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      Opening
      the
      lines
      of
     
     
      communication
     
    
   
   
    
     
       
     
    
   
   
    
     
       
     
    
   
   
    
     
       
     
    
   
   
    
     
      istorically,
      male
      and
      female
      roles
      ap-
     
     
      peared
      to
      be
      carved
      in
      stone,
      but
      as
      we
     
     
      approach
      the
      end
      of
      the
      20th
      century
      we
     
     
      ‘te
      confronting
      a
      great
      deal
      of
      confusion.
      What
     
     
      do
      women
      expect
      from
      men?
      What
      do
      men
     
     
      oo
      from
      women?
      In
      a
      recent
      Psychology
     
     
      ‘Oday
      article,
      Harry
      Stein
      suggested
      that,
     
     
      men
      and
      women
      are
      probably
      destined
      to
     
     
      remain
      unknown
      to
      one
      another...but
      if
      we
     
     
      oe
      look
      for
      sameness,
      why
      not
      focus
      on
     
     
      hat
      we
      really
      have
      in
      common:
      that
      we're
     
     
      -
      'mperfect,
      vulnerable,
      confused...and
     
     
      aught
      up
      in
      how
      [others
      expect
      us]
      to
      feel
     
     
      tw
      and
      think
      and
      behave.’’
     
     
      ©,
      as
      human
      beings,
      male
      or
      female,
      ever
     
     
      and
      What
      We
      really
      are,
      we
      must
      first
      address
     
     
      Confusion
      over
      others’
      expectations
      of
      us.
     
    
   
   
    
     
      °Pe
      to
      be
      accepted
      and
      liked
      (or
      loved)
      for
      who
      _
     
    
   
   
    
     
       
     
    
   
   
    
     
      _
      CONFUSED?
     
    
   
   
    
     
      This
      is
      the
      opportunity
      for
      you
      to
      begin
      to
     
    
   
   
    
     
      identify
      some
      of
      the
      confusion
      surrounding
     
    
   
   
    
     
      contemporary
      male/female
      relationships.
     
    

    
     
      _
      We
      want
      to
      know!
      If
      you
      could
      ask
      a
     
     
      member
      of
      the
      opposite
      sex
      any
      question
      you
     
     
      have
      regarding
      their
      expectations
      of
      you,
      what
     
     
      would
      you
      ask?
      Don’t
      just
      think
      about
      this,
     
     
      write
      your
      questions
      down
      and
      drop
      them
      in
      one
     
     
      of
      our
      collection
      boxes
      (details
      below).
     
    

    
     
      We
      will
      not
      promise
      any
      answers
      to
      your
     
     
      questions.
      Frankly,
      because
      the
      answers
      are
      as
     
     
      individual
      as
      each
      of
      you
      who
      would
      provide
      a
     
     
      question.
      However,
      this
      exercise
      is
      not
      without
     
     
      purpose
      or
      benefit
      to
      you.
      Our
      goals
      in
      provid-
     
     
      ing
      you
      with
      this
      opportunity
      are
      three-fold.
     
    

    
     
      1)
      By
      collecting
      and
      publishing
      your
     
     
      questions
      in
      complete
      confidence,
      we
     
     
      hope
      to
      provide
      you
      and
      many
      others
     
    
   
   
    
     
       
     
    
   
   
    
     
      with
      the
      comfort
      of
      knowing
      that
      your
     
     
      confusions
      regarding
      the
      expectations
     
     
      of
      the
      other
      sex
      are
      shared
      by
      others.
     
    
   
   
    
     
      2)
      By
      addressing
      our
      first
      objective
      we
     
     
      hope
      to
      provide
      you
      with
      the
      knowledge
     
     
      that
      it
      is
      safe
      to
      ask
      your
      mate,
      or
      friend
     
     
      of
      the
      other
      sex
      all
      of
      these
      questions
     
     
      which
      you
      have
      previously
      struggled
     
     
      with.
     
    

    
     
      3)
      Questions
      obtained
      might
      provide
     
     
      the
      basis
      for
      communication
      of
      ideas
      in
     
    
   
   
    
     
      Psychology
      432A,
      Men’s
      Experience.
     
    
   
   
    
     
      Ideally,
      this
      exercise
      will
      put
      you
      in
      a
     
    
   
   
    
     
       
     
    
   
   
    
     
      continued
      on
      next
      page...
     
     
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