Anno_flo¢ Wmm-n'e Editor Phone (-83 rpm Guardian. Charlottetown, Fri. Aug. 10, 1982. 1 HAPPENINGS M", C)‘. Lancaster (nee day after having attended funeral of her sister, Mrs. De- vid Barnes of Marblehead. Mrs. Lancaster expects to spend the remainder of her visit at the Charlotte Residence. Mrs. William Chamandy ‘and four children of Cochrane, Ont. have arrived on the Island and are spending a months vaca- tion with Mrs. Chamandy‘s mo- tlior. Mrs. Margaret Hiilllns. 74 Elm Avenue. Charlottetown. and her sister Mrs. Waldron Cameron. Mr. Cameron and family in Albany. Miss M. Durley and Miss Margaret Mowat of Montreal. PQ, are spending 10 days at Shaw's Hotel, Brackley Beech. Mr. and Mrs. John Fitzpa- M. Fitz- patrick and Mrs. McMahon of Montreal. PQ. have spent the last 10 days at Shaw's Botel, Brackley Beech. Mrs. Leslie Gay accompanied by Miss Janet Wallace, Hamilton. Ontario, are spend- ing their vacation at Hotel, Brackley Beach. Mr. and Mrs. Hugh A. Gray- bie and their daughter Rose- mary Dickson. of Windsor, On- tario. are spending the month oi August at Shaw's. Mrs. Betty Gallagher. of St. John's. Newfoundland, is spend- ing her vacation at Shaw‘: Ho- tel, Brackley Beach. Miss Florence J. Levy. of New York City. is spending her vacation at Shaw's Hotel, Brac- l(lPy Beach. Mrs. W.J. Monaghan of Ot- tawa. Ont. is visiting with her mother. Mrs. Angus Cameron, King's Square. Charlottetown. Miss Frances Coyie and her friend, Miss Louise Aboussafy have arrived from Calgary, Alta. to spend a holiday with the farmer's parents, Mr. and Mrs. F.A. Coyle. llir. and Mrs. John Inch of Woodstock. Ont. accompanied by their daughters Janet a n lleather. are renewing o friendships ltir. inch was a former organ- ist and choir director at the Baptist and instructor of music at Prince of Wales College. Dur- lng their visit in the province Mr. and Mrs. Inch and family are the guests of Mr. and Mrs. Lorne Callbeck. Longworth Av- enue. in. Mr. and Mrs. W.C. Gay Truro. N.S. with their two chil- dren, Micheal and Bobby. re- turned to their home last Sun- day after visiting the former-’s parents, Mr. and Mrs. Harvey Bernard and his sister. Mrs. Lester Jenkins. Mr. Jen- kins and family. They were ac- both of- companied on their return by Miss Donna Jenkins and Miss Jackie George. Last Friday Mrs. Bernard entertained for her daughter-in-law at a birth- day dinner for twelve persons. Mrs. Caroline Moran and Miss Nellie Stimpson of Boston, Mass. returned to their home last Sunday after vacationing in P.E.I. On Wednesday they were luncheon guests of Mr. and Mrs. Harvey Bernard. Mr. and Mrs. Sandy Chapman of Moncion. N.B. were guests of Mr. and Mrs. l-lnrvey Bernard and Mr. and Mrs. Les Jenkins while touring the province. Warrant officer and Mrs. E. Cole and family of Oromocto. N.B. have been visiting Mrs. Cole's parents. Mr. and Mr I . Harry Bowness, Kensington. They will be leaving this morn- ing for Western Canada. via the United States. W—0 Cole w be stationed in Shilo, Manitoba. Mr. and Mrs. R.D. Gillespie and daughters Susan and Cyn- thia of Toronto and Dr. and Mrs. Alan McMillan and daugh- ter Janet of Bedford. N.S. are guests of their parents. Mr. and 9 Mrs. Earle MacMurdo, Kensing- ton.. Mrs. R.M. smith was hostess to the members of the Presby- terian Guild, Montague at h er summer home in Lower Monta- gue Monday evening. Following the worship period the business was conducted by Mrs. Welling- ton Campbell. In the absence of the secretary Mrs. Leland Nel- son read the minutes and the correspondence. The report on the visiting committee was pre- sented by Mrs. Elsie Waiter- worth and Mrs. Willis Jenkins. New Business included ar- rangements for catering to a wedding reception and assisting at the annual Sunday school pic- c. A welcome guest to the meeting was Mrs. Norman Young, Georgetown. Ont. who, with her family. is vacationing on the Island. At. the close of the meeting. a social hour was en- joyed and lunch was served by the hostess and lunch committee. MR.AND ‘Pretty Summer North T r y e u Presbyterian Church was the scene of s pret- ty summer wedding on Satur- day. June 30, 1962 when Jessie Mildred, daughter of Mr. I n d 11] Mrs. Lloyd Howstt. North Try- on, became the bride of Mr. Neil Goodwill MacPhall_ son of Mr. and Mrs. Nell MacPhail. Argyle Shore.. The double ring ceremony was -solemnlzed by Rev. George illen. The wedding music was charge of Mrs. Leroy Howatt. aunt of the bride. and accom- pained Mr. Bertram Thompson who sang “The Wedding Pray- er" beforc the ceremony and "0 Perfect Love" during the signing of the register. The church was decorated with bas- kets of summer flowers and the guests seats were marked with white satin bows and lily of the valley. Given in marriage by her father the bride looked lovely in a gown of white silk organza over satin with tight fitting bo- dice embroidered with white alencon lace and sequins a n d full bouffant skirt. Her shoulder length veil was held in place by an organza rose and outlined with lace and sequins to match her dress. She carried a bou- quet of pink roses entwined with W Mrs. Myron Matheson. sister of the bride, was matron of ho- nor while Mrs. Frederick An- drews, friend of the bride, and Miss Ruthie Iiowatt, sister of th in Charlottetown. . pmrrsn PATTERN.‘ ( IIIIII) Eiiiifiii egtggi Shower Held A For Bride-To-Be KENSINGTON — Miss As- trid Mlliar was honored with a parents. Mr. and Mrs. Stirling Miller. Kelvin Grove, on the occasion of her approaching The bride-to-be was escorted to a daintiiy decorated chair b Miss Valarie Woodside. T 0‘ prettily wrapped parcels were carried in by three little nieces of the bride - elect, Heather. Catherine and Shirley Miller. and the ribbons were cut out by Judy Picketts and A n dr ea Johnson. Nancy M.aclVlurdo Sandar Huestis read the names and good wishes. and the gifts were arranged by Phyllis Mll- lar. Gwenneth MacMurdo and Mrs. Bruce Profitt. Mrs. Francis Moase and Mrs. Irving Millar re-filled the bas- kets. and the bows were gath- ered and arranged by Karen and Beverley Profitt, nieces of the bride-to-be. Astrid gracefully voiced her thanks for the many beautiful and useful gifts. community shower on Tuesday ‘ evening at the home of her ‘ e bride. were bridesmaids. They wore identical s t r e e t length dresses of white silk or- game over peau de sole with matc g cumme , hats and shoes of hot pink. They ELLEN’S DIARY Coming by happily this mor- ning on a call. which was in- nded to invite us to join him at feeding his pair of white rabbits, Alex barked a big is steps left drops of pop- py-red on. the kitchen-floor. And "Oh dear" he complained the sight and the soreness. Pre- sently however. after his moth- er had treated .snd bound the injury. and he had entrusted the care of his bunnies to an- other, he sat playing with pair of kittens on the back ver- andah. “The worst of it is" he ob- served. when we came there a moment to chat with him. "I sha'n't be able to go to Church School. Sunday morning. be- 8 by Oh-so-sleepy sue -— she makes bedtime a friendly time for sleep-reslsting tots. Tots hug and cuddle hes-—eho um lots of mush lovins! Mah- her of e man's sock. Patten ma: dire.c.t1i_:ns 12-inch doll: PI- | . um F‘-five cents (Coins) for this pattern (no stamps please) to Alice Brookl. care of Guard.- cause. it won't be better then." difference if you miss class one Sunday" we s . "Oh, not in one way. But I always like to go" he said. some longing in his voice. Ever since the spring brought back the Church school's sea- son. we have come to watch the three children go. We have been particularly interested in see- ing them off. those mornings when they walk as far as lane's MRS. NEIL MacPIIAIL in while Mr. Wedding is Solemnized At North Tryon carried bouquets of white and pink mum‘. Miss Deborah Carr. niece of the bride was winsome in pink taffeta with white organza overskirt. hot pink cummerbund and headdress. She carried a nosegay of pink and white mums. Master Ric ky Harvey, nephew of the ide. was ring bearer. Mr. Clarence (Duke) MacPhail was groomsman for his brother William MacPhail. brother of the groom. and Mr. James Howatt. brother of the bride, ushered the guests. Mrs. Howatt chose for her daughter's wedding a blue taf- feta sheath covered with organ- sa, matching shoes and hat. Her corsage was of pink and white carnations. Mrs. MacPhail wore brown paisley silk with beige accessories and a corsage of yellow roses. - Following the ceremony a re- ception was held in the Tryon Baptist hall‘ for approximately 100 guests. The toast to the bride proposed by Mr. Myron Mathe- son. was fittingly responded to by the groom. Miss is tart, friend of the bride. was in charge of the guest book. For a honeymoon trip through Nova Scotla the bride chose a blue and white sheath dress with white accessories and a corsage of pink and white car- nations. Out of the province guests in- cluded: Mr. and Mrs. Myron Matheson. Moncton; Mrs. Mona Bell, Fredericton. 'N.B.: Mr. and Mrs. G go. Mr. and . Donnie MacNutt, Truro. N.S.: and Mr.. and Mrs. Lloyd MacDonald, Toronto. (Photo by C.D. MacKay) 3 5 One Small Boy Ponders Serious Matter Of Life of be on the stock. and the crops. . would stop to "But it won't make so much c, prepared. Not word-perfect, but as he would say “Good enough" A little tune on his lips —- but always a Sunday tune, but some sweet lingering air he likes. His garb was put on to be forgotten. Mind instead would and farm work. And come to the lane-bridge he would stop to watch hl would Granddaughter. would defer his skipping of stones for a weekday. This was Sunday,»the morning to go to Church School —- to know his lesson. and also to be aware of its mes ng. I Monirose, Almd UCW Units Hove Joint Meeting ALBERTON — Montrose and Alma units of United Church Women met together last week to form their group. Mrs. A.G. Green. a presbyterial officer, and Mrs. Fred Leard, president of Alberton group. were present to assist in the ‘organizing. During the first part of the meeting Mrs. John Clark, Lead- er of Alma Unit, presided . and conducted worship. Mrs. Green presided during the election of officers which resulted as fol- lows: president, Mrs. Eldon John Clark and Mrs. Norman Warren; secretary, Miss Li Mountain; treasurer, Mrs. Wal- lace Donald; conveners and members of committees: pro- gram. Mrs. Hudson Pridham and unit programs conveners; flinlance, Mrs. Wallace Donald and Mrs. Kenneth Gordon; com- munity friendship and visiting Mrs. Keith Bowness and Miss Marion Barbour; membership, Mrs. Kenneth Pridham and Mrs. Eldon Barbour; steward- ship and recruiting, Mrs. Wal- lace Donald and Mrs Kenneth Gordon; manse. Mrs. Wallace, ' supply and social assis- tance, Mrs. Heber Ramsay and Mrs. Isaac Dunbar. There was discussion regard- ing materials available for worship. for Bible study and :1‘ D .5 for mission study. Barbour; vice-presidents. Mrs. re Campbell Fomily Hos Reunion In Kensingion KENSINGTON — On Satur- day. August 4, the home of Mr. and Mrs. David Campbell, Sr.. was the scene of a happy gath- erlng chiefly composed of the hosts‘: immediate family, and of his brothers and s I s t e r I along with their wive and bus- 3’ ends. A very delicious lunch includ- ing a birthday cake was served. celebrating Preston's birthday the following day. and Annie May's and Jean's later in the month. Music was furnished by the host on the violin. and by h l s two daughters. Ann, ( Mrs. Hubert Murphy) on the guitar, and Mary (Mrs. Fulton Cous- ins) on the piano. Later Mary accompanying herself on the piano. sang some favorite old songs. The reunion was especially x enjoyed by all, as it is fourteen since Mr. and Mrs. Clay- ton Campbell, of Troclmi. Alta.. last visited the Island. Mrs Campbell is the former Miss Annie Bryanton. Dear Mary Haworth: After 15 years, my marriage is faltering and very close to falling apart. I have heard there are books that explain why a husband may seem content with his marriage. and yet turn to another woman for variety and excitement. At tim e s I have suggested companlonable ventures to my husband. that would give us a change and a lift. such as going off for a short holiday, by our- selves or with friends. But he wasn't interested. Now he admits he sees another woman. I don't know Ju at what to do, as he says it is noth- ing. just a little diversion. and I should just try to forget it and go back to the wonderful life we've always had. I would appreciate your list- lng the titles of books that might show just how much is expected of the wife and the husband in marriage. My philandering hus- band seems to think be me have his cake and eat it too. If anything has gone wrong.- it is my fault, he says; a n while I know I am not perfect. I feel I have always tried c o n- sistently to he s good wife and mother and keep a lovely s n d loving home. He alw ay s has been the most important person in my world. I realize my need of pert advice and w ould appreciate your immediate guidance. E.B. Dear E.B.: I have in mind two books that should shed light on your problem. One is “Life To- gether" (Sheed and Ward) by Wingfield Hope. which wraps up the subject of how much is re- quired of husband and wife, to make marriage what God in- nds it to be - The other is "The Revolt of the In Middle Aged Man" (A.A. wyn, publishers) by Dr. Edmund Ber- gler. which X-rays the full range of alibi-reasons coined by philandering husbands, to ex- plain (to themselves) why they jump the traces in p u r s u it of variety and excitement. When all the excuses h ave been catalogued and analyzed. however. they add up to ju at one truism, namely: A in turns traitor to his marriage vows chiefly because he is (as yet) just too immature to face the fact that he has but one life ive. Donald and Mrs. Hudson Prld- go] He hasn't the qualities of mind, heart and soul to come to Stills. straightforwardly. with the limitations of being mortal — a format that involves getting older, not younger; less potent, not more so; an assign- ment that leads inexorably to physical extention, sooner or later. The immature male tries to blindfold himself aspect of mortality by having an affair. or making a new mar- riage that gives him the tem- porary illusion, the respite feel- ing, of being a new creature. Often he succeeds in kidding himself, at least for a while, that his accustomed wife is some- how at fault for his waning vir- ility, when in fact there is noth- ing anyone can do to prevent his gradual decline on this score. In th e event he married young, taking as wife a girl his own age. so that they ha ve grown older apace, then in look- ing at her he sees himself, too, in the mirror of‘ time. And if he isn't mature in spirit. and ap- propriately philosophic about ‘-‘the way of all flesh," the sight may seem intolerable to him. MARY HAWORTH Husband Tells Spouse To Overlook His Mistress end he may turn from her in an effort to escape his mortality. euro as man is born (and lives to grow up). he is schedul- ed to pass through the wringer of a great decision that separ- ates the men from the boys. The decision is, as age creeps up. whether to go forward valiantly to the sunset. meanwhile keep- ing one's house in order? Or whether to panic and c h a n g e partners. in a doomed effort to try to be young again — which is the theme of “The Revolt of the Middle Aged Men." My advice is: read the books cited above; th e n make up your mind where you stand in respect to your husband's at- tempted flight from reality. The question is: do you choose drift? Or to draw the line? M.H. Mary Haworth counsels through her column. not by or personal interview. Write her in care of The Guardian. 5 E to dent, Mrs. UCW Group Holds Meeting In Campbellton ALBERTON -- Campbcllton United Church Women met last week at the home of Mrs. Glen- don McKendrick for their or- ganization meeting. A very fine worship period. conducted by Mrs. Lloyd Brad- shaw assisted by Mrs. Harry MacKay, had for its theme,- “Wisdom." The purpose and function of the new organiza- tion were explained by Mrs. Fred Leard, president of Alber- ton group. Mrs. A.G. Green, press secre- tary for the presbyterial, pre- sided during the election of of- ficers and ‘afiterwards led in discussion regarding the selec- tion of material for workshop. HIWAIIPORT mier Abdel Karim lessens new Baghdad international air- port as part of a program marking the fourth anniversary of him to power. I]. BENNE'l'l' CARR Insurance Counselling _ Dist. Supr. Sun Life of Canada Phone {-8817 — 4-5435 Charlottetown. P.E.l. FAMOUS FOB BRANDED INSPECTED bible study and mission study.. 4-. aacnnan. Iraq «A1-i—rro-I -I placed a foundation stone for e"" the revolution that brought- Officers chosen were: pre Lloyd Bradshaw; vice-president, Mrs. Reid; secretary, Mrs. Harry Macxay; treasurer. Mrs. Chen. ter Reid, conveners of com- mittees: program. Mrs. Vance MacKay (assisted by Mrs. Brockley Pt. WI Holds Meeting The members of the Brackley Point _Women's Institute met re- cently at the home of Mrs. Har- vey Jenkins with nine members answering roll call. The school committee report- ed on the school picnic and there bert Shaw); ship and visiting, Mrs. Thomas Hardy) stewardship and recruit- ing, rs. Harry Thompson: manse. Mrs. Robert Shaw. Plans were made to hold the inaugural service on a Sunday evening early in September. At the close of the meeting a social hour we; enjoyed and refreshments were served by the hostess and her assistants. was no report from the s I c k committee. It was decided to lhold the next meeting at the summer cottage of Mrs. W-alter MacM'illen and to serve hot dogs instead of the usual lunch. Mrs. Ernest Walker and Mrs. Walter MacMillan reported on the Women's Institute provincial convention held in Charlottetown. The meeting was adjourned and a "co t bean" cont was held. Lunch was served by th e hostess and members of the com- mittee in charge. est pilots escaped with THREE PLANES CRASH HUSUM, West Germany (AP) Three West German reconnais- sance jet fighters, from Husum air base, crashed within minutes of each other Thurs- day. Two American F-84 thun- derfiashes — touched wings as they took off and crashed. The A few minutes later another plane of the same type crashed EUROPA GRANT BRUSSELS (AP)—'l‘he coun-5 cil of ministers of the European J Common Market has decided to | grant financial aid land and Dahomey. two Afr nation recently plagued floods. Somaliland will get ican by $210,000. 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Mrs. Harry Dunsford donated a travelling apron to be sent around: and it was decided to gather woolens and other cloth- ing to be sent. to Korea. "I think" Granddaughter on the couch with a book yaw smiles "it allows for only short rests. if any. But I'll surely sleep sweet tonight!" Until tomorrow — — Diary — Good-nlght..... HERMAN'S DAIRY BAR Open to a.m. - 11:30 p.In. on the Airport Road next to end, where they catch a ride thither with Mr. an s then — the "Old Kirk's" earlier years. It was one of his forbears. gift- ed _as is Mr. A. himself with voice and earn ear for music who struck the initial note on tlh e ces psalms on the proper tone Sometime when we attend service, we confess, of the far past, and th e worshippers of then. How good it would be. we fancy. to see in the flesh those whom James bare recalls from memory. or from legend handed down from his parents, of those who were a part of the congregation that once worshipped‘ there. so the children go. Grand- daughter walking primly. pre- pared to meet her lessons of class wondering. girl-like. whetherornotailghteror a darker dress would have been becoming And should serhlne have warn that pair of shoes. instead oi the less modish pair she had cho- sen. Hank's lessen 8 would be ' Lorne ,1 DeSable ucw Holds. Meeting The Desable UCW group met recently at the home of Mrs. Ferguson in Hampton, with the president Miss Ch - lotte MacKay in the chair. The mee pened with‘ short worship service and roll call was answered by 11 mem- aflgyd Phone 894 Real Estate Consultant 269 Queen Street Roper‘e SOIVISO IIICIOI. a MEDIGAI. PIIAIIMAGY here ANY to serve you hour of the day or night. CALL 4-6623 for 24 hour service MEIIIIBAL PIIIIIIMIGT Cones of Powaal and Richmond IL. 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