‘l: - e- ti’ ' a ' ., . _ . . _ _ . , , , , l’. . ,. F h ,._.._g t t ,. . . oman s Realm -.- Social and Personal -.- . as tons. . . l 9T0 l1?‘ 1% ____ , _ ,_ __ ___”__ _____ _ m ~ m . V ——= _ And she will know how to make allowance for her husband. and will not . I , ma; a ::.::*:::.'*:.12m:r.:?::::s::.:?;:::';:'::::.r:.“:.:r.::::.::.%i: "awake" "leis ‘ gfietbwltthw m1 DI! D D ' i c"“° t“ hind his newspaper. because she has been that frazzled out herself, and felt By labile he v _ O ' - ' “b, y 1x Dlseetlsfac" that the greatest boon on‘ earth would be. for the family Just to quit asking - , ' , ' 4 l - her questions and pioffering her suggestions. " V _ , , . _ ' » _.____ _ _ . I “"“ "P" Creations that “The Reason Husbands and Wives Have so _Unfortunately men never undcrstucly women and so get-no opportunity gmblg the diic , Little-Sympathy With Each Other is Because Neither One Knows From Experience How Heavy and How Irksome are the Burdens the Other has to Bear”- A woman said to me the other da y: "when I was e. young wife 1 usedto borrow trouble about my husband having ceased to love me because he didn't pay me as many gallant attentions as he used to do before we were married. I shed barrels of tears over my sad fate as a neglected wife, because he didn't want to dress up and take me _ cut of an evening about three or, four times a week, to learn first hand the disadvantages of the feminine lot. Occasionally when l man underta"es to keep house in his wife's absence and finds out that every dish in the house is piled up in the kitchen sink and the groceries are ex- hausted and the laundry hasn't bccn sent, out and the beds are unmade and there are three weeks’ newspapers on the floor, he has a fainlisuspicion that perhaps doing the housework for a family isn't such a cinch as he thought it was. . Likewise, after a Sunday afternoon taking care of the children hiss made a wreck of him, many a man looks at his wife with awe and Wtmderg how she does it all day and every day. but for the most part men have no conception of how monotonous and never ending is the work of the wife and mother. If they did, they would do more to lighten and brighten it. DOROTHY DIX. Wall paper can be cleaned by rub- bing with cotton, tied to l. broom handle. Stale bread can also be used for cleaning spots from wall paper. Valuable Space When a table is not needed at all times and where space is valuable, nail a hinged table flap against the wall in the kitchen or pantry. ‘String Bc ms $4.."- H , gfuss over doing the few light tasks appertaining to that part. of the partner- and I thought him groucl-iy and grumpy because he didn't compliment the dinncr and because he would sit up silent behind his paper of an evening instead of entertaining me with sprightly conversation, and often would merely grunt by way of answer when 1 spoke to him. "Well. my poor, overworked husband died and 1 had to take his place as best I could. I am now the - head of the house, earning the living for my mother and my children. nnd I am going through Just. what he did. ' “I love them Just as he loved us. but when I come home worn out and Iced to think, tlicy smother me with questions, with things they want to tell me. with demands on me mil, I think, oh, if theyvwoulcl only let me rest in mind and body for just one hour I could then be pleasant and amiable and amuse them! Instead of‘ that they want to know what I've been doing all day and who I saw and what they said ancl can't they have this and won't I take them to thc movies, and when l take refuge in silence to keep from say- ing something pcevish just because my nerves have been worn to fiddle strings the children look hurt and my mother calls me sulky. "And all I want is Just to be let alone. Not to be talked to, not to be told to come over to a better light, or to go and lie down, or to read this book. Just to be let alone for only one hour while I get myself together. “So if I were giving any advice to a. young bride I would say: If you want to keepyour husband eating out of your hand and thanking his lucky stars that he got you for a wife, meet him with s. glad, sweet smile when he comes home and then BEAT 1T. Give him one hour of peace and rest and sil- ence and he will be a. perfect lamb the remainder of the time." ‘ These words of wisdon; confirm my often-expressed theory that the reason husbands and wives have so little sympathy with each other is becausenei- ther one knows from experience how heavy and how irksome are the burdens the other has to bear. Each just naturally thinks that the other got the “soft end of the bargain and docsn't see why he or she should make ‘such a _shlp. Now, if we had to work, and sacrifice as the other does, etc., etc., he! “or she would know that marriage is no picnic. Very few of us have enough imagination to put ourselves in anothefs place and realize how life looks from the other point of view. This is why the ..woman who has never had to supple herself is so often extravagant. To her money is just something that is given to you to supply your needs and she td-irows it away because she doesn't know that every dollar is earned with toil and sweat. and that a man has given part of his very heart's blood for it. And it is why the domestic woman, to whom going downtown is a lark. thinks of her husband's business as a perpetual round ofmpieasure anddoesnt see why he is tired and worn at the end of the day. and doesn't want to go out to danee at night. BEA U7 lilllll ‘ill? PROBLEDIS OF EXCESSIVE PERSPIRATION Excessive perspiration. to those; who have in cope with it, is one of the most annoying beauty problems‘ In summcrtime we all poi-spire more‘. freely than in winter, which, of‘ She never visions an office as a battlefield in which a man fights dcs- . perately every day for hL life and for the safety of those dearer to him than , life. Nor docs she see him, when night calls a. halt on theconflict, coming | home as a spent warrior, sorely wounded and exhausted and in need of suc- *3‘. She only sees him as a cross and irritable man who snaps her head of! l._[ she speaks to him. ‘ ________ j And it is because a man only sees his home as a place of peace and rest, where good meals automatically appear on. tit: table. and clothes pick them- iielves up off of the floor and hang themselves up on hooks in a closet and l éhildren are amusing toys to play with, that he thinks that running a house 5nd raising a family of children is a job that a woman can perform with one ' hand tied behind her, and in the intervals of going to bridges and attending teas. ' ' > He has never cooked a meal in his life, or swept a floor, or washed a baby, qr fixed a babysbottle, and -he has no~ldea whatever of the ceaseless labor nhd plarning that-it takes to make a comfortable home. , . Or course, now that women are beginning to earn their own bread and lqurier and do men's work. they are getting a cose~up on how the other half lives, and for this reason the business woman is going to make the best am: "rnost understanding wife the world has ever seen. She is not going u; throw sway her husband's money, because she knows how hard-it is earned, she is not going to riieet her husband at thefront door with all the bad news vhe can think of, because she will remember that when she carne home tired find warn at night it seemed to her that if she had to hear of even one more iripleasant thing it would be the straw that broke the camel's back. \ i course, is natural, and the pei-spir-t . . _ ation often spoils clothcs nnd liosicry. ‘ The excess sweating may be in tlic armpits, on the palms of the hands or the soles of the feet, on the shoul- ders, back, scalp, brow or upper lip. ‘Phechlcf function of perspirnlion‘ is to regulate the heat of the body, and of course a certain amount is normal. The tiny sweat glands in the ‘ skin are constantly secreting, but in. such minim quantities that much of the moisture evaporates without our becoming conscious of it. Vigor, ous exorcise, heat and ncrvousneslsi increase the amount. l Excessive Persplration Aside from this norms.) sort of‘ perspiration, easily regulated by a _ change in dress, cleansing baths, re-y freshing toilet waters and powdery] there is a type resulting from ncr-[ vousness or general poor health. In} these cases profuse sweating occurs‘ on the surface of the skin. like the palms of the hand, undcrarms, solos of the feet, scalp, forehead nnd lip. Cases or thissort may be helped by the application of astringent washes and powders, which give tcm- ; porary relief, but for a real cure it is‘ y to build up the general, r:nf&sé$ar.t&izj.tii=fifii r I Children's shoes- juet like those of ., Wwpfifi-afilfilébrfi . . C , ¢~ r une-ipd brffl-rtl]; pol- ished. ky-githe daily use of ‘ _¢.~s-._= .¢e-u.sess.e..a-uw.s ensnewk-A‘: ~ health and mental poise. Sometimes} a change from rich, spicy foods to a simpler diet will help. Usually, if notl always this trouble is accompanied‘ by marked nervousness, which may be a symptom of some internal con- dition that needs adjusting. A thor- ough physical examination should be had to ascertain the underlying cause. and when this is found and remedied both nervousness and ex- cessive sweating will gradually dis- appear. Trouble Often Mental when. however, e physical cause cannot be discovered. one must look for the course of the trouble in the mind and » emotions. In cases 9f nervousness or lack of self-control the patient herself must be her own doctor and use her own common sense to change mental habits that are destroying her beauty, comfort and happiness. The unpleasant odor that often eq- com ' exoessi e sweating may be due to a functio l disorder of the sweat glands er to a chemical change in the sweat after it has been secret- tiol to wash off the secretions fre- ed. Whatever its cause, it ts essen- queatly. since even nomial sweat has an offensive odor when it becomes ltlli. ‘ By LOIS LEEDS The stocking! and shoes should be dusted inside with borlc acid ‘ Shake well. Apply with a clean piece stockings daily is very necessary. Do not wear the some shoes every day, have ‘e change to wear on alternate days. morning. At bedtime steep the feet for a minute or two in e solution 01 W“. made by adding ateupogp: Y ARTs i -r-. Care of the Armpits The armpits should be washed with special care each night with warm water and soap. Rinse thoroughly in cold water. Dry thoroughly. They may be kept sweet by bathing in salt waicr and using an astringent toilet water. A simple lotion for this pur- pose is made of 3 ounces alcohol, i ririim iannic acid, 2 ounces cologne wntor and 3 ounces witch-hazel of absorbent cotton and allow it to dry on the skin. After the lotlton has dried dust with a little powder con- sisting of boric acid and starch. Here is a. good recipe: One ounce powder- ed orris root, 1-2 ounce powdered alum. 5 ounces borlc acid, 4 ounces powdcrcd march. Mix thoroughly. Deodorants, of course, are not to take the place of soap and water, nor do they claim to check sweating. All they do is neutralize the odor. 'I‘hey.are harmless when used ac- cording to directions. The armpits should be kept smooth and clean, reliable depllatories are used for this purpose. A deodorant cream, liquid or powder should be npplicd regularly. Those who do not wishwo use commercial preparations may bathe the armpits in salt water overydnyhridvuse the above lotions. This will keep them sweet. Ifcrspiring Fort For’ feet ‘that perspire excessively, roomy shoes with ventilated uppers and cork insoles will be helpful. At the close of the day the soles and thfi feet should be spongcd with an an- Roomy with Int-listed IFPU‘ tlseptio lotion and e-powder used regularly. onjthefeet and insidrof the shoes, A change of shoes and Wash the feet’ every‘ night and the time if they are cut lengthwise instead of being broken into two parts. For 172a Cook PEANUT BUTTER FUDGE Two cups granulated sugar, 1 small tin evaporated milk, a few grains of salt. Cook until it threads, or forms a soft ball in cold water. Remove from fire and bent into ltd/i pound peanut butter and l teaspoon vanilla. A MorningSmile Dorothy. Jun; Momma, docs daddy eat cats? Mother: Why, of course not, child. What makes you ask such a ques- tion? Dorothy. Jun: Well, daddy 551d they raised a_ big kitty at. the poker party last night and then they all had a. good feed! zzsleep is a great nourisher of in- fants, and withou peaceful sleep the child will not thrive. This cannot be got if the infant be troubled with worms. Miller's Worm Powders will destroy worms nnd drive them from the system. and afterwards the child's rest wtiii be undisturbed. The powders cannot injure thd m t String beans will cook in one half‘ A Penman: Product Canadian woman to keep always in step with style. FULL FAIHIIONED HOJE LINGERIE / delicate baby, nnd there is nothing‘, so effective for rcstoring the hcalth* of a worm-ivorn infant. A Fashion Hint ful'oi' borux to each pint of water. Dry them well between the toe, then sponge with the following lotion and‘ allow it to dry on the skin: One, ounce tannic acid, 3 ounces alcohol,‘ 3 ounces cologne water. Then dust‘! with the foilotving powder: :Flve' ounces borlc acid, l-2 ounce salicylic acid. The stockings and shoes should be dusted inside with borlc acid, or equal parts of borlc acid and starch. Together with the above treatment, a good plan to check the perspiration and prevent odor is to soak the stockings after washing them in a strong solution of borlc acid (1 ounce of borlc acid to 1 pint of winter), tlicn hang the stockings out lo dry without wringing them. +13 SORE ACHING MUSCLES SLI/utkrog d . tZ¢5tZOT41f K / . soreness and plin which ' usually follow etrmuoul exer- dee; it: will ltlrt the blood dreuletlng with renewed vigor: and It will dissolve-the oon- gpition which is the out of the trouble. Abeorblne. In.‘ is e etninorbusntheelrinendh‘ ‘ ' , safe. Hakeem; etlngotitcfnmburnuudkeqae bsorblneii little Paris import that you can make in In hour or two. handkerchief linen. An applique bor- der of yellow chicks with running stitch in pale green is so effective. It lelultsscomfortsbleelltlssmart ‘mefiontandbeekofdressarelotn- ed to round yoke with fegotinl. which also appears on brief sleeves. The full cut d! skirt allows plenty a for active little girls svhoiike to play. m insist upon wearing dainty. from. It‘: lo mm in orchid chunbrny with V1194 Pique 70h. llfllled dimlty 4 and 6 years. It is offered at cost price i cenls as a service to readers; who sew. Trans. cents extra. New Summer Fashion Book is just filled with Paris and New York styles attractively presented adapted for the use of home sewers. A book far superior to all previous issues. Price 15 cents, but may bc ob- tained for 10 cents if ordered with a pattern. Q. Should a man refer to his wife.‘ ' c n l" t ma‘ when ‘mong acquaintances. as ably} itllnurrln Llnimsnt for o I wife," or as "Mrs. Brown"? A. "Mrs. Brown." Q. Wlicn calling upon a woman I im apartment house, may 0n! BO ° up u; the aPbflllftfllltJ-lllfillllQllnfied7 'A. No. unless the woman is a ver intimate friend. Request the hall bu to telephone the hostess before goin ip. , ~' Q. What docs "(lcinl-tnssc" mean A. Literally. it means a hall-cut but in social usage it. is a small cu in which black coffee is served. No. m‘ (blue) is. and cleverly ::Mothcrs can easily know whet their children are troubled Will ivorms, and they lose no time in aP .piying_ a reliable remediwhmhe Graves" Worm Exterminator. Etiquette Iylhbertahe H: The Style No. 27M is a copy of e It is pale blue om 4p gflNCTI Vlfl ELECTRIC P ' GENERAL@sLncrR1c oped genius! - Idyfun: Avenged‘ a aigcyecn. Ltd