in“ ,w m r; and Mrs. Robert James ow, were married on Saturday ted Church SHAW — MacLEAN WEDDING ghrter of Mr and Mrs. Angus MacLean, Coleman. The groom July 19th. at 3 9-111 in Brae Unli- is a son of Mr. and Mrs. George Shaw of Cape Wolfe. Rev. Haber The bride is the former Dor- Kean penformed .the ceremony. othy Ann Lorraine MacLean, dau- Photo by Sears, The Read Studio. Moclnnis - Graham Wedding I; Has Double Ring Ceremony St. Andrew’s Presbyterian (hunch, Montague, P.E.I. was the :ycene of a very pretty wedding non June 28, 1958, when Judith -» Florence, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Ralph Graham, Halifax, f'became the bride of Everett Gor; don MacInnis, son of Mrs. Eletha A Macinnts, Toronto. - 4 ' The doufble ring ceremony was ' geéurllonned by Rev. Donald Camp- The bride, given in marriage ‘9' by her father, looked lovely in a‘ white floor-length gown of nylon- chltfon over satin with Chantilly lace bodlce fashioned on mincess lines. Her shoulder length veil of Chantilly lace was highlighted by the portrait use of pearl and pail- lette embroidery. j ’ She carried a bouquet of red roses and white cannations and wore a double strand of peails gift of the groom. Mus. 'lhomas Heibib, cousin of the bride was bridesmaid. She wore a floor length gown of blue net over tazfifeta with hat and mitts to match. She carried a nosegay of pink carnations. Mr 'Ihmnas Heblb was best man. The ushers were Wayne and Dan Campbell, cousins of the bride. The onganist, Mrs. A.F. Camp- ‘bell, accompanied Mrs. Cecil French as she sang “I’ll Walk Beside You” during the signing of the register. The church was attractiver de- corated for the occasion with Hefte” - Ryder Wedding, Is AHOIppy SU A pretty wedding of interest to 7 a wide circle of friends. took place at the Union Corner Uni- ted Chunth in a setting of sum- mer cut flowers on Thursday, July 10, at 2 o’clock pm. when Olive Fern Ryder, R.N. daugh- ter of Mr. and Mrs. Sterling _‘ Ryder, St. Nicholas, became the bride of Linus Alden Helifell, son of Mr. and Mrs. John HeIffell, Freetown. Rev. B. MacPhail of- ficiated. The wedding music was under the direction of Mus. Charles Al- len, who accompanied Mr. J .T. Waldron of Guys. County, N. S., as he sang “Wedding Prayer” before the ceremony and “I’ll Walk Beside You” during th e signing of the register. Given in marriage by her fa- ther, the bride was gowned in white ombnoidered nylon net with titted bodice. The skirt bad a wide whirl and the bolero had long sleeves. Her veil of em- bmldered silk illusion with scal- lopeIdge was held in place with a tiara cap of solid sequins. She earned a bouquet of American Beauty roses with true lover knots. ' Miss .Beullah Ryder, her sis- ters bridesmaid, was gowned in ; light blue rqulled nylon not over taffeta with matching bolero. She wore a matching headdress and carried a bouquet of yellow- roses. - Mr. Waldron Heflfeil was his brother’s groomsman and Mes- srs Alden Ryder and Weslie Hef- Ifell ushered the guests to their pews. Mus. Ryder chose for her daughter’s wedding a pink flow- Verod glazed cotton dress with whitieaccessori‘es and a corsage of white-roses. The groom’s mo- ther wore a beigeatwo piece dress With pink accessories and a ,cor- sage of pink noses. A reception fo fifty guests was held at Mul Lodge where the bride’s table was centred With a three tier wedding cake, summer flowers. Mrs. Gnaham chose for her daughter’s weddi. 'ng a blue bnocade tatfeta dress with white picture hat and accessor- ies. Her consage was white roses. A reception, catered to by the Presbyterian Young Women’s Guild, was held for fifty guests in the church hall. 'Ihe bride’s table was centered with a three-tier wedding cake topped with a miniature bride and groom. Tea was poured by Mrs. Wellington Campbell, aunt. of the bnide. Miss Lornaine Hen- derson, cousin of the bride, was in charge of the guest book. For a honeymoon trip to plac- es of interest in Prince Edward Island» the bride wore a grey suit, a hat of orange ice color and white accessomies. Her cpr- saIge was noses in change ice color. Upon return Mr. and Mrs. 'Maclnnis will reside in. Toronto. mmer Event topped with a miniature bride and groom and encircled with roses and lighted tapers. The toast to the bride was pro- posed by the minister and re- sponded to by the gmom. Miss Mary Hellfell was in charge of the guest book. The guests were seated by Mrs. Ken Huestis, R. N. and assisting in serving were Mrs. Russell Ellis, R.N. Mrs. MARY HAWORTH Dear Mary HaworthAWe live next door to our only son, who is married and has two lovely chil- dren. When Paul built his house, dad helped him WSW spare minute; and whenever Paul has anything that needs repair, dad is always IreaIdy to help him. However, when dad has some- thing to fix around our house, Paul never others help, although I make sure that he knows about it. Often I have had to lend a hand even when the work was too heavy tor me, while Paul sat in his house watching TV; or else had gone fishing. ' Dad is a perfectionist in all that he does; very handy vviuth’tools and rather quick-tempered. Paul is slow, easy-going, sensitive and rather clumsy with tools. He wasI‘ always a model son except when thing. And dad was always a wonderful lather and husband, but rather strict. DAD THREATENS LEAVE Although I don’t like or ap- prove Paul’s attitude, I can seek both sides; and I try to live with it. But dad broods about it all the time. Ocassionally I try to discuss it, to help him under- stand hon dififierent they are— hut it only makes matters worse. Dad will say I am siding with Paul against him. Now dad is talking of selling the house and moving far away from Paul. He says we were happier When we lived a long distance from eachother. I at ways tell him to go ahead if i‘ will make him happier; but I hope he won’t, as I love our house,‘and I for one get along fine with our daughter - in - law. She is a very nice girl, always‘ ready and willing to give a hand Fire - Auto - Casualty Marine s. e. K. PEAKE ' LTD. -. 78. Great George St. Dial 4311 Charlottetown it came to helping dad in any-'. Kinsley Shaw. R. 31., Mrs. Nell Sharp, RN. Miss Maryln Gam- ble and Miss Betty Macinnis, R. N. Fora honeymoon trip to points of interest in the Maritimeshthe bride changed to a blue polka dot dress with scoop neckline and blue duster with white accesson ies. Her corsage was of red sweetheart roses. - On return, Mr. and Mrs. Hef- fell will reside in Summerside. Among the out-oftown guests were Mr. and Mrs. J.T. Wal- dron, Boyston, N.S., Miss Myrna He‘fifell. Mrs. Joan Gibson and Mr. Robert Reeves of Toronto. Son Sides’reps His Dod’s EXoctnessxAnd Criticism in anything. Thanking you for your kind at— tention, and hoping to hear from you soon, I am, sincerely, S. L. Dear S. L.—.As I get the story, your husband with his pe‘nfection- ist bias, his manual skill and his quick temper, is invariably im- patient —— iii manner it not in Iwords~with Paul’s pertormance in getting things done. Thus it simply isn’t in the cards that Paul would feel that he has any help worth giving from the Ghe first feminine way to apply deodOrant soft, sweet,- gentle ' Satin Sponge Odo-ro-no liquid. deodorant father’s View, when the latter has a joh to do. On the contrary, Paul is painfully conditioned to stay out of the picture, if possible andt hereby avoid stinging critic- ism (voiced or implied), and the emotional discomfort of being "weighed and found wanting." You mention that dad is al- ways ready to help Paul. But that is a very different matter. Dad is sure of himself in his role of handyman helper, confident of his contributor-value —— and probably eager to execute details, on P'aul’s behalf. And when it is a case of accepting dad’s helm, Paul mostly stands by humbly, I suppose —- with mingled sentiJ ments of respect, appreciation and inferiority feelings. PERSONALITIES DIFFER Your husband has an aggres- sive personality, whereas Paul’s is more passive. And it is pos-' slide that the tather‘s pressure attitudes, throughout the hismry of their association, have stymied the son’s development —— keeping him awkward, uncertain, nega- tive; a taker rather than a giver, in the family relationship. , When a father rules strictly, with a finm hand, and appears in all situations to note himself mbre effective than his son, he’ is killing the chances of man-to- Iman ease between them, on I teamwork basis, in later life. I suspect that something of the sort is back of dad’s difficulty with Paul. And that dad- has a t Made for a woman’s tender skin... Softly luxurious . . _. no hard, cold feeling, . . . no messy dripping or lotion stickiness. Cavcrs more completely, leaves skin smooth and sweet. ' Dod Dons A Chef’s Cop To Barbecue A Chicken ' By IDA BAILEY ALLEN “A good outdoor barbecue grill with an adjustable rack that can be raised to suit the height is what I call a fine Father’s Day present,” announced the Chef. dim sense of having taken the wrong course. Yet, longing to find the right way, he feels in- jured and resellth because Paul isn’t cooperating. But it’s no fair blaming Paul on that score. For advice: It might be better for Paul if his parents lived at some distance. But such a move won’t make dad happier if he leaves in anger; it will help him only if he takes peace of heart along. To gain healing insight, he ought to have a few talks with a psychiatric counsellor —— say, on the staff of your local Family Service Agency. M. H. Mary Hawonth counsels thnough her column, not by mail or personal interview. Write her, in care-of this newspaper. ' .“With our latest easy-do har- becus chicken recipe in today’s column, F ather can barbecue chicken. perfectly on the first P‘y. But somebody else should as- semble the rest of the dinner makings.” “And Chef,” I added, “this is a celebration dinner/ so let’s make sure there are no dishes, to wash by servingit on sturdy-‘ styled paper plates in the brick- oven pattern men like.” Father's Day Dinner: Tomato- greens salad, barbecue chicken with cranberry jelly, corn on cob hot garlic bread, mixed 1elou. pineapple bowl, chilled soft drinks. All measurements are level- recipes proportioned to serve '4 to' 6. - Barbecue chicken with sauce: In saucepan, combined and heat #2 c. corn oil, 3/2. c. vinegar, 1 (3. water, 2 tsp. salt, 1/4 tsp. each Tues. July 29, 1958 The Guardian Page 7 1% tsp. Tabasco to make sauce. Indoor oven method‘: Use 2 broil- ers or frying chickens, halved or quarteredRinse with cold wa- ter, blot on pap, towels. 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