Woman is RedIm.. PAGE. grwo THE GUARDIAN JANUARY 9', 19.5; I Strange But fruo , I! r. II. Mullsrthur '1he prison system and moo. of cc-onmtlsa Makes A llsspltlil l'.E.l.ll:.I4ll.';mll'l.Illl7M By An Island larum-'a wife as a family we are somewhat said at heart at Aldeirlea tonight- -Needlecraft- - FOR THE HOME--. I MAD! TOFFEE ) A Mid Mornln i is :.''''''''.'...'”'l.':.'l'”.'.'.."....:.'i.:; . I . ious. Offenders are placed in cof- row I088!" . G Y - 0 llh-llko boxes where they are left I W "WY W" A 0h"W' '-W livi::llnn:daholl-tmttllit-lllhcutmt l I to languish in chains for months has occurred in our stable. That mam" Thu on. u qukny nude. . N I "me. ldoordlhl the the ser- respected animal, known to ll! yet features the smart styling of iouaness of the-crime. when 11- since he came to the D1100 Bomf oogquod pocket... . bug ,1”; go, 5 O leased their limbs are often yehaaa lush. as "lhomglls h0l.'8a'e- s ilytmy effect. ' sizes shrunken and useless. . W 0 W "W3 ""1 9" '3” No. 3615 is cut in sizes 12. 14. 16. I1 - 10 The Miisuis family of Japan ranks UP 0111' WI-mt WI-3 dl5P059d 01 F515 18 and N. Size 16, 2ft yards 54- . ' among the richest in the world. evening. "He was a great tea.n1- inch. '. i-. , , V They control banks, coal mines, harsh -lamaa oomo now in his Send 25c for each PATPERN . rh. oioouon of a young housewife. Mrs. John storey. the former engineering works, textiles, and so Old hflglelvhlm B99338 lllhgdi-ho t8U- which includes complete sewing ' Joan Jenkins whose home. town is Charlottetown. as alderman tin this on. Their offices in New York 313',-. A?” nag zmlh bfligv Bugle. llkrllit Y3: l1l:llne. Address ' town council of Mount Royal, bring": fresh hope to women V0 enb I employs several hundred persons. ihlluoh u h” had 9- 013 In SW9 film I! 1l1Y- 30 ll-In "xi. cm;-lottotown, "When," they say. will We be able lo cask: our lllc: . . . . Under the first ana- 33 h- V"? r 9 W 80 '-3 W 3:” 31:9 You Wlllh Include .1 lots for B. representative of our sex in a civic or even prov nclall 9”: tomy law of Massachusetts the W” 3 3 ml” '0 MOD him- It 15 P083-I drill” - 01' 80110 llllIl-b9l' 111 -1 vtion on this Island. If n Charlottetown woman can win an eec in coroner was authorized to dispose 11113"! b0?-h 101' 0WllCl' and anlmll Will" I 955- in a suburb of Montreal why can't a local housewife dllPll0B'-e 3” of the bodies of men killed in '50 V"-Wk 3 hm" WW1 h93V93- - - Adina" P””m D9P"'lm9m In her own mwm... dueling emm. by bumm nwmmut Queer too about mm - 1 novor The Charlottetown Guardian. - - 0 :mm:m a coffin, with a stake driven saw one afflicted just as he was. P”-WH1 N0- 3513 Perhaps the answer is In this l;1:dca”l"';at:';dfo':5 them. And I am through the body, or to de- Sometimes his breathing was. . . editorial reprinted from the To- bl; ins mt the oppmunny mp liver the body to B. doctor to be You would say. almost perfect. And mm I-' i ronto Star: "If women ever get idepa Wm many grow mm some, dissected and hmtomlzod. not aged either. The cause of it. the upper hand i," 30Ve'"me"" thing perhaps 1 can mu-keg 0 0 - Ellen?-Over-feeding, I believe, in they might do all kinds of desper- some- of my marmalade... In five years after the introduc- this instance. That boy is too good Address . ate things. They might. for ?e' . . . tlon of antitoxin the mortality to the horses - they could well do 'i,. ample. make provision for milk And the man mu morning among children in Canada and with much 1958... He ; .. out "M '”'""' meals i" 5"""”' -1" "9 brought this letter which 1 will the U. s. A. had fallen from so to pick up his pipe. "Rleckon" he city ?rovince better reason than that childrens Ewe you '0 read: pm, cent to 12 per cent and new glances at the clock. than shrugs hellllh WW” 'h"5 be ”"p""d' pm. )5 D.:-Like you. I'm a single death from diphtheria in his shoulders as though by the 'W':W-----W:''''-- 3”” "'5'" k"””” ”"” chm."-e"' having s-tow-away trouble with my a city is the subject of adverse act he would sloush away every slightly less than it cup). Form '""l"3 M "M5" are ”.,"””lf.'1 Christmas gifts. so decided the comment. Antitoxln was discover- . thought of empty stall, or tr-loudly into along roll, wrap in heavy l-:mll.ny'Baellllgsl3lJt:lliy nisilcreestgi quickest way was to use fun tie ed in lacs. . . . King Henry I J I . nickel atmomlns "he's dead by Waxed Paper andalllgcil in 109 ll” homes and homeymeg women usablle-thas I.'ll:!eth1)eBPe;indOl'theat' ;l;IIs"us;'i bio passj out cramp pesxdengs of the sheyburne mg- ,,o3p.ga1 hcense from me. Ontario this. . . . gigfllgllll for sever ours or over '"m" d" Something drastic about aliilgne anger: will write my friends u-sips ...deol:ed Anretlizevexilh men 0m"rmnmbuted cash him”. 9”Ve'"'"”.'" 1'' " l'h.e 1”” such "Yes" he continues "we did c n When ready to bake. cut into th: hoilgsigiogmihrofrlgzkogglevyamlggg i1anuscr.lp,s'i,.gtead of notes! This; Anne Boleyn Ve-rm” this rcusmm :,o,-s'epn;.:i,l,.db;1t;cd0ng ill-igtiz Erirgtixe) cltiigopegizizvepytecitalgf ill; tlmsgiiliz Sid" doing "my wfu, mm ,,:,,' very thin slices ,with sharp knife ev n .. u - 0 . ,, ' - . r ,' . . peace. There is a real danger. "1 fafgkflr hfslbanlg Vila: aisle it 11? lf8hdS.-- MI. Stephens. I Send square mile area. Tired of being beds at 52.000 each compared to burying mm W the mum but Id lhgt)b.flt:: hiboglltelll 3: ;0f)lll(l1eligt.e:.ahr k short, that women Would "like brlfgl the monm .5 out or he will W” he” "amp rmgs mr Y9" "id unable to get proper medical at- the average cost of 313.000. Mrs. Just as 5”” M "WW 1”” the Notrygsoul. cream may be meal 9 this "a boner country in which 10 be 5;": ms gripgor lack of it. M1'- GWBOTY and M11 Pellet. Pl'liY' lention, Shel-burne people formed Ed. Netzke shows -her contribution mm 9,1 mm" H3 3 3t'””3e mint 1,, W39 of sou, mm: by reducing lg live." ”NDd . 5 V I enjoy your ml? 3'0" l” dmnbute them 55 Y0” a co-operative, renova-ted a large to the children's war, brightly Eu” he 53y5- u3h"l"3 his P199 th P t b u to L3 c . ' . 90 leg? ac 8” much- think hes”. "I Mme Bmeym house and applied for a private colored curtains "3 19110” 93" P3” with NW 0319? e Bmoun 0' u H up' "But, the trouble with women," Mld-Momma Wes V9” o - - ' stock - cow. big or sheep wit.h- RVK .......M,.,. e?s'.7C't 'oI and this is in male reader's pro- found statement. "is that ih3Y don't know the difference beiW9l?ll an argument and a fight. 'l'll9Y never argue among themselves. because they're afraid their 76- moie frlpndg will mistake it for a fight and never ask them 10 B"' other hrldl-le i'l3l”i-l'- w9m9'l- he states. will only argue Wlill me" and because men are Sl1P9l'l0l' d9" haters they will always win." This evidently is the great M5 I mil”- ssy it, conceited logic by which males try to exclude the opposlle sex from active participation in politics. 0 O Belong we become foo involved this morning would you like fl recipe for inger creams? M;x together thoroughly th following: 1-4 cup of soft shorte ing, 1-2 cup sugar, 1 small egg. 1-2 cup mo- lasses; then stir in 1 tsp. soda dissolved in 1-2 cull hot W51"? sift together and stir in 2 CUDS sifted flour. l-2 tsp. salt, 1 tsp. ginger. 1-2 tsp. nutmeg, 1-2 isp. cloves, 1-2 tsp. cinnamon. Chill dough. Drop rounded teaspoon- fullg about 2" npart on llgllily greased baking sheet. Bake until set-just until when iouchod lightly with finger. almost no im- print remains. While slightly warm, frost with an icing mode as follows: Blend together 3-4 cup ifted confact'loners' sugar. 1-4 tsp. anllla. and enough cream to make c easy to spread. Temp, 400 de- mos F. Time, Bake 7 to 8 mln. akes about four tioz. 2" cookies. The ppopostcd Women's ,Ex- change shop suggested by is read- er several weeks ago, is. I think. beginning in take shape. A tele- phone call from the spokeswoman of a group nf housewives who are interested in marketing their knitting and sewing seems 10 have stirred the necessary lntel" cat and I am anxious to know when they will have their first business meeting. Several letters from out of town readers have been added to this as well as one or two verbal inquiries. So "A. M. B." may we hear from you and keep posted? I have an anony- mous donation for you which has been forwarded through "Morning Coffee". It is from a reader who has seen one of these homecraft opportunity shops in operation. and I think it will be rather use- ful. It is a complete typewritten constitution giving suggestions on store operation. store reglllhllons. and a brief estimation of expenses for preliminary operation. 0 O 0 This morning just, before I put the coffee on. A phone call came from an out-of-town reader to in- quire about the handicraft and baking shop. "My specialty," she said, "is making marmalade that has a habit of selling itself.” Once she had a large pot of this old- fashloned marmalade simmering on the stove when a. neighbour Who buys eggs from her poultry lsrm regularly. sniffed it cooking on the coal stove,and persuaded her to sell several Jars of the fruit marmalade---too. "Now, pea. as do lots of my friends. I'm particularly interested in A,M,R,'5 idea, since you stressed the fact that country women could also be active. I live a few mlles out of Charlottetown and. like the majority. I suppose. my specialty is baking. I've done my share of baking for make sales WhiCh S99"l5 to find very popular sale to the city folk. I certainly hope "A.M.l-'t." will get enough encouragement to R0 ahead with her idea. It sounds tops. with all the best for the New Year! Yours .sir:cel;ely.-Mrs. H-3- Thank you Mrs. J. and a thank you, too, for your husband who gave you the .ne.w pen- For a, reader on UDPPI" Hm-h" borough Street-I'm sorry but I can not find the answer. to the question on kitchen utensils which you asked me to find out for Y0” and your friends. Perhaps through ihls column some of our readers might be able to help you. Here is her question. Has anyone ally information on new vegetable Mandrake wine was used to kill pain back in the time of Nero; the plant has played a part in English and German folklore. There are tall tales of the human shape of its roots and the cry of agony it gave when it was yank- ed out by the roots. This cry was supposed to cause madness in those who heard it. Shakespeare has Juliet say (Act IV, scene 8) "And shrieks like mandrake torn out of the earth, that living mortals hearing them run mad." New Floor coverings Include Many Fabrics There's a dynamic story behind the new floor coverings this fall. In covering the new manufacturers presentations, Retailing Daily edit- ors find that today the industry is combining imagination and common sense to produce timely designs that go with style trends in other branch- peelers and shredders? This house- 95 of home m,,mSmng5' and on per wife flnde that she invariably takes the top off her knuckles when she tries to shred cabbage or carrots. Can anyone send in information about a newer and more convenient type 0! vE8el&b1E peeler? '0 0 After all housewives. salesglrls. secretaries, know that allrhci-1V9 hand: can compete With 8 Pll1llS' ing neckline for wolf whistles MIY time. So says Mrs. Neushaefer of New York Who is an expert on hand cart-. "Beautiful hands are more interesting." she says. "They show your personality and char- acter." And now. to protect '-"Jr beauty women may have to turn to metal work as well as car- pentry. Inventing cabbage peelers to keep her home together and at- trncg her husband who does not admire half a.kn.llCk.lE- Fresh flowers on it winter's day- I find, are more than spring and summer. An afternoon tea ill January is surely only A W0m!ll5 ruso, to bring daffodils and snap" to dragon into her h0ll59-"'E-M'D- Morning Smile mmwA Fair Comment mAA FxRR'”:;s A religious speaker was expound- ing on the great work of the Church to a. motley crowd in Hyde Park. some of his rartarks infuri- ated a grimy proletarian who worked his way to the front. Looking corltemptuously at the speaker, he snarled: "The Church is supposed to have existed for two thousand years and yet look at the state of the world." The speaker looked intently at his interrupter and said quietly: "Water has existed for two million years, yet look at the state of your face!" Babyls Quilted Utility Bag . Tn. .u-via-raaavi-In " eisaiobla-aalh-4 augis1oaiisotIliagsooe!rrbahr'Iv.IrIsaIIa-alholaaelasidvill” fIednbIsdIi1Iodoutbcnsiacllily.Yoa pIqiiLIIndlhe,ltwIibwhiisudnarplasIe: slail.oulut'-,iseaioropraaiaaiothioo.li o ' Iacq.vnacalIosilsv'a.urll.l1'vssdiunt 'niaiiibos.'uuosanau.moiusu9u'Ih-llovalowouo-rtuuupupor. a i i I fect new materials and techniques that are changing their style out- look. with this fresh viewpoint in the floor covering industry, the trend toward more decorative floor cover- ings is unmistakable. It doesn't mean patterns that dominate a room, but patterns with more intrinsic in- terest in design. color and textural variation that L plement and correlate with other home furnish- ings instead of serving as neutral not-so-necessary backgrounds. The tremendous growth in pop- ularity of the "ranch" theme in dec- orating-which connotes simplicity and infonnality more than any par- ticular sizyle of furnishings-has been widely recognized and applied in wool carpets this year. This in- formality is applied in patterns of bright patchwork effects, cheerful multicolor flower arrangements, animal slcln markings, basketweave effects and stylized floral motifs that have a Provincial quality. All are uninhibited when it comes to color. Modern Is More Mellow Although geometric and lineal themes still hold good for more floor cverlng patterns, Retailing Daily points out that they are being applied more freely this season to relieve the starkness that their strict application can mean. Design motifs are softened with color tech- niques to give modem is softer. less clinical air. Contemporary leaf and scroll patterns continue the tendency they exhibited last season to feature less realistic and more fluid or stylized simplified motifs. shadow and three dimensional effects appear in many of them. and text- ural variatlons are also more prom- inent. Colorwise. leaf and scroll patterns are often bolder. Self toned have given way to frsnker con- trasts such as bright green or deep rose or brown against gray. green against frown. Oot.ten'a Big Time New Oottenistaklngits placeu a major floor covering category. The recognition of the importance of cotton has been evidenced this year by the debut of several wool carpet manufacturers with cotton lines, and by the growing emphasis on wide width roll goods and room sisea in cotton. New textures in cotton are supplemented by patt- erns achieved. by textural variations and patterns achieved by contrast- ing colors. out pile features, which hsd the his initial success in room also eottu-is are now available in more lines. in more qualities. says Re- tailing Dally. Low loops and boucle effects. with the best resistnsce to matting of the cotton textures are available from tight round wire meets to loosc; nubbler surfaces. 'Oottnn scatter sisal are becoming accent run in the true sense of the word. They are being made in textures identical to room lists to provide floorwtds harmony. or they stand on their own with modern aha qolonial deskns that contrast two or three textures in borders or all- ovsr treatments. mien eon ' iron:-y KcndI1lTTSr?iclu'KiiE"a'l- in poet who died in ms, was known as the "poet of the bush" because he was an inspector of &uiA . ; ? rrbs How Can I!!! ,; By Anne Ashley Iisna-warms-Lsxx u Q. How can I make an econ- omical. but delicious, fudge A. Add 1 cup water to 2 cups sugar, 3 tablespoons cocoa, and a small pinch of salt. Boil until it makes a soft ball in water. Then add a tablespoon of butter. and cool it in a basin of water. Add 3&- teaspoon vanilla flavoring, stirring until creamy, and pouring on a buttered dish. Q. How can I remove old iodine stains? A. These usually prove ex- tremely diffioult; however. the best thing to do is to try sponging repeatedly with diluted ammonia. Q. How can I add more iron to my diet? A. some of the foods contain- ing a good proportion of iron are spinach, lettuce, milk, roast beef. rice, oatmeal. eggs, prunes, cab- bage, celery, turnips, apples and cereals. ."'KVtwW&V9 " Household Scrapbook ; By Robert Lea E &NNNxxoJyZ"R"y:”'11'wsocx-xryo xaao&&9e Tlie Wrist Watch The wrist watch should be re- moved when washing the hands to avoid water getting inside. Have the watch overhauled at least once 5, year to remove dried up oil and dirt. Be sure to wind the watch up fully at the same time each day. preferably upon arising. Coffee Pot Bepalr If the pin in the hinge of the coffee pot lid breaks, or slips out and is lost-, replace it with a small safety pin, and it will probably last as long as the pot. Cake Crust Granulated sugar. sifted over the top of sponge cake before put- ting it into the oven, gives it a rich brown crust when baked. lm Modern Etiquette M5; 3: Bobcrta mo w Q. How does one congratulate a man and girl who have just an- nounced their cngagmlent? A. First, never congratulate a girl. Instead. wish her happiness. and congratulate the man. You may say to the girl, "I've just heard of your engagement, and I certainly wish you every happi- ness.” And to the man. "Congra- tulations, Bill. I know you've found a line gtr ." Q, Whst are the two most pop- ular ways of introducing a man and a woman? A. Either, "Miss Lake, may I present Mr. Ford?" Or. "Min Lake. Mr. Ford." Observe that in both forms, the woman's name is mentioned first. Q. What is the proper way to eat an apple It the dinner table”! A. The proper way is to quarter the apple, and then. using the fingers. eat each quarter. -v " l Better English I: I. O. WIIIIIIII i ...;ye..vV.'"V-V55V.S-.3-.l9.'o&ln !. What is w-ran with this'sen- tence? "The ilding will be itovught. to final completion next. week. and the contractor will be through with his work." 2. What is the correct pronunc- iation of "verbatim?" 3. Which one of these words is misspelled? uintatement, missile, miscellaneous, rnlasarpproprintu. 4. What does the word "Incis- ive" munf, , fl. What is a word beginning with ca that means "to mmpute"f Ausvvlu , 1. say. "The bulldilll will be brought to (omit final) completion. next west. and the contractor will have finished his work." 2. Pro- nee gut in. is as in fur. in bait, Iidond Iyllebll quality of cutting: sharp sarcsstici biting. "Bob hu' an "in. Mlsspptaprlste. 4. slaving the”. acutn. ' I) ;gThaf Body Of Yours: 3: James W. Barton. Il.D. 2 Leaza-A-zssssssssssxgesamsssras. THE PHYSICIANS RESPONSI- BILITY TOWARD THE HARD OF HEARING There is no other one subject on which I write that seems to inter- est so many readers as loss of hearing. It is unfortunately true that lnany physicians, because they do not wish to arouse hope in what they honestly believe are hopeless cases. fail to keep up with all that is now being done to help those with loss of hearing. In the Illinois Medical Journal some months ago, Dra. Francis L Lederer, Richard E. Marcus and Arnold A. Crossman, Chicago. stated: "Because of widespread publicity, most of which is true or authentic. many hard-of-hearing and deafened patients are looking to'their physician for relief of their symptoms. The physician. in many instances. is not aware of the significant advances in the treatment of hearing loss and therefore stifles the feeling of hope in the patients by saying that 'nothing can be done'." All physicians should know that much can be done for the hard-of- hearing patient. In some instanc- es, hearing can be improved by medical or surgical means. Once it is known that neither medicine nor surgery can help, it would seem that no further treat- ment could be of help, but these physicians state that there is now available a rehabilitation program in which various specialists work together to repair or make up for the hearing 10.2 of the individual. after they have learned the entire history of the patient's case. The various specialists who com- bine their efrorts include car spec- iallsts. specialists in, acoustics (sounds), specialists in speech de- fects, and education of the deaf, specialists in psychiatry. and spec- ialists in electronics. This pooling of efforts to help the hard-of-hearing is an out- growth of wartime experience with large numbers of servicemen whose hearing was damaged. The specialists work on the basis that hearing loss is an emotional and social problem and they provide the means to restore the patient to personal and social balance. The rellabilltatlon centers are at present in operation in numerous university medical schools. the Veterans Administration Hospi- tals, and in some large cities. I K9&Y” The Stars Say-- ll: Genevieve Kunbls imK' o For Tomorrow A RATHER thrilling develop- ment. unlocked-for, unplanned, may suddenly come up for deci- sion. It might be concerning some token of appreciation, pre-ferment. reward for merit. Or an unantici- pated proposal for a vacation. de- sired change or welcome relax- ation. Dmnestic, social, cultural contacts seem to be involved, with feminine factors of prime import- nee. If It Is Your Birthday Those whose birthday it Is. may nnd themselves interested. per- haps thrilled, by a sudden move, a journey, a vacation. or entirely nplanned opportunity for change. rest, relaxation. Bane ties, social and professional or artistic affilia- tions an involved, with feminine interest Intriguing. inviting. Change might concern promotion. honors or some surprising recogni- tion of work mu done, either public or phllil-tropic. A child born on this day, may have a generous and ambitious nature, with exceptional ability in take an important plsee in public file. social. educational. charitable. AI-ive, h on voice.” 5. calculate. . small fellow like Gage, as far back out a second thought, but when a horse goes, well, it's as though a person has gone from the place, one you has esteemed very well. Perhaps that's because I always liked horses. or it may be that they were once so valuable, so es- sential to farming that we sort of looked up to them. I don't know, 1 only know that ever since I was I as I can remember, I always had the same feeling of loss when one left the farm! . . . And wasn't he the fine looking animal, Ellen, that day we brought him home? Yes. and he was a good horse as I said, great in the team." James is doubtless recalling that the Spring will bring busy days to the horses. and is a mite resent- ful of aturn of events which brings a change into a hitherto satisfactory existence. Grand- daughter. who seems to have in- herlted this first love of James, was among the others who stood in silence at the gateway when twilight was dropping, to watch the truck bearing "the big horse" as it eased down the laneway and presently climbed toilsomely up the hill, going out from us to a place where there will be no more furrows to tread, nor any burdens to draw. Then hand in hand with James and still quietly, the two turned away. 0 O O A first seed catalogue, most colorful and fascinating in mat- tear, was received today and taking advantage of Rob's ab- sence in -town then . . .and com- ing this far with him, Karolyn and the boys were among our morning visitors. Indoor pastimes W9"! llexlected by these small fry, in the joy of the outdoors which in the rare Splring-like weather prevailing today. they enjoyed to the fullest. It is usual for them to play peaceably together, though at times odd issues arise to bring tears. "Oh-h-h-hi" walled granddaughter once on all alarm- ing note which brought us on the irun. She was evidently broken- hearted. "Jamie threw a snowball at me" she sobbed "and it went a-all down my neck!" "Well" we commenced to reason with the smiling offender "give an account of yourself! What made you do the like of that?" "Hull!" he chuckled "what made her throw an icicle at me?" "Yes" the young- er lad nodded seriously "what made her throw an icicle at.him?" U 0 0 And a gentle wind of day came in over the hills today and January fields are baring. Until tomorrow - - Diary Good-night. . . . D g Cook's Corner CHOCOLATE ICE BOX COOKIES 2 tablespoons Fry's Chocolate syrup '5 cup butter 155 cups flour Va cup sugar IA teaspoon soda 1.6 teaspoon salt 56 cup sour milk. cream butter thoroughly. add sugar gradually. while creaming constantly. Add chocolate svfllp. Sift together, the flour, soda and salt ,and sift into butter mixture alternately with the sour milk. (Add only enough milk to make I stiff dough-sometimes it will be l DOROTHY DIX SAYS- . Independent Children How Far Should Parents 60 ln Guiding Teen-Agers' Affairs? DEAR MISS DIX: We agree with you that children should be taught independence and to use their own judgment, but don't you think that parents should have the privilege of advising and consult- ing with the children? We have some adopted children who resent our enquiry into their affairs and who seem to think that we should make no suggestions 'to them; that our only duty is to finance them. give them clothes and cars and the money with which to amuse themselves. MRS. T. J. D. ANSWER: Teaching children to stand alone mentally and morally should be done just exactly as they are taught how to stand on their own feet and to walk physically. The toddler nee his pa- l5';.hs..4 .- rent'a hand to hold him steady and to teach him how to tak the first step. He needs lo be taught what dangers to avoid and how to pick himself up when he stumbles and try it again when he falls down. !illND NEEDS TRAINING himself what to eat. when to go to had. what to study at school, how to handle money. how to get along with other children. All these things have to be taught. and it is chiefly through the parent's rid- vice that the youngster learns how to handle himself and acquires judgment and wisdom. Just as a little child is taught to walk by exercising the muscles of its legs. so it should be taught independence and self-reliance and wisdom by being permitted to exercise its mind and make its own de- cisions under the parent's guiding hand. Parents should no more do all of their children's thinking for them than they should carry them around in their lirms after they are old enough and strong enough to stand on their own feet. Successful parenthood consists in fathers and mothers lies-pinl such close companions with their children that their children will con- fide in them and voluntarily ask their advice and guidance after they have really been emancipated from parental control. Experience will have taught them that Mother and Father are nearly always right about things. and that they can depend upon their understanding all of their problems and dealing with them with sympathy. DEAR. MISS DIX: I had been secretly married to a very llkshlc young man for about six months when a married man in the same office where I work started making love to me. Thislswcpt me' off my feet so much that I divorced my husband. Now I am thrown ovol by the married man and learn that he has an affair such as mint every two months. I have repented my folly plenty and would giva anything to have my husband back. Although he is heartbroken and would take me back I don't think it would be the right thing to do because if he knew what a chest I have been he wouldn't want me I am only 19 and I would like to shoot every married man who flirli with a girl. DISILLUSIONED ANSWER: He deserves it. but what about doing something lethal to a girl who has an affair with a married man. knowing that if she succeeds in getting her man she is destroying the happiness of a sis- ter woman, orphanlng little children and wrecking is home? That at 19 you should have secretly married. divorced and had an affair with a married -man-proves my contention that girls in their teens don't know their own minds about men. and have no mil" business to be playing with love than a child has to be playing with fire. My suggestion to you is to eat humble pie and ask your illn- band to give you another trial. but to wait another your llhlll W1 are sure of yourself before you venture into marriaze a8hlh- And then do it openly and honestly, not secretly. DEAR Miss DIX: Do you think It possible that a young man continued on page 3. g . In the Modem Mood , . oggdoeuumly lllheej ,eIsuivohnedeessuiag.Asd tao.'Yau'iIhdllosanadgatdeior And he needs the same mental training. No child can know of 'l