PAGE TWO pi Woma n’s Real lflf I DOROTHY 01x sA YS— i Marrying for Money illaa 0f 30 Advised To Vlad lilrl Ila Loves lamad . i DEARMISBDIX: Iamamanof30. Oomefromagoodhm- fly. am well educated and am considered good-looking. A woman, who is five years my senior and who is very rich, is very much in love with me and wants mc to marry her. If I do, I will have every lux- ury and never have to do a lick of work. But I do not love this woman. I happen to be in love with a poor girl. -What shall 1 do? I must admit that 1 love the good things of life and money. RDB-ERT H. ANSWER: Certainly money is not to be necemary ingredients o! happiness, you want most. Personally, 1 think that a man ulho sells him- I have never yet seen one who didn't have)‘ t . - tti it. It automatically puts hLm m e pe 11521115252312: Ziosrsfggreid gen when he is fed on the fat of the land and has a gold collar to wear and a nice silk cushion to sleep on he knows that he is always on the leash, and he flows it. RICH GIRL FOXY a woman for money, the chances are that you won't get it. Don't delude yourself into believing that as soon as the wedding ceremony is over your wife will turn over all of her stocks and bonds to you. The modern rich girl is not only foxy, she is hard-boiled, and she knows that the only way to keep a bought husband is to keep paying him off on the installment plan. She knows that her only allure is her pocket book and so she keeps a death grip on it. Surely nothing is so Furthermore, when you marry wonderful as love. There is not-hting that money can buy you that is like the rapture of Love's young dream. No happiness that money can bring you comtpares with being with the one you love and who loves you. The poorest thing in the world to marry for is money, because any man can make that for himself. DEAR MISS DIX: I am very much in love with a man who tells me that he loves me. but as a boy he had a very unhappy home life and has grown up with a real fear of marriage that he cannot over- come. When he found he loved me, he moved to another city to try to forget me; but he cannot. Can you help us? UNHAPPY- ~who sat in her carriage nearby. Shv|. ANSWER: The only way to overcome a fear is to face it, and marriage is the remedy indicated for your sweethearts phobia. If he will only brace up and have the courage to get married. he will doubt- lem find that the goblins of his imagination conjured up didn't get him and that they have vanished into thin air like the phantoms that terrorize us in childhood. It is easy to understand why a man whose earliest recollections are _ of quarrelsing parents, and who has been brought up in a home of strife. would have a horror of marriage and be afraid to risk his peace and happiness by taking a wife. But because one marriage is miser- able is no sign that another one will be. and there is no more reason for a man to refuse to marry because his mother's and father's mar- riage was a failure than there is for him not to be s. lawyer or a doctor because his father failed in either of these professions. Indeed, some- times just because our parents have failed makes for our success, be- cause we can see the mistakes they made and avoid them. DEAR DORUPHY DIX: I am a teen-agar. I have many dates and have a glorious time and the more I think about settling down, the more I dread it. I have been crazy about several boys until they got crazy about me. 1s that just plain flcklcncss? WORRIED. JtNBWILR: ‘The reason you cease to be crazy about boys after they get crazy about you is because you are not really in love with them. You arc lured by the sport of the chase and after you bring 310E" You!‘ some it is all over and you are on the lookout for a fresh r - v As for your not being willing to settle down. just keep on going $10135‘. fyiolt; are tired of it. Don't marry any man until you have had O g Morning Smile How Can I! By Anne Ashley ALL DEPENDB L‘ v f A men was giving some advice to despised. Acertain amount of it is one of the but money alone, no matter how much of it you possess, will not make happiness, for, curiously enough, the one thing that it will not buy is always the thing self to a woman makes a pretty poor bargain, and every ’i Q. Haw can I pnvant woolen, r-il in the dark?" Janie is not so his son. At the end of a rather stern lecture, he said, “Now, my boy, you ‘understand perfectly what I mean?" "Yes," replied the boy, "what it boils down to is this: If I do well it's because of heredity. and lf I fail it's my own fault." IN THE INTEREST 0F LOVE; Perplexed: "Darn it. Two girls are in love with me. Tlhe one I love fa beautiful and poor, The other is a weli-to-do widow." Adviser: "And you went to know watt to do?" Perplexed: "Yes. should I marry?" Adviser: "True love is something you will never regret. I'd suggest you marry the one you love." Perplexed: “Yes. I think I will’ z "By the way. have you 1th, widow's address handy?" which one garments from scratching the akin? A. This can be prevented by "18 lham. Also be sure that each water is the some temperature when washing woolens, as it is the change from war to cold water that shinlts them. Q. How can I stop the eyes from watering in windy weather? A. Relief may be had by bath. i118 them in a aolutlon of 10 grains distilled water, Q. Haw can I j spots from wall paper! A- MIX nine clay Ind wster to the consistency of cream, apply it l0 the grease spots and allow lt to remain for wenty-four noun, kidding a few tablespoonf-uis of gly. cerin to the last rinse Wthen wash. of boraclc acid to 1 ounce of not By an Island Israel's Wife at Alderles, m yesterday's 1n- clement weather. there seemed to be an added balm in the peace of the Sabbath, such at may not of- ten be found on a ‘mar dly- Th! thaw which began when the first rain drops tinkled merrily on the roof through the night. son of by way of celebrating December‘. ar- rival and then continued in show- era yesterday, served I thowht. to accentuate the tranquility that is peculiar to a rural Sunday, at this season of the veer. So peaceful it war, even amid the raln-‘that the very quietness reached out. to soothe Not at all a lonesom day, but a nice restful one, wherein one found leisure to enjoy to the fullest this nay of all the week "l allowed". and tlon for the cares of the days to come. At noon. James and I nicked {our steps carefully along a path. . one of her sisters wava house guest over the weekend. And all the time. the eaves drinped and at ti-mes showers of rain washed a- gainst the panes. _ e c e Karnlyn. doubtless remembering the plumpness of Jamie's Muscu- vies said: “I bet you had "luck!" when we mentioned our walk in the rain to her bv ‘phone. But our| roast was of flesh not fowl -a Juicy. tender cut from some tarm- er’: fatted animal. With vegetables 'and a dessert o’ apple pie and (heese it made up an sppetizint! and satisfying meal. "This" James re- marked "is more to my liking than a pick-up meal like Ellen would have collected over ti; our house.‘ If these’: one dimer that does not appeal to me" and the girls, smiled sympathetlmily toward hirr ‘it's one of those made out of, confounded odds and ends!" Hi: at-l itention W-"S divide! helween his [dinner and young Hand-daughter- twas nibbling at a crust with much_ irellsh. It was a new hut not her‘. 'tlrst experiment wit‘. the like but lthe pastime still con-aimed tn ele- ‘ment of danger for her. James re-i igarding her efforts was uneasys ‘Don't you think" l: appealed to me "that she's ratber young yet. for that?" She paused in her eat- ing to favor him with a bland sunny. rmile We returned then to our meal. Presently, nowever she, coughed and Jame". end I arose in alarm as one man We thumped her rsently on the back; we examined the crust minutely to determine how much of it no miss‘ng: a ii-nger was entered in her rose-bud lips to make sure. (hat no other disturbing mouse! lllFKEd there. and then with great sit!"s of ‘relief and the offending bread rs well we re- sumed our meal. Am‘ all day W!- terday Jamie did rot come to vlslt us. Neither did James set forth to brave the hazards of slin- pery trails alone the fields 9n the direction of Rob's. I U I But Jamie came today, red-cheek- ed and red-scarfed but only for a brief call while store ‘end for "those nlgs" .was being unlosded from Rob's truck. ft, was f: ng enough to remind me that "this ls one of the days you can ncs. Santa on the Radio-at ‘zactiy six-thirty Ind and he added. a mitt wars-led. "did- you know that he lost his spec- tacles? He wouldn’: be able to see small little stockings iike the baby's without them won't‘ he-and It -\ili'8 that Santa will even remem- iber -to call at the house across tin- ,tane this yea-r. Trerc was an hour or so of seed notstn grading this Sonia Ellen 's Diary i tried nerves and res: weary hearts] from it; to gain rest and inspire-t ,that grew more icy n: the day wan» ted, to dinner at Jennies. where] . . ‘rm: cuaatorrsrowu ouaaomn ‘a AAAA’ ‘AAA ‘l,’ » Rt. Honorable Malcolm MacDonald, Governor-General of Malaya and former high commissioner to A » , i ‘ P LtvtngfitLetsure —-THE WOMAN '5 REALM- i AT CHRISTMAS TIME God still sends hope into all the world. ‘ Sprung from s lartly bed, God still makes stars like those By which wise men were led. unto Wise, wise we are it we look up To see them shinmg there. ) And follow in their silver light, With hearts of love and prayer. Oh, war-torn. cruel Humanity, Distraught with pain and woe, God offers you the Christ child- still. Because He loves you so. —William D. DeCoste USE 0F IJPSTlCll CAN DO \VONDI‘lfS Go find that bluish tone lip- stick, which you pvt aside as being too intense under SimmEf tight to seem right. There I." less inlensitv in violet rays on umunny autumn days to heighten the blue tone now. What else will make a bluish lip- stick look right now is a fading or vanished tan. Among other tips an expert has to offer is one on a lipstick choice for cold weather. If lips are dry. grainy or tend to flake. choose a stick for its emollient contents as well as colour, she says For general all purpose bright- enlng of a face-and that goes for a mood. as well-you can't neat a nure red lipstick. fr: as good for brightening a blondn as a brun- ette; and H clashes ‘east with cos- tume colours. As for putting or. lipstick with precision -the expert says -un- loss it's cleanly applied it shouldn't be used -the best aid is a brush But not just any kind of brush. Sh- lnslats upon a hair 1'p that resists if someone didn't keep at the workl" I I O afternoon at Aldflrlnm g egflqgjy masculine affair. l heard 7mm from “the lower regions" and '11 my hearing relevant go the work. ohone this ever-ring. "Yer" h; m4 in answer to her nue-ction "we were ‘trifling a few" He used a patient. reaillnefl voice of feminine helpers was repugnant whats that? Wrat WQfQ they busy at? Well now 1 mp1 fly 1°;- oertaht unless" he suddenly remcm. bered something "they sat with their feet in the oven. making out their Chrilhnls lists! No. that's rlznv list: would lo pretty short Better English Jmllwtllhns 1. Whatiswroiigwith p‘). thei sound of the grader ‘n a far awwl was also aware of remarks let fall! "The women? Obl- nni" u though the very inoughtl He has come illii minute from the cellar where certain sacks iwere weighed and town and tick eted for market aim-e the evening IPhOTiIlR was flflmuleted. There is when James spoke in Knrolvn byi“ ‘mwdeflng °f '“"w aim“ him" |ihst indicates continued flurriea. entering the back vlrsnrlsh H» consults the clock ‘Now then. El. ien he tells me "I could so Wm. hot cup of ten" Until tomorrow - Diary -Good. night. _ o d e rn Etiquette " hlobllllno Q. What is the difference be- tween s formal greeting and an h. format? greeting, when meeting a. Oflfll] posting il "HUI MM? “Five llld five la tel?‘ ~ waua one sum» words tr $3M? Wm“. nun-ca. rum-l d. What doll the word “crude- setae’ - ~ - is word with rm‘ that ‘means @223’ mental disoertmmt"? ANIIBI a A. m, r 40 You do?" or “Good mart-um." A- YII. sun without being n- QUGINGMGOIO-lllotmlllldfig calves his letters hum the girl. Q: It!!! land Perso In Ottawa For Wedding al Canada, has arrived in Ottawa for pressure. Lacking that. she suggests using the pointed edge of an orange stick to dip off lipstick colour and to trace the first sharp, clean line around the mouth. Fill-in, after that preliminary vtrvey. ls a cinch. she szrvs. 1F INTEREST 0F DIME Many years ago, o. Georgia schodl- teacher named Merzha Berw ask- ed Henry Ford to contribute one million dollars for |~cr little cc-un-' try school. Instead, he nanied her a dime. Miss Berry used the ten cents to start a peanut crop, and at the end of each year she sent the auto magnate a detailed report on theueccfpts from her harvest. Ford became so mpresset‘ with her sinccrldy that he finally paid a vlslt to the Berry School and wrote out a check for wh-t had been requested. Collars and otm-tr apparel for women are said in no made from the layers of fer-lacing fibers in the inner bar o‘ the ire-bark tree. a native of Jamaira. FOOOOOQO§~OQ§O+OQJ+F§Q-GOO Household Scrapbook ; By Roberta Leo FQQQQQQ§'QQ'Q§QQ§ Removing Ksllomlm Dampen the surface thoroughly, with water and then brush off the- kalsomine with a stiff brush If the water does not soften the kal- somine sufficiently, add a very small aurtour-i of hydrochloric acid to it; but in that case. the wall must. be washed afterwards with clear water to remove the acid. Cllrlilll Feathers When curling feathers or plumes shake the tips through steam from the spout of a kettle. and then curl wih o. silver fruit knife or a whale bone. Perfume Stairs VPufume stains can be removed from the dressing table scarf: by “sins Dcroxlde of hydrogen. 4 . '51 Know Jml How You Feel" Llilymyself. rang “bu?” abroa- never (minim . Wllervelfliog‘ nooapveneaawpanduargyaad ntnaoamf _ , v sE. I- To match every changing moment : : -,- every different occasion ma. has distilled a galaxy of delightful Here is "Hcsven-‘Sen? : 2 : fragrances light as cloud flowers a gay, ethereal accent to the moment ; : : to make feel immortal. Heaven-Sent Cologne. . . . . . - . Heaven-Sent Esu do Toilette. Heaven-Sent Body Powder (oyliaddri-ty- . . . . . . KQI'fl$°n's°.p(1hM)ssaass|lv ashionsz ounce-sele- vwv ite ratuire Helena Rubin- created to give thefashions of mortal woman .l.00, 1.50 Heaven-Sent Body Powder (with puff). .. s . . . . . , . 2.00 Heaven-Scat Bath Uii . . . . . . . . "iii .35, 1.35 Heaven-Sent Soap (2 in box). . . . . - 1.00 ......... .55 Snthovarwyqlmohmlfnui/rlasnpriadlrunkfiladss t MCDRI‘: a. MPLEOD CHARLOTTETOWN. P.E.l. Cook b Corner O-§-O-O+O-Q O-fO§Q-O~QQO-O-O-QO-O-OQ-Q BAKED DATE CUSTABDS 2 cups milk 2 eggs 2 tablespoons granulated sugar Few grains salt ‘X. teaspoon vanilla Few grains grated nutmeg ‘A cup cut-up pitted dates V. cup chopped nutmeats (op- tional.) Scald the milk in the top of a double boiler. Beat the eggs slightly; mix in uhe sugar, salt, vanilla and nutmeg Prompt, Long-lasting Relief 10v MllSGlllAll nouns-amt: ll lroslt ll! still. causation. T»! FOB A BEAIWF" .6 ' DIIIGN I0. l-III Crocheted dailies in a pineapple anti for mfomaetlmaboutl. oatsorlsby 15am! lfbyllincins. Pattern No. 5-120 contains oolnpleie nutme- “rgndur-sm remnant um... --. am . an. are... Gradually stir in the scolded heres’ at»; milk. Strain. Add prepared dates and out» meats, if they are being used. ~ and Turn into individual custard cups Place in a pen of hot water. Bake in a moderate oven, 350 de- grees. until custards are set - about 40 minutes — e. knife tmert- ed into the centre of a custard. should come out clean. TllE STARS SAY- By GENEVIEVE KEMBLG i For Tuesday, December l0 ‘ THE ASTRAL influences on this .dav combine to encourasc a dennits and determined effort to forge ahead to the attainment of cherish-l ed goals in the way of productivel an: progressive lines. as well as in; the realization of fondant hopes and ;. wishes of a more lntimat; and per-I sonsl out. There is a promising vibration for increasing personal popularity, and a’ sncement. IIJILNO BOIBOWED .. .. If It ls Your Hrthday Those whose birthday it is have excellent prospects for forging ahead. with ambitious and lasting objectives in aightfunder most be- nign and expansive influences Promotion. en-honsed , _'_ and popularity, growth in finance. credit and poueasiom: together with warming and feiicitotts develop- fincasserole dishes RECIPE FRlCATTEllh Arrange 5 cups cooked rice ' and i lb. sausage meat, browned and drained, in alternate layer-sin a greased casserole. Finely,chop one medium onion and sprinkle on each layer. Pour on 1 can Heinz Condensed Cream of Tomato Soup, undiluted, and sprinkle top with 2 tablespoons of grated cheese. Bake in a moderate- ly hot oven (379K) for 50 minutes. Serves 4 to 6. menu in ths home, professional social and toms/Mic relations, with much genislity and reassurance ll forecast. But an undercurrent of treachery or intrigue bids ' alert and estrslned conduct, lent ‘loss, feud or waste occur. ‘ \ A child born on this day has ex- cellent promise for a progressive. efficient and gratifying career. in business as well as personal rela- Ivenn but it might v pllcate this by errors. extravagance t: suscep- tibility to fraud. NIGHT AND DAY The straightforward time and out of this wrap-around with in top gathered from a shudder-squaring yokomahitfdlelforsahortbmuo dross or an-ekirleugtb robe for r0- lustlm 1a.». tmn m: an ylrds 54-inch. maids. and ltyie me “strontium h modal Oflflglltflho! laddxcua. . Miran Pattern champion: onudian. POW!!! No. fill ~ m. ma u out a. also; 12,14. 1o. ' as (ham) requires ant yards as- sm no cents for rad-run p . a» Itahmsiudc ma- bopartment, '_l'h_0 Jhleédlecraft/ —FOR ms HOME- A {i 2919 $128 12-46 li3l'ta- tlélitill ,.