THE (‘l-IARLOTTETOWN GUARDIAN NovEMBEk 15' 1943 ‘it PAGE rwo Dorothy Di; Says- NOTHING SO DEVASTATING AS CANDOR OF .NEAR RELATIONS Grandma, Dad, Bob Hurt Us With Criticisms ' In Belief It Is All For Our Own Good A 101E111,’ Unsolved Worries Appear In WEEKLY WARIIME FOOD IlINTS hurtful‘ " Yzspn,"§ilf:'l'fs‘med'll9mjlloos$_ _ T _ llllt, when weekly cooking column It’; rcgulsrlesrun dull: lus- hokfwdluv Dreams ' ' n“; uostlons d llllflfl" Cellini will firs" ll TI" "w" ..... - -..::.'."':'.. renal-tho WIN!" m“. u‘ The \V0ma WEATHER REPORT l-Ie Dreams He's Taking A Test ‘ A strange dream for a grown-up to have. yet its surprisingly com- molt-that you're hack in school taking a test and scared stiff that you'll fail! | Sonic fear or other ls percolat- ing in your “subcoiiscious"! it may be just a natural anxiety before meeting a new boss-or, not so na- turally, it may be part of a fear pattern you realize but dimly. Perhaps a dangerous feeling of inadequacy is hampering you, you m:ly imagine that people are judg- In", your cvcry action. Whey; your dreams follow any such pattern it's advisable to find out why. Knowing why, you may solve many problems. Constantly dreaming you're late shows _ you fcar you're running your life inefficiently. Dreams of being imprisoned show you're giv- ing way to a feeling of discourage- meat. Or do you dream of falling, fly- ing, appearing nude in public’! Our BZ-isasc booklet by ll psychologist interprets these and many other common dreams; shows their rela. fin to your daily life gm] your problems. send 15¢ 1n coins for your copy of The Meaning Of Dreams to the Charlottetown Guardian Home Ser- {vice Address. Be sure w write plnirlly your name, address and the name of booklet. Name Btreot Add-Nil Provliicol I l 1 Most gently, now, the sky Leis down the general rain. Arid all that llve will lie, ivfore still tnaii they have lain, Being quieted thereby Even the angry slain, Unvcngeful, now. will lie, Being quieted thereby. -Davld Morton, in the New York Times A very affected young man who had been holding forth at great length remarked, “I simply can't bear foolsl" "How odd." chimed in Dorothy Parker. "Apparently your mother could." As the college boys clustered around a prominent New York de-‘ butante and she gushed sweet. nothings at all of them. one wall- flower turned to another and snort-‘ ed. "Small-town stuff. Everybody listening in on P0lly's party line " scans NECK-LYNE- llx Mwcsr DETAIL NEW YORK —Thc newest look- ing detail in dressy short holiday| black crepes has been a. scarf neck- line. Either self-black crepe or net and generally caught at one should- er with a flower, then draped as you like around a low neck or a, strap top. These scarf dresses look‘ very mart and have holiday 91'0- mlse. , Your attic may yield a scarf you- can wear. If it does, let the fact that lt ls an old-timer be your pride and wear it DBODORIiTNG BOTTLE Every one, at some tlrne or an- other, has htvd a perfume bottle. perhaps one with an atomizer top. that she would like very much to ‘IT DROVE WHEN I SAW MY 807' NOW / KNOW ‘IOU ueeo SUNLIGHT'S “EXTRA-SOAP/IVES’ " FOR THOSE EXTRA- DIRTY SPOTS You, too, can gel BRIGHTER WASHES O WOMEN EVERYWHERE are astonished attire safe, speedy Sunlight way l° I“ u" ma‘ “led parts brighter. Sunlight soap on grubby will You just put: a touch 05 , hems, edges. Instantly a film of soap is spread over the dirt and, no matter how you do your wash. Suflhlh‘ l "extra-soapiness"quicklylooseris thedeepestdlrt. Clothes last longer Sufllllh“ "°'h"d' rubbing way. So try Sunlight next: Wnshddy. Say goodbye to clothes that look "half-washed." Get clothes radiantly bdlht B” "V" - - - mm‘ ' . And f house-cleaning jobs try “I”: banish: dirt quickly from wood- work, tiles, windows. linoleum- DISHWASHINO IS IASTE! Grease disappears like magic. Sunlight is all pure soap, it never makes hands 1d sad mah- FOR A COM YOU CAN'T DO WITHOUT with Sunlight. And because l?‘ gyiyfifi. ”” PLETE WASHING JOB Living f? Leisure n's Realm Tho answers an IIN- g RI Trade Board. . bab needs mm evaporat- edQmlIlifylillflllymY suPPllfl‘ l! "m"! w -sell to me. How W1 1 “m” what. she needs? A, Mpka application to you!’ local Board for evaporated milk or babyfeedlrig on the form available. there and. if approved. special G coupons entitling your baby to pro- ferred treatment will be immedi- i use again. _Tlie seeming impossi- ’l.ty' of ' removing the eld odor ~ etcly. l10\\'c\'0l‘, usually d35- stl tics u “tllllhll from filling the bottle with liew and different coii—, tciiis. Herc is a solution to the problem. Risa, stvish a. few ten- spoons vinegar" around ln the etiiply bottle. ‘llieii s:and the bottle, neck down, in o. pair of suds to which a teaspoon oi soda hiis been added. nOil ilia bottle in this iiiunner lot‘ about 20 minutes, their remove. let the water evaporate, and all trace of the old perfume odor will be completely gone. I (t. WORN GLOVES Whcii the planis or uiidersides of your gloves wear out and the backs are still good. what do you do with L. ,_ . ..- . u s “Ntsfians for these shabby accessories. They t. ii.'.i U52 by ilnakliig new lunzlcrsides of than, ton.n'. or c.iitr:s .11; ACI. or \vc;leii fabric and stitching ozi the leather‘ backs oi" the seams can be ripped and the good parts sewn together to make snug leather vests. ' Wcollens in the finished state are as capricious os the l"m' which produced them. To k p woollens properly pressed and loo‘:- ing attractive, the Prices Board's Consumer Branch suggests that if they are bruhcd before being pres-t sed it will prevent dust frcm being; steamed into the fabric. Wlibn it) comes to pressing, watch the heat of your iron and press with a. damp cloth- A pieoe of absorbent cot- ton worn ln the linger tips or rubber gloves will prevent finger- nails from cutting through the rub- ber and rulng the gloves. Do father's red flanncls go for clusters and scrub clothes? They needn't if you follow the suggestion WILD E t» CLOTHE5 '-°°K s LEVER IIUDIIIR ntely issued lo y01l- I! S116 l5 91°79 than two years old, a doctors certi- ficate is needed. Q. It seems to me that I am entitled to more rent for my apart- menL than I am now receiving. Is them any way in which it can be secured? A. You should make application to the Rentals Administration on a form available at any office of the wartime l‘rices and ‘rrade Board and your application w_ill then re- ceive the full and early considera- tion of a Rentals Appraiser. llow to rollovo MONTHLY Tamale Weakness Vlliicll IIIIIIOI you CIIIIIIIY NERVOUS Lydia E. Pinkham's Vegetable Com- pound is made especially [or women to relieve periodic pain and weak, nervous, blue feelings. It has s soothing edeet on one of 1001mm‘! most important organs. Taken regu- larly-Plnkhairrs Compound helps build up resistance against such Emptorns. Thousands helped. of o. prairie mother. She wrote till-lo tlic Lflhull suits took to dye sti.'...~...dt., and \.lleil llie desired sliat. was redltutltl COL-Id be cut into .liiall .. ys WGUllnl suits, with ion"- sleevcu liullovers and shorts. As for a. pattern, an old suit may be used successfully. VITAMIN SENSE When cooked VEECJIIDIES are re- heated, most of their vitamins van- ish. Tlils has been proved by tests made on freshly cooked and re- heated vegetables. It's vitamin sense to cook only as many vege- tablcs as wlll be used at one meal. If small amounts are left over it's better to serve tliem in salads than to reheat them. NEW BLOUSES FOR. EVENING ENTICING NEW YORK- Enticing (but ex- pressive) describes some of the new evening blouses. In fact, these words might be used to describe current fashions ln general, since women are concentrating on being allur- ing, provocative, and enticing. in short, out to get their men type of dresses. Unfortunately women do not always know as much as they think they do about what parti- cular type does get the man. This is because men do not always see eye to eye about what women should _wear. Men like clothes that make women nretty, which is one reason why they like well-tailored suits and shirts. oitsivmvlowucn-s rcownn ovum . DESIGN NO. III Grandmother's flower is“? ot- tractive design for c, pa work to’ men's’ t?" '1" ran . o. eon- tslns who», instructions. T ord tte :Wf1tc. IQBG m3. sift-Twit? vom- matte and addreu with 15 cents in coin or amps to Needlework Char ottetown Guardian. Desltnllo. N! NAME—--__---_- SIINIIGIII STREET ADDREBU - - — — - orrr---snovrltu---l ._____i__ ‘Ihmfsnot-lrlnfielsotathoworldoooomplotslydonstu tho osndorofsnesrro tionlOiu-enemles Malawian ‘ ’ us of our faults and weaknesses, but their star-um"; an .5 lng compared to the criticisms of the member of our own families who know al of our vulnerable spots and when every shot will hit the bull's eye. Any g of vanity or even self-confidence that can survive hearing, rial y and hourly what one's nearest kin think of one‘ smrltal and physical equlpgignt. 1-3:: in lt the seeds of immortality that Itlsrftthstf‘ dma d0 dMom find P0P and Bob arid sally g sadl:tg%oud‘ell3ht in _ they are, they to . More than that, they W h“ mruelty mlglnse wlghtfouslrlress, ‘and 811. W‘ B CY 5 l0 assure us that thelyrearc doing llmfor OUIQOWTII LOVED ONES IGNORE AMENITIES This leaves unexplained one of the innumerable. mysteries of life and thflt» la. wliy people who love each other are less careful of each othei-‘s foellflt.» than they are of those of a chance acquaintance: and. why peo- Dle ivho. through the force of circumstances, are compelled to llve to- gether for a. number of years, drop all of the arrienltlcs that civilization has devised to soft-pat.’ human intercourse. It ls onl‘ in family life. only to our Own peopl that w d not. try to sell ourselves. We listen with feigned interest awhile a. bur: repeats a. joke that is his conversational stock in trade, but lust let mother and fatlier and sister and brother try it and we stop them with screams of it Dali. "FQH ’ k ltthtl ' it anhuvragd Sgrélgf 55 e. 9 5 0d Bl! Nit! W6 Ve 1188-111 YOU tell None ofusfel lied totll th fat, or that their? of; hatdulgblk 11kg aocag moldleflxllriwgt ‘hillfil’ gtltilill ‘tjléeivmislkoltngurmgifltiérlsaut vive do not ihesitaée to DII-Ililalllg; threl Little tgink . -s s an our cous with there unpalatable home truths.“ an our Mm 5 y D cum em SON ASKED CONSIDERATION GIVEN FRIEND Once at a dinner party I saw hlld t; f t. b had snlllec‘ water on the cloth. alicleelingerhimxsclrerl? tdllggrgcleihbetliacusfitll: fellow climbed down from his chair in tears. and as he did so he turned W m“ "Ki-h" B"?! $81111 “Why didn't you say to me that it made no dif- ference as you did to Mr. A. when he knocked over his wine glass the other night?" Ar-d I thoushlr-wby didn't vou? Whv don't we ltll use some cip- ilhtlloil..dfii'iiiiil"‘“lviiy' i?!“ th W"'.‘.'t°'i.‘.".°° “y” °‘ '3'“ °""°“','}’ E e I‘ 4 defects of those with whom we? llvelwo g u ne perm “any an t e Maybe your wife isn't a Glamour Girl any more. but wllv JILL? having the middle-age spread? Mavbe vom- husband’; ab] ma“. ners EZIVC much to be desired, but why ruin gverv mes} by criticizing s e e a a . a m but whv bemoan in her presence hbr lack yofebesllity? an ‘my due ns' Perhaps they don't. realize it. but the staple of conversation in the average family is criticism. I have heard hundreds of wives sev that they would fall dead with surprise if their husbands ever paid them a commitment. and what. the a ignore his shortcomings and loud make headlines in the newspapers. convulsions. LITANY 0F FAULTS ALL CHILDREN HEAR. While as for the children. about S twit her pedal his charms and virtues would He would probably have perished ll th lit . home is the litany of their faul UQIIOIITIIOTVIXISOISO altitude’ grerbbriliel: 3 careless Jimmy is so awkward. Mary is all feet and legs and arms Maud ls coy-crazy. Ethel has telephonitis. And so on and so on. ‘ Vlhen arents nag their children about their faults, they do it in the famous be let that it ls the way to correct them. but lt isn't. Crltlclsmis only effett ls to give the youngsters an inferiority complex and to drive them swan from home. The wcrld is full of failures who might have been successes if they hadn't had their faith in themselves klllgd 1n their childhood, and of lonely old people who don't realize that their sons and daughters left them to go to llve among strangers who would not i681 free to tell them of their faults. Vlrliat we forget is that our families are our publics. as they say 1n the iriovlcs. and we are more sensitive to their opinion to that of any- one else. We crave more their applause. If we remembered lt, w! would br=_klrid_er_ to our own. l Inning S l-IIGII PRAISE? A gentleman lately dismissed a clever but dishonest gardener. llbr the sake of his wife and family he gave him a character, snd this ls how he worded it: "I hereby certify that Mr. Pinch- um has been nty gardener for over three yenrs, and during that time he has got more out of my garden than any man I ever employed" FAVORITE WHITE SCONE I cups once-sifted flour 1-4 cup granulated sugar : geaspoons baking powder - r 53 5 tablespoo shortening (or but- ter) “ml-b cup currents or seedless rais- l egg‘ Milk (about 1-2 cup). Measure the flour and sift with sugar, baking powder and salt. Cut 1n shortening (or butter) finely, using two knives or a pastry blender. Add the currents or raisins. milk; add gradually to dry mix- ture, mixing it ln lightly. Use just enough liquid to make a dough. which, though soft, is not sticky. Krlead for 10 seconds on a. lightly floured canvas or baking board. mill to l-z-inch thickness. Using an inverted bowl as pattern, cut out 1n rounds about 5 inches across. Place on s. greased pan and score in quarters. Brush lop with any es: and milk which has been left ever. 4 teaspoons baking powder- l-2 teaspoon salt 1-3 cup brown sugar Hill ‘m m...“ espoons sho 1-2 cup chopped dates, if avail- able (or raisins or currents). 1 cs8 Milk (about 1-2 cup). The method here differs only slightly from that of the white scone. Measure the flour and sift with the baking powder and salt. Mix in the sugar and bran. then complete exactly u for favorite white scone. HINTS 0N ITIUITII 11am is more freedom in social ussse now than la pesos time, but l girl should still act like s llfly and s m-sn like s. gentleman, and not let down the bars to do any- Iabeinshtovemlldegree, lbout 18 minuges. a BIAN SOON! 1 1-! cups once-sifted flour hlusblc hints every Monday!‘ trims-w- Full of Vitamin C, Cabbage has come info Its own I" u favourite food First a word to the wise about cooking cabba e as a green vege- table. 1t will have better texture, colour and flavour (and more vita- mins) if you cook it quickly in boil- in water (seven minutes shredded, s Fm]: longer in sections). But don't be content only to serve it like that . . . or as cole slaw thou h cole slaw is nutritionally vslua Ie. But there are so many other good ways of enjoying cabbage. For instance: CABBAGE ROLLS Io Sorvl 4 l5 lb. ground beef 2 (bSpS. chopped B large cabbsgc onion leaves 2 tbsps. fsr l cup cooked rice 1 cup cooked (or brcsd tomstoes crumbs) V4 cup sliced onion 1 egg, slightly l6 bay lcsf eaten Salt and pepper li cup milk to tsstc Psrboil csbba e leaves 5 minutes. Combine bee , rice, egg, milk-ses- soning and 2 tbsps. onion. Place s Mrs-r is material o war For The TAILORED JTIIDWEBQESS IN THIS That's do Right. For Wtl-k 0r Play A nice deep V-neckline to show your blouse off and perfection of fit to show your figures off in this Ample jumper. Whether your 1gb is college, career or s cause will find this Jumper will meet all requirements and do s full-time 10b for you. Try it in a light-weight. wool, or one of the wool mixtures. Style No. 8484 is designed for sis- Pattern States standard Measurements and includes chart with step by step in- structlons. Bend twenty cents for pattern. Write your name, address and style number. Be sure to sats lino you wish. .. _._.€_.__i_____ Nuns 0R1 Province Describes Russia's thing that smacks of licence. Six Ways to make your Coffee O0 Further THESE days-Jr's doubly Im- ponsat to buy coffee for flavor; 1a Chase at Ssnbom Cola, you get the choice coffees of the world; Compare l: for flavor-ounce for ounce, spoonful for spoonful. Buy Chase k Smbora Cola-quality colon goes further.- CHASE 8. SANBORN COFFEE Secret Weapon ht said th Sovet Russia co altllsgty of sll races and ns ion- " at." be told! a lsr tlherln in ‘Toronto's Metropolllgnn United (lhuroh "ls why people of 100 dif- ferent ages are able to fight u one rnsn in this war." Ho was sddresstn delegstss to the of sansdlui-Bovlet- frtendsh p. which opened here to- day, he said one thing Canada should remember is that "all maj- or powers are north of Canada and the United States" so that in air ale‘, which probably wtlklnbe after war, ‘the most portant frontier is the north RATIONB SMALL Bees eat their weight in food ever month. ._..___i.______ FEW COULD WRITE uill pens wEIfTrst um in the IIRI anus-y. l Cabbage is for spoonful of meat mixture in each‘ leaf and fold to cover meat; fasten with roothpicks. Brown in far in large pun. Add tomatoes, slicer)‘ onion and bay leaf; cover s simmer 45 minutes. SPICY CABBAGE AND SAUSAGE CASSEROLE to sorvs l5 lb. saussge 1 tsp. vinegar l tsp. paprika 2 cups shredded raw cabbage 6 soda cracker: (crumbled) ml 4. 1 cupcsnnedtonilf toes, or gravy. Crumble sausages and panfry. in vinegar, paprika and cnckef crumbs. Place layer of cabbsge in casserole, then layer of sausage mixture. Repeat. Add tomatoes 01 stock. Bake, covered, in moderate‘ oven (350°) about 30 minutes. I ‘There sre still left s few copies of Martha Logan's fsmous hand- book ofmest cookery: “Meat Complete." Send 10¢ for yourco y no Swift Canadian . Limited, Dept. MH-II Monctcn. Home ‘ 5.11s; PIMP m mat um rm u: :11‘ t." illletiiztrsitl. ..:.~:i zlllcsl Inlfedientl. 500th SWIFT CANADIAN CO. LIMITED‘; s Dominion-wide organization devoted to the COIISCIVIIIOI‘. and efiicient distribution of Canada's food resources __l Needlecraft s