Mr. and Mrs. Norman Alton Simpson (above) following their marriage at Central Bedeque Baptist Church at 3 p.m. on Wednesday. June 23. 1954. The bride is the former Ernestine Elizabeth Crossman, daughter of Mrs. Ernest Crossman of Central Bedeque. The groom is the arm of Mr. and Mrs. Cecil Simpson, Bay View.-(Photo by Ed- win Heclihert Studlni. Anne Adams Patterns The Stars Say By Eltrelliia For Tomorrow THIS might just be the day In follow your hunches, since intui- tion and Judgment are under fine stimuli now. Don't attempt. to force your ideas on others. however. A quiet. persuasive manner will yield better results. I The evening favors the promo- tion of ingenious ideas. so why not put yours to work in your leisure hours? It might result in unexpect- ed prom. For the Birthday If tomorrow is your your horoscope promises birthday that in WEEK'S SEW'-THRIFTY A Wrapon for your daughter! Just new two or three. Mother, and RELAX for the season! As you see. it has FEW pattern parts, whips up in a Jiffy. opens out to iron aid i child can dress herself so easily! Make it in cotton in flower-fresh pastel colors! Pattern 4634: Children": Sizes 2. 4. 8, I. 10. Size 6 takes 2I,g yards 35-inch fabric. This pattern easy to use. simple to sew. is tested for fit. Has com- plete illustrated instructions. Send Thirty-five cents disc) in coins (stamps cannot be acceptedl for this pattern. Print plainly SlZ('. Name. Addrcu. style Number. Send order to ANNE ADAMS no The Guardian, 60 Front Street Welt, Toronto. Ontario. Modern Etiquette By Roberta Les 0. Is it out-of-date now to leach boys and girls to say. "Yes, iiia'am" and "No. malam." and "No, sir” and "Yes, air” to adults? A. "Yes. sir” is still correct for a boy when speaking to his father or other men but a girl should use the name of the person spoken to. as. "Yes, Mrs. Jones." The vinrd. "Msiam." is no longer in good form, and when a child doesn't knoiv the name of the person. he should add something to "yes" or "no," as. ” as. it is," or "No, 1 don't think so." Q. Is it permissible to sip WalFl' while one has food in his mouth? A. No: this is consia'ered bad manners. only when one has taken a bite of food into the mouth that is too hot to handle is a sip oi 3 water condoned. Q. When introduced to a per- son for the second time, what should one say? A. You may say. "I've already had the pleasure of meeting Mr. Smith” or I think i met Mr. Smith smith last month." financial or occupational matters. you will have the co-operation of influential persons during the sum- mer months. so try to capitalize on this excellent situation. Personal relationships will be under excel- lent aspects for the balance of the year and your social activities should be extraordinarily stimulat- lnll - especially during August and December. There is a possibility that you Continued on page 14 Beating The Het icelenougli for a dip. gland, scan: a wine hesitant Honored For Her Service Among Blind VICTORIA. (CF) - Mrs. Bessie Fowler. blind since 1934, is one of three women members of Lions Club International because of "her outstanding community service." With her on a vacation visit to Victoria was her seeing-eye dog. Roddie, seven-year-old doberman pimcher. her guide and friend for six years. Mrs. Fowler was honored by the Lions for teaching braille. raising funds to provide guide dogs and campaigning for the John Milton Society which supplies a religious magazine to the world's blind. with her husband, I... L. Fowler. chief mechanic for the public works department. Detroit. Mich, and the late Glenn Staines, one of North America's doberman ex- perts. she has been responsible for placing 400 seeing-eye dogs in the hands of the blind. HAS SHARP MEMORY Roddy has sharp wits. good man- ners and a first-class memory. Af- ter Mrs. Fowler has visited a per- son twice she has only to pro- nounce the person's name and Roddie will lead her straight to his office or house. In a hotel the bell boy has only to take Mrs. Fowler and Rocldie to a room once. and he will go back there on command. He takes Mrs. Fowler to the elevator. steers her around puddles and butts a path with his nose through masses of pedestrians on the street. "I feel as safe with Roddle as it ii had a person guiding me." the sill . Page 10 The Guardian (This article is another in Because it's wasteful. sary and often costly. destructive- ness in children arouses depsir in the hearts of many parents. Chil- dren who destroy things may be roughly divided into two main KTDUP-5:: ' Those who do it innocently or unintentionally. ' Those who do it deliberately with malice. Fortunately the former is much more common and parents who realize the distinction between the two groups. and seek out the un- derlying causes. are usually able to redirect their children's activ- ities and help forutall the more serious problem of malicious des- tructivencss. Let's take a look first of all at. the "innocent" types. "Puppy 00:" Tun Hera is the bouncing baby who has no respect for anything around the house. be it a family heir- loom or a Jar of cold cream. For All busindss when the harness is on. Roddie is ready for a fight or a frolic once it is removed. a-mum-Mmxx--2:: DOROTHY DIX . A Bored Boot S DEAR MISS DIX: I've been married eight years, have two children and expect a third in Oct- ober. My husband says now that I bore him, and he goes out ev- ery night on his own. i guess I'm not a very interesting personal- ity at that. I've never worked so haven't had much chance to meet people. i don't make friends easily. and even when people are pleasant to me, I don't hold their friendship. Since I am alone ev- cry evening. I'd like something to do after the children are asleep. Is there any school where I can de- velop my personality. improve my mind. or learn to be a more in- teresting person? Perhaps I'll never be able to win my hus- band's attention again. but at least i'd like to have a sense of personal accomplishment. OUTSIDE THE PALE ANSWER: High on my list oil people who "never would be mis-i sed" is the father who his children uninteresting. and is bored by the mother who cares for them all day. This same father almost invariably takes great de- light in bragging about his off- spring. showing their pictures. ac- cepting congratulations on each new arrival. But it never occurs to him that he has any obligation ivery reluctantly) as little money as possible to support his wife and children. If you think these fathers are rare. take a book around your own social circle. Many fathers Continued on page 10 Contract Bridge By Josephine Culbertson SAFETY PLAYS Safety plays are no different from other manoeuvres in this respect: they range from the so- called "standards" that every ex- perienced declarer should know. up to the ,more complicated and difficult-to-see varieties. The play Sofith needed in the following case was one of the simpler types. North dealer. gNorth-south vufnersh: .-. I QAJ4 V qAio75 QAJ10, H g.AKa A 75 ' Ql06 coin N In our WE W- Qloli 3 .875- &J96(3 AK -Ql(98G2 QKQ94 'QQ78 Thabiddirig: North East south West 2N'f' Pass 39 Fall sN'r Pass so Fun by Pass 6' Pass Pass Pan West opened the spade nine. De- clarcr won with the blank king and. after one pleased look at dummy. led the heart deuce. when West played the c three. south went right up with dummy's ace. Needless to say. he was horrified when last showed out, and now. West's distribution being what it was, the contract was lrretrlev- ably lost. ' The heart holding in the North- South hands cat for a standard safety play when. as in this case, the daclprer can well. afford to give up one trick in the eultvif- by doing so he insures himself against the loss of two tricks. This safety play is to .lead a low cardl frbm either the North or the south hand and. If the next opponent fol- lows suit, to play an intermediate card, not the rice or king. since South was in htaiown hand af- ter the first trick, he should have led the deuce of hearts and. when West played the three. put in the five. seven or ten from dummy. If But took this trick it would have to be with a heart honor. and than it would have been estab- considers l . to his family except to hand over - lilhld thlt thl hurt suit hid not b wbrae than 3-1. The heart ace I. king would take excellent care of the two hearts still out- standing. , him the desire to taste. feel and examine is all-important and a slap on the hand or loud ”No's" have little effect. Fill the needs of this child with toys that come apart and mud in which to dabble. Make sure that the valuables are well out of reach. as well as any- thing with which he might hurt himself. It helps. too. if he has a spot of his own for romping around. "Curious Monkey” Type Usually older and more orderly in his destructiveness. this child will dismantle a watch. unscrew door knobs and tear papers into tiny shreds. then more than likely. try to reassemble the bits and pieces. The rmterlal, the way it's put together, whether it will crack. splinter or shatter, are what in- terest him. A four-or-five-year-old who des- troys things not his own should be helped to fix up what has been damaged. but without scolding. Giving him proper play materials will help satisfy his inquisitive nature . . . old watches (found n unneces- OMEN Monday, June 28, 1954 CHILD TRAINING a series on child training do- algnod to offer guidance to parents. All publications are pre- pared by the Department of National Health and Welfare). Destructiveness PART I superflifity shops), broken dolls, odds and ends for his fix-it box, reading materials that explains how things are made. what makes them "tick" and so on. "null In China shop" Typo Then there is the clumsy child. He touches an article and it breaks; he bumps into things. knocks them over and demollshcs them with- out seeming regard. Help is what he needs. not scolding. The doc- tor will advise about his co-ordins- tion. sight and hearing. Often in Just a slowness in development calling for patience and under- standing in helping the child de- velop the knack of handling things. "Lion Cub” Type He doesn't know his own strength! Whether he is two or twelve. this child needs special handling. Broken couch springs, trampled garden flowers. flatten- ed pen nibs, bear witness to his muscular vigor. Such children should be protected against them- selves. Enforce rules consistently- No "wrutling in the living room" or "bouncing on the beds" or "touching Dad's desk." Constant reminders may be necessary and. what is more im- portant. plenty of alternatives. For the under six, supply a mat in the basement. heavy blocks. boxes. boards. climbing apparatus and swings for "muscle play". and a desk of his own. The older child should have opportunities for rough- and-tumble sports. With such out- lets for their abundant energies. super-activities in the house can be more readily curbed. When It's Deliberate While most children's destruc- tive acts fall into the four categor- ies listed above. there are two ad- ditional classifications which are met with. and which require more serious consideraton because they are the sources of deliberate and malicious destruction. (To be continued this week) . H Morning Smile I Macpherson had invited McTav- ish to have a drink. "Say when." he said. and poured a wee drop into the glass. McTavish was silent. cautiously Macpheraon poured out another drop. Again silence. "Did you hear about the fire at Sandy's?" said Macpherson. aid- denly. "When?" asked his friend. Macpherson put the bottle down with a sigh of relief. Bet-ter English By D. C. Williams 1. What is wrong with this sen- tence? ”The newspaper articlc.ia full of slander. and we are sure the writer will receive a suit." 2. What is the correct pronunci- ation of "ilasco" (complete failure)? 3. Which one of these words is misspelled? Explable, exquisite, ex- stacy. extricable. 4. What does,the word ”impro- vident” mean? 5. What is a word beginning with oe that means "a fact un- questionably established"? ANSW'El?.! 1. Say. "is full of libel. and we are sure the writer will be sued." Slander is spoken; libel is written 2. Pronounce fs-as-ko a as in fee unstressed. a. as in at. o as in no. accent second syllable. 3. Ecstasy. 4. Not providing for the future; thriftless. "His improvident life soon left him without money." 5. How Can I? By Anne Ashley Q. How can I give starch a brilliant luster? A. soak for five or six hours. one ounce of white gum arabic in one quart of water. then add two ounce. of born: and heat to the boiling point. Now add one ounce of, gly-, cerin. when oool. strain and bottle for use. Stir one tablespoonful of this mixture into every three quarts of starch used. Q. How can 1 make colored lcin without artificial coloring? ' A.' By using orange juice or egg yolk for yellow. spinach Juice for green. blackberry juice for lavender, or red beet juice for pink. Q. How can I keep a clothesllne from stretching? A. Boil the new clothesline be- fore using. It will make it last. long- er and prevent it from stretching. Household Scrapbook By Roberta Lea Purifying Air A small quantity of carbolic acid pound into a very hot. vessel will purify the air in a room. - Sunstroke The back of the neck is the weak- est spot of the spine. neck is well protected from the rays of the sun. Ants A remedy for driving away ants is to smear the infected cracks and corners with balsam of peru. Bul- Certainty. phur will drive away red a.i-its. THE most reliable of statistics tell during the Summer than travel the want. to fix up a place in the sun . you'll be able to enjoy every last minute of your leisure time. shout SUMMER FURNITURE that as satisfy your desire for cool comfort. The Furniture Departments of Both Holman Stores in Charlottetown and Summerside have grand arrays of the Summer Furniture you'll need. ished, sturdy hardwood. light-as-a-feather Aluminum or woven rattan with seats and backs of either colorful duck or glowing, serviceable Prices are reasonable. they start at 2.25 for I well made Come in today-you'll find exactly what you want to - a pleasant and thrilling as well as rut- ful interlude. The Furniture Departments of Both Holman Stores. "Saran". Camp Chair. make your Summer-at-it ro be really "corny"oyou'll be right in the Swim in a pair of the smart. comfortable SWIM TRUNK! from the Men's War Department of Holman's in Summai-side. There are a which to make your choice . . . All an well made. have inner lining: and supports and are in ai1.cs from 30 to 42. there iii the safety Suit-"Marksway" in a variety of colors and priced 5.95 (very little to pay for guaranteed safely in the water). Trunks of pure nylon in a handsome fawn shade are 4.96: elasticlned satin in Jockey style Trunks are 3.5 and 2.50. Our Swimming salon in short enough and you'll want to Trunks today for fun on the beach and in the water. The NONI Wear Department .of I-folman'a In us that more people stay at home country o'er! That being so, you'll . . in your own backyard-where Here's will both delight your eye as well Made of natural fin- umber of styles from For the non-swimmer, Boxer make the most of it-elioou Iwlm Summsrslde. DIVE right into the swim In one of the smart as paint SWIM SUIT! from either the Iudget Shop in the Charlottetown Store or the 5 and to of l-folmaifs in gummersitlel There are some beauties from which to make your important choice-Cotton Print or Cotton Plma in Bloomer or sophisticated skirt styles may be worn strapless or with a halter strap, these are priced a wee Ill shimmering satin with I cuffed bodice. front skirt and eiutlciud back and decorative flab motif. these are us: than (or 5.5 you can get a "latex" suit of rich besgatliia in a-tailored style small. medium or large and 32 lo 40. lei.-ure . . . You'll be smartly clad but good looking f of Holman'I. - with based but using. sins are swim with vial--lounge in in a Swim Iuit that's ' in ' , I I lilligan-Ford Wedding Prepare your favorite potato salad in Just a little different way. by adding Jello and tomato Juice. Your family are in for a treat when they sample this recipe. provided by Mount Stewart W.,I. JELLIID POTATO SALAD Mix 1 package lemon Jello with 15 cups tomato Juice and pinch of salt. Put approximately 2 cups of a favorite potato salad in bottom of loaf pan and pour the lemon- tomato mixture over it. i When set cut in squaru and serve on beds of lettuce. -Mrs. Ind Maononald, Mount Stewart W. 1. That Body of Yours By James W. BLIBOD. IL D; Mr. and Mrs. Leo Mllligan are seen with their attendants follow- lng their marriage at Trinity United Church Manse in Summersirla on Friday. June 11. 1954. The bride is the former Leona Ford. dnugh. MORE ABOUT OPEEATION TO BELIEVE UNCONTEOLLABLE GRIIF AND DEPRESSION when a patient has been under mental treatment for many 31005115 or even years. suffering great de- pression of spirits and uncontrol- labia grief. and fails to respond to any treatment, it is only natural to try to give the patient relief. even if it means surgical operation. Thus. a few years ago. iW0 NW0 surgeons Drs. Freeman and Watts. operated on the nerve or nerves gupplylng those important struc- tures in the brain which control these emotions. All that was expected from the operation. which was a great suc- cess. was relief from these symp- toms but. unfortunately, in many cases the patients became childish or irresponsible although some im- proved and made complete recover- ies. or course, this was not done until all other methods of treat- ment had failed. This operation is called transorbital lobotomy. Recently, in Neurology. Dr. W. W. Wilson reports on 400 D-INCH?-3 in state hospitals who had this op- eration. It is importarit to realize that every single one of these pat- ients had been considered hopeless , and had failed to respond to all other types of treatment. including insulin and clectro-shock. The average duration of illness of the group was almost eleven years and most of them had previously been conhncd to small aeclusio rooms (solitary confinement) for years. This gives us an idea of just how had these cases were considered. The operation is quite simple and well suited for use in ii. large state ter of Mr. and Mrs. Wilfred Ford. of Mt. Pleasant. The groom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Colin Milligan. of Conway. From left to right - are Wyman Ford. groomsman; Mr. and Mrs. Leo Milllgan. the bride. and groom: and Mrs. Patricia Lynch. matron of honor.-(Photo by Edwin Jleckbert Studio). ' ELLEN'S DIARY by an Island Farmer-'s Wife teasing that we "should go native and follow it up for a week or so" nevertheless the satisfaction it definitely there. And so we like to watch the clearing fires glow and burn. licking up the stumps and the roots. reducing them to strange ashes to be spread over the virgin soil about. Robins were busy bedding their babes when we reached the field; a neat song-sparrow trilled for us and from some other hinterland of that farm-of-home we caught the bell-like notes of a- wood thrush. The place was bare of hu- mans at. the moment-guns to their chorlng. They would return to re- pile the heaps now quietly smould- ering. "What have you been doing while you waited?" James smiled. obviously pleased to find us there when he and the younger farmer returned to their work. What had we done? Tidled for better burn- ing, the now-small remnants of a heap as we had so often before seen James do. As all the help did when presently. Rob too and the children came to join the rest to make what James calls "a good burning” with little litter .to be left Have you sometimes visited .l field-in-the-making in a remote place of the farm. kept by neigh- boring woodlands? Come there at the edge of evening by way of quiet meadows wherein a little wind of June like a fond mother hushed with an old lullaby the meadow - flowers to sleep? When a bit of dew-fall drew an aromatic spiciness from a hundred lowly plants to make a great pot pourri of delight? When the night was commencing to cast its restful shadows gently before in a wel- come coolness after the heat of the day sending the dusk to dim. fist. of all. the rim of far hills? 0 I 0 It was at that time then that. leaving this family to their chores we came this evening along the fields of the farm which lies be- tween to visit the patch of new at Alderlea. Why? Because of James" pressing invitation of to- day? not entirely, much as we honor the like, knowing that in all his-and their undertakings of the farms. our men appreciate and doubtless are helped by. feminine interest and approval. Was it maybe only that we much hwplmi Th” ”p'"uon' "6 9'" enjoyed the quiet places of the by the morninlt and the land formed on the Wards and A team "rm, never ionegomg mag. 01- about ready then for first cultiva- nf nurses and attendants can ens-'10” as we wmeume, conga, we tion. ily be trained in the course of two to four operations. Four operations take but fifteen minutes. What were the results of this transorbital lobotomy operation? The death rate was very low. Just 8 deaths in 400 patients. There were very few after-effects of operation. some being unable to control their urine for a few days and two or three cases of a very slight paraly- sis which also passed off. The really amazing ruult was that in one- half of the cases. there was what was considered marked improve- ment while another 25 per cent showed sortie improvement. when we remember that this group of chronically disturbed pat.- ienta were all considered hopeless and has resisted all other forms of treatment, it is quite clear that this type of treatment. is very well worth trying. are in the confusion of crowded scenes? Neither was it altogether on this account. We have a no- tion it was due to that same in- stlnct which prompted many wo- man of the years now about for- gotten to face unafraid and eagerly the untricd ways of pioneer life. We catch glimpses of this in our liking to gather dry. idle chips in our apron. or bits and pieces of weathered and discarded fence- rails dead by a field -side, in passing. notwithstanding the fact that we have always been privileg- ed to have access to an abundance of prepared fuel-wood. with which to light our fire to heat the tea- kettle. We find it again in our liking to drink and dip water from a spring for our cookery and we know that despite the Family's Study In Expressions We left them at work under thi stars-to tuck away the chicks fo( the night and write here. , ,Bu1 voices nearing tell of their hom- ing-happy voices and young tink- ling laughter in the night. "Com: downl" James calls beneath thi Window. I smile in his words. "oi maybe". he makes the childrel laugh. ”she doesn't feed her help- this grandmother of yours?" Until tomorrow - M .. Diary - - -- - Good-night . . . . g)iaciWL G ' ICI CRE-AM ,E-Iii; (K1 - or . I ON 3 I'll! 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