WOMEN The Guardian Thursday, January 6. 1955 ELLEN'S DIARY . by an Island Farmerle Wife What. we wondered. on awaklng bar I could and should make. so this morning. had we taken with many in fact it would bother else us from the old year into the new? Jto know which should have W90 W . . Through the dark filagree oflence. But I look out at theishnot D aiichcs or a while birch in thelnow fallinl 50 Qukuy W VF"; ”d yairi. above the summits of the ;once in the dump of the )8! Ill” eisterii hills, the sky was edgedjit comes lo mind that sooneruld u:th a mini blush of rose. Another ilater any resolution of m.ne' wo t ria-in uas breaking-one we were only meet a like fate. So Im 11;) not 5I'l quite ready to meet. Be-iccmmittmg myself to any Cilbaklllfl aiile us ill the old bell of his for- dried resolve. Im just 30132 W 3 oPai'5. James was enjoying the nap the new year wal'mll.V--and 11')! to whicli u-niilfl presrntly lead to hisido the best. I can with the da)'5 55. nsnu The house was still H5 wasi they come." ' . . ion the yard. No sound yet of run-. "Tau me your New Yea” rewlu. . V t L- iiirfglilf:lnll(3':t'Crt.)lg?lcrlfistlllyogfrglfxgild tion." C'1'3ndd3U8ht9i' ivwmkledxoaki . . . 5 1 vii up from the Christmas book ac.ci.e our Siii.i0:.l.llfi:ng5 ;hge was readmil she W” snugly. w. had brought with us only settled in a colmerhof fillet sought. ilie iiito. things-tlie plERSalli.-lllEm-:0bV.lOu5i)' enloy nildirf Qusvmc an macs of the satisfying clays ill theyalmost deserted tctegi. h made g.re and take of life of the yeari:nz3Em8gCh”dh90d P"a' 5 5 th- iilll has pm. the tasks set forgot the time. sun D0"! "P '3 ii... taken up uillingly and further-ygold lizhls 1" MT him"; or 99” cd or completed according to the.h3PS." She Wmmuedv ."' brwks no my and strr-ngth and light thatytlie SP5”. -.lU5l- "3 m9m'”f” them? HHS mirs. Experiences gained. les-poh well. she smiled. Mm g- - mus immed. these were ours to says that New Years resolutions (aka The affection and trust of are l.ke pie crust-made only to loved ones and kin. the friendships be broken." . n..uvi.. forged, or strengthenedy ”Your Grandfather made one this ihrough the months. the smilesimorning. we offered. lfiessresitglrli: and glad tears, these too we should.ed not to take the armml 0 - uish to have u':th us to make more OUSLY R115 Yeifrw . d hopeful our dawns. more glorious ”T'.i!EtS fUnnY- 31" Chuck” "' our sunsets. to help encourage oui;'turnlng to her.bo.ok.- .,- - ir' cl eo e o 3,: i,e.LJ)d;;:. mg Rn X S V Not. funny but exceedingly beauti- .......g I am ..-mmg in ya... when ml is this night, which lit stare all the time I should be meditating and B y0un3i5hthY:'l0OIlHln thxedoixlgv; deeply over makimz 3 NEW Yelrllnrched sky M 3 V” 9y ” rrsoliirlnn" s iarmiviie wrote us lnikE6DS 3” b510W 1” 3 Wxemn wmterf . . l , ii linll-serious vcin -.n a first and.vihlte D6309- sxelronie letter of the year. ”Resolu-ii lion. did I say? There are a num-l- Until tomorrow - - - - DEFY - - - Good-night. . . . . . The Gills You Make May Become Heirlooms By enmzvoa nose I it's not work becomes a, When you crochet 5-. bedspread or throw. monogram pillow slips or embroider a tablecloth. part of your personality is wrapped up in it. Primed All Gift! Such items are prized as izifl-5. and many a uoman who does beau- tiful handwfirk enjoys creating things of beauty for her children. The heirlooms of tomorrow start with your choice of materials. See that ex-erythinz in them can be washed. and washed and washed. (lnnstant. cleanliness is essential in bringing them thrnugh the gener- ations with their sparkle intact. Cottons a Good Choice You rnnli. go far wrong on the yvrnderiul cottons available in such variety. Choose prc-shrunk vat- tlyed cotlon. making sure that thread. tapes. bindings. mm. are all washable. too, before you start your work. Many cotton hanrimades go right into the washing machine with nary a thought of damage. Others are best washed carefully by hand. Generally speaking. the heavier pieces. such as crocheted or knitted bedspreads. patchwork quills. .-tiirdy Iabieccloths or pillow slips. can take machine washing. Use hot suds and rinses on white or pale rnlnred articles. Bright or dark colors. or those with more than one color. are safer in warm suds and ririses. llang Carefully Hang precious handmade items carefully for maximum shape re- tention and a minimum of wear. For larger item! like bedspreads or quilts. use two parallel lines setia font nr so apart. Hang each piece evenly. and let it sag R. little between the lines- aurprisinsi that hand- when it is about half-d.l'.v. reverse prized heirloom . it to prevent rldging. At this point. ioo. pull edges. corners and seams. gently into line so that when dry- the contour will be right. Hang smaller items like pillow slips and table covers doubleovar the line so that corners wont. be pulled out of shape With cmhesl pins. If you dryer-dry these thmtl. remove them while still ironing- iiamp. and if they require no iron- ing. complete their drying in the air. over-drying tends to weaken fibers. can of Fragile item- More fragile items. such as 0963' work or lacy cottons which have a problem of shape-retention, should be gently washed by hand. No scrubbing! Use two light sessions in fresh soapsuds, rather than one prolonged one. very fragile pieces should be pop- ped into a mesh bag or bastedto 8 sheet before washing. If the plant!!! is small and fragile, put it into I capped jar half-filled with warm soapsuds and shake it. up and down to clean. Rinse in same way and lay pieces flat to dry. No ironing is needed. actually. on knitted or crocheted bedspreads of cotton. But. if you do want to press them. cover WW1 3. Turkish towel and work from the wrong side. Place small. recctangular 1119085 lengthwise on board and iron in one direction only. For pieces with openwork or delicate inserts, place a press cloth of tlmue over fragile areas and press only with broad base of iron. For the best job. iron cottons on the right side. But avoid passing over- monograms or em.- broidery. when the piece is pres- ed. turn these areas down over a well-padded board and iron them from the wrong side. The design will stand out effectively. HALF-SIZE STYLE Easy. step-in button-front - es- pecially for the half-sizerl AND it's out to properly nt the shorter, fuller figure - no alteration wor- ' ties for you. Note the slenderizing. smooth mldriff framed by the gentle fullness beneath the bosom, new back-waistline dip. Pattern 4524: Half islzel 4'.-Ii. 16';-. 18”). 2054. 3339. MW. isiloe 16!: takes 43; yards 35-inch. This pattern easy to use, simple to sew is tested for fit. Has com- plete illustrated instructions. send, Thirty-Five Gents (One) in coins (stamps cannot be accepted) for this pattern. Print plainly Size. Name. Address, Style Number. Send order to ANN: Amine. do The Guardian. so none street. West, Toronto. .MQRNlNG . SMILE A rwiulti thAi'ul-.-siding -pioiig i up and down in front of no how?" "am worried about an win." .i”Why. :2IC'IiAII,Oj-0&7" "nice ..,V. ,i-.,, LET'S an I Is Invacled by "Today we have a big piece of news, Madame," announced the Chef. "A young lady has invaded the oyster industry! "We met her yesterday at a re- ception. )he lives in Delaware. and is a very active partner with her husband in the oyster business. She understands every phase. and this includes oyster planting. harvesting- shucking. transportation. canning and freezing. service of Oysters "The lady iii Betty Lcnman. We talked about the service of oyst.era-- on the half shell. Rockefeller. cas- ino, in pies, escalloped, fried and stewed. ”'I'hen she disappeared into a big food freezer and came out with sev- eral packages of two new oyll-er products for our taste-test kitchen -frozen breaded ready-to-fry oys- ters. and oysler stew for two. frozen in a can. "Here are the samples we shall taste-test." . Samples Enjoyed We enjoyed the breaded oysters sauteed in butter. and the frozen oyster stew. made according to dir- ections on the can. These excellent products are being nalionally distributed. and this is imporiilnl. because shellfish. like nsh and other seafoods. are All ex- cellent source of proteins. minerals and vitamins. The Chef set to work. and from the frozen oysters. created two new dishes in honor of the 'Lady of the oyster": Oyster Toast; Tarlare: Thaw and separate 2 (6 oz.) pkgs. breaded ready-to-fry frozen oysters. Dust with celery salt and monosodlum. glutamate. Slow saute in butter or margarine until light brown. To serve, arrange 2 or 3 oysters to a person on halved touted de- crusted bread, lightLv spread with sauce tartare. Garnish with celery- cole slaw. parsley or cross. and olives or tomato wedges. Serves 4 to 6. - Foricocktail service. use the bite- sized service -- one oyster to a square of toast tartare. The following dish is very good for luncheon or supper. Celeried Oysters: Cook l'i c. sliced celery 10 min. or until bite- tender. Place 2 (8 oz.) cans frozen oyster stew-for-two in boiling water to half cover. Let stand 5 min. to loosen contents. Open and transfer to a qt. sauce- pan. Bring to a slow-boil. Add cel- ery. Stir in 2!; tbs. flour and 4 drops tabasco blended with 2 tbs. mayonnaise; simmer 1 min. serve on slices of buttered crisp toast, or between. and on top of. crusty baking powder biscuits. Gar- nish with minced parsley. Serves 4 to 6. By HERMAN N. BUNDESEN. M. I) Three Virus Strains Involved in Influenza Like the commonicold. influenza itself is seldom. if ever. fatal. But the influenza virus can do A lot more than merely make you uncom- fortable and maybe miss a couple of days' work, The virus-there being at least three strains. A, A Prime and B- can make you susceptible to serious influenza by damaging the cilia in your nose and throat. Definition of Cilia The cilia are tiny hairs lining the upper air passages. They trap the germs you breathe into your bodies. An' infection gains a foothold in your lungs when this filtering pro- ccss is damaged. I think you can readily see that the flu can easily, lead to pneu- monia. if you dont take the pro- per precautions. Many times you have probably mistaken a bad cold for influenza. I doubt that any disease is mis- diagnosed so frequently as influ- enza. symptoms More Severe . The symptoms are allghlly more severe with the A virus than with the B..'l"he kind of infection pres- ent, however. cannot be determined by the symptoms alone. The disease usually starts with chills.' You might haxe R. fever. lose your appetite and feel sick to your stomach. You might vomit. You'll probably feel tired and have severe. sharp headaches. Your mus- be flushed and maybe you'll be con- atipated. Temperature Not High Rarely Will Your temperature be Above 100 degrees. Your fever will be the highest on the first day. After that. your temperature should subside. symptoms like those of a cold may also be preleni. You'll probably sneeze frequently. and have a harsh. dry, metallic cough. There will be The Oysier Business a Lady In Ins BAILII ALLQN ,TOMOIlBOW'S DINNEI. Vegetable soup chopped Fish Pie spinach whipped Potatoes Cole Blow Apple Puff Pancakes Apple Syrup Coffee Tea. Milk chopped Fish Pie: Used canned salmon, tuna. bonito, iobstcr or crab. " Line a D" pie-plate with pie pu- try. homo-made or from 1. mix. Fine-chop l (7 or 'll'n oz.) can of the seafood desired. Add 1 c. whole milk. ',-i c. soft enriched bread crumbs, 1 beaten eggs, bi up. each salt and monoeodium glutamate. ll tsp. each pepper and onion ult, and 1 tbs. minced parsley. Transfer to the crust-lined plate. Bake 10 min. in a hot oven. (26 de- grees F. to set crust: then reduce heat to 315 degrees F. and bake 35 min, or until light brown and a knife. inserted in the center. coma: out clean. Serve warm. Puff Pancakes: Heat 9f c. milk until tepid. Meantime. soak is tsp. active dry yeast 2 min. in "ii ivbl. tepid water. Stir into milk with ii tbs. sugar, xi tsp. salt and 3 tin. flour. stand 30 min. in a warm place, or until bbles" form. Beat in 1,5 c. four and 8 beaten egg yolks. Beat the 1 egg whites stiff and fold in. Drop by half-tablespoons on well- buttered griddle or heavy frying pan. Fry about 2 min. Turn to brown other side. Serve with maple syrup. honey or the new apple syrup. Apple Pulff Pancakes: Add 1 c. thin-sliced peeled apple cut in half- inch pieces. SUNDAY DINNER. Beet Aspic Salad Stuffed Shoulder of Veal Roasted with Potatoes Whole Carrots and Onion: ' Gingerbread-Pineapple Upside-Down Cake Coffee Tea. Milk Beet Aeplc salad: soften 11': en- velopes unflavored gelatin in la c. cold water. Chop contents 1 (1 lb.) can beau. Add is c. water to liquid; bring to a boil with V: tsp. pickling spice. Stir in gelatin and attain. Add 1 tbs. each auger and cider vinegar; cool and refrigerate until beginning to thicken. Add beets. Rinse an 8" pan with cold water. Turn in beets. Refrigerate 4 hrs. or until firm. . Cut in squares serve on sliced lei- tuce. Garnish with French cream cheese dressing. THE CHEFS CREAM CHEESE FILLING Blend into 1 (3 or.) cream cheese. 3 tbs. salad oil. E tsp, 5.1:, it tsp, paprika, 34 tsp. pepper and iii tbs. cles are apt to ache; your fiice will - cider vnegar. CHOCOLATE TARTS Baked tar-t shel 2 egg yolks ii cup sugar 'A tap. unit. 235 tbs. flour iii the. cornstarch 2 c. milk . Ilia oz. (l'.i sq.) unsweetened choc- olate lo 34 tsp. vanilla l Method: Beat the egg yolks and 144 N10 Bl-Illr and salt. Make a thin. smooth paste by adding a lit- tle of the cold milk to the flour and cornstarch. scald the remaind- er of the milk and stir 9. little of it into each of the above mixtures. Then slowly add them to the re- mainder of the scolded milk. Melt the chocolate and add this. gnd then cook the mixture. stirring con-' stantly. until it is thickened. Add the flavouring. cool slightly and pour into baked tart shells. These could be garnished with a meringue, if desired. little sputum. however. Your nos. trlls probably will be congested. The beginning of all these symp- toms is almost always very sudden. Luckily. if there is no Secondary in- fection, influenza attacks only last about a week. No Specific Cure x While we doctors have no gpgci. flc cure for influenza, you should call your phylician as soon as you If! ll-lcken. I0 that he can keep a. wltchful eye on you; progrui. At "10 3'53 lllln of pneumonia. or (Continued on page in .... ,. snarmmm T P Why does will power waver after you've been on a diet for I few dayait You start out strongly. fully determined to any with the diet. But about the fourth any, you may experience the same reaction) as the dieter in today's letter . . . "I In all pepped up about re- ducing when I read your column. and. sure enough, I will stay on the sensible diet for three days. But-on the fourth clay. I inevit- ably crave starches and sweets and go haywire and then, for a period, I indulge in all food: I ehouldn't have. .It seems my subconscious tells me 'Why try? You can't stay on e. dietl"' This il a common problem which psychologists term "expected fail- ure." It's a mental set.-If you ex- pect to be hungry on A certain dly. the fourth. tenth. or my day. you will be. Without being aware of it, you concentrate on failure at an exact point in your diet. The original cause of this reaction may have been the diet itself. If your part diets short-changed you nutritionally. you experienced that "ell-gone" feeling and couldn't stay with the diet. It is that experience your subconscious mind is reacting to. on this protective diet you will not have a. physical let-down. but your subconscious may react the same way as you originally con- ditioned it to react. Perhaps you've conditioned your inner mind to re- not negatively to the very thought of diet. Once alert to this mind set. you can divert your thinking from the rutted path by focusing on the rewards of success. To bring your goal nearer. vividly picture your- self in your next smaller dress size. Give that blueprint to your aub- conscious mind. If you have a dress in your closet one size smaller. get it out - hang it in full view. One adventurous size 22 1-2 de- liberately bought a dress nize 20 Inspiyralignn -f.oi;m Slimming now to aruica-ruaiN' mu. rowna and allmmed down to that also. Now Inc is happily wearing nine in Tomorrow we'll find the number of pounds between sites. Choice Diet Tomorrow's Menu Btolkiut zoo-215 Cal. Tomato Juice or Citrus Fruit juice choice of: . Poached Eu (1 or 2) on Thin slice Toast or shredded Wheat Biscuit with Whole Milk. 1-2 cup - sugar 1 tsp. coffee Luncheon sen calories Protein Choice: 225 calories Frankfurter on Bun. mustard or Grilled Chicken Livers. 4 oz. Thin slice toast Fread, 2 thin slices Cheese, 2 slices - mustard Buttermilk or skim Milk -- no choice of: Apple or Orange (medium) - '1 Late Afternoon Energy Pick-up Glass of skim Milk or Buttermilk .. 30 . Dinner 405 calories Protein Choice: Leg of Lamb (2 slices) or 200 Cal. Shoulderilamb chop - broiled Beef Croquette -- Baked Choice of one 100 calorie food - Baked potato (medium) or Hot Roll Butter. 1-2 pat Choice of one 20 Caloric Veg. 3-I cup Swiss chard. turnips, or toma- toes g Relishes of i0 Calorie Count Vegetable: Celery, ndishu, cu- cumber cubea (all you wish) Dessert: Small serving of fruit - 50 Black coffee or tea with lemon Total calories for day - 1065 to lilo Note: Man may have extra por- tion of meat at dinner. MARY llAWOR'I'H'S MALL Husband's Tanirums May Lasi For Weeks DEAR MARY HAWORTH: We are married 11 years and have two sons, ages 9 and 3, respectively. Usually George and I get along very well. excqn for minor irrita- tions: but every few months. regu- lar as clockwork. he goes into a sort of tantrum that may last. weeks. He was released by the Army. with I. "-paychoneu utlc" di- Iknosil. shortly after we married. He love: our sons, but is morp partial to them when they are small and sweet. I-le wu wonder-” ful to'me during a critical illness. also after the birth of the boys: but when things are nonnal he has these mody spells and some- times. when in bad humor. he i DI the older boy sadistically. It breaks my heart, but he acts worse if I say anything. and his aim throughout is to torment me. more than, the boy. George expects the older boy to be very masculine, yet takes no time for family fun with him. He accused me of making him a sissy, but I feel I must. give him the love and interest his father doesn't. Recently he disappointed this boy. refusing to take him to a school affair (though he had promised), simply because one of his gar- menta wasn't ready. Yet he has half a dozen similar garments he might have worn. Aslia Recipe For Harmony I've.got a part; time jdb to help with medical bills. and, George HOP! living. "Why don't you quii: that two-bit job?" even though he knows we need the money. He lets me manage the budget and prom- ises to take an interest: in the dia- buraala. but never does. He merely criticizes what I do. knowing noth- ing about it actually. His mother died when he was a child and he had a very wonder- fui ltepmother; but somehow he must have felt insecure. I don't want: a divorce but is there any- thing I can do to make us a hap- pier family? I am slowly losing all my love for him. E. B This In Drift Towards Illness Dear R. 8.: The cyclical pattern of George's recurrent ' gthening moods of host.lllt.y' (interspersed with periods of agreeable though immature behavior) suggests an accelerating drift toward: mental illness. Such a. picture urgently calls for specialist study, to locate the un- conscious factors causing distress and bring them into" the open for remedial and re-educative treat- ment. Thls nhouid be done with the patients grateful co-operation, before he passes the point of no return in the field of emotional deterioration. You say George was released by the Army with a psychoneurotic diagnosis. However, to designate a person rychoneurotlc doesn't set forth is condition. really. Rather it merely classifies him an emotionally disturbed, without tracing his anxiety to its source -in his psychological and (or) physical make-up. The Army label "psychoneurotic" usually means that the indlvtduera present emotional distortions are such that he can't give a depend- able performancc under strum. Al to the ramifications of his interior suffering. that's mother story -- and the Army medical staff hasn't got. time to explore and solve the problem. considering the vent num- bers of such cases that come to in attention, so the unhappy man is turned back to the environment that warped him; and too often neither he nor his next-tof-kin recognize the necessity of getting early adequate help for hirn-to nip trouble in the bud. If George had ulcers. or high blood pressure. or diabetes. for ex- ample, he couldn't sensibly refuse medical care,. on the theory that he doesn't need it. Well. untreat- ed psychoneurotic " is may be equally serious health-hazards, thus he ought to get phychiatric help. for his own and his family's good. In the city through which you write there is a County Guidance Clinic staffed with psychiatrists. psychologists and psychiatric soc- ial workers, compel. r. to review this matter. Alno there is a Velcr- an'a Administration Regional 01- flce Mental Hygiene Olinic, sim- ilarly staffed. where he might at preferential consideration. if 11c has a claim to veteran status. M. H. Mary Haworth counsels through her column. not by mail or per- sonalinterview. write her in care of The Guardian. Charlottetown. FUR COAT! Nine of every 10 fur coat: Iold in the United sum are made in I five-block area in New York city. 0 -icoiciilil some m""; COCOA ' Ill until miauh begin to thicken Iuvlhetacuo i 'i”.?"il'.?'-.iiil'i'i'!:.'i'"'”'"' Aop:7.iapIvooanu.:v.vdlpeckod y ;iL:r.'.'"-"-.... w...tlmwu&MII n,...1aiuoopooanI i ..r,'.-.x- . ix 3' .ba,.& ggba ' account only f All ndamlnmlaconvioiiill. cute. but well. i3g;atgo;z7,eahueucoomad& p ice'wilh.ii:llDIIIDOO nu. until ' our NEW Alice Brooks Needlecraft trans nanaxr 4 Alice-iaaooks pEsidixis' i No youngster will refuse to be neat if he bu this cuddly deem-atu bad by deal handy! so an -to- ! Patterrn 720: iwg at 'Jcma nag! contains attcrn pieces. tranc- fere and tilted . l . send TWENTY-FIVE OINTS in coins for this pattern (ctampa can- not be-accepted) in Alice Brooke design: clo The Guardian. so Front Street West. grobto. Ontario. Pleaae print pla y NAME. AD- DRESS. PATIERN NUMBER. WONDERFUL in the won! -- for Catalog for 1955. Exciting, enchant- ing, irresistible .- our new designs are all that - and even more! send 25 cents for your copy of this ferri- fic catalog -K right Npwl You'll want. to order every wonderful de- sign in it! t In decorating connecting or adjoining room. if you can no info on from the other. avoid eluliing color combinations. You make I single quick-rising dough I with the new Fieiachmannia Active Dry Yeast . . . your oven produce; (our thrilling desert trealal Whonyou bakael home. no how thla sun. quick-acting Amazingly Versatile Dough with new Aelivo Dry Yoaall ' Ilili I0 yeast. help! multiply variety on your table. Wliumi" , Neodaym refrigeration- gel. a mantlfu eupplyl ' .IIIlt (Mill (AK! Deni Sui! 1 rope milk Remove Iron Mai and cool is luke- warm. In the incnfine, ancum into n large but -lb up luliewann at; I teaspoons you gum. and all: until auger In dllDiH4- Sprinklc VIM CIMOMU of 1 envelope: lloiulununnb Active Dry You! i la! Aland 10 nlnutu, THIN uir val. , I'll: In luhwom milk and 4 will-DOIIOII 00'' I loupun vanilla Ml together twice 7 cups once-dflel incl not V. evp uonutclod wet I tablespoon cult 'i . CINNAMON sauna Combine n ma rnnulnlad ear: and l lap. cinnamon; Iptin.k- ' N ' and 31' in 13-” a noun? IIII I 3 non back to Jchhflo-u left to on 1- tlhh rolunu. nomad twin.- udaga iitt loosen the rd.ifaooeaaaty: uolodgoo. coin8'oaudI-inohljtlllivllr xruadnemcupgnnulaudlullflld "94 bfohll ll "'i"cE'3;.'.iilir'f"aii "Ham mo an-R at . W h min. .4 than 5i-:.'iE'-'"i-"1I?Ii l.'lil.l”:" rm: 0 olherwardacu with null: I: I mm. 2- Fig" Coil Knead lnloon;Fv1ion of E'”'."'g me.-....'-' 3;r.a"' y and a M II pan. 1: ll: allege. aullal bum: or sprinkle vi l.llli.lIII of K ND cinnamon. nah at aunr. .wo Input my . &i:.'l';llia""lr'i:."?.iil. ...."':.t .... ....- if ;&m and 16 min. lw ' nuns. ndiacf a lunar. it aw. 15 on .TlllY. JANUARY. cLeAizANcis k Balance of Coats, Snowsults, Dresses, Jumpers Greatly Reduced.- YTO-I K i