5 . '3'. day 31, the following mtrning -- the mo- .i., any despair we experienced at ....- 3,Z".l;nc. The grain,hI1 and bed- Iv 3? . have been all for .3; 6- A OyI11eI1'Sl'E3'IiI11 . I ' I I- -.pu-cue--m-es-v-u-v-ota-an-oe-- LLEll'8 illllil L 3; aa lllIll'i'IlGU'I Wile g,:.:-yuiayouriarmere arrived at T ' other milestone in their farm- ,oetowhichtheywill refer. to later years. as ,"that we finished hauling the lum- ber forthe new barn to the mill.” i-mey will also be able to recall "mi... wild night in December of "igo" which carried away most of the roof of the old oneiu lone ., memory lute. we too-shall re- member it well, and the concern of stored there. and Pitt :1! in much depends our livelihood. at 'l '."ihe mercy of wind and weather. And Winter colnei Now, past the toll of the repairing, past the vi- sion and dream of the new. lion! Lihe our days of lumbering. they this evening reached another mark in their endeavour when last loads were drawn to await the spring sawing at the mill. The black dog from an uncom- (urtable but favored look-out on the roof of the cellar-entrance tal- lied the loads as we have often seen the farmers tally each bushel of potatoes at the grading or grain at the threshing or in the season of cleaning. taking note of V each measure, though his was not kept in the same manna. He marked each unit, by a sharp pleased bark. It rang into our sil- once to keep the housewives in- formed of their husbandsl where- abouts. an item of knowledge most important. and often required of those of their family at home. James drove the new mare, a fine animal. kind in disposition, willing and strong and if ever a satisfying purchase to all. To the younger farmer went the team. It uses ”our own mare"" and he to whom we refer as "the young horse" though when we cane to consider it, quite a few years have already passed over his head. He is a brother to the filly left by her- self now. lince her mother has returned from a box-stall to oc- cupy her old one in the stable. "Do you hear that?" 5" nddaugh- ter will ask, awed by the magic of the conversation - the animated nickers which pass betwe "she's stul lonely" she will sigh. desol- ate at the very thought of such "a .4 separation. "That wind storm cer- tainly gave us a lot of work" James grumbled a bit at supper." "But you never can tell. . . things work out so strangely. It may the but” we said. . . "Did you read this. Ellen?" he asks. looking up from a mega- zine he had been lesflng through rather vidly. "An article about 'Crises in Marriage' by Morgan winters. You never know about writers" he smiles. "Might be man or woman - married or single. But I reckon thta-eta truth in it. in any event. Listen: 'criaes in mar- riage. occur mainly in the follow- ing periods: during the first few months of marriage, after the se- cond. child is born. between the ages of ac and so. and around the use of so: " swiftly our years to- gether-.paas now in review. first? Why. that was a spell high adventure and fascinating- in a rosy world made justifor two. We were unaware of the next crises. became by this, it was evi- dent that we should need a second . lilnn and that left us little time to strain at life's bands. The third. we recall happily found us busier than ever with our farming - an eternal round of it was thrust boon us, along with spectaclu, added acres. . . and Jamie, if need be. to bind two closer in a m.- and lovely interest. The last scene we now live. While it is true that ordinarily we might now have time to study any incom- Datibiuty in our married state. the December wind 0' rain has taken over and played our cards for us. Just to anticipate the busy days alu-ad is to know there will be no time to consider these. nor strength left over to tug at our smooth, gclden- chains. . . "Per- hnln I" all for the best" .we whis- inr. And James hearing loch up from his reading to ask: "What did yes say, Ellen?" We giggle. "Nothing - that is. . . time to put out the James nods "Quito!" Until tomorrow Good-night. . . . E-to r.-ii-..no1 . i --r.- n. . MliSlA”IiDWBAlH Dissolve 2 or 3 ubiupooninls et mum! is ellttle cold Water. at fear loiato ycd let bet,b.HAftIr IIO.:ht3...kl said: "Why are action activities. it may be possible in mm creme cum: and well-developed their so on on the brain. but both i lferpllthngav sumo. . , ' ".'.'.”.l'.'.'..:.. line ' to, not y.'1'lI.mvGtJAl:.nIA1e I-PAGE Nuns , .. 3 Cook's Corner - G ' BAKED KIAUT DINO WITH FIANKIU ITIIS (Ihkes 4 servings) 1 No. alt can sauerkraut 2 tsblemoona melted butter 1 cup grated i ' cheese 1 ableepoon chopped chives 4-0 frankiurtsrs Drain" juice from sauerkraut. (Use Juice for vegetable cocktail.) In a bowl. combine sauerkraut, butter. cheese and chives. Press sauerkraut mixture into a greased 1-quart ring mold. out frank.furt- era crosswise into quarters. Place in a baking dish. Bake sauerkraut ring and frankfurtera in a moder- ate even (860 degrees) 20 minutes. Unmold sauerkraut ring on a platter; place baked frankfurters in center. Serve immediately. If a sauce is desired for the frankfurisrs, combine 1 loit- .ounce can tomato soup. 1 table- spoon butter. 1 tablespoon grated onion. 2 teaspoons parsley and it cup water in a saucepan. simmer 5 minutes. ” Bel-irer English By I. O. Wiliiarrl 1. What is wrong with this sen- tonne? "I will be back in a few minutes. and I hope every one of you are still here." I 2. What is the correct pronunc- iation pof "plcayune"? 3. Which one of these words is misspelled Demeanor. deiiusion, deficiency. d .. d . 4. What does the word "con- versant" mean? ii. What is a word beginning with re that means "having reason or understanding"? ANSWERS 1. Say. "I shall return in a few minutes. and I hope every one of you is still here." 2. Pronounce pik-a-yoon. ias in pick, a un- stressed. oo as in moon, accent last syllable. 3. Delusion. 4. Intimately acquainted; familiar. (Accent is on i'iret syllable). "Radio and televis- ion make it possible for everyone to he conversant with current events." 5. national. .. -at r ?HousehoIcI Scrapbook Chipped Vaee a lf.a piece has accidentally chip- ped out of the top of a treasured vase, mold a piece of putty into the cavity and paint the same shade la the rest of the vase. It will be noticed far-less than if left Figure iulgea If you wish to hide bulges be careful to choose the right ' tr Wide belts should not be worn if the girth is thick. only the nar- rowest belt you can find should be INHI. ' Diacolorcd Aluminum Diacolorsd aluminum will brighten beautifully by rubbing it with a cloth dipped in lemon Juice and then rinsing in warm water. 5 Morning Smile ii '3 ' Literally Must Two ants were running along a ' box when one of them we running so fast." The other answered: "We have to-it sayll right here. Tear aloniz the dotted line.'' Useful Bobby Glow -can this bridge player make a living in l-lollyvwoodl" "oh he'll do bid parts" Seeking lortune "Does the crystal gacer work here?" "Yes, but he's over at the palm- iat's getting his hand read." V?V'? i'fom'” ; The Stars Sey- - I I! Genevieve lnnble g? for Tomorrow Bftconcentrated and aggressive on pending problems and very much wowtlrwhils and gibla results. rorthrigllt attack rted by sound. vital and "en- could aecmlplilit the most 55?: ambitions. me will to win, up. hystout efforts and strenuous tactics. could spell prog- ress with and responnibiii ta. 0 achievement 4 It It 53.. nuuuay Those wlIbaI'in&irg13l!opit!ii, . at an crime: ' with courage, assuring. ungiblcre .l0l".! rlt, and andurina . ti; . I .-Ind lltlliINV..” ' "ma. -m f "1 well-being and increase physiegl A max TGCWhG ainswnn: Your " be dependents who are un-welc ring ilies. What should we do? their father is. I choose? its-D Old Maid . A Niece Days Woman May Be Spinsler By 'Ov'm Choice JDEAR MISS Dix: ls it a disgrace to be an oidrrnaldl Can an old maid be as great a woman and as much admked as her married sister? I , Estelle. ' had fished out of the hair-trunk in the attic. I didn't suppose that any- body nowadays even dreamed of its casting any reflection upon a wo- . i W”" man's character or even won her attractiveness for her not to marry. i In former times. when marriage was about the only gainful occupation open to women and when every woman's livelihood and podtion in society ' " , d ” upon her ” ” every girl married who could. Hence. for a woman to be an old maid led to the natural supposition that she was in some way inferior to her sisters, or else vhe would not have been passed over. . TIMES HAVE CHANGED But, thank goodness times have changed for women. They do not :have to marry now for a. meal ticket. They can go out and earn their own bread and butter and cake. They don't have to have a husband to protect them. They can take care of tlhunsclves. They don": naive to . guests in the houses of their relat- ives. They can set up their own homes. And so now whether a woman marries or stays single is a matter - of her own personal choice and taste, and nobody thinks that it is any more disgraceful for a woman to be an old maid than it is for a man to be an old bachelor. No women are more admired or sought after socially than the smartly dressed, intelligent, ulp-to-date, humorous and philosophical spvinsters who would be highly amused ..It iihe idea of anyone looking askancc at them because they did not wear a wedding As to your second question, as to whether an old maid can be as great a woman and as much respected as her married sister. Oif 43011116 she can, and is. The list of old maids who have achieved fame in liter- ature and the arts and who have headed causes is endless? Florence - Nightingale, Clara Barton. Susan B. Anthony, Frances Willard are only a. few of the old maids who have performed great mrvices to iihe world. There are iihousands of others who have given their lives to mothering humanity instead of their own ch-iidrcn.' ANSWER: Keep silent and keep your hands out of the mess. No good yet bu ever been accomplished by meddling in an illicit love af- fair. There is nothing you can say to a married man and a married woman who are indulging in a liaison that ohey do not already know. i And do not be cruel enough to tell the wife about her husband's un-favl.i'hfu'lness. There is nothing she can do to make him loyal and stop him from roaming. And if she knows leave her her peace and happiness as long as you can. She will have - long enough to endure her heartbreak. - And if. as I strongly suspect. the already knows and her pretense of ignorance is just a bluff to save her face. pay her courage and her gallantry the tribute of respecting it. There are no women braver or more to be admired than those wives who suiifer the humiliation they cndaure from unfaithful husbands in secret, and who keep up the fiction ' of being happy and contented wives in order to keep their homes to- gether and to keep their dlildrren from knowing or the kind of man g DEAR MISS DIX: The other day I told my mother I would like to do something great in the world and have a career. She said the best career 9. girl could have would to bye a wonderful wife and the mother of fine sons who wou'ld.do something great. Which career shall - ANSWER: You can't choose to have a great career. That is as Fate wills and depends on the gifts God gave you. Neither can you decide that you will be the mother of geniuses. That is also luck. But, gener- . ally speaking, I ilhin-k women are happiest who follow woman's pre- destined career of wifehood and motherhood. DOROTHY DIX cannot reply peratmally to readers, but will answer Ploblctu of general interest through her column. . like i” - that you '---r a " naturally DEAR DOROTHY DIX: We have a very good friend whose hus- band is going with a married women. We have hesitated to tell her about it as we did not wish to hurt her or humiliate her by letting her i know that it is common talk. but we feel that someone who loves her should tell her. This man has always been a yhialanderer. and we thought this would be just like his other atifhlrs with women and not last. But it seems to be very serious as he and the woman are together at every possible chance and appear to be very much in love. We feel that something dtould be done before it ends in disaster for both fam- FRIENDS. noriitln-g of the affair BABY. f RfFi EThsi Body Of Yours By James W. Barton. Il.D. -a.s.o:.0,:4mwc.w:sa4.:4.s.:u,-.M.,.-.. -; namrma ovllltwllilalrr wrrrl DRUGS THAT DECREASE APPETITE When an overweight person realizes that he is losing his ngure, he will give this matter more warning about the dangers of self of the overweight. Forgetting that his excess fat looks about for a quick method of removing this excess fat instead of removing it by the slow. able, taking more exercise. There are certain drugs which reduce the appetite and still allow work. Two outstanding drugs of this nature are Benzedrine sui- fate and Dexedrine Sulfate. Benze- "drine sulphate. amphet ine, nrst became widely known because a group of university students found that it removed fatigue and al- bright for many extra hours. Later it was found that the individual did not become hungry. ' In some cases of overweight of a hunger-reducing drug is ad- viaalble. Some expert advice on lsh Medical Annual by a group of physicians, Drs. R. R. Williams. W. Amer, and B. T. Towery. In in- vestigatlng Benzcdrlne and Dex- edrine sulfate. they found mt both drugs are effective in re- lng tite, mainly through cause certain side effects which mustlbe controlled by the physic- thom .i . certain patients. These aide s set: are dimineas. depress- tion. dryness and a metallic taste in the mouth. It was found that points caused fewer i did! than Benaedrlne sul- i lite. -Both drugs give a feeling .- Id 0111001178 and 40- gun. j mm 3' 3& III?-A ' M can ease-aaalaurr-A-rnvlsoua thought than he will; physician's l overweight to health and life lt- . came on slowly and gradually. he . safe . method of eating less food and, if I enough strength to carry on daily ' lowed them to study and keep” could not only do with less sleep ' but with less food also because he - physicians consider that the use - this subject is given in the Brit- ' D. Daughaday, W. F. ” gen. 5. P. ' ion or it may be unwise to use ' ion. insomnia. feelings of fruslra- ' and mental activity and even "am- Modern Etiquette I i, 'I Irlcbanaua 6 Q. If the bride-to-be has a bro- ther of suitable age, is the tbl'ld0- groom obligated to ask him to serve as one of the ushers? A. While he is not exactly ob- ligated. it is a thoughtful gesture and does make for better future relations with his wife's family. Q. Should dessert spoons be placed on" the table with the other silver when setting the table? A. No; these moons should he brought in with the dessert. my How Can I I i I In aaao aalleu V&im&xu Q. lbw can I measure out drool of any mule 1: 1 have no p crooner? ' ' A. Dip the finger in water and moisten the rim of the bottle in one place. If this place .is used from which to drop the liquid, it will drop evenly and easily. Q. How can I treat celery to insure its being served? A. Allow the celery to lie in water for about,scven or eight hours before serving. and it will M.-ea in s o Canadians for itsilssuirer . ” ' " T l tender when 4 be very tender. 9 At The Commerce, we like to make your banking transactions as clear and pleasant as we can.We want to be of real help to women in money matters. bition." They have helped many - alcoholics by removing desire for alcohol. and giving the individual a boost to carry him through the - day's work. However. in treating overweight, these physicians state that it is pointless to decrease ap- A petite if, at the same time. a re- ducing diet is not prescribed. Reducing the food intake is al- - WWI necessary with every method PS.' - of reducing overweight. forwomen 'wiowomt”lIh.”.e, v Here's: smart little booklet filled with things all women should know about in running their money.- ' just ask yourself these questions and then think how wise it would be to have the answers, indexed; in your purse or desk. 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