Woman's Realm/Social Murphy-McNeil! Wedding ooieomr 01x SA rs- e-t-e Good Husband Traits 2 Grand Passions Only Transltory-Siihstsntlal Stiltors Are Better Material ' 13mg, M155 191x; A young man, who la iust the sort of person ' I have always planned to marry has asked ma to be his wife. He is l honest, tolerant. extremely intelligent, comes of an excellent family. has a good Job and a wide range of interests which parallel mine. But the fly in the ointment is that I feel no physical attrciciion towards him. I am definitely over an infatuation I once had for a boy, btit I remember" quite well what an in- tense emotion I felt and how vivid and excitinfl everjriliizig seemed. I know that this excitement. in iwcit i5 not love aitd that it probably fades. to a xit extent. in all marriages. but I hate to tii tik of forezoing it. altogether when I do get ma:- rze-i. It is not at all that I feel repelled by this ' man who wishes to marry me, nor unable to r0- ttrrn his kisses. It is Just that the grand passion is lacking. I think that lllhi is ll'l1'l‘l‘l.ll f i- him slice he is rt very l't‘1\llSllC and uiiromantic sort oi per» n, bit itzzes no". quite measure up to my idea of love. What do you thztik about it? M. L. J. ANSWER: One dream to a lifetime. I doubt extremely if any- one. is ever \v.‘.(il_v iniciiv frantically in love but once. The gratid pas- sion docsnt l'tl)('.l'l 2'. i‘ Olil once do we see Heaven in a mans or tvontauis curs lit ain't Jure it bark ag.t.n. SEITYRITY MORE IMPORTANT The orzv of rontiritic love does not last. it melts away into just a memory wicr tile stress of eieryday living. You can't go on thrill- ing and pziipn Mn: at the sotttid of a steip that you hear coming and gong ("anti .i.\.!_v. Sn .i' ytnt are waiting to marry uiilil you find some man who is as excflinz. a loter as your first boy friend was, you are desftried to be an old Iildld. In picleng out a llthbfiild Just remember that you are no longer l6. I You are a mature woman and you want different things in a hus-' barid from what you did in your bobby-soxcr days. You wouldn't marry‘ a man becatvo he was a eood dancer. or had a rule line or because hi‘ was ct-ori lookinz. Nor would you want one who was always puttinz on an art to keep you amused. or jealous. or wrought up in some way. wlm. jcoti tiould be loaizine fer in lite mart you expected to spend the balance of your life with tvotild be the qualities that make marriage a safe bet. temptation "on W p.573." The Stars Say - By (iENEYlEVE KEMBLE and tneaits for overcoming obstruc- tions. Persistent endeavors, logical training. may prove enduring as- sets. and reap solid rewards. ’ Those twwliose birltliday it is are urged to Sllikf‘ an attitude based . 1<"ur'l‘huisda_y,0etnbei' l6 upon sound techniques. sttfficienl SAGACIOUS moves. based on training. and stisiairicd by patience. sound and studmd brainwork. are {clear insight. and determined effort likely to give fresh opportunity for ‘to win against all obstacles and im- mending broken fences or slreugtlt- pediments. In the long run. efforts enlng sagging projects, held up by and thctterht invested in lung-term wrong ideas or tactics that had accomplishment will have far- proverl not practical. ‘There may In reaching returns. Cairn and consoli-l other delays or obstacles, best man- dated endeavors could succeed aged by serious study or a patient against. stubborn odds. Safeguard effort and drtenwiination to dis- ‘vitality also. t cover new and more workabic ways A chi-id born on this day may . t that llltlhltlfl passes we have no power to con- fife GUARDIAN. c / o itattnorfrajgwn W} The above ‘picture was taken at the lVIurphy- McNeili wedding Mr. Elmer Murphy and his bride. the former Mary Pearl Mc1\eill. nearer the camera is the bridesmaid, Miss l\fai't.'.irel McNeiil. On ll in Summerslde recently. It shows cutting the wedding cake. Seated 1e bride's left is the best man. Mr. T. Earl Hickey and the groom's mother, Mrs. Josephine Murphy. ' the towel is dry. 'i‘his will kill both l How Can l ! .' “LIT . 15am By Anne Ashley § wiekaa-lsaQ-r.» _¢_<-ir é or e Q. liow can I make a good a starch? A. Ry iaulltrig titres» tablespoons. WHAT l5 (i001)? of whcztl starch in L-cup cod‘ Wm . ltatoi‘: put this l-n one quart of boil- --wt.31, .5 {N} good?- aglilllh “f?! Si“ krill ‘Tomugl-‘f- i asked in musing mood. .rai't- asoono a‘ m ‘o the sia inioolh. and then strain Order. said the law court; Knowledge. said the s-shool; Truth, said the wise an; Q. How can I trcal a rug that Fieasura ham the fouym “heady m“ ma)“ i" H? "Loxe said the inaidei'i' A. Try covering with a wet low-{Beakitv said the my“ . M‘ mm applying a hot H0“ “um l Fzcedoni. said the drlamer; Home, said the slice: Fame. said the soldier; Equity, said the serrp- through cheesecloth and use while hot. the moths and the onus. 'I‘hcn , sprinkle with salt- evory week be- fore sweeping. Q. i-iow can I clean steel? A. A good way to clean steel is to rub it with a paste made of rm- y cry powder- and nil. mixed to the proper consistency. Spoke mv heart full sadly. “The answer is not here" ‘Then “ltlllli ntgr hosnm isottl,» this l heard: i ‘Each heart holds the so Qrt; have a stubborn, persistent andiKinelne-ss is the word." studious make-up. fitting it to over- i come handicaps and limitations in life. -~J(7lil'l Boyle O'Reili_~:. iiivingfi. Leisure ’T|';E'\’V0h1AN'§ REALM! _ t Hints on Etiquette Small whole pickles may he eiten \\il.i1 the. ftiigcrs;.--mi.\cd phkles are usually eaten with a fork. Have the griddle hot and ready tihen your hungry morning shift comes in for breakfast. it will] be Just right for baking if a few props of WEltEl‘ sprinkled on dance about ~ too hot if the drops g0 LAD iii a hiss of steam - too cool ii’ the) just float. 'I‘o remove arid stauis from tlothiiig sprinkle bahiiij soda on each side of the stain, moisten it iviih uatar, flllll lrl. stand for ieveral lllllllllCf». When the bubbl- ttg atlion stops rinse the thisrotigiilv. i itisteacl of throwing away soggy pietcs of Frciirli toast or “allies. cut iitio small squares and brown undwr the broiler until crisp. Then serve as croutons. To shell green 50y beans. pour boiling water over them. lcl steep fit-e minutes then pour of! the vtater. You will find they shell much easier. Peach-colored plate glass for use in ,home mirrors has been deve- loped by scientists to reflect back a rosy glow into the interiors of - rooms. MENACEaalifMlLDEw Damp clothing and linens al- lowed to remain in a closed clOtht-‘S hamper or laundry bag invites damage from mildew. Mold spores, always in the air, will thrive in the warm dampness of the ham- pers and the resulting fungus growth can impair the usefulness of the gtmncnts. Fresh white blotters are good drainers for jewelry alter scrub- bing it up or dip-cleaning it. lmflidb-iricifirifl‘ /‘\aes l) z l. SPICY CITIQNBERBY SAUCE od¢fimnfinmnwotg - "ILIVBRIMWII test-mica "Tumors THRILL in skin that's fra- grantly smooth and soft," says lovely Barbara‘ Stanwyck. "You'll love the delicate. clinging perfume a beauty bath leaves on your akin. It’s foolish to take chmoes-daintinesa is the moat important charm of all. ‘Lux Soup's Active lather makes you sun-swiftly carries away dust and dirt. leaves skin fresh and sweet.” You'll love the luxury of using this fine ' white beauty soap n l daily bath soap, I00- Yolfll lgree-Lux Girls an dalntierl ,..... .... t.....r.=t...s...._m_.s_-ien@a_@/ Lu: Soap Yuutlarfllwbenhwflepon"? haunt". ‘lbmbappenllnakhllnbbaptgqpuggg dalulahzTdlst lllldh’, 2 cups Wlstei‘ ' 1 1 inch stick cinnamon Vi teaspoon whole cloves Juice ‘.1 lemon 4 cups fresh cranberries 2 cups sugar Combine water, spices and lemon juice and bring to boil. Add cran- berriea. cook until all il-ie skins pop open. Add sugar and blend. Cook rapidly for 2-3 minutes. Cool before serving. Makes 1 quart. name nisn man Pin’ 4 cups thinly sliced pears '6 cup sugar 2 tablespoons flovur ‘l; teaspoon nutmeg i4 teaspoon ginger ‘A teaspoon salt ' 2 tablespoons lemon Juice 1 tablespoon butter METHOD: pearl for this. Pare and core them. then out in thf-n slices. l-‘fll a deep pie pan with the pears. Now mix together the sugar, flour, splcu and salt and sprinkle over the fruit. Add the lemon Juice lad dot the top with butter. Hake a rich putty and roll flu dough an inch larger that the da- meter of the baking dish. Out open Inga in ilte pastry to allow steam to escape. Place the pastry over the fruit. ‘rum the odds of the pastry imderandpruam tharimoftln ppn. Flute the edge. Brush the top of the pastry with cream Ind bake In a that oven (45 deg. I.) for about 50 minutes. until the fnlt in tender and the Nstr! iiloao. ‘ ITIINIIIIOIOIIIAI Oedarlmbolilldlfrenlth Iarttalneoflyfilfaellnas spot. l Cooks Corner @ Use fully ripened hut Boilyof Yours‘ Iv Jaauamllanonltfl.‘ WOIIIII WITH‘ DISABILITIES CAN D0 GOOD WORK 1n these days when employers try to keep costs down and employees need higher wages to meet high prices, it is only natural that em- ployers clto not look favorably on omploylng men and women who have physical disabilities. For years the American Epilepsy League has been poi-nting ‘out to employers that the great majority of’ eplleptlcs are able to give good Service. and that the knowledge of their handicap causes them not only to be careful but more coit- scletitious about their work. Matty epileptics ‘were able to rbnder good mlli-ary service during World War II. In "Monthly Labor Review." I. D. Koesoris and, H. S. Hammond place the cause of the impaired ‘worker before employers and the public. Impaired workers do not want charity; they vflnt places as useful and respected members of the community. "Their success de- pends on “whether industry will ac- cept the policy of hiring thcm for what they can do well in place of rejecting them because of what they cannot do." Wihat. about impaired workers and their ability to compete with un- impaired workcrs in industry? In order to answer this question, the Bureau of Labor Statistics -- at the request of the Veterans’ Ad- ministration -- undertook to ap- praise the work perfoimancess of about 10.000 seriously impaired workers. Ten specific types of phy- sical impairment or disability were donned by a committee of physic- ians. Thcsc disabilities were re- garded as so severe that they would rats" serious difficulties for persons isceking employment. The record of their work and at- tendance, kept by the industry, was carefully examined. Each impaired worker selected for appraisal was matclhcd against two, somefmes three, unimpaired workers for about the same age, sex, and work exper- ience on the same shift and per- lformlng the same job in the same ‘department of the plant. ' It was found that as a group the ampaireei- were 2 per cent. more pro- tluctive than the. unimpaired. An- alysis also allowed that 70 pcr cent of the impuhrcd were as gcod or bel- Ler than the u-tiiizzpairrci in the cor- responding control group. The absentee Tate was the same for boil; groups 'Jlll .;roup had fcvrrr accidents. as tiny rwow careful not to get hurt again. l ii__.____-_ I t EITTLEAANIMALS l the iimpai-redi andlpersonal/Fashions/Literature f ocronim 1s. 1941 If reflects "GOOD TASTE" t0 BIITER-NUTBREAD I D€>OO€C Modern Etiquette u; Roberta I Len ___ , _ s W14T2t~r£>wo%»us \"_91wr\£-w» Q: l ismoi-e Q. Wiien making a social call and you ilnd your ihosless just ready to leave her home, wthat should you do? A. Enter her home; if the host- css insists. but do not stay longer than tcn minutes. Q. Is it considered improper tot add irpostsci-ipt to a social letter?’ A. There ls notihlng. improper about it. but it is far better to in- elude everything in the body cf the letter. Q. Should a girl light a inaifs cigarette for film? A. Ii‘ rho has just lighted her own and the match is still burnhtg. it is all right. Otherwise, hc should always ligtl-it hers. 6% “fin! Better English if) t h n. c. Williams A s ..'.@,. <p.»t-.t-~$-s-- s-ywaa/vlv-d Mi>¢~¢ §-<< l. What is wrong with this sen- tence? ‘The entertainment was voted a success.“ 2. Wihat is the correct pronunc- iation of "ticumen"? 3. Which one of these words is nusspelkrl? ‘Fcmpeizuient, judg- lmcnt. lmpcdicnent. 4. What does the word "infest." mean? 5. What is a word beginning with de that means "to lessen in price or estimated value“? ANSWERS in at unstressed. u as in cube. e as in men, accent second syllable. 3. Temperament. 4. To trouble greatly I. Say. "was pronounced a 5110-; iccss." 2. Pronounce a-ku-mzii. a as I Household u Scrapbook i By Roberta Lee ' Home-Made Paste An ideal substitute paste is made of the white of an egg, oi- 11 m, paste is only needed for a limit amount such as a postage stamp or Ian envelope. then simply Wipe out the inside of a shell of a fret-‘il; broken egg and you have a pusle that sticks like glue. Perfume Stains Perfume stains may be rumored from linen dresser scarves by ti» application of peroxide. Repel: Mice Mice object camphor. if it ii put in places frequented by tlletn, it will drive tiiiem away counplr-tcly aoéeoqnwQ-ouaoo-oosq t’ " Morning Smile y e>ooteo~3eo~t . "Willi what weapon didSanison slay the thousand Plliilistines, 'i‘ominy'!" asked the Sunday soliool teacher. "The axe of the Apostles,“ re plied the child after a long pause I’ BECAUTION A little old lady frcm tihe coun- try was registering at I big city hotel. The clerk was courteous and helpful. . "Would you prefer an inside or am outside rooon. madam?" h"e asked. “Id better have an inside room." by nuttnbers or 'by frequency of ed with rats." 5. Depreciate. presence. "The building was infest-l replied the old lady promptly, "it looks like rain." To get quick relief from a. distress- fng cough. mix this recipe in your own kitchen. Once tried. you'll say and it's so almpla and easy. First. make a aygup by stirring 2 cups granulated sugar and one cup of water a. few moments, until dissolved. Anyone can do it. No cooking needed. (Or you can use corn syrup or liquid honey. instead of sugar syrup.) Then get 21,5 ounces of Pinex from any drugglst. This is a special com- pound of proven ingredients, in con- it's your favorite cough medicine, Splendid Cough Syrup Easily Mjzgd at Home quick action on throat irritations. Put the Pine: into a 16 ounce boi- 110. Ind fill up with your syrup. Thus you make 16 ounces of very eflicleut medicine. and you got four times as much for your money. Iflastoa flue - and never lpoila. Al"! 1°!‘ Quick. satisfying relief. it is splendid. You can feel it penetrating the air pitssagoamd taking hold orthe cough. It loosens the‘ “ , soothes the irritated membranes. and enaesihe soreness Thus it makes breathing easy. and lets you get restful sleep. J "*1 "Y It. and if not pleased, your cenimtcd form. vrcil known for its Plnex ll Swift Acslnj. Saves Money. "whey will be refunded. Eallly Mixed. nnsioiy no. 5-706 These little embroidered pats have many places in a child's ward- robe or nursery. Suitable on tow- els. biibs, play suits, spread and curtains. Hot iron transfer p'at- lflfh NO- 15-766 contains 38 motifs with complete instructions. To order: Send 20 cents in coin to Needlework Bureau, Charlotte- town Guardian. Design N0. E-‘YGO . Name Address Olly l fNEédl IFOR Tl-l WILLDWS THE WAIST start the day brlllhi- in Illlfh itiuoi- skirt . . , A wide midriff sec lion that the waist hand-handy 900K!" 36 requires 4% YIN! 354mm i Print your Name. tfi essy-to-wear wraparound fashioned with the freedom of! delightfully diminishes And take note of that N0. 232a u cut in sizes 12. l4. 1B. ia, 2o. so, as. 4o. 42. 44 and 46- 51w Sand 20c for PATTERN. which ' e ‘ , sewing guide. Address and ecraft/ E " home; I Style Number plainly. Bo sure to state size you wish. Include postal unit or zone number in_ 7W!‘ l4‘ dress. - Address Pattern Department. The Qurlottetown Guard an. NIIIN Address Oily