‘c ._ . Woman ’s, Realm , tthe Fahional Arc Wearing -:- Social and*P-ei__fsgonaylg_ THE CHAiLO'l"l‘E'l‘OWN GUARDIAN ‘. i ~ . ' ‘ -, Fashions F.- A-lllustrated Dressmaklng Lesson Furnished ' "" - with Every Pattern gt k. Can True Love Bridge the of Poverty and girl, engaged l/Oobt! married. to kiss, I y Etiquette ‘/ ‘llioueehold Hints f! Mlarly Beautiful n, label-es u. , , Ir hide Ins l Ir his was Qlr Is it proper for a man and hi5’ 531°" “iterature BoredomZh-Why the Husband Should Take and show their affection in the pres-i cnce of others? If the toes of shoes bind. wring f.) ‘ cloth out of hot water and lay ltl i r f l‘, vicious. l M.‘ a" ~. i l l 1 i | 1 l U black silk crepe with jacket bolero that. is mile.‘- lnto revers re- kullng lining in eggshell silk crepe TRYON AND VlClNITY" 1 14am isn't, time ‘in life - there isn't time to fret. about each pretty m m- wrong! you‘ll find folks love‘ youbettor when you smile; They do] w; want your frown. they want your song. lfmrs. Heath flowntt and twn chil- ilreryMsptt-l‘ Sllieldon and little Miss.‘ Roma are spending a week's holiday! "' P. m. I. ls paying a short visit to her’ parents Mr. and Mrs. lmds l-lowatL, l One of the moot enjoyable events: off the winter was thc Valentine; Frty. linlrl on Friday Evening, Feb. lot-h at the united Parsonage by the Utopian Society. Besides the usual‘ Society Members a number of boys‘ By Annabelle Worthington that will instantly appeal to the‘ . ing. woman of discriminating taste. 'I‘ho front of bodico is cut with V neckline which is most becoming and comfortable. treatment through the waist. baok of bodies is rather long-waisted. The attached circular skirt is clev- erly shaped to keep the hips flat with graceful fulness at hem for the all- day frock. ' It's dignified, smart and slenderis- Style No. 3274 can be copied ca- actly for it; comes in sizes 16,13 Years, ll. 3|, 40. 42, 44 and Al inches bust. Crepe satin in new dark brown shade with the bolero lined with re- verse of crepe is conservative and chic. Dark dahlla purple falllc silk crepe. black crepe satin, navy blue wool crepe, boctle green canton crepe, feather-weight woolen in black and white diagonal weave, and printed rayon crepe in burgundy tones smart. flll in slce of pattern. Address Pat.- tern iT-Mvtmont. Our Fashion Magazine ls l5 cents. but you may order a pattern and a Fashion Magazine together for 25 cents. N0. 3274. Silo ssnsoocoolllosolossi nun-nu"... . . . . . . a-sososlcsllaoa Name - . . . . . . . . . . . ...--n--a..-. ‘Street Address saloansaaaseasolloolnocouusossl State IQlssa Cit! It shows a swaihedi The His Turn at Minding the Baby-Should Two Redheads Marry? Dear Miss Dix-I am a young man, 20 years old. s junior in college. My parents are well educated. thrifty and very ambitio for me. their only son. I have fallen in love with a girl who is beautiful, sweet and good, but she belongs to a very uneducated and shiftless family and has had little education herself, as she had to gc to work when she was very young and clerks in a IO-cont store. My family objects to my marrying this girl. My mother thinks that because she is illiterate and doesn't care about reading or studying that we could never be happy together, but I know better and Iwant to quit school and marry her. I believe that when two people love as we do those littlc differences do _ not matter. I think that we consider the material sldeof nlntrimony too much, and that love is all that counts. What do you think? THOMAS l... Answer: _ .. . , . ' When an educated, cultivated man thinks he is in love with an ignorant illiterate woman he mistakes his feelings. What he thinks is love is infatu- ation. It. is a physical appeal that she makes to him, and that is all, for bcyontl that they have nothing in ommou". Real love is founded on a community of interests. It is the feelingthat two people hate fcr each other who speak the same language. who have the same interests and desires, who can enter into each other‘: thoughts, who can be real companions. The physical element ls a part of real love, but it ' ls subcrdinated to the soul. " Infwulntlrul is the shortest lived of nll emotions, but real lova.ls deathlcss. Ytu say that io\e l5 all that matters in marriage, but. _alas,.oul- lhlllty to love depends to n large extent upon material things. It ls very hard, for instance, for love to outlive abject. poverty. . A young couple may be ever so much in love with each other, but if thcy' marry without some adequate support their romance seldom survives they ordeal of squalid surroundings and poor food and shabby clothes and doing, without all the comforts of life to which they have been accustomed. For 77w Cool: BUTTERBCOTCII PUDDING do no: know where the next meal is coining from, and when they are dodg-L ing creditors and are torn with anxiety about the future. V Nobody, wants to; kiss W110i’! they are hungry. Nobody feels like indulging in poetical rhap- sodlcs when they are ovirworketl and harried by debt, and when they are‘ cold and miserable. It takes ease and comfort and a full stomach to make us think about ti": state 01' our hearts. Take one pint of sweet milk. three- quarters of a cup of brown sugar. a tablespoon of flour. a tablespoon of Iuitter, lhe yolks of three eggs. and cook all till thick in a double boiler. Then turn into a pudding dish. cool, with relatives in Weslmoleland. whm u.“ "hi," n; the "gm put on P- 5- 1- top and cook for l5 minutes. Mrs. willlsm Mym of Wmslce;__ _____.._.-... Mr. Lloyd l-Iowstt. of Borden Pill. spent. the week end, also ltlonday and Tuesday at Trycn. Mrs. John MacQua-nde and small son Donald of Hampton, I’. ll. I. are spending a fortnight the guests of her parents, Mr. and Mrs. Stetford Mullins. West Tryon. fnanclul foundation and a menu that includes plenty of becfsteak. An-l so you will find that the love in the garret myth has small place in real life and that those misguided couples who have undertaken to live on bread and cheese and kisses have deleted the kisses and are quarreling over the brtasl and cheese. The happy homes are those that have an adequate Now take you: own rase. You arc sure it. is folly to consider that you and the girl come of different classes, and you think that it will make no difference in your love because you are educated and she is ignorant." It may not. now in the days of courtship. when she is young and pretty, and all that you talk about it how much you love each other. _ , l Bul. marriage is for the long pull and how it is going to be when she has lost her good looks and vtlun you have grown tired of asking her how much she loves you. and is she utterly surely sure that she. never loved before and will never love again and would dic if anything should happen to you? Nolliing else kill: love so quickly and so surely as boredom: How. then, are you going to keep u: lovt with a woman who is ignorant and illiterate, be enacted privately. woman to call on a man? matter. ally cat? children, but she lllllChPli family and frequently dines with hcl‘ employers. IA Morning Smile ous idlvicc. Not long ago he lnct a doctor at c. dinner party. there was a chance. “l know a. man who suffers so desperately from nou- ralgia that at times he can do noth- ing but howl with pain? What would you do in that case?" medical man, "I should howl with crl in the destruction of bacteria com- pain." ' i l Character (Ilose- -_J_ps | fiver. tl.e most mntllncnial do not fccl like billing and “coolng when they A, Ngvgr; all 10w 5mm; should: folded across tho toes while tho shoes Q, 1;, l: "c;- permlggjblg (o; u; pand and conform to the shape of]. i the foot. l A. Only fol" an important busliicssl l ' ,1 Cream l Q. Where docs the governess usu-l ' i When the sweetness of tho craaln, sccms doubtful, and there is nomorcl on hand, mid a ‘pinch of soda and‘ stir it. This will keep it from curdl- lng even in hot coffee. A. She usually eats with with the the Paraffin Odor 'l'o remove the odor of paraffin from a plate or dish, rub it. well with vinegar. JUST Howl‘ Headaches l-lot wtilcr applied behlnd‘the ears will often relieve headaches. Jackson is". always seeking gratuit- "Do you know," he said. as soon as CHEMICAL STERILIZATION 0F DAIRY ' UTENSILS Recent experiments o-nducted by the Division of Bacteriology of "Well. I Mince-st." deliberated tho hypochlorltes are remarkably effect- monly encountered in milk cans and wither utensils. Readily prepared by diluting the concentrated solution ,v."itl1 cold water, the hypcchlorlte i‘, _ rinse bids fair to replace the old jmctliod of scalding. which was rarely ‘_- ‘effectlvc on account of the large Iquantlties of boiling water required lto destroy the bacteria. present. l The hypcehlorite method is quicker, lchcaper. more convenient and more ieffcctcd. but the best results can be lobiain only where certain conditions 1m fulfilled. The first of these is that ,tht- hypochlorlte rinse must "be used ,only on utensils which have been ,llivcughly' washed, since traces ‘of ,n~.llk residue or dirt quickly rob it of y ,. its germ-killing powder. Again, it is [important that. the rinse be used in |sufflcent strength and allowed to rc- ymnln in contact with the entire in- "~.-‘\... r1; EYEBQOWS OVEQ BIG EVE§ QEVEQL IQ LQQK OF lNTEQbsT H“ Q ncr surface for a sufflcent length of‘ lllllf‘. with the usual strength of l'ilr.'=l‘ at least 15 seconds contact ‘should bc given. while a longer period _ Inlll rrsillt in more complete des- l Pt-ilLqsoPt-iv tiuctlon of the bacteria present. Finally, care should be taken to pre- ~.t-- t. corrosion of metal utenslls,-_since 1‘:".'¢l. liypcchlorltcs will attack the zutnl if loft in contact) with it for " n‘: l)£‘l'lLlllS. This possibility may be r1ilil_v avoidctl by posstponlng the iri-llziniz rinse until immediately be- fore milking, m" else by inverting the ‘ill mils on a draining rack so that all rvuinlllin: traces 0f moisture will rvalmrnfe ns rapidly as posslble.--C. ‘ K. Johns. Cuitrul Experimental Farm. l are on the feet. The leather will ex-, » BUILDING A GRACEFUL, FIGURE There has been a great. deal o! talk in recent years about the "mo- dern feminine figure." Some \l('i';)l:‘.‘ seem to think it possible for wommll to change tile type of their figures‘ from one generation to the next,‘ Different fashions in clothes give color to this illusion; pannlms. bust- les and tight busquessmade thc waist seem smaller and the hips large in proportion. Tight corsets squeezed the figure together in the middle. Ruf-E fies made the bust seem large; t.lg-ht_ brasslers made it seem flat. 'I‘hrough' all these changes in ‘fashion and in," feminine ideals of beauty, Old Mot-i hfl‘ Naturo goes on producing tile‘ normal type of body that is suitable» for performing its functions in llfcn, Students of biology know wlml, the average woman seems to have foi'-. gotten namely, that t. takes ages of, time for variations of bodily struc-f FEERUKEQEB.‘ 1930 OINTMENT TiiB MOST WONDERFUL OINTMENTINTHE ORLD Soofhin Jlesling. Skin Relieving Foe sOIlES, BURNS, CW5, BOILS, FILES sail all slisli as “iiifiiifftiiéii-‘Zfiif in this world of balanced compen- sations. cverythlnlt. including a trim, graceful ilgure- must be earned by el- fovt. Overculiup; and undcrcxcrclslng cause excess [at in individuals who have such s. ‘tendency as surely as night ‘follows day. In order to- undo the mischief, one must. curb the craving for ffliifllllng foods, and at. the slime time assist the body to burn up the accumulations of fat by ac- tive exercise both indoors and out- c-f-lioors‘ in the fresh air. Efioruggg reducing systems do not build well. knit, supple youthful flfluros. The su-callctl "modern figure“ with its straight, boyish lines is an lm. mature figure. In other ages the m" w bewme eswbnshed" , feminine figure was admired, and Y” mm‘! M my radon‘ “Tlw thanks l0 the broadcasting of sclentl. “k 110w w dwelop u "mmicm {ummd flu knowledge by our- physics-us and wwrwut‘ bu“ or bl)“ Tm‘? £5 1mm"! health experts. this ideal feminine sihle. There is a of figure, how- figure is ndmked w“), resirdlm o, “'7' m” 15 1"£’rm‘1 and "m" m”, fashion dictates and the modern cult 515° be “u”! mmkm “m! n_ is a‘ of youth that exnlts an undeveloped graceful well-proportloneir ilgllffiy “W, of [igum “mm, me busmm’ Th“ 15f ‘it: lstigng‘ hm“ Fnmgdc “W lilpless figure of the very early teen 3"” ° a I r ,0" “vman w ° w" a ‘eluts u ohann of its own for that Joys tltfvi-isfi “id Wilda" 5PM“; pit-loo of lifixit. ‘is retained in the there is no flabbinoss about it; the nmunmu. Wars i, is my a 11mm“ o, muacl” M‘ “n” and the "mum" . .-mul.~l-iil'\":li.ioli that wrecks the health graceful, no matter ivhethci- the ln- | “m, bcmny u, the mdmduaL The Wm dwldu“ bed“ medmn} m‘ snml m man more than 21 to 25 years of age """'“_"°~ Th“ W” °1 “W” may b“ P who has n flat figure is not a normal ‘cqumd- type, As she becomes older her body whue l" B (W115? 1°!‘ l‘ “mum t" becomes skinny and prematurely old; expect to have a figure like a. bcnn- H“, is u Wm. m‘, m. insurance wm, pom 5M “eel! “m I“ horse“ bccmnc. panics, and she usually a. bundle 0f 5° Paddm “ml “m” n“ ‘hm’ Sh“ nerves ivilh a sullow complexion. lus- loses grace of llnc. The line dowlftho‘ , c1105“ eyes and a predispomwn w 5M9 °I m” mdy 7mm "he “mm w, various ailments. including prema- "hc ankle should be kept mm’ my’ , iuvcly fadlnf: hail‘. wrinkles and a dis- vedwmlshmzelylbx correct‘ Posture; llJblll..'ll to worry over everything in strc g an re axing excrclms an: y _cnel,al_ b!’ W“ "m" “’°'Y“Y °P‘°'°“’°“f L What constitutes good bodily pro- symmcti-y and physical 811w “"3 portions is ti question that contes to not-be “New: “Qm the woman and l me again and again. There can be n: Peauw Wogmm ‘Wnfwble M’ h" ‘mi dorlnntic. nnsivcl- to this ‘queljv. It is dlvldu“ needs‘ Th“ 15 ‘he ‘jcasonl perfectly lmlurzil for some young “hi; “i! yll'ur'beiz'"grlw “s?” stuxsél’ glrb to have well-developed hips and pro ess ona u les It a grea , ; . 51 H m"? ‘lmwlul “m” m“ “d, llllllfltl‘ Czfiffilslztlsreflxlzijgllfl xjell-lealllllhv WW?" “nerd” m lwep "hcnmewcs nnd normal. 0110's height and physical lmnhml‘ “m! bum/m“ and physmj type must also .bc considered. A girl my m“ , whose bones are naturally heavy will and g-lrls from Crspaud were invited. The nlaylmzf 36th’; lrTt-i‘ Zllwfihg, MLss mm Weeks Prlnclpll of Tryon everyone , 1e 0e I ° l‘ t‘ ‘l’ lconsolldaied. School. spent list week "u "It M" Mme’ en-loymil Lhemflve‘ end the guest 0f Mr. and Mrs. Elmer t l“ l-hc “um” “m” A‘ um‘ W0" °n Gamble o.‘ North Tryon Corner. .' the elatwr of plates and teacups was‘, heard from the kitchen, the ladies, were there with the "eata"-and suchi "eats"! Mrs. frank MacDonald in: i-ehalf of the Crapaud Group express- "d “"1" thlnk! “d “mwudmn i“ "Mr. Arthur Howatt of West Tryon the pleasant evening they had spent, h“ ‘he mutunum of 1mm‘ ‘ "m, The National Anthem brought. the m], ha,“ 1”‘ week’ when it M”, N"? l“ cm“ “"1"” ‘my "mvm hm‘ ‘ ed in a dangerous hole in the road . weryone voted the. party to havetnnd hm“ m‘ 1mm l,‘ r lit-en a huge success. i Mr. Charlie of Victoria has returned home after spending a few days in Winsloe. P. ll. l. i- ! on Thursday everrlht. "b. 18th I 711°" mfilll/ nwmlt‘ n" delighted Valentine skate was hold in Victoria to welcome back Mr. and Mrs. D. J.‘ Rink were were no wflyflowu‘ on ‘lllmlwm M N°"‘h “ym” "h" ‘OrITHIIFZGRy evening. as the ladies were ‘he past minth and a half have been ' wrmitwd w do we nu,‘ The hol. "W4"! "MW" “d "lmds l" “'5'” der of the lucky door ticast was Mr. ‘RM l" l" ‘u l,“ "° km“ m" m” ‘ Edward Holland of ‘Iryf-‘m. who was ' ~ - with a beautiful m- of n Buzzing ill “l8 EGIS ghocolates- Indicatea CATARRH =. Mr. and mi. xenmni Manbonald ' t — a on 1f troubled with roaring. hissing gfndm‘ ':v':nl‘nhiw"w on’ “d ‘ noises in the ears. if your head‘ l" l)’ 3' bilzzes and aches you prcblbly h!" ._____ , "flatarrh. why not use Cat-Him!" Miss Mai-y J! Howl-lit. of men it has conquered hundreds of cases Bunch Mm,’ we n, ‘In p, "Pm, it: Catarrhal Deafness. has com- continue‘ w impmvlm m Mum, ‘b ?’l°.f.i.'t'...§.‘.i§’22..“’ “éZi..'l‘.’.'2.'§.2‘l‘l~mi-t we =- w-l w-flw t» w for. s. stomach medicine. but a heal- .1111. inhaler treatment that destroys: _ mtarrh. Ironchilll. Coughs. Geld“. The Mum Jennie Waddall and Ind D0111!" "w" by c'“"h' A“ Adslclde roclsy accompanied by Mr. 4mm, fgnmfai"'fm“'"umlu, nan: Largo were visitors to Victoria‘ xaiitanteed. ' ' ‘on Saturday evening. j who never rcad~ l\ book. who has no interest whatsoever 1n anything outside 1 of her kitchen and her nursery and the gossip she hears over tho back fence? What are you going to talk about during the thirty or forty years when you are shut in with each other for companionship? , ~ "I You can't talk over with her the books that you read because they arc sealed volumes to her. You can't discuss world problems with her because ‘she never heard of Lue Magus of Nations or the war in China. You can't even otinfde your hopes and plans and ambitions to her because she '_wouldn‘t know enough to comprehend them. And shame also kills love. will you still be romantically in love with ‘ a wife who murders the King's English and makes mistakes in grammar and pronunciation, whose opinions show up her ignorance and whom you are ashamed to present to your friends? ‘ And how about her shlftless; ne-cr-do-well family who will also be your family if you marry her, who will be your children's grandparents and aunts l and uncles? win you enjoy having them about your house? Will they makc‘ i for the ‘iapviness of yourmarrlage? l i‘ . These. are some of the material things that you have _to consider in mar- riage and you also have to consider that if you quit school in order to marry this girl you jeoparelzo your future. You deprive yourself of the education , that your father was milling to give you and thereby lessen your chances of f success in life, and yoi. tic yourself down with a family before you" are ready to take tibon yourself such a responsibility. For the boy of 20 who marries has hopelessly handicap has to take any lob he can get if he has a wife to support and he can never hope to get ahead because it will take every cent he can possibly earn to pro- vide for those dependent upon hirn. lolicve. me, son you will make the mistake of your life lf.you marry this ‘m ‘l; ml, time. of your life She is not suited to you. And you arofoo young to marry, anyvuty. Walt until you grow up and then ehcose.a.wlfc m you, own d”, DOROTHY DIX. flmnq-sosoos _ _ Dear Miss Dix-—We have a baby 3 years old and it ls the cause of per- petual argument between myself and my hl-lflblhfl- 11¢ l8 "l!!! "W" "W child, yet he won't. take care of him. Bays he is no nursemaid. I-lc works in an ofllca from s to 5. I work in tho hams from 5 to Land then some. and 1 think that it ls just. as much his business to mind the baby whenhe is at homo as it is mine. What do you think? MR8. D. Answer: " " ' f I think your husband is missing a lot of fun in not. minding the baby an hour o.- so each evening. because there is no other companion so fascin- [flu u g zl-year-old ‘Buy say cuter things than any grown-up can think of and thorn is nothing more absorblngly interesting ‘than watching their little minds unfold and getting their first viewpoint on life. , ‘ himself. l~lc k _ but_,thc trouble is that you can't get to be friends with your children when Pillows, Ont. I . Millvicw Notes ' f The monthly meeting of the Mill- ‘vlew Women's Institute was held at ithc home of Miss Margaret Smith. lTlie meeting opened by repeating the ‘Creed and singing the Ode. The imlnutes of the last meeting were ' read and approved of. It was moved | and seconded that a grab bag be used tas a means of raising funds at the lncxt meeting.‘ It was decided that y|the Institute put on a concert about {the middle of March. The following lwcre appointed on the programme committee: Mrs. Herman Ings, Miss Anne Grant, Miss Christine Bruce. :Mrs. Geo. McEac“ n. Mrs. M. n. Jenkins. The next meeting is to be held at the home of Mrs. Samuel Drake, roll call to be answered by jokes. There were eight members and two visitors present. Owing to tlic inclcmcncy of the weather, a number of the members were unable to attend. At the close of the meet- lng the social hour followed, in rweak fter Qperation “I was very weak after an op- eration. My nerves were so bad l would sit down and cry and my husband would not go out and leave me alone. Now my nerves are much better, thanks to a booklet that was left under the door. Lydia E. Pink- ham's Vegetable Compound surely put me on my feet. I have taken eight bottles. My friends tell me 1 look fine. My sister has taken this medicine to0-"—M1s. Annie Walton, 67 Stanley Sc, Kingston, Ontario. Lydia E. Pinkhanfs Veqelahle Compound ,,.. .,, his son and looks fcrwnrtl ‘tn their being companions when the boy is grown, ._thcy are yrmvn. You have to do it while they are still in the cradle and while they hang on to your fingers and while you can fool them into think- ing that father. is the greatest mnn in the world and tho fountain of all wisdom. Perhaps, though, the fault ls partially yours. ‘ Maybe you are one of the mothers who, when the fathers tako the children out, give them a-thousand directions and never really tl"ust them. Maybe you say don't let Junior sit on the grass and don't let Junior get his feet wet and don't give Junlorany candy. etc. You can't blame n man for not. wanting to mind the baby when mother, is bosslfig the lob Anyway. dump the baby on nusband and go off and leavo him. Jle will like it. after he gals used to it. DOROTHY D18. Dear llorothy Dix-Do you think it advisable for two rsd-iisadod-poopl! to marry‘! ' RID’ - Depends on whether both of you have red-headed tunpei-ituyciil-iavs‘. I should think it advisable for each of you to marry somebody hitiri-ilibfii Issidss that. lf your husband took care of the baby, he‘ would gct a chance to get acquainted with him and establlsha friendship that‘ wcqld- be, a Joy lb him :50 long as he lives. And that la something that has to be ‘done gqy 9|- lgier. 0f course, every father thinks that no is going to pal up with 11101110‘ disposition. But it isn't the color of your hair that matters in mar- riage. , ‘it is DIMIL. ant’ chat-actor and having enough common sense to glvs and taks and make the best of cacti other. ‘DOROTHY D13. which a bountiful lunch was served; and then followed the singing of the’ National Anthem. Mr.- Parker Wood, Cross Roads. was a recent visitor to Vernon River. Misses Elinor Jenkins and Laura Munroe were recent guests to Ver- non ltlver. I have relatively thick ankle bones and wrists; the small-boned type will be slrntlm" at these points. The tvldlh of the hip imnes is an inherited charac- teristic. Some small, dainty girls have relatively wide hips and narrow shoul- ders and some athletic girls have wide shoulders and fftlrly narrow hips. Tomorrow-—Be:\uty Questions An- swered the same rich creamincss, the same silken smoothness- that Carnation Milk gives co cream soups you will find in ovary dish lnjvl-flclsj this good milk is used.‘ ’ Write {or Mary Bllkl Auo REMEM" ., _ (t! l 110/1: ’-" 57%"! "' oak Book - saooucao I fl CANADA rm lofcgisdrdsilMlllq u. “from Contented Cows: