Wife Noi- Just Children's Mother Young Fry HappieriWilh Their Owri Contemporaries DEAR MISS DIX: I have two boys, one 11, the other 8. When we go out riding I always put the two boys in the back and sit with my husband. My mother-in-law thinks this is terrible. She says I should let one sit with the father and the other with me. lily neighbors also gossip about this. I am young and I am crazy about my husband and like to be with him. What must I do? A WORRIED WOMAN ANSWER: Quit bothering about what your mother- in-law and your neighbors think on this subject. Laugh off their criticisms. It is none of their business, any- way. Let them sit where they please in their cars and you do the same in yours. As a matter of fact I think the arrangement you make is the wise one. If you consider it from the children's point of view, which I sup- pose is your mother-ln-iaw's angle, the two boys are far happier and have more fun skylarking together on the back seat than either one would have if forced to sit demurely by his parents. Grown-up people and children bore each other stiff. They have nothing that they are really interested in to talk about together, but two kids about the same age can giggle and cilattcr for hours together over nothing. Your husband ccrtuinl_v would find your society much more enter- itaining than that of one of the boys, and as you enjoy being with him it certainly secms that the happiness of the greatest number would be conserved by your following your own plan instead of that of his mother's and your neighbors‘. And there is another side to the question, too, that of your keeping ~'\>, ~ Ellen ’s Diary B! Ln Illl-Illl Farmer's Wile L¢eo$e The weeding in the field of roots near the buildings was continued today. a chore when even odd mo- ments were garnered and devoted towards bringing the present end of the task. These first hoeings come to our farmers in the nature of a sacred rite. to be carefully performed, and only by those, whose workmanship has been proved to do it well and faithfully. And if a poet will have it, and there are times and seasons vihen we quite agree with him. that “there is more beauty in a field of weeds, than iii all the blooms a hot-house garden yields", James is not one to ac- cept his point of view. l-Ie finds actual distress in the sight o? a neglected potato-field or other root- crop and never. never has a row of mangels, turnips or corn entrust- ed to his care in the wake of the seed-time been left to suffer lhe company of undesirable neighbours ‘or the order that is given by the ' first iloeing. a e does a farmer effect this. Through his field, intent at the work, dur- ing the cool dews of morning when the world about Alderiea was bure- And not without certain sacrifice the years, we have spied James in , iy astir. And again amid the heat and wilt of the day when not a cool- ing breath stirred and all else, even the dog had given in to the tussl- tude of the time: we ha\'e seen yourself your husband's companion instead of being relegated to the back seat; like a nursernnicl. In my opinion no woman ever makes a greater error than she does when she becomes all mother with no gthought except for the children and when she devotes herself to her children to the exclusion of her husband. That is the beginning of more l i (Continued on Page 3) (Continued on page 12> THE GUARDIAN, Of Your! Juan W. Berton, I. l. SUGAR AND CANDY All GOOD FOODS Your dentist will tell you that the greatest single cause of decay in children's teeth is candy and sugar retained on the enamel, especially between the teeth. Grad- ually the particles penetrates through the enamel and the hard coat: beneath the enamel to inner structures of the teeth. The first or baby teeth are im- portant and should be preserved until the second or permanent teeth are ready to take over. By keeping the baby teeth as long as possible not only are places ready for the permanent teeth but. the shape of the teeth and the lav: itself is preserved. Although sugar and candy cause. teeth decay, if teeth are brushedj and spaces between teeth rinsedl ,out, little if any damage will oc-f lcnr to the enamel covering. If, this care ls taken there is no tea-l son why children should not eati more sugar and candy because’ sugar gives more energy in less time than any other food. One of my “sweetesf” memories is getting home from school in the aftrrnoon, eating a slice of bread land butter covered with brown lsugar, and playing till time for the “it '“B.O.'-I “oxbof l. “a moment oi CHARLMTEIDWN in’s R lmi/Socialpanql Dgrggnal Modern Etiquette Iylobertohe 1%.}. Q. Ll one Jllltlfied in ilk-bl for l! s long period of time has elep- sed? A. Yes. and you would be lusti- tied in not lending them another. Negligence such as this is seldom excusable. Q. Should the men attendants at a wedding pay for their own boutonnleres? A. 1V0; the bridegroom is sup- posed to furnish these. Q. Shouldn't a. man hold his wife's coat for her, as well .5 yo; any other woman? A- Certainly. His wife should be shown the same courtesies that gemvlouid extend to any other wq. evening meal on the energy sup- piied by the bread. butter and $11832‘. sugars are great force producers, EXDeriments in the various armies show that large quantities of su- gars in the diet maintain strength, 1955911 hlmiser and thirst,’ and les. sen the liability to heat exhaus- tion. So rich is sugar in farce m- fuel value that in the West In- 5'95 "l8 nesroes always grow fat during the sugar season, when they chew the cane in the fields. 11'. despite work and heat, fat (Continued on Page 3) HEARD them whisper! I never was so-emborrossed-it was the worsl my life. I decided then to gel some Lifebuoy and use it regularly." 2. "LIFEIUOYS MILD, gentle lother with its special purifying ingredient reuliy stops ‘ROI-keeps me sole from offending." "NOBODY WHISPERS 3 . 'B.O.' about me now. Using llfebuoy In my daily both keeps me fresh. Ho: won new friends for me." maginc! 'r's A rm! The big, new bright new Bath Size Lifebuoy that's just arrived. Yes, Canada's I most popular bath soap now comes in a bigger, .--<- __.__.l-___ _ _ more convenient size-with more baths in every cake. 1' You, and thewhole family,will enjoy Lifebuoy’! mild, gentle lather. Lifebuoy with its special purifying ingredient gives all-over, long-lasting protection against perspiration odor. Lifebuoy, and only Lifebuoy, is especially made to stop 93.0.’? No need to use anything else to safeguard freshness from head to toe. Ask for Lifebuoy in the larger, more econoinle cal size today. Get several big, handy cakes. Keep e supply always on hand-for bath sud basim \ A LIVER noun Al”; . US! l1’ DAILY New Both Size iiiebuoy gives you _m_o_r_g baths-extra protection ...more soap for the money! _ PROM IIIAD ‘IO fOls-sl-TFIIIIOY STOIIS_"I.O.'.' a book that someone has borrowed, - I in. iioiihios iii Local Citizens By Undo Joe Near the Clyde River post-oftlce you may see a very attractive gar- den which was designed and laid out by Mrs. Gordon MacKinnon. Mrs. MacKinnon took up gardening as a hobby in recent years, and, for a novice, she has developed a well- planned and well-cared for garden which is a joy to herself and fam- ily, as well as to her friends when they have occasion to visit her dur- ing the spring and summer months. As I have already stated, it repre- seuts _an entirely original creation that has sprung into healthful ma- turity under the sole guidance of her own knowledge and original ideas. All this required careful planning in advance, so that time and effort expended in the venture would not be wasted. "Plan ‘according to Hoyle." said Lil-s, MacKinnon when I interview- ed her recently, “and give your trees and flowers the same per- sonal attention that is given to your children. While flowers do not require as much aid to reach healthy maturity as do they must have considerable ut- tention; but this can be taken care of by carefully observing a few simple rules, namely: correct plant- ing methods, preparation of the soil, typos of seeds to be selected, prun- ing, staking, etc., etc. Any good book on gardening-and there are a number of good ones-—wiil put you on the right track and keep you there if only you will carefully observe instructions. I U children Mrs. MacKinnon believes that 95% of gardening failures result from improper planting—that is, provid- ing you have purchased high-grade nursery stock when you began your venture-hobby. What a pity so few of us take up gardening! One does not realize this lack of beauty about our homes till he has paid a visit to some out- standing garden like Beechwood, for instance, the hobby of Mrs. Gordon MacKinnon, Cornwall. Actually. our homes are our king- doms, arid we should use them not alone for shelter from the elements, but also create about them beauti- fui little parks with trees, plants. etc. I sometimes think our home ties would be made stronger and our family life happier if all of us would become more beauty-minded. What a delightful picture our Island would be if every home nos- sessed an outdoor living room, wal- led in with flowers and attractive shrubs! What a quiet retreat such a spot would afford during the summer months or for part of our holidays! And what an added at- traction to tourists. Every dollar invested in flower children and flowering shrubs would increase the value of cur homes many times the cost of the plants and bring to our citizens an added intangible value that can-tot be measured in mere dollars and cents. Who has not thrilled at sight of a well-kept lawn, a correct front and side foundation planting about the home? Or whose face has not lighted up with joy when beholding well-filled flower beds with their multicolored fragrant blossoms, all adding grace and charm to the home setting? I have yet to meet the person who was not proud, and justly so. of his or her outdoor living room; and, believe me, Mrs. Gordon lilac- Kinnon is proud of hers. -.,.........<- “ was»? . Cook's Comer " Strawberry Apple Meringue 1 cup strawberries i 1-3 cup chopped apple 1-2 cup sugar 1-2 cup water Stew together for s. few min- utes and then pour into a greased baking dish. Top with a batter made from the following ingredi- ents: 1-4 cup butter 1-3 cup sugar 1 fill 1-2 tsp. cinnamon 1-2 tsp. salt. 1 tsp. sods 1-2 cup hot coffee 1 l-l cup flour Bent up until well blended. Pour over fruit. Bake in moderate ov n. 350 degrees Fahxn, for :35 minutes. Top with meringue msde from two egg whites beat until very light. Then gradually best in four table- spoons sugar and best until mix- ture will hold shape. Flavor with half s tesspon vanilla. Spread in perks over pudding. Return to oven and bake until golden brown. Strawberry Sauce Wash strawberries and remove hulls. Crush and press to pulp with e fork. Sweeten to taste. This sauce is delicious served with Blane Mange, Snow Pudding, or plain ice cream. i Morning Smile i ' nwxacooeo-c-oo-q-oo-Q ‘The handsome young doctor, n bachelor from the south, was a guest at a week-end party in Hollywood. He was sunning him- self on the edge o! z swimming pool when o young actress, a French girl. came blinking up to him and said: "Oh. lwsieu DoctaLre. 1 ‘ave sometfiiog in my eye and-J‘ "What do you reckon it eouid be?" he asked, with professional . adventure, the state of mind may H/fm’ /llll(/l iitilto Cosmeticians from Halifax per use of Revlon make-up. - The Stars Say-- ly Genevieve Kemble For Saturday, July l0 With rather adverse astral oon- ditions uppermost, it might be as well to refrain. from any important creative or ambitious efforts, since the mentality may be obscure, in- volved. or complicated by queer notions or erratic drives emotion- ally. At the same time there ll prospect of a sudden, unpredict- able and uphx/lrig force, which could prove astrophic in eon- slderstion of the irresponsible state of mind and feelings. Seek diver- sion or creative work in safer con- tacts. For the Birthday Those whose birthday it is, may be prepared for some sort of sud- den upheaval. far-reaching and radical in its surprising denoue- ments. Under this strange urge for change. removal or romantic not; be deemed as reliable or re- sponsible, its confused or jumbled aspect having power to further complicate or involve in unwel- come and unprofitable situations. Postpone major decisions until such strange urge passes sway. A child'born on this day may have strong urge toward the sin- gular, unorthodogr or erratic, with its feelings, emotions and ima- ginntion likely to plunge it into irregular or unconventional com- hplications. Q. How can I take proper csre ot a. chsmois that has been used for cleaning windows or washing the car? A. Rinse it out at least three times, shake it well, and hang it up to dry. Pull and shake it sev- eral times while it is drying; this will keep it soft. The chnmols should be dried slowly, and never in the sun r over hut. Q. How I mnke use of _old shirts? A. The tails can be used for making laundry begs, shoe bogs. or IULY 15, 1949 --_ ----"-~_--.-~--u_-~-. zFashions/Lgiteratu re *0—¢§-+§§§§§*§-§'§+§§QQ I/(lll ll/(‘P MISS ELWi IIMPER Personal Consultant For N’S COLOR BASTING WillBeAt TilE BHARLUTTETOWN il0TEl. JULY l8 — 19 — 20th Miss Hooper, who is in charge of Color Casting fob Canada, has recently returned from Revlon’s New York Salon and is instructing Drug and Department Store to Vancouver in the pro- 1 fiM-wc ~@--.-.- Household Scrapbook‘ By Roberto [AI loses-a. haw/v. ANTS You can drive away mt: b) scattering quickline in the infested places. Elqual parts of sugar and tartar emetic moistened will also drive them away. Ants will not cross s heavy chalk line. about om inch wide, around your sugar box. A SALAD Ml: left-over cooked ham with hard cooked eggs, celery and dress- lng and you will have n good salad to serve for luncheon or sup- per. PREVENT MOTBS The moths will keep away ti whole cloves are sprinkled in thl folds and pockets of the garment: which you are storing. ‘Better English D. (l. Wllllllnl l. What is wrong with this sen- tence‘! “it is nothing like so hot as it was yesterday." 2. What is the correct pronun- ciation of "vagary"? 8. Which one of these words ii misspelled? Gellstln, gazelle, ghet- t0. 4. Whot does the word “imDeru tlvenees” mean? _ 6. What is a word beginning Wit-h er that means "to destroy utterly“ ANSWERS, l. Say. "It is not nearly so lwi l-l it was yesterday." 2. Pronouncl first s as in sh unstressed. second s ss in any, snd accent second syllable, not the first. 3. Gelatin or geiotine. 4. Quality of beinl commanding or authoritative "Titers could be no question u t4 the imperstiveneos of his com msnd." b. Erulicste. time, they can be used as dustinl cloths Q. What is the best container N use for filling the Jelly and P" serve ins’! A. ‘rry mine the gravy beli- The long nose will fit into on! begs for holding dust cloths, and when these begs have served their coolness. "Your other bathing eultt" Bl sized fruit jot‘, Ind can be held b! the handle. 03S (ll i lifliillfl FLOUR I-ve