Women's realm PAGE TWO THE GUARDIAN JUNE 24, 1952 Modern Etiquette I1 KOIIONI I00 1 Q. Just what are some of the so-called "finger foods"? A. Bread, crackers, olives, celery. radishes, nuts, candy. corn on the cob, and raw fruits. Peaches and apples may be peeled, and then eaten with the fingers. Bananas are peeled onto a plate and cut in pieces and eaten with the fork. Grapes, plums and cherries are eaten with the fingers and the seeds removed from the mouth. one at a time, between thumb and forefinger. Q. Is it absolutely necessary to send a wedding present when one .133 declined an invitation to the reception? A. This would be expected of you only if you were very intimate friends with the bride, the bridge- groom or their families. Other- wise, it is not necessary. Q. What amount of tip is he- sessary when checking onc's hilt Ind coat?,. A. The accepted minimum today 3 lllzally 25 cents. gemw . , 1! ;gHousehold Scrapbookli ? By Robert: Lee 1 mnmmi The Fur Coat If it isn't possible to send the fur coat away for cleaning and storing, shake the coat out thor- oughly, hang in the bright sun- shine for about six hours. Then wrap carefully in newspaper (moths hate the smell of printers' inki, and pack in an airtight clothes bag or cedar chest. Larkspur Plants If bonemeal is dug into the soil around giant larkspur plants in the autumn, it' will nourish them when they put out new growth in the spring. Wicker Furniture Good cleansers for wicker furni- ture are salt and water, or a solu- tion of warm water and a little turpentine. Either solution will clean out the crevices like magic. 3850. CASH EVERY 0 GRAND 575- WEEK I PRIZE Just send your name and address to: "Vatotlon Money", 516 Bay St.. Toronto If your entry is drawn from the 'mail received in any week, you win 325 cash-tripled to 375 it your entry contains a wrapper from Palmolive Soap. All weekly winners. plus 25 more entries drawn from each .week's mail. will be held for the June 28th Grand Prize of 3100 cash-tripled to 3300 if the win- ning entry contains a wrapper from Palmolive Soup. An extra 3100 will be added to the Grand Prize It the winning entry contains a wrapper from Bath Size Polrnolivo Soop-mak- lng the Grand Prize worth I total of 3400! Each week's contest closes Saturday noon. Entries received up to Saturday noon.jnne 28th will be eligible for the Grand Prize of 3400! Winner: notifed by small. List of wr'nnrn rent on request. Prizes awarded upon the answering of 4 claim uerlion. Confer! open to all resi mtr a Canada except employees of Co gate-Palmolive. o"buck the tide" JMX " That Body Of Your: By James W. Barton. ELI). GREAT PROGRESS IN CURE AND CONTROL OF HEART DISEASE Not so long ago it was thought that once an individual was known to have heart. disease he was doom- ed. Thus the heart patient lived a life oi fear and gave up all active pursuits. A patient with a leaking valve of the heart was among those slated for an early death Heart dis- ease was incurable. During the campaign for funds in February by the American Heart Association, some reasurring in- formation was published by Dr. Louis N. Katz, president of the association. In writing of the Heart Campaign, Dr. Kalz stated, "This is not a campaign for the care 0! incurables but axcampaigii to salv- age human beings for whom there is hope. This is not a. program of complete patient care but one aim- ing fundamentally to find nut how better to recognize, mm and pre- vent a group of diseases by new dis- coveries, by the spreading oi know- ledge to all, and by-leadership in neglected areas of community ser- vice." Chronic disease is our most com- mon form of illness. Diseases of the heart and blood vessels are the most important of the chronic cis- eascs, because so many are atl'cct.:d and because so much can be done to improve their condition. Not all of the millions of persons with heart and blood vessel disease are bedridden. Many are up and :1- bout, doing almost all their daily work and able to enjoy life. In that formely fatal disease bac- terial c-ndocarditis (inflammation of the lining of the heart due to certain organismsi. practically evcry Case is saved and the patient cur- ed or the condition arrested by the use of penicillin and the sulpha drugs. As it is high blood pressure that causes heart stroke tcoronary thrombosis), surgery is able to re- duce pressure by cutting the ner- ves that tighten and tense the blood vessels. Surgery is also us- ed in heart disease present at birth so that the lives of "blue babies" can be saved. Very few blue babies reached their teens heretofore. Less dramatic, but equally success- ful. is the physician's treatment of heart and blood vessels diseases. "Failure of the heart can now be vigorously corrected in many cases by rest, diet. by cutting down on table salt and salty-foods, by use of certain vitamins and by drugs. The Stars Soy - - by Genevieve Kemhlo KwT ' For Tomorrow A rather critical state of ai-, fairs may be attributed to a serles' of mishaps, false moves. confus- ed judgment, and the failure of those of importance-these losing confidence and the desire to co- operate. Open as well as hidden. obscure and sinister developments may have power to interfere with high objectives, even though there be some one person or friend ready to "stand by." , Those whose birthday it is might as well be prepared for a year of conflict, opposition. strange upsets, with hidden dangers as well as open disruption. While there may be high hopes. keen ambitions, stimulated energies, it may be well-nigh impossible to of overwhelming circumstances or calamity through bad judgment. queer or erratic urges. want of support where it had been relied upon. Postpon- Niwiua PALMOLIVE ;sar::e::;d.. set by so many conflicting quali- ties, characteristics, emotions and desires. as to be the victim of its own lack of integrity. VANTAGE POINT Observatory inlet in the Casslar district of British Columbia was named by Captain George Van- couver, who set up a post there in 1793. a-.-.:-.:... "Don't w about these other guys she writes about. She Just oesn't want you to be too sure of her." By George Clark . INFORMATION Perm-..oostm-oomeomv l El.LEll'S lllllllY ' (3! An Island Fsrmefs Wife) Junie paused a morning before setting out for school, a wistful expression on his face as he scanned of the orchard trees. sums are all gone," them this Yvon anyway. Pl no them drifting down? "where they are now. if we searched find one? quite a spell before we see them again . . . A summer and winter between." "And autumn," we re- minded him. eyes on the lands which range the slope. "And autumn!" he said. Down the lane we watch him go. as once upon the years, we and an alert and sometimes lone- ly hound watched other lads go. . . . along the dam and up the hill on their way to the school down the River Road. Jamie still stops to give the pet lamb its refresh- ment before he disappears in a lane of spruces on his way to an- other class-roam. U C 0 We remember now that is passing tragedy struck at the hearts of these children today. Voices bearlngyus the news were hushetl. faces momentarily sad. Four little nestlings of wrens gave no sign of welcome when they looked upon them in the nest discovered recently on a low bnugh of spruce on the lawn. And "Whatever happened?" to make this one of Mother Nature's de- signs "gang a-gley" is a mystery in the family. James is of the opinion "That white cat is at the back of it!" But who can ever link a fell deed with one be- loved? On her at-rlvel, Granddaughter was immediately taken to - view the remains, her regrets lessened considerably by the fact that a notable event is expected in the near future-perhaps happened be- fore this, nt Aldcrlea. "My Grand- father said he wouldn't be one bit surprised if they should come to- day." she related to her interested audience seriously. Then a smile glowed. "How many". she turned to Gage her preferred comrade. "do you suppose there will be?" . o o The farmers agreed today with signs of impatience they "never saw such a June as this-with so much dampness to delay the crop- ping!" And because "Misery likes company". a current query of James to any visiting farmer is. "And have you finished all your sowing?" To his discomfiture. odd low-lying patches of fields of b ours still await the seeding. And new spring gives over to summer: now trees and haylands march toward their fullness. New appear new blossoms in garden and meadow. In token, we found today a blown daisy. We gather- ed lt fondly-and waste that it was. idly gave its white petals one by one to the light breeze of day. And smiled to remember how naturally returned acustom of our lost "kept" years. Gage watch- ed with dismay. "You're spoiling It-the first one of all!" he said frowning. Then with some cur- iosity: "What were you saying? Say it over," he begged. - o o Until tomorrow - - - Diary - - - Good-night . . . . Better English Dy 9. o. wmann nacmsimnwwmesswao. 1. What is wrong with this sen- tence? "He is engaged in a dif- ferent line of business, and this seems apropos with the times." 2. What is the correct pronun- ciation of "melodic"? 3. Which one of these words is misspelled? Cantalope, microe- cope, antelope, calllope. 4. What does the word "discord- ant" mean? 5. What is a word beginning "pertaining with ve that means to spring"? ANSWERS i. Omit line of, and say "opro- 2. Pronounce aid and a presentation was made 000 yegrg we” required for Niag- pos of the times." the o as in on, not as in load. 3. by Lorna Nicholson on behalf moment this the heights "The blos- " ” he offered. But. he looked pualed, "there didnt seem to be much last to One day they were in full bloom and then 1 time at all-Did you see The ground about iust white with the petals? I wonder." he mused whimslcally, Could we, It'll be wood- . on i241 Mr. and Mrs. Keith Brehaut are shown above with their attend- ants following their marriage at the Baptist Church recently. From ed in front 15 mg b,-me. the germ- left to right are the groom, the er Miss Velma Ann Good, daugh- son of Mr. and Mrs. Chester Bre- ter of Mr. and Mrs. Nelson Good. -Photo by Craswell haut: the best man, Mr. Maurice Brehaut, brother of the groom, of Richibucto, N.B.: bridesmaid. Miss Florence Matheson, Dundas. Seat- Morning Smile How Can I ! l l pg 31 Anna Ashley , A bride of a few weeks plucked, ,,,,';'t;',,H',T,",,,””',i..E,,,,lf,?li,;'l,;:,,,W,,,,'3 cleaned and placed a chicken in A Never' Know (run to goucf, the oven but she forgot to light the 11 you expect to keep )1, W911, 1; 0”" you are short of space, and the TW0 MU" We? the young fruit must be kept close together, woman heard a loud knocking on keep tissue wrappers on the onm. the oven door and hurriedly open- ges, apples, etc, so the skins do ed it. not touch and cause decay. The chicken poked his head out Q. How can I remove perfume and said: "Lady! Either give me. stains from white linen dresser ack my feathers, or light the scarlet stove-I'm getting darned cold!” A. Apply peroxide to the stains until they have faded; then wash thelscarf in sudsy water and rinse wel. The June meeting of the Cra- Q' Haw '”m I clean 59" -lewd”? paud Auxiliary of the W. M. S. was in Radio? am": uciiuonabs in? held at the home of Mrs. Joseph 31:: mp” Ce and h If .1199, ix!" Trowsdale on Thursday evening, awe”; cl,i,'K;;': agubbizl Wsmom lg June 5th, with ten members and flarmefcloth 3 three visitors present. ' The program W38 led b Ruth vvvww --yztxxy-yygxmcx Simmons from the leaflet !Dearth mmtwoiwimx 5 Cnielty To Animals ORAPAUD W. M. S. on the Earth." The hymns "0 Cook's Corner ' Brother Man" and "Rise Up 0 Men of God” were sung with Mrs. R. L. Bacon as pianist. Prayers were offered by Gladys Nicholson and Eunace Weddell, and scrlp- R, 33; was by .:...2v:,.:::2::.i.;:ev:;::.. 22.- - u t bread cubes "Denim 0'11 the Eami-" 5 039 t(irle(ln'coli?tbi?Ac:urx:1i:J.x H cup grat- aet play in three scenes was read an cheegg, with the various character imper- pour thg mug, mm a frying sonated by Btrtha Tr0W5d8le.' pan, add salt and pepper and Margaret MacDonald, Nettie Leard bring to a boil. Lower heat. Jean Myers and Stuart Dawson Break the eggs one at a time into with Margaret Oakes reading the a saucer and slip gently into the Bible passages at the end of each Coverntlhsh pan Henge eclliw scene. 0 smmer un e egg a c - The business period was presided ed. Remove the E883 Wlkh 3 P91” over by the pyesydeng M3,-gm-gt forated ladle and place on toast Dawson. Ruth MacDonald report- 0" A h” 913"'9'- Add the "mm ilk and cook stir- ed for the ways and means corn- Wb" W m” m ' mittee after which it was decided mi! W""””i' "m" ”””'"”"d to hold 5 panuy "18 m Charlene, Pour sauce over eggs, sprinkle with ,Posched Eggs Au Gratin A country Garden 31 Mrs. Gordon Macmillan o'er swamp and wood. o'er lull and p . Lifting each mortal tear, When the and earth is drenched with rain, me will surely appear. In cloud-colored oostitnne wins rein- bow-like sheen, surpassing all other mortal mow. Our lovely goddeu will then be seen, On the rim of the radiant rainbow. It is Iris Time ags.in...that plea- eant season of the yearwhen we hurry out to the garden the first thing in the morning to witness the unfur-ling of is new iris for the first time or to revel in the beauty of an earlier acquaintance. Iris glittering with morning dew cer- tainly present an entrancing sight. . In this garden there are only a y few varieties of prize-winning Iris and every year plans are made to IV add more to make a real Iris gar- den but so far they have not met- erialized. They are one of the best peren- nials that we have, hardy and free from pests and in a few years they multiply so fast that they can be divided and soon a large collection gathered together. Genuine progress and lasting im- provements have been made in the new varieties. Starting new colors and combinations of colors, hereto- fore unknown in any other Iris. are to be found in the new Bearded Iris. Of incredible loveliness, they rival the wings of the most beauti- ful butterfly. There are richer blues, purer red, better pinks, finer and larger yellows, while other shades are remindiul of smooth old ivory or fine porcelain. Theli colors are so delicate and ethereal as to remind one of their true kin- ship with Orchids. In addition to their great heauly, many have the added attraction of being delight- fully fragrant. The Lupinee are making a good showing now and they are lovely spikes, symmetrical in a rich varie- ty of bright colors-self and bica- lors. red and creamy orange and many others that are new to this flower. They grow tall, some are four feet with closely set pea-shap- ed flowers. They are stately. color- ful and beautiful perennials that are very easily grown from seed. "Nature gives to every time and season some beauty of its own: and from morning to night, as from the cradle to the grave, is but a succession of changes so gentle and easy that we can scarce- ly mark their progress." Charles Dickens. Romans Made June Month For Weddings WASHINGTON, D. C. - The ra- diant June bride, leaving the church with the man of her choice. is probably unaware of the part ancient Roman superstition played in her wedding date. . June is the most popular month for weddings in North America largely because the Romans con- sidered it the most propitious sea- son - especially around the ttm:-. of the June full moon. Rome considered May bad for marriage, the National Geographic Society observes, but the prejudice against that month has been over- come in Christian countries. In fact, May is considered the ideal marriage period in some European nations. Shoes Always Needed The Christian church helped inv selection of May or June for mer- riage by frowning on weddings dur. ing Lent or other periods of fast- ing or penitence. Today's June bride can consider herself lucky that she is being town at an early date and one in giggle; c33fxe' xiii,” place mltfgg Summerside later. Committees Serves 6, were named to take charge of each. m... .4. Members reported 12 calls made the membe for next meeting. and 20 cards sent. Articles were Program to be in charge of Nettie handed in to be sent to the port Leard. worker at Halifax. Regret that this was Mire. Bac- on's last meeting with them was expressed by Margaret MacDon- ......:a...... yANCIEN'l' SPECTACLE It has been estimated that 25.- Ol are Falls to move to its present cantaloupe. 4. Not in harmony. ”Discordant thoughts are not con- ducive to happiness." 5 Vernal. the members. Mrs. Simple-to-make Overskirt GAY WORK-BIRDS such a gay mood to your kitchen! embroidery -- they're that easy! Mix and match favorite colors. stitches! Pattern 7228: 'l motifs about 5):? 1-4 inches. Send Twenty-five cents in coins for this pattern (stamps cannot be accepted) to ALICE BROOKS De- signs, cm The Guardian, 60 Front street West, Toronto. Ontario. Please print plainly Name. Address; and Pattern Number. Just the thing for The sheath dreos or sllin akin takes on this season's full-skirted look with the addition of a crisp oversklrt. Pique In one of the new blue shades inukas cl charming tunic for manner. Groogroin ribbon in contrasting color runs through carrier: at the waistline and ties into a bow at the front. if you would like directions for making this simple our- skirt. and a stamped. sell-addressed envelope to tho Needlework Department of this paper requutlaq Leonel No. 8 sins, PIQUE IN A TUNIC EFFECT. , m.:-- P Frank MacDonald invited Niagara River mouth. Cross - stitch work - birds give one-a-day motifs are one-a-day Eight-to-inch crosses, other easy transfer recipice 14 miles from the rAIic: 3:07.12 oe??gT.s I -...-?'- Q married in the 20th century in- stead of several hundred years earlier. The worst she has to do 15 dodge rice and shoes thrown in her direction. ' In earlier times, particularly nmone the Anglo-Saxons, the brldgegroom was given a shoe by the bride's father to denote a trans- fer in authority over the lady. By custom the gentleman tapped or struck his wife on the head to de- monstrate hls mastery. CHEW"! Oblllled the man to honor his lady. but it left no doubt as to the master of the household. One old law allows the bridegroom three uloomstlck blowe on the bride'e body. while another auowe him to beat her with a stick no lancer than his arm or thick- er than his middle finger. The new wife tossing her bouquet to waiting bridesmaids, doesn't know how lucky she is. The bou. quet-throwing replaces gm-1,"- matching that sometimes proved da. maging. Old French custom granted the next marriage to the less who "Hide Off with the bride's garter. competition for this luck token be. came fierce, and sensible brides who wished to avoid a possible I -left a sorter hanging loose and easily available. Beat Men Were Just that km. by law... ngement, brides maids. It meant the some thing. but ttwesditflcult to remove a stock- "W "031 3 Weddlnl costume, and "10 bouquet became a substitute. Gentlemen attendants in today's sddlnu also are somewhat bet- ter off than those of ages past. In tho din when wives were cap- tured by hostile tribes or families, the groomsman had the job of ward. in; off indignant relatives. Today the best man has little more to do than to see that the groom gets to the altar with a ring. Newlyweds of today, if funds are available, leave after the ceremony on a honeymoon -- a trip on which they can be alone if they wish. In the time when men grabbed their women by force It was sometimes started tossing stockings to bx-1QQg.. . norm DlX'S C0l.ll Aflermaih Of Divorce c Daughter's Friendship With Father Alienate: Mother DEAR. MISS DIX: My parents were divorced years ago while I was a small child. There was no question of infidelity involved; they simply couldn't make a go of the marriage. There were five of .1, children, and my mother supported us. She has always hated my father. and has-taught us to do likewise. We have seen him sev- eral times over the years, but he has never supported us. Now for my problem. During the last year, I have been seeing A lot of my father. He has been coming to our home and my mu. band. children and I have gone to visit him and hi; wife. They have been very good to us and, rm. urally, we appreciate their kindness. I can never love him as a daughter should, since I never rs. celved is father's care from him, but I do like hlm very much. My mother is definitely against this friend. shlp. She rarely comes to see me now and. while I love her and hate to hurt her, I do feel I have the right to live my own life. MRS. mu-, ANSWER: Here we go with that heckneyed phrase, "live my own llfe!" Don't the people who use it as a justification for every form of selfish. ness. or self-indulgence, ever realize that it ll actually an impossibility? Or nearly so! In order to live beyond um realm of human interference, one must his to a desert island and live forevermore in strict seclusion. That's as near as you'll greg- get to "living Your own life." Muriel N luon YOU'RE HURTING OTHERS The meaning of the phrase. when actually carried out. is 5 mm. plele disregard for other people's feullngs: in that respect you are doing a most complete job of living as you please. in order to curry favor with a father who ignored you for years, never made an attempt to support you, was so irresponsible that he could let your mother carry the entire burden of five children until they were grown, you would hurt the feelings of the woman who sacrlfieri so much for you over these years. While your father is undoubtedly a most pleasant and kind person. and it is no more than natural for you to want to see him. don't carry this belated devotion to the extent of shutting your mother from your life and home. The causes of the separation are of no concern in this particular- sliuatlon. The resultant facts are simple. Your mother worked to support and care for you; your father willingly relegated his parental obligations t her. He has no right to claim them at this late date, A few gifts to you and your children cannot compare with the struggles your mother had to raise you. She is entitled to first place in your heart, your life. your home. Don't cheat her! If necessary, see your father at his home, but leave yours open to your mother. Complications such as this are difficult for young people to cope with. but they are a natural aftermath of divorce and must be handled with as much grace as possible. Just be sure that first things come first-the first thing in this case being devotion and gratitude to mom. DEAR MISS DIX: After a year of haPl7.V married life, I have found a flaw in my husband. The other day I didn't feel well, and told him so. The following day I had a sore throat, and a temper- ature of 102. This was my first illness since we were married. I called my husband at noon and expected him to come right home. but he told me to rest and he'd be home at his regular time in the evening. When he did come home, I told him how selfish I thought he was to leave me alone all day, but he said he couldn't leave the business. K. S. ANSWER: While it would have been real nice of your husband to dash home and apply cold compresses to your head, a sore throat and temperature really do not warrant a man rushing home from work. If it did. offices and factories would soon be depleted. Surely a neighbor or relative could have come in to give you what assist- ance was needed. Man is the breadwinner of the family. and his job can't be interrupted by every illness, fancied or real, that the lit- ile woman develops. You have apparently been accustomed to con- siderable attention, but you're grown up now, and must learn to rely more on your own capabilities. o DEAR MISS DIX: Three weeks ago I broke off with a boy I had gone with for four months. He had begun to be very inattentive and, when I suggested breaking off. he seemed to approve of the idea. How can I find a way to win him back? . BRENDA ANSWER: Why waste time trying to get back a boy who so obviously has lost interest in you? Pride alone should send you on the trail of someone else. There are lots of nice boys nvnllable, Brenda, and perhaps your lost love will come back of his own accord later. It's better, however, if you forget him and find someone else. ltllss Nieeen cannot reply personally to readers but will answer problems of general interest through this column. SPEEDY METHOD NEW FAD? VULCAN. Alta.--(GP)--Two op- H erators with a government-owned VANCOUVER-(CP) - Many machine planted 550 carraganas. Vancouver young men are having Siberian pea shrubs, in just lollheir left ears pierced for ear- mlnutes in a demonstration of rings, says Mrs. Edna Mae Young. tree-planting on the district farm an ear specialist. She claimed men of Howard BBurrei. are crowding girls out of the ship nee ,7 for the happy couple to fly stopped , for her. hide out -- until the bride's lam-J D A l S gywugg ammnci ltlmullii Wiiilullill. ACROSS 6. Unit. of 23. 'mt-kish title magma Hm.1mn 1. Am”-mg weight. of nobility V "Ilia E33 4. Arch 6. To twinkle 24. Bone 7. Chrysalis 7. Musical lanet.) 8. Men's name instrument 25. Stinging Q (913,) 0. Undrened insect E" 10. Bogot kid 26. Daisy 1 "- 30”!" ii iii.” . .. itltloa ... i '13" P" :uia:" an as A pin in gl:'rrTiLai-.i manna .14. Device for 12. Metal A zunwale , packing 14. Equal 29. A seasoning Yesterday u Anaurr Ill. Indefinite 18. bio. 31. Ascend 36. cornmeal article 19. Greek letter 32. River (Ger.1 bread . 10, Body . 20. Music note 35. Cross-bar 37- Al Odd! - of water H. Color. l"PP0l'Wil 39- Q09!" ' 11. Accomplish on fabric wheels of fairlel ' 18. Dread ' 2!. Lair l 22. on. as wood 23. Male child 25. Court 27. Haruaes 30. How-lng tool ' 31. Absent 33. Exclamation. 34. scorched ae. Body , of water 88. A jewel - cue 80.Shed, as fur (van) 40. otherwise 41. Poker stake :2. Ever (poet) d3.'God or pleasure DOWN 1. Revolve 2. lllmloked 8. Roll of money (slang) , L. Dreary mum cnvnoquorrn-mm how to work I9- A X I It It. I A A X I . II I. 0 N G l' I I. I. 0 W A one lotto! snnply stands for another. In this exam?" A l' ” i for the three Us. If for the two 0's. eto. Single letters. urn ;m. the length and formation or the words are All ll loch day the code letters on dines-mt. A Gyptogs-an quotation n EKG 'l'D'f'fI'l'-JDOW ll ISHXXFQ MD or oaexn Nun ll-lRGl'QW' QBN" G” xevun-wunutwonaoit. m ' Yesterday's (kntoqaotet BRAND I-In! WI-lo Wm: W . one uproar.-yr-in all.-Af:l;Bl: mnsymou runs-50”?”