PAGE TWO Iillnlpquncronlrunrcblnnqn _ - u“ -- .- a. -_-_ -_‘--_u---_wu- Woman's Realm rSoci Fiance Financing Shared Income May Bo’ ‘Accepted Without Loss Of Manliness to very terrible for a man to accept money DEAR MISS DIX: Is it is one of those unfortunate! who from a woman? In my case my fiance _ has been thrown out of a position due to economic conditions. 0f course, he will land something eventually, but in the meantime why Ihouldn't I foot the bills for the entertainment we both enjoy immense- ly, as I am lucky enough to have an excellent position which pays a remarkable salary? Why, he‘ even objects to driving my car if he can't buy the gasoline, and if I get theatre tickets we have a battle royal. Am I wrong ln wanting to share my good fortune with him? E. R. B. ANSWER: I think that under the circumstances your fiance is foolish, but it is the kind of folly that makes you want to take off your hat to him, because - it shows that he is a real man. Still. there is sense and reason in all things and a man can overdo Independence. So I do not see why a youth, who knows that when he's back on the job and able to repay a girl tenfold for all that she had done for him, should not be willing to take things from her that uniler other circumstances he might refuse, especially when he reflects that he is depriving the girl as well as himself of a good time. It takes more generosity to receive graciously than it does to give. Your fiance would gladly lavish anything he had on you. Tell him to realize that you are just as generous-hearted as he is and have just as much pleasure in making him happy as he would you and perhaps you can make him see the matter from a human instead of a strictly masculine point of view. DOROTHY DIX DEAR MISS DIX: How can a man tell when he loves a woman enough to want to marry her? I am now 26 and have kept compnnv with a number of young ladies always with the viewpoint of some dny finding one that I will want to make my wife. These girls have been everything that a man should want in a wife, yet I have never felt that .1here was one of them that 1 would care to marry. What is the test of ithe love that a man should feel for a girl before he marries her? C. C. C. ANSWER: You'll know, C. C. C.. when you meet Miss Right. She may be no bathing beauty. She may be no college graduate. She may be no Patient Griselda. She may not even be able to boil water with- out scorching it. You may have‘ known a hundred prettier, cleverer, more amiable. Inore domestic girls, girls better fitted to make a man a good wife, but when you meet this particular maiden you will feel that life wlii be cinders, ashés and dust without her. That is the infallible test of love with a man, just feeling that some particular woman is absolutely necessary to his happiness and that he can't exist without her. Unless he does feel that way about her, he doesn't love her, and that's all there is to it. It isn't a matter of logic or reason or suitability or any question of the woman's charms and virtues. It is just that some one girl makes his pulses leap and another Dne leaves him cold. Still another test of love is whether you are willing to give up your bachelor freedom for a woman. Does the idea of having to punch the lhome time clock allure you? Are you fascinated with the thought of being put through a questionnaire on your outgoings and incomings? Do you think a quiet evening at home would be more exciting than stepping out to a night club? Do you look forward to spending your holidays doing chores around the house instead of playing golf? 1g you can answer “yes" to all of these questions, you are in love. Continued on page 3 Now sgenile luxToiiei Soopiin o convenient lETlFneviT bTtlTsizFLiYiI Toilet Soap is _ wonderful! And my daily beauty bath w w refreshing!!! says Paulette Goddard. ‘JLur Soap makes me euro of skin that's swcetJ-i You'll be delighted with this handsome large. ‘cake; just the right size for luxurious bathing; Quick, rich lather to caress your skin; W111!!- away dust and dirt, leave skin smoother; really fresh and sweet; _ H Only the size is different; ‘The same familiar wrapper, the same smooth white cake,_the seine _ delightful fragrance. Let the whole family enjoy (hi! convenient, big new Lux Toilet Soap bath cekcl llow win in Yllll Know Your Island ‘i __._- By Uncle loo The first butter factory was opened in the year 1887, the first cheese factory in 1883. There were operated as stock companies, but not altogether as co-operative as- sociations. They were located at Mill View, Central Bedeque and St. Eleanor's. In 1887 the Cornwall factory was cremated and continued in opera- tion for some years. It. is interest- lng to note here that one of its early cheese and butter makers. John Ellsworth, still lives in the district. Co-operative dairying as prac- ticed in Ontario was first accepted by the residents of New Pe_rth and vicinity and a company was organ- ized and a supply of guaran- teed. This new factory had its birth in 1892. From 22nd day of June until October 31st six hun- dred ninety-six thousand two hun- dred and forty pounds of milk flow- ed into the vats. Turned into cheese, the new factory chalked up a production of sixty-six thousand eighty-nine pounds, a very 200d record for a small community. The success of this venture brought other factories into being, all open- ed under government management. This system was followed till 1896, when several of the Cflmlmllle! 85' sumed independent management. The following year government op- eration ceased. with the result that Oontlnued on page 9 U‘ Can I 1!! Anne Ashley kt How 37 Q. How can I separate postage stamps that have stuck together? A. Do not soak than apart, but. lay them on a smooth surface and pass a. hot iron over them. This will separate the stamps without destroying the gum. Q. How can I remove mildew from white clothes? A. Put a teaspoon of chloride of lime into a gallon of water. Dis- solve thoroughly. Remember, chlor- ide of lime bleaches-so do not use on colored clothes. Q. How can I remove fniit stains frrm the teeth? A. Rub a small quantity of salt on the stains. then rinse the figioutlinirnnjiedlaicly with hot water. Slur of Paramount Pictures’ .9 0 Ellen s Diary l7 II Inland Eunice‘: Wife . _ r100‘ i Knlvu were sharpened thill morning and mowers serviced to] again take up the mowing, this time at Alderlea, but in a field so the cutting has reached us only vaguely. The Nell-mare, a lady of much leisure, was pressed into ser- vice at the raking at the other farm, and it was there that later the first hay was saved to a barn. Only in a small quantity and iii a state which James observes "will never keep-it's as green as grass!" It appears that not often in our more and less extensive periods of haying down the years has it been saved at the most favorable moment. coo It is either in that condition which invites spontaneous combus- tion-and serves to make the wo- men-kind sleep lightly! or so dry and bleached that to James‘ mind, “Well, what's the use of saving this stuff? It's all ~ burnt up! We should have saved it yesterday in- stead of cutting down more." And overbearing we have uneasy vis- ions of the stock shaking their i heads in disgust in the Winter sea- son, untll finally too listless and‘ weak to cure to live they lie down i .in their stalls never to rise again. ‘James himself shook his head ‘hopelessly about today's saving. i ‘And Jock laughed and guessed ' "we'll have to make bedding out of .it. In any event it won't go to lwaste!" U O O This has been a day of fresh blue skies, of lazy bird-call, of floating blliowy clouds, of sunshine and Continued on page 9 s w d9é-v Morning Smile Qivibifiibilhiilbfi $490? Niece (in the picture gallery) — "Aunt Sarah, this is the famous ‘Angeius,’ by Millet." Aunt Sarah——"Well, I never! That man had the nerve to copy the calendar that has hung in our kitchen for a dozen years or more." Novice (at bridge party): You're an expert at bridge, Mr. Jones. How would you have played that last hand of mine? Mr. Jones: Under an assumed name. larva" ‘i! “BRIDE OF VENGEANCE" distant that so far, the sound of ‘ ‘ Murphy, the bride, formerly Miss z-zu:nz-nz-z-t-i-Jiz-z-z-zvn:-:-:-.-.-.-.-.I.-. 6| and Personal/Fashions/L Murphy-Haughey I Left to llflhl Mr. Leo Sullivan, best man, the groom, Mr. Reginald Miss Bernice Haugbey. A wedding of much interest to their friends in P.E.I. took place in Oui- Lady's Chapel of St. Patrick's Church, Montreal on Saturday. June 18th at B a. m. when Miss Mary Alice Haughey, R.N., daughter of Mr. and Mrs. ,Anthony Haughey, Charlottetown, P.E.l. was united in the holy bonds of matrimony to Mr. Reginald Murphy, son of Mr. Daniel Mur- phy and the late Mrs. Murphy of Summerville, P. E. I. The marriage ceremony and nuptial mass were performed by Rev. Martin Monaghan. Miscouche P. E. I., uncle of the bride. White peonies and candles candlebrae decorated the for the occasion. Given in marriage by her fath- er, the bride looked charming in a floor length gown of slipper satin with sweetheart neckline and princess lines. A Mary Queen of Scots cap held her finger tip veil of matching tulle illusion. and she carried a bouquet of white car- nations with baby's breath. She was attended by her sister Miss Bernice Haughey RN. of Char- in altar l‘ Boih Mary Alice flanghey, and bridesmaid, -—Photo by Rfnas Studio, Montreal. lottetown who wore a floor length gown of pink sheer over taffeta with matching headdress and car- ried a bouquet of pink carnations with baby's breath. The groom was attended by Mi". Leo Sullivan of Cardigan, P. E. I., and the ushers were Messrs. Albert Murphy and John Haughey of Charlottetown. During the marriage ceremony appropriate hymns were rendered by Mr. Kevin Docherty accom- panied by the church organist, Mr. Doyle. The bride's mother wore a dress of royal blue crepe with matching accessories and a cor- sage of red carnatlons. After the ceremony a reception was held in Preston Hall, on Drummond St. where one hun- dred guests were served to a most sumptuous breakfast.‘ Roses and snapdragons decorated the bride's table centred with a three tier wedding cake topped with minia- ture bride and groom. John Corrigan's orchestra ren- dered music during the recep- tion. The toast to the bride was pro- posed by Mr. James Mooney and "rcw-"war-responded to by the bride- groom on behalf of himself and his charming bride. The remaining part of the af- ternoon was spent in dancing and singing, Following the reception the bride and groom left on a motor trip through the Laurentians. For travelling the bride chose a dress o‘ dusky rose crepe with white ICCGSSOTiBn. On their return they will reside in Montreal. The bride is a graduate of St. Michael's Hospital, Toronto. Out of town guests included: Mr. and Mrs. Anthony Haughey and John Haughey of Charlotte- town; Mr. Daniel Murphy. Sum- merville; Mr. Albert Murphy, Charlottetown; Rev. Martin Mona- ghan, ivliscouche; Rev. Gavan Monaghan. Oklahoma, U. S. A; Mr. and Mrs. Leo Kenny, New York; Miss Eileen Decker, R. N. Ormstown. Que; Miss Gwenyth Ferguson. R. N., Toronto, Ont. Previous to her marriage the bride was tendered a shower at ' the home of Mrs. William Moyes, Montreal when she received many beautiful and useful gifts. Y‘ Better English \ lO-Wmlnnm 1. What is wrong with this sen- tence? "If this memoranda is cor- rect, either you or I are going." 2. What is the correct pronunc- lotion of "reservoir"? 3. Which one of these words is misspelled? Arsenal, srguement. arrogance. Whlfl (1008 the word "futile" 4. mean? 5. What is n word beginning with In that. means "friendly"! ANEWIBB 1- 88!. "If these memorlllda are correct, either you or I 5m Win83’ ‘ah-Pronounce rez-er-vwor. o n in or. accent first syllable. 3. Argument. 4. Useless. "It was q futile struggle." 5. Amie-able. 77w Stars Say-- Dfldovlonlunblo Iior Tklrflny, Inly ll ran antral indications IO!‘ the moment loom to be for o static and otllhont state of affairs in which "- ml! he difficult to break up crys- tallised conditions or to inaugu. rate effective ways 5nd mm“ 1°; m“!!! Jlll- obstacles and laying and work for future or endur- ilborn llgencfl. u: tenacious-.in; oia t - none-m pemh$q."'“““ lf lilo Your Ilihlsy ‘lhooowhooc birthdnyft u. are ite Jv-LY 21., rature ' You'll love whole wheatitbe ALL-WHEAT way. Spoon into Nature's choice -ma '- oallytransfonnedintocrun y 31'3" °i'§"“°"§~'i"§"°°"iiZ . very i au p whole wheat: with valuable wheat germ retained for nutrition! You get vitaiw ole- Alw/fllllilll uni Ill runs-war woo/warm.’ VEUCIOIJQ! can?! flEAW-TO-EAB’ ' animals-benefits of bran. Ky a bowlful tomorrow with ' k, sugar and fruit. Delicious "aufwnaarl Nutri- tious ALL-WHEAT! Great to eat anytime! Get a package toda . ALL-WHEAT is ma e xauncc-ooon by Kellogg's of London, Ontario. Mother Knows i‘ st! omit... i Scrapbook - . - By Roberta bco I ‘letting 1f tailing is very soiled _it is often difficult to return it to a good clear color without injuring it. The best plan is to wet it and soap well. Then lay on some hard surface and scrub with a. hand brush. This will clean it without harm. I i Flouring Food A good way to flour food evenly and quickly for frying. is to mix the flour, salt and pepper in a paper bag. put in the food to be floured, then shake well. Pllllf: Stains The paint and varnish stains can be quickly removed from the hands if kerosene is used. Pour a small amount onto a. cloth and rub over the hands. Moder-n Etiquette Iy Roberto In . Where is the proper place for the bridegrooms mother to, sit at the wedding breakfast? ‘A. She should be seated at the right of the bride's father. Q. Is it proper for a. hostess to ask some friend to perform the rite of pouring tea. at an informal affair? A. Yes; this is popularly done. Q. Should a man tip a soft hat by the brim or by the crown? A. A soft hat should be lifted by the crown. fifl£fli Cook ’.s Corner CHERRY CUSTARD TAU/IS One one-half cups milk, two egg yollunone-quarter cup sugar, one tablespoon flour. one eighth ten- spoon ialt, one-half teaspoon van- illa, six large tart shells. Scald milk. Beat egg yolks. Stir in sugar, flour and salt. Stir this mixture into hot milk and con- tinue stirring over hot water until custard thickens. Add vanilla. Cool covered. Then chill. l-lalf fill baked tart shells with pitted slightly sweetened cherries. Pour custard over cherries and garnish with one or two ur- temmed cherries. That _Body . Of Yours Juan W. Barton, I. l. EARLY OPERATION IN APPENDICITIS ‘Before appendicitis was ma“ to be an inflammation of the llttlc worm-like attachment of the iriteq. tine, it was called inflammation oi the bowels and while some "my. cred, many died. Later, when ap- pendicitis was recognized there mi still the doubt in the physician] mind as to whether to operate at once or wait a. day or two to see if the patient would get better and thus avoid the danger of operating; Then followed a. period in much research physicians and surgeoni spent much time gathering inform ation from surgeons everywhere g to} the best time to operate, if n! After gathering all possible in» formation, the physicians arid surgeons of Philadelphia n. fed W"! B80 azrecdthat. for n. cer- tain definite period of time. the; would try to operate on all case: of acute appendicitis within tht first 38 hours after the appearenct of- tlie symptoms. the family being advised not to allow patient to eal any food or take a laxative, once the symptoms occurred. The result. of this Philadelphia experiment was that. the death rate from ap- pendicitis. due to early operation was out to a fraction of what it had been. other communities now follow this same method of treat- ment. Not only in this country but. in other countries early operation in acute appendicitis is now the rule. In Normay Medicine, Dr. Morton H. Gjessing reports 190 cases oi appendicitis, in which appendix had burst (performated), treated by operation. 1n 119 cases with performatlon and small amount oi peritonitis (inflammation of fis- sues surrounding the appendix) there were no deaths. 1n 49 case! with considerable peritonitis in tilt right side of the abdomen theri was 1 death. In 22 cases of perfor- ation with a great amount of peri- tonitis there were 2 deaths. This report covers all the cases of ap- pendicitis brought to Sore Sunn- more hospital ‘from 1938 to 1948, since no patient was rejected u too weak for operation. » When we realize that the death rate practically everywhere in acute appendicitis is now only about 1 in 200 where early oper- ation is performed, and is only about 3 in 200 where the appendix has burst and pouring pus on tho surrounding tissues causes that dangerous condition peritonitis, we may well be proud of our physic- Continued on page 3 ORANGE-ABOUT COSTUME The bolero-dress —- an ideal bulc outfit. for. Summer! With the bol- ero on, it's o cost that goes everywhere; minus the bolero. n cool cap sleeve charmer. No. 2535 is cut in sizes 12, 14. l6. 18, 20, 36, 38, 40, 42, 44 and 4o. also 18 bolero, 2 yards 85-inch; dress, 3% yards 35 inch. . Send 25c for each Pattern which includes ($001133!!! lowing guide. Print your Name. 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