, nusl ''Irs.Alvin , . In uP.Iv l ', to Ittnd Qhslothlr. In hiplin, I c uadarwan Q, oration in it , I p Women's realm TAG! TWO I'll GUARDIAN FEBRUARY 28. 1952 Happen ings of T The Week Queen Elizabeth fl and the Duke of Edinburgh are expected to make their tour of Australia --cancelled this month by the King's sudden death-either late In 1953 or 1954. Tour plans. start- ed before the King's death. are going ahead. Engineers will con- tinue working on the R. A. A. F. aircraft which will fly the Royal couple around the country and cars acquired for the Royal party will also be retained. a 0 Q The Ottawa Journal. says Nich- olas Eden. 20-year-old son of An- thony Eden, wili be an aide at Government House after Rt. Hon. Vincent Massey becomes Govern- or-General this month. The news- paper declares Mr. Massey and Mr. Eden have long been friends. parti larly during the wartime pcrio when Mr. Massey was Can- .-uiian High Commissioner in Lon- don and Mr. Eden was-as he is now-British Foreign Secretary. Nicholas is a student at Oxford University. Mr. Massey has known him since he was a child. I I I Because it falls within the three month period of court mourning fnr King George VI. the qpening of the new parliamentary session at Ottawa will be a quiet affair. Men attending the opening will be expected to wear dark clothes and a tie to match. The same proto- col will be applicable to women's dresses and lists. The usual Speakers' receptions won't be held. I I I Prime Minister St. Laurent was in Quebec yesterday when he re- reived an honorary degree at the University of Laval. I I I His Honour Lieutenant-Governor T. W. L. Prowse and Mrs. Prowse left last Sunday for a trip to Que- bec and Ontario. I I I Hon. Bradford VV. LePage cel- ebrated his seventy-sixth birth- day on Tuesday. I I I Mrs. George E. Ives entertain- ed Tuesday and Friday evenings, when four tables of ladies' bridge were in play. a I 0 Mrs. P". G. Huicheson entertain- ed Tuesday evening at a Canasta party. I I I Miss Helen l-fobkirk was hostess at a delightful luncheon bridge at "The Charlottetown" on Wed- nesday. I I I Dr. and Mrs. J. P. Lantz enter- tained at dinnrrr Tuesday evening. I I I A small. family gathering was held at "Thu Charlottetown” on Tuesday in honour of the ,,oiden wedding anniversary of Mr. and Mrs. Benjamin Rogers, Sr. I I I Mr. and Mrs. R. C. Parent. en- lertsined at a most enjoyable din- ner and dance at the Exper- imental Farm on Monday evening. I I Mrs. W. E. Scantiebury was hostess at a tea Wednesday after- noon honouring Mrs. E. M. Hob- fnson, who. with her husband, will be leaving Charlottetown shortly. T I I I Mrs. F. 8. Chandler. Fitzroy St.. has as her guest Mrs. W. Mac- Lsren of Georgetown. i I I The annual meeting of the Queen Mary Needlework Guild was held at "The Charlottetown" on Monday. I Sqd.-Ldr. R. H. Biackmore. ac- companied by Mrs. Blackmore. is I guest at "The Charlottetown." I I I A group of interested women met at the home of Mrs. J. A. Lawson yesterday for further dis- cussion on the work of the Cana- dian Association of Consumers. A remarkable interest is being shown in the work of this organization. of which Mrs. Lawson is the Pro- vincial president. I I I Mrs. Gordon White and Mrs. Sinclair MacKay were hostesses at a supper bridge at the home of the tormcr on Wednesday eve- ning. I I 1 Her friends are sorry to hear that Mrs. H. L. Palmer is in the hospital. suffering from an attack of pneumonia. a c The Woman's Auxiliary of st. Peter's Cathedral put on the nu- choir banquet Wednesday Ivenlng. Among the guests was one of the original members of the choir. Mr. Charles 1-line. A presentation was made to the Cathedral organist, Miss Suzanne Brenton. by Canon Malone. o o a Dr. and Mrs. G. 6. Houston en- tertained Wed.nes.day evening. It is horned with regret that Dr. Donald Campbell is ill at his home here. I I Mr. and Mrs. Elwood Brohaut entertained at mixed bridge on rucsdsy evening in honour of Mr. and Mrs. W. Chester 5. Mcnure. who will be leaving for Ottawa loan. Mrs. Brchaut. was hostess It a ladics' bridge party on Wed- nndl: waning. . . Mr. W. A. Lystcr and Mr. .7. I1. Wight of Montreal are staying It '1'lIc Charlottetown". i I I I Mr. and Mrs. Stewart Macltav home last Sundays night (III I trip lg man.-h. it. Hal- & arrived in CV Honda) The Beta Sigma Phi Sorority met at the home of Miss Milli- cent Porter. Orlcbar St.. Wednes- day evening. The hostess was as- sisted by the Misses Kitty Muc- Leod and Jeanne Macftae. , I I I A most enjoyable dance was held at the Curling Club last night for club members and the visiting curlers who have been participating in the Confederation Bonspiel. I I ' Mrs. W. G. Hogg. Jr., entertain- ed on Tuesday evening in honour of her sister. Mrs. R. G. Barrie of Toronto. I I I The Friendship Group of the Charlottetown Baptist Church held a delightful afternoon tea on Wednesday. I I Prior to the P. W. C. Valentine Dance on Monday evening. Miss Frances Wilson entertained at her home on Ambrose Street. I I I Mr. 1'. .A. Home and Dr. B. 0'Meara left on Sunday on a six weeks' motor trip to St. Peters- burg. Florida. En route they plan t.o visit Mr. Marc Sandow. Pro- fessional at the Beivedere Golf Club, and Mrs. Sandow, in Tar- pon Springs. Florida. I I I Mrs. L. F. MacDonald on Tues- day evening entertained at bridge at her home on Hiiisboro Street. I I I Mrs. G. D. DeBiois is enter- taining at the tea hour this after- ncnn in honor of Miss Dorothy Andrew. a-bride-elect. I I I Misses Doris 1-iillion and Helen Massey entertained at the form- er's apartment before the Prince of Wales Formal Dance on Mon- day evening. 0 e a , Mrs. George C. Fisher was hostess at an afternoon tea at her Longworth Avenue apartment on Wednesday. On Thursday eve- ning Mrs. Fisher entertained friends at bridge. u a Friends are pleased to learn that Mrs. L. H. Poole, of Mont- ague. is making a satisfactory re- covery at home, after her recent operation in the King's County Memorial Hospital. I I I Her friends regret that Mrs. William Condon is a patient in the Charlottetown Hospital. I I I The marriage took place yester- day of Enid Mary Gill. daughter of Mr. and Mrs. A. O. F Gill. Charlottetown. to Sergeant Rich- ard Louis Winchester, U.S.A.F. in Wesley Methodist Church, Hamil- ton. Bermuda. I I I Mrs. Eric Wilson and Mrs. Wal- ter Auld and daughter Joan. have left to spend the week-end in Moncton. Mrs. Wilson is visit- ing with Mr. and Mrs. W. R. Sears and Mrs. Auld with her sis- ter, Mrs. J. M. Roper. . . 0 Miss Noreen O'Connor. R. 34.. formerly of the nursing staff of the P. E. 1. Hospital. left this week for Gardiner, Maine. where she will be attached to the Civic Hospital. I I I The Overseas Nursing Sisters Unit met at the home of Mrs. W. E. MacKay. Orlebsr Street on Tuesday night for s. business and social evening. During the social period two tables of bridge were in play. I I I Her many friends are sorry to learn that Miss Norma Duvnr. daughter of Mr. and Mrs. A. H. Duvar, Spring Park Road. this week had the misfortune to break her arm while skiing. I I I Mrs. H. L. Smith entertained at four tables of bridge at her Roch- ford Street apartment last night and will be entertaining again this evening. I I I Mr. and Mrs. Ervin Champion of Kenslngton, wers week-and guests of Mr. and Mrs. W. E. Beairsto. I I I Mrs. E. C. Burhoe entertained friends at bridge on Tuesday and Wednesday evenings. I I I Bridge hostesses this week in- ciude Miss Eileen Christopher. Richmond Street, who entertain- ed frlends on Tuesday night. I I I Miss Isabelle Storey entertain- ed last evening for her mother, Mrs. J. .7. Storey on the occasion of her birthday. I I I Miss Mario Bowness. Director of the Prince Edward Island Branch of the Junior Red Cross, is unfortunately ill in the P. E. 1. Hospital. , I I I Mr. and Mrs. J. P. Gordon, Lcngwcrth Ave. are leaving on Tuesday on a two months' vaca- tion trlp to various cities in Canada and the United sum. They plan to visit in San Diego, California. and from then they will travel along the west coast to Vancouver and Victoria. En route home they will visit in Toronto, Ottawa and Washington. DC. I I I Mrs. W. A. Gsudef. of Sum- morside. left by car last Friday afternoon In company with her son. Mr. W. Albert Gaudct, for Moncton. N. 3.. on her way to Pawtudm, Rhoda Island. USA. While in Pswtuclist Mrs. Oaldot will visit with her sister, In two weeks by way of Mont- rsal to visit there with hat daugh- ters. Mrs. James D. lnhana and That Body Of Your: I! hid W. IIIIII. ID. J MOI! ABOUT IILIIVEG INT!-ACTABLE 03 UN- BEAIAILE PAIN It is now generally ugued, um; the most frequent cause of pat- ients consulting their physiclui 1; to obtain relief from pain. In most cases, pain can be re. lieved by the use of acetyl salicylic acid (aspirin) but there are Various decrees of pain and, as is well known, patients react differently to pain. There is one type or de. gree of pain that is so severe that even the pain-killing drug, may. phine, is not able to relieve it. This is known as intractable or unbearable pain. For this intract- able pain. particularly when ac. comimnied by deep grief. there is the operation iobotomy. cutting the nerves in the front part of the brain where the emotions are loc- ated. I have written about the suc- cess and occasional failure of this operation. In The Journal of Neu- NSWKEFY (nerve surgery), Dr, John E. Scarlf (Columbia Univer- 8113') classes the results obtained by unilateral prefrontal loboiomy 101' P3111 B5 good if the patient no longer voluntarily complains 0; pain or requires pain-killing drugs tnarcotics); fair if there is some pain and narcotic (though less than beforel are needed; and poor if there is no lessening of the pain or narcotics are required. Good results were obtaiiicd in 38 of 58 patients (66 per cent); :01. low-up averaged five moiit-hs. In two-thirds of the cases pain was due to cancer which could not be 1'0m0l'ed by surgery or other means. including cancer of the mouth. neck. and cervical or neck part of the spine. Fair results were obtained in 12 patients L20 per cent) and poor resulis in eight (M per cent); de- tailed studies showed no change by lobowmy from the standpoint of the emotional. structural or soc. ial aspects. Of the 12 patients who had only fair results. dye had no Organic illness. After unilateral lobotomy. each patient. appeared better. ate and slept well and carried out full routines. They complained and asked for medicine but placebos (Dills which contain no drug but look the same as the pain-killing drug) appeared to give relief from Pain. The fact that 66 per cent of these cases obtained complete re- lief from intractable pain and 2:) per cent obtained fair results shows that lobotomy is very much worth while. not only from the stand. point of the patient but from the lBm11l"s standpoint also. ..mj,gg Mrs. A. Bruce MacLean, before returning to Summerside. I I I The hostesses at the Summer- slde Curling Rink this evening will be Mrs. T. L. Linkleiter. Mrs. G. N. Mulhoiiand. Mrs. Ruby Brown and Mrs. Roy Boat”, I I I Mrs. D. F. Maf'Ncill left Sum. merside on Monday to attend the weddinx of her son. Hubert. She was accompanied by her daughter. Miss Margaret Mac-Neill. . . . Dr. and Mrs. A. A. Lockhnrt entertained a number of their friends at their home in Summer- side on Tuesday evening. . o a Mrs. J. A. Bernard has return- cd to her home in Tignish much improved in health after spend- ing the past two weeks in the Charlottetown Hospital. I I I M"- -7- W- Lecky. Summerside. was hostess at three tables of bridge on Tuesday evening. I I I Miss Annabel Allen left Sun- day for Springfield, Mass., to be bridesmaid at the wedding of her friend, Miss Bette Havacan. I I I Mrs. Ethel Mussen entertained at bridge at her home in Sum- merside on Tuesday evening. - - . Miss Bessie MacDonald return- ed on Thursday to her home in Kensingion after spending the vast week in Summerside. guest of Miss Lulu Toombs. . a . Mrs. Mark Delaney left Sum- merside Thursday for Brocton, Massachusetts, to attend the fu- neral of her sister, Mrs. J. J. Condrlrk. She was accompanied by her daughter, Mrs. Henry Wedge. I I I Mr. and Mrs. Leslie Simmons have returned to their home in Summerside from a trip to South Carolina and Florida. c a 0 Mrs. R. L. Willet left Summer- side on Sunday for Gienhoime, N. S.. due to the sudden death of her nephew. Mr. Alfred Boyd, in an auto accident in Truro. N. S. ROME, Feb. 20-(AP)-The news- paper Ii Tempo reported yesterday that the Itaiisn Middle East Pet- roleum Compsny signed 3 barter contract with the Iranian National Petroleum Company in Tehran Sunday for 2,000,000 tons of petro- ieum annually for to years. Pay- ment -for the oil, the newspaper said, would be in Italian p.oduct.s and services. SWEETFN A Sour STOMACH I'iiIllIi'5' MILK II IAIIIIIA um. 'l'MmI Inn. and will Morn at Acadia. Miss with pro that place"? VIII I.ll.I.E. tolsinlp gr . Miss Joan McGowan Of considerable interest to resid- ents of Prince Edward lsinad. is the recent announcement from Acadia University. Woifviile. N. S.. of the selection of Miss Joan Mc- Gowan. of Kilmuir. P. E. 1., as winner of the annual I. 0. D. E. Overseas Post Graduate scholar- ship. giving her the right to study, without personal Cost, at any uni- versity in the United Kingdom. For those who know Miss Mc- Gowan personally. her being chosen as winner of this coveted award is not a surprise. Miss Mic- Gowaii. who graduated from Mon- tague High school. and who had an excellent record at Prince of Wales College, has had a brilliant career at Acadia University. Last year she graduated from Acadia with her Bachelor of science de- gree. with Honours in Biology. During her undergraduate days McGowan found time to give leadership in many class and campus activities. She was secretary of the Pre-Med Club. of the Celtic society. and conven- or of the Biology Seminar. In her graduating year, she was elected life secretary by her rlassrnates. At present. Miss McGowan is working on her Master's degree in Biology at Acadia. specializing in plant cyto genetics and her inten- tion is to continue research in that field. probably at Cambridge. although her plans for the coming year are not finalized as yet. xooqtmxxzo i A? Better English If .. C. Wllllli . 1. What is wrong with this sen- fence? "We bought the apple: of! of s farmer." 2. what is the correct pronunc- lation of "Rio Grande"? 3. Which one of these words is misspelled? Treatise. ai-mistise. promise. premise. 4. What. does the word "dig- ression" mean? word beginning "common- 5. What is a means ANSWERS l. Say. "We bought the apples from a farhier." 2. Pronounce re- 0 grand-da. first a as in ab. sec- ond a as in day. accent first syl- lable of each word. 3. Armistice. 4. Act of turning aside. "Here is a startling digression from the facts." 5. Prosaic. e Modern Etiquette l By Roberts has . Q. Do the male members of a party at a public dinner table rise when another man stops at the table for a few words with one of the diners? A. Not unless there is a great difference in age. All younger men rise for a really old gentleman. Q. When entering one's own house with visitors. does the host- ass lead the way or stand back and invite them to enter the zoom first? A. The guests go first. unless the hostess has to light a light or show them the way. Q. Is it proper for friends, who are living in a distant city, to send it wedding gift. of money to the newlyweds? i A. This is quite all right. 'EI.I.Ell'S mitt Qanllnlnnanwvo Ahsdcwsi We rununblt thou which lay about in the sprink- touchod sunshine of today - lb! rounded blue of the spruccs along the mill-dun and th wide- spread dark trsceriaa of 0 white birch on the lawn. 'I7h91'O W0 path leads to the house across til! lane . . . We remember now too. the shadows that crowd into sick rooms tonight where loved ones keep anxious watches. perhaps by the bedside of a child that is ill. stepping gently . . . hushed . . . watching the slow hands of I timepiece. Thinking us we have often done. that maybe, indeed likely, once the midnight hour on past. our small one. much beloved though sometimes but a transi- tory gut, would be better. Mean- while, staying a heart with prom- ises. when lips moved, bending 90 catch the words which after all were mostly unrelated and with- out meaning. watching the fever burn. . . eye-lids flicker . . . open unseeing. , ting to our- seli something often spoken idly and in fun. . .but now something to hold to desperately: "me dark- es time is just before the dawn." I I I Wishing. hoping-, praying - not knowing which is which for in times of illness there are no def- inite boundaries between the three. Until at length, when the house was very still, eyes that could now see opened -- looked up. A war. smile flickered and the small patient drifted away into a. healing sleep. Then are the lines clear-cut. This. with an ealntio sigh, is definitely a prayer. Ay, there are shadows in sick rooms tonight. some will pass to have folks appreciate with thanksgiving how blessed are those days we sometimes dare call 'm0not0n0us' when all about is well. I I I lie beautifully now the neighboring tields Shadows along ours and farmlands. on the moonlit and edging the wooded places. with James we walked through the night, returning only minutes ago from a. "kaiey" with Mr. and Mrs. A. at their cozy home "in" the road, in the direction but not so distant as Rob's. There one is aware of the approach of the Day of rest. All work except. the neces- sary is rested. if the old order in regard to keeping Holy the Sabbath has passed out of fashion in some farm-homes and is replaced by a more casual observance which allows -for certain iaxities that in- clude workaday items, the A's fol- low strictly the nice old paths of their foi-ebcars.1t is doubtful if there will be any light. reading there on The Lord's Day but. we are confident there will be that of the Psalms. I I I Along shadowy white aisles of snow we walked home in the moonlight. our footsteps crunch- ed pleasantly while the mill- stream kept time in a meadow be- low. "1 was just wondering" James offered into the silence, "if the old -folks were to come back to these times, Ellen - to lights along the country and cleared winger-roads. to the dozens of conveniences and comforts this generation enjoys. what would they say? And "on another thought" would they keep their Sundays as religiously as they once did? Chil- dren had to put. by sleds and skates and toys on Saturday even- ing for over the sabbath. That was keeping too close to the let- ter. don't. you think so. Ellen? still it taught us a profound re- spect for the day." Shadows, exquisite . . .or dim and foreboding. But "shadows teach us many things, some very trite and true- For instance, if you walk FROM light They lie in front of you; But it you turn and face about And walk TOWARD the light, The shadows all fall far behind. which proves that you are right." Until Monday-. -Diary Good-night . . . . . HUGE COPPER - SOURCE The republic of Chile is believed to have the world's largest copper deposits. It EDGE WITH BEAUTY Beautify hankies with edging! These are lovely in white or color for linens. lingerie and collars and cuffs. In No. so cotton they are 36 to lit inches, the two corners are so; inches. Pattern 7123: easy-crochet. direc- tions SIX edgingsi TWO corncrsi Send Tvventy-five cents in coin for this pattern (stamps cannot be sccepted) to A110! BROOKS De- slsns. clo The Guardian. co Front Street West. Toronto, Ontario, Plum in-int plainly Name. Address and Pattern Number. HowCsnllil A 3! Alli Mlle) T . mummy. Q. How can I clean a stich bean pot? A. The best method is to put a teaspoonful of soda into the pot. fill it with boiling water, and place in the oven for a few hours. This will clean the pot very effectively. and with little effort on your part. Q. How can I prevent the flour goth lumping when making I pud- 9 fit. A. Mix the flour and sugar well together before you begin to add the milk Q. How can I clean brick tiles? A. It is said that brick files will look like new if they are washed with vinegar. wlter. -. Rinu with clear. .-m--.-.-u-r--.g1,1-,-, ,- Iha Stars Sav - ' lg on-mm sauna lir.'l'a'uarnw -rams ii I continued hclidcy spirit, with the accent on the pur- suit of pleasure. Conventional celebrations. patriotic programs. may be enhanced by stimulated quest of social enjoyment. and di- version. In such merry and exhil- arating pastime, do not overlook the elderly, the studious and the hard-workim. shun all forms of over-indulgence. and keep alert to accident. For The Birthday Those whose birthday it is may look for a pleasant and prosper- business objectives should be soundly organized for future growth and expansion. Make no decisions under excitement or forced issues. Guard against dis- putes or possible litigation. Keep calm. conservative. A child born on this day has ex- cellent prospects for I prosperous. constructive and happy life. Early discipline of a too-eager or force- ful temperament is suggested. Dsy After Toinorrvw THE horoscope holds iiuguries of a sustained period of happiness. enjoyment and stimulated social and cultural. as well as romantic functions. with the prospect of a higher order of emotional or spiri- tual values. In fact. all concerning the inner or deeper profundities of mind. heart. and soul may take precedence over sordid pursuits or emotional expression. Art. poetry. religion. may capture the imagin- ation and energies rather than more worldly diversions. For The Birthday Those whose birthday it is may look for s period of unfolding of the finer forces and faculties. pos- sibly tlndlng expression in music. poetry, creative art, or in those opportunities for exploitation or promotion concerning these. In- spirational. occult, strange ideas or urges could be made practical and profitable, with many seductive and thrilling stimuli. Inner guid- ance. premonition: may guide. A child born on this day may have an exceptional endowment. with rare talents or leads born of intuitive, inspired faculties. -M ouselioid Scrapbcolcl By Roberta Ln nmnm' The Carpet Sweeper When cleaning the carpet sweep- er. remove the brush and after taking of! all hair and lint. rub well with I cloth wet in kerosene, Let the brush remain in the air until the odor has evaporated. sugary Jun Jam that has been stored too long becomes hard and sugary. but if it is placed in a. warm oven until the sugar melts it will be nv. for use again. Old Bath Towels When bath towels begin to wear out-. use the good parts for child- ren's bibs. They are easily washed out after each meal and need not be ironed. Vi'r.xm.mcx-...-ntemoaxkxaos Cook's Corner a DIEAT LOAF Two cups soft. bread crumbs, 1 cup milk, 2 eggs. slightly beaten, 15 cup minced onion. 2 tablespoons chili sauce. 1 tablespoon salt. ll teaspoon pepper. 1 pound ground beef, 1 pound ground veal. if pound ground salt pork, 3 strips bacon halved. Soak brea d crumbs in milk 5 minutes. Add eggs, onion, chili sauce. salt and pepper. Add ground meat. and mix lightly until well blended. Pack in greased loaf pan it x 6 x 3. Cover with bacon and bake in moderately hot oven (400 degrees F.) about 40 minutes until lightly browned. Unfnoid and gar- nish with sprigs of parsley. Yield: 10 to 12 servings. SCALLOPED OYSTER-8 one cup butter. 8 cups soft. bread crumbs. 2'5 teaspoons salt, ts teaspoon pepper. 2 cups cut watercress. I quarts oysters. Melt butter. Add crumbs, season- ings and watercress. and mix well. Arrange drained oysters in alter- nate layers shallow baking dishes. using crumbs for the top layer. Bake in a not even (460 d. F.) 20 minutes. Yield: 12 servings. Nola: 2 tablespoons lemon juice may replace the wstercicu. Morning Smile j Tough A guest conductor wu driven almost only at rdiearsals because at least. one member of the orch- estra was always missing. After ous year. in which important mat- , ters should be promoted and with , an idea of prolonged and enduring j culminations. Major financial and ' Heartless Woman's Efforts or of three children. My trouble always seemed to hate me. they all treated ways. I try to pretend Moria Nlssen Now I have ANSWER: At no time do we favor, and all you ask in return is ly isn't forthcoming. will get. shoulder. best thing to do is stop them. fiiniiiy's respect-if not their love. Stop visiting them: it they decide they'll come calling themselves. You have your own family life to bring up. friends. DEAR MISS DIX: able to make friends. der if that could be the reason why he the cause of all your difficulty. once at school. tion. DEAR. MISS DIX: meet people of both countries. and also correspond with people. your city, is the ideal association the last rehearsal be tapped for attention and said: "1 want to thank the first violinist publicly for being the only man in the orchestra who had the decency to attend every rehearsal." The first violinist hung his head. "It. seemed the least I could do." he said in a deprccating tone. "You see. I don't expect to turn up for the concert tonight!" tt'orIo Off A man who went to his doctor's consulting room was somewhat surprised when the nurse told him to step into the next room and re- WHXRL OF FLOVVIII Bio Willis!-3L SKIRT. Jr. Miss! It has n big whirl of flowers! Tulip or daisy applique-it's so easy to apply. That skirt is one of the jiffy-sow variety -. three piccasf And the super little blouu is super-simple sewing too! Pattern 473i. Jr. Miss sin: ti. 13. 15. 17. size is skirt. :96 yards 35-inch: blouse, 155 ylrds, A3,. plioua directions included. This Dlttern easy to use. simple to sew; is tested for fit. Has com. piste illustrated instnictions. send Thirty-five cents (ate) in coins (stamps cumot ban. cepled) for this pattern. Print plainly Else. Name. Address. style Number. and order to ANNE ADAMS. all: of The Guardian. at Front, street West. Toronto. Ontario. DIAIETICS I was the youngest of four children and my father's mother, brothers and sisters resented dad's psrtlsllty towards in. care if I win my family's love or not. I have been an easy mark for them, in my endeavor to have their approval. Now I don't feel that way any more. Should K stay lwgy from my family since they have no respect or love for me or min; and no consideration for my feelings? vou will he put in touch with folks from Canada. Brits n. lingllsh-speaking countries as well as the United States. Relatives. To Win Family's Love. Approval Are In Vain DEAR DOROTHY DIX: I am a married woman of M. th , childhood. 137.21. favorite. My and dates back to my I started to work when I was 3). and sent half my money ham. to my mother every week. -In fact. I have dons everything ! could to win the love and approval of my family. While I was sending the money hon", me very well. but after I married and stopped working, they went back to the old Now when I go to visit them (the family nm lives together though my brothers and sine" ", married). they don't seem a bit glad to see me, gym in fact act as though they'd be glad to see me and not come back. They show no love or sites tion for my children. either. They never visit mg, to my husband that our family in a very happy one. but I'm sure he's not fooled. come to the point where I don't UP to now RUBY ANN: put ourselves so at the mercy gf others as when we want to win love and approval. Your anxiety to be liked puts you in A position where you cannot refuse to do . a smile or kind word-which usual. STOP TRYING Unfortunately, the more you exert yourself. the less return you The minute you cease to be a soft touch, you get a cold Realizing, therefore, the utter futility of all efforts, the This system will at least win your They will certainly never respect you while you continue to play the underdog. , Visiting your family just to be hurt and humiliated is foolish. alter a while that they miss you, to build; your own three children Profit by the mist kes made in your childhood and be sure that you and your husband I ow no favoritism. Treat each child equally and avoid future disscnsion in the family circle. have a good husband who is deserving of your best attention. him frankly what the situation is in your family; trying to hide your troubles will only result in an emotional conflict that could lead to actual illness. Create a social circle around your husband and child- dren; plan family outings and activities to include neighbors Don't sit home and brood over your ungrateful relatives: forget them until they realize that your patience has reached thu breaking point, and you are no longer the beggar for their love. You also Tell I am a young man of 23. While in grade school I had lots of friends. but became hard of hearing and finally left school at 16, being in the sixth grade. I was brought up in a good home with I large family, and am socially inclined. I wear a hearing aid and won- Since then I haven't been people are not friendly. BOB s. ANSWER: A hearing old would have little to do with your lack of friends. Many line and great men, including the famous Bernard Baruch. wear such appliances and find them no hindrance. You do have another handicap, however, which could quite easily That is your inadequate education. Sixth-grade schooling is a very poor foundation accordinl W 1003"! high standards of education. This situation, however. is very readily remedied, and I strongly urge you to begin at once to improve it. In fact. you may easily accomplish two purposes by further attend- While acquiring additional learning, you will be with a group of young people all sharing the same problem. and a better foundation for friendship would be hard . improve your knowledge of English. history and geography. 1931'" another language or specialize in some field in which you are ptllifi c- uisriy interested. but however you do. it. E0 Bhtld Wllh YOU? 9 W35” to find. Go to night school. I have recently returned to the United States from Canada and would like to know of reliable clubs where I could I would like to make personal contacts. I. W. ANSWER: The English-Speaking Union. which has a branch in T rough them fo your purpose. 1' and otim Miss Nissen cannot reply personally to readers but will Inswrf problems of general interest through tbl:-column. move his clothes. "But, nurse," be started in "I hoarse Whisper, "it's my throa. "Please do as I tell Wu." IMP” ped the nurse. "or I shall be forced to cancel your appointment." So. shrugging his shoulders. he went into the next room and then sat a young fellow who was look- ing very uncomfortable and quite naked except for I large parcel he held across his knees. "Doesn't that beat cverythins7" said the man. removing his coat. "1 come in here with ii sors throat; and I have to take my clothes off. "What. are you izrumbiine about?" was the reply. "I 5"” came along to deliver this parceg