, Womenls realm ll'AGE".l'W0 TEE GUARDIAN NOVEMBER 18. 1958 .ni'.3;...”3;l-,; . - 'r -.l lI.LEli'8 A mini . Wis Nb thisdmitia-nexcellentveriodn strange thing that no miter, toto.koonsomsexi:rsworkortom,, yeumllul And vunrmu 9-M-ncllvl "Wild"? W P” W”'hn4' a moot subject for many a. con- bilize your budget. ltrh Kl l l. - gm lmd Psmlmitld "L”uo”5m9; xnuatiorlildili ttillgulllltlcllllm is: 3:: ml my '9" '” """””'3””"5 approaching marriage. make minor concessions in order to If hem” the any 0: nupumt W. are propitious influences for home congenial and stimulating. pugmmg of the" For thc Bl"-N-I person. we should invariably find isfaction in the honors and financ- mg ., good omen!" ial gain which should accrue as a result of past endeavors. Recogni- hugbami or L i . Travel is not particularly advis- able during the next few months but. should you have a journey in f,?d...l,?"..t,e.?cg'g.-'y!,'h:i;. kfxlaeigv arrfiimeuvllll spring or early summer when the d 1 1 aspects will be more propitious. an gm. Home and called upon to give aid to parents, this respect. and you will be more than amply rewarded. ; A child born on this day will be .. - endowed with great intelligence. how-I 1"” know! tremendous drive and a magnetic personality. been the happiest event and cer- in his life. one could ever have foretold that Remembrance Day, one Island and their dust in the long ago to lie HlnlICollsclsdb1 "in I"landers' field." . . The bridegroom is a. farm-boy, born in a room of an old and gracious farm-house one summer lMotlisr of 5) Intbeso-csllsdgood as old days rigid min were put above reasonableness. Par- ' znts were (ought and told the impor- . tanoe of routine, especially where feeding schedules were concerned. Certainly children do thrive on a certain amount of routine (and so do mum and dad). But modern parents avoid letting schedules bo- coino mom important than baby's real needs. Flexibility, coupled with orderly planning is probably the best- . two proposition for all concerned. A looilisolns lulu. Lltds both tical experience in farming, and we doubt if any other has had better success. Always since a lit- tle boy-he has been right-hand man. confident and trusted partner of his Dad on the farm. And. if it happens that he comes of lines of enter-prising farmers. that is one. in his wheel of good for- tuns. His interest in Agriculture has given and taken him on many a. trip "abroad" and it is fitting making their debut? That's thetimo gm; -5 Emmy par; of the Homy- moon is to be spent amid scenes for junior foodsl y I When baby's V?'.: of that Canadian Fair of all Fairs ready for the 4L. -"rho Royal." i swlhtggi frjom ( The Bride-wts; there over bone stra to un- more insome an she in w on ior fooda you'll happiness loved ones, kin and a find Gerber's flll legion of friends and well-wlshers the bill beauti- Joined tonight? fully. Evenly "Was there sunshine today. inincclcil, they !lilen?';e;7s::nes asks. 'Oh yes. I have e just- rsmem . here was. I guess,” he right texturs that tots I offers with a smile. shedding now teeth can manage y. n Gerber's Junior Fniits. Vegetsble- of his wedding garment, "it's just Meat Dinners and Desserts , are famous for naturally good davor and wmpting true colors. Slims and allows ulllio. If youtvs any tips you'd like to share with other mothers, please send them to me: Box l7, Toronto 18, Canada. Solo of llis mnttsr. Sslvsgesblo sections of old sheet plastic can be used to make soles for the t'oet.oi' toddler's sleepers. Keeps padding feet cleaner . . . can be whisked clesn on our Wedding Days!" Until tomorrow - - o - Diary --o- Good-night ..... llpset Tummy! with ' amp c1mh' .535. 5 area so oftsn s s 0 solar u A unit at Semi for lllll lovsly baby Spoon! nu," "'3: ".',"2,' "' Famous Winthrop d:-131! in . in Olilldrwn'I own heavy silver plate! Re ar V f . to value 81.25. Yours for only 25 cents plus one box top from for younntors Tiny quickly help lwsstdn soar stomachs and not spssdlly to door out from the bvwsb, ot- iudins wash urinl gay of the muinsr. Ills by 9” G"be'3'bV .3'2"..'"....2'.a”.""' ”" ”""?"" , muC”af:rll;-ol:ill::i' ' ”""'””'"'"' orWh:at.'Address'Mn.Dai-ll CMLDRE N S OWN Otbsr,Boxl'l,'l'oroiito 18. TA H L F T 5 We And our lielghbours I luhsmab Iolisiiifsld rrsnk Ill? Till WA! on): Volumes have been written on sdoiescsnos or this tosn years and With us, kin to him,'hls was ' mm the Moon uttering -ram-us um. my 0; 9.. wedding." It is i:,.'l,,t'”.f:'”,.,,,y””ph29,:”o,h?,.3 not. In those oolurnins. I have capitalize on A hobby for the WP this world, aeipim iths not that ””,.,,d,'”:,”'f;,,” :g;';1:,:,";,t”:,,g"gg P059 0' 5-WNum3 lnWm9- A 3”” the elderly 'sigh sadly rover its 11 nu ssti that WM '00- lo WNW GIN” 0'1 bsokslidingl and the topic forms f,,4;f,., ”;:f,” 0, m ,,””;u.,-H... , in meeting these needs. These 3116 W15 "'15- 1” 0m" "'35- '0 "d vsrsatlon .t.herc is no one we have nml (.10, m Dream, wad. mu. use good Judgment m an mm- Inst. who does not look forward help mund out gm aiwuslon. The adolescent, we have stress- ed here. has a normal and de- sl.mhl.e urge to regard himsell 3”” mm” ””W"””” bm”m- The” had been no taken up with the :mghmi;dbeb.:?”:ndcd;;,d:1::,1m;81:yr, f 0"! Mmhold -8 to ex- nside ltbl ablli to dir t his and family affairs and, if you are ck": o I I p 90 T 9 W W E..””””.?g '?.af?”e.i53.” ”i..”"”;."..”” ibis: 3"iivif... "If. l1i.”.3”..'.5i5nin"a 3i(.?.J5'5lf”.m"Zm”.?.?.Zn"&"aE3 w os 1 n e e n ' holilrs, tllie ocgasion ihould vprovge of the My wmch wuhgthrrlgfg : C”: ”lt'”g5el.f'" 2"" M Ii "He. coda. couple we knew by name or in :1; pen-meg, If anyone doubts how far from If i0m0I't0W is your birthday. oursclf at a window at rising, fair- se11.;-eugng Lhg t,een-.gu- 1.5, mg Y0"? h0T0500D'? Pr0'm5”v in me 13' pleading With Old 501 Y0 D113 almost slavish conformity to the -. months immediately ahead. 8. period on his best smile for the occasion. ptnndaxdg of his particular group ' of rich fulfillment of long-cherish- And "yegw we hug exclaimed or Ban& 3 enough moot He has 6'1 desires and great Dersonal aa.t- eagerly, "the sun is going to shine! simply u-ansru-red mg attach- ment to parents and home, to 305 James. long-tiirrtahmdigrtgent these young friends. This is an ; p . lion of your efforts will also re- blood in 1.15 :;:i:;..:, ,3 01 En::.. Eggrmnt and necessary amp bo- gjl suit in added popularity and DM- practical turn of mind. His ances- with some one of the opposite sex. . 1 a. permanent relationship ”8e- tors on the diataff side. we suspect. and to building a home of his trusted little in the value of signs own. 0 O A l But if the young person is to mi”d' make 918'” "0W mt me 15” tokens to be found in rugged hill achieve real adulthood and inde- Mm h t 1 pen-dense, the parents must provide oug we mus admt that in a firm home base during this mm focus df1:?:1Yea;l1l3t'f;; "WVE I. sense it would appear that he process. The perplexing qumtion . 5 Y - '1" has the gift of second sight . . . is. how much support to give, and Wu "my' mm” u”exp"'led1Y- be "You needn't deny or affirm it, how much freedom? And there is . Ellen" he has said sternly no exact answer. only the parent brothers a” 515te”' Be gemml” 1" after an absence, ”you forgot to can tell how the child up to this feed the rmre-and that's all point, has carried out the respon- that's to it! I know! Never mind sibilities suitable to his age. only the parent knows whether he is This wedding was to bring a a. thoughtful or impulsive child; grand nephew of James, son of a one with convictions of his own. first niece. to what well may have or easily swayed. Whatever his personality, arbi- tainly one of the most important trary commands seldom help the child to grow, nor are they likely It was a twist of fats which no to Ye5'l11iv in Obedienct '0 V-ha DE!- ents' wishes. Like the younger the lad's wedding should fall on Ch-Udi that teen.-8821' must feel which that he has a share in the rules commemorated theuntimely though and X'0Kl1l8iJ0n5 win for him. I gallant passing of the uncle whom hive heard :v'0u.hz people say, "on he was never to know but whose YES. they asked OUT 0111111011. bill name he hears. Hg with .9 mgny did they listen! As soon as we did camdim 1m. 33.. not agree with them, it was all up." These young people will us- ually co-operate if their feelings 0 are considered. and their words treated with respect. . . . But above all. as has been in- mo;-mng, and nu-ed go gm me. dlcated before, the teen-ager must We suppose that for his years no 1901 '-M3 111-5 PG-Ten?-S are there. boy has had more sound of prac- reldy 30 help. and even ready to come to the rescue in an emer- gency. Wiss parents, Keep the Way Open. always. for confidences from their child:'c.n. The younger child should not be ailraid to ”teil on teu:'"r”. or on a bulllyiirig cisss-mate, or any other disturbing experience Talking it over with another spoke. indeed more than P812353. 15 Y-110 01113 method of discovering tbs souros of trouble. Teen-seen range still mrthar com home, and it is perhaps even more important to keep the way open between them and their parents. No one can follow them about, the firmeot rules cannot prevent trouble. But this trust in the fairness and willingness of par- and prevent tragic endings to teen- age mistakes. , Nor is the venturcsome yo person the only one who needs this open way to his psi-cnts' good- will. Thors is the too obedient. too psaivo adolescent. What is mam, mg othgf mg. mg pm." behind his attitude? Is he afraid to compete socially? Or at school, as well to have the sun with us. or -1- mt? He needs even more help and encouragement to grow out of his protecting home. I 0 I Psmive or active, the young per- son (T091118 toward independence and ld11lloh00db should feel the way is open to the greater wis- child's Bail Brain .. .. ....... .. .. .. ents. Fortunate are the children 'of parents who not not say. "do as you please. but don't come to us. if you get into trouble, but instoad, "You're doing fine. We're proud of you. But everybody makes mistakes. It you have worries. or need help, come to us. We'll work it out together." (Note: Tillers are two fine books on adolescence at the Charlotte- town Library. Ons is: Go " Adolescents. By Shirley Ilsmrin and Blanche Paulson The other, more ” 1- The ' ' ' Ry Marynis 1". Fsrnhsm, MD.) C... KILL ODORS and save up to 30A Tlist I031 Gt Ysim bowel obstruction. and severity of strangulation snd obstruction increases with age. "Unless definite contr:-.-indications are present. hernia. should be ro- paired whenever gardless of chronologic age. It is that many men over 55 years of age endure the discom- fort of hernia because they have been led to fear the complications of surgery and have been giventhc impression that the chance of her- nia. returning in great." I The above information should re- assure them. that hernias should be repaired at any age. sfis Inglisll ll H1 I. C. W1! Okfl J." cow mimic BAKING SODA snsoou) DI BIPAIIID AT OLD AG! when a psat.isnt' with hrnll. (rill? tun) can drive into the hovltll unds on a Monday. imda-go on for the heroin. and drive out again Friday, st homo for s. y few days, then resume his format work (light or office work). it seems strange that so many men refuse operation. These patients allow the hernia grass to the point where they 1" poor risks for surgery. but ohm the condition makes an emergency op- ,- In Gerlamcs. Du. W. Debeinhsm and Cooper Davis. sun Frsncisoo. report their study of the results ugh obtained, under, emergency condi- tions in hernia and operations when the surgeon can select or choose the patient on whom he will operate. There were 366 operwtions studied in L San Francisco hospi- tal during s three-year pcriod.- or those, 104 patients were men over 55 years of age at the time of oper- ation and the remainder onnstitu- . ted a. similar group of patients from 35 to 55 in ii comparable con- trol series.0 The main interest of these two surgeons was s compari- son between those operated on as emergencies because of strangula- tion and obstruction, and those who had an elective operation at a time of their own choosing. . Comparison was made as to the death rate, slckneu after operation, and the numbe of cases in which hernia returned. Operations were all done by the same method and suture material. The results of this study showed the death rate in emergency hernia operation was 10 per cent as com- pared to lus than one-half of 1 per cent in those herriias which were operated on at a time "of on 5P” condition topm- Recurrence. or return. of the hernia is not appreciably greater in elderly patients than in s similar group of young adults. Dre. Debenham and Davis feel that unless there is some specicl reason for not operating. all her- nias should be repaired regurdleu of age. "Elective or choosing time and condition of hernia. in patients over 55 years of age is a procedure which gives good end results and carries a low death rate and a short period of convelescence. Un- repaired hernias in the elderly in strarigulstion, The frequency discovered re- l. Wlia.thwrongwiihthlsssn- tenoel "They spent the bsisnos of exits may svert many rash steps, ihaywemng "Yuma over an my 2. What is the correct pronunci- ation of "momentarily"? 3. which one of these words is Conscientious. cars- nionious. simultsnlous. pa-etentioiis. 4. What does the word "caliber" 5. What is s word beginning with 1:. that means "wesriness from ANSWERS 1. say, "They spent the ionisin- tier of the waning ugiiirig about the matter." 2. Accent first syllable. not the third. 3. Simultaneous. 4. Degree of 7 individual capacity or power. "We measure the caliber of men by their achievements." 5. ing Sinlls -V It is rumored that during the Coronation festivities a guudarian and a. sailor met and went on s spree. ' This finished ilm with both I31; the sailor put on the gimrdsinsnh besrskin and planted his sailor hat Thai he returned to the depot.- woko up.his superior officer, and asked: "D'you think I nest! a hair- proper for s sslesnun to say "good- ' to the reception ... girl whsn leaving the office of s 3 Mn. Fug executive rg cupwu-m mm A. Yu. -This is not only oourto- 154 cup. mug . Q. How the whites A. To soft-cook eggs. put them into thin hot. Remove the pan from the fire 5 HoCsnI!!l 3 tablespoons sugar at teaspoon salt it cup butter . 454 to 5 cups sifted flour . sheet for is minutes. can I boll eggs so that will not be tough? -Mrs. Olaf Stevenson of water that is boiling Avonles W. I. - snd let theeggsstandinitfi-om . . eight to ten minutes. When cook- ' ' l :3 way, the whites of the jj eggs do not become tough. " crapbook edinthis Q. How newspaper porch? A. Futon s spring clothespin to the porch vsnient place near the front. door. uid any obliging paper carrier will be glad to oskedtodooo. Q.HOW the wator when you wash windows, Com mirrors, or table glassware. will make the ill” Sparkle more To bring relief when baby has brightly. colic. give water as hot as can be RAewnafic Mil Good news for those who ion for relief spoomulsi from rboninatic pain. but feel Thonnnds get and sharp sub any hour. can I prevent this daily from blowing off the The floors Before applying any finishing tat fl ,itshuldbedu.3t- "mp it mm tn” 91" H eogawltl? 3 cltolll-i dniinpzried in ben- railing. or any can- Gravy bopeleal y relief from rheu- tlc sulerlng by using 1'" 9'IPl9'-W" T'R'C" for making gravy. odsy. Only 65c. 81.35 It dmggists. 1-044 00 MINUTE PARKER HOUSE ROLLS Dissolve yeast in water. Put milk. sugar. salt and is butter into saucepan and heat until lukewarm. Add yeast and flour. Oover and let rise 15 minutes. Turn on floured board and pat to is inch thickness. Cut with 2" cutter. Brush with re- mainirig butter and fold dough over. Let rise on greased baking Bake in hot oven (450 degrees) Milml mm" for 10 minutes. Yield 2 dozen rolls. leges. It's true, one of them. hops meantime you've zine. Ee s k fdust that is W" 1 "mu 31"5'"" coveredvvliyth pvicmisli or paint will become magnified and will spoil the A.ul'.llther vinegar or ammonia in work love with a foreign gm personality. I same and I spe home and use the hot. water bot- tle. If this doesn't prove effective dimolve a soda mint tablet in half W l h be to a. cup of water and give a few tea- on d 3 a prepared lea” her own 00 would be the difficulty in her case. since your business and home an here. she would have to leave her native country and come here. well, thousands of girls have done it in this past few years. I'm sure your The homewue am an A nut darling wouldn't object to coming to live over here. and I'll-.11-C's. Don't.let.dnll.wesrisonie aches. amount of time if she will keep Ii DIIM lllndimn you quantity of browned flour on hand Girl. 21. Wants 0wn.Way Bui Moilisr Wishes-Daugliior Would lkemeitibler Pledge Given To Boy nnaninibsnixznon-iyouiamxugmoruuouenougiw, undated me to wait for him. Now. for tbspsstthrss you-g home.ItoldhimIwasengsgod,butbs out with Frank. I see no real bum in it. ANsWlER.:DoIseoanyh.armindacslt, to keep the solemn pledge imposed on you and asked me out. Peeling lonesome, I wc After two or three dstes, my mother foxbsdg mg to go with Pi-txik any more, and finally mg rnyringawsy.ssyi.ngIhadnorightto While I don't feel altogether right nbo accept d an engagement ring. in deliberately aashepleues?-Ifeoirhsvosrighittohsndlslmownsffsirsgg widniitothei-doesnttagrsowitni ms-butherdstlisstory. mg, forevlnnywent overseas some sgmhogsvsmss dsmons, ing from Vinny the fact that you an no long..- loyal to him? Yes, Bea. I'm afraid I do see a good deal of harm things. You assume that the mature age of 21 gives you the hurt people. to do wrong. to trifle with the affections of two my dear, no age gives that right! Twenty-one does give certain ppm. but the right to trample on someone! ' " MOTHER COMMENDED Your mother's actions are absolutely in order. and iis's to be com. mended for her stand. The only objectioh to it is. that if you eonunu, to wear Vinny's ring it might awaken both you and Frank to the fact that you have an emotional obligation overseas. For immediate action I suggest that you break off with Frank, wear Vinny's ring again, and try to act like an engaged womsxt Per. youill discover that-, after all. you do really love Frank, but in the given your soldier a chance before spoiling his gm,,m' DEAR M168 Dix: While on vacation abroad, I mot and fell in ssmsed of beauty. intelligence and s. radiant am well acquainted with her family, our religious ug Lh. ak her language fluently. My problem is, would it 1,. wrong to try to win her through correspondence in View of our relative. ly briiset acquaintsnoe? I don't know how she feels about me. I am 24, she 20. , PEPLIAXII) ANSWER: Surely you wouldnt consider uni: wooing -this psi-agony y to come here? That Mlsa Nissen cannot reply personally to readers but will sang nroblems of interest through this column. large ioi amazing coffee! of this V new Not ii powder if Not (I grind! But millions of ' tiny '-'F,lAVOR BIIDS" of LQQ”lo put; eady-to burst instantly into thiitliimous MAXWEll HOUSE FIJAVOII! How this spsslsl offsr son ' sdvs you 31.25 Tlilsllsrp hr of Instant Maxwell Hm ponndsotgroiindcodss-v0HW0'",V”" sbontSiisss.cvtnsHV8l4ll'P"”" W .. dgh qscisl "Oct-Acqillln ,ri?:.o:'gvuyououoihu25s-makinlY9llV 'totslss'viapspproaiiIsul! 3'-35' Utterly unlike old-style "iii- stants" - just as quick, but tastes so deliciously diiferent! 10075 purecoifec-nonliers added! "Don't delay - get your jar at your grocers, today! 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