5F?‘ V! .t- ‘___PAGE EIGHT bu»... --. MAAIaLJAA-hml . Woman THE ’s Realm -:- Social and Personal -:- Fashions CHARLOTTETOWN GUARDIAN -:- Literature i SEPTEMBER 16. 1930 Q EASY T0 ovum AN ASH mu nu: By smoking Rosebud cut plug and saving poker hands. Every pi o smoker needs in}!!! tray; and (.6 men of the Marltlmel l re found out a V911’ 98W "d mp: .1, wny m obtain onv. The)’ furl r-ul plug and save U10 Thrm- rumplcfe sets of '11 nlmun a. nickls-plated r '1:-.n<i< : hand. may, El\' and lhrro-qilarter lnchcl 4mm w. Suspmders, founwn - f m“, r wing outfits, baro- are but a few "l 1110 mBBY uiiiPP valuabla p r e m i u m a available ta smo korl of’ plug. Quality nnn premium: are making this f i n e r 1 c h :.~‘...;:.-.1 acts yaw-fan's: . ll cvor the Marltlmea. ‘ r Sporlnl pn-mium sheet to 1s mule lflREd on r would 1.0 returned i! he said, “put down bl‘. bglli Llpzlallrg, pllzz." "‘ man 2n tho 2101f supply shop write “ts nnmr- on it. he hummnfd, ‘(let's (l you also p112 put down to." said the fellow, as . l). lo Mr. (‘ifs tag. vburu inspected the , urn, he ccoc-d: "Would 1 coon: 11".: one mun- favor, don hours l0 to 3."—Dally g inf A mild? llllE HER OWN Decided to take Lydia E. Pinkham’s Vegetable I Compound bfnnvfon, New Brunswiclv-"Bcfmu 4 other wnmcn about your medicinal- my last baby was horn Iwaa verywmk, ncrvnun and dis- cou I llW an vcrtincmcnt in the paper about a woman who had been like me an I bought a bottle of Lydia E. Pink- hanfs Vegetables Ifosebudcui. é - I ' 6.. I » l I ,' i 2 , v . é a, if.‘ . ,' f ,' . - i l ll .. ' I 4| x’ y. w ‘ (lompoundfltook three hnttlra and it carried nmmfe- l . ly through that l ' - m crifiral time. l have threo children to care for and I z fez-l well and strong. l have told two Mus. (its AnsnN/lmn‘, R2 Albert Shred. . hfuuvwn, New Brunswick. hard wheat. ls it then surprising that among the women of the Maritime Provinces who bake their own bread, there should today be such a widespread preference for lustrated. A The women of’ the Maritime Provinces whobakd their own bread demand the highest quality of flour the world produces-the highest qualify of flour that can be milled from the l What the Fashionable are Wearing r Illustrated Dressmaking Lesson Furnished With Every Pattern i I . l By Annabelle Worthington .______. ‘U! 3,,” .. Q i‘ ' _ . 2506 n‘! --¢'_?‘F\ .' , l _' y‘: , \ 3230 c‘ . r ' I .1" g6 czao zcoc All patterns 15 cents each in stamps or coln (coin preferred.) No. 2623--The skirt of this snappy sports costume approvies of a wide all-around box-planed flounce w flare its hem. The tuck-in blouse of shirt waist type Ls youthfully becoming with tum-down collar. Designed for sizes l4, l6, 18, 20 yiears. 36, 38, 40 and 42 inches bust. . Size 36 requires 2% yards of 39-inch material for skirt and 2%; yards cf 39-inch material for blouse. No. 2625—It's ycuthfully smart and practical. You'll love the moulded princess lines of this snappy tweed coat that flares so attractively toward the hem, creating an animated impression. Designed for sizes 14, 16, l8, 20 years, 36, 38, 40 and 42 inches bust. Size 36 requires 212 yards of 54-inch material with 2M yards of 39-inch lining and 1% yards of 5-inch fur and ‘A. yard of 35-inch contrasting. No. 3230-50” will be boys! And it is interesting to note the effect in their mannerlsm when garbed in mannlsh fogs as the English sack suit il- 1t Ls qultc like dad's and gives young lads such a big thrill to wear a real mannish suit. Designed for sizes 4, 6, 8 and l0 years. Size 8 i requires 2% yards of 35-inch material with V; yard of 35-inch lining. Continued 0n Page 9 Etiquette Bylobflhlfi - ‘ Q. Ia it permissible for one to aid , the servant in removing the plates by l stacking them? A. Never. {T} Q. Should a man use pcrfumed ‘i’ stationery or envelopes with gay lin- ma? l A. No; the man of good taste use: ‘plain white unruled paper and en- i velopcs to match. Q. What is the real test of perfect manners? A. Never to offend the senslblll- ties of others. We regret to learn of the illness: of Q Mr. Thomas Warner, Rollo Bay a, Centre. _~ from the clty and are very gay affairs with plenty of hlp flasks, and the men l conducting a. blg business, Dorothy Dix " LettergBox Thrills Fade After Long Engagement. but Love is Generally a “Lean Horse’ for a Life Journey. Unhappily Men Have Foo .. _.Trouble ' . n”, M1" Dix-f have been engaged to a young manfcr more than a. year and it will probably be two more years before we can be married. Herc is my problem: Wm]; .1 h“; “m, gwpped loving him for one minute and he 10v" mg a; much as ever, we no longer thrill each other. I don't want it to be this way. I want. all the sweet romance. 1 want my heart to beat faster even tlmc he uya I love you and every time he touches m! hand. As it is we have got so that we fuss at each othsr half of the time, and the other half I am continually thinking of how much the things he does and says would have thrilled me a year ago while now they don't even stick ln my mind. And I know that he doesn't thrill over my every word, either. How can I keep hinrforever interested in me as he was at first. SUE. l l l I AIISWQIZ Can you keep the dew on the rose? Or a bud from unfolding? you make tho first flint pink-flush of dawn l permanency? No more can you keep the glamour about any human relationship. surprise, the novelty, the wonder of it is gone. It becomes a repetition. You know what to expect and the klck ls gone. That ls why you no longer thrill at your lover's kiss, or have palpltatlon of the heart at the sound of his foot- steps, and why your romance begins to look bedrngged and frayed around the edges. Furthermore, the reason that. you and your sweetheart quarrel over trlfles is because you are both secretly resentful because the other has not the power to give back again those first oments cf rapture. . Each of you feel that the other is letting you down. It is as if some one who had been feeding you on champagne had only a glass of water to offer you. 1111s ls one of the inevitable results of a long engagement, this tired feel- ing, this sense of disillusionment. People who are engaged for a long time are much more apt to have it than married people because in marriage other interests are substituted for the love interests. ‘The thrill of settling down to the real business of life and the thrill of going to housekeeping and having a baby takes the place of the old romantic thrills. Besides husbands an<l| wives do not expect to subsist on gooey sentiment so they are not always testing their kisses to sec lf they arc as sweet as they used to be and have the same flavor. Can , l There can never be but one first time about anything. After that the ‘ he doesn't love his wife, that her voice gets on his nerves and that he should The thing for you to realize is that there ls no possible way to enccrcl thrills and make them a continuous performance. Nor is there any possible way by which you can keep yourself and your sweetheart keyed up to a high emotional pitch. You are foolish w try it, and you are still more fool- lsh to let your failure make you unhappy. The rainbow-chaser; are no sllller than the romance-chasers becausci they never find it. Just as they think they have grasped it, lt. turns to, nothing in their hands. It is the thrill hunters who make the unfaithful ‘ husbands and wives because they are always thinking that some one has an allurement for them that their husbands or wlfe has not, and that. they would get a klck out of being married lo some other woman or man that,‘ they do not get out of their present partners. So make up your mind that the thing that has happened to every one‘ else has happened to you, and that you have passed through the thrills of love and come to the better part which is not uncertainty but surety. You have wakened up from love‘; young dream and found lt a reality. You‘ have found a man who no longer ldeallzcs you, but who loves you in spite of your faults and shortcomings. and you feel the same way about. him. You do not. see hlm as a fairy prince but as a man whom you can tic to. You l no longer thrill at his coming. but you have the blassed assurance that he will always be there when you need hlm. And that is what makes happl- ~ ness in marriage. Congeniality, certafnness, companionship. E And quite expecting each other to say things that thrill you or to keepl up any hlgh pressure love-making. Come down to earth and talk about; y commonplace subjects and then you won't quarrel. _ DOROTHY DIX. I I O I I O Dear Miss Dix-The company by which my husband ls employed throws ‘parties occasionally for the stcnographers of the office and our husband's, l employes only, wives not invlfzd. These parties are held at a lake miles are expected Lo bring the girls back home. What. chance has a wife in a last year's frock when her husband ls thrown in direct contact with pretty young girls who spend every dollar of lheir salaries on themselves and dress to the nth degree? Perhaps I am wrong, but f believe that large business corporations should wish for the l good will of their employea’ wives and certalntly this ls no way to galn it. a WIFE. .__.i_. Answer: _ I should say not. I don't know what that company manufactures, but as a trouble-maker ft la a world beater, and it sounds as lf it were a run- ner-up for the divorce court. How anybody with some enough to run an apple cart, to say nothing of coulud have little enough lntelllgence tc think they are advancing the lnfcrests of their concern by bringing married men and young girls together ln social relationship at such affairs passes com- prehension. What they really are doing ls promoting flfrtatlons. in which the guests are married men and business girls are common ,5, but the men who give them are gener- ally prudent enough to invade other men's cfllcea, not their own, for their guests, for experience hu taught them that friendship with all, entfngllng ‘ alliances with none, ls a good motto for a business house aa well a: a coun- ' try, and that nothing so demorallau an office u an office scandal. A year or two ago one of our big railroads made l survey to ascertain 0f course whoopec partlu For The Cook BACON SALAD best Manitoba i Mlx one-half cup diced apples, lone-half cup diced 681611’. and 0119- ‘quarter cup mayonnaise dressing.’ Let stand l0 minutes. Shred one lsmall firm head lettuce, add to it lone cup diced cooked breakfast lbacon. When ready to serve combine the mixture and serve. Hoadacb often relicv without "doting" Vtfififi _'- the domestic status of its employer, and it established the fact that the men i who were happily married and got along amlably with their wives were bet- j ler able to concentrate on their work, were more efficient, more reliable and y more ambitious, and therefore more valuable to the company than the men“ who were unhapplly married. In view of this how nah the policy of a company that would literally 3 throw pretty young gfrla into tho urns of married men at parties to which g-nuzrprm-urrddvm . woulrm how llllllflppy he ls and how his wife doesn't understand hlm, ltils , that he wants to step out with a pretty girl. , BE A REVELATION Mourns: woman are grateful for the new ‘, praised it as being better-co many have recom- ' mended it. to their friends-that to-day it is f preferred everywhere. ,' The disposable centre of Modess is made of an ‘ entirely new substance, that is soft and llufy as down. ll. docs away with the irksomcncsa and discomfort (if old slylc methods. Because of its substance and composition, its fine tapering edges, , Modess is really more pliable and snug fitting, ~ more comfortable and absorbent, than any other 1 hygienic napkin on lhe market. i With hlndcss [he old fear of" a pencil-alive ab- i aorbency is banished, because Modes! has a moisture-proof back, which protects the most l MACEII 8 ives better belting h: bolting mulls. can always be mum! cl the l Ill; Q Look for this null: ell W" If I: our gumntn the! Milk?‘ u‘! Povvdol docs not contain I my hunluI lngmillfll- Toronlo Montreal lhc wives are not even invited, and who would forcc the men to notice; how mucnpreftler and younger and gayer these young glrla are than their wlvcr. who are worn with child-bearing and penny-pinching. For it is one thing for a. man to sec Miss Sweetums at her desk where she is just part of the office machinery and where he might never-give her all decked out. in her glad rags at u. party when perhaps he has had enough | cocktails to make every woman look like a hourl straight from Paradise. And I wonder how much work that company gets out of the married men the next day after they have listened to what their wives had to say about the party when they got home! DOROTHY DIX- Dear Miss Dix-What do you think of a man who tells his secretary that be pltied fcr having to live with her, and that he is heart-broken-because he can't have any cf his relatives vlslt hlm because his wife quarrels with them all, and then tums around and tells the wife that she is all the world to hi mand sends her flowers on their wedding anniversary and takes her with him and sends hcr flowers on their w eddlng anniversary and takes her with plaints about hi; wife and I think he fa a skunk to say such things about her and then pretend to be so devoted to her. K- B- F- Answer: Ncnrly always when n man complains about his wife and tells another the lime-honored approach to a. flirtation. ft is the way he justifies himself f for his rlsloyulty, and nine tin-res out of ten it doesn't mean a thing except l He may be really fond of his wife and admire science ln some way and his wife's shortcomings an ll good a. cloak as any to hide behind. Or efse he may complain of his wife because he is a weakllng who likes If you use Magic, than m; I63.‘ good mulfs with all your baking. flhh he! was revealed In a man! DOIIIIIOMWHO Investigation. STANDARD BRANDS LIMITED: GILLEII’ PRODUCE P‘ lid Bunclm In Ill the principal cldu 0| Canada B Ai'|<s: lcn vc -Q |= o w n r R results. .1’ 3 out of ovary 4 Canadian Housci yvlvuf who bait: at home, IGY they use Magic Belting Powder because If give: consistently bet- llycu beltoatllollll 10nd for the Now Mcgletooh Bock. If will pvcvldoyon with dozen: of lnlomllng suggestion: to halp you with zaurbaltlng. Accpy will a uni Inc on n- qflflL. Winnipeg Vancouver = A Momingsnrilc An nbscuL-mulded professor was in the recckvlng line at a faculty u. caption for the students. One of tbs l students who worked part tuna Ln g tailors shop and who had made sev- l oral shirts for the professor, ap. l proached the professor. The latter ll not recalling his identity, extend“ his hand cordially and said: "You; face is familiar, young man, but for the moment I cannot remember who you are or where I have seen you." The student blushed and whispered in the professor's car: Made your shirts, sir." "Ah, to be sure," said the prof“. scr turning to the lady next to him in llne, "Mrs. Brown, permit m; m present Major Shurtz." 3N0 More» Piles HEM-ROID, the prescription of Dr. J- S. Leonhardt, 1s guaranteed m banish any form of Pile misery. It Rives quick action even in old, stub- born cases. HEM-ROID succeeds be- to be pitled. Or he may really secretly dislike his wife, but be so afraid of her that he shows her attentions to save himself from her temper. And the reason that he complains to his secretary is because she is the only one he | dares talk to. He would be ashamed tn show himself such-a cad to another‘ man, and he would be afrad a mutual friend would tell his wife. and be- sides a lat of mcn consider that it is part of a secretary's Job to listen to their domwllt- Pl". of wccs. / DOROTHY DIX- i cause it heals and strengthens the affcctcd parts and removes blood (“llllcstlon in the lower bowel-the cause of piles. Only an infernal medicine can~do this, that’; why rmlvcs and cutting fall. Hughes Drug 00., Ltd. and drugglsts everywhere sell HEMROID with guaranfze that ft cost you nothing ff it doesn't ent all Pile nanny. [Ts COMFORT WILL box to-day. qualities of Modecs. So many of them have delicate dress. witbzModess you purchase 0on3 fidcncc and convenience, at a cost ridiculously low in proportion to the valuc you get. Just try a Modess i; {yim/Zeé Pmawc ILDR II fllllfll World‘ | Iargul mabm of lurgko-Izrrilillfll. M0440"!