" The Island's Greatest Event! 00ml!‘ 0hr Says- (Continued from Page 2t my own work and busy. don't tell me what a poor housekeeper ! am and how nice some other woman keeps'her home. Don't hang your family around my neck. It is hard enough to care for our immediate family without in-laws being thrown in. Don't tell me how your mother used to do this or that. Every wife resents that molt of all. Don't begrudge me every penny you give me for the ex- penses of the home. You get more enjoyment out of it than I do. Don't begrudge me a few clothes once in a while. Nothing tnltes the pep out of a woman and drags her down and makes her so discontented as having to wear old clothes year after year. Don't act as if my opinion is worth less than nothing. I held down a good job for several years before we were married. Don't expect me to look like a million dollars on a ten-dollar-a- mouth allowance. Before we were married l had ten times that much for clothes and spending. Don't say you would do this or that if you- wero not married. You are the one who did the asking. Don't nag me. Say a thing and let it ride. A man nagger is worse than a woman nag~ ger. Don't be a quitter. Don't run to your stenographer or some other sympathetic woman with tales of your marital woes. Of course, marri- age is full of sacrifices and full of work and worry, but you had intelli- gence enough to know that before you married, so buck up and take it on the chin and grin. And don't think that you have been stung because I am human instead of a conjurer who can work miracles in labor and economy and still remain young and fascinating and even-tempered. If you will go with me fifty-fifty and stand shoulder to shoulder with me and fight the good fight with me, and we will build a home to be proud of and make marriage a success. A STRUGGLING WIFE ANSWER: 1 can add nothing to this woman's letter. ft is a good working schedule that every husband should frame and hang above his one 6km“ l-iiTEK Tarn BRAND New W THE GUARDIAN. it every morning when he shaves, and if hs will follow it there will be fewer peevlsh and discontented wives. For marriage is harder on women than it ls on men and just as many wives get disillusioned and tired of their husbands as there are husbands who fall out of love with their wives, and if men want to re- 'taln their wives‘ affections they have to keep themselves attractive and interesting and worth while to the ladies to whom they are married. ‘ DOROTHY DIX mirror where he will ses DEAR MISS DIX: For thirty years my husband and I have made a happy home for ourselves and three unusually fine children. But my husband has one quality that has often caused rne pain. Women are simply irresistible to him and he can't be near one without getting ‘all popped up and swelling out his chest and trying to attract her attention until he reminds me of nothing so much as a strutting turkey gobbler. By steadfastly refusing to see or talk about this I have kept UP ‘he dignity of the family, but it is very wearing on me. and if l had not bccn brought up to be a perfect lady 1 would be temlllfid i0 h" hi"! over the head when he makes such a spectacle olfnhrlzrgstgléFFERlNa ANSWER: Certainly a flirtatious husband. and particularly an old one who fancies himself as a lady-killer, is hard for a wife to endure. not because slie is torn with jealousy. but 119%"!!! She i! mmflfled 5' the figure of fun he makes of himself. But really there is nothing the uife can do except to shut her eyes and call her sense of humor to her aid, for these middle-aged, recon- diiionod SllElKS \vho always want to paw flnppers and kiss every pretty young girl are so besotted with vanity that they are beyond uil human aid. Particularly are they beyond their wives aid, for when the vlgft: tries to save them from their folly they think she is jealous and l fl just eggs them on. ' So you just have to make up your mind to endure these little flirta- tions and he generous éflillllflh ntot t}?! llicellfbltdg: £39m because YOU!‘ 1W5‘ " 1' h l o c ou o em. band.is get ing suc a w ae a DOROTHY DIX _._..._._ DOROTHY DIX cannot reply personally to readers, but will answer problems of general interest "HD1181! h" "Ylumn- -__ CHARLOTTETOWN - Ellesllllsry (Continued from Page 2) those 10f “that Summer we ‘hip- ped’ the barn" with subsequent works of long-planned repair or building always memorable and most satisfying to James and mo. War years, sad in their space and slow passing with their attendant sorrows to many we knew well and others only by, name, and the try- ing years of depressions. when life bore down heavily on farm-folk. yet left them many a challenge and delight, would leave their shadows as they moved slowly along. O O O But there would be, we know. wlnsome pictures of two small lllls as lie tells now to Jeanie, looking lightly at the affairs of our moth- erhood "tagging along after me" at work in the fields or about the buildings, learning from him to love much the ways of the land. though it was deep-set in the blood as well. Small fellows that in their play were not so much taken up with toys, but in a corner of lawn or garden fenced tiny perfect fields with small rails, and dotted the en- closure that was meadow with ln- trigulng bits of whittllng that were their herds. Other land they ploived and harrowed and sowed to crops so that "as the twig ls bent, NEW I950 RINSO M. minimum ens our MORE Dllt lilsiiii...lilsilin M?! 0101a r1103‘... r/bie/ saris‘. a om» For the whitest, brightest wash you've aver seen- get New ‘I950 Rinse with Solium iodoyl It's the greatest soup svsi-Karoduesd by the world-famous lsvsr Luboratorlo-sl NEW i950 |l|||50 elves sns vviiirssr IIASII . noun AMIIICAN ms l. S. STEVENSON “sum, lunch Manager * “t. 140 niciimouo sr. ' Al! Profits for Policyholden so is the tree lnclinedj’ because meaningful words to us who grew up along with.them. . I O There would come to the screen of James’ mind the buying of Rob's farm, a gigantic venture for us but necessary in the consideration of the future happiness of the family and bringing for a time extra work and as is usual to farm-folk a mea- sure of anxiety. Familiar and now lost. faces come tllere to James‘ fancy. as he sits in his armchair, and those of newer generations. And after years that were childless for us, except for visiting children we enjoyed, the grand-children will be pictured there: Jamie, a sober fellow with inquiring mind, lifting brown and often puzzled brown eyes shyly, and the Gage~feilow dimpling on longer acquaintance and much to James’ liking showing a knack of "handling his hands" in taking care of himself. O I I She too, our grand-daughter, sunny and demanding by turns. with her quaint sayings and her endearing ways. All of these scenes and many, many more James is viewing in mind tonight in the smoke-wreaths that blllow and fade as he takes stock of past years. and as he puts down his pipe and sighs we wonder if he sees any connec- tion between a girl that was and an elderly woman that is in that intriguing land of fancy to which ha has turned on this our Anni- versary of marriage. O O O We have spent the day pleasantly, hurrying our bread-making and other morning chores to be ready to set off with Rob past noon to the distant picnic grounds. Mr. A., neighbor to them, came too, and two lads who live opposite to Jamie, happy anticipation bright in their eyes. Through lovely countryside we came to a shore where an arm of the sea makes a sheltered bay. Across from the place where young- er and older enjoyed their bathing, a village sat amid its. clustered houses. A lighthouse is there to remind us of twinkling lights on the Strait and a church, with its spire in the heavens, and nearer us to the right, sand-dunes like those out of beloved stories reach- ed up to touch an horizon. And what a fine time the picknickers had! O O I And how kind and considerate were our hosts and hostesses of the surrounding acres and linme- stead to "the strangers within their gates!" Table-cloths were spread on the grass of a meadow that is a shore-field in the shade of a woodsy spot, for our meal, and he- low on the beach a fire of drift- wood, bleached hy tides and suns heated the tea-kettle to boiling. We dined royally, and were regretfiil when the sun slipped out. of sight and the dewy afterglow was come to call farm-folks back to the du- ties of home. Longlngly we would keep these June days with us. to stsy their flight if we could, know- ing well that the only way to have them stay ls to mark well such lovely events as today's in me- H1071. I O I "How many years since I was married, Ellen?" James queries in words that make us chuckle. and when we tell him the length of our journey together he comments, and there could be a compliment concealed in the meaning, "Well. honestly, Ellen, it seems so short a time~ss though it began only the other year!" . Until tomorrow - . - Diary - - - Good-night. - - - IN MEMORIAM GEORGE W. BALLEM ‘DINO peacefully swsy at his home in Pownal. April 21st. George W. Bsliom in his 85th your. The deceased had been s prosper- ous farmer, retiring seventeen years ago. He had been in falling was tenderly cared for by his wife. He is survived by his wife and one son Lloyd on the old home- stead and two grand _children George Eric of Village Green and Blair of Charlottetown. and one gross oluld Richard Lloyd. A daughter Thelma predeceased hills fifteen years ago.‘ ‘rile funeral service was conduct- ed at the home by Rev. Mr. Weir. assisted by Rev. Mr. Movies: and Llc. Brian Hewlett. , The mulls sung were: the Arms of Jesus and the lord is Myshepliessi. The psilbssrsrs was: Vernon and Willard Brshaut, Henry and Russell Jenkins. Dan and Andrew Cannon. Tiie remains were lsld to rest- in the family plot in Birch Hill Cem- story. CARD OF THANKS The family of tbs lstn Ooorse W. latlun. Pownsl. wish lo extend sincerest tnanis to all who helped in any ,Wl1- duriss their sad bereavement. 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