..-.-.s~.-....Y-. ,.-,»,<.-... e.- i.“ . . . ‘Ilu-VII-Iibluilfiwwrtvnzvrv v1 IP1;< .1 in . » a. _ PAGE TWO 1 \c\. .‘\~s t i2. > ~§§?L“‘ l a rawliloeseiives AYLMER ounurv Woman's Realm/Social 'Y.\(\L\¢ I, ~c\ . v ‘g ‘That Body OI Yours’? By James W. Barton, ltLD. ) §--A~~-W---~v-- EXCELLENT RESULT! i m TREATMENT or VETERANS BY SHOCK One of the findings In World War I which was of great help in World War II was III the treat- ment of what was called shell shock and nervous cases. In World ‘War I. when it was found that a man was emotionally so upset, that he was unfit for service he was sent to base hospital and then home. It was thought that getting coni- pletcly away from the war zone ‘Iwould bring about recovery l" 195$ itimc. ‘lhis was not what happen- ed. Once the men got home most ‘of them did not regain their grip ‘, on themselves for months, and this ‘meant, tn many cases that the war i was ended before they fully re- . covered. In World War II. instead of bClng given a ion: lip-fit‘! "Fm duly. tho emotionally upset service- man was transferred to the iroar- est base hospital and [liven a 800d rest. but always with the idea that he woilld soon return to duty. What happened was that While he \\'.I5 resting, he saw other meii who had suffered with the same nervous symptoms as himself. who were gradually recovering and had only one t-‘iought in mind_not to go home but to go back to com- bat duty and help, out their com- rades still fighting his battle and that of their whole country. Fortuiiattcly also, since World War I, the shock method of treat- mental and emOIIOTIPIl ; i) ment of g b I: Cogks Corngr cases has been tried in thousands " Z. of cases with excellent Insults. f 1 In “The American Joiiirifll 0 lPsychiatry." Drs. S. Pastor and APPLE (‘IT'S C_ l-lnltman report llltill‘ i'esu.ts in m“ ‘the treatment of 1.000 yietcraiis 3 small apples _ lsufloriiii; from mental symptcflii- 1 ti“? 5mm flll-IWYDOSB 1-0111‘ 1b use of insulin and QICPITIL‘ OI‘ 1 oil 2 teaspoons baking powder 2 tablespoons sugar l; teaspoon cup plus 2 tablespoons sift- shin-l; All thesi- cascs had been I routine treatrnflit pastry flour . ‘ven thc usual |without sticcess. The)‘ 5181f‘ ll-‘al 'tl1e large percentage of social ru- covcries (return to work and fum- testifics as to efficaci‘ 01' 95' salt l. e33 lly) i~_- cup milk {fectiveness of shock treatment. Iri- 2 tablesipoc a melted shortening 5min was found to be the most ef- Pare. halv and core apples. Mix feflwe treatment when used alone and sift flour. baking poivden‘ m- following unsuccessful ‘ treat- sugar and salt. Beat egg and milk‘ men, “rim electric shock. A.so the in a mixing bowl. Add dry ingred- results 13st longer. ients all at once. stirring only In @559! who were not overll’ enough to moisten. _ stir. Add melted shortening. Place batter IIIIS. muffin batter. with brown sugar. sprinkle lightly Place an apple-half in each nervous or emotional before loin- ing the armed forces. shock treat- ment was strikingly effective even when, the symptoms were brouiiht on under great emotional distress. Shock treatment is the greatest step forward ‘in the treatment of Do not over- in six large, greased muffin tin. core side up, on WP ‘if Fill centre of each apple \\.‘lI.h mixed spices and dotl butter. Bake in a moderatey .1. -n “can, years oven, 3'75 degrees F.. until apples mcnml cmd‘ “ms I L a {m0 are tender and cakes baked, about and fortunately Came l‘ " (‘.0 txi 4o minutrs. serve with cream when mental hospitals were great- nr pudding sauce. 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Pancho and Hans were celebrating their first Fourth of July. Pancho with nothing but distaste. Ears and hoofs proclaim- ed that on this dsy he WIS definite- ly not an American. Hans was un. der the bed. But Koula and Diego were loving their country without stint. Lydia assisted and “latched and prayed. “N0. no. Koala-you can't hold on to it! When Diego lights It for you. throw it as far as you can. No! Not at anybody!" Oh. dear! Goodness! Had Father and Mother worried this way about her—\vhen she was hurling fire- crackers all Over the place? She heard a car. and with a word of caution to Diego about Koul;__ you could trust Diego-went round the house. An elderly gentleman was getting out of his car. He stood looking at her as she came up to hlm. He held out his hand and said; “You're little Lydia." "And you're-J‘ "No. you don't know. You have- n't changed as much as I have." “You're Judge Kircher!" “Now how did you know that?" "Partly rememberlng- And be- cause I've been ‘thinking about you." "Henry said you asked about me. I lavas inuch pleased. I've been meaning to come and see you. Fourth of July is an odd time to choose, but I bad to leave home. I IIYP next the Stephens. They have fit-e boys. Five. mid each boy ha< many friends. I didn't know boys had that many friends." “So you jumped out of the fry- lnfl PBIV-Addifs boy Roy was letting go with something that tore the air--“onto the barricades." He said there was more room here for escape. But instead of escape he wanted to go round the house and see the children. They ivxero at home with him al- most at once. He shot a few crack- ers and told how he had once burn- ed his hand-you had to be careful with the tricky things. Then he picked up a package he had with him. These were for after dark. he said. One of them would make American flags up in the air. As they were leaving the child- ren he pointed back to Diego. “I was about his age when I came to this country. I've never been sorry I came- and I don't think he will be. Not with you. That was u flne thing you did, L-ydia." Like the children, she felt at home with him. He was so kindly and easy; you felt you could count on him. They went through the klcthen into the dining room and he stood there looking around, for a mo- ment saying nothing. He ‘went in- to other rooms, with little to say at first. Then he sat down as if suddenly tired, or as if dwelling with something of his own. She didn't speak as he sat there think- ing. "And now you're here." he said heartily. She nodded and smiled, and as looked at her his face changed. “I heard a perfectly damnable thing. I heard you came home believing your father had died." “Yes." she said. "Arid then you bad to hear the whole thing." "I didn't hear very much." sha said. "Even yet I don't know ‘Ivy THE GUARDIAN. CHARLOTTETOWN CA. DOROTHY DIX SAYS- Fiancee Worries Should She Marry Man Who Must Live With Mother? DEAR MISS DIX: I have been engaged to a boy for three yen-s and we are no closer to marriage than when we started, He Is the sole support of his mother, who is a woman 53 years old, and he does not make enough money to support two homes. We could get mar- rled if I would consent to live with his mother. but I don't think that is a sound investment for a happy marriage. although she is nice. He says if I loved him that I would be willing to make this sacrifice for hlm, but I say that it is because I love hlm that I am afraid to risk breaking up- our marriage. ~ What should I do? _\9\’7\'\'7~$' NINETEEN ANSWER: You will find the answer to your problem In your own heart. Look carefully Into that and try to find out whether you love your fiance so much that the very thought of life without him is intolerable. If you feel that existence without him will be cindors. fishes and dust, then go nhciid and marry him. notwithstanding the handicap of a mother-in-laiv. But pliiy fair. Don't lake your happiness at the cxpcnse of that of the man and hi! mother. BETTER OFF ALONE Of course. a marriage has a better chance of success If a young couple can go off by themselves and set up their home alone, But there ‘are many cases. like yours, in which a man cannot support two ftSIIéBIJIISIIIIIOIIIS and where It ls necessary for his mother to llve with m. Whether Ihls Is a curse or a blessing depends. as a general thing, upon the spirit in which the young bride meets her mother-In-Iaw. The mean mother-in-lziw is the exception rather than the rule. It Is pcrfcctly possible for the young wife to make a friend of her mother-in-law and to really find in her another mother. Mothers- in-laiv can be an ever-present help in times of trouble, especially when the babies begin to come, and an overworked and ovcrtlred young mother ls glad enough to have a little assistance, It seems to me that a woman cares very little for a man if she lets a little thing like n bugaboo of a mother-in-Iaw scare her off from "liuflliiil him. But you are right about one thing, and that is that if you are going to lot the ldca of living with a mother-in-layv keep you from marrying this man you had better break the engagement off now. It is folly for you to tie yourself longer to a man whose condi- tions of marriage you cannot alter and will not accept. DEAR MISS DIX: \Von't you please fcll me Iiow not to be n human doormat? We have two young children and a small but thriv- ing business, but my husband takes everything and gives me nothing. He uses the car and I walk. He buys the best of clothes. The chil- dren and I wear bargains. He buys the groceries. I cook whatever he brings in. He selects all of our clothing even to the color. He supervises the arrangement of our furniture and I'm supposed to like it. He goes out at night. I stay at homo. I enjoy going places. too, and my 101191)’ nights are driving me wild. What shall I do? SLIPPING ANSWER: Perhaps your husband can be made f0 see how un- justly be ls treating you. but unfortunately selfish people ‘alwny; Con- sider that somehow they hai d‘ i‘ ' h take what they want. \c a nine rig t to do as they please and Don't try to toll lilm, because if you do, he will fly info a passion and you'll begin crying and there will only be zi scene. Write him a calm letter in which you set forth your grievance and mail it to his office. Then he can contemplate it in a cold silence that may bring repentance to hls heart. Of courseflif you had only yourself to consider, you could pack up and leave your petty tyrant, but you can't do that with two little chil- drcn. You couldn't earn enough money to support them. and your duty is to tlleni. And it is also your duty. for their sakes, to live in peace with ybur husband because the atmosphere of a discordant home poisons the very souls of children. But Iiiow terrible ls the crime of a man who browbeats a woman until he takes all of the joy out of life for her, and who wrecks what might be B hilllliy home by his selfishness! I am in love with a school teacher. who is four I am 19. Should I tell DEAR MISS DIX: years older than I am, and who is a college graduate. took three subjects from her in my last year at school. her of my love, or just keep on being friends with her? B ILL ANSWER: Just keep on being friends with her. Nearly all school- boys fall in love with their teachers if the teachers are young and pretty, but they get over it and are. oh, so glad that they didn't marry teacher when they get grown up and fall in love with some girl of their own age. ____.€__. .______. _ _..._ ‘ -.. ELLEIPS DIARY i \ By An Island Farmer's Wlfa Oiifleifi Avslllnl tliomselvos of s new and intriguing method of trans- portation for It this morning. our farmers busied themselves in cleaning away to a far field. ac- cumulations of barnyard manure. We overheard the prospect of this when plum were made to "clean out those mob-stalls today" in ad- dition to the daily haulings which are borne away from stables and sties. “Pretty ,slippery for a horse" they agreed, thus living up to our feminine conception of them. which considers that they in~ cline to over-emphasize the truth that "A merciful man unto his beast is kind." And so it was by way of the sizable new truc own- ed by him whom we know as “the young lad" from the house on the hill, that these ferryings were done, clearing away in short or- der that otherwise would have been a lengthy endeavour. Grand- daughter Hilda caught rides the distance which lay along and be- yond the rise in the stump-field, to enjoy not only the trip but the miracle of the dumping as well, when at. the touch of a lever, the great load slid away to the heap. “It. was . . . just wonderfult" she came in to report. eyes shining with the delight of the outing. I I I uflliqi‘ l Fertile and productive soil is. after all. the farmers‘ capital. Tins he must maintain if he would gain a decent living from his farm and pay the debt he owes to his suc- ceeding generation. If it so hap- pens that this security of his, this account with Natu-re. has been pre- sumed upon or over-drawn \vith- out thought of return. what even- tually is the outcome‘! Likely impoverished and deserted farms. buildings that had been fashion- ed, once upon l time as a labor of love, abandoned and decaying. spruces taking possession of a far field, and winds blowing loniiy over the desolation of it all. At Alderlea, the farmers look well to returning at least as much to the soil as has been taken. and we believe from the repeated haul- ings to the. farm in the way of feeds and bedding, more than has been removed the cropping.‘ in I And if as has been said "we eat according to our soil fertility" then. if this may be reckoned by the quantities of barnyard manure returned to our acres, the family at Alderlea should enjoy fairly good food. No scrap of hay, or straw. no measure of grain. and ordinarily no turnips. are sold off the place but it has been the policy always, to feed these pro- ducts and return the residue of these to the soil. Not that our farmers’ methods of farming are worthy of being followed. nor have we always enjoyed a surplus. but if there was likcly to be. animals were riiiscd or bought ex- pressly to use up the same. Nor do vre regard our acres as above others, or as we are well aware even equal to those on many an Island farm in point of production, but along the years and against the odds which are peculiar to farm-land. which beds s mill- l Modern Etiquette considerably g and Personal/Poshiuns/Literature ' 5 I801: I Delicious ' ll/UTFII/III Pancakes. Try this Tempting LUNCH or SUPPER TREAT Good/or/Voz/ IJIGISIIBIE JANUARY 12, 1950 ' v‘ /. {IS géHousehold Scrapbook; By Roberta Lee ~no~v~ooo~~vm ave/d. Too Much Salt To remedy too much salt ln soup add a fe-ul slices of potato to it and alloiv to boil for a few minutes. lf still too salty remove the potatoes and add frrsli slices until all the salt has been absorbed. The pota- toes may be used for some other dish later on. Castor Oil Massage A little castor oil massaged well into the scalp once a iveek is very beneficial to the hair. and is claim- od by some to arrest grayness. Blue Fabrics Blue fabrics will hold their col- or much longer If they are soaked in a solution of one tablespoon of salt to one quart of water. E By Roberta ‘Leo ~ Q. Where should a couple stop dancing when they wish to leave the floor during a. dance? A. They should dance to the edge of the circle of dancers. They should not stop iri the mid- dle of the floor and try to walk between the dancers, where they are almost certain to be in the 'ay. Q. When should o. woman re- move her wraps when dining in the restaurant of a hotel’! A. She waits until she is seated before removing her wraps. the waiter or one of the men in the party assisting her. . How soon after leaving should a week-end guest write his "broad and butter" letter? A. It must be mailed. if possible, within a day or two after his de- parture. ‘Don't Make . This Mistake? When Child ls Constipated " Don't upset u child already upset hv r11‘ Ililmlion with nasty-tasting lnrntivan § hnmh. Rriuiiiiz cuthuriics. Give Chfldreir Own 'I‘nblets. This new corrective made eo- pecfnlly for growinsr youngsters’ neudg l so pleasant to t ‘ nets no genLby 5nd n" mllly without disagrceublu reactions that even the fussient child won't object to their; use. Make lsxntlve-tnkin: time euy on the! child mid yourself. rnotherl Get Chlldrensl Own Tablets today tit your drusizist. 20¢, "'ci‘iiI's"rYi'i'€s"iiiaT.n' ‘ions T The governor. the sheriff an. the mayor of Bombay‘ in 1949 iver all Indian Christians. ___._______. Help Keep Young Iodlos i Strong and Wall Mothers-to help your baby Io Iiavo 5 mound teeth, strong bones and a more I husky body, give him pleasanbtuting; I easy to digest Scott's Emulsion. Scott's I Emulsion contains the Natural Vira- i min: A and D with other essential I element! that babies and children may need for proper growth. That's vvh_v at many recommend Scott's. Buy the larg economy size to-da 3~4O SCOTTS EMULSION i\\“NOT JUST A TONIC IT'S POWERFUI. NUTRITION stream-and not forgetting the ideal pasturage that affords - DOIIOTHY DIX cannot reply personally to renders. but will uns- wer problems of general Interest through her column. l much." He looked troubled. "You come to know things in unexpected ways.” she said. as ff she would not exact anything of btm. "The qther day I came much closer to Mother." He gave her such a swift start- led look. "How was that?" he asked. She told him about the old trunk —the keepsakes. and even spoke of the letters. He seemed about to any some- thing, but instead murmured so compassionately: "Poor Lydia.’ And under his breath, "It fell on you]. She wished he would tell her what It was fell on per. He could —ahe felt sure of that. Yet per- haps he couldn't. Some confidence -somethlng he held fnvlolate-a Qfi to the past. ‘Io ho oontfnnod Morning Smile 1% IIIKI MUPHEI. Aunt Mary: “And what did Daddy fly when you told him you had won first prize for dictation?" Bobby: "He said. “Well. well. You're getting moro like your mother every dayfi" Ito Your llostrils Fill llp at Night? Does your non clog up and pro vent sound sleep st night? Have you n sinus pain over tho eyes? Is your bruthfnl difficult? You can l it In clurfnl sway the» troubles In a llrnplo wlyfflpflnklo s few drops of Cntnrrli-o-cuno on your hsndke ch: and breathe In the soothing vapor. Sneezing and Conn-h commence to dlssppssr after (Mani-emu is used. Pain over tho eyes fades. A walk throat II soothed. sinus pslns [at relief. spitting and nmil discharge sro mm. on (‘Mini o-nno today. laid In S: and 1k '!'9..!£.l_l_l.!r§sns.is - _ . i? The Stars Say-- By Genevieve Kemble A 5y |;_ c, Wlllljm] r\\1\rv g é BeHer English ) I ~ wvs F" 1W"- "m"! I’ 1. Whit is wrong with this len- tence? "He not onl visited Los AN “brupt PM "Maw unfit‘ Angeles. but also Salli Francisco." seen intervention, a stroke of luck 2n whm is the cine“ pr°,,unc_ as tt were. may save ‘this day from “won o, ubas_relielllvf a dire and drastic state of affairs. 3_ which one o; ma“ words ,5 tiimmil ti“ ti“ "h" ‘ll mm‘ misspelled’! Blnoculer, biennial, forlorn and hopeless. Borne un- bum." bnummou" guarded situation. a blunder in 4_ whit do” the wom llv‘dssl_ judgment or an unreasonable mde» mean? course of action. hasty and illogi- cal. in which funds. prestige and 5' what i! T word beghmim: with am that means "mutual good prospects are jeopardized. oould be Wm”, dramatically swerved into oon- ANSWER atructlve channels. Sumend judg- mml’ ‘mm m“ Tmue‘ 1. Sly. “He visited not only 140s Angelou, but also Ban Francisco." 2. Pronounce ba-re-lef. a as in ab. both e'a u in me. accent lut syl- lable. 3. Binocular. it. Churn of fortune. condition. etc. (Pronounce all 1's u in it, occult second syl- lable.) "A msn used to v' ' ltudes is not easily dejected." - Ssmuel Johnson. 5. Amity. For the Blrflidly fine whose birthday ft j I! to snttcfpsfll Q un- foreleon intervention in which b“; bugging, false moves or omn- rnitnients, mistakes or errors. may flnd an open door from cslunity. through an abrupt turn of events. This might be a. brilliant mup. a aestfve ides, an innovation. Born! “ quirk of fate may PM" dramatic; s uvlnl If!" ‘"19" disaster and loss loom ll!!!- A child born on this dliy 1M7 have poor mental slants on prac- tical matters. with danger of loss and extravagance. but. may find eleventh-hour friends in critical situations. . If you don't want to be n ‘cold catcher‘ In I mllk drinker. That's the best my , h llvs winter colds tbs run-around. III! PIIIIE IIILII OD. LTD. we can be certain that the fertility of the soil has not been unduly robbed by the crops taken. but on the contrary. by the generous ap- plications of humus, been well maintained. ' It is we believe no idle fancy of ours that. In more than one case, Island farming in recent years has become so mechanized that too much emphasis ha! been placed on quick cash crops — pota- toes. turnips, hay. straw. grain, which practice stands to give lit- tle in the way of return to the soil. instead of stressing dairying, beef-raising. hog production and poultry farming. upon which. it is a fact. the vitality of a farm and the welfare ofi its people depend. What will be the sequel to these present-day trends? Will there eventually be s trek back to the safer ways of former years’! If as some will have it. "impover- ished land breeds an impoverish- ed people. mentally. physically and spiritually" what will be the inheritance of succeeding genera- tions of the land‘! Thea are smonpt tho questions they dis- cuss, whm the shades of evening bring Mr. C. from his house on the hill w vialtwitli Jamel. In the comfort of his old mn- chnir James looks up now from his reading then settles buck ob- viously well satisfied with his dsy. "If Winter comes now, El- len," he observes "well, every- thing la In fairly good order!" Umll tomorrow -- Diary-Good- ntsht . . . How Canlll! By Anna Ashley Q. How cm I avoid burning custard while boiling? A. Add s half-tesspoonful of cornstarch to the custard. An- other good thing to remember is that s little salt added to the cus- tard will prevent drying and cak- ing in the pot, and will also irn- prove the flavor. Q. How can I rotnove the odors from the Inside of the refrigerator. pantry. or cupplrd? A. By placing in lny of these places A dish of boiling water with a piece of charcoal in it. Q. I-low can I repair s tur- in In other-who good raincoat? A. PM» s place-of — FOR TH FAVORITE HOUSEHOLD isn't It! Wonderful washable. ‘With its comfortable and convenient patch pockets. to make, too-with braid bright. touch. 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