, Livir: ti?" -: “tiixls THE GUARDIAN, CHARIDTFETOWN m'\ OfiiBIYS RcalflT/sfltiifli and Personal/fas ionslLiteratu iixrwnubnreplriunnjipejqmupqgqsnnslnnqpcxrqnlrusupelqscnxnflbinlinnnnq-q eSiLeisure JTHE woman's REALM: MARRIAGI There is to marriage only this: The joy that's in the morning kiss, The kiss of welcome in the gloam That greets the toiler coming home. There is to marriage little more Than dreams of all that lies be- fore, The countless joys hold, Their love at last when you are old. The fllI-hfifi friends who haste to T share The sorroivs all who bear, The home with love and faith aglow, Are all that marriage can bestow. (Copyright, i949, Edgar A. Guest.) the children live must Obstinate stains under the fin- gernails will disappear after wash- .ng out some article in Naptha soap. Cook raisins or other fruit in‘ a little water for a few minutes and add that» last. to fruitcake oatter. The cake will be lighter and the raisins will not sink to the bottom. t satisfactory clothes‘ made by punch- y ing holes in the top of a vinegar l bottle. Remove lining from the, screw top. Grand for sprinkling ‘r vour house plants, too. A very sprinkler may be r. Mrs. Lasby. seen with one of her children, will run farm, while trust company will run affairs. Her husband, Archie, husky. well- to-do farmer, disappeared on night of July 11, and no trace of him has been found since, A TABLE OI’ MANY US!!! Here are some convenient ways to use your card table. Acces- sory table at canning time. (cov- ered with heavy paper or oil- cloth), back rest for an invalid (propped up with legs folded). typewriter table. screen when bathing the baby, tea table for garden or lawn. The top may be waxed. shcllacked, or have a removable linoleum cover, WINTER COATS ARE LOOSE AND FULL PARIS -- Your new winter coat simply must be loose and full, say Paris designers. The classic length is that of your dresses, with a few exceptional three-quarter models. The'height of elegance is a volu- minous coat worn over a simply moulded dress, Still on the subject of coats, make sure that you choose a re- versible cloth. Linings but forgotten this season and all the smartest coats are in rever-I sible velor-cloths. blanket-cloths- and pile-cloths. i (Better English X lO-Wlllllml i. What is wrong with this sen- tence? “lie endorsed the back of the check.‘ ' 2. What is the correct pronunc- iatlon of “aviation”! 3. Which one of these words ls misspelled? Lavalilere, llquedate, linguist. lingerie. 4. What does the word "volition" mean? 5. What is a word beginning with gra that means “a gift“? "u-"nn-"uus are all i ‘ of four lififi =4i ‘ 'li0 bi0©%O 1 i, That‘ Body i Of Yours ‘ B James W. Bzrton, M. D. AOQOOQfl HELPING THE CKRONICALLY ILL u At times when we look at this world of ours with two recent wars, all our maimed young and now middle-aged men. and the feel- ing of uncertainty of the future. we may become discouraged. On the other haird as we look at the other side of the picture -- work- mens compensation. old age pen- sions, social security. societies to help the blind and hard of hear- ing. institutions for tubercular pat- other welfare organizations -— we can see how the world has really advanced in unselflshness, and is not en iri-ly a world oi greed. Scme wccks ago I spake of how the sympathy oi so llll\i‘._\' unselfish individuals was limit): extended to men, women and chzldi-cn who flfu |chr0nieally ill. living day after day ,and night after night in pain. ‘weariness and loneliness. In May an organization was formed in Chicago known as the National Cconrnission (‘I'd Chlflllit Illness. This represents the cufnuin- ation of a. year's work on the par: organizations prcviously mentioned-The American llospital Association, The American hirdira‘. Association, The American Public Health Association, and The Ameri- can Public Welfare fissociatbn. I believe it is only fair that wc should again state the goals of this Commission on Chronic Ilinrss: (it to modify the prevailing attitude that chronic illness ls hopeless, to substitute a dynamic progrriii dr~ Signed as far as possible to pre~ vent chronic illness. to lessen its disabling effects, and to restore its victims to a socially useful and ec- onomically productive plaice in the community: i2) to clcfine the prob- lems arising frrm chronic illness among all age groups. with full realization of its social as wcll a.- medical aspects; U» to coordinatc ANSWERS A. Merely say, "He endorsed the check." as endorse means to write on the back of. z. PrOnounce both a‘s as in day. 3. Iiiquldate. 4. The er of willing; exercise of the will. “In choice and volition. we have the two factors of the will."— Hopkins. 5. Gratuity. tlhiil Recipes From “Ganadzfs Kitchen” cabinet Ministers and office boys, atenograpl-iers and livestock earperts, in fact all the civil servants who work in tho majestic Confederation Building in Ottawa, have been meeting with tantalizng odours as they enter the Wellington Street structure these fall days. The aromas have been emanating fret-n the immaculate little white room in the basement. dubbed “Canadas Kitchen", where home economists of the Consumer Section. Depart- ment of Agriculture, have been experimenting with new ways of separate programs for specific dis- eases (tuberculosis. arthritis, dia- betes, etc), with a general pro- gram designed to meet more ef- fectively the needs common to all chronically ill persons; l4) to clar- lfy relationships among profession- al groups and agencies working in the field of chronic illness and (5) to stimulate in every state and community adoption of a. well rounded plan for prevention and control of chronic illness and for the care and rehabilitation of the chronically ill. - making that favourite relish, chili sauce. And the economists of the kitchen have oome up with some ideas. Uncooked C-hiii is one. It is actu- ally an uncooked pickle. Another one can be cooked either on top of the stove or in the oven. a. feature that keeps it out of the way and requires stirring only towards the last hour of cooking. The recipes, complete with advice and ideas, are available on request from the Dominion Department of Agriculture. tents, for feeble-minded. and many ' DOROTHY DIX SAYS- l 1 é > '1 O%O0%N%Oh i Ciinging To Pasi Lone Widow Should Close Up House, Seek Companionship, Useful Work DEAR DOROTHY DIX: Kifi I am a widow, 55 years old. no children. My husband died two years ago. I loved him devotedly and since his {hath I have be?" living to keep house for myself. I cook so little it is not worth the trouble. as I have no interest in getting up a meal Just for myself and no appetite to eat it snai- it n cooked. I have nothing to do but to think about my loss and I weep all the time. My nature is full of love and kindness and I am so lonely. What shall I do? HEART-BROKEN WIDOW ANSWER: I don't know anything more pitiful than the way women sacrifice themselves to their “things"---the way they cling to the shell of a house and n few slicks of furniture after the spirit that made the house a home is gone. They will live on alone in houses in which they are frightened to death. They will endure scmistarvation because it doesn't seem worth i/hiic to get up a regular mcal just for themselves. And all for the sake of living under, a roof in which they have once been happy. Nothing is more common than to hear n woman say: "I jus. can't break up my home," but when a should do is to break up hcr home and go-‘where she will have com‘- mind her of her bereavement. ible enough to put your pride in your pocket. and get. a position as housekeeper in some family where there are little children on whom you can bestow your affection, and where you can make yourself a ptlfi of the family life. Or else get in some philanthropic work. Any- thing that will bring you in contact with people and make you feel tliiu. you are of some use in the world. DEAR DOROTHY DIX: I am a boy of 18. very much in love with a girl of 19. My father is sending me to college and is planning on putting me through a dental school when I finish. My girl says it will ruin my life for her to marry me now and that my family would fll\\'1l_\'S blame her for marrying me at this time. I run around a great rlczil and being young, she is afraid that I will continue to do so after marriage. 1 think I could stop this. I am positive that she is the one for me and I fear that if I have to wait. for three years some- thing will come between us. Shall I marry her and let my father support us until I get through school or shall I take a chance on los- ing her by waiting three years? Talk to ‘me as it I were your g8; t. ANSWER: No boy in the world at 18 is fit to marry. l-ie hasn't come to himself. He hasn't the faintest idea of what sort of man he is going to dewlop into nor what sort. of woman he is going to want for a wife when he is grown up, and not once in a hundred times does a very youthful marriage turn out successfully. lt isn't fuir to yourself and it isn't fair to the girl, and she has more intelli- gcnce than you have by not being willing to enter into it. As for the danger of losing her by waiting until you are ready married her if you do marry her. love will stand the strain of a three year's wait. Certainly you have no right to marry uncl dump a wife down on your father to support. (Continued on page 9) When the surreys horse power taxis get into 1mg. tic mun-l in Bermuda. the gal who has to straighten them out is Mori- treal-lborn Mrs. Edna Watson. - One of two Wtnmen members of Bermuda's pariiaitnent, Mrs. Wat- son 1s a bland, blonde woman of genteel manner, who looks a; t: her proper background would be an Elnglish garden party. ‘mudh 0f Bermuda's business, group of guest houses. runs a farm; mare“ and in her spare time works as at physiotherapist at the-local mill-l tary hospital. hostess, woman's husband dies and ‘fixated I: nautical power to be Discussing punionship, and where everything she sees and touches does not rc- liligprgfig agilgecxghgouégg flag‘; old silver at her home here, she she has no children of an age tn live with her, the very thing she lrcckmed with to marry. that is as nothing to the danger of wishing that you hadn't most If you really love each other, your in me Bermuda House o‘ Assam — Born In llontreal Woman In Bermuda Turns Politician n; noon-m? non mum, bemiuaa. Oct. so 4am. and Actually, she manages conducts a. At her stately home, ton Lodge. she is every inch the intent upon her guest's parliament, TAKE JOB "tilt If you cannot afford to live in a boarding house or hotel, be sens- mu!) Iggfleticshagmgonrfggjregerggg: men always have considered wom- an's place was in the home. "We have had woman's suffrage here only since 1944, The 1948 elections were the first time a wcman could run for office. The thing all came Ulp very rud- denly. I was asked one Thursday to stand for parliament. The next Thursday I was in." Mrs. Watson made no did no campaigning. Instead, she took an advertisement in the local newspaper to publish her form, pensions, cour ing in the localsschoois and security. she said: This was an unheard-of method 0f Sfickim! public office, but ap- parently it worked. Anyway I was elected." Holds Cabinet Status chairman of the transport control board and the social welfare board, important committee posts which lnicludedt Now she is until you know. ses in hotel train- two of the the 10- torun government succesful Scarring- she is her speeches. plat- Old age sbcial bly. Th bl i That is as unmanly an act as any lad cai adjxfumlz? tsgrllspgrrt $12235 f; Bermuda, which allowed no automobiles on recently the ea. " eedlecraft. ‘ IFDR THE HOME 1, OOI-DUIOY OIOIGI The short cut bolero-jacket. circle skirted Jumper and prim rounded collar blouse total s wonder! ' three-piece outfit for school wear -- in sturdy corduroy (A11 in one pat- tern!) No. 24.1‘! is cut in slses 2, 4. 6 and 8. Size 4 jumper and bolero. 2 yards I5 inch; blouse, 1% yards 35- inch. Send 25 cents for each Pattern ‘which includes complete sewing guide. Print your Name. Address and Style Number plainly. B; sure to stale size you want. Include postal unit. or zone number in your Address Pattern Department The Charlottetown Guardian. Pattern No. 2417 , N ame \ Address City Province I>0®i®®%9 Household Scrapbook By lhbnrta Leo Copper Coin swallowed A copper coin swallowed may be rendered harmless by a diet; of bread and _mlik. giving nothing sour. as this would corrode the metal. Also give the raw whit, of in e88 three times a day. and a dose of caster oil every night. PlMPLES l Try scientifically medicated Cutiean for the prompt relief of pimples. rashes, lemlshea; also to clear up \ BLACKHEADS Cutlcura Soap and Ointment often succeed when others fail. 7p years‘ success. Buy at our druggist foda I Economical. ad: n: Cam: s. flUTlCURlk sow amd OWTMENT _ Coffee Stain; Coffee stains, even where there is cream in the coffee, can often be - removed with glycerin. Brush the glycerin on the spots. then wash them with lukewarm water. ‘ Paint Brushes ‘ Seldom-used paint brushes should be wrapped in a piece of cloth and suspended in a jar of kerosene, or better, linseed oil. WOOWQOWOL Modern plex and conflicting. While prom- l i mThe Stars Sa -- U By Genevieve Kembls Ibr Friday, October 21 THE auguries ruling important transactions on this day are com- ises seem encouraging, and the mentality seem able to cope with unforeseen circumstances. yet the Cook ’s Corner Barbecued Beef-Potato Balls ‘°‘§°@§°°‘§" $°°€°°< island. keeps her busy most of the , day. Some of the old residents .5 want to go back to the horse and buggy days. Others seek to raise the present 20-mile speed limit - * °‘@°@<>°t‘Q-» IO! automobiles (still limited u» 1o horsepower). Wh t Mrs. W l a a so“ wan“ m do If "T? dusty. repeat the operation; . is i - ii t it st a pound beef. Kround. it poundiwltg ‘@2328 will"; buggy may em squeeze me 1m out’ Mp heme“ pork, ground. 1i’: cups grated pota- toes. ‘.2 cup grated onions. ‘.6 cup chopped green pepper. 1% tea- spoon salt. ‘.4’. teaspoon pepper, ‘i. cup margarine. that Bermudians can get to and frcm work without depending on taxis, as most of them [do now. Mrs. Watson was born in Mon- treal and came to Ben-nude with How Can I 1!! - h Anne Aabls; Q. How can I clean black lace? A. Put into alcohol. and churn up and down until the liquid foams. the hands. pull out the edges, and 13y between brown paper. imooth and straight. Leave under a weight to dry. r . How can I keep plants moist‘! A. Water-soaked newspapers Etiquette \ Byllobertalna Q%>G O%>QO€€ Q. How are invitations to t second marriage o! a young wido worded? A. In the same way as the usud invitation. in the name of her pan ents or nearest relatives. as, " and Mrs. Robert Johnson requ the honor of your presence st the marriage of their daughter. Mary day could be lost by either im- pulsive inclinations or by the de- trelopment of a strange. curious or unpredictable event. Unexpected lnvolvoments might concern purely onions, green peppers and season- lngs and shape into balls. Place in] a greased baking pan and pour the barbecue sauce over the meat. Bake Ccmbine ground meat, potatoeslher husband an” he w in ilbe First World War. For a time the Watsom rim a farm, raised horses and generally the plums m0!“ enjoyed life. while Mrs. Watson grapemm? a! gassed twisted around the roots of the Johnson Smith. etc." You will note, of course. that the full name of did bride is used. Q. when writing a "thank you‘ letter to a relative who has sent! Plants. against the dirt. will keep Q. How can I prepare baked in a moderate oven 375 degs. F. for 30 minutes. Barbecue Sauce personal factors. _ For flu Birthday Those whose birthday it ll. may feel impelled to summon their check as a birthday gift. should on say bow the money is going to used? A. Yes; it is always nice to this whenever any gilt of mo 'filied the mles of wife and host- less. But. a graduate of McGill “a, gala‘; “f, University and a former physio- but“, on n PM" n 1'“ ‘£51015: "IMP!" with the Canadian army Serve hot It is delicious n during the First World War, she ' ' _ Now at your store for the ‘very first time! Mix together 2-3 cup dill pickle, clever. shrewd and possibly unique juice. 2-3 curp chill sauce, 4 drops, talents in furthergng gfllgingl Ijilfgls tobasco sauce, 4 teaspoons Worces-filefiair was!‘ ‘ifiggifif; dea-Qh she 21:11; lgiouasesl. fllllflnelfi her true: is received. w h t and purposes. An w e t e u 8- tershire sauce, 1 teas oon lt, 6 _ “u” n "I20" Y millage Q. I it obllga ry thata 0! p 5a ‘enlisted again with the Canadian to have no idle time. when the hostesss meet their ouL-of-tovd guests at the railroad station? A. Most. certainly. This is thl first duty. . merit seems sound. the mind alert. tablespoons diced dill pickle. Serves, and plans established on secure s, ,army during the Second World opportunity arrived to enter pub- War. Returning. she expanded lio service, she mugged m work foundation. yet. a rash move, an im- -————-——- petuous inclination. or some un- npwim, glmnvs Ayn mgpglscarrington Lodge lnlio a series of that in also. toward event may under-mine all calculations. The intrusion of per- sonal or romantic affairs may be radical in its power to thwart- RB- sist. impetuous emotions or urges. A child born on this day. may be well equipped with novel ideas, backed by good reason and judg- ment. but an impulsive drive may upset its noblest plans. ~>0 0 Morning Smile. , putoet-to-taubwo-t The energetic traveling salesman. eager to see s. big business execu- Live. finally bludgeoned his way past the various secretaries at the end of a rush 11?)’ in the office. “Salesman, eh " snorted the big man. "Do you know my secretaries have thrown out thirteen salesmen already today?" "Yee, sir", said the nleanan. . "I'm them." School Lunch ls A Vital Problem One of the most important items of the fall school opening. and one of the countless worries it. brings to -' . x the homemaker, is the preparation 1 ‘ 0 ~ of school lunches. Not only do the ' lunch-intern demand variety, but (7 . 4 e icofibe Do you care Ilfiidl", whether your coflee grew ‘up in the blue yon er when the eagles build their nem; or blushed unseen on the shady little boughs our . . i I ‘the ground? . ‘has are you loohlng (a: as. a“ c“? or ~ e lea Duh’: cmnlna new will lumen ~- - -they must. have nutritious a Iulvvlfhtho owerlo wash ore ' “ » f ott. ,_,_ _ “m "f, m; i :"°'"'“'"""" ""'" m M’ "n“1'5'$m3.°.°"§¢“ 1:11:11‘: moron no n-m mhJJW“ ' . I I00 haw clean Duel! washes dlaliesl Se clean ' uni, “us” "u; aches] 1mm, Th“ “N3 c013 h ¢g[¢.-Q! will be ,t flay shlne—even without wlplngl 9 Fell BM! s cunning new beauty mllclnesll contain milk: some melt. fish. eul- An attractive limcheon set is em- from the day you try It, we think. .3 . ‘u h“ ‘u... v-nmm. N.“ m.” w" The mlldoal Duh suds evorl dried beans or peanut butter; a broldered with birds and colorful ‘ Thom“, o; aid“, gamma have changed I a g . ‘ha-w...’ h n” w." . h“ m. 3mm..." u“, d." 'Hnw.m.‘ vegetable or fruit. or both: breads. may: of flowers Hot iron transfer m.“ w‘ m KING Con‘ w. h" m": bu“ o; .3 ». ,1!“ - I" u’ N." m.” w" ‘n ‘m . u‘ fats, or sweets to round it out. pfltlgm no p.740 gas-suing g bud; r , l ' ' m" "' If the school child cannot buy and sprays with complete lnstruc- ; rc L E 557°" dlmlinl/"F " luv lush the w»!!! mine n school 0l' where lunch u tiona. Needlework Book no cents. l (~’ O . ' fig"; j;_;""-"="~'""'~ iif°‘l".ltl..'.f..f““ii..'°‘f..fii Jib&'l22.i°“%.3°..ti“‘é.2li£f$ " Awrv-w- mm "w" v-=-~»~'~=*" economists o! the Department sug- town Guardian. i gest milk in puddings can be taken Design No. 11-740 along in Jffllll mayonnaise 1am or waxed paper oontalnerl. but. be an Ito-cots M u» us u on ugiu "I" '~ ' ' to“ “.125.” tide ‘a u d i: m. ' h - . ~ ' - r. n co e m sand- t, l wlches-eut them with cookie cut- l Adan“ ' F E E ten or like Jigsaw pussies. Try s new filter once in a while,