For that little boy in your life. a Canadian manufactur er styled this 4-piece Eton V "crammed ' W suit in a wool double knit-011- ver shirt. bow tie. wide conti- MARY HAWORTH Reader Offers Counsel Suggestive Of Escapism DEAR MA R Y HAWORTH: l our suburban paper there Is an iadvertisement for a sales per I thought. in response to thei son. house-to-house or telephone You weren‘t very constructive. woman who works at on office job she hates. to supplement her husband‘s income. frustrations. sic psychological fact remains that routine office work With few. exceptions cal".esting to hear LL's opinion as and gone tomorrow to whic‘i list of recommenda—fpfirase T suggest the following. tions. yours or mine. offers that returns (if and when) are spor- I 1more feasible pathway out oil adic. uneven and unpredictable. and four children of Toronto. I“ you “9 counselling her ml are spending their vacation with ' ' . ltl 1 lo: you VP compeey over 0:6 adult husmess of facing up to; . iprincipal points she makes. inlher fundamental Pmblem Ind or door-to-door selling full or; trying to define he, probiem as; mastering it. ! she sees it. First of all. she says'l Just today. for example. inl she dislikes the work she does he soul-destroying. job-possibilities. as better paid than office work. while also of- fering more variety: market re- search. demonstrating products or mac'iinery. telephone selling part-time. to sell music lessons! Finding the right job can beljob" that She i very difficult. but well worth the doing 1L" Granted that she did show ba-l d k h 1 t b dh‘ ressllna ing or up 056W: 0 tangential suggestion that she, ~ - ~ which could lead her to feel bor-i potentially very profitable. Sin- ' ‘ Mrs- Al'bm Rmhard and fam‘lsy‘ ed in any situation. still th e cerely. effort. This woman might i her defeatist self-pity. ied tor chosen to bypass) numbers; a ‘ L D.S. ! Dear 0.5.: n would be inter-‘ transients. who are here tod Mme/z 6 The Guardian, Charlottetown. Thurs” Aug. 6. 1961. Andrey Jenkins. Women HAPPENINGS 'e Editor: Phone #850! Mr. and Mrs. Georges Haag have started [back to their home at Staten Island. N.Y. after I month of visiting many friends and relatives on the Island. They expect to tour the New England States before renun- lng home. Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Lanigen Montague had as their recent guests Mr. Lanigan‘s sisters and their 'iusbands. Mr. an rs. Howard Arnold. Bangor, Maine and Mr. and Mrs. Earnest Ells- worth. Boston Mass. They were accompanied by another sister. Mrs. Ella MoKinnon. George- town. Mr. and Mrs. Don Campbell. with their children David. Wil- liam and Joanne of Valois. Que- bec. are vacationing at the Campbell summer cottage. on t the Montague River. I i l Mr. and Mrs. Lloyd MacDon- ald and three young sons of To- ronto. Ontario. are visiting on he island. guests of their par- ents. Mr. and Mrs. Neill Mac- Phail. Argyle Shore and Mr. and Mrs. Roy MacDonald. Al- bany. Guests of Mr. and Mrs. James Hewitt. Lower Montague last week were Mr. and Mrs. Fred Reid of Warwick. Rhode island and Mr. and Mrs. Walter Lord of Saint John. N.B. Mr. and Mrs. Fred Minnlkin. with their sons Ricky and John of Rockingham. NS. were Week- end visitors of Mr. and Fulton Mrs. Montague. ntly returned from a holiday in Great Britain where Mr. Minnikin re- newed old friendships ’at his for- mer home in Middlesbourgh. England. ‘ a three week vacation at their summer home at Brudenell. .» Mr. and Mrs. Melvin MacGre- got and son Bobbie. also Mrs. MacGregor's sisters. Mrs. Lance Dalton. Burton and sister. Mary Ag e t h a. OSM Charlottetown have returned from a pleasant four day tour of points of inter- est in the Maritimes. In .3. they visited Mr. and Mrs. Mac- Gregor’s daughter. Mrs. Douglas Ross. Moncton. They also visit- JOSEEI MATELL MARRIAGE Mr. and Mrs. Phillip J. Boudreault of Georgetown announce the engagement of their daughter . Katherine Theresa to Joseph Patrick Martell son of Mr. and Mrs. Q regor a M d ‘Mrs. Alfred Pelletier and three ePh MacGregor. of Truro. NS! children Jean. Judy and Rob- ‘u‘t of Salem, Mass, Blaze O‘Holleran. and nephew Austin Reilly of Toronto. Ont‘.. are spending t'ieir holidays at the home of his parents. Mr. and Mrs Peter O‘Holleran. in Glengarry. Visitors at the home of Mr. Mrs. Bernard and two children of Toronto. Mr. and Mrs. of St. Catherine's Out, and Ed- mond Bernard of Toronto. Mrs. a d Mr. and Mrs. Frank Gaudeti of Lawrence. Mass. are guests! of Mr. and Mrs, Alphonse Per- ry in DeBlois. Livia Marracini of Montreal. engaged in research work at the Pulp and Paper Institute. Pointe Claire. Que. is staying a few days with Mrs. Wallace Ward at Dawn Cottage at Langley. Mr. and Mrs. Bernard Gallant and two children of Toronto are visitors at the home of Mr. and‘ Mrs. John Gallant in Ebbsfleet. Mr. and Mrs. Winston Smith Mrs. Eddie Smith of Toronto: and family of Ottawa are spen- ls visiting her parents. Mr. and, ding their holidays with their Mrs. abian Arsenault of St. parents. Mr. and Mrs. Harold uis. ' P. Smith, MLA. 'Pownal and Mr. Mrsi Kenneth J. MacRae. r m. and Francis Butler of Toronto.iPoint 0nt.. is spending her holidays; visiting her mother. Mrs. Bella. Judy MacRae. nurse-ln-train- Butler. also her sister. Mrs? ing at the Victoria General Hos- Inez Howard. and brother and pital. Halifax is spending her sister-in-law. Mr. and Mrs. Clar- holidays with her parents. Mr. ence Butler. Giengarry. and Mrs. Kenneth J. MacRae. Point Prim. Wanda MacPhee. whose mar- riage takes place Saturday at New Dominion United hurch was entertained recently by‘ Cornwall Young Adult group at a wiener roast he] at the sum- Visitors at the home of Mr. and Mrs Alphy Gallant. St. Lou-is are Mr. and Mrs. Bern- ard Plomondon and son Rich- ard of Montreal also Mr. and Mr. and Mrs. ’Pope Young and children were recon guests of Mrs. Young's grandmother. Mrs Margaret MacNeill. Tyne Val- ey. Sussex. Hewitt. Mrs. Lillian Colwell. N3. and Mrs. Lena iCharlottetown were visitors at. l nental stripe Jacket and short pants. the home of Mr. and Mrs. Har—’ *vey Ross on Thursday. but “isn‘t qualified for any. other." Also site says_”l don't‘ know FOW '0 ‘10 myth-"‘3 else :of Halifax. NS. are vacationing ligfig‘fikher undersea?” h e r. in Tyne Valley with Mrs. Allen’sE ‘ ’ ‘ . ‘.m til . M“ . d > . ’ limited employability by adding. 0 er. ’5 E "8 walker' 1 .“There are other jobs 1 could: Mrs. Shirley m“ and Mrs.J itTY- bl“ they d9“ Pay enough Jean Rutherford of Sydney. N.i .10 be ‘VOl‘lh‘Vhl‘E' 'f I @m ‘3 S. were visitors to Albion andi help out at home financtally. Road guests of Mr. and] 1* Turdllfi and Prlmarlil'v. 5119' they were guests of Mr. and? Mrs. Warren Allen and chil-l dren. BetiY. Michael and David ‘twant-s “just to stay h0me.’ 0r- = Mrs. wm' m r a if God won‘t grant that. "to be- Whim R031; “55:53 ngdanadi - come 50 OdlUSled '0 s. Russell Hicken. the office Ml- "won't min d' 3 1 Mrs. Alfred Arsenault. their“ Whereupfm .VOU Pmduc‘e “1 9' son and daughter. also Mr. and l “Ferment With fringfit-VD“ em'. and Isidore Peters all of ployment. handled mostly by Gamnnes om. are “5mm all: Mr. and Mrs. John P. Richard. ‘35 the. of St. Louis. is). because the wagel Mr and Mrs. Harold Hicken anything. it is escapism. not the. their parents. Mr. and Mrs. Praught. Summerville and Mr. *and Mrs. hen lilieken. Low- . er Montague. IJL's problem is a probe 1 m.) ‘elfflnfianyu 0f avemo" '0 “‘9' Mrs. Blair McLellan of Toron- .. and son were recent . M ‘ new Neu- et Sum- Christine of Frederic- ' "loll Rey nem- West Lot 1!. Pa- AT SUMMERSIDE rentsofthebrlde end groom and Victor W. Ramsey. Per- formhg the mom was the Rev. I. T. was. Edisciplines of duty as indicated to. om y her circumstances. visitors at the home of Mr. and DEAR MA RY HAWORTH: . Mrs. Peter Dalton, Burton. I would be grateful if you would} reprint the list of books outlin-i Mr. and Mrs. Gerald Allen. ed in an earlier article in; Ciarlcttetown recently visited which you discussed the matterl Mr. Allen's aunt. Mrs. W. 1". A1- of revitalizing a man's contri» Ian and family. Tyne Valley. bution to marriage after exten- sive philandering on his .part. CMP Superintendent Louis I am a formerly wayward bus-l Watson. Mrs. Watson and chil- band. determined to remedyj dren Babette and John of Hall- some of my past mistakes. ltl fax. arrived Saturday to spend mer cottage of Mr. and Mrs. Jack MacLean in Red Point. A gift was presented to Miss Mac- Phee by the group. of which she is a member. Mr. and Mrs. PH. Jay of; Roselindale. Mass. vaca-; tioning for the month of July at} their summer home at Lakeside} With them are their daught- er Rita Lorraine. and Joan Col- .lins of Dover. New Hampshire. 3both nurses- in- training at the git/lass. General Hospital in Bos- on. ; Also at Lakeside are Mr. and Mrs. Frank O‘Neil of Braintree. Mass. accompanied by their daughters. Nancy and Lynn. Sister M. Leonora and Sister M. Ina. Sisters of St. Joseph of St. Paul. Minn. are guests of their brother. Damien Shreenan. Kinkora. . A family reunion is being held in 'ionor of the golden jubilee in religious life of the two sisters. Friends who wish to greet the sisters might do so at Mr. Shre- enan‘s home on Sunday after- 30011. Aug. 9 from 3 to 5 ad 7 to Sister M. Marietta of the Or- der of St. Joseph. Toronto. is the guest of her brother. Damn ien Shreenan. Kinkora. Alsol visiting with Mr. S‘ireenan are. Frank Shreenan of Philadelphia _and Mr. and Mrs. Boud ' reau and family. banana FOUR PATCHES Like "Grandmother's Fan" this gay scrap quilt is easy to piece. Repeat tine same scraps in ery block or take them as come to hand. Pattern 7042: patient of oat- ches; charts: directions; yard- age for single-double bed. THIRTY-FIVE CENTS (coins) for this pattern t no stamps. please) to Alice Brooks. care of Guardian-Patriot Needlecraft ev- they Dept. so Front St. W. Toronto 1. Ont. Print plainly PATTERN NUMBER. NAME .ADDRE SS. possible. Sincerely, . A DEAR E.F.: don't recall having prescribed a reading list as a specific remedy for a phil- andering bias. or as a means of; helping a reprobate husband re-z form his ways and restore his‘ age. , However. horn time to time d have mentioned the following‘ books. which might be applica- ble to your hopes and needs: Dr. Edmund Berglcr’s "Revolt of the Middle-Aged Man" ' Wyn publishers)! which provides a good deal of sardonic insight into the compulsive reasons why husbands go astray, unprofita- y. Dom Aelred Watkin's "The Enemies of Love" t Kenedy. pu- blishers). which calls attention , aws in ourselves that undermine love. and tells us how to rise above them. Wing'field Hope's “Life Toge- ther" (Sliced and Wardl which speaks especially to the man and wife whose deepest inter- est ln life is to keep their mar- riage a fine. Joyous. ennobling relatonship. lso. I may add. a learned friend of mine. who teache pre-. marriage for marriage pre ara- tory) courses in a large and fa m o u s mid-western college. thinks very highv romm's "The A tHarpers) as a handbook for marriage i too have read and recom- mended this book. but that was before I came across Wetkin's book in similar vein. cited above which seems actually to quick- en the spirit while informal: the rnind of the m seeker. M H The score is love for this tennis shift designed in Tex- as, For it is pretty to look It and practical to wear. Mary e is through her column. not by mail made of pale blue denim and or personal interview. Write her is cut to reveal red and white in care of The Guardian. m Calcutta . Reworth counsels THE TENNIS SHIFT CATHERINE ARSENAULT PLANNED William J. Martell of George- town. The marriage will take place Aug. 29 at St. James RC. Church, Georgetown. at 10 am. 'w STANTON ARSENAULT . a .x 1. AUDREY GAL-[ANT ENGAGEMENT ANNOUNCED Mr. and Mrs. Edmond Ga!- fant. mu. are happy to - nounce the engagement of their daughter Mary Edith Audrey to Paul Stanton Arsen- avult. son of Mr. Sun’s Jewelled Fingers Are Touching The Fields Did you rise early this morn- ing, perhaps because of some sudden and untimely awaking? You had fancied you heard the clock ring its warning alarm? or maybe you “just happened to waken." and at once be- thought yourself of some piece of baking ahead. which it would be as well “to get out of the way" before the heat of the day? Or did yourrise as do we sometimes to enjoy. by your- self. the charm of a lovely sum- mer morning? Though we know we shall have still and beauti- ful dawns in the seasons to come. they will not break over the green and flowering coun- tryside of now. So if on a farm you rise early. you come to the hush and peace of the day while the household still rests. You move silently. lest you should chance to dis- turb those upon whose should- ers the affairs of the farming presently. It will And if not actually so toilsome as once in the haying. it will still be wearysome. we know. ..You come to the door or ver- andah. You are alone — the only h u m a n in your world about. Now the sun‘s rays touching the fields with jewell< ed fingers. catching brightly the dewshine. gilding the shoul- ders of the hills through the hazy veil of the morning. So clean and refreshing. the air is. The fragrance you note is from the blossoming linden down on a corner of the lawn, or some othenflowermg near... How delightful the view is! You think of those scouts of old who came to look out on the promised lan d. hey only glimpsed briefly its loveliness. This land is yours. It belongs to the family. The fields yield its livelihood. The farm’s every acre is familiar and dear. But now the fields where yesterday the folks made hay are desert- ed. Presently. however. when the sun lifts the night's dew. and the wind commences to stir the breathless leaves and grasses. the men and machin- es will retur to them. There will come the bustle of work. But how altogether quiet and serene it is now! Afar on a slope. odd young- lings of the cattle-kind graze. In the near pasture. cows that have been resting. leave. one by one beds outlined in the dewfall. A sow emerges from a requested. when rambling in the sunset with the pair as far as the end of the old mill - road. they had chanced to find sweet treasure along an “Raspberries” Alex said “Raspberries? 0h. know" he smiled. “I guess" Alex offered over his head. face sober. “the sum- mer will soon go now. It does. once the raspberries are ripe!" Our day is about gone. It gave our farmers nice returns in stored bales for their "hire." Until tomorrow — Diary —— Good — night 88th Birthday Is Celebrated Mrs. James Wilkie of Alber- ton was honored by her family Wednesday evening on the oc- casion of her eighty - eighth birthday. The gatiering was held at her son Alvin's Sum- mer cottage in Cascumpec. Present were seven of her ele- ven children with their hus- bands and wives. a number f grandchildren and two long- time friends. Mrs. Erving ' liams ond Mr. Lester Wallace. Mrs. Wilkie lived all her mar- ried life in “The Dock." a com— munity adjoinin g Albert on. Since the death of flier husband ten years ago she has spent most of the time with memb— Artihur Amount. J a c 1: n of River. NB. The mam will take place August 22nd. 1964, St. Augustine's Church. South Rustico at 9 am. era of her family. She now live with her son - in - law and dau ghter. Mr. and Mrs. Stanto Clark. Elmsdale. Members of the Wilkie fam ily are Arthur of Alberton Perez of Quincy. Mass: M r s Stanton Clark of Elmsdale Lloyd of Alberton; Mrs. Pear Mason of Pittstield. N.l-I.: bert of Lethbridge. Sterling of Alberton; Mrs Hartley Moliins of Saint Join Mrs. Fred Ashley of Alberton Mrs. Charles Gordon of Alber ion: Mrs. Charles Gordon 0 Alberton and Avin of Elms dale. There are. thirty - on grandchildren and twenty-on great grandchildren. PATROL AMBUSHED SAIGON tAP)—A U.S. Arm. special forces man and fou South Vietnamese soldiers wer killed Tuesday in a Viet Cong Guerrilla ambush 60 miles north of here. SPEEDY DAN BRANDS HATCH. England (CPI—California racing driver ‘Dan Gurney recently broke the lap record at the Kent track notching one minute 38.4 sec: onds or 96.95 miles an hour. His prize was 100 bottles of champagne. . tom—Former film actor and NOW HORSELESS T00? HADDINGTON. E n g l a n d naval officer Clement. Dawd lMarlowe - Howells bought a horse after losing his driver's licence in 1962 for runk dri- ving. He now has been fined for being drunk while in charge of a horse. instance. of do era 0 Bank specialties . . . can make th you expert help in meat soon pen in the piggery to enjoy a clovery bite in the paddock. lambkln rises from his nap to join the ewe-mother already on foot. It is breakfast - time there! robin flied toward the gar- den to sample the ripe cher- ries. A swallow swoops low . scolding Tabby and the pair of kittens. she leads toward the door. Scampie comes around a corner. a hungry expression in his e ye s. There is a stirring now at the stables - cows ar stairfoot . door. opens clo- ses. "Havel over - slept. Ellen?" - James cells... And. having loo- ked out and loved the fresh new of the morning. we come in to the round of our day. “Say the name again” Peter A l e Ju being let in to their stalls. Our IT’S COOKOU'I' TIMI! sm homemakers. ith FLY-TOX H aphids and other gs en pests. does the double job. When it’s House at Garden. An effective way of ridding TA ANT TR PS. eating ante from your home. C(mtlcimm(My yours. on Opportunity? . fly Flnenee Plen. For- here is a low-cost. life-insured plan that can be arranged to suit almost any income as long as you can make monthly payments without hardship. So take advantage of Opportunity when it next comes s-knockin ' Family Finance Plan at your neighbour ood branch of “l GETTING TO KNOW someone who ‘knows’ can make life much pleasenter. You consult a doctor. a 'st. .or en electrician for‘advicedn their ii at to know how large a roast you need for your family . how t. ick your husband likes his steaks cut . . . and dislikes. Only Dominion gives you the convenience of super market shopping . . . plus personal, ‘specialized' service! And you'll find everything oothly if you have some han y helpers. like long-handled spatula. basting brush, and multiple toasting fork. helper is the WINDSOR SALT Handy-Pack of 3 shakers. It's fun to try out a variety of spices for barbecued meats. chicken and fish, but salt, of course, is the basic flavour . ing. And Windsor Salt is the 'ret choice of It's crystal-pure, and free-running. and picnics. get the Windsor Handy-Peck of 3 shakers. OH. TH! BLISS OF A PEST-FRI! SUMMIRI And it's yours w' was In Garden Spray. d now for a really yourself of ants. - se Scout ants carry poison beck to nest‘ entire colonies are wiped out! Punishes both sweet and are!” BARBARA BRENT MONTREAL. August 6th—Why turn your back ' . . especially when it‘s e chance to .buy a great bargain for cash. For i if opportunity presents itself in s gleamutng. just all through this B ofiM ! en- ell your ilk-e: 098 m 0" Another hand! or barbecues e FLY- .lln ... 3 e 54"”! Just e slice of cooln no waist seems. buttons. fuse or fancy details! Perfect for busy days—V Printed Pattern 4835: Half Sizes 12%. 14%. 161/1. 18%. NW. 22%. Size 16% req Yards 35-in fabric. skirt is lined in the red and wage “brie, » coins (no stamps. please) for Fashioned for easy action on the courts. this type of ten- nis dress lends a feminine look to any sum sport scene. ' NAME ADD N 89nd ol'rler to ANNE ADAMS tern Dept. 0) Front St. W. To- ronto 1. Ont. this pattern. Print plainly SIZE 0! BESS. STYLE 0. B. W. M. Austin R. W. Merivale Anetta. FIFTY CENTS (50 cents) I: The Board of Directors of the newly-formed Cartier M oebfe I) . care of Guardian-Patriot Pet- Ww St Lament. Que. Cartier Refined . wummummmmbmm Directors Carder Refined Sugars Ltd. 1’. M. Crosble O. W. Goodfallol' gate .. Named. in" _ Cr and diaries w. Mellow. Mr. Austin. who V” at Molasses ms. is of the new cornmm’ I“; it ..St John's. . end a director Mr. Menu ounder of Gondfellow er. nowh led. the first new cane m refining comm, full ops-flop, ' t'f-~.—-—-.--—-----. a .a. i:- K s