aoe ra MR. AND MRS. E. J. SIMPSO : ND ATTENDANTS bid and biue and black Double Ring Ceremony nites Young Couple he mariage took place re- skirt, with white -and beige ac- ly at Kirk of St. James|cessories and white carnations. arch, Charlottetown, of Bar- a Gladys Shirley, tric Simpson of Bay Miss Jean Skiffington, cousin of youngest/the bride, was bridesmaid who ghter of Mr. and Mrs. George| wore a blue ballerina length dress| tier wedding cake topped by a} DS Glaszow Read. and Robert} made on princess lines’ with a miniature bride and groom. The iah, youngest son of Mrs./ full skirt View.| white accessories and a cascade, by Mr: Joe MacKenzie, brother- she chose black and y. T. H. B. Somers officiated) of pink carnations. the double ring ceremony. Simpson, cousin “t| sent a visitor in Charlottetown. to-mateh. The groom's mother wore a navy blue dress with accessories to match. A recption for fifty guests was held at the Queen Hotel. The bride’s table was centered with Christmas flowers and a three ltoast to the bride was proposed in-law of the groom, too which the | groom capably responded. Alvin Mallett, , Womon ena. Caroline McLure, Women's Editor, Phone 8508 The Guardian, Charlotictown, Tues, Feb. 24, 19595 HAPPENINGS. — a a Mr. Harry Collins, freighytret-, fic manager of the Atlantic re- gion of the Canadian National Railways at Moncton is at pre- Mr. Collins accompanied D. V. Gonder who is vice-president and ‘general manager of the Atlantic region of the C. N. .R. Friends and relatives of Mrs. Gordon C. Warren, 255 North Riv- er Road,,will ebe pleased to learn that she is progressing ra- pidly after undergoing an opera- tion on Friday. Mrs. Warren ex pects to be hospitalized for about two more weeks. Mrs. J. K. Irvine, Charlotte town, entertained at a supper bridge at her home on Monday evening, when 4 tables were in play. A dainty lunch was served by the hostess. Mrs. George Dunning was plea- santly surprised on Tuesday eve- ning at the home of Mr. and Mrs. North Granville, with a purse of money in recog- nition for her services as organ- ist of the Church. An address was read by Mrs. Percy Howatt and the presentation was made) by Mr. Alvin Mallett, Mrs. Dun-} ning thanked her friends for their kindness, following the event the Fireside Group held their regular meeting. Mr. Bevefely bride chose a blue velvet of the ar . acted as best-| Mrs. Edwin Bell sister of the SS made on princess lines. with) man . j}groom, was in charge of the pe quarter length sleeves, full! The bride's mother were a light guest book - ° “Which will you have, apple é ’ LLEN S$ DIARY pie. . .cherry. . .lemon-pineap- , iple? And with or without ice- b d cream?” WI Members And Hus an S A bountiful meal indeed. And Cherish The Work They Did ere, Ellen,”” James said Ih a relieved sich a few mo- ts azo. disengagins at the pr the hand he has managed to Tish all down the years, “I've ded vou home!” e had walked up from lane’s where Reb and daughter- had set us down from ir machine. along what we sidered to be the best of wa!k- , though not without a few ardous spets.of ise to re- t. . .The old dog, Blackie. hsing our homing after_the eve- g@s absence. had come us on the winter-road-of- to) d and now bounded happily, when we opened the door the kitchen. "We'll not leave home again May-Day,”" James offered h a chuckle He uniaces his Sunday shoes , in the old armchair, mind, | see .the it turns out, still on the farm-) “Ellen.” he says, “vou puld have come to the stable ih me. K would have done ur heart good to see how well the stock is at the .. .’s, wre sleek and shinging.” lal engagements as such, no appeal to him though he &@ great one to find enjoyable ntals to the lke in ittems farms and farming-ittle of human interest so arming and good.+ A nice evening,” he comments | tling down to a bit of read-| .”" I enjoved it,”’ he said. Was a nice evening. And the; with walnuts bruary night mild and beautl-| their layers of goodness, each so the Institute News. which took us in a pair to a attractive and ring in that community in| what of the query one of the th “the other farm” keeps.! smart . cr i we joined a at a supper which close of another vear’'s endeavour in a W.I. tsat has done zood work since intep- tion and according to its ‘Home and Country” ideal. It has given valuable assistance to schoo! and community enterprises, and aid- company marked Its ed many a charitable cause as we!’ The gathering was held in a snug and most hospitable farm- home. a __—iperfect setting, we thought, for the affair. While much can be said in favor of the conveniences ‘a roomy banquet room or hall like, there is nothing better in the way of true hospitality tian to kettle steam, and scent the aroma of the steeping tea, or bubbling coffee in a homey kitchen and rooms about. Come with us and see the spread tables, so nicely appoint- ed! Look over the cooks’ shoul- ders, into the pantry with its plates and platters of delectable foods. Or seated. after of turkey meat. and cate ping of Island ham. Would you try, a clover-leaf roll or maybe a ‘plain’ -one. as light as a Spring snowflake? Or’a bis- cuit maybe. mixed with countrs- cream, or #ne of the breads? And a salad or two or three of the vWariety offered? A make your own selection of the pickles and relishes there. And what of | altogether an evening which will be long and pleasantly remem- bered when the W. I. members- j;and husbands look back to the various miilestones they have hon- ored along its way “Ho hum!" James yawns now putting by his reading.. “I think, Ellen,” he says rising “I'll go along and warm the bed.” Until tomorrow — Diary night. . good- CENTRAL ROYALTY W. I. f Cent- Institute meeting Women's Community Hall The regular | ral Royalty was held in t on Feb. Iith. dent. Mrs. Clifton | with son, followed by Rol! Call Minutes of previous monthly and executive meetings were read and approved. The treasurer re- port followed. The various com- mittee convenors then gave their | : Favourable reports were | reports | given of a cake sale held and Grace banquet catered to recently. Cor-| tress, — was said. savor the choice white|espondence was read and dis-| forted in the arms of a v the delj.| cussed and thank you cards were| understanding sympathetic older acknowledged i | It was agreed that the Music Festival Membership be paid. An Institute Pin was presented to our past president Mrs. John Mc- |Aleer in appreciation of her deep Interest in Institute work. It was moved’and seconded that we pur- chase oranges for all the patients at Beach Grove to be given them/ |the sweets, the cakes bursting! on the day of visitation. Three the. squares, with toethsome? And company of waitresses pleasant put to James and others in turn? ' More members ‘subscribed to The president then welcomed the members of West Royalty Wo- men’s Institute and then pre- sented the guest speaker Miss Theresa MacLeod, supervisor of Women's Institutes to all mem- bers. Miss MacLeod gave a very interesting and enlightening talk on the aims of the Institute stressing the motto ‘For Home and Country.” This was followed by a programme supervised by Mrs. Fred Osborne which was very much enjoyed by all. The President of West Royalty Institute, Mrs. Reg. Coffin then extended a vote of thanks to the Central Royalty Members for the invitation extended to them to attend our meeting. A deli- cious lunch was then served by the committee in charge and a very enjoyable evening came to an end. CORNWALL W.M.S. Mrs. Neil Salmond was hostess The regular meeting of the St | Peter's Junior A. Y. P. A. Lot 11, lwas held at the home of Miss | Janette and Clara Banks on Feb- lruary 14, 1959. The meeting MARY HAWORTH opened with prayer by the presi- dent, followed. by scripture, read by Janette Banks, Psaim thirty- four was read responsively. 12 members were présent. Baking committee for . the next meet- ing is Jene Palmer and Carmen Millar. The meeting closed with pray- er by the president. A delicious lunch was served by the hostess. The place of the fext meeting was undecided. Monday evening, Feb. %h.. a most enjovable evening Was spent at the home of Mr. and their regular January meeting. This meeting was held at the home of Mr. and Mrs. E.J. Smith | on January 6th. ; The W.I. meeting was carried out in the usual manner with & brief business period, followed by the program of the month, “Health,"" Mrs. Robert Brown, Health Convener, and only nurse. of the group spoke on the Cana-' an interesting article directed te women from_a medical journ- al. The Provincial convener’s letter was aise read and discus-| The men and women then) joined forces and after a lively | discussion, decided propane heat- ers would be most suitable for their/ hail and a committee of three men was appointed to ar- range for the installing of same as soon as possible. The ladies agreed to take charge of lunch arrangements for a series of card parties te be held on Saturday nights at the hall. A delicious junch was, serv- ed by the hostess, assisted by Mrs. Horatio MacWilliams, Spring field and friends gathered to tender a miscellaneous shower in honor of Rev. and Mrs. Lewis ° Rector, who were recently married. The living room was tastefully de corated for the occasion. While the wedding march was being | sionary Monthly w. played the newly weds took their) president Y eee aoe gaily decorated seats of honor The couple received many lov- | Ruth 1:18. ely and useful gifts while the ac- | Mrs. were read! companying verses gifts were presented by Miss Claretta MacWilliams and ar- ranged on the table by Mrs. Hor- afio MacWilliams. Lewis on behalf of himself and his bride thanked al! for their fovely gifts and good wishes all joined in singing “For They Are Jolly Good Fellows,”’ after which a dainty lunch was served by the hostess, assisted by sev- eral of ihe ladies. The remainder of the evening was spent in soc- ial chat. Matron Is Haunted By | | Dear Mary Haworth: I have aget the message | | very good husband, %, and two fine boys, ages 1 and 3. Ours is |a very happy marriage, I think; 1959. The Presi-| but ever since I can remember | heart's Stewart pre-| I have had crushes on older men | reminder of that season of life may afford for tne | sided and the meeting opened! whom I could idolize as a father) when your dad curtly ordered the Creed repeated \in uni-|—the man next door; friends of | you to turn off the tears my parents; certain teachers; | the pastor; the doctor i In school days I realized my} crushes were different from the) other girls. Whereas they imag-| ined themselves in love with the} older man, and day dreamed of| being married to him. I always) saw myself in some sort of dis-| crying, and being com-! ery kind, | | man | Right now our family doctor is | the man in my day dreams. { | Recently one of our children was very ill, and when the doctor itold me how serious it. was, I cried. I was in his office and he was very gentile and considerate; and while I was truly upset about ithe baby, I nevertheless really |enjoyed the attention and sym- |pathy the doctor gave me, But that one instance didn't satisfy. I keep wanting more. | LOVE-STARVED No doubt the problem stems from childhood, because my father wouldn't show me affec- tion—though I am sure he laved! me (and still does, and proves his | devotion in many ways). I don't j believe he ever kissed me; or) | took me in his arms or said he | |loved me; and once when I was) | erying he snapped: ‘“Now cut out) | that crying.”” There after I hid in the bathroom te cry. Or wept into my pillow at night. My mother wasn’t one to sympathize | Day Dreams Of Older Men your fantasies of being comforted in the loving arms of a sympathetic fatherly man ‘who lets you cry to your content), are a fixated EMOTIONAL SHOCK Once while tearful with self-pity over some childish grief, and desperately hungry for warm par-| ental interest in your distress, you were hurt almost unbearably by his impatience—by the slap of | his unkind words. You went into a shock state psychologically Shut. out by “both parents (as you felt), your only source of comfort, in the crisis, was t “imagine” what love would be like—the sort of love you needed just then. Thus the day dreams began—burnt into the matrix of your unconscious mind by vivid ideal father whose tender care would hea] the wounds to your spirit inflicted by your dad and ignored by your mother Also, beginning back then you lost contact with the natura! im- pulse to disclose your real sen- timents to another. You withdrew into yourself—an involuntary pro- tective reaction te emotional in- jury, that tends to reinforce con- solatory day dreaming. And so your childdife neurosis took root, EILEEN’S BEAUTY SALON (Oppesite Eaton's) Open daily, also Tuesday and Thursday nights. With or witheut appointment. either. I have never told my husband jor anyowe about these day ‘dreams, and had hoped I would outgrow them, but I haven't. Can you offer suggestions on how to cope? K.S. DISENTANGLE PAST DEAR K.S.: in the act of writ-| ing the foregoing letter, you have | begun already to cope effectively. In getting the story off your chest and down om paper, something Phene 7141 162 Kent St. J i West, when neighbours. childish longing for a eubstitute| Mrs. H.P. Smith. Meeting ad- journed. . | N. GRANVILLE W. M. 8. ‘ | The N. Granville W. M. S. met | at the home of Mrs. Herbie Ward | for their regular meeting... The} | service as outlined in the Mis- Mrs. Horace Toper. Scripture lesson was taken from 1417 and read -by Walter Parsons questions and discussions. Minutes of last meeting were jread, approved, and signed. | Roll call was answered by seven | Members and one visitor. Sick committee reported 24 cards, 2 letters sent 5 home calls and 6) | hospital calls made during month. Plans were made for the World Day of Prayer service to be held at the home of Mrs. George | Dunning with an invitation te be. ; Sent to S. Granville Presbyterian | iW. M. S. Bills were presented | | and on motion ordered paid. Study lesson on “Mexico” was led by | the president assisted by the members Next meeting-\s to be at the |home of Mrs. Percy Howatt with | Mrs. Walter Parsons as Worship | leader. Roll call to be answered with a verse of scripture begin- ning with the letter “A.” Prayer | for adopted missionary to be giv- jen by Mrs. George Dunning j Meeting closed with prayer for ' Missionary by Mrs. Herbie Ward, | followed by repeating the Mizpah benediction in unison. Lunch was served by the hostess ‘ and hangs on in fixation-form. | OVERCOME FEAR | Such is the problem—a_ com- pound of childhood shock, emo- tiona! withdrawal and non-con- fidingness. The cure consists in resolutely working vourself out of , your emotional shell, go that you may feel real feelings on the adult plane—and ‘“‘dig’’ real life, \instead of feeding oh child-fanta- sies. To accomplish this, you ought to have a few sessions of | psychiatric help. M.H. 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