i. . i not; "rwo_ ;. ‘Dorothy Dix Says- MAN’S FIRST DUTY IS TO WIFE Husband With Mother-Brother First Complex Is Usually Incurable DEAR DOROTHY DIX: My husband's father died about 20 years ago and since that time he has supported his mother and reared his now 3-year-old brother. Brother-in-law is in the service and has been married l8 months. I have been a good wife to my hudaand. work- ed hard, and done everything I could to help him along. He claims to be perfectly happy and pleased with his marriage, but the baby and I play second" fiddle to his mother and his brother. When he gets a few days‘ leave he wants to go home to see his mother every time. I-Ie never takes a furlough unless his brother can be home at ex- actly the same time so they can be together. His brother drives our car around while we ride the bus or stay at liomc. We can never go home unless we are loaded with groceries for his mother, using our badly needed ration points and cash. Ho is scon to be discharged from the army and plans to make our home with his mother. be- ClllSf‘ he thinks she wouldn't be happy in a @111 ipawn‘ uiicii she has always been used to a i lizivu held mi ie and been patient for a long time, but much longer. What shall I Ho? MRS. J. L. l licust‘. i tct‘. l tin“. go on this uay HOPELESS SITUATION “:'_\"'ERI Vtilicii a iii.iii has the mother-brother complex. it [is a ' hdpfless se to try to wean him from his idols. His wife and .. l i u! "s secondary considerations to him, and he sacrifices them to l s famny without a qualm. I have seen this happen over and over again, and I especially re- call one case in which a man, who was a good money-maker himself and whose ivife worked like a slave to help him get along. gave prac- ilcaliy" ting hr inside to his brothers who lived extravagantly and‘ in consrqd . 1e were RIWZIXS iii debt. out of which brother paid them. with no thought that he was depriving his family of the pleasures and luxuries that the brothers‘ families enjoyed. i Yet this man loved his wife and children, but, somehow, he pre- ferrcii his brothers to his own flesh and blood. He never could be made to see that a mans first ditty is to his wife and children, and when a mllfi has that point cl‘ view nothing can change him. His vrifc has the choice of being a slave to her iii-laws. or leaving him. DEAR MISS DIX: I have riiuays been told how attractive I am. though I try to make myself look plain. I have always had many boy friends anti refused proposals from some of the most desirable men in our city. Several years ago I met a young boy who did not appeal to mc iii the least at the first meeting. but I found him tn be very de- pendable and a gentleman in the highest degree, and I fell in love with him bet-ruse of his winning ways, and married him. He has now been in the army a couple of years and while wait- inu for him I think that maybe I am losing my love for him. Do you think when he returns I will again be won by his ways, despite the fact that he isn't the ty-pe of man one would like to be seen with and envied! l. have overheard people say: "Wonder why she married him when she votild have married So-and-Sc?" and it has me wondering too. But- l 2m determined to stay faithful and find out whether it is time, or other peoples‘ remarks, that has made me forget him. What do you think? ‘ITLLIE. ANSWER: Well, Tillie. I think there is lust one person you will always love above everybody else in the world and to whom you will iiliivrs be faithful. and that is yourself. But don't lose your taste for this poor chap, who is away in the army fighting for you, because he is not a figure that makes other women envy you him. There is a lot of peace and comfort in having I hudrand whom the home-ivreclters do not try to steal away from you. And.‘ nitei- all. you didn't marry to please your lady friends. did you? Nobody knows why anyone married the person they did. Did you veer go to a wedding in which, while the bridal couple was marching up the aisle, the people were not whispering behind their hands saying: | "I wonder what he for she) saw iri-him (or her)?" i -_--i Kane grocers . . DEAR MISS DIX: I have a nice job which will be permanent a! ifible “l” “m?! "W111 l” this long as I want it, but I don't want it for long. I want to get married “ma: the kmwm-ua-l s-wf; £15351‘ I wed poi charged by him . BEWIIDERED. i 1e m“... W ANSFFR: Puck once said that whether you marry or don't marry, to Oct. m, 1041, you will regret it. Wait until you fail in love. ‘Phat will settle the custcmeirs are and have family, but my family tel-l me to keep my Job, make money. buy a car and have lots of clothes. Which shall I do? question for you. Q- Needlecraft f FOR THE HOME l Till IUIILIZD ILOUSI Spningtiene calls for blouses, and plenty of them. Here they are. three of the moot wanted styles in one pattern, all pretty little niffles that frame the face Q flailiicirdngly dress up your suiit no . No. 2613 is cut in dim l0. i2, I4. 1 .20arid40.-Size16ruires iili yards N-inoh fabric for house r the lorig- eved blouse, and only 1% -i'nch or 30-inch for ‘he short-sleeved blouse wf Ell. Send 20 cents for . which includes complete sewing guide. Print your Name. Address and Style Number plainly. Be sure to state size you h. th rev- Uharlpttetown Guardian. Name Street. Address l Oity V-IOLB STORY , "'I‘here's a bomb headed this way. It's oom- ing so close I could catch it." As he finished speaking. there was a shattering explosion just outside the house. ‘fhe voice at the other I end of the wire floated up in u- cusetion: “ButterfingeraP The Bos- . ton Globe bells the dime incident. Me Tea of 600d Taste! Quads’: largest alga; ‘In.’ l livfimiiiffifiyii" “fit fine A. to: I f] l c lcharge a. lltlt-le more in take ‘I of tihese extra ex ilk §we whatever featuring the lord Address Pattern Department The a asked the bus dmiver. riod. Slit u» tinted poprw l ni- wise and lll win u-iougei-fiied Four hundred babies and their mothers turned out to celebrate the second anniversary of the "Well Baby Clinic" in Halifax recently in the auditorium tended the party ter Joyce. The of H.M.C.S. "Stadacona." The Clinic is operated by the Naval Medical Services for the welfare of rat- . It noussnotn' .‘sGRaro00K ii JiiB out? ling Seaman and Mrs. Cyril MacDonald are shown above dressed alike in tartan skirts and dainty white blouses, Helen, Wlnnifred and Agnes. Charlottetown. F. lngs‘ children. Three of the four daughters of Lead- Halifam-(C. N. Photo by Petty Officer Photograph- rna citAato-rrmiown ouanoian y Woman's Re alm '1 Social They lt- wlth their Mother and baby sis- MacDonalds, whose home is in E. I, live at 43 St. Alban’s BL, g §€fliigii g, seas e55 5 ttiiij I gggéizgg? g f’ -“ . . ‘Jan i g5 Willie?‘ NW. t oee are the molt un‘. is turning, he had. XI minor re- or time in some 0f them. but from the an, I found in a closet, two able W118" Ilmbie cropping. be M-IIML; t’ n: The ltitchein-l‘ c was slow morning and Mi". D. was already ut| work Meakifastloss. I at once be-| thought me of a pair of the dis- carded boots ti; ‘fnelgd tohthe flickeri- . l!" ' lid-w ed Judy u fetch them. "Anv “the I mid her. James, freed from the cumbersome rubber-boots, his feet in the new, was stepping about the in prices ADORABLE TEA APIION basic period Sept. 15 The stores where giiven acct-t, mer- h delivered. etc, generally care peinsee. - HQ. The P1886!"- Bonnllliiioci in the lung room and kitchen of my, duplex "armaments redecorating but‘ m obtain any satisfaction! the landlord. Must we continue to live in this dirty‘ place? i A. There is no rental regulaiionl which says you must live any ...norfatl"ieireazwregu- tioin which aye the landlord must redecomte unless this h de- finitelysetoirtfny-ourlease. .. this is a mat/her whloh must be set- tled bet/ween the ten/ant and land- handise yiEiiTii suits ANYTHING WELCOME . I-Ienpeolt was telling her husband what she thought of ham, as usual. Ln the -r_niddle 0t her re- Deek. as the A. A. terrible baimage ag 9T5. "Dflfif-"e at last!" ...__ i "How old are you, little glriil". ~1- DIQIGN NO. 10f! I 1 A pretty apron is eas and in- ‘ , to ‘r ‘. one was vzorrked with red and white crochet cotton. Pattern No. 1019 contains complete instructions. To order paotern: Write or lend move picture with your name and . ” s e s with 15 cents in coin or Istamps to Needlework Bureau BETTER ENGLISH l. Say, "but he was too busy." 2. Pfuiounce a-il. a as in a-hias accent first in ill (not as file). syllable}. . 4. Brief; flee- ing. "Ms-m is short and transient. olvkfulness QII-fo eanI it agcod 7w inae edit _ little IN? Diecel, ufy g YUII GMI D0 ETIQIIETTE ggdoylghfifggglgggyogngoug; M gimme-mam. l lorrow- A5 .. %i..m”°‘“ii¢”$i"'.i'.l“" m. rim ciiiiuoi Qiieium ; a; Bflbcfll. I40 s, day. "It's pm," he sag. I'll him all out, m» m... wmn?’ u" "MM continui- and A3519" a, Roberta Dee w set at on heI-Vy . g ‘m. d I M" iumi . m. . i-----~ .- - .-_.-___._ ___._ ___-. when meg 1313 p}: mum. ma, T”, “m, "m, “M, gugjjigml: whit; e N? a _ E pleasure. “But “Ellen,” he went T)‘: mum“ “nu” ‘mum 9357b" flwehrnnce ifiilf-iifi Questions and Answers on Price‘ T!" 1M1 Q- who W199 (‘are 01 1-‘11 W" “time aren't mates. The ‘re dif- rm "m" “d “m” “4 "U" l" Control will appear in The Guard “v boning 1°" 4 “Wm- 3 951*‘ mnflemeill“ m!‘ P- ‘Wd ferent makes don't you see¥ r11 not ma "am '-—- inn as a regular feature each day “w” “mean m 2 qwam ‘*1 wdm- A» M1 ($915115 80611 K114143118 both“- chmging than today» on“ “Pull! ll Dllflflflll. 6 Oleln- WHIN OOIISCBEWB 63.3w 1|“, qnsumm a" “m” wmchh" strain and cool; then add Juice 0f l out the invitations, making ar- “m, a mo“ i, m m. - reached the Wartime ri-ioee and 1mm “M 1 “‘ ‘ L ' i t and “ 041161” this iieimlly clear river of out: “Md.” ma. a mafia“ to o" i Trade Board ti-m housewives lll 5"" “W14 1n W611]! water, w. Dummy...“ u, in the hands o! many. unless I m’ fortunate en- "'4 "W" "will the out iuir-eeiitury has been lhlg region. The answers are p" D13’ IbOVe l on with cloth and al- me prospective bride and ough w find me m. m. the m‘ o! ‘IBM will biw l cool barele alt made in 1m; vided by the Board Readers. Ier- 1°" it m "1'?!’ m‘ “km- The "M" Immer- Ami. °f Wllm- 5-11 u"? 9x‘ the one he now weiu-s comfortably ' “mum”? 53"!" Wmilld- I181" ‘ s fie n soiu who have intelligent questions afiéarffialsfi faikilghzfilmlll; 111:2; penses connected wigih the wedding in me pm- whim gm 3mg”; ‘i, ~ _ ' 8d- e m!!!) t7 01mm‘; § gitiioiigiiiaifi°nifgii§i° ‘avlaei Greasy aPDeatunce. I mo aramkzecaéttvgooéilenyhglléfiitglz m‘ head o! “om 5min‘ ' V. '11“? '"'d” yam“ m" "mid “Judi-Bl om n‘ | Ag i; . btend ea ei , w . . Plllll, “mm, ‘m! .......: a. ma... to? 8.13;! simi- an. i... s. ‘" ..X".i..":r2..:°i.r.irt~.2.r.."*s "35"" tow. Mm“ s" m r- iiiiii TPICQ niimi. If BMW m tamed ewh way. A. The best plan is in have the mdw A _..._.,,,me,.z,mb,, m, 0,, - u ,' m. ‘ommm a u“ "i" '1'" l“! Q, 1 am "my ' ‘ M; otlpayfnig no attention to top or bdt- two girls seated next to each other the sky this mmnmg “d m, wrong 50pm“; “W4, we “H”. "gem “Enlw 3 prices (ghgjggd m two dmeremltan. they wiilivwear much longer, as between the two mm. sughmt MM fumed the “w” mgggiggquqng “u-ralunolmm Wm WW‘ bllm a of the SW95 l" the “W11 Where I llve- I6 u“ m‘!!! '5 “1Smh'"“ee< Q~ IS 1i °°fr°°i 3° m" "l9 of the pond. I uncovered the IIbr-EV " villi ‘yet ff waned. and Nuciisoeemm punt " giahsroc-air glowed ‘t; charge so‘ ‘when sink T" A ‘i? a shallow soup plate? syihllfl. so that meouiu it could ' 1y. ltwill live Years 1110!: interesting‘ my ‘"6122 h“ “iilfifl "m" m M" e1‘ - _ * *- shake out its golden I vfa- 0 llfllcm~ Wilt lfnoletln with mop ‘i; 1 A. You have listed the primal 11 ' M? Wm - 3. farmed ited o... small oaks in uie budd- imam-nui- "Rllllilfll em " m "w" m“ m’ "‘ at hr; “on and e over the sunk dram. i ‘Vlil prevent - a ' l’ hr l. unoun 0f study. it il l e n is qum ‘:32 3133i...“ mutter from clogging the gating"! 31.58812; oirgidgc$ col some laflulootglryagellzolma an in mm a. to what low. The past Winter has evidently "usslitlzl such snail growing thing W8 . I U U no.0. ‘niieduiis Rid wok mL-n _ morning u.n risking, a ed and hauled to the lawn and it afforded added tihnres for the women-folk as well. We were mak- ingreadyixiamytnmas-kan- other birthday although Junie did moat of iihie work-and Judy. Jock was the one wevhoirwnad tom, and of all the preceding uuivu-Iari per-time proved ea ing. Jeanie made the cake-Pink and white, it was, and when I tast- it came over me that. this SiLeAisure , THE. Woman: REALM iliPllNli. oriuaumo ti»... g, I've iiliirioa apt-iii; oi m“, h“... h, of went’: hm‘! in l: n l Y“ ‘m better umi n ' d‘: ° m, nu fltltileodbewilg and um- it's flinilhed P" gm ‘d It “Mm” ‘°' n'l5mlill0nfilemlflé,llfdl meantime-Janina h“ ‘fling-FF 1|" QYQ- " " der, a complete set ‘Em £4" dflflinl and made!" rouge, ma we; him m‘ the old curtiins, so perfiige {m h” “mil, p’??? ° ‘m’; "V" l"! the box out ' "a v1- fl» w . a m °‘ l" "l; mkgsrw wi- _ piiwemdceu iimeiiui rvrLadw-iiiwiiaveiifiooiim‘ h A"! '41."! "my: hurt there are w ‘|‘~ nlfiilb XIITIEID- , ____ 3m tunes to calllifln an“? opinion _ ‘l! Vefle Q Or . "P"! 0" ITIQIJITTI BAN wti ei- the pram n a . ' o m“ m" l" "W 01‘ M!" sible to say. That they all ..“.‘.‘..P°i. _.~ m C'- Ehm 1t wit? one whichpbeforgxcmcli- 'aii"'uwg'u W” Wm m?“ u" "m u“ " ‘wbml- 3”“ n“ n. e boa, Juneau“ M,“ mud‘ h m“ l" x: m‘ N’ in several iocaiitie, they are foun L Wm ,5 Wm,“ wigh W5 w, self take particular" stock of the ___ ' “alga”; m‘ “out mm h lance? “My husband Wbllld have Weallwr- A hives-ivory“ to l» mafia: ni-ro nun m. m, “f1, 4,, m, ,1. m. come, only he was too busy." 9W1"! m! fl IW-M WWW" sumo mo»: 2 Wm ,8 me ‘ma...’ pmmm inserted. 1 think (hi! i-uim James _ the me wny- ‘rim is to m. wmt “on o: "mien? wished this improvement, is nlw y¢u‘_nhh h‘ of the giant oorhorewl an right Which one of mm words is "lui-‘h ‘m’ the "M" "GM "I! m“ into um: mm in the ve ti?‘ “M”! m‘ °"'"" m ‘°""h‘“d' -' ' t Baptist baptlse bnp- shim‘- flifinlfl w an with!“ iv styles illustrated “mimic: °"‘ “m” m“ “M” °’“"“' tin-n baptismal ' ’ dingy room as tn be able to catch “$1,”. “m” m?’ " and, it is true that ‘their like has doe; we m... “tram, gemvziiiséiéfliiigmlgn u» cm-qh on “l; ‘mfizllimw giflvel‘ been found before in our s.“ . word s. rm is m»mw-i-i“""wm was“ °' ma" "we" "°" - “p, M, m, m,“ "msm-y» we have been able to cast our eyes 1W1...‘ “lmi-mxhjjgn“ m" nun mu, Oolllll, like G- turtle (7nIyiiflWmfitheEl&.'1‘lId'0VNld-:hm at ' ‘waneckeflecnorabowundu- o ANSWERS ext work in ‘flint’: m“ ‘Mrbua ‘a hm . chin print d elongating d miifiiiimi of mine could never my» ~ Mowrevehioiu wen on the Al A- Bi! 181118 all 01d 915w 0f poasmed t cunning. Karoiyn IIBJIMI. 6119191118 1i» in Pall-mil Oil and Rob came. Jeanie and Mutt, and‘ lwiiifll it 806k 101‘ Selma-l the first. two fairly breathlem from m i. ... .; M» t» .; _ » WI will gather all dust and give a good ¥ my gay ‘in... mm, ymefi- qifben IndWhat-not for 195i" D. to . WI‘: n?“ hdhl‘ polish to iluiinitiu-e and floors. carmpwm i; not out; qt, eiwy me in his york. James an Mr. D. “m. E pingiwnm v etable Com- sgow sign I make a. hair set- came‘ in a fanny n "Tit"; ‘in "w, a: the lriicixeyn naigagl pound not only helps rel evebiaigi-ithly miBflwiV/spiflidillwdliblfityflgd; ma: vufllnddfilllmfllobiltllt-tno- pcvoultmsimcnnky- to winch b "died 2 tablespoons of and 1.5mm seal: "This was a limaet" “u”, " rugged out" feeiinfl gimme nadhzllvarins it to W1 fer lie was iii nie mi of wmodii.’ and may! m’ w% —~I|IUI due to functional month! mhilld. thin flrflifl- ' iiyn ~:. ensued y fin wont ‘ disturbances. r i"’"m....°°“.i..”'“:.f“ trimmer... “T? urr.....*'"i..t'_.."=... 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