arrange attractively on plane: or in casserole. , I i re You Sure of Your Table Etiquette? ..ormal in appearance. For induce, fry ‘ SAVOURY STEW WITH VEGETABLES:- 2 lbs. new meat (Beef, Veal or Lamb) Flour 2 bay leaves itiupml: hmlluoelerymia K up. peppd 1' piece: 2 tbspa. dripping l green pepper iiiend 2 onion: chopped 4 carrots alioed 2 cupa tomatoes Potatoes quartered as 5 cups boiling water required. Cut meat lo small cubes, roll in flour seasoned with salt and pepper, brown in hot fat with the chopped onions. Add bay leaves,- tomatoes and boilingwater. Siminerwith bones iftheycamewitb themeatfoei no z hours. Remove bones.- aad add Qglgq, green pepper and atrots. and potatoes. Simmer till vegetables are done. Serves 6 to B. 1'0: other thrifty and appetlzlniiea! recipe send 10¢ for Martha Logan‘: famous hand book of men cookery: "Meat Complete," to Swift, ' l Co. limited, Dept. M SWIFT CANADIAN C0. LIMITED . . a Dominion-l wide organization devoted to the conservation and efficient distribution of Canada’a- food resources. .$‘ Needlecraft I For The Home BLACKOUT BLACK For Evening Weor For after dark activities YOU W111 need a lovely iemiine frock such as this. The zrileckline lightens the darkness of 8 cut-out sweetheart rock. and also makes it more Make it up The "Plate-Passer" Anneya Ah. such refinement — she ihinksi But passing plates on and on only annoys other guests who wonder. “Who invited HER?" It’: correct to be guided by the host. who indicates which plate ll whore. Usually the woman on his right ia served first. If you are helping yourself to a dish near you. you might offer it to the person m: you-but no elaborate pau- Sure of such points-which are. so easily learned-you can makq such a churning impression. At the start of the meal. you let your part- ner pull out your chair for you. At! the and. you leave your chair u if. ll-not awkwardly pushing if back; in place. You don't leave unpleasant pic- iurea in people's minds-biting into. a whole piece of bread. eating sticky , iced cake with your fingers. You break the bread as you eat it. uae a fork with iced cake. And chicken bones? I-fow to eat asparagus, can- apea‘! - Our II-page booklet tells how to ' oat these and other foods. Da- acrlbea correct use of allver, when to uae fingers; gives dinner eti- vquaite for boateu and [treat-course by course. Explains what to do at , teal. buffet parties, restaurants. clu_ba._ __ Bend 15o in coins for our oo of GOOD TABLE MANhR-S ‘f; The Guardian f-fome Bet-vice. char- BO sure o f booki in write name. address, and the name o et. 10 yds. 39-in. fabric. out to United Measurements an: with steg-cby-step instructions. Send n the y nicest crepe 0r r ns f d, and you will eve that is m h y flattering. No. 8606 designed for to I0. Sine I6 . 8 Pattern is ‘ilntl- States Standard includes chart i Pa" or nd style number. mm , address Be, slire to state“ size you wish. Nllhb boi1mtoikigdbeedleu ‘miseries this home- proved, double- nrw lament. BOUIOII d "fit..." $2...." .2“. '- l1 °° u ‘a discovered deposits fmiaietely cover the refilllffimfil o berian metailufity-_ wonairs ‘IALLIST on}! Bamboo is considered the mid growing grass in the world. TBANSATLANTIC LIIIIJIII lend leale in 1M2 was more thll five tllllQlyf-lfl total for 1M1.