M-d..February20.1957i I The Guardian Page 9 I MARY HAWORTLI Children Cause Mother Worries liear Mary Hawnrlh My -.ti'tllL' sister is in serious trouble-I can't make her under- stfititi how serious. I am the only me she will listen to. but I need hi'. in advising her. We were irry rinse as children. but our mute hie was miserable -it 16, Kay married a buy 13. The nmrrla;,'e never had a rlianre line In family interferenre. By the time they had two children. John was drinking and walked out on her Later they reconciled and lwi two more children; but John: it its hmnr. from his army base. net"! netting fewer and Iarthcr hrlwPen, Twice he came home rtnmlr and beat her. Kay was afraid of John and tel mm Vtut she left with a neizh- lmi-'x husband-twn years ago. She and John were divorced later and she has the children. She and Rub the other man) are living "'L'PIIl0r.HP was to have divorced his wife and married Kay. but he Im-n'l tried. Now while living with Ray. he is ilning vtith an-1 HIIIDT girl. I .'iI()ST CON(7I:2iINEI) E Kay says she knows it's wrong tn live this way; but she seems In love Bob and still has hopes hr will marry her. But I don't think he will: he: had tinic ennugh. . John is overseas at present: but when he returns and innks for his rhilriren Ina I am sure he wtllt. Ray is going to lose them. Thaty Is. it she doesn't start leading a dc-rent life before then. Kay docs nni think he can do anything. being a drunktu-d: but I know he ran. If he doesn't take them. he will have them put II I tostert hr-me. Hnw run I make her see that -he must stop thinkin: of herself. and think at the rhiidren'.' She mus them I better lite than this. She lsntt had; just mixed up. I wnuiti appreciate any help you. ran give us. A.D. f DISTRAIT SINNER near AD. As you sav. Kay; I I.-n't bad. just mixed up. Figurat- lvelv speaking. she is lost in a "dark night" of rnnfuslon and tear. she ignores your appeals to mason berause she can't really "make out." what you say-in the sense of "feeling" the truth of It. And feeling is. of course. the mot- tve power of human performance. Common sense rnnslrierationa. as other (less frightened) folks might reckon them. just don't get through to her. They are dis- solved on the wind: cut nil like in crn ” hes telephone rail. by the nightmarish commotion that goes on in her soul. . Whereas in childhood she leaned; nn you. and then transferred her rIrpcndf:nC.V in John thcr husband) nnw she hnlds deparately to the idea that Bob is her lift-line: her salvation and security (eventually If not at present). It seems to her that she simply can't leave him. 1-nv more than she could tear her- xrli in two-at least. not unless- And until another helpmatp per-I win is ready to receive her. HIGHER POWER No doubt she paired all with Rah Just because he was avail- Here, It is folks - - - our bl; FEBRUARY FOOD FESTIVAL - - - eveigvthing in great FOOD .K'i'l42('lALS - - - just priced right the family budget- - - ICVERYBODYS (T O M I N G - - - ICVERYBODYS S A V I N G . - - DON'T MISS IT. R. M. A.'s great FEBRUARY FOOD FESTIVAL. Inr FLORIDA 252'S ORANGES - 2 dozen 75c l.AlttiE GRAPEFRUIT - 3 for 25c NORTIIERN SPY-5 LB. (I-ELI." BAG APPLES... ......55c FEBRUARYl21t22 EVERYBODYS SAVING! ISLAND CHEESE . -1--c .-s:2r.r.-:-cor - AYLMER I Vegetable SOUP 2 Tins 25c Kellogg's New "K" CEREAL Package 29c ,3. ' vuuus . A PURIT5 EIIIIIIOIIIH Iilllll ITIIY 2 Lbs. Crispy Flake Shortening 55c f'COLGATE'S" TOOTH PASTE LARGIIJ SIZE 3 for 66c PRUNES 16 OZ. MEIIILIM 2 Pkgs. 45c 25 LB. BAG 31.73 able and sympathetic. and willing In eiope. when John was brutally rt-lectinx her. Now she feels trap- pttrd. with an where to go it Bob doesn't want her - because she Isn't enouzh of A "self," psychnl. "tvrallv. in Krlpple Wliil lite on her own. As tnr hnw in help her, it's ,0... IIhIP you unit. in terms of get- "nz her launched in a decent lite h-torn John enmea back. Maybe t'l"f but .vr-ti can do is Itmplydnl me her. depenrlahly. in I standby .:nLrit ni loval devotion that never Nerts her regardless at circum- ntnnrea. ' 3'" VTIHV Iremind when I prob-: h'm seems beyond our power to- rein. it becomes a nutter for in- erressnrv prayer - which works '""riraIcs than many of us rnj. "'- For Buidnnce in ommmtng 5 ronrern to God Yntl might read 'The Golden Key" by Emmet mi. 0 15-cent brochult published '" ""”l'lOI' and Brothers. MR. ltarv Haworth counsels through I "tlumn. mt-by mall or per- "'"Il interview. 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