PAGE TWO Mangaret Truman may have to change her travel plans and fly back to the United States to ful- fill her singing commitments. She told 9. press conference to- day she may have to go home by air unless her ship leaves Naples July 5 as scheduled. She is scheduled to asil aboard the Con- stitution which was held up in New York by a seamen's strike. She arrived in Rome accom- panied by three secret ser- vice men from Paris for what she hoped would be a "strictly priv- ate" vacation in Rome and Nap- les. The U. S. PraEident's daugh- ter seemed particularly pleased that 'no fuss." had been made about her arrival. The "official" greeting party was made up of four couples, including U. S. Am- bassador and Mrs. James C. Dunn, and the representatives of the ltaliln government. Miss Truman was driven directly from the station to the Villa Taverna, home of the Dunns where she will stay during her visit. - c . o In the Church of St. James the Apostle, Montreal, the marriage was solemnized of Miss Patricia Dorothy Carson, daughter of Brigadier Sir Frederick Carson and the late Lady Carson, and Mr. John Brooke Claxton, son of the Minister of National Defence and Mrs. Brooke Claxton, of Ottawa. Rev. Ralph Latimer officiated amidst. a setting of white peonies. Mr. J. F. Martin played the wed- ding muuic. The bride was given in marriage by her father, and attended by Miss Kathryn Mas- on, as maid of honor. The brides- maids were Miss Helen Claxton. Miss Joanne Hcwson, Miss Bar- bara Watson and Miss Dorothy Anna Carson, as flower girl. Mr. David Claxton was best man and the ushers were Mr. David Mac- kenzie, Major F. S. Carson, Mr. James Soden, Lt. Col. R. J. Cax- son, Captain P. J. Carson. Mr. Bruce Chisholm and Mr. Donald Drenrian. . . Dr. M. M.' Macodrum, pre1sl- dent of Carleton College, Mrs. MacOdi-um and their young daughter, are leaving Ottawa to- day to spend 'a monthls vacation in Prince Edward Island. I I I Rev.-James T. libbott and his son. Jimmie, are leaving next week aboard the "Franconia" for I holiday in England. They will return to Charlottetown early in September. I I Miss Aludrey De:Blois is arriv. ing today from Montreal to spend 5 I week with her parents. Mr. and Mrs. Noel H. Dc-Blois at their Koppoch summer home. . . . - Captain K. R. McLay, Halifax, visited recently with his sister-in. law. Mrs. A. Piercey and Rev. A. Plercy at the Rectory, Milton, I I I Mr. and Mrs. Earle Baker have as their guests Lt. Col. J. K. S. Manuel and Mrs. Manuel. Col. Manuel is on the Headquarters Staff of Eastern Command in Halifax. on. Mrs. Wilson E. Hunt of Mal- den. 1lfIB.ss.. who has been visit- ing with her niece, Mrs. R. R. Bell. is leaving on Monday for hm1e..Mrs. Hunt is sailing in a few weeks time for a holiday in the United Kingdom. I 3 I Before the opening dance of the Golf Club a cocktail recep- 'tion was Elven at "Lakewood," Tracadie. by Mr. and Mrs. J. A. Likely. Mr. and Mrs. A. G. Hogan, Dr. and Mrs. Kent Irwin, Dr. and Mrs. T. A. Laldlaw, I I 0 Dr. and Mrs. Donald Campbell and Mr. and Mrs. G. E. I-Iartlen leave this week-end for a fish. ing trip in Nova Scotia. I it I A Silver Anniversary party was given on Friday last at the home of Mr. and Mrs. W. M. Mellish, 20 Brighton Road, in .-Needglecrafb brmnn oooanox mess The season's simple. slimmer sil- houette . . . but with enough soft- hes: in the pout of a sine drape to make it especially wearable! The 5 amp squared neckline is another new idea. A No. 2557 is cut in sizes 10. 12, 14. l 16, 10, W. Size 16. 495 yards 39- Inc. Bend m for each PA'I'I'.IlRN which includes com-pleto sewing guide. Print Your Name, Address and style Number plainly. Be sure to ltate size you want. Include postal unit. or zono number in your lddresa. Address Pattern Department The Charlottetown Guardian. Pattern No. Z”? .:..?.M..M....:.MM. I Name Address Province BE PREPARED FOR HOSPITALITY WITH (Q1157? Happenings of . The Week honour of Mr. and Mrs. R. S. P. Jardinc who received many gifts in silver from their friends. I I I At the annual meeting of the Provincial Auxiliary Protestant Orphanage, Mrs. H. E. Miller, on behalf of the Charlottetown Aux- iliary, presented Mrs. Henderson with a lovely gift, marking Mrl. Henderson's 25th year as an of- ficer of the Charlottetown Aux- iliary. I I I A choral wedding was solemn- ized in St. John's Anglican Church, York, Mills, Toronto, on Saturday, June sixteenth, when Constance Kennedy Conacher, daughter of Mr. Lionel Conacher, M.P. and Mrs. Conacher was un- ited in marriage with John Fred- erick Murphy, son of Mr. and Mrs. Martin Payne Murphy of Westmount. Quclbec. The Rev. Canon 0. C. McCollum officiated. Among the guests was Miss Lena McLure of Charlottetown. Miss Leila Worthy of this City is godtmolthcr to Mrs. Murphy, nee Constance Conacher. Mrs. W. T. Weir, West St., City. left this week on a visit to friends Calgary and Van- couver. in Miss Elizabeth Martin has arrived from Toronto, and will spend a month's holiday at Kep- poch Beach. Ml'S. Lloyd Wellner entertained THE GUARDIAN. FitzC-erald - Moore. Wedding Mr. and Mrs. Terence L. !'itz-'ing their marriage at. Saint Pet- Gerald photographed as they cut er's Cathedral. Rev. Canon E. M. at her Keppoch summer home on Tuesday for Mrs. Harry Ritchie of Ottawa who is spending some time visiting at Government House with her brother, Lieuten- ant Governor T. W, L. Prowse and Mrs. Promzei Irving. Mrs. Albert Wilson, Mrs. Melville Andrew, Mrs. Lilian E. Wonnacott, Mrs. I. A. and Mrs. J. E. Burnett. I I Mr. and Mrs. George Ives have .. . . , . mowed to their summer cottage Mr. and Mis. H. E. Miller have m, Keppoch. moved to their summer home at . c . Kepmchs . , . Miss Phyllis Murray entertain- . . ed on Wednesday evening for her M15" Alfred MacNe1” em'eT' friend, Mrs. Lorne Ives of Kent- tained at afternoon tea on Tues- day for her aunt, Mics Margaret MacNeill of New York. Mrs. Mil- ton Bell presided at the tea table and Mrs. Arthur Farquharson as- ville who is visiting with Dr. and Mrs. W. G. Hogg. u u I Hostesses this afternoon at the . Golf Tea will be Mrs. Gordon slated the hostess. Miss Franc” Avard, Mrs. Myron Bell, Mrs. Farquharson attended lhe door. James Bu,-den, Mrs, wnner . a 1 ' M Lell . Miss Elaine Porter, whose mar- Sharpe' and A-ASE 1:13 ac an riage is taking place on Tuesday next, has been guest of honour at several parties during the week. On Monday, Mrs. Heath Maclntyre and Mrs. Gordon Bell in Toronto. entertained at afternoon tea for c o c l&:r,l.and on Tuesday evening Mr-L Rev. G. Carlyle Webster and 11 lam w"”3n- Whit 15 5llmmE,r- Mrs. Webster, Mr. and Mrs. R. C. 1'18 he”. E3Ve 3 brldge 101' M155 Parent have returned from Fred- Porter. ericton, N.B., where they attend- ed the funeral of the Rev. Dr. Frank Baird. I Miss Margaret Gould who has resigned her position on the Eng- lish Department at Prince of Wales, has returned to her home I I I Mrs. George J. Rogers and Mrs. Douglas Hill on Thursday enter- tained at a luncheon for Mis Porter at the Keppoch Beach Hotel. - . Mrs. Robert Ford, of Toronto who has arrived at ”Viila Wat- ers", for the summer, will ac- company Dr. and Mrs. Corey and Mrs. Franlk Johnston to Frederic- Ila After the rehearsal of the Van iai't;"l:(”r"el:, Weclding; MT5- 3 ton where they will spend the bg UP 9 M11 cmertaln for the holiday weekend with Mrs. Bruce ridal party; . . Davisong I I I I At the Tennis Club this after- noon, the hostesses will be Miss Barbara Rogers and Miss Allie MacLeod: After the final perforrnance of Hanzel and Gretel. Mr. and Mrs. J. A. Lawson gave a party at lnlkerman for the cast. A - . ' out Mr. and Mrs. Aubrey Morell will spend Festive Week with her sister, Mrs. R. C. Parent and Mr. ' Many parties have been given in honour of Miss Adele Clark. bride-elect. Recently Miss Roma Burke entertained for her at a Parent, at "Ravenwood". They nuscellanveous shower. Mrs. Bert Wm be accompanied by Mr And Cameron was hostess at a Com- I , Mrs. Harry Morrell. l'rlLln'ltY shower, and a party was - - - given by Mr. Harry Norton at their summer home for Miss Clark and Mr. Mick Cameron. I I I Miss Christine Kin.g, B.A., ar. rived Wednesday night from Montreal to spend the summer with her parents, Mr. and Mrs. A. G. King. Highland Ave., City. On June 23rd Miss King was guest soloist at the wedding in St. John's Anglican Church, Ott- Mrs. James A. Fairly, of Liver- pool, formerly of Epsom, who is visiting the Province to renew hen friendship with numerous Island- ers who enjoyed her hospitality awa. of Miss'Rosemary Lake overseas. has been largely enter- formerly of Trinidad now of tained during the past ten days. Montreal, and Dr. James Dewitt. His Honor the Lieut. Governor of Ottawa. and Mrs. Prowse formally welcom- ' ' ' ed her to the Province. and others Mr. and Mrs. Robert MacKay, entertaining her included Mrs. Melrose. M858-. arrived in the Frank Andrew. Mrs. G. D. Fltz- City this week to attend the wedding of their son which takes place this afternoon in Zion Presbyterian Church. I I I Out-of-town guests the MacKay-Auld wedding which takes place this afternoon in Zion Presbyterian Church at 4 o'clock will include Mr. and Mrs. Bruce Champion, Medlford, Mass, Mr. James MacKay, Stoneham, Mr. Peter Page, New Haven, Conn.. Mr. Joseph Kincaid, Mal- den, Mr. Harold Sanderson, New Jensey. Miss Lois Johrnstone, Mon-treal, Miss Eva Roper, Lon- don, Ontario, Miss Elaine Mutch. Halifax. at -Friends of Mrs. Stirling Inman will be glad to lmow that she is doing nicely following In oper- ation in the Prince Edward 1:- land Hospital on Wednesday of this week. , . . The many friends of Mrs. J. W. Heseltinc, Ontario, will be pleas. ed to know that she has arrived on the Island to spend another summer with Mr. and Mrs. R. J. Sellar and family. 0 I O The ten hostesses It the sum- mer-side Golf Club on Wednesday afternoon were Mrs. Harold Schurman, Mra. Ralph Rain-say, Mrs. G. J. Hayes and Mrs. H. P. M. Patterson. I I Mrs. Parley Read has returned to her home in Summrrride on Wrdnesday after visiting friends in Halifax, N. S. I I I Mrs. W. F. Strong of Summer- side entertained at bridge that week. I I I I Last evening M'-:5 Ruby Mac- Neill returned from Saint John. N.B. to spend her vacation with their wedding cake. The recep- Malone officiated at the cere- tlon was held at Sandy'l follow- i many. -Garnhum photo. gerald, Misses Mary and Margaret her parents, Dr. and Mrs. J. F. MacNeil1, Summcrside. . . . Mr. and Mrs. D. L. Hobbs and. young son, Calvin Donald, accom- panied by Mrs. Hobbs' mother. Mrs. C. D. MacCallum, arrived from Toronto to vacation in Summerside. Mrs. MacCa1lum is the guest of her daughter. and son-in-law, Mr. and Mrs. Clifford Rankin. I I I Mr. and Mrs. James Miller and daughters, Elizabeth and Jane, of Pictou, N. S., who are visit. 108 in Alberton. were guests this week of Mrs. Ernest Harris, Summerside. I I Mrs. W. G. Ellis, Rev. and Mrs. W. A. Harper, Mrs. Wilfred In- man, Mrs. Jack MaoLeod and Mrs. J. F. MaoNeill were visi- tors to North River on Saturday when they attended the annual Baptist Convention. 0 I I Dr. and Mrs. J. F. Frank and daughter, Mary Ellen, of Sack- ville. N. B., spent the week end in Sumrmcrside, guests of Mr. and Mrs. Ernest L. Walker. I .I I Mr. and Mrs. Harold B. Milli- gan of Summenlcle will leave to- day to spend the week end with friends in Moncton, N. B. . . . Last evening Mr. George A. Callibeok returned from Montreal lo his home in Summerside. He was accompanied by his daugh- ters. Miss Dorothy Callback, teacher at Branksome Hall, Tor- onto, and Mrs. H. G. Speers with her daughter, Sally, from Ott- awa. . a - Miss Geraldine Fowler, who has been Instructor in Music in the Summcrside High School for the past- year, left Saturday morning for her home in Young's Cove, N. B.. stopping en route in Halifax, N. S. I I I Mns. Hugh Smith of Summer- side will leave this morning for Coverdale, N. B.. where she will be the guest of her daughter and son-in-law, Mr. and Mrs. Donald Murray. ' I I I Miss Mary Hogan of Toronto is spending her vacation at her home in Summerside. I I I Mrs. May G. Campbell and daughter Olive, of Hollister, Cali- fornia. spent a few days in Sum- merside this week, guests of the foi-me1"s aunt, Mrs. William A. Toomba. I I 0 Mrs. J. S. Hinton, Summerside, has as her guest her brother. Mr. John Hall Lee, of Los Angelea, California, who during the years has made periodical visits to his native province. Mr. Lea recall: when Prince Edward Island en- tered Confederation in 1878. as he was then .ele.ve1: 3763” 015- Misa Beverley McElroy of Cambridge, Man, who is va- cationing in Mm-ell, guest of her aunt, Mrs. Peter MacDouaall, and Mr. MaoDougnll. WM Visit- ing friends in Summer-side on Thund-ay. l I I I Mn. Wilfred Taylor and sister. Mm. Madfadyen returned to their homes in Kenaington on Wednesday evening after I month's vacation in Toronto. where they were Wells 01 M'- and Mrs. Harold S. HolIbf00k- . . . Mr. and Mrs. William Morrison and family left Summer-side yea- terdcy by automobile on I trip to Maine. -a How Can I l l ! By Anne Ankle! I) Q. How can I remove rust from 5 knife? A. If the blade of a knife is rusty. run it through an onion and let It remain for about three noun, then polish it. Q. How can 1 banish odor when cooking "smelly" vozetnbles? J 'A.- Place I small pan of vinegar on the back of the stove, and this will prevent the odor from pervad- ing the house. covery of cortisone and ACTH as I search workers are finding other uses for these miracle drugs with beneficial results in treating rheu- matic lever, alcoholism. hay fever. gout and those ments. exzema and psoriasis. We are, therefore. learn of,other ailments helped by cortisone. Drs. Tom Spies report their results in the treat- when removed) by local application with three antihistamine substanc- es all of which had failed to give relief. The eyes of the patient with eye disease (lritis and uveitis) ap- peared normal by the sixth day of local application of an opthnlmlc ointment, containing 25 mg. 0 cortisone acetate per grain. skin inflammation due to subsided'completely after 13 days of daily applications acetate ointment. most difficult skin disease to cure -were given three courses of cor- ahe muscles of doses of 1.200 m8-- M mg., and 375 mg., respectively. From the time the cortisone treat- ment was started to the end of the third period weeks). UHARLOTTETOWN H I - engagement of his daughter, Bel- Mitchell, son of Mr. and Mn. Leo wedding will take place August Mr. George Tulle announces the nice Selma to Peter Vincent Mitchell, Newcastle, N. B. The 22nd atlst. Dunstan's Basilica. &VVV . That Body Of Yours By James W. Barton. M.D. fO0M00fOO&OO?”C EI.I.EIl'S DIAR! By An bland Farmer's Wife K S,-:'VVVc Nrxwoxn This was a day when one mem- ber of the family at Alderlea, crav- ed sympathy from the others, and found that the current busy sche- dule of work, had made no allow- ance for that. There was of course a certain and comforting concern displayed by all, but there was no evidence that one or another of them would like to be detained while we sadly ran over the list of our ailments. Perhaps it was because we had been over-confident of late in our continued good health, or may- be it was we had kissed a recent small sufferer too fervently - in any event we have been over-taken and over-powered by the ills of a common cold. No casual malady this, which allows one to smile brightly and explain: "I have the cold!” but one which dragged the poor sufferer along the edge of the valley of despair, ill and wan and spiritless, as, weary in the very ef- fort it demanded, she looked out upon her world today. APPLYING CORTISONE DIRECTLY TO THE DISEASED CONDITION Ever since Drs. Banting and Best discovered insulin, research workers have been finding condi- tlons besidesdiabetes in which insulin is of great value. And now it would seem that since the dis- specific treatment for arthritis. re- chronic skin all- not surprised to Medical Journal, and R. E. Stone In Southern ment of various skin. eye, and other conditions by the local ap- plication of cortisone. These phy- sicians treated two patients with rheumatoid arthritis (the common- ' ' ' est form of rheumatism) assocla- Not that we were left alone in ted with two forms of eye infla.m- our misery. On the contrary, we had mation (iritis and uveltls), two a. number of callers. Mr. D. arriving patients with arthritis and allergic while the morning was still new- skin disease and two patients with born, fresh and be-dewed and lovely, chronic psoriasis (white patches looked in to tell us: "There's a bad . Engagements Announced 1951 TEE, daughter of Mr. and Mrs MB. JOHN WALLACE FRANCIS Mn. Ethel Mary Francis. and tha tune Bridge; P. 17.1., whose wed. Mr. Francis is a graduate 01 McGill University. 21,. PUDOINGS-PlES- -ICE caram- Mlss MARY -FRANCES TOS- Edmond Foster. of Westmount. and B.A., B.Eng., of Montreal, son of late H. S. Francis, M.L.A., of For- ding will take place on July 14 Mount Allison University and of. Modern Etiquette E By Roberta Leo ? 1-war-sIvwzK;xrsfKA Q. When a girl has been intro- duced to a young man and is leav- ing him, should she say that she is glad to have met him? A. No. it is not her place to say this. It is rather for the man to say. "I am glad to have met'you.' or. "I hope to see you agaln.' and she may then respond. "Thank you... . DOROTHY DIX SAYS- Wants Wife To Work This Husband Trying To do to A Wlgyvnnrtlfmyl an DE! tt SIR? BEST YEAST fJ' 3.------r covered with abundant silvery cold on the rounds. and" with a scales which bleed underneath twinkle "they say it seems to settle harder on the old folks." Jeanie came with remedies - tablets and drops and suchlike, which no doubt contributed their part to make the day livable. Granddaughter enter- ing quietly to find us holed up wan- ly in the depths of the old arm- chair, instead of being about our accustomed beat accepted it for the heat. "Ianlt this great!" she said blithely "I know you won't be able to come out to give me swings, but you'll have a lot more time to read to me!" The younger farmer came in more than once to survey - very kindly - the lie of the land and to offer suggestions for our relief. James came too. ostensibly for a drink at the pump or to wonder "how the time's going," and stop briefly to listen to our tale of woe. "It aches here . . . and there are :pains there. . . and oh dear:" zwe lsighed mouriifully. of cortisone acetate. All six cases had been treated The allergy of cortisone The patients with psoriasis -- a tisone acetate by injections into of injections (nine the disfiguring patches had disappeared from To to 95 per cent. The most pronounced clear- ' ' f ing was in the scalp and the sur-, James listened attentively and faces of the elbows To on: of the ;then a broad smile of understanding patches which measured it out as .-swept hla features. "Right here. El- inch by ill inches located belowilen? A dull ache? Well now, isn't the knee, 5 mg. of cortisone acetete that exactly like I was a day or two per grain was applied twice daily. ll-ago! It's the very same sickness After 24 davs of treatment this that bothered me. kind oi like, you? match showed as much heallm as don't care much whether you live. had followed cortisone injections, or die? wen, (hue now Limit mam whereas the untrmlted PM-Che! just the way I felt? No ambition at were unchanged or became worse. gug Ygs" he nodded, --1 know I Results obtained in these patients on you know Egan, wevm going ml show that cortisone acts as a sort have quite . mm, putting muse of ferment changing the character plates In place. Guess we-n need of the cells 01' lliSllGS- CONSOHP 15 more help." The last words came to truly 3 miracle dl'll8- us from the yard. Ever it has been -rs::-mm that "men must work and women momm inky weteliu so today in the msug ence o aying in the offing, the - Th9 S1375 SGV ' ' barn-timbers must rear their new By Genevieve Ken”. lengths at the hands of the work- men . 7a&”xN Vo r I I 0 But now all work is rested for the night which spreads its gentle dim- nesa over the nighborhood. wrap- ping softly the house on the hill, the mill and the pond - making James turn on the lights 3; he come; in to find us here at a window, "Miserable atlll, mien?" he asks. we nod. "but the ache here is gone." "Well, now" he beams "and isn't that encouraging, Ellen?" Until tomorrow - - mu-y .. .. Good-night. . . . R Household Scrapbobi: 3! Roberta he For Tomorrow ..WHll.E favorable. for the con- ventional sabbath vocations and avocatlons, with much solid and far-reaching good from such on- gagements, aspirations and de- sires, the day may not be so nua- plcious in affairs of a social, sen- timental, domestic or romantic nature. The serious and solemn may thrive while the gay or friv- olous may not measure up to hope: and wishes. If it In Your Birthday Those whose birthday it in may have a constructive year in its serious pursuits. with solid gain and progreas.ln reward for con- centrated efforts. sound plans. for lasting and enduring objectives. won by patience. endurance and fortitude. It may not enfoy such hentirn results in its private af- iiliations, domestic. social or rom- antic. or cultural ambitions. or in any business efforts in connection with promoting such. A child born on this day may not be on solid and secure in its private life In in its employment, Di practical pursuits. Over-lndul- gencea could alienate It In its in- timate relations. my After Tomorrow l Wooden Tubs Never leave wooden tuba, wine barrels, or buckets empty for any length of time or they will warp and finally fall apart. To prevent shrinkage. fill the bottom with about two or three inche; of water. Noodle! sewing machine neodlu that have become dull may be sharp- ened by stitching for several inch- ea through a piece of ilno sand- paper. find all affair: running nnoothly Into profltsblc channels. lle this in so. important objectives should be aggressively attacked; the softer side of persuasive meth- ods could assist in landing motor positions. Jmlding here and The forecast is for an time for summoning all the influ- ence, forces and faculties for put- ting over plans, hopes and wishes in a pleasant and also profitable manner. Business, new projects and personal affairs should move elsily into constructive channels, even though gtrenuoua at times. there could help. . Important plans, agreeably pushed. A child born, on this day. ,whll0 should flourish. - positive. creative and objective, For that llrtliday is also agreeable. kindly and al- Avoid Responsibility 'v Our ten years of married life have beei but through it all we have achieved a low that few marriages come to know. Our only real bone of contenttlgoi has been my reluctance to work outside the home. I consider in my financial gain realized from such an arrangement would not cunt Ms pensate for the consequent neglect of my home. M. ,liusband usually brings the financial troubles oi himself, then sulks and stays away from hon-it until I get a job to tide us over. I havegtwo chil dren and feel that they need me at home. morl than I need a job. My husband loves the children as much as I do, but puts his needs before theirs. Because I ldn't no to..uLnr.k and hell! hm- out of ills latest financial tangle. he began golnlz out with a girl who worked with him. The BUR" . . - didn't last long: my husband is very contrlte about it and we are once more in complete unison. I could never 30 through such an episode again, though, and in deference to the whnll household. wonder if I should sacrifice their welfare and take a lot or remain firm hoping that responsibility will eventually make llll husband a mun of whom I can be completely proud. DEAR DOROTHY DIX: a series of ups and downs, M. R. E. ANSWER: You deserve a good deal of credit for handling you" tangled affairs so competently. and for so clearly facing the issues tha- hnve confronted you. There is no question but that you are the inn of wisdom nnd the guiding hand of your household, the one upur whose authority the children-and this includes your liushand--do pend. HE'S IMMATUBE Your hilsbpiid Is a creature of immaturity. seeking to duck ever) vestlge of parental responsibility and taking recourse in the most childish attitudes of sulklng and petty revenge when he doesn't get what he wants. The only obligation he retains is the financial one oi supporting his family and he is certiiinly over-anxious to shift that to your shoulders. Once you evince your willingness to get a job no work steadily, he'll drop every pretense of being the wage-earner. and you'll supply the family pay check for the rest of your days Don"! do it! No matter how much he sulks. ninke him keep some vestigc of manhood and fatherhood. even against his will. The place for A mother of small children is at home. unless Fit” cumsizmres force her to work. outside, and only illness of an incapli:- ituting niiture-physical or mental-justifies a man being support?" by his wife. Since his financial entanglements are of his own weuvlmz. make your husband get out of them himself. The trick of turning to flirtation as revenge for your not ucccdlng to his every whlm is noth- ing short of contemptlble. Slick to your guns, M. R. E. Your children. need you homo. and believe me. without you around to bolster his morale. hubby would soon fall flat on his face. DEAR DOROTHY Dix: My boy friend and I-have been going steady for the past three year: and had planned an October weddlms: Now he has been called into service and we are undecided whether W should be married before he leaves. or wait until he returns-and nr. one knows when that will be. He in 29 and I am 27. Will you plellsr give us the advantages and disadvantages of getting married when thc man has been called back into service. PATRICIA ANSWER: While I am usually very wary about advising marrlaizl before a man goes into service, in your case you are both certainly old enough to know your own minds and I see no reason for advis- ing ugainat it. To give all the advantages and disadvantages of mam- lng servicemen before they embark on their jobs would take mort space than I have at my command. The chief disadvantage. in the average romance, in for teen-axelji to marry under these conditions when they really don't know their own minds. With the boy away, the girl gets lonesome. necks other male companionship and the trouble begins. Or it could be the nth" way round: the husband in a strange state, or even country. 80'! homesick and date: the first girl he meets. When the engaged pair has reached the age of discretion (when- ever that II), and are sure of their love for each other. marriage 59' fore the man leaves for service has a stabilizing effect on both of thtm He knows he has a devoted wlfc waiting home for him. and IN passes her time preparing for the home they will have upon his turn. You must, of course, be prepared to face the cventualitlea I in may emuc. If you have a baby, are you In I position to care folgrv until your huabandfs return? If your husband stay: in this cguleon: have you the money to visit him at camp at lent. occualonally alder these point: well before you make your decision. noiurrnv nix cannot reply personally to random. but Vi" ”" war problem: of genera! Interact tluoillh Int colum- 4:: C it NE ERA E uEkuE Those whose birthday it II should pirattonai. a fine combination