»=~.-.-,;_..._.-.., . - .. - - .~- - _ - c_...._.a,-.__..ta..... I Livings Leisure I --The Woman 's Realm COMMON BLUNDII o fancied charms of earth and fly ‘ere distant joys and not near by; {hat slglih familiar could not be As fair as those men roamed to see. Itvtlk turn his bark 0m friends he '.".t‘\\‘ 5on1» _<':'aug.>er's friendship to pursue though; but common folk were and talked with day by l t \‘ buy-cud his WllitlOW pane l1.\_‘.<.\\')lll€(l all in vain ghr did ':i= learn until too lat; at irictlds and neighbors can be ._w___.__,-_ 5445810007 (IKE! 84071.97’! PM .9000 MADE FROM Ablominlsmllc ‘ AFRAID TO GO. "My dear. surely you haven't Event a‘! the afternoon at the niths'?" T5505. auntie. They mid such ‘nings about everyone who left at I didn't dare come away". Ganon Gaming: @ B." LLMPI BRIGHTEN OORNERQ Ybu can brighten up m; mmt hopelessl gloomy corner with a colorful Pshadc. Odd bits of fabric, preferably 10mg high-fiwf.‘ woven cotton, an suggested for the lhadcs. Oolorfully dramatic BULL details may be added to tie in with ‘ the room itself. If you use a wire Yffime» Simply Cover each wire strip villi narrow bias tape “round Ufleell‘ and" evenly over each strip Then measure ground mp and boy, win circumference to detennlng m? flmmlllt of material needed After cutting the fabric the llefdgd size. turn Yillr attention to decor. ative finishes and details. FASHION FLAS HES An inset band of solid rown the front ls a feature ofba brogg FWPPG tTh-Vel cont. The some inset bhhdths of brown is used over the shoulders and down the top; of me fileelies. WIIiCh are dolniun cut. ‘Toot loose and fancy free" 1o g New York storevvide promotion, in- {llldlhll hlfllday logs for the enltre family plus outdoor furnishings, bfihbefille and patio "flxizigs". 3W0 P1115 worn on lapel or breast Docket are o. fashion grend_ b1! round shapes. huge butterfly or bow tyT-YS- enorhwlls Bold flowers with Jevsteilecl ¢enter5_ Corduroy trench coats, loosm bulky, 30 inches in length with tie belts. are shown for campus wear. Western th ll arry for M11. on‘? vlYell-éir/wn 0d: signer. BASEMENT is meat, r01; nammoom Th! basement is the ideal place for the otvtrraphoru darkroom. The am ur Photographer will like F0 Spend his winter evenings Prlfltlng. enlarging and experi- menting with the films taken last 51111111191‘. There is more unused OM00 in basements than anywhere 2m ~"d.i:ri= .1“ tram C - t o 18 t pene en c. modern " l-fl " ctoker fires the coal direlsclly 15$“ R. concealed bln. the basement i5 free from any foul dirt. ENYWIllIl o! evergreen; 1n - tumn is s ply nature's way “df pruning these trees. says an agfl. ggltmral flfpreiment station scien- Potato flakes are to be manufac- tured in Sweden as a substituc for bread Brain. Qb '1. Social a KING (0lli TEA AND COFFEE ' DEPENDABLE ALWAYS _ AAAAAAA ‘sa_ Dorothy Dix CHILDREN WANT PARENTS TO BE FRIENDS, NOT PALS There Are Three “Sins” That Father And Mother Should Avoid If They Would Rear Offspring Into Likable And Lovable People What altitude should parents assume toward their children? You would think that is a question even a moronic father and mother could answer right off tl bat and that. anyway, nature would furnish the nec- . ~ essary information when it delivered the little bundle from heaven at their doors. But. un- fortunately. such is not the case. No tips from Oii High on how to handle them are vouchsafed little Bobby's and Susie's Mom and Pop, and they are left, alone and unaided, to muddle through a job that calls for the w;sdoin of Solu- moii,, the tact of a diplomat and the inner sight of a clairvoyant. Now there are three schools of thought on this subject. One is the LITTLE TIN-GOD pose. The second is the DOOR- MAT practice. And the third is the PAL fal- lacy. All of these have their adherents and all of these are inflicted upon luckless little children by their devoted and conscientious parents who treat. them every way except the way they want. to be treated and need to be treated. Each cult has its points and each its defects. Let us ex- _ \ é amine them. The "little tin god" attitude of ~< ‘c parents toward children is not so common now as it was in the past, but it is still popular with men and women who have inflated egos and who try to teach their children. from their infancv up, to bum incense before them. While their youngsters are still babes in the cradle. the parents climb upon self-erected pedestals from which nothing ever dislodges them. They lmpres upon the infantile mind that Father "never makes a mistake," and that Mother “always knows best." Fallacies ln Child-Rearing Also, they teach their children that thev have always been models of all the virtues and never guilty of any of the follies 0f modem Youth- Father loved to go to school. He always stood at the top of his class. He never gave his dear teacher any trouble and wild horses couldn't have drawn him to the old swimming hole on a sunshlny Spring morning When he was an adolescent lad, he volunteered to do all of the chores around the house, worked after school hours at. the corner grocery an saved his money. Mom was Mother's little helper who rushed home from school to take the baby out in the pram; who washed the dishes. and who never thought of such a thing as stepping out with a bov llhill she was 20 years old. Without doubt, ll. must be a privilege to be descended from such fault- less parents, but it makes an insurmountable barrier between them and their children. for what has poor. faltering, weak humanity got in com- mon with godlings? How is Johnny to tell Father the mess he has got himself lntowhen Father was temptation-proof when he was young? How is Mary to confide in Mother about petting parties when Mother never even kissed Father until after they were married? Certainly the little tin-god attitude of parents toward their children in soothing to their own vanity, but it isn't any help in an emergency to the olulciren ' < Doormat Practice The doormat practice is popular among parents because it follows the line of least resistance. It. simply consists in Fat-her and Mother lylnfl down and letting the children walk roughshod over them. The baby rules the house. Youngsters in their teens lay down the law to their terrorized and enslaved parents. _ Mother and Father 1gp shabby that their children may dress like Solo- mon in all his glory. ey walk s0 that. the children may go ioyridink in the car. They work themselves to death tn send their children to swanky colleges. And their children repay them with insolence and contempt. which is logical. When all is said, mat. A favorite attitude among parents is being pals to their youngsters, which is hard on the parents and boring to the younk-Sl/BTS- FVY- 51W! all, no adult can put any real pep into playing horsie and the game goes AAAA¢LAA a‘. AQAAAL AAAAA vvvvv Vvvvv v vvvvvvvwwvé #0 'l_‘_l-fE_ giianixrlfrerowy Vauanman nd Personal J. ‘ ‘fir -hewaa flat for the child when he can't. Wha watch a. group of children playing. pretending to play with them, when they are left to themselves that What Children Want them freely. able m look up to them as some one they want little Johnny Jones and Su children, Whavsyours? they are stlfl and constrained. h ts to be iae§hl<ldl>inuvrlfi§rtrtlrrl<llafifiill wmpanlonable s0 that they 08-h Wk But. they don't. want them t th l Fame’ and Mother w p“ emu V3153? and strongler than they are. bu t children want are companions o! their own use. with their own interests and their own points of view, an you can lee if you will ever As long as their parents are around It is only they whoop things up and have fun. friend; with them. They Wile: to be pals. They don't want their level. They want. to t But it Ls sle Smith for n avfellowa. a rum business for paicnts to know Just what. attitude to take toward their D0RQTH.LD.I_X-___ Look in the section your birth- day comes in and find what your outlook is. acconiini to "the stare. 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JUL! 24 to AUGUST 22 (1:0)- Oontinuity d! thought and action, even though you invoke new and occasionally extreme methods of be apprehension, it. will be > The Likes Of We l1 I. IL IamoI CHAPTER XIX NOT ALL BUSINESS The first thin Orlspln Lholllht oi u he woke n morning w‘; m‘; ing to nee Alison. Dick looked a him as he came in to breakfast. “No need to ask where you're going." he remarked drlly but Cris- in only laughed and turned to etters. , He read one and. looked up Heres an invitation for a day’: fishing. Chap called Curtis ha; gem me a complimentary ticket for a day on the Strane. Sal's. if I like it, per- u ." go, Cris in," Dick said. "I know you're keep)’, "Wish I could but there's too much to d now dad’ l ld . I id '-. takeoa whole da§'."a up w“ n “Nonsense! I'll take charge Cliowne and I will manage fine." “Think you could?" Crispln was hesitating. "You bet I can. I mean it, Cris- pin. What day's the ticket for?" "Friday next." "Then you ijolly well go. You can tell me exacty what to do and. l1 Im in any bother, I'll go to your father." “You're a brick. Dick said Crlsp'n with real gratitude. "I haven't had a day's flshln this season and I'll en- joy every m nute of it.’ ’l-le began on his bacon and sausages. Not even the prospect of his call on Alison spoilt. his healthy appetite. "I shouldn't say too much about last night" Dick remarked presently “Miss Dane doesn't scare easily but she might be nervous if she thought those two were after you." Crispin nodded. “No need to mention it. I've go dad's leave to tell her the whole story of the gold." He rose from his l‘. “ st of luck, Crlspln." said Dwk with a twinkle in his eyes. Crisoln got rather red. “This is lust a business interview,’ he protested. “Quite so." said Dick drily. "Of. you go." n D‘ m - Whcn Crispln arrived at Skardun . he was relieved to see Alison ln the garden. Relieved because this saved him from calling at the house and perhaps running into old Burt whom so far he had not met. Alison looked up 8s he came in at the gate and Grispin saw a look o. surprise cross her face. But n-ex. moment a smile of welcome lighter her brilliant eyes. She wore a short d tweed skirt, woollen stockings, ant serviceable brogues. The sleeves oi her pale blue blouse were rolled up showing her beautifully-moulded arms. Her head was bare and th. spring sunlight, dappled by the nevi green of the trees overhead. played on her fair hair, bringing out tnose ‘ golden gleams which Crispln ad mired so greatly. She was so IOVBI) that Crlspin could only gaze. “What's the matter, Crispln?" sht asked as she pulled off her loos gardening glove to shake hands. "If you don't. know ou ought w, replied Crlspln. “Just ooklng at you makes ine forget everything else." 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OCTOBER 24 to NOVEMBER Z2 (Scorpio) — Today starts a fav- orable planetarge nod of several days for . gn this day right by lnteligently managing your affairs and allocating your activ- ities and efforts so that you won't rush and slrain one time and lose ground through inertia or indecis- ion at another. NOVEMBER 23 DECEMBER. 22 (Sagittarius) — Splendid indi- cations for commercial, professional manufacturing and other occupa- tional pursuits, Profita possible in charity, patriotic and governmental project-a. DECEMBER 28 to JANUARY 21 (Capricorn) - Don't. be indulgent of whims that lead to extrava- ce or waste. Friendly period ere for ractical matters and benefits llhrough hard work. Private interests also 5901150751- JANUARY 22 to FEBRUARY 20 (Aquarius) -_- ‘today's aspects call for self-restraint and extra effort in essential duties. Much can be achieved if you make k0 lwe of your time and talents. 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