Wrong Tool-lo lest Way To Speed Unsuitable Match‘ ls To Oppose lt- DEARMISSDIX! Iam swidowwithasonflyeereeld. Hells: with a divorced woman who is 15 years older than he is and who sa a child 13 years old. She is lazy and trifling and refuses to keep ouse, even makes my son wash her clothes for her. My son is very headstrong and will not listen to me or anyone else when we tell him what a mistake he will make if he marries her. Yet whet shall I do? I can't sit by and allow him to ruin his life by marrying her. Have you any sug- gestions as to what I should do to stop the affair? MRS. D. C. ANSWER: 'f'he most certain way to promote an unsuitable marriage is by opposing it. Nothing rouses the combative spirit in youngsters so quickly as for their parents to try to keep them from mak- ing marriages that are bound to wreck their lives. They are determined not to let anyone dictate to them about whom they marry. The more Mother WEEDS Over Tommy being infatuated by a little nlncompoop from the ‘WON; side of the tracks, and the more Father rages over Sally going steady Willi a lad who is still in grade school, the more set they are on tloms it. They are going to show the old fogiesl r WASTE OI BREATH 1t is a waste of breath to try to convince a bobby-soxer that she isn't capable of a deuthless passion for some kid as callow as she is herself, and that she isn't fit for marriage. Nor can you make a youth, who thinks he is in love, realize that he is bringing misery down upon his head by marrying before he can support a family. _ Arguments are of no avail with the young. Neither are tears and prayers. But ridicule is a deadly weapon that breaks up many a marri- age that never should take place. Many an embryonic love affair has been broken off by bad spelling and worse grammar. Love's young dream has been shattered many a time by a girl eating peas with her knife and a boy's clothes not fitting. So, Mrs. D. C., my advice to you is to stop arguing with your son about the folly of marrying the divorcee. Let it ride. If the jokes his buddies make about his wooing the lady by doing her laundry do not disillusion him, it's love. DEAR MISS DIX: I married when I was not quite 16 and. el- Ihough I have a wonderful husband of whom I am very fond and a heau- tifui baby and a nice home, I wish that I had waited until I was older and had finished my high school education. What I am getting at is that in the event that anything should happen to my husband, I would have no possible way of supporting myself and my baby. So I would say to all girls: Before you take that important step in your life, prepare yourself for the future. Get as good an education as you can, and learn some trade by which you can make a living. And I would say the some thing to boys. Let them realize that their pay will Hepend on how much they know and how skillful they are. They can't support a wife and family on the only kind of job they can get if they iio not have an education. _ YOUNG WIFE ANSWER: That is good advice which all young people should take lo heart, yet so few do. Most boys and girls think of going to school as a penalty that has been inflicted on them without reason. Only a few bense that a good education is the greatest blessing that can be bestowed hpon them. It is the key that unlocks all the privlleses and pleasures bf living. Clover CluB The Women's Oroanizai-ion. of the Progressive Conservative Pariv invite all Ladies of the Province to a Tea in honour of MRS. GEORGE DREW MONDAY, NOV. 8th 3 - 5 Q'c|ocif commemor- Household Scrapbook By Roberta Lee ' gocsawo<§co~c>coscoé The Eyce The eyes need exercise as well as any other part of the body. A goOd strengthening exercise is no turn the eyes up towards the ceil- lllg, then dovm to the floor, then to the left. and to the right. repeat- ing this several times a. day. The Fireplace If you wish to burn pine wood in your fireplace and want. to prevent the gum from collecting on the stones. bricks or tiles, cost them. after they're thoroughly cleaned, with boiled linseed oil. Woolen Stockings Woolen stockings will not shrink after washing if they are dried over (Continued on Page 3) wooden shoe trees. They will dry to the shape of the feet. ara sw- Modern Etiquette By Roberta Lee '9<§>t0§t0€>¢0%¢0%>c Q. If a person has accepted the invitation of one hostess, is it per- missible to recall the acceptance in order to accept a later invitation elsewhere? , A. Never; this is extremely rude. If such a. thing were done, and the first hostess should become‘ aware of it. her resentment wouldi be justifiable. It is s sure road w‘ unpopularity. ] Q. As s complimentary closing to a business letter, would it be’ good form to use "Yours truly" orl “Yours very truly"? A. Either is correct. Q. What is the proper wsy to eat an apple at the table if a smsili silver fruit knife is provided? i A. Cut the apple into quarters‘ and eat it with the fingers. I Putter i: Gamble’: new fliflf makes wasiitiavs most MAZING PRBMISE ilo soap-no other “suds"-no other washing product known-will get your family wash as ClEIiN as Tide! y»? ‘m: wonttrs CIEIIIEST, BRIGIITEST, WIIITESTVi/Asn Trill s . . only Tide gives you afl this. Tide promises you a cleaner wash than any other washday product will give you. Tide leaves even your heaviest family wash free fronfdlrt; snd actually removes soap film, too. Yet with all that cleaning power; Tide is truly safe for washable aolorsl What's more, Tide actually brightens soap-dulled colors. And white things? In hardest water, Tide gets them whiter than my soap or any other washing product known! These are amazing promises, but Tidsfsnd only Tide-will beep them evecy weekday. \\X\\ §r|os stems tussle ruse ssr ems: 12/ vusssat reassures us / T- reutvsan 4/ \fl lilll/fi/l/é 7.71:‘ surf: % X \\. if/OPHS EXTRA MIRACHS IN HLRD WfiTiP’ (MIANS OF SUDSY NO WATER SOFTENIRS A Gnnulaeod ‘ Bymnsol Produd fade in Canada New miracle unis! More suds In hardest water! Kind-to-hnnde eude that look differ- ent, jeei different! Woades-fullnthedhh- pen. tool Try Tide fee dishes . . Jeehow they sparkle. even without, wiping! NHDFD‘ i That Body Of Yours B! ’ James W. Barton. M. D- When we think about the new science of allergy and that many physicians are specialists in this field, allengists, most of us have in mind allergy caused by inhaling certain substances such as ragweed, pollen and house dust. causing hey fever and asthma, or of eating certain foods such as strawberries and shellfish which cause hives and stomach upsets. What we fail to remember is that allergic symptoms can be caused by drugs injected into the body or under the skin, and also by sub- stances which cc-me in contact with the skin. . Thus. there are four groups or classes of substances that cause allersl’; 1. Inhaiants; 2. In- gesl-ants; 3. Injectants; 4, Contact- ants. The inhalants are classified in burn as: (a) Dust in factories or the home; (b) agent/s of animal origin; (c) agents of vegetable origin - pollen, plant products other than pollen and scents of plant origin; (d) fungi — common air molds. smuts and rusts; re) chemicals. House dust and dust; from oc- cupations in factories and flour mills, and the threshing of wheat are common causes of allergy. House dust from the patient! own hane often is used in the trest- ment of dust allergy. Animal allergy comes front furs and feathers. Jrorm dander of horses or from the clothing of those who work among horses; the hsir of cats, dogs. cattle and the bristles of hogs; sheep's wool and silk clothing; silks. glue and bone dust. Allergens of plants include pol- len of various plants and trees. The seeds of fungi or‘ molds‘ also are s frequent cause of allergy. Finally, chemicals and the fumes or odors of hemicals cause allergic symptoms, especially from formal- dehyde and ammonium vapors. The above infonmation on the first group of substances causing eliergy. the inhalants, recorded in "Physician's Bullet ," gives some idea of the many unsuspected causes of allergic symptoms. The other three groups will be discussed at a later date. THE MANY CAUSES OF ALLERGY BGY Send today for Dr. Barton's help- ful booklet entitled "Allergy." wihich means being sllergic or sensitive to various foods and other substanc- es. Just enclose 10 ccnts and a d- cent stamp. to cover cost of hand- ling and mailing. to The Bell Syn- dlcate, in care of this newspaper, Post Office Box 99, Station G, New York 19, N. Y. A Cook's Corner ’ writ-gs onus): TOMATO miuvtanana l lemons l6 cup water 4 cups green tomatoes 2 pounds sugar 2 ounces root. ginger METHOD: Cut. lemons in quar- ters. from stem to blossom end. Re- move pithy part. in the centre and the seeds and then slice in paper thin slices. Cover with the ‘ll-cup water and let stand overnight. nut morning, peel tomatoes, all into cubes, snd measure 4 cups of thus. Add the eussr and lemons along with the water in which they were soaked. Bruise the root gins" and tie it. loosely in a cheesecloth beg and add this tno. Now cook this over low heat un- til the tomatoes ere tender. Then continue cooking over low heat. stirring frequently, until the tomatoes ere tender. Then eon- tinue cookin over low heat. stirr- ing frequent y. until the ‘ stoes are clesr, end time syrup is rim and th|&. ltesneve the beg of root gin- ger. Pour the messnslede into hot. sterilised jars snd seel with melted paraffin. Cover the jars and store in s oool. dry plaice. Ellen ‘s Didi‘? jfljflix‘ 1a the turning ef days. end e‘ vacation has some. remind‘!!! I farmer's wife that time and tide are indeed exacting and relentless elements. Swift flying as the Sum~ mar birds into the southern horizon on a still Autumn afternoon these recent weeks have been. Though many holiday-minded folk might consider such a vacation as mine. spent for the most part about the affairs of our farming as monoton- ous and unworthy of more than passing notice, yet to ms the inter- val has contained much that was most satisfying and interesting, and as succeeding days turned from dawn to dusk, they left me a rich bequest of memories, that had been gathered from out the fleet- ing hours. For Autumn days, whether they come to those in city or country cannot be other than de- lightful, colorful as they are and fruitful and pointed pleasantly with a rare silence and tranquility that ever attends this season which leads up rather solemnly perhaps yel "not without hope", towards the end and death of the year. "It's coming to the last of it, Ellen". a visitor remarked on a recent sunny afternoon when we stood a momeni beside her car and the sere leaves floated down quietly from the wide old birch to settle with their fel- lows on the lawn beneath, and the beauty that had been so glorious was fast disappearing from the tree-crowned hills and woodlands. "Yes", I agreed, “the last—for which the first was made," enjoying much the charm of it all, and at the samc time remembering the wealth of seeds embedded by Nature's lavish hand in the generous earth, a nice surr-ty against the return of anoth- er Spring. e And if the reds and the crimsom have disappeared from the land- scape, a new beauty now supplants that which Autumn spread so late- ly on hill and vale-one more aust- ere certainly but also lovely. The neutral shades are there, spreading a restful tapestry for country folk. and still among the grace of stark maples or the sombre shades of spruces and firs one catches sight of the gold hnd bronze of odd pop- lars and birches holding stub- bornly or perhaps only modestly to their thinning robes. And farm- folks looking out upon these scenes or stepping briskly along the frost- ed grass to the morning choring realize that now indeed the re- maining harvesting of potatoes and roots is being dons on "borrowed time." I recall now that a bridge of ice, we found thrown across the pond one crisp morning during holiday time hastened our field work and how busy the succeed- ing days have been! Definitely one remembers those cold dawns, but also the present flooding of sun- light and the quiet that each fair day soon settled ovcr the place after the workers had gone ‘to the field. I O Then only grand-daughter's voice and mine were to be heard in the stillness-and at times the pup's shrill new bark; the Pekin duck's loud lonely call or the other fowis busy about the barnyard. And there were the occasions when the adult mind was completely taken up with the perplexing and recurring prob- lem of "Now what shall I make or bake for the family-the workers who deserve the best of fare?" Ano for the moment all else was for- gotten until a strange deep silence indoors recalled one to her first and more important duty. Then anxiously she hurried to slicer to call: “Baby, where are you 7" and presently to loud heart-beats and from somewhere beyond sight she would appear to say in surprise: “Here I am-right here! And the pup too! Do you want us for something?" And immediately all was good and well and lovely in our world again. I I wovnmss_§._u4s_ _/ FOR THE HOME 1. ‘LIITLI lIllII/[IITLI line's e dress and oepe ensemble destined to give little girls that. weli-put-together look! Note that the pretty puff sleeved frock has e round oollsr - and that the cun- ning cape baa one too. (Both in one pattern.) No. %0 is out in sizes 6 month" 1,2,8.s.ndd. Size 2 dress, l’? yards 35-inch, $6 ye-nd 35-inch con- trasting; ospe. 1 YIN 544M31- Bend 20c for each PATTERN which includes complete sewing guide. Print your Name. Address snd Style Number plainly. Be sure to state size you want. Include postal unit. or zone number in your address. Address Pattern Department. The Charlottetown Guardian. Pattern No. 2230 Name . Address (m, Province m§q Better English D. C. Williams 1. wrist Ls wron: with this w“- tenoe? "1 am solos l» WW1" 91° opinion of my doctor." 2. What is geijcorrect pronunc- iation of “av a r‘ a. Which one of these wwrde is misspelled? soinoquv. unlit-Im- 8°11- citous. u 4. What does the word emula- tion‘ mean?‘ 5. What is a ‘word blflilmiil! with lu that means "brilliant; bright"? “no; to equal or excel. “Emula- tion looks out for merits that she may exalt; herself by victor,» " .5. Luminous. “ kijz-ii-r I v ' § Morning Smile , QooQ-eoaeostoocoe. ANSWER; ssrrmo nsa car ' Grandmother surveyed the new dress granddsughter just donned, with considerable disdain and dis- gust. The modern young miss noted the apparent disapproval and ia- quired: "Grandmother, deer. when you were my age didn't you set your cap for granddsddy?" "Of course I did." replied grand- “but it wasn't my knee- 1_ 53y, "1 gm going to consult my doctor," or “secure the oplnivn of my doctor." 2. Pronounce both a‘s as in ate, not. first a as in have. 3. Solitaire. 4. Ambition or en- neok of the bottle? A. Hold the neck of the bottle in boiling n-ater for a few minutes. then tap it gently with s wooden |mother, block. i can x "r5717 ‘ r/a WWW” , I . // W ////%Z/ JNeedIecraft L. Satisfying and exceedingly pleas- ant, our vacation days were though there were also those which brought with them measures of re- gret and sadness. Sympathle. went out to those ill at home or i|\ hos- pital, folks laid aside for a time from the familiar duties of daily r ’ , and also to~ those who mourned departed loved ones. Es- pecially do we remember the fcel- ' ing of desolation occasioned by thc death of the kindly, scholarly min ister of the old Kirk at the corner. He was called away suddenly to his Father's house—an abode ever fem- iliar and always closeby to him. It would be, I fancy, only the opening and gentle closing of a well known door to admit him into "the fel- lowship of the Saints". leaving the seed of the Scriptures sown . . . and blossomed in many s place. Until tomorrow . . . Diary . . . Good-night. . >0 How Can I!!! By AIIIQ Ashley .91’! Q. How can I make s good cement? A. A good cemest for mending almost anything around the home csn be easily made by mixing one quart of wood ashes. l5 cup of table salt, and an h water to give the proper consist ncy. The dark sp- pesrance st first will afterwards turn almost white. Q. How can f remove perspira- tion odors from ldd gloves? A. Shake s little powder into than. This will absorb the moisture, and will also prevent the smell of leather that is so obiectionsble. Q. How can I remove a glass cork that has broken off in the (sigma a»... your breath-Mails n a»... yesr fl tliNi 5 Wit/ii YH! OINHSY SAID‘ iAlfH YHfiNfW YO ("llGAlf NEW! IMPROVED! 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