Men And Women's World Says Petite Diplomat orrawa (CP)-As - diplomat. .-nr. Teresa Flouret doesn't be- lieve that it's either a man's world or a woman's world. '”'It's a men and womenis world.'.ays the Petite. VIVICIW-I brunette who is third secretary at the Argentine Embass, here. Dr. Flouret proves her point by her own example. She holds a dPC' torste in political science. has studied international law at uni- verslties in Paris and Madrid and before coming to Canada-more than a year ago she represented her country in Spain and at the United Nations. she speaks five languages to round out her diplomatic qualifi- cations. EAGER SHOPPER She also converses with femi- nine enthusias about shopping for clothes in different countries. Her own phiiosphy about Women in a reputedly man's world hinges on her belief that women can suc- ceed as long as they don't look for special privileges and do the work required of their position. This month she leaves Ottawa to take up a new posting with the Argentine delegation to the UN at New York. She will take may some 1!- terestlng memories. A native of a city near Buenos Aires, she dreaded the thought of wearing snow boots during I Canadian winter. and conse- quently ruined numerous pairs of shoes. Their friends suggested that rather than hating the snow she should learn to enjoy iteby 19811!- ing to ski. 800N CONVEIITED So after a day as a diplomat. Dr. Flouret donned ski equipment and took to nearby ski trails. By April she was "looking and hop- ing for snow even more this spring." Her parents, who often visited in Ottawa e ”probably because I'm their only daughter”-have also collected some interesting memories. Dr. Fiouret says her father liked Canadian winters. and de- veloped an attachment for hit par- ade tunes. "He insisted on taking large stacks of popular recorded music back to Argentina with him." said his diplomat daughter with s chuckle. MRS. GORDON MACMILLAN A COUNTRY GARDEN When with a serious musing I be- hold , - The grateful and obsequious mari- ,. gold - How duly, every morning she dis- . lays p Her open breast. when Titan - spreads his rays: I I How she observes him in his daily wal Itill bending towards him her '. small slender stalk: How when he down declines, she droops and moves ledward, as, Twere with tears. . till he returns And how she veils her flowers when , he is gone. As if she scorned to be looked upon i By an inferior eye. -Wither ' Marigolds are blooming in the garden and making gay color in gold land paler yellow. They are so" satisfactory for cutting and now come in many. many varieties from seed sown where you need the flowers. Anyone can have a lovely garden with little work or outsay with Marigolds alone and they have been favorite flowers for many years as the poets write about them Open afresh your ground of starry folds, Ye ardent inarigolds' Dry up the moisture from your golden lids. for great Apolia bids that in these days your 'pralses should be sung on many harps. which he has lately strung. his was written by Keats, and hakespeare describes the mari- gold in these words. "The mari- golli that goes to bed with the sun, and with him rises weeping. These flowers are good for cutting and how with so many different sizes to'choose from -we can make love- ly nuangements. All annuals do -better the more they are cut and it is fun to see more varieties open- ing each day. Corn flowers Mignon- ette fragrant and lovely. also Nasturaiums and Zinnias large and small. The first Glad. is show- ing color and it is an interesting and happy time in the garden. Fragrant Sweet Peas in pastel col- cars and I always order the most fragrant varieties listed as it does not matter whether they have five or six flowers to the stem, but the delicious fragrance must be there. " I saw some lovely purple pet- unias with crimson getaniums in wlndowboxes last week when I visited a small city garden with beautiful roses and shrubs. Agor- Itum. Nitzeiln. and Bro wallia the lovely blue annual making several ., DAILY PATTERN l varieties of blue flowers grown in this artistic garden where every flower must have quality to grow there. Color and form is so very important in good gardening. At the entrance. two hybrid Phiidelphus were used as accent shrubs and the rose colored stone walk was bordered with that good rose, Condessa tie Sastago fragrant with good foliage and very color- ful. These roses were beautifully grown and vigorous. Without bending. it was possible, to get the lovely fragrance as you walked along to see more roses. Seven bushes of Floradora one of the gayest floribunda roses planted in a row where every passcrby could enjoy the pretty sight. As a carpet to edge the rosy stones of the walk, Stachys lanata (lambs ears) and grey dusty mil- ler used for the very best effect. The Fuschia is grown in several varieties and in beautifully shap- ed plants by changing the position where they grow and the light which they receive. You may be sure that when you see a plant well-grown. it has received care for every moment of its life and every rose in this garden was car- ed for as it should be. The garden- er told me that she loved the single rose White Wings, but there were no blooms to see as they had bloomed but of course will come again and another time I may be there to see. In a shady part of tlils small garden were beautiful pansics in many lovely colors and then we came to the roses where the color was bright and the fragrance from Lady Sylvia and Donald Prior and other good roses made us glad that we were able to visit rose gardens on a summe morning. In Hybrid Teas the dark Noct- urne was noted but I prefer a light- er colored rose. Two children of the wonderful Peace rose showed all the qualities of this parent good foliage and strong stems, Mcrsdeys Sunset, and Masquer- ade. Charlotte Armstrong. San Fernado Sulters Gold. Volcano, Gulllot, Hector Deane, Show Girl- and Eclipse. The Flortbunda roses were out- standing and Alain, Frensham, Alain and Mrs. Finch were a few of these lovely roses noted with the very tall Kirsten Poulsen used to cover a seven foot fence with beauty. In the home the roses were love- ly placed on low tables in small bowls and were selected for their color and form. and beautiful fus- chias on small brackets made a lovely plant which trailed down- ward where the flowers could be enjoyed in the best way. It is always an inspiration to see lovely gardens and homes and I hope to tell you of more of them in the future. It was John Burroughs. the well known naturalist and writer. who wrote: "Blessed is the man who has some congenial work, some occupation in which he can put his heart, and which affords a com- plete outlet to all the forces there are in him". Enlarging upon this beatiiude, he observed that there is a condition that has a greater bearing upon the happiness of life than any other. Some might say it is health, or money. or friends. or home. or this or that possession But beyond. all these there is an Ill-llnttortant thing. so common so near at hand. that many are miss- ing its secret. What is the best thing for a stream? It is to keep moving. If it stops. it stagnatea. So the best mind for I person is that which keeps the currents going - The physical. the moral, and the in- tellectual currents. Hence the sec- ''9' 0' hlltllincss is something to do: some congenial work. Happi- nou comes most to persons who seek her least. It is not an object to be sought; it is a state to be induced. It must follow and not load. It must overtake you, and not you overtake It. Like so many others who lived the busy life. Burroughs felt in his mature years the need to share his philosophy Wm! 01310". to pass on his secret of happiness. MORNING SMILE Our biggest mistake in our pm-. I159 0f hlititfnus is not knowing HOUSEHOLD HINT Iainwlll&UI&'frdtataha -rs added if desired. Drop by teaspoon M a nasal nun shut. CST. RONALD PETTITE wish to announce the engagement to Constable Ronald C..Pettite. son ANNA J. PIIOSPER Mr. and Mrs. William Prosper, l of Itlr. and Mrs. Claude Pettite of i Niitette Manitoba. Wedding to take , place 3rd of September. 58 at St. of thcir daughter Anna .1, Prosper James Parish, Georgetown. P, 'E. I. KENNETH W. ARSENA ULT Mr. aitd Mrs. Laurier Pcters of Summersiiic announce the engage- ment of their eldcr daughter I-Tances Mary to Kenneth W. .... ..-.l FRANCES MARY PETERS Arscnault of Summcrside. Mar- riage to take place in St. Paul's Church, Summerside, on Septemb- ber 3. L . MAYNARD SCHURMAN The engagement is announced of Miss Jo-Anne Marilyn Bray. daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Orville Russel Bray, flloncton. N. B. to Maynard Freeman Schurman. son J0-ANNE MARILYN BRAY lof Mr. and Mrs. Ilarold B. Scliur- 'man, Summerside, P. E. 1. Mar- riage to take place in Wesley Mem orial Church. Moncton, New Brunswick on August 25th 1956. LET'S EAT Mary Koclilcy has hcen waiting on table since 1918 at the famous Trcadway Inn on the Williams College Campus. Alumni returning for gradua- lions and "home-coming week" are often surprised when Mary addressed them by name many years after their graduation. They all claim she ”hasn't changed." As always. there is her ready smile and the personal pride she takes in serving the food. Recently at a Lions Club lunch- eon. Mary was surprised. For the members turned the tables and served lunchcnn to her. Just what Mary ordered I don't know. But it's my guess she chose for dessert the maple nut cake. a Trcndway specialty. (or which the Williams Inn is famous. All mcasitrcments are level rc- cipoa proportioned to serve 4 to 6. Maple Nut Cake made with butternuts or walnuts: Let I c. butter stand at room temperature until softened. Gradually add i c. sugar. stirring until smooth and creamy. Separate 4 eggs. Beat the yolks until light, working in 1 additional cup sugar. Combine with the but- COOK'S CORNER 1 cup ortentng 84 cup brown sugar Maple Nut Cake Favored Al Williams College By his Bailey Allen ter mixture. Sift together 8 o. already-sifted enriched flour. '2 tsp. salt and 2 tsp. baking powder. Add to the first mixture alternately with I c. milk. Add IV: tsp. pure vanilla or lemon extract. Beat the egg whites until stiff and dry; fold in. Then fold in I c. coarse - chopped butternut meats or black walnut meals (or use English walnut or pecan nut- meats). Transfer to an oiled 9" round pan if to serve in a loaf or bake in a 7" by H" pan. if to be cut in squares Bake 35-40 min. in a moderate oven. 350 degrees F. Cool on a cake rack. Cover with maple frosting. Maple Frosting: Melt 3 tbsp. butter in a saucepan. Add I c. not - lumpy light brown sugar. Cook and stir until the sugar is melted. dark and bubbling. Add 1 c. crushed maple sugar. Bring again to a rapid boil. when both sugars are com- pletely melted, add 4 tbsp. light cream. Stir and cool. Then stir in about 1 c. sifted confcctioner's sugar or enough to make the frosting thick enough to spread, This is an old-fashioned recipe and is at its best with dark hard maple sugar. Tomorrow's Dinner: Tossed let- ' ...-cucumber salad; broiled min- nte steaks: French fried porljtoeg creamed spinach; maple nut cake with maple icing; hot or iced cof- fee or tea or milk. Trick of the Chef: Top broiled "minute steaks with squares of butter dusted with min- cad chives. Words Of The Wise The great NEH! today is that there are too many people look. ing for someuo else to do some- thing for them. The solution of most of our ttiblea is to be found 1 ass 46 tsp. cream of tartar it tap. soda - i I-4 cups flour or chopped nuts may be in everyone doing something for himself.-ll-tally Fordt BIRD .t TII BAND SUDBUBY. In. CI W0 Igna Caroline Mcburi. Women's Editor. Phone Mrs. J.R. Hall and Mrs. Jim- I'. Duffy motored to Providence, Bhode Island. to visit their broth- er and sister-in-law, Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Maclfearney. Mr. and Mrs. Jack Duffy with their son Jimmy left Sunday on a ten days visit with relatives in Haverville, Mass. Mr. and Mrs. J. Laylfm -l0n5'5- Pownpl, entertained recently at a dinner party at the Queen Hot- el in honor of Mr. and Mrs. Nath- aniel MacKinnon, Mrs. Della M. Ruddell and Mr. and Mrs. Arden Richards. Mr. and Mrs. Edison Smith, Pownal, have as their guest Mr. Wilfred Edwards, Midland, On- tario. Mr. and Eilrs. (leorgc Walker. 3. Thomas. Ontario. are visitors to the Island. Mrs. Walker is the daughter of Mr. W.E. Smith, Pow- nal. Mr. Walker is formerly of Charlottetown. Mrs. Delia M. Ruddeil and Miss Eliza Jardine of Regina, were re- cent visitos to the Island. They were the guests of Mr. and Mrs. Nathaniel MacKinnon. Alexandra. They left for their home in the West Thursday. En route they are visiting Mrs. Ruddell's daughter, Mrs. McCoy in Toronto. Mrs. Weldon Dignatt and chil- dren are leaving shortly for Lon- don, Ontario. Mrs. H.T. Holman has as hcr guest her sister, Mrs. James Prich- ard of Montreal, Que. Mr. and Mrs. Claude Waugh and daughter Beverley of Ottawa. Ont., are visiting Mrs. Waugh's parents, Mr. and Mrs. Horatio ssicihurman, Green St., Summer- e. The hostesses at the Summer- side Golf and country Club on Saturday were: Mrs. Clifford Ram- say, Mrs. Jack Balcom, Mrs. Ken Llnkletter. Mrs. Ken Agnew, Mrs. Donald Gordon and Miss Eliza- beth Johnson. Mr. and Mrs. William MacGreg- or of Nogaies, Arizona. who ar- rived by motor two weeks ago, have been house guests of Mr. and Mrs. Major Moase, St. Elean- or's and Mrs. Lorne Read. Sum- merside. They left on Monday, having spent an enjoyable holi- day on P.E. Island. They will vis- it Moncton and then go on to Maine, where Mr. MacGregor will visit his siter, Mrs. Etta Perry. Mr. MacGregor is the son of the late William and Arlotta Head of Summerside. They spent a pleas- ant time renewing old acquain- tances and were guests at the Mur- ray-Moase wedding on Saturday. Mr. MacGregor is a great uncle of Mr. Moase. Mr. Robert Baker and Miss Erma Baker entertained them at a lawn party, where they met the near relatives of the Clark family. One and all wished them a safe return to Arizona. Miss Bessie Seaman, VON, Que- bec. arrived by car for a visit with her sisters. Misses Nellie and Lily Seaman, Balmoral Apts. Mr. and Mrs. Ernest Porter of Brookline, Mass, are spending an enjoyable holiday at Stanhope Beach. They have received a warm welcome from their many friends. Mr. and Mrs. Keith Jelly. Ber- lln. NH. and daughter. Vaughan, Elaine. and Katherine Lee. have returned to their home. They spent a pleasant ” with their par- ents, Mr. and Mrs. C.B. Jelly at. Boltay Kotage, Chelton. Mr. and Mrs. Edward Field. kverette. Mass., spent a pleas- ant holiday at Sbavert's Shore, North Bedeque. They were accom- panied by Mr. Field's father, his aunt. Miss Field. and Mrs. Mar. ion Woodward. al of Leverette. Mrs. E. Field is a niece of Mrs. C.B. Jelly. Summerside. Prior to her marriage Miss Fern Bell was widely entertained in Halifax. Miss Boll had been employed as a chemist with the national Research Establishment. Min Bell was the guest of honor llitsliandsl Wives! Sat Pep, Vim; Feel Younger Ihlundr of couple: are wuk, q. killed lliazcsu-e body lacks Con wan-out. ltnn. For new ftp: :2; by om” Ian: vitamin It. -ngquigur cm, Illa. nu wi . , hm. 3W Wly. 1:7 all drdgjna. ,.t.. . ..- hp 8, The Guardian Tuesday, Aug, 14, 1956 HAPPENINGS at a linen shower given lg Mrs. James Hendry and Mrs. James Oakley. Miss Warna Penny gave a china shower for Miss Bell and the staff where she worked presented her with an electric frying pan and chrome electric clock. Miss Betty McMurdo and Mrs. Shirley Simpson entertained for Miss Bell at the farmer's home in Summerside at a miscellaneous shower The engineering section of the National Research where he is employed entertained in honor of Mr. Donald Ross Smith at a stag party prior to his marriage with Miss Ferne Bell. Mr. Smith was presented on this occasion with a silver service. Mr. and Mrs. Percy Black and Miss Amy Black of Amherst. Nova Scotia. spent the weekend in this province. They were registered at the Charlottetown Hotel, Mrs. James Stevenson and Mrs. Birkwall of Saint John. are having a pleasant holiday at Mr. and Mrs. J. W. Patterson's, Hunter Riv er. Captain and Mrs. E. H. Camer- on. Montreal. are here on a short visit. They are registered at the Charlottetown Hotel. Mrs. Leonard Park. Montreal, and her two children Michael and Penny are holidaying at Caven- dish. Mrs. Park was the former Miss Leah White, R. N., of Hunter River. Mr. Park arrived by plane Saturday. Mrs. William Brown and son Warren of Toronto are spending the summe with Mrs. Brownls mother, Mrs. Vernon Rodd. Mrs. Vernon Rodd has had her son Mr. Allison Rodd of. Three MARY ttawoiujt-i , . "Mixed-Up" Man I Ol,55 Leaves For ' Younger Woman Dear Diary Haworth: I an a man 55. and. the older I get, the more mixed-up I am. I would commit suicide if I weren't a cow- ard. ! can't discuss my situation nearby city. Twelve years ago I met Lola. then 3, a fellow worker in a de- fense plant. whose husband was overseas at the time. Lois would tell me her troubles and wrgot N . .. . AI. . I he came so interested in her that I thought I had troubles too. I told her my wife had grown cold: it was all I could say of my wife, who had been such a good help- imate . . . Maybe it was an act, but Lois was so sweet and innocent; all I could see was her sweet face. One night she invited me to her apartment where we could talk: and soon we were having an al- uir My conscience botheredme, and I tried to break off. but :Loia ouldn't and maybe I was too weak HEART HUNGRY Finsly I confessed things to my wife, thinking she would help me out. as she had in all previous difficulties. I shall never forget the hurt look that crossed her fade, as if she might faint. I re- aolved then and there to be man ough to break with Lois myself -and went and told Lola so. But a week later, Lois informed me 3119 was pregnant. At this, my wife said if I would deed her the property she had worked so hard to amass for us, she would bow out of my life quietly, to avoid scandal for our son's sake. This she did. I married Lois and we have four childrcn: and I am chief baby sit- ter while'she runs around. She says if I don't like it I can take the kids and leave: but there is no place to go. and I have to work so hard. to raise the kids nnd keep Lois flying high. that I am a nervous wreck. Should I put the children in an orphanage and pay their board. before I do some- Rivers, Quebec, visiting her. Mr- Rodd leaves soon for Jamaica and other Islands of the West Indies where he will be located in busi- ness. Mrs. Dorothy Goldie and son Gordon are on a trip to Western Canada and the Western United States. .EtLEN's DIARY ,. Chores Build Charader Wlththe 5:? .EE is: E”E:E iii tgrrtt sit-i tits? agri- Eggggzh 8.2. E EH2 thing desperate? Alllcanthink oflamyfirst wife, who. was so good and under- standing. At my age, what I would give. to be sitting in the living room with her! She has made so much of her life and seems con- tent (and I threw it away). D.L. A WILLING VI(.'l'lM Dear D.L.: You were rather young. at 43. to be provins the proverb that "There is no fool like an old fool"-in toslns your head (and wrecking lives) over a pretty 1.0;, But I gather you were. as much sinned against. an alumni. in the involvement with L018- She roped you in. with wires- alve artifice; but you were I Will- ing victim, after she snared your Interest. Your first wife; YOIIl' "good and understandlns wife. had been your strength, your compass and anchor. until then. When finally she broke off with you, she probably hadn't the will (the hope and trust) to try to re- pair your mistakes any longer. As for what to do now. I advise you to discuss your demoralized home life with a staff counselor at the Family and Children's Ser- vice Association that covers your county. This agency has offices in the city through which you write; and you may find the address in the telephone directory. EXPERT HELP INDICATED The agency exists to provide ex- pert guidance and help to families swamped by problems of child- care. In your case. the agency might help you decide what to do about Lois and the children-and also help you carry out the plans you decide upon. At this time. you need the emo- tional relief of pouring your heart out to a wise dlspassionate list- ener. who doesn't "pass ind!- ment" on human frailties. while trying to assist in rebuilding broken lives. And you are most likely to find such a listener in a first class social agency. where psychologists and psychlatrlcally trained personnel are on the lob. MJI. . . .....- ....;..m. .-.-.a . .. 'i ggiiiiiiti "specialists In language tell us that "Chore" has become colloq- uial, relegated to rural com. rnunitlea" Mary Elen Chase re- ernbers in.f.ellng of her yodng years. "But fifty years ago 11.. word was in reputable, indeed in. dispensable use among all lamilie. of average means both rural and urban. Just as reputable and in- dispensable were the chores them. selves. those little. odd. misceil. aneous pieces of business which must be performed if the wheels of family life were to turn free- ly. In ours. as in all other families which we knew. chores were part of the accepted routine of the day. They were allotted to each or us according to his several abilities, and remonstrsnces were not ant- icipated . .- Now the essence of chores lay in their co-operative character." "In some rare cases it may have happened that children wero overworked, that they were made to feel a responsibility incompat- ible with their years. But at all events. selfishness did not flourish under such a system. In gratitude to the gods who gave me such a goodly heritage. I can only return thanks for the chores that were required of me and for their in- estlmable by-products." So too thankful for our same heritage. and with Granddaughter enjoying a taste of like fare, the farmwives liquidated this even- ing's chores, as it happens at the present. the lightest of all the year. "Now who's to milk 'the house- oow' with the crumpled horn? "we laughed. when all else had been attended to in plggery and about. A kitten mowed. a pair of pal- vea lowed . . . and down on the millpond a shadow of Ivening crept. though the fields above were still bright with the pale gold of the afterltght. So lovely it was- the end of a perfect autumn day. A perfect haying-day too with as it turned out "a nice lot saved' to the new barn at Rob's. BUTLER - ROSSITER WEDDING AT MCRELI. The marriage of Teresa Ernes- tine, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. CHARGE Al U.S. IPIES been prescribed for Henderson. BERLIN (AP)-The East Ger- man press Thursday announced conviction of six Germans on charges of spying for the United states. The group. including two women, was reported to have re- ceived prison sentences ranging from 2 to SIA years. They were accused of trying to gather infor- mation on fuel dumps In the prov- ince of Mecklenburg. .MAKI YOUR OWN PRIZE PICKIES NWAVI Ill! J. Ernest Bossiter. Morell and John Joseph. son of the late Mr. and Mrs. T. Andrew Butler. Char- lottetown, took place on Wednes- day, July 25th. 1956, at the Little Flower Church. Morell at I o'- clock. Pictured above following recep- tion at the Queen Hotel, Charlotte- fnwn. Left to right. Leo F. Ros- dter, Wilfred Butler ushers. Refrigeration lepahs To All Makes APPLIANCES ELLIS I SERVICE "("033 lluhrltng and Repairs Pslnsr Electric Frank Butler best-man: groom and bride; Imelda Rosstter, maid of honor: Joan Steele and Mary llacfnnls. brides maid. Photo by Craswell. PLYWOOD? WE HAVE WHAT YOU NEED -. wt tNliI HI til ER NC o lit flit not or mu slttttt 0 IV IIIIIII Til! CHILDREN'S SOIMI. GLITIIES YIUISEi.f. A