shwq’ i t ‘TI-IE ciiAaLo-rrizrowisi- GUARDIAN‘ _.,. ~_._ Woman? Realm -:-_Soc'ial and Personal -:- Fashions --'- Etiquette Iybblhlfi l Dorothy LetterBox The Best Way 'to Get a “Kick” From Life. Straight Talk to a Self-Righteous Sinner. How to Tell Whether the Boy Friend Cares "I . . , l A‘; Q. If onehcalls ‘a lady "who a’ stopping aim hoteror apartment blouse, and sends up a card, should or her name be written on the 2,, A. Yes, to avoid any mistake in {Tie delivery. 5?‘ Q- $h0uld a Protestant minister TL introduced as Mister? gfiA. Yes, unless he holds the title ;_f Doctor or Dean, then it is proper “S say Doctor Jones or Dean Jones. I Q. What does r- "champignons” lean? ~ _ A. French mushrooms. Dear Mia Dix-J am just 20 years old and feel that I am not getting any kick out of life. What shall I do? I don't step out much, not because I don't want to, but because I haven't met the right man. , Should I sit around and wait, or should I go when I have a chance, and thus try to brighten my life? I am a business girl. Please advise. ALICE. Answer: ‘ Well, Alice, when you are older you will find out that we mostly have to put the kick in life ourselves, and that if we find happiness we have to go out and hunt for it. Mighty little comes to those who just lit down and fold their hands and wait. . w i4 Morningléfimile’ 2i... .- ‘The little girl was a very timid lit- _ At 20 when you complain of life being dull, stale, ' e "ML and h" f“ql@"\“'a5 "Ymg: ~ ~ flat and unprofitable, you doubtless mean that you rmso" h" m“ M he‘ fears- He‘ lack dates, and that there are not many boys on the horizon. If this is the ‘ed m m] W" {ha} the"? w“ mm‘. case, then you certainly should take advantage of every opportunity to 8o .15 w to“ m “m” “I'd 17°55 ma‘ about and let them find out that you are on the earth. ‘ugs. , "Papa," she asked, “ain't you ‘fraid! _ r bugs?" l In the olden days, according to the novelists of that period, the maid “NO. dear... lmosi admired by men was the shy, shrinking, timid violet sort of young per- UM," you “aid of snakes?“ l son who always stayed at home in her mother's shadow, and who was sought "No dean» out by some adventurous swain who boasted of his discovering her. ' “Papa, aixft you ’frald of nothing? l v ‘Se m the whole vmfld but ‘ml But that type of girl does not ravish the masou ine fancy nowadays. The ' modern youth does not crave violets but sunflowers and the girl who stays i put at. heme by her own fireside and waits for some man to come and dig I I her out will end her days in the spinstcr retreat. i iama?" I HOIIGG/IOIJ Hints 'I‘iie modern girl has to show herself and hit men between the eyes t0 B, m‘ l I“ ‘make them observe that she is living. She has to beat upon the cymbals and boast of her own charms and graces, and, in the commercial phrase, l "sell herself" to'them, or else she is left lamenting. That is why a girl can't '; A Foot Remedy sit back and take things easy and wait for Mr. Right to come along. v , Nothing is better _.for tender feet nan a cold foot laugh,‘ followed by a “risk rub with either alcohol or olive .11. and then dusting with talcum owder. ' l The convention that dOes riot permit omen to seek the attentions of , men openly ‘and aboveboard, places them in an awkward and difficult posi- tion. Of course, if a girl could say to a boy: "Listen, Bill, I like you and enjoy your society and the way you dance. Come on and let's go somewhere and have dinner and then two-step a little," why it would be all easy and simple, but she can't; do that because she can't pay for the evening's amuse- ment, even although she makes a bigger salary than Bill and would be glad l to spend some of if. that way. The GM Range A school blackboard eraser can be '59‘! Y0!‘ Refining the gas range clean. t may be rubbed over the range each lay, removing grease, and no great _.moiint of ‘dirt will accumulate. so all she can do is to sit on the anxious seat and look willing and trust l that Bill will cast an eye in her direction, and her only chance o! having this i happen to her is to camp somewhere in the spotlight. It is hard lines on girls, but some day after men get a. little more ac- climated to women in business, it. will all be changed and girls won't have to hint and scheme to get a date. They will make oneand with the man they want. To Sofieri Winter '. If water Ls hard, add one quart oil lrne-ivatcr to ovcry ion quarts of the ——————- - "at"? “m1 1° will soften it. In the meantime, keep yourself as well to the front as you can if you want to be noticed. ‘ DOROTHY DIX. ~ P R In ents Dear Miss Dlx—My wife is unfaithful to me ahd every time I reproach ' ‘ , a n a ~ i ‘ her for her wrongdoing she bells me to shut up, that she is no more unfaith- ful to me than I am to her. I cannot make hcr understand that I am a man ‘with my hat. on and can go to places and do things that she cannot, and that I will be recognized in the best of society where they will close the door on her. Please advise. A DISGUBTED HUEBAND‘ IIIIOO SAINT JOHN, Oct. iiL-“The ship- norlts of potatoes from points on C. ’. R. lines in New Brunswick and. ilie State of Maine to all parts of A Ianacla and the United States and to‘ Answeri lam; John for export to Havana,’ I like your nerve! It ls simply oolossall Certainly th domestic argu- j lave been exceptionally heavy thisi merit in your house is that of the pot that called the kettle back. Why is it. ‘easorl, said J. M, Woodman, general any more of a crime for your wife to be unfaithful to you than it is for you upci-intolulont oi the C. P. R. in the‘ to be unfaithful w her? Whereln is her disloyalty to you greater than yours vlfllltilllPS and Mamr- for lines east of l to her? The Ten Commandments make no distinction oi sex. "Thou shalt vicgantlc, in all interview today. not commit adultery" was not a command laid alofie upon WOIMH- 1i- W55 ‘Between Aug. 8 and Oct. i9, 3.861 given to a man for men as well. iars of potatoes were shipped over C. P. R. lines, 493 of which came to West Saint John for export. These figures I IOflSilllllc a substantial increase over asst year, when up lo Oct. 1D, 2,319 tears of potatoes were handled, 260 of which came to West SalntJohn .’*'or export. ' ""l‘he potain shipments from West ’ _Salnt John to Havana constituted an iladded inducement to shipper; o! ba- ‘instills to use the port of Saint John ‘because their ships could take on It is quite true that society does not Judge the man sinner as hardly as it does the woman sinner. It is true that the woman offender l-Blifllii the ;moralities has to pay a heavier price than the man does, but this is the result of a man-made rule that was formulated in the effort to keep women virtuous. It has nothing whatever to do with the guilt of either Dirty. Hm! in the eyes of God the man is Just as much a transgressor as is_the woman. So my advice to you is to cease reproaching your wile with her fault until you have cleansed your owil record. Let him that is without sin amonB you throw the first stone it tile Magdalene. and it seems to me that e8 long as your wife has such a snappy comeback as she has, you are well ad- vised to maintain silence on the subject of morals. '66 Photo by O. Dyar, Hollywood must have smooth akin cargoes ol‘ potatoes for the return trip instead of returning in ballast or par. llifllll’ loaded," he continued. “Fully P85 per cent of the potatoes shipped But since you are bom miserable sinners, why do you not forgive each: other, and start over and make a second and more successful attempt to live Milacly Beautiful up to your marriage vows? DOROTHY DIX. Dear Miss Dix-Will you tell me if my boy ii-iend really cam for m" I have been going with him for more than five years. Now I am planning to get married to him, but he doesn't seem to do much of the plannang with me. He only comes to see me two nights a week and the b51811“ 0! "l0 “m” he goes out with his boy friends to dances and 111W" 0‘ lmmflnmk- I b5" given up all my friends for him. Don't you think we should come to some MOTHERS now 1 »- l understandinll about marriage? Al». don't scant-hi: h: ehwllltllétéml’ , oftener? Would it wake him up 11 3 "W14 "9 m’ 9' Y‘ ' of MAGNESIA u...“ It doesn't take any daughter of a seventh daughter to diagnose your W!‘ friend's sentiments. l-ie is tired of rou- Bis love l! 4"‘!- knltd "Y i‘ I'm!‘ drawn-out engagement, and he is trylhl i0 let You i4 W"! "i °fl- I‘ W“ have any self-respect. beat him to it and o it to save your face. out. 0f Saint John by the C. P. E. ' Ithls season have been loaded on board steamers which broilght bananas," I he concluded. . ___.i_ . . m2...- .-s_~r..-- -> Because ityia so help- ful in keeping babies and children healthy and happg, every fiipther ahoui know aboutflill- lips Milk of Magnesia. Thin harmieaa, almost tasteless preparation la ' . most eifectiva in reliev- ‘ ‘ lng those symptoms of babies and-chil- No man on earthwhois in love withagirllimitabiaoallstotwo‘! week. He is always hanging around her, and the only reason a man isnt enthusiastic in planning his weddinl i! 59am‘ h‘ "nflh i‘ u N‘ ‘new’ Don't force this poor chap into an unwillilll mlffllli- 1'1""! mun "M"? to you both. Savayour hope chest for some man who will be oral! to marl’! llld WHO will QhPOW fill 0f can fllOlib DOROTHY DIX. Drop a teaapoonful in a. place on a cocky pan and bake in a quick oven. daCheckegi " One half cup shortening, m cups, mggmyqmfln‘ brown cum. I m. a Dlmh of sill.‘ giant-just i-ubon belching, frequent venison. feverisiums, you and hurrying up the villains d" A teaapoonful of Jtl many uses fit: i ,, ' ' ' DAT! DBO?! ii mica) (fo., Windsor, Ont. luassaoii, o FOREIIEAD _ WRJNKLES There was a time when milady paid very little attention to the appear- anoe of her forehead, for -_that part of her face was‘ so thoroughlyéoovpred that it made little difference. But has come right out into the open. The new styles of hair-dressing are practically all off the face and au- tumn hats encourage this vogue fur- ther hr being de-ilcfled with no brims. Many a womanwho has been care- ful about her chinline, who has re- ligiously used tissue creams and mas- BETTY BONSON Warner Brothers’ star, says: “A star ‘studio skin‘. I find Lux Toilet Soap wonderful for my skin." | the rest of hcr face might indicate. i cidedly the opposite effect. ‘much toward making this feature] ‘ a strip of cloth around the hairline ' to prevent the possibility of getting that is all past now ‘and the forehead. / ‘Literature othing stirs the heart like soft, smooth skin)’. MARY BRIAN, exquisite little Paramount star,“ - : too. Try its-today. Remember: 3a,. a9 leading motion picture directors GIRL with lovely skin, petal-smooth, has a delightful sense of confidence. She knows that she wins hearts wherever she goes. Hollywood has found that it is only the girl with exquisite skin whose charm really win! and holds the great public. A As Lewis Milestone, Paramount director, puts it: “Smooth, exquisite skin is more capti- vating than anything else about a girl. A screen star especially must have perfect skin . -—for the cleverest make-up can’t fake it under the fierce lights of the close-up. “The girls who have achieved stardom,” he’ goes on to say, “though they differ widelyin type, all have this essential beauty of marvel- ous skin.” 9 out of 1O screen stars keep their skin smooth with Lux Toilet Soap When the popular close-up is being taken, the ’ glare from the new incandescent “sun-spot”, lights streams down on the screen star, and any defect in her skin would inevitably be registered on the highly sensitized film. This is why, of the 451 important Hollywood, actresses, including all stars, 442 are devoted .to Lux Toilet Soap. They have found that thin delicately fragrant white soap gives their skin the satin-smoothness necessary for the cloe-up.‘ In fact, so delighted are they with this soap that it has been made the officiai soap in the dressing rooms of all the great film studios. Youwill be charmed with Lux.~Tbi1¢t soap, nine out o’ lien screen etajrswsgse it for smoothskifi, u" are bathroom s? dark marble and gray-green tile which is one of the moat luxurious built inHoilywood. She is one of the 442 important screen actresses who use to keep their skin lovely and smooth. skin is a social asset tool That's why so many stars guard the, amootim Toilet Soap-it: certainly keeps ‘studio . skin’ in perfect oonditionP/ "'_’ \ .4 Lever Brother: Limited, Toronto to any woman, but for a star it Luxury suck a: you bai/efound only in ‘. French soap: at 50c and $ 1.00 tbs cake. Q . M" Lu: Toilet Soap V She says: "The charm of a perfect is a business necessity, . esa of their skin with Lu: 721¢n7,5’-1~l~q LUX Toilet Soap "“” 10? MARIE maven‘ can: 9 r m» “delirious-mean, leaps of Paris is a jay, Lg T°H°t 5°!!! Rives my IHII I dfluihtfui satiny-emoothnaf . the resiTlt that {Se}? this feature makes her appear much older than For it is quite true that a smooth, unlined forehead imparts a very youthful look to one's face while one which is lined and wrinkled has d9. So now that foreheads can no longer be hid they demand some special attention. A thorough fore- head massage once a week will do more attractive. To do this, first tie the hair greasy. The next step, as in any facial, ia to remove all dirt and grime thoroughly by applying a generous coating of cleansing cream. Remoye with soft cloth or tissue squares. Then. with the index fingers, begin between the eyes and work up- ward and outward, gently but firmly, to the hairline. __Continuel this for rthroe br foui-“minutesflalwaya begin- ning between the eyes and then work'- in! upward and outward, massaging the upper forehead and ‘also over the eyebrows. This movement will help remove the frown lines which are ao likely to leave vjhfli’ imprint between the eyes. Next use all theilngers and again, beginning at the bridgirof the nose, continua to massage upwarduld out,- sage to prevcnttiny wrinkles about dren eneriilly mused food in the little digestive tract, Inch ll sour- :.-.~::::..i;.;.;:l:.:""~':.r.:.::l:'r"e “lei-ere e"- i constipation, colds. .- .:eii'i':,di°.."u'e'ii't'ld W! F07’ n3 C09‘ fant feeding, and - i , . fully ex lainevi in i" {"Unfui nfnrrriation. lfll i, FREE. ivi-m The cm. n. m. 1i cup of sour milk, l teaspoon each ' he Phil- ," “Pfl'fjf-l'i‘u'n“jf,ff’fi:u§‘“u,, P". of soda, cloves and mitlllel. 2 to 2% 8 ii for m; popes}. cilia of flour. a mad u ma. ____ her eyes and nose, has perhaps paid’ lime attentioaote-‘iheiiforeliead; wltli-ytllrt M in‘ any facial, care must be ward, following the hairline, 1111, may be continued for about ten min- taken so that, though. the movements are firm, they must also be gentle or the akin will be stretched and still more wrinkles invited to come. If the forehead has a tendency to be too tight use a little muscle oil dur- ing the massage. Alternate the massage movement with a gentle patting or slapping of the skin. This is advisable in any facial, as it stimulates circulation and tones up the skin in general. Finally apply Just a little tissue cream to the forehead and around the eyes, and as a final movement to the mun" begin at the bridge of the nose with the index fingers again; work upward and then outward, continuing around the hairline, then under the eyes toward the nose and outward at the toll of the eyelids, thus making two complete circles, one around the fore. head and another- around the eyes. Continue this movement unfl] m, tissue oream-haabeen well worked into the akfit." Then remove any u. we cream. apply a skin tonic duel finally the make-up. Abbi! make-apps carefully to the, forehead as to the rest of the “m, using first a suitable powder base and‘ then the powder. appearance than if it is simply puttad on with a powder puff, Tunes-row — Beauty mum" ._ Answered. Kayser’s new “Slendo” Heel , Silk Stocking $1.50 PAIR “ Slendo Heels” NAlI-OW OHIO IIATIIIIIQ Jaatalllneaillrooftiung llhrhialllral. J i