lWomeln's reialm PAGE TWO "HIE GUARDIAN APRIL 6. 1951 x ."hat Body Of Yours? 3: Juno W. Barton. ILII. E Cook's Corner soauoran sauuox am: mum” TONSILS sssoum NOT an ac- MOVED IF CAUSING N0 1 8 oz. can salmon HMYIOMS I medium-sized potatoes. peeled and thinly sliced 1 teaspoon minced onion 4 tablespoons zoneral-purpose some physicians are of the op- flour inion that it is a mistake for Salt mothers to have a. clinical ther- Pepper mometer at hand. They are apt to ill: cups milk use it on the slightest oocasion, Flake salmon; reserve any oil that remains in can. Arrange layer of potatoes in greased baking dish. Add 1-5 of the salmon and onion. Sprinkle with 1A of flour, salt and pepper. Make another. layer .of potatoes. Add remaining salmon. onion and flour. Cover with re- maining potatoes. Pour on milk, then any oil from the canned sal- mon. Bake in moderate over 350 degrees F. for 1 hour. 4 to 5 servings. causing worry to themselves if the temperature of the child is up 1 to 2 degrees, and worry to the physician as well, who knows he must relieve the mother's mind. although a rise of temperature from a stomach upset is really a normal condition. If any ailment were present and there were a rise in temperature to fight the ail- ailment, it would then be a more serious matter. of course. tem- perature must be reduced when it reaches a dangerous height. Vs I"'”K71R'R'7?a?3Z What many of us. including -H l I ' ' mothers. forget is that Nature tries OW Can . - 0 to preventlnfection entering the ' ' ' S. 5 ' 1 body and blood in yaiious way 2 Bl Am" Ann” cs. One of these ways is by the pres- ,.ocxr;c;cgxgx,:,,,g:.,gx,-g,1rg;g:9cA,.V:Ac,g..3...enrclclof the tonsfils in the throat. w c1 act as a ilter in removing Q. How can 3 wash silk scarfsl harmful organisms before these and handkerchiefs satisfactorily? organisms get into the blood. In A. Instead of using soap to addition to the tonsils in the wash silk haridkcrchiefs, use throat proper. there are other lukewarm paper and bang, D1-ylmasses of lymphoid cells that are mam by ysrappin; in a cloth, and called tonsils or adcnoids near en- then iron them while they are trance to custachian tubes. which gun slightly damp, ' Carry air to inner side of ear and Q. How can 1 imppove the taste drum and also the linguinal ton- of cauliflower? sils over lower end of tongue. If A I-,y Bddmg 3 cup of grated these various masses of lymphoid cheese to the white sauce for l-155118 are not required to do too cauliflower. It gives a decided l.m- much work in preventing harm- pmvemem to me taste. ful organisms entering the sys- Q' How can I rid me house of tom. the individual goes along in spiders? .a healthy state until he is well A, soak pines of Conan W001 past the age of children's diseases in 0.1 of penny,-Oyayy and p1ace'I'scarlet fever. measles. whooping ihem around the haunts of spid- cousht Then the tonsils gradually us. disappear. However. when there is considcrabale infection about and these masses of lymphoid tissue (filters) are unable to keep the blood clear of organisms and many E3 of these organisms remain in the )- tonsils. ll 2! 1 l;Housel'iold Scraplioo When haiaiful organisms are 3, l” 3"b"” '3 present in the l.Ol'lSll tissue. in- - . A,QQp.,k.,0O- stead of filtering. they are act- ually pouring lnfcction into the Oven Too Hot blood, just as 9. filter on a faucet .holds harmful substances. some of Which set into the water that we drink. The lesson from the above is that tonsils were placed in the throat to filter out harmful or- ganisms from the blood and as long as they are doing their work they should be allowed to remain in the throat until the age of pub- erty (12 to 14 in girls. 1'4 to 16 in If one drops the silver that has boys). After this time or even be- been used on eggs into a. pan of fore puberty, if the individual has salt water the minute they come frequent sore throats or attacks of from the table. they are less likelyl tonsillitis. the tonsils should be re- to be discolored. moved as thev are no longer filt- ers, but actual sources cf infection. which so often results in the rheu- imatlc fever that may bring on A wdste paper basket of some h9IYlr dl5oES6- kind in each room of the house I will mean many steps saved in M' When the oven is very hot and one is afraid that the contents of the casserole will cook too quick-. ly, place a piece of waxed paper under the casserole cover. and this will lessen the speed of the cook-I ing Sliver Waste Containers week's time lhonor he has gained. However. if lhe uses the degree professionally, 'he is always "Doctor." l Q' when ” "'3" 13 M”? l" 3 l strange town and marrying a girl i . - ' ' 'h 1' r ' th t 2 1 M9de'" Ellquella El : lslhocllldnlel: :1: toabe hqigntishers-: : B: Roberta Lu 7;) A. He may hrst ask any of his Va” VVVL lawn friends if he thinks they will 4'-'E ' 05l5VS-..V.... Q. should is person who holds- V9&--Nvi . make the trip. or choose from the a. Ph.D. degree always be address-I ed as "Doctor"? bride's circle of friends. . Is it proper for a girl's es- cgrt to tell her that her slip is . H H s owing? P;1'-,”T;;e r::fi,e1y'o!if Izggfrusggr hzl A. Certainly. and only I prude social circles. unless the affair is! W0l-lld T959!” ll-'A Klfl Should 317' in some way associated with the. preciate being told. Ilsa. Alton A. Rodd, North Milton. P.E... dons pd. winning linking with l'IdnIsInInn'I Yout. Young Matron Wins Baking . Honors at Charlottetown am lone-hundred-par-cant sold band was shooting for maxim on Floischraanws Yeast. I ind prizes at Ottawa, it works fast in the dough- Mu. Alton Rodd was cooko gives well-risen bread and rolls "g,'fa- attho overytimmlilaustriodothor Fair at Charlottetown! And yeasts. butialways come back y and also Icon! Her name wu eo"l'1sischniann'sl" ' :3. 3 I 3 wk” '11 Wslustaboutuuaulmoual ;-,1 "I ,,,,,',,',',.""""'””,,,,,,,; Ioptrlllsattheyachiovothdr V ' 3.. g 5.. mg ruslta with do- ” wqdgg l'IIhchmsna'aYonIt. EI.l.Ell'S DIARY Iylnls-lInaI'as1nuflWlfo' And now are last hours of anoth- er day being ticked away by the old clock on the shelf. What has it given us - or we to it. now that we have trodden no way? And what of sunshine or shadow lay along its course? or has it been all sun- shine without even a sign of a shadow? Entrancing ones. we found. however lying in is pretty pattern along the slope which 'leads to the hilltop and as well on the pond. For there again these are to be found along the sliver of the placid surface . . . Ag zephyr of a breeze, that was like one of summer's wandered in this after- noon to touch it here and there lightly with a finger that set. small glinting wavelets to dancing be- neath the magic of its spell. O O C I other shadows not so lovely we saw, such as folks experience when they hear tidings of an illness or a passing in this season of spring- time when by rights there should be neither concern nor sorrcw at least none that could not be overcome by the anticipation of the delights of the days ahead. "When I go" a housewife com- mented recently when we men- tioned a grim reaping "in the com- ingicf the leaf. let it not be at this time of year! I should be sor- ry to be taken now . . .the summer is so lovely. In the fall it would be different - it sort of seems more natural then to come to one's rest. But I guess", she laughed merrily, lifting the sombre subject to light- er tones "before I get all my hcuse-cleaning done. and the gar- dening, and all, there'll be those times when I shouldn't mind be- ing carried off to some oblivion. spring or not!" 0 Shadows we felt too. when we To this day when we ramble alrrtg the farm with James he can paint out where "that ycung black mare" is buried, she that "would have made such a good one". or "the young mare" that no matter the passing years never grew cld in the thoughts of the man who had raised her . . ."That sow too, Ellen, don't you remember? and all of her young cries . . . and that was a hard spring too - the lit- tle pigs were a very good price . . . oh well, that goes with the farm- ing!' too: Concerns like these came to us to make us sigh. having experienc- ed the like and knowing well the dismay and inconvenience they bring. And as well we hear of trag- ic losses on farms because of fires. And then it comes to mind with a sense of shame that too often when our house has just been cleaned and put in order. we are actually indignant when James proposes: "What do you say. Ellen, if we clean those stove-pipes and fine this morning? It's really quite a spell since they got a cleaning. We shouldn't neglect the like - bet- ter to leave something else un- done." And for a moment we are ungraclous within. which gives us another matter fcr which to shrive ourself later. We have been inconvenienced too. more often than once when after being snug- ged in bod,,beside him. he inquired anxiously: "Ellen. did you close the stove-drafts?" And in SD"-8 01 our assurance that the fire wu dy- ing. we have gone down again "Just. to males cu-tain eves-ything's ship-shape. Ellen. We'll sleep the better for lcuowing it." so we con- tinue to practice every precaution we know of this direction. hav- ing added ones now with the new lights. In the piggerles and stables and barns. James takes care that no tangle of cobwebs or dust lies near the bulbs. We know that out of deference to his wishes we shall be obliged to fcrego the pleasure of the glowing bonfire that once up- on . time was I, nice part of the spring cleaning of the yards. Until tomorrow -- -- Diary Good-night. . . . . Better English By I. O. Wlulune 1. What is wrong with this sen- tence? "He divided up the money between his brothers." 2. What is the correct pronunc- iation of "salient"? 3. Which one of these words is misspelled? Embaruament, embel- lishment. em-bodima i cmbnsure. 4. What does the word "impor- tune" mean? 5. What is 3 word beginning with con that means "expressing scan or disdain"? ANBWIIS 1. say, "He divided (omit up) the money among his brothers." 2. Pronounce so-li-ent. the I as in say. accent. first syllable. 3. In- burassment. 4. To urge persist- ently; ply or press with requests. "He importuned the court to grant his wish." 8. contemptuous. Plilll-I-IIVES ix.-3. ms vos um I H KEEP Ml HELL on till mu as-suntan-ha. gutlon. Positive results from lIUl'l'-A-1'lVIl Illvu 5! one of ehounqdo. PIUIT-A-TIVIO anneal: means of fruits and sum. ' KQ&-it-MO0i-OPj'lOr-'1 phone has place as to be taken for granted in our dally llvlnz. many women have about your daily tasks, those we- heard. as folks do in the country. never learned to talk on the in- men who reserve fragrances for of some other farmstead that has strurnent. 5pec1a1 occasions are missing half suffered a loss of some animal or Technically adept at putting the fun, another, at trying incidental to the their calls through, and well- wear perfume for yourself, as farming. and perhaps more com- versed in the rules of telephone well as fcr others, you'll find mon in this season cf increase. to etiquette, they still create an un- you; spirits lifted each time a make a new grave. though fcrtun- favorable impression upon their movement wait; the fragrance to ately soon forgotten. in a field. listeners because of their voices. your nostrils. But in places memories are long. Women wlm claim they don't Daily use of perfume is one of czmmunication. they should ac- one that Costume Jewellery Atfraciively worn jewelled pinch-clutch pins help dramatize the fashion importance of chig-nous. These rhinestone butterflies an head- iurners. Improve Your Phone Voice Despite the fact that become so Perfume Accents Personality since much of the pleasure of wearing perfume lies in sniffing your own favorite scent as you go the tele- common- like to talk cn the telephone are admitting their discomfort. Their point - that the facial expressions observed in personal chats add much to any conversation -- is a valid one. Be that. as it may. if they plan to use the telephone as a medium means of marketing your own in- dividuality. It's a good idea to select a scent that you feel match- es your personality. and wear it so consistently that your family and friends always think of you whenever they smell roses, carna- ticns. cr whatever. Your tastes may not run floral scents. In that case. something more to your You're the one to be pleased. to choose liking. cept is limitaticns and set about correcting their own failings. One particularly unfortunate telephone voice is the meek. mild It's well to remember. however. makes listeners yell.in selecting your day-in, day-out "What's that." Md "L01-ldehlperfztrs that a light spicy scent or Pleaie-" N0 matter how Competent a fresh, breath-of-flowers one is 3 P915011 M the 0'-h9l' end 01 the 165 likely to grow tiresome than Wire is likely to conclude that you the more exotic fragrances. save are ineffectual and without self- the heavier cue; to Mum, your confidence. This is a handicap in sultry side in me gvenmg, both business and social relatlon- Renew your perfume 33 you do ships. your make-up. Career girls find it Equally unattractive is the tele- helpful to keep a bottle in their Ph0nE-Sholltef Who Bi-limp?! 10 desks for use each time they fresh- convey her message by vocal power en up during the day. Beauty- al0ne- Not Only 1-5 Such 8 V0lG8 un- conscious homemakers like to keep pleasant to the unfortunate car at their fragrance handy on their the other end of the line. but it al- dressing tabla for befoi-e.bx-ggk. so marks the shouter as being un- fast pick-me-ups and for quick ap. sure both of herself and of the pllcations Just before their hus- in-strument. bands reach home in the evening. Affection is also to be avoided when speaking on the telephone. Don't "put on" a special voice; it makes you appear insincere. If ycu have voice problems even when talking with people face to face. take particular care to speak your best on the telephone. Nasal- ity, whlniness. flatness and ac- cents are likely to be intensified when passed through the wires. for defeat. and keen understand- ing of basic principles for reorgan- izing and renewing on firmer foun- dations. Get a broader perspective on current failure. If It II Your Birthday Those whose birthday it is .are advised to take time out to make a basic study of the factors for defeat and failure, attendant upon crashes and disintegrations. let- down: and miscarriages of plans. It may be that "flash in the pan" ideas. or snap judgment due to emotional upsets, or queer urges rather than sound logic could be the root-source of untoward events. A child born on this day. while serious. steady and of sound pur- pose, may be prone to "fly on the the handle" when called upon to sudden. surprising. and Stubborn confront strange or unusual situ- and baffling as well. Perhaps the atlons. Panic may beget rout, con- best counsel in such predicament fusion. with impulses and emo- ia to make serious study of factors tiona overruling reason. -Needlecraft- - FOR THE HOME - sorr AND LINDIRIZING This dress is so simple that it calls for In interesting fabric - one of the new spring prints or cheers! Cape sleeves and shoulder shirring make it particularly soft. alenderlaing. (Also in the pattern. a three-quartor sleeve version.) No. 2&6 is cut in Ill! 12. M, 10. 1!, 1).”, 33, I0. 43. M. Q and (I. Size 18. IV: yards fl-inch. Send see for each PIi'f'I'l'R.N which include! ooinpleto lowing guide. Print .Yous- Name, Address and style Number plainly. Be sure 'V7'b3:fR'V'KK'F'7:'K hK'-rxiiroo-.x9o The Stars Say - - By Genevieve Ke-mblo :&L& a&?9 Q For Tomorrow THE auguries for this day show frustration. defeat, disintegration. to state also you want. Include tsl unit. or none n in your address. Address Pattorn Department. The Charlottetown Guardian. tsttos-n No. as 1- NIIIO Address ole; Province tutlllslaws-an 1! who during a lovers quarrel Simple .lluls.e Insurance For , Ilam Marriage A young couple whose wcddinl datotlallsotaalu ml if 1 "3 give them any 11110! '30! 653 l9l' low as an" to snake. their marriage . A mun: mu-rinse Isn't made by the following rules. But I be- lieve any oouplo Whn NW" mm will have a bettor chance of work- ing out a happy marrille than if they disrellrded them- One: Give religion I Pl!" 1" your home from the very start. Two: Take I realistic attitude toward money. making out a spend- ing plan. if not I strict budget, so that you can work for the things and the way of life you want. in- stead of Just living from week to week or month to month hoping for "the breaks" to make life oas- ier for you eventually. Three: Don't start going with a crowd that is 'fina.nclally out of your class. Trying to keep up with the Jcnesea can wreck 3. mar- , standards about all the things you have to have before you can af- fcrd a baby. Five: Share whatever you have and whatever you may come by on a partnership basis. In a good mar- riage it is "our money," "our house". "our car," "our friends. etc. Six: Rule out divorce as an avenue of escape - even in your minds. You'll work out your own differences and make up your quarrels if neither of you ever even secretly thinks that divorce is always a final solution to a mar- riage problem. Seven: Let both sets of parents know from the start that your marriage is a strictly private affair and that the most they can do to help you is to keep hands off. Eight: Expect your marriage to be a real adventure and see that it is. Young folks are often warned that marriage is a job to be worked at, but they also need to be reminded that it should be a glorious adventure too. 'v B E? Morning Smile - ?3(i''.x7.'xm'vx-R'iws rr1"'rm'i-36'" Another Try She: I've tried to learn to love you. but I can't. He: But I've saved fillen thou- sand dollars for us. She: Give me one more lesson. Bags To Riches A wealthy man gave a few coins to a lame beggar. By way of com- forting him. he added, "well. though you're lame. you're better off than if you were blind." I'll say!" answered the beggar. "When I was blind. people were always giving me counterfeit money." that she said. "if I said anything I'll sorry for. rat glad of it. A -Chronic Complalner lm ossible To Make This elflsls Mother Happy DEAR. DOROTHY DIX: My mother is a middle-aged woman, a widow. She ha! a small income which my brother and I augment She complains of ill-health, but we think it is just a mental condition. My husband and I both work. We have tried every Way we know to make Mother happy and comfortable without avail. she has been in rooms. has bonded with strangers. has lived with an old lady. has lived with us and we have lived with her, and she is not contented - i -- with any of the arrangement . What is my duty to her as a thankful. .appreclative daughter. and yet as I loyal, helpful wife, for my mother objects ' to my ' b d and I , " our earn- ings in a common fund? How can I balance home and husband, mother and career without losing my mind? X ' ANSWER: Evidently your mother is one of .-I .21 the qucrulous, ill-balanced, neurotic, selfish wo- men whom nobody on earth can please and who would not be satis- fied and contented under any conditions, so it is folly for you to wear yourself out in the vain attempt to make her happy. She doesn't want to be happy. She wants something to complain about. some grievance to whine over. and she gets a sadistic pleasure in making other people as wretched as she thinks she is herself. WANTS TO W3-ICE YOUR DIARIIAGE Your mother's grievance now is that her children are married and her home is broken up. and so she is trying to break up your home and dlssatisfy you with your husband and make you feel that he isn't dealing fairly with you on the money question-though the fifty- fifty joint checking an ngement ll generally considered to be an equitable way of settling the money problem between husbands and wives. Under such circumstances, when your mother is always fault- flndlng and peeking at your husband and your husband naturally resents it. it will be disastrous for you to have her as a member of your household. So the best arrangement you can make is just to make her a monthly allowance and let her live where she pleases. She will be far better off among strangers than she will be with either of you children because she will have to control herself when with others. Probably all of her lll-health is Imaginary. Why don't you have a competent physician make a thorough examination of her, so that you will know whether you have cause to be really anxious about her or are worrying unnecessarily? But you have my sincere sym- pathy. A woman who haa to act as a buffer between her husband and her mother gets some mighty hard knocks. DEAR MISS DIX: Can a plain-faced girl become as popular as a pretty one? When a girl has a date with a boy. what should she talk to him about and how should she act? Should a girl meet a boy halfway in being friendly and be the first to speak when they meet? A SCHOOLGIRL ANSWER: Certainly a plain-faced girl can be popular. Some of the most popular girls I know haven't an atom of good looks to bless ti: 'ves with. but they have other qualities that attract peo- ple to them. They are bright and interesting to talk to. They are good dancers and good at outdoor sports. No general rule can be given for a conversational line. Talk must be spontaneous and inspired by the time and place and circumstances. You won't make a mistake, though, when you talk to a boy about himself and when you get him started on his own hobbies and in- terests. Be friendly to boys. Show them that you enjoy their society. but don't gush over them. It is always good policy to keep a boy guess- ing. DEAR DOROTHY DIX: Is it fair for my husband to look at television every minute he is in the house? Television is all he cares about. He hasn't taken me out in the evening since we got the let. He never even talks anymore. Please give me some encouragement, as I am about ready to give up. MRS. S. F. S. ANSWER: Many another woman has a husband who is a tele- vision hound and wishes he would take to drink or any other vice, but no one has as yet found any method that would wean an addict from his program. The only suggestion I can make for your relief is to becomeaddicted yourself or put on your hat and go out to the movies. - lllllill atiuri A u an de.ri'gned e.rpre.r.rly for Bridal Wrmllr by DRESSES LIMITED Demure loveliness grace- fully combining wliite cliantilly lace and tulle." Send lor brochure Sl1OW-J ing 4 exciting designs in this series-also where- to-lauy in orma- lion. Write to: Bridal hVrcalla, 25 Main St. W. Hamilton. ' Designs selected and approved by Brides Boole nun out no IN! vim -lnailnaooof Bridal Wreath beauty laegins with diamonds ol perfect color. cut. brilliance and llawless quality. 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