- mom TWQ GOLDEN DAYS The year's at the fiill, The frosfs on the thlstic; The hunter's abroad, The sumac-ifs abiuzé. The crow sounds his call. The qiiziil blows his whistlc; The Earth's close to Gud , In these goldcn (lays. ~-\V.F.S. Dovcs are not as pcnccfiii z.s they arc siii-poscd to be. ‘The-y quarrel among thciiiscivcs, though _‘_'L'|1k‘l'ili— iy not willi other birds and creat- . urcs. CHARM MOTH? IMPORTANT THAN BEAUTY .~\ iiislqoiirzigcrl illiflhUl’ ivritr-s- - ‘Whiii cun l iiu to iiiZli-Zt‘ m, small girl, who is sin-ti luii '..:-_\ [JiZiilL into a bi-iiiityi?" A irniiiiu iniiilicr wrltrs - "My rhilri is till i__ dtiyk. ling.. iii-r L'l'li.\|il, IifiUlIZVli _ nic is so prcitjs." .‘i loyiii ill0iilt‘i‘ writcs , -—"l\l_v lilllf‘ girl is pi.iiii liut charm- ing. l sce i.) it that hcr fllLiniifirS and pursoiiziliki- (icvcitii) along charming liiics but hcr hair and hcr little frvrlilcd face are pretty discoiirrrgiiig." dlitf in: Pcmiut Buftcr Hint w. and Picpaimi Nliiwinili .1‘. wrli LivingiSfLeisure JTHE WUMAWS REALM There, tho last mother has the answer! She is developing charm in her small girl and l will wager that that little girl will be as popu- lar and happy when she grows to lwomnnhood as any small "beauty" | today. A plain child can be charm- ing. Her skin can be fresh and sparkling. She can have hair which is clean and sweet. If you cry over ‘your child you'll give her a com- plex instcad of a complexion. One moths-r writes that she weeps over licr straight-haired slx-year-old ijust because she wasn't born with curly hair. The prettiest little girl that I know is the least charming and the ,lc:ist helovcil. says Lois Leedl. "l‘riic. sinzill Betty has lovely liquid _ i cycs. soft blonds hilil‘. But because Tshe is so prctty she is spoiled. The most beloved little girl in the neigh- borhood is an ugly duckling but she has small girl charm—a nice voice, giod manners. Her hair is cer- ‘tuinly not pretty but it is so well ‘brushed that it attracts attention. Her hair is done in a way that is most becoming to its small owner. You must develop an interest in good grooming in even the most tom-boyish little girl. MODERN MANNERS It is incorrect to speak of a “soc- ial affair." One speaks of business or state "affairs." but an “affair" suggests something more than ‘friendship between two persons of ‘ the opposite sex. You attend a din- ner, or reception. or go to a party. but not to a “social affair." KEEP CELLABS DRY Fresh air and sunshine are musts for a dry cellar. When the outside air is cool and dry, open cellar win- dows; when it's damp outside keep ithem closed. Warm, moist air re- sults in mildew and condensation of moisture on the cooler surfaces of the cellar. HELPFUL HELLOS That "How do you do?" is often just a casual and meaningless phrase. Health authorities say that if people took it seriously they might well question their state of being. So, say the experts. since suggestion has undoubted power, how much better some such lalu- tation as "You're looking very well today!" That's not likely to be- come just n. hackneyed saying. It's l0 much more personal and pleas- ing. The experts suggest that Can- adians try it once in a while, for effect and lngloyment. """ " MODERN MANNEBS A woman never wear: a hat with formal evening clothes. i Morning Smile IT ALL DEPENDS Auto Examiner: "Dc you know what it means if I driver put; out a hand?" Applicant: "wen. u w; ii wo- yman. ll: means she is going to tum right. or left. shake the ashes off i her cigaretteum- reverse or stop, or ,she's pointirig to a hat store, or ‘ admiring her ring, or-" i Examiner: "Yeah, and if it’! a .- man?" Applicant: "Why he's waving at. a woman?" EIARBASM usually In s crowded cinema. l. young woman brushed past a man about to take a seat. Before he recovered his balance the young woman and her husband had taken the only two seats available in that part of the cine-ma. "Sorry," said the husband, "we just beat you." “That's O. K." said the man pushed out. "I hope you and your mother enjoy the show." ‘The minister had been ill, but at last an improvement was ob- served in his condition. An elder, his first visitor, congratulated him on his recovery. "Aye, there's mony o’ your mem- bers thocht you'd‘ never be back." he remarked gravely, "but, mecnis- ter. we're going to disappoint them Aeaowiix (no Rucomd WAX) 6W8 60813 Saves you up 1o N. a pint’ on your Gloom . - and HHOICMVM rm: GUARDIAN. cnARiorfrErowu i. Woman’s Realmocl andPsonal/Fashions/Literature He Gcfs ‘Around! Second Marriages DEAR. MISS DIX: Two years §DOROTHY DIX SA YS-- O Ready-Made Family on my children What can I have been? ANSWER: experience. and The young Marquess of Milford Haven, David Michael Mountbatten. who recently has been pictured sqiiiring Miss Sharman Douglas. daughter of the U. S. ambassador to Britain, is shown arriving at La Gua:dia Field, New York. He served as best man at the wedding of Princess Elizabeth and Prince Philip and his name was once rom- flflllCillly linked with Princess Mar- garet Rose. He's in the U- 5- 0" business. -—S.N.S. Photo Extreme Styles Feature British Autumn Footwear By Muriel Narrows! LONDON, Oct. 31 — (C?) —- Its the season of the autumn shoe in Britain - and many are calling it the "silly season." tract. mfiady with styles that abethan and Victorian times. There are French Louis models with various lines; medium heels, high backs, pointed toes, exagger- ated front arches and the like. ment, certain that she is getting some- thing really "new." She has read in Paris and New York fashion books of these same styles six months or snore ago. It all gets back to the economic situation. Duo to shortage of labor, luk of a free market and short- age of wood for new lasts, fashions an slow to arrive in Britain. ‘They stay longer when they do come; There are memories of powdered wigs, rustling silks and court in- trigues in the pointed-toes black courts yirflzh high bootec insert of woven lace, gold patterned sab- erdine, moire or slipper satin. Na:- row pointed bootee styles rise ln tmcd arch sweep to ankle-high. tongues Wiilh high back sweep and cut-in Lmiic heels. High-Strapped Shoes Low-cut courts have fitted front. tic pieces of arch-to-ankle width composed of treliised strap vwork, ruffled lace or pleated leather in- serts. Ankle strap styles with low- cut fronts had enormous fan shap- ed tongues rising to’ ankle height. A gold kid evening shoe with plain low-cut front, platform sole and Jiigih heel has square-ribbed piece o! gold kid draped round the shoe back, It rises from top heel to ankle where it is caught by a. band and bow of black suede. 'I‘l'ierc were many different styles of this draping from ankle to top heel, some Otlning u low u mid- heel. The “shicil-shoe" tn popular tn various leathers and colon-s — s very low-fronted court, the instep arch ham tcc to ankle is filbd with many slender straps each in- dependently buttoned or buckled. Climbing straps have at. lust ar- rived uid are liberally used. The platform-soled, peep-toad. ankin you marry. But when you throw in it such a risky proposition that not can save it from disaster. widower may ‘be lucky enough to fl own. But this rarely happens. And there ll no misery on earth and there is no choice harder than everything in our home to suit his it or not. 1 think he should recogn express her own individuality in the ANSWER: of your home. Most women feel that they have make it the expression of their sole his notions of comfort. DEAR DOROTHY - DID: in your class? the widow has children of her own. fairly between her children and her husband's children . Muvc Little Chance Of Success Because Of Children ago my wife died and left me with three children to rear. Thinking to make a home foi- them, I married a widow with one child. He is a boy of 14, is badly spoiled ‘and treats my children and me with utter contempt. boy and upholds him in everything he does. l-lls mother is all for h.-r She is constantly picking and it tears my heart to shreds. do except to reflect on what a fool I UNHAPPY MAN Wise old Doctor Johnson said that a second marriage was the final triumph of hope over this goes double for widows and wid- owers with children. Every one of them has known scores of men and women with bunches of little olive branches who remarried after their first husband or wife died, and they know the trouble and suffering that virtually every one of these marriages brought on the men and women themselves and their unfortunate children. warnings do not keep a single one of them from risking their own and their children's well being by marrying again. Yct these awful RISKY BUSINESS Now marriage is a risky business no matter when, how and whom to it a ready-made family, you make hing but a special act of Providence Of course, now and then a miracle is wrought and a widow gets a second husband who is wise and kind and just to her children; and a nd a woman who has a big enough mother-heart to take in his children and treat them as if they were her And it virtually never happens when lt takes a superwoman to deal worse than that of the woman and man who stand by helplessly and see their children mistreated and neg- lected, and who are even afraid to show them any affection themselves, that of the man and woman who must choose between their mates and their children. DEAR MISS DIX: My husband insists on buying and arranging taste. regardless of whether l like ize that it is the wife's privilege to home. What do you think about it? A WIFE I think the best thing for you to do is to talk the inat- ter over with your husband and go 50-50 in selecting the furnishings a right to monopolize the home and taste, but this isn't fair. The iius- band should at least have a few rooms that he can fix up according to But, for goodness sake, quit quarreiing over the matter. 1 have been married to a man for four S1108! are M!» TBUDYWO 11°W~ A-"d years and cannot help but feel that I am greatly superior to him iii Inndon designers are £11198 l0 at‘ every way. He is good, kind, unselfish and honest; but he conics from the other side of the tracks and I have come to the pOlILl where l can range the history book from EliZ- just tolerate him. He. seems to sense my feelings toward lilm and has ' become restless and dissatisfied. Is there any help for us? E. H. ANSWER: What made you marry him if you felt that he was not Are you perfectly sure that you are so superior to him? some are (jawed a; the 135i w“: A lot of people who haven't any blue blood have mighty good, rich, rcd m llbeauty,“ others wlmuut mm- blood and have amounted to something in the world. My advice to you is to climb down off your high horse. Quit being Bu‘ the London ‘my seems um superior and be a good enough sport to make the best of your marriage. NEW YORK, Oct. 31 — Soft lights and sweet music isn't a new formula for furthering ro- mance. It's an old story that dates back to 1860 according to several "courting lamps," pm o1 g C01- lection of 300 miniature kemsine lamps, owned by Mrs. Paul Ben- atre of Southold, Long Island. The "courting lamps" and oth- ers from Mrs. Benatres collection us being displayed in an alcove on the ninth floor of a department store here. One in particular, a little kerosine lamp with a heai-r design on green glass must have cast a din, romantic light in a Oicil War parlour as the daughter of the house entertained hp beau. The sweet music was probably supplied by a tearful rendition of "When This Cruel War is Over," a popular tune of the time. Mrs, Benatre has been collecting the tiny lamps, which stand from seven to l2 inches high, for the last Collected Oldtime Courting Lamps around the country Bddln,‘ to her collection. Recently she hasn't done much about new pieces. He:- sun parlour, overlooking the ocean. houses the lamps. Placed on win- dow shelves, the blue, green, pur- ple, crystal and amber glass reflect the dawns first; light and the multi-coloured evening sky. There's a bull's eye lamp that is decorated with big iound circle: and a daisy-button panel lamp with the flowers forming a design on pressed glass panels. One of the prettiest of the lamps. shows a waffle design on the coloured base and a tvro-Ench g1 s; chimney to shield the flame. The “twinkle lamp," which looks like a tiny coffee maker, has a double globe. The lower part is used for kercsine and thebpper globe as a shield. Mrs. Benatre has only cnz whale-oil lamp in hei- collection. The display has hobiiaii lamps in blue and amber and little hut- ten years, Tho lamps were popular from 1080 to i880. She believes that they were used in children's rooms and on night. tables. Scnie- times merchants gave them away u pruniumn. Before her husband died five you": ago. Mn. Bench-o travelled spots, g0 over them several times. Q. How can I harden the gums? A. Gums can be hardened and the breath sweetened by rinsing the mouth every day with a little tinc- ture of myrrh. Q. How can I hold linen tar-cups with dark green and blue glass buses that look like fat little teapots. One of he more unusual lamps is believed to have been given away by James Buchanan in 1872 as a campaign souvenir. It. has a small log-cabin base and a tall, six-inch chimney. Mrs. Benatrc says several of the little lamps graced the hail table in the days before an electric witch cmild flash on the upstairs lull light l-iicre various mem- bers of the family picked them up That Body ' 0f Ybura IanuI.Inrtcl.I-l o WE GRADUALLY ABE CONEGT- LNG MENTAL AILMENTS Some weeks ago I wrote ‘about the great strides being made in the treatment of veterans who required cavemen ' 1. t. c. . i mental help on their return from overseas The treatment has re- sulted in many being able to ob- tain out-patlent. treatment, making it unnecessary for them to become patients in a mental hospital. Also. by means of the usual treatment, aided by the shock method-An- sulin, metrazol and electric -- more "Hero's c tip for Mothers" which l found useful", lays Dinfl- doctor advised mashed potatoco be added to my baby’| diet, ho luggested Aylmer Liver, Beef and Vegetable Soup be used n a tian Mrs. C. S. Hogg. "Wlun . Neiirosis-—believing you have a dough press mm cracks and physical aWncnt when none exis‘: smooth over with,“ putty ‘mum —is becoming iricrczisifitily mm- mnn. send today for Dr. Barton's Dark Furniture patients were being discharged than were being admitted. Some of the l8 policies of the Veterans Administration mentioned iii the Journal of the American Medical Association as helping to prevent and curc mental illness are: 1. Establishing mental units in general hospitals so that. patients and their families would not carry the stigma associated with mental hospitals. 2. Establishing medical and surgical sections in the mental hos- pitals, so that mental patients could be treated for medical and sur- gical conditions, the removal of wihich in a great many cases helped lo correct the mental condition. 3. Use of the electric shock and insulin shock treatment. 4. Use of iohotomy treatment -- cutting the nerves supplying the front part of the brain and thus relieving grief and depression. 5. Extension of mental hygiene clinics to treat eligible veterans ba- fore they become ill enough to be mental hospital patients. 6. Introduction of the "teun technique" in the mental hygiene clinics. Each team, consisting o! a gravy, instead of putting butter on the potatoes. ‘It: adds the right kind of ' ‘ ant-and you'll Ind it makes‘ baby's potatoes a better consistency and so much tastier! Aylmer Liver, Beef and Vegetable Soup is ideal for thin purpose —and my baby certainly loved lti” Yes, Aylmer Liver. Beef and Vegetable Soup is “just made" for babies~and gives them the fine food values of beef liver, the protein of selected lean beef and the vitamins and mincmll of vegetables cooked garden-fruit! For good nourishment, good flavor-and good vullL8—Ch00fl Aylmer Baby and Junior Foods BABY and YLMER: Your Baby Duorvu Ayfmor Qualify Dldddul In. C. 8. Hnfl. Iwiuabd from MacDonald Inufimtn, Gudpia and took Ilolpi- falbuinln] in dicfeficc—- which now coma in va-y handy bringing up her hm and! dtildrul. MNIOR FOODS psychiatrist (treating behavior , ,, _‘ conditions), a psychologist tlreiii- “Klaus ..»~i.i-~i"‘ ing odd or mistaken trends of " ' " "'“"“ "" ' thinkiiigi and two psychiatric soc- ial workers. carries the full load or complete treatment of patients. It greatly speeds treaiiment tlnd pre- vents many veterans from becom- ing patients in mental hospitals by early and effective treatment: oi‘ their illnesses. 7. Widespread use of volunteer workers in mental hospitals and development of a- progrcni of public education- regarding mental illness- 95 7. 5.. IAJOIISQINJI!’ Scrapbook Iy Roberto Inc Crock Filler 8. ‘ilstabllshment of research programs into the causes of war neurosis. epilepsy" double person- ality and other ailments. Mix thoroughly 1 lb. plaster o! Paris and ‘f4 lb. borax. Put t4 lb. dried glue in water and let it soak until the consistency of mucilagc; then mix it with other ingredients until it. becomes about like biscuit NEUROSIS informative booklet. on this suhtect entitled "Neurosis." To obtain it. 1f dark polished furniture has lust 591111 10 “Hi5 find l‘ 34TH’ cloudy streaks, remove them by stamp. l" (‘Over "(M "7 hfiudlfll" wiping with a cha-mois wrung our and mailing. to The Bcll Svndii-efe. in care of this newspaper. Post 0f- fire ‘Box Ftallon C, New Vrvrk l9. N. Y“ and risk for _\"‘lli‘ cnoy of cold water. The luster will be clear after the furniture is polished, Washing Woolen; To prevent the wooleris from bc- sx- =-__ coming stiff and hdrd after wash- ing add a few drops of glycei-ine The staf uay- or a pinch of bcrax to the wash m Q ' l . 8,1 Genevievn Kembln “a er mm57=1§¢ ~~ ~. x _ E 41?. For Tuesday. November 2 Better English a THE auguries are most. propi- m 0' mm"- tious for a pleusari‘. and prosperous state of affairs. in business, social and romantic cr domestic sffiiia. 1_ what 15 “iron; with gm; sen. lions. These should be pursucd fence? "The cardboard box was with confidence in the element of cpushgd out, o; ghapg," personality and chwn. which may 2. What i Bthe correct pronunc- prove productive when other en- lgtion of "Italian"? dcavors might be negative. In fln- .1, which one of these words 3.. imfilfil "IBNPTS. Dfollefll’. DQ554355‘ misspelled? Osfensiblc. oscillate ions, or employment. advantage Qsgimaig may be found through the friendly. 4_ w)“; does waiitn, good-natured and harmon- -------———-—— ious approach. rather than strictly a business one. Romance is empti- HSlI/Cd under such benign rule. the word "cal- I-‘oi- the Birthday Those whose birthday it is, may anticipate n particularly sctlvu and pleasant year. especially in the realm cf social. domestic and pro- fessional affairs. ft may be a. time for the pursuit of pleasure and cul- iruru, and, as well, the friendly and FLATTERING TWO - PIECEI Good senson in, season out. ll this two-piece featuring a fitted jacks: F"°'°““ ‘Ppmm m“ “w” that m a peplum m rdlmd m mg°“w"tlr"°';°“f,l,mr“egg mflmflfj hiplino-for sublc flatteryi nt- tion o! personality charm magnet- w?" 3w“ chd“ °' thnmimfl“ Needlccraft "FOR THE HOME Modern Etiquette IyI-Obcrhlnl anonnnnoocomxnaai Q I: there a certain order ii which aubomobilcs leave, foliowln| a church wedding? . A. Yes. The car of the bride nn§ bfldqzroom leaves first, tliei-i ti“ bridesmaids, followed by the bride» Parents. then the bridegi-ooms plb ants, next the nearest relatives last the friends. , Q. Is it rude for a guest at din- ner to refuse s. dish’! A. At a snail dinner. where tin 31°59“! ml)‘ not have a large var- iety of dishes, it. is better to par. We o! each. even if all of it is 710i eaten. Q. Should one cul. potatoes with the knife? “Al. No; only the fork should i! E . buiteiel "m!!!" mean? 5. What is a word beginning with cr that means “severe; decis- ive: testing"? ANSWERS 1. Omit “out of shape," as crush means to squeeze so as to destroy the natural shape. 2. Pronouncl the i as in it. not as in ice. 3. Oscul- ate. 4.-A false. malicious, and in- furious accusation. “A probablo story is the first weapon of cil- 5. Cfllclftl. umflv." — Proverb. 1 Ohild’: 8 ‘lb relieve miseries without. dosing, rub onv QRII! h t ma. imcouiiy wiieii manna; it. with iii- ‘nd u‘ M m" w” ° dclfbie ink? A. Stretch the mamm tightly in embroidery hoops. This gives a 11m; smooth Iurfsco on which to wor . r YOU WOMEN ' sump is still favored due perhaps to its popularity with the Prin- cclus. Ito Pflnclplc seems to be to have u little covering of the foot u possible. There is l wide range of fancy styles but the plain court with its slimming classical lino is notice- able l1! ill ablcncc. . lost. acceptable rmgu an the soft or liesvy vnlldng sheen and boots for bid weather. In luodcl, grained leather, calf, nptilc skins and hide: they In in many styles and colon. The heavier shoes in than an mm particularly bud llO'l' FllSllISiien FEEL Cllll. dlcpc-co-lcd while 8h; lfgh‘ , tmminh styles have mini-t wedges o. low ism» ma. llcrc’: Good Nomi Anyoubctwuntiaagcooffimd B2 d h thl - 3i.§'i“l.§i'.l?;l2-q.-"'¥i3! you nah: from hot Icahn. fccl °'-i~i...""'"'°"'i’.‘;“‘.i.'."f£“i>“i'.i.‘f..'2'-Z Vegetable lltlahnmu thht ' Q- n»- n- 1 mm oi» Thai-mi. o-s-amm- whirl’: mix-a: spots frcm wall paper? hrl to help build up unison |n|'& Dgghygggllggtomgchlc A. This can often be done b7 ,. tonic at. LYN‘: Fgfmgwgd, ‘gémrmlllrng, ‘a ..ophu-iioiia Jornhfllfllfl. PIIKIAIIRILI" Hwltinddodlnd m u»... - M» ma» == Lydia E-Plnkhlllfl iiuinuii: coiiroiiiio If windows are hard to raise pour a little hot shortening between the window frame and the casing, and allo on the roller. WHO SUFFER \ ' ism. there should be more pleasant and prosperious relations than tn purely commercial or sordid tactics. Seek employment with assurance. A child born on this day should be " ‘ with a warm and attrac- tive pérsona-lity. in which its cher- ished hopes and wishes may matc- risiizc by its charm, culture and magnetism Cook's Corner} WAFFLED BISCU! SANDWICHES (About nine) 2 cups sifted flour ‘f. teaspoon nil. 3 teaspoons baking powder 4 tablespoons solid hi. 2/3 to 9t cup milk Deviled ham or other spread Bifl: flour. salt, and baking pow- der, cut in lhortening. and add milk to make c stiff dough. ‘him out onto lightly floured board. knead gently for s half minute. sleeves. short or long sleeves. No. 2427 is cut fn sizes 12. 14. 16. 1B. 20. 36. 38. 40- 42. 44. 46 and 4!. Size 38 IOQIHNB 4% yards 39-inch. send 20c for each PATTERN which includes complete sewing guide. Print your Name- Address and Style Number plainly. Be lure tn state size you want. Include postal unit. oi- zone number in your address. Address Pattern Department. The Charlottetown Guardian. Plbtern No. 242! Name Addfll city human and mil out to it inch in tiildam. cut. rounds and place two tcflflm- with deviled ham or other finely ' ‘ sandwich lprud bccwlcn. Place a sandwich in each nctlul of your hot waffle iron and ban until well browned. about 8% Illn- utes. Serve r» II-4UALIIIIbran ,