I .og-|n-anger n A College Ago Should Free Mother For Remarriage ‘ have devoted my entire life to my son. I have denied myself all the lndulgences and amusements that women usually have and spent all my lime Blld 1110M)’ in trying to educate my boy. He is now in col- 1989- A Very lllle marl. Who is able to provide for me and give me me, but my son is very resentful of my marrying any one. I have been putting this man off for two years and he has become tired of waiting and tells me I must make a decision in the matter and either take him or leave him. What shall I do? A. B. C. ANSWER: I unhesitatlnsly advise you to marry jectlons,‘ and see that you have done the wise thing for him, Se“ ‘as well as your- Iie htllliriinks all the happiness she should desire is just in ministering tural craving for pleasure and amusement and independence. Undoubtedly, it will give your son a jolt to find out that you are man to be in love with. When he cries out in protest ask him if you are “1111118 to forcfw a marriage for his sake will he be willing to forego marriage for your sake? Ask him if he’ will be willing to stay gtleilslljnefxelkelltlflili W111i You instead of going out with the other young- r . s‘ im if he will be willing to give up some girl he l; l" 1°" Wllll l" Order to support you erul Provide you with a good home? sh When It; bi! starts to college.’ his mother has done all for him n! Cflll- l; Klcpendence on her is over. His need for her is virtu- a y gimeg Ind 511° ha! 105i lllm. so far as companionship is con- tfilalletérthe: ‘Liimi-lfxllgelén 1111110‘ businless of; litlge and it takes him farther . a is a per ec , Th ‘ should leave the home ncst. y proper e you“; bird But it leaves the mother lonely and desolate, and the best thing she can possibly do under the circumstances is to marry again if she ca" “"5 l! sllllllble male. Some man whom she can love and who loves her and with whom she can re-establish hcr life and make a new home. A WIClOW with little children may well hesitate to marry because there is always the chance of their getting a stepfather who will mis- treat thcm, but when the children are practically grown and able m defend themselves, this danger is eliminated, and then she has notll. ing but her own choice in the matter. DOROTHY DIX. DEAR MISS DIX: Because I have been around a bit and have met many women in various parts of the world I find I am not con- sldered seriously by girls. They think I can‘t tell an up-and-up girl Khen I meet her, but I think I am more qualified to know a real girl ‘ l!" m0"- YOllHlZ hlvfl. 0f my age who have never been outside the city jmits, but I JUSl’. cant convey that thought to the girls. M. E. ANSWER: Probably the girls are just spoofing you. To affect unbelief in what a man says and ask how could he like poor little me when he has seen so many other wonderful girls in other places and to make him swear that never before has he met any one so beautiful and enchanting is just a line with a lot of sweet lull;- things. The man who has seen a lot of girls is far better able to judge ‘them and to know what's what and who's who among them than is the Jnan who has only knoivmone or two. In Mr. Kipllngh famous poem "about the man of many loves the hero says: “And I learned about '_i women from her" of each new daliiance. And that is true. Every _- girl has something to teach a man, and‘. he passes on to the next one . ,1 little wiser and a little better judge of the fair sex. _ The boy who has always gone with Sally since he was in knee trousers thinks that all girls are just like Sally, with the same (Continued on Page 3) ilow llfobuoy’: exclusive ingredient gives you long-lasting protection No other sosp like Lifebnoy, Its mild, gentle lather contains an exclusive purifyingingrcdient that gives you the long-lasting, all-over prong. tion careful people demand. Yes, Lifebuoy soap is the only soap especially made to stop "B.0.” Lifebuoy in the huh will keep you safe from offending . . . leave you feeling i i ' extra clean, extra fresh. Ge: Lifebuoy today . . . in the handler new IATl-i sizs. NEW IATII SIZE LIFIIUOY Oivosyoummbollls-onfrlpgolociion b-IIIONIOQIOIIIOIIIOIIIYY m. a... till |‘l' DAIlY n good home and for whom I have a great affection, wants to marry "w" ‘ l, l Wfllllfin B! W611 HS a mother. and a woman attractive enough for a, l injected it loses at‘ Body Of Your: l! hnnihlortotll. VABIOOSI VEINI Many of us think that varicose veins are found only in overweight DEAR MISS DIX: I am n widow and for the last sixteen years “M” 5nd 1i L‘ m“ Q1" W9!" weight. while not the cause in iscme cases. certainly makes the condition worse. Varicose veins however are com. in people of various weights. Dr. F. B. Bowman, Hamilton, Can- ada. in “Clinical Medicine" states that the condition is comparatively common since about 10 per cent of the adult population has varicose veins. One of the discouraging features of varicose veins is that, after ygup m"; “q “new "um" a bu” “d u" o“ undergoing the injection treatmenz, ass for yourself. Pay no attention to your son's ob- ” mxsstul l“ timusand‘ "i "s" He may pout for a little wliile, but he will soon get over it and He“ after opuauim- the" l" .so».'ne cases in which varicose veins re appear. Dr. Bowman outlines the Of course, it is natural for a pelted and spoiled only child, who ‘me “ms used t° make sure that has monopolized his mother for years, to be jealous of any stranger ‘he deep “ins Wm who takes any part of her attention away from him. He has thought. back to the heart when the “rm” of his mother as belonging to him so completely that he can't con-' veins “e Yemilved b)’ inflections or "We °l his slave rebelling and demanding a little life of her own.‘ s“‘g°’Y~ carry blood One is known as the BIOIIlE-TTMIGEl-ibéfg test in which by raising the leg and applying g _Perhaps the greatest shock any child ever gets l; when 1g g1"; wurlllqllel l0 llDDEl‘ 1111811. the pat- realizes that its mother is a human being with a human being's na-i ‘em’ the“ Stands °“ 11151999199115 way the surgeon KIIOWS whether the deeper vessels will carry the blood up to the heart when sur- face vclns are closed by the tourni- quet. One of t-he points Dr. Bowman emphasized is that whens. vein is all its life or ,vit.a.lity and is therefore an ideal - spot for organisms from any infec- tion in the body to gather and start further infection. Therefore care- ful inquiry should be made as to infection elsewhere in the body; E varicose veins should not be lnjec-b- ed when a patient has a. bad cold, tonsilitis, or had a. recent. influ- [ cnza, Dr. Bowman says. In World War 1, the injection material was not always safe and so this method was not used for several years. With the new drugs now used for injection treatment, the results have been very satis- factory in the great majority of cases. but careful selection must; be made before treatment is given. Whether the injection treatment or surgery is used there will always be some cases that willl require further treatment. FIRST AID Know vrhat to do in an emerg- elwy- Send today for Dr. Barton's helpful booklet entitled "First Aid Ill Emergencies." Just enclose 10 cents and a S-cent stamp, to cove; cost of handling and mailing, to the Bell Syndicate, in care of this newspaper, Post Office Box 99 Station c, New York 19, N. y. and ask for your copy. ' BLACKHEADS Got t. g m. 5?...‘Z‘i'.".‘."§.1i .3131“! ifffifii’. {f3 ""1 Ivrlv l» the 1m runny. awry black.- hud will ba dissolved. The one safe. lun- W nuo ro 10s.. . LIIIIUOY crops "s. or‘ "d “"914 WI! to remove blackheads. lllliillliiili av rim liiilllSPEil "HOW COULD I have been so coroieul From now on it's Liisbuoy for mo in my daily both!" sliillrnooou E55 MOON G Had I a cupboard big enough To hold the shining moon, I would put on my magic cloak, My magic silver shoon. Then light and still at night I'd go Nor hum the softest song. O, I would kneel and gently touch The scented, silver dew, And find and fold close to heart The dreams I dream of you. m)‘ r The silver trees would bend to see, The silver leaves would sigh, As silent, through the night we'd S". The shining moon and I, —Mary Barron Brubakei". SUMMER ADVENTURE The day was hot. heat Made feverish the city street; And so I said: “At even tide Beside the river let us ride. “In search of comfort let us go Along the road where breezes blovi. ‘Tis possible that few will think To seek the cooling river brink." Along the way where breezes blew, Ten thousand horns were blowing. too. Ten thousand motors just like mine Were moving in a solid line. The traffic in a crawling mass Made foul the air with fumes of gas. A driver now and then I'd meet The blistering Whose temper flared above the heat. Henceforth whene'er I think I know A spot where cooling breezes blow, I shall remember here will be Ten thousand cars n front of me. -—Copyrlght, I949, Edgar A. Guest. Plump seeded raisins, crushed pineapple and cream cheese make a wonderful filling "for cantaloupe rings. Place the melon rlnBB "ll crisp salad greens and fill with the raisin-cheese mixture. It's delici- ous. Canned foods are a major part of every camper‘: and fishermenhi provisions. However it is import- ant for the cooks to realize that canned food may never be heated in the can unless the top has been opened or punctured to allow the steam to escape. HERE'S HOW TO KEEP BOOM NEAT Though few can afford the lux- ury of perfect housekeeping, any- one can have a neat and orderly living-room, even with young chil- dren in the house. by mllllleflllf-I the art of judicious "shlrkin';'. Here are a few rules, tested by years of use in several different houses: 1. I-Iave dry-mop- dllli" lllld l" old-fashioned carpet-sweeper in n convenient place, and use them daily. 2. Decide which surfaces, in your particular house, will need iii! quick daily attention; then let everything else wait for a thorough weekly vacuum-cleaning, (Plano, radio, library table, etc., show dust unmercifully: chair-rungs, out-of- the-way tables, book shelves may be shirkcd.) “The Stars Say-- Dy Genevieve Rouble FR Slfllfllly, ' 1T is probable that affairs of di- version, relaxation or gaiety may engage the energies and attention over this midsummer weekend, with rich promise of lively and happy condition in which home, family and romantic pursuits dom- inlte the activities. However, there is s/sordid note to negative sucli pleasant relatlom with an ignoble twinge of jealousy. treachery or subtle deception calling for alert and tactful management. Meet such with tact. discretion and gracious- ness rather than strife. 1hr the Birthday Those whose birthday it. is, may look for s pleasant and lively state of affairs, with home, romantic. cultural as well as business inter- ests in connection with such ob- jectives. Maintain this benign con- dition, slqstepping sordid darts of enmity, jealousy and strife or other sinister or izescherous develop- ments. Keep alere-to- svert sorrow and recrfmliatlon from home, fain- liy and love affairs. A child born on this day is well endowed for a happy. c tive and pleasant life, although it may ‘I3 WW. trickery, ivingcStLeisure ITHEWUMANS REALM/ pers. and put away magazines. books, knitting-bags, etc., which have been in use. Never permit and discard all objects neither useful nor ornamental. , main. Be sure the water in trans- ?dxrr‘:aollr‘e’riildnirgusltlixi‘iiga\lsflttllfimy cloak, 23.3“ flowfludlsh“ l‘ clear am! ha f-pound boxes are fine, smooth and sharp and leave no marks or rust stains on fine fabrics. roast beef garnished with golden canned cling peach halves filled with chutney will make wonder- ful eating for an informal porch supper. rant jelly. with be the victim of undertones of jeal- intriguo or other m Gunman. CHARLOTTETOWN Woman's Realm/Social and PersQnal/Fashionis/L ‘Ail! .- >00"..- 3. Remove yesterdays newspa- thlngs not in use to accumulate, that are 4. Never let wilted flowers re- ilk pins, size 16, which lell in A platter of thinly sliced cold For variety fill some of the peach halves with bright cur- LEFTOVER. SANDWICH If you come home from a picnic leftover sandwiches, wrap them well in waxed paper or aluminum foil and store them in the refrigerator. The next day they can be grilled in a little but- ter or margarine and served with a salad as a luncheon dish. 0:- they can be toasted under the broiler and served with a cream. cheese or tomato sauce: choose the the sauce that goes with the filling. ri—— -- - D. ~—-—* Cook ’s Corner Q DEVONSHIRE SIIORTCAKP Four to five slices bread, three to four taibles, lusrs butter, one cup sugar, one quart berries (crushed). Butter bread on loaf, slice one quarter inch thick. and remove crusts. Butter one-qua.rt round- bottom bowl and line with bread. cutting one slice to fit small spaces. Mix sugar with berries. Pour in sweetened fruit, and eov-_ er with remaining buttered bread. Select plate to fit just. inside of bowl and weight it down into pud- ding Chill 24 hours. Turn out on serving plate and garnish with whipped cream. Yield: Six serv- ings. 0w. How Can l 1.! ly Anne Ashley Vi"! Q. How can I easily clean pans in which milk has been boiled? A. Try covering the pan with quested it, the light of eager an- ticipation on their faces not to be denied, we dined out of doors to- day, On the front verandah, three chairs being drawn up to a small table there. their suggestion, that no individual of their sizable following of dogs and cats be allowed within range of us, was faithfully carried out. Pard of all of thcso, is the only one who can be trusted to dis- tinguish between "mine and thine" where foods are displayed, and he had gone before this in advance of James, in the road, to Rob's. O I t noon hour about the lawn drooped, an energetic tiger lily. bright faced and stately, that smiled and nod- ded to us, its feet deep in cool clay of the flower-bed near- by. the small ones. "But I'm not much taken up with tiger lllies," Jamie commented, “in fact I don't like them at all. —perhaps it's only the name that makes me dislike them. Tigers are fierce anlmals'in. pictures!" with beautiful markings flltted by in the sunshine and sparrow-birds busy friendly creatures, with course shortcomings of their own,‘ by. Irwin-n - Ellen ’s Diary B: an Inland Forum's Wife PIDOOQ. Because tho children had ro- Our one condition to In the heat prevailing in today's plants and shrubs except the We remarked about this to I can't explain why Butterflies in gay shades and of flew down to drink at a bath close "I like it here", grand-daugh-. fer bcame when the Amcns harii been said and we were ready to begin our meal. We had servings of meat, but it was to the butter- ed vegetables their fancies turn- ed especially. For dessert there were the raspberries we had gath- ered fresh from a lush growth of canes beside the alders when we came there at mail-time this morn- ing. There it was too that we had suddenly startled a neat of fledg- lings, which according to one of Jamie's books on the subject, we identified as water thruslies, though as we laughed to Jeanie. “they could be most anything.“ Narrow striped the adults were. the nest built of entwined grasses, and placed lo\v amid the bracket. that edges the mill stream. O O O And watching the children enjoy their out-of-door meal, we consid- ered how small an item it tai-:es to brighten their day, and, as we have experienced it goes to en- hance the memory of childhood through adult years. We thought too of those wise parents we had known who were never too busy or too much taken up with thc'r own pursuits to take an interest in their children's endeavours, to help in a present hobby or enter- tainment, to join with them in an excursion or ‘pleasure. O O Such families give. few delin- quents to society, or few problem a lid after Waring out the milk. and before the steam escapes. Al- low the pan to cool, and then fiii with cold water. The pan will wash out easily for you. Q. How can I make a cleanser for dirt that. is ground into the hands? A. Rub v-ueline jelly thoroughly into the hands, let it rrcnain for at least fifteen imirnltes. then wash the hands, and see how easily the dirt. ls removed. Q. How can I easily separate the white and yolk of an egg? A. Break it into a funnel. The white will flow through and the yolk will remain unbroken in the funnel. Better English IQWIIIIIIB 1. What is wrong with this scn- tence? “First thing after eating he smokes a cigar." 2. What is the correct pronunc- iation of "stolid?" 3. which one of these words is misspelled? Wlttlclsm, wastage, wart. 4. What does the word ous" mean? 5. What is s. word beginning with pcrf that. means "false to trust"? ANSWERS “oner- 1. Say, "Immediately after eat- ing he smokes a cigar." 2.1m- nounce the o as in 0.‘, not. as in no. 3. Wharf. 4. Burdensomc; trouble- some. "The country ‘has been try- ing for years to pay this onerous ddbi." 5. Perfldlous. WIXIGOE, Sussex, Eng-(CP) —_-When Robert Wares, a fisher- man, found an unexploded naval shell on a nearby beach he put it into a sack and carried itthreo miles to police authorities. it was put in the local mortuary and defused. IIIST STOIY OI‘ MAN Written history is said to have begun with the historical books of oil-sister attacks. whore-her oinwitt Life was never s FUN before! N - rho’ ' sfhr - invited - ow s midst m_ GI the Old Testament. v . isms rm PILLS -._,,, , adolescent children. but alert interested in- dividuals, the product of a happy family circle. We recalled the ,busy, city mother of three-two sons and a young ;daughter, whose views on child- irearing we found we were anx- ious to get, because the respect ,-and affection of all was most ap- |parent. "We do have fine times together", she said, "they help me with my house-work-they can house-keep fairly well, and one day they'll bless me for giving them the opportunity to learn it! -and so that gives me more time to enjoy them. Our best times are when we pack a lunch, anri with all the family including the dog, get away to the country. A fishing trip is a good excuse but often we just go on a drive, pic- nicking here or there beside a (Continued on Page 3i GLASS TOWELS D101!‘ I0. DI hr quick needlework. try Inlk. in: these good looking glass tow- ,_eis. Hot iron transfer pattern iNo- I08 contains 5 motifs with complete instructions. To order: lend ii cents In cola to Needlework Bureau, Charlotte- town Guardian. Design No. $09 "ll ""'""‘ ‘ 1 Address . AUGUST 12.1949 (QT xiii-ts. 4,‘, . iteratuire - -- --mnunonnncnouannooonoaaaunoonannonooouaanoa~aaoanaoc fi-Elfififi-llfififis. ddedpnoriacrioii Mvv" .1... s p4 . Household.’ Scrapbook By Roberts Leo Honey Mix strained honey with soft butter and you will have a delic- ious topping for hot cinnamon toast. This ls also good when used for pancakes instead of the reg- ular syrup. House Dresses When washing the colored house dresses for the first time, throw a handful of salt into the water and it will aid greatly in setting the color. . Ink Shins Clean the ink-stained ringers by rubbing with a solution of salt and vinegar. “C? 69%»? Morning Smile yoo-ci-oo-é-coéoo-i fi»oo@' It was the first day of s new term, and the teacher asked a small girl in her class-a new pupil —Whai her father's name was. "Daddy," replied the child. “Yes. I know." said the teacher. "Bill Wlllll 111085 your mother call him?" "She doesn't call him anything." W95 "the quick answer. "Sine likes 2321-) — Everybcdys Weekly (Lon- BAD T0 WORSE Ellza~"Ah don‘ held wig 49m splrltualists no mot" MfllldY-"Hucoum dat?" 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Get relief from this condi- tion, enjoy esting again, no bad after effects. , MOBRISSETS BTOMAOH TONIC BUITLE For Solo st all Dru: Stores and Drug Qountero FOR GROWING KIDDIIS Needlecraft f FOR THE HOME l; Include _ ___.,_-.- Modern Etiquette Iylobertolao 100i Q. Is it correct, when offering to help anyone. to say. "Permit m0 to assist. you"? 5- A. Yes, this ls all right. burfl does sound somewhat stilted formal. It would be better merely to say, "Let me ‘help you." = If one has no flowers. is ll all right to have a fruit center- piece on the dinner table? , A. Yes, thc result will be QC- tractlve if a proper bowl is heaped y wltli oranges, apples. peaches, pest ailrl grapes. ,- Q. should one stay only a short time when making a call of condol- once? . A. Yes; this call should be es- pecially brief. AVILEY, msex. England —-(W) — Children of the local Sunday school are collecting futhlnss Q0- wards the repair of thrchurbb sanctuary. 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