-:- Social- Personal -:=- 1 r Box , 4 Lette _f Give Her an Allowance IShe Marries?-A Son Who Would _ eitge His Mathew-Getting Acquainted - M . Wifll Friend Husband u Dix-I am in love with a boy of 23 who will graduate from km June. My family are oppressed to the marriage because of pay a young army officer receives. However, I am deeply in love ' with this young man, who is a. fine man in every res- pect. and I ‘want my family to give me an allowance ‘for the first few years of my marriage, as they are sufficiently WEli off to do this and I am an only child. What do you think about. girls receiving allowances his; their marriage in order to make them financ- iullyflndepcndent? H. C. L-tl Answer". I thinlEtl-latwhen a. girl marries her family should .glve her- an allowance, or nlake some sortof settle- ‘lncrltvlnpon he: if tlicy can possibly afford to do so. » Every other civilized countly in the world does it. We the only people who ‘Jringup a girl in luxury, and cultivate extravagant ". in-‘her,’ and then thrust her on some poor young man to support with- kclliii her hand“, oi‘ a rag to her back except the cllifions in her » Q5“- . rlrlf; w; i‘ '. Y,‘ islfitrright. It isn't fair either to the girl or to the man. It isn't fair l; '= , ~- lslncc, unless she marries aboy who has inherited a. fortune, and 5 ~ are few and far between and often spenders and wasters that no sen- glfl wants to marry, and who would be the poorest sort of match ii’ she marlymle of them-it tin-lists her-into a. life for which she is unpre- Qid-iorces hardships upon her which she is not trained to meet. - v ». man who is Just starting out to make his fortune can support ' wiieflinltbe style fir which she has been accustomed to live l1 her‘ father ‘fpsggpecous man. He hasn't the income at 25 or 30 that father has at gv-afin-Eflp can't give his wife. the clothes, the house, the servants, the ' which her father gives her. girl may be willing to do without many oi these and live irgpler manner, there is no denying thatit is bitter hard for one ‘I566. to having pretty frocks to have to go shabby, to one who H Edutamake he: own bed to have to cook and wash and iron. - 6118.! always had plenty to be harrassed by debts. _ F“ ,7 . ., , . _ , 1 l, ' . u. ' ' orrithe young man, too, who marries a girl who has been used fin; gverything. 1t htfrts his pride to feel that he has dragged her down i to poverty, and it hurts his pride to have to deny her the, lux- 1‘ n- . . - - necessities tether-gm ciallylbecaus: she doesn't know how to save, she r "the most ofptho few dollars they have and she ls he pmate. No man has the right. to cultivate lin- , “tastes in his daughter and then expect a poor young _ l . ffisrrt- easy to change the habits oi a. life-time and gleepfl-Sbhm strength oi character and has an unusual “ape; apiiio grow dissatisfied and peevish, and fretful and she its»; dlluthe hardships of a poor man's wife, _ anxiety about the future get on a young couple's rtel-ves and 1-,»; did thingrto each other, and another home goes on '§5could hail/sheen, saved if there had been a. little pun or two ~95???“ rill -. ». . _ know that many parents feel that it is good for; young people to have » '10: themselves, and go through hard times, but in a world“ that is sorrow at best see no reason for adding to this gloom, no reason why ofiyouth should be dimmed, no reason why all the Joy and romance ' first years of marriage should be blotted out by the lack of money, {justly little would keep-the dream unbroken. I can see no good in l‘ - A being made unnecccsarily’ unhappy. ‘ - I believe that psrshts should give their children when they marry ', ' h money to make them comfortable. but not enough to make them ' ‘ hat they do not have to make an effort for themselves. Enough to them independent, but not enough to make them parasites. And 1 believe veryfather who can afford it should give his daughter an allowance - auto have something of her own gives a woman a feeling of independ- and self-inspect that adds imlneasurably to her happiness. ' nortorr-lv nix. '——-—--1 ". i ar Miss Dix-I am a boy 16 years old and have ioul- sisters younger . I and ‘a wonderful, good mother. I thought I had a wonderful dad, too. my mother toldme the. other day that my dad has another wife and en, and that this other woman goes by his name and so do the child- ,’ ' My dad loves this ivoman and hc spends most of the time with her, ' e does not wanLmy-lrlothclqto free him so he can marry her. My ' has tried~eve v lug to keep our little family together and at night hear her prayingand callirlgmy dad's name to come home to her. She - free him or do anything ache could to help illm. You can imagine how flcr as he only tltakoo fiilltaqwcck. am in my lastqltbtrlat high school. Mysister, l5 years old, is in her sec- Q51‘. mar-Mission do-ycu tlluiu I would be Justified in killing this woman cache‘ knew before those other children of his were bom that . a married’ man? ’ J OSIEPH. .1 ,,. c-u_—nu . A , , -= unvrrrwr m. "' " -- little Joseph so soon confronted with the sordid wickedness oi the , so young to have such u heavy burden laid upon your shoulders, I keep with you. and I°;Y1np<lilr._whnt punishment is great enough for like your father who bilify helpleis little children into the world and them to shift for themselves. ut. dear boy, the remedy for your trouble ls not murder. Can't you sec '- at would make the case infinitely worse? Your poor mother is miscr- 1- - gh now, but. the sorrow oi an unfaithful .husband. would. be. as -- ; to her agony over a son whose hands were red with blood. and who . ding in the'_shadow of the electric chair. onlouncs is mine,“ saith the 14rd. "1 will repay." Leave ‘it to KIM lure thairyour dastardly father and bis mistress will be Dllnllhcd fol‘ ' ~ doing. ‘thing l5; ybu to ‘do is to‘ study vary hard ‘that you can get t0 " lAnll llave a Clear Shll . , Gently anoint the affected put with Cuticum Ointment. Wash o6 l -.v'{, ., .. ....--.._,.............. ,..,...... .........- ....-._. > .. -.... -v§-fl@. .- .- ‘ Simple Suppers By Barbara B. Brook All-Bran Muffins Up-sido-down 0th Decaffeinated Coffee Many housewives plan to serve din- ner in the middle of the day with a lighter meal at night. This custom is almost universal for one day in the week-I-Sunday, and usually there arc callers who will be delighted to avail themselves oi the invitation to "sup- per." The hostess will wish to serve dishes which are easily prepared. probably ahead of time. so that she can the more courteousiy entertain he: guests. There is a wide range oi recipes- from which the hostess can choose‘ her supper dishes. salads, sandwiches, creamed vegetables, meat or fish on toast, or perhaps a casserole dish with simple v accompaniments may form the meal. l _. For abevel-age, without which even a simple supper is not complete, we suggest decaffeinated coffee. Ordin- ary coffee is avoided by many at the evening meal on account of the caf- feine which it contains which may cause sleeplessness. Following are some suggestions for supper menus and some recipes for dishes which may be included ln- the menu: Beef, Obese and Touch lllidwlcli ‘>4 cup ground dried bee! it cup snappy cheese Tomato Soup Put dried bee! thru the food chopl per. Press cheese thru u. sieve. Mola- ten with tomato soup. " Waldorf‘ Salad 2 medium 2 medium apples l bunch of celery l cup Rice Kirlspies Do not peel the apples as tn; red skin adds color to the salad. Dice the celery. Mix with Rica Krispiu and salad dressing. serve on lettuce leaf. Date Bars 2 cups dates. seeded and chopped fine i5 cup nut meats, cut fine 2 ‘eggs, beaten light ‘ii cup honey ll cup flour 1 teaspoon baking powder ii cup All-Bran Mix well, bake 20 minutes in mod- erate oven. Servo with cream, whip- ped or plain. May be roiled in pow- dered sugar and served. All-Bran Waffles supremo 1 _. Cheese and Olive Sandwiches with , Bran Bread Beef, Cheese and Tomato Sandwiches on White Bread Frozen Fruit Salad, Macroons ' Decaffeinated Cofec 11 All BIB-ll Wffliflfls Boiled Bacon Maple Syrup ‘ ' Ambrosia. Decaffeinated Coffee 1 ".- cups flour 4 teaspoons baking powder l teaspoon salt 2 tablespoons sugar 2 eggs (beaten separately) i cup sweet milk Creamed Eggs ~ '-'_- cup melted shortening Toast Melba Potato Chips‘ =5 cup All-pm. Waldorf Salad slit dry ingredients, Beat egg yolks Date Bars and add milk. Add to dry ingredients - Decaffeinated Coffee and mix well. Add melted shortening ‘ _ and All-Bran. Fold in stlifly beaten jcgg whites. Bake in hot waffle iron until the mixture ceases to steam. 111 1V Chicken or Veal Salad Household Hints By Roberta Dec Ink On Silk . - t, ‘To remove ink from silk, saturate‘ the spot with turpentine. Allow it to remalrl for several hours, then rubi between the hands. This will also take! ink outof cotton ‘and worsted goods ulithout injury. Ankle Sock; For Evening Ankle socks. which proved so P0P‘ ulur in Europe for feminine sports wear last summer, have invaded the ball roomflTl-lcy are made of the an- est silk decorated with gold and all- _ ver thread, and are worn over flesh- Buttermilk is a healthful drink. It colored gossamer stockings. aids digestion, extermlnates the waste matter that clogs the system, quiets the nerves, and induces sleep. Buttermilk Londoners our... out More women in London are dining out than ever before. Ono observer estimates that in the exclusive West End there are about 4,000 first-class diners nightly, with about 8,000 on Saturday. But for the women, he says, the number would be much smaller. pry shoe Polish If a few drops of turpentine arel added to shoe polish that has become, dry and hard. it will soften it. I Slot Machines For Bicycles This, LAND WE LOVE by mm: LEIGH Goin-in-thc-slot locks for cyclists iarebcing placed in prominent places * in Berlin, Geffilfllly. Depositing the coin releases a chain with s. lock and Q How many w“ cembmrlcs are key, and the cyclist fastens his bicy- mm, m which Clanadmns a“ buried” cle, pockets the key and goes on his A’ The Imperial waénrg-‘ges com; way feeling sure that his wheel will mission looks after all the war cam-i be prmected‘ etcrles for the different countries of the Empire. There are a, thousand in France and Belgium alone, with 300 to ten thousand graves in each and. in addition, I500 plots in Paris cem- eteries .in all of which are many Canadllngraves. The work of the Commission extends from the Baltic to the Bosphorous, from Antwerp to Jerusalem. across Indian and Chills ln New Zfllflnd and Australia. There are ‘I000 war graves in Canada, in 1500 different places. l wan gzanlrranlss Glrl Architect Wills Competing lllinlt 20 men. Misl Betty Scott of xnnsirlgmi, England. a tvnnty-two-ycu-old ll hitectural student, has won the Victory Scholarship of the Royal Institute of British Architects. 5110 lstué iiratwomcntcwintho resolu- ship. The priu includes a my; medal and i160. innards llalmcac (or tin grippc ud l‘ work u quickly-as pollibll to'h'olp take clrc oi your mother, and by your love and tenderness make up to her for her unfaithful husband. . nix. -___ . 9*" DOM!!!’ Div-I have been mil-lied four Ylars and I don't kIII my hulbmd any better-today than the" day we vim married. We can’: undo-stand each other, can't agree onlnything, can't pun; c"; “up, have nothing in common. Therefore, n arc always quot-rim; wug y,“ you advise us to do? . i I. II. W. ._.__..... Answer: i .- - , ‘h’! to get acquainted. Unless yoularc on utter moron, and yom- mm does not indicate that. you can understand your husband and and can flu hvllkcunddblikesand whlthilopinlonl m. Tncaccmutacal. Whoa we say we don't understand people, nine tints but of in we ma: thit we can't lorcmtbcm. w do our my and conform in our tom. WI I67 vs w“ under-mud why John un- qm or prcfm musical ma; a a sob drama, or why he likes the radicmbcacun up mph without calm. and like high plm. and loathe the radio. n Wu vrillgot iplpblnt olvlow you will undetltlnd hill! “lily bnoulh, '°“l 9*“ * ail "rue CH cuslror_ Fashions -:- Literature Al Fashion Hint mum. or sronrs noun You'll just adore it! It's so modern and typically WOT“. m6 WW ever!’ amlriwwoman includes in her ward- robe for all-around wear. Even $119 fabric shows modern trend in dia- gonal weavein fashionable tri-color theme of beige, brown and oranilfl- 1'» closes at side with attached, Jflbflli 11'1" with unique trimming piece with but- ton at neckline. A row of tiny buttons appear again in hip band which holds the garment ‘closely to the figure. Style No. 438 is designed in sizes 16. ll, 20 years. 3d, 38, 40 and 42 inches bust. In the 364mb sire, Hi. yards of 40-inch material is sufficient. For morc- formal wear, choose figured chiffon, or monotone georgette crepe. Pattem price I5 cents in stamps or coin (coin is preferred.) Wrap coin carefully. - ' we suggest that when you send for this pattern you enclose l0 cents ad- ditional for a copy of our Spring Fashion Magazine. It's just filled with delightful styles, including smart en- sembles, and cute designs for the kiddies. For no Cook I Thistloiorvn can Take one pound of sugar, half a pound oi flour, foul- eggs, one pound oi eurranta, the equal half a package of raisinsiivc cents worth of mixed orange and lemon peel and cltron, six ounces of butter, (our ounces of lard. two teaspoons of baking powder and a‘. pinch of salt. Cream the butter and sugar, and lard. add the eggs, beat separately, flour the peel and raisins which you have sifted the baking powderysnd when you have mixed all as well as possible, add milk or water enough to make a stiff batter just thin enough to pour into a well-greas- ed pan. Bake in rather a‘ slow oven. Etiquette lyRbbcfl-IIAI Q. When is it propel- for a woman to be presented to a man? A. Only when the man is the president of a country, a, ruler, or a cardinal. Q. Wlut should a well-dressed man wear with full dress? A. Ii pllih white waistcoat, white shirt, and white tie. Q. Which edge oi the knife is placed towards the plate? A. The cutting edge. AA MorniingSmile I Two lttls urchins were watching a harbor sings a customer's hair. "our nld one, “he's hunting ‘cm with c light." Miami's Llnllnut prevents Flu. Daily Argument . POOR PA l! cum: chum: ‘in the flour you mean to use, and into‘ Milqdy Beautiful - ayubucd; BEAUTY QUESTIONS ANSWERED Blackheads and Smooth. Skin Dear Miss Lecds-(l) What can 1 do to remove blackheads and mflke my skin smooth? (2) How can I re- duce fat legs? I. C. E- Answer-(ii Blackheads are 0b- structed oil Blinds: the natural oily secretions have become mixed with face powder and dust from the air. The only way to overcome the con- dition is to keep your skin clean by using plenty of soap and warm water. Lather and. rinse your face several times before the final rinse in cool water. After cleansing out the black- heads you should use an astringent lotion or ice to close the pores. Be- sides these local treatments you must avoid constipation, eat wisely, drink six or eight glassfuls of water daily between meals. exercise outdoors every day. Never apply new make-up over old, but cleanse the skin thor- oughly beiore putting on a fresh coat of face QOWdEWOP rouge. (2) Walk briskly five miles a day. " LOIS LEEDS. a implssw-Reduci _ Abdomen Dear Miss Leeds-ii) I have a few pimples, some blackheads and en- larged-pores. I do everything you suggest in your column to cure them. but they do not improve, What more can I do? (2) My abdomen is large. although I do all the reducing exer- cises. 1t becomes larger after meals. I take many exercises bobh morning and night. (3) I run l-i years old and 5 feet 4 inchcs- tall. What should I MAR’ .14.» =9 an To obtain the 9i experi- Blendin Rod RopeTea in flies/grand nil-bodied richness rcquitéfl X931‘! "cocci. Every paclgagcjguaranteed. - to have pimples is common at your reply to I. C. E. and Jerry .50“ ags and you will outgrow it in a few about the care of the skin, years. It is often one of the symp- 1,015 53355 toms of adolescence. Be very carcfuijlbmol-l-uw-Llgug- m,“ h, 0"" to avoid constipation and get plenty "m"; of ‘fresh air and outdoor exercise. (2) The large abdomen may be due to a number oi causes, including in- digestion. incorrect posture, constlpa-t ‘lion, the habit of bolting your foodt , , ' Match Hair without thorough mastication, over-i eating. Acquire the habit of Silllldlflfli tall and contracting your abdominal; ATLANTIC CITY. N. J. Marchld muscles so that your abdomen is flat. The implication in -the charts of Do not expect immediate results from stylists at the National Association exercises, but keep them up day after of Retail Qlothelrs and Furnishem day. in session here, which show haw to (3) The average weight for your-harmonize clothes with the h“; age and height ls 118 pounds. but make no provisions for the (4) Becoming colors for you in- bald headed man may cauio the cludc most shades of blue (sapphire, hairless some cllaflfln if the aforel electric, cadet, Wcdgewood. navy), raid charts ever are accepted u (h; BTOWHS. warm tans, peach, pastel. dictum cf fashion. Plllkfl. old rose, beige. amber, soft! Red heads, it was indicated, golden hues, cream, black, blue-gray,’ alerted the ‘fad of matching their bright rcd, rust, henna, clarf} green, ntg-ll-e with their ¢omp1ex1°m_ and almond, reseda and blue-greens. now 113m hatred. dark hm.“ and LOIS hEEDa 8K5’ haired men are provided with —~—— the perfect ensemble. Miss Slxtecrfs Beauty Problems Q Dear Miss Leeds (.1) I am l6 year's old. 5 feet 3 inches tall and weigh about 112 pounds, How can I‘: reduce. especially around the hips‘), (2) Please name c ilair-grou-ing tonic. Some one recommended vase- linc. Is that good? (3) My skin gets blotcliy with pimples around my, mouth. ' How can I cure this? 1 m, say’ q beg m “My. s“, u‘ “M, ABIGAIL‘ ' to state." ‘mill f": orrsu Mlrenonounclsn; droi- pourlcls underweight. You need tot 191-3.; o as in l-no.» mt u m no!“ gain, not lose. weight Unless your} OFTEN LHSSPELLED. apbmy hips are more than 26 inches they; flute; m, ‘mm are not too wide. 12> Itls contrary to my policy to recommend any com-l 951931;, qualmei adequate. . . . Lesson in English Ily W. B. Gordon WORDS OFTEN MISUBED! D0 Answer-i ll Yoll are weigh? (i) I have golden brown hair blue eyes and a. fair skin. - What colors are becoming? JERRY. Answer-ll) Please see my reply to I. C. E. above as to local treatments THE MIKADU filifififéi? . for your type of skin. The tendfihfly] brush your hair well (i) mcrcial products by ncnlc. . Vaseline‘ WORD sq-“Dyztuw ‘word m,“ 1B flood for the hair. especially for; “mes and n, 1s ynursy- Let us ‘notes!’ dry hair that is falling out. Do not‘. om- vocalgula“. Ly, mastering Om Wm,‘ fvlsst to massage your scalp well for; “ch day Tod,“ wow. Assmm, w “t 1”" m‘ "mm" “ My» “V”? "We for granted: suppose. "Arc you See my, satisfied to assume that this is true?’ die st beautiful ‘ m patterns you ‘ave ever What more practicalin; veatment in charming housofurnishlnga i ; , , Th; u gililtlnctiye beauty oi the new th llcado r design... th all ° ‘tllitmeflrinfl qua] ties oi 8¢flllifl¢ Gongoleum . . .at house- mmiihiflfl atone . . . now. . .for just: a fraction of what you would expect so pay for ouch unusual pattern beauty. 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