l _ PAGE EIGHT s FI-IF onannorrsrowu GUARDIAN ___ i‘ _-»- ma... Fashionable m Wearing l Illustrated Dressmaking Lesson Furnished * With Every Pattern By Annabelle Worthington Dorothy Dix Letter Box t I l ,the mercst hint of femininity, as lniarks this captivating dress. vsilk in dark ground so suitable for ' immediate wear and smart for street It‘s new! when it boasts of Just It is carried out ln crepe printed for spring. The skirt is circular and gored at the front, a clever means of slender- lzing the figure. Stile No. 3040 may be had ln sizes l6, l8 years, 36, 38, 40 and 42 inches bust. Youll be agreeably surprised when you find out how utterly simple it is to fashion 1t. For summer or resort this model would be stunning in flowered chil- fon, eyelet embroidered batlste or pastel crepe silk. Sire 36 requires 3 yards 39-inch, with ‘A yard 39-inch contrasting. Be sure to fill in the size of the pattern. Send stamps orycoin (coin preferred.) Price of [lfllllffll 15 cents. No. 8M0. Size .............. . . . . . . . ................. Name “nun-H... . . . . . . . . Hun-u»..- Street Atlflfcns .-...-...--..-.--..-.---~-~--- "fiquette By ltobofla Leo Li, 1;: Al/ iicctnsury Liza» a “unions full name be u'rittcn'when issuing or answering invitations? A. No", only the surnanie is rc- quired. Q.‘ Is it good form to insist on jumping up to help, if a hostess ls ' serving dinner without. the help of I maid? A. Make the offer quietly and sin- cerely, but do not insist. , Q. What is a great breach of good manners when traveling on a train? A. To monopolize a dressing room for quite a period of time. Foreign visitors seeing a new dra- ma in London are supplied with sum- naricr. of the play in French, Ger- nan or Spanish. ‘Beef fbr-‘fou cndflaby foo ' Sovgl: Individual Cartons .,.,. l0 cents Style Well now, if misfortunelhas with them a guarantee to keep ‘While anyoncs manners are scale, the new ones lye found at gallery. These come in all the WITH ALIVIA ARCHER until you've been forced to admit that you‘rc not thc little half- plnt. cizc you ilsed to be, and in your filial stage of complete irrita- tion. you're going iii for some new s<t:-.lrs, get those xvliieh carry the audience away. for there is practically no danger of tipping of; of thcm,'thcy're so marvelously low. Furthermore. the umerals arc sufficiently wcll caged to pre- vent your little sccrct from becoming too wcll bullctined by the ‘dlfllC For The Cook ’ onaxoa onor CAKES 1.1. cup shortening. ‘u cup sugar. 2 ens yolks. 1 orange rind grated. 1 cup nutmcats. ‘l cup orange juice. ill cups flour. ll teaspon salt. 1 teaspon baking powder. Cream the butter well and work fn the sugar. Beat egg ‘yolks well and add them, also the grated orange rind and juice. Mix the dry ingred- ients and sift them in, mlxingwell. Add the chopped nuts-they may be walnuts or pecans for one type of cake, or‘ blanched almonds for an- other; filberts or peanuts give a. very individual flavor. Drop mixture from i1 fiQIISDOn 0n greased pan and bake ln moderate oven, 375 degrees Fahr. DIAILDIEN GDOD DODGERS ‘ BOSTON, April 16»(U.P.)—Dur- in»: a. five-year period e90 letter car- riers were injured from various causes while at work but only three JVPPQ fifllck by automobiles while LClOSSIHZ streets, Postmaster William iE. Hurley of Boston reported to the ilvfassachusetts Safety Council. Chats been hQnpOd upon misfortune, the liomc llrcs burning. pretty comic when standing on 1 $5.69 will keep a few smii-ks from accepted bathroom colors. Always refreshing How Can This Wife Make Her Husband More Sociabld-Can a Woman Obtain Peace of Mind by Refusing to Acknowledge Her Husband's Philandermgl-Mother Who Forfeited Right to Support Dear Miss Dix-My husband is a. steady domestic man, very kind to me and much interested in his home, but here is my complaint-he slmply will not make friends with people and all my efforts are in vain. He freezes. up the minute he meets any one. Hols quite willing that I have women friends, and he urges me to go out in the afternoons, but he wants nobody coming to our house in the evenings. 1 am a. sociable sort and long for neighbors to drop in, have a nice game of bridge 0r just sit and talk, but he hits the sky as soon as it ls suggested. All he wants is Just to have me, his paper and the radio. This has acne on for fifteen Yem- People have made advances to us, but he has rebuffed all friendliness and they never come again. What can one do with a. chap like that? Am 1 forever to do without friends or flnd them only among women who are free in the afternoons? A VERY MUCH PERPLEXED WIFE. Answer: Your husband is making a very great mistake. the chief joy in life, but they are one of the greatest and most hummlzlng influences in _the world and they are among our most valuable assets in a business and financial way. ~ F‘riencls are not only Therefore, when a man cuts himself away from all friends he deprives himself of great pleasure and happiness. He invariably narrows himself down and becomes cranky and queer and opinionated. And he shuts the door cf opportunity ln his own face. Somebody has well said that friendship doubles our joys and halves our sorrows, and this is true. There are mighty few things that are any fun to do clone. The most wonderful journey loses half its charm lf you have no one to enthuse with you over the strange and interesting and beautiful things you see, whereas thc dullest trip becomes a delight 1f you take it with a congenial companion, Why, even the finest meal has little flavor if you gobble it down alone, but a couple of sandwiches become a feast if they are flavored with laughter and jest. And our friends educate us. It is the rubbing of wits against wits that [lolishes them up so they sclntillate like diamonds. Dull and egotistical, iii- ziccd, must bc the man and woman who do not learn from their friends. Because no man is so wise that he knows it all. Every other man and woman he meets have had experiences he has never had, have read books he has never read. have seen places he has never seen, know things that he does not know. And ft is in talk with these that he learns new things, gets a fresh outlook on life that widens his horizln and makes him tolerant and keeps his mind receptive. A group of intelligent friends will teach c. man more than a. college education. And our friends play a major part in our success in the world. As Shakespeare says, "We are advertised by our loving friends." They are our press agents. They trumpet our good qualities. They boost us to good places. They are on the lookout for advantageous openings for us, People will do things for us because they like us that they would never do for us because it was our right. The real reason that we buy from one merchant rather than another is not because he has better goods but because he is friendly. We urge peo- ple to go to Dr. Sc-and-So or Lawyer. Thls-and-That because they are our friends. and such a part does friendship play in business that the man who is a. good mixer invariably caches in on his talent for friendliness. But nobody ever tries to help along the glum, crabllke man. He can stay in his shell and make the most of it so far as we care. So, just for his own sake your husband is making a. great mistake, but I don't think there ls anything you can do about it. unless he has intellig- ence enough be perceive that. he is taking the wrong tactics in holding aloof from his fellow creatures and abandons his position of isolation. After fifteen years of combating your husband's hermit nature you must have said to him everything that can be said on the subject. And so, as he has remained deaf to all your arguments, my advlceto you ls to quit kick- ing against the pricks and leave him undisturbed to his paper and his radio. Plenty of times a. woman has to accept her husband as he is and make the best of it and thank heaven it is no worse. This seems to be your case. .Cease nagging him about having friends in of an evening and find your amusement and diversion in the afternoons: There are lots of amusing things to do then and you can get your social contacts with other interesting and agreeable women, Hen lunchcons and matinecs and afternoon bridges were invented for the consolation of such as you. DOROTHY DIX. O O O I O I Dear Miss Dlx--I read somewhere that “peace of mind does not come through husbands, it comes in spite o fthem. It comes in spite of every- thing because it 1s complete in itself. It ls complete ln you, in me, in every living creature. The only way that any one can find it is to believe in the good and the true, refusing to see anything else in the image of the beloved. What you refuse to see goes out of your life." Now I want to ask is that true? When a wife knows that her husband ls unfaithful to her that he gives his time, his money and himself to another woman, can she refuse to sec that? Can she keep her heart from aching and breaking? How can a man who claims to love his wife hurt her s0 cruelly? Can you help us who have husbands who are untrue torus to flnd peace and happiness? A WIFE. Answer: No. Only God can do that. I have no magic that can heal a wife's broken heart. I have no words with which to salve the wounds that have been dealt her pride. The nearest approach to any consolation that I can give her ls to bid her to try to look clearly upon the husband who has betrayed her and see how poor and worthless a thing she mourns. A double-dealer. A double- crosser. A cheat. A man who has not even the courage of his sins and who ;wlll not come out frankly before the community and announce that he pre- ‘fers another woman to his wife, but wno nides oenind her skirts while he lean-lea on a hole-and-corner intrigue with another womanl What ls there to love about a. man like that? What have you lost in losing him? If deserted wives could only realize that the idols they have worshipped Happenings of the Week A golden sunbeam lost its way And wandered at its will; ft kissed the yelding, soft, brown earth; Up sprang a daffodil. coo Under the cheerful omen of a bright and cloudless sky, Miss. Mll- dred Marlann "‘ ‘t, Tuesday be- come the wife of Hon W. D. Herrldge. A radiant sun shone lthroughcut the day and poured through the colored windows of Chalmers United Church Ottawa as Premier R. B. Bennett gave his sister in marriage to the recently appoint- cd Canadian Minister t0 Washlni- ton. Witness to the ceremony aside from the Vice-Regal party, Included L-nmedlate relatives only. Carrying a magnificent arm bouquet of pink and. mauve orchidfl. the bride entered on ‘the arm of her brother. The Prime Minister ap- peared deeply moved as he prepared to give in marriage his beloved sister who has been an. almost in- separable companlon for many years. Unattended, the bride was a picture of radiant loveliness in her nuptial costume in pastel time8- The exquisite ‘gown was of summer cloud blue bouffe de sole with fitted silhouette. It spread ln a long, full flounce ending in two small trains at the back. A Jacket of the same material, completing the ensemble, was beaded w the elbows with‘ mauve and green beads, the design outlined with seed pearls. From thc elbows, long full scarves floated to form trains. The hat with large and gracefully undulating brim, was of rough French straw in the cloud blue and the silver embroidered crepe slippers matched in tone She carried a large bouquet of mauve and pink orchids- . During the signing of the register. The Voice that Breathed o'er Eden was sung softly by the choir. Following the wedding ceremony, parliamentarians and their wives, members of offlclaldom and close friends had an opportunity of be- stowing their good wishes upon the couple at a reception ‘held by Rt. Hon. R. B. Bennett st the hotel where he resides. The bride and groom with the host arrived by the ball room entrance and received in the spacious drawing room where a mass of blue and pink ‘nydrangeas and ferns formed a background be- tween two tall gilt framed mirrors, and repeated the delicate tints of the bride's gown. Refreshments were served in the: ball room, to which the Earl and Countess of Bessbo wgn were ecort- ed by the Prime Minister. The bride's table was a great horseshoe in the centre, covered with a primrose yellow cloth and adorned with trails of smilax and forget-me". nots aiid bowls of Johanna Hill and butterfly roses and gypsophella. The many-tiered wedding was placed in front of the bride. Tall standards of calla lilies added to thc beauty of the scene, and be- hind a screen of lilies and ferns an orchestra played. The toast to the bride was propos- ed in a hfloov speech by His Excel- lency, Earl Bcssborough. After cut- llfl! the imposing wedding cake‘, the bride presented the first‘ two pieces to their Excellenclss. _ The cut of Her Excellency to the bride was c. rlch papler mache tea table. Hts Excellency presented the Broom with a beautiful chased silver clgaret box. Major and Mrs. Herrldge left at cake tied in a. crisp bow. The tones of the dress were echoed in the leather hand-bag of grey with red enamel fiillmls. The becoming hat of stitched grey fa-llle hid a narrow grey patent leather brim with Jnunty bow of patent leather at the side. Her shoes were snakeskin with touches of black, and her wrap c Paquin model cont of smoke grep with large fluffy collar of grey fox. O O O An invitation has been extended by the committee in charge. through the provincial Government and proper official channels, to H. R. H. Princess Mary and the Earl of Hsrewood to attend the celebration cf the diamond jubilee of British Columbia's entry into confederation. Announcement to this effect was made by Reg. Hayward, chairman, and Robert Hlscocks, secretary of the committee. Invltatcns are also be- ing extended through Premier R. B. Bennett for the delegates from the different British Domlnions who will be arriving in Canada about that time to attend the Imperial conference, to visit Vctorla and Join in the festi- vities on July 20. The United States Government is being asked through Hon. G, ‘A. Bucklln, cormul for the Republic, to have several of the capital ships of the United States navy come to Vctorla for the event. Slmlar invitation is being extended to the British Admirality. O I O The two outstanding social events of the week were the Gyro dinner dance at The Canadian lcatlonal Hotel on 'I‘u'esday evening and the official dinner given to the members of the Legislature in thc new hotel by Llcut.,Gcvei-ncr Dalton on Thurs- day evening. Mrs. A. B. Warburton is i being welcomed homealtcr her serious ill- ness 1n Fredericton, N. B. Mrs. Warburton has as her guest at Cavendish Apartments, Mrs. George Warburton of Victoria, B. G. who is renewing old friendships here. O O O It is understood Miss Helen Grant has taken up the pleasant duties of Social Secretary to the Llcut. Gov- ernor and Mrs. Dalton. O O O Mrs. F. R. Newsom entertained the Weekly Bridge Club, very delightfully at her pretty home 12 Ambrose Street last evening. O O O Miss Jeannette Macphall, after visiting her brothers, sir Andrew Macphail, in Montreal, and Colonel Alexander Macphall, in Kingston, has returned to her home in Saint John, N. B. OOO A bracelet which ls even more unusual than many of the fascinat- lng pieces of Qmellery that Chanel has done before now is being spon- sored by her, It's a wide cork bangle bracelet saturated with various per- fumes. some of the bracelets are perfumed with two of Ghanelb own perfumes. They are said to be power- ful and retain their odor indefinitely. In some quarters they are bulllldéfid rather swish with twceds for sport. O O O Miss Doris Gill and Miss Avila Mathicson are enjoying a. short holl- day visit in Halifax. A very iilce reception and Bridge was held at Mrs. Hooper Home's lovely home on Elm Avenue Thurs- day fn honor of Mrs. O. F. Bous- fleld who ls sailing very shortly on a vlslt to her old home in England. During the social gathering Mus. Bousfleld was the reccplent of a farewell address and a. gift of gold 6.15 o'clock for New York and will Before returning to Canada they will also visit Copenhagen. They do not expect to take up their residence in Wahlnztfln until the late summer. For travelling, the bride donned a printed crepe frock in grey, black and red tones, fashioned ln simple collar, the ends pulled through and lines. With ft she wore n. bastiate l as an appreciation from her intim- siill on the Enyopg, (or 31.31am’, ate friends who were present and ‘ SHAMPOO ’ _:_5;o|i_i-:n E I Remodel the Qld g 2 MARITIME RUG womcs t I _5AlNY_lon»,N.B. f I ‘WA-to fu/ Cola/fly ' : children to go off with another man. public, and even to her husband, that she doe: not know of his phllander- ing. That is Just to save her lace, but her feigned ignorance brings her no peace of mind noi- does it keep her heart from aching. DOROTHY DIX. . . ‘ Dear Miss Dlx-A mother deserted her husband and her three small The husband divorced her and plac- "i think my thin ‘have not only feet of clay but are mostly made of mud and that they have been bowing down before false gods, it would do more than any other one thing to make them dry their eyes and cease beating upon their breasts when their husbands desert them. 1f they could come to the point where they ‘could realize that their little tin gods were never anything but little tin l gods that fall off their perch and get broken they could sweep the debris out of their lives into the ash can and be done with it and go cheerfully and happily about rearranging their lives. As for the theory that a wife can attain peace of mind by shutting he: eyes to her husband's philanderlng, that is all hooey. A woman would have to be a blind fool to do that. No intelligent woman could accomplish such a feat. Or else she would have to be like a won-um of whom I once heard. who said that her faith in her husband was so complete that ff she saw hfm doing something wrong she would know that lt was just her lying eyes that misled her. Ibrmanyandvmmugoodcocnucewlfemqoftcuprctnndtntbp, ed the children with his sister, who reared them without any financial help from either the father or the mother. The mother has remarried four or five times, living s pleasure-seeking and disreputable life. The children, now married, have contributed to her support, but now they have families or their own and are no longer able to support her unless she comes to make her home with them. This she declines to do, but has filed l. petition in court to compel her children to support her. Do you think the courts should decide ln favor of such c. mother and force a financial imposition upon then Children? AN RIHREBTED FRIEND. Answi-e: . Certainly not nor do I believe that any court would make such In un. just decision. when this mother deserted hei- children in their infancy one forfeited all claim upon them. Nor do Ithlnk that her children mould take her into their homes when she would be an element a! discord. c bid influence upon his children and c social stigma upon tbchoupoliold. norms: Y I '= .1 stump. Qrgfhhwrl; “u. - Paris of great magnitude. It is a foregone conclusion gown or evening outfit. * by MARY KNIGHT United Press sun Oomlpondcnl‘ anus. 4pm l7.—(U. PJ-More time, slimy and mm“, ,5 spent in creating new kinds of necklaces than in my azim- one field. of mornment for women. that seems doubtful at first bu; . walk down the Rue do Rlvoll from the Place do h. Concorde to the statue of Jeanne d'Arc our the Iufllerlu ll enollch to convince anyone that originally fn beaddom ll well nigh lmponlbu, Ici- the bl: houses, the grand ccuturlen. to show something "different" means that they hlVQ to aft up nights to ammo, coeds. whether lt wasp-lean Pawn’: light that was ntronlcr than the Others. or whether m lust has an unlimited number of ma,“ c. ures ln nu mm ot not, the not remains one he m4 n1, 11m of orlclusuty. 1n a. broad fume when he Picked glm in mm and white for beads of several sizes and cuts and strung than 0,, gold and sliver metal threads and chains and colored threads um show through the "windows." with millions of necklaces of i”. metric cut and design and as many more done by grouping m, m, twelve different kinds of beads all on one string, this Paton “n” pllclty never fails to stand out and make itself known in a crowd something l! very laoklnc ff they do not wcu a necklet to com. plete the effect of c, dress, whether ft ls a sports ensemble, m, ____ APRIL _1_8._ 193 Woman's Realm -:- Social and Personal -:- Fqshioqip, Literature m Styles that women nowadays feel ti“; FASHOION HINT A Morning Smile "How to make my old short skirts conform to the new length was a problem to me until I hit on this plan. I dropped the hems; and u the , part that had been turned under .' was darker than the rest, I redyed the entire dress, after having beached -the pods, following directions in the iamond _Dyec package. "l used Diamond Dyes for the redycin , of course. I have dyed many t ings with these wonderful colors. They have acv d me many dollars and ave never oiled to give perfect ruultr-cmootlnpven c_o on —~fast to wear and washing. Friends‘ , are new when I | rcdyc or tint t cm with Diamond . Dyes. They do give the most gor- gcous colors!" Mrs. G.C-. Levin Quebec who wished her a pleasant journey and sate return. The guest of honor also won the Bridge prize and ex- qulslle box of roses. Mrs. J. W. P. bfcMlllan. accomp- anied by her little niece Miss Ruthie Stone, has gone on a visit to her mother and other relatives in Boston and New York. They will stop off at other Amei-can cftlm before return- i113. , O O O The Thursday afternoon Bridge Club was entertained pleasantly on Tlhursdsy afternoon by Mrs. A. E. Morrison. O Mrs. Stewart, wife of the Hon. J. D. Stewart is leaving Monday morn- ing on a. visit to her daughter, M11. Goodwin in Montreal, and friends in Ottawa. . ' O O O Mrs. C. J. ‘fidmarsh, of Mbntreal, ls the guest of Mrs. Harold Mulklnl. of Ottawa who entertained It the tea. hour Saturday in her honor. O O O “Home Duties" will-loathe Queen's occupation ‘“ ’ by King George in the census which will be taken in Great Britain on Sunday, April 26, and his Malesty will describe his own occupation as "Head? according to The News Chronicle, which 8085.11.10 King will fill in the some kind of form as any other householder 1n that land. Every householder fn Great Britain will be required on census night-the returns being made at night instead of in the day- tlmc-tn give full particular con- cerning the various members of the household, as outlined in the blank forms. The Master of the King's Household, Sir Derek Keppel, will be responsible‘ for the returns concern- ing the servants and those members of the Court who may be in reci- dence on census night. O O O Among the visitor-s enjoying a dc- llghtful holiday in Atlsntlc Oil-y are Mr. and Mm. George DeBlola, and Mr. and Mrs. George Dykee. ' O O Mrs. R. A. Wootton. formerly Mlle May Goff, recently received for the first time since her marriage at her home on Montcrey Avenue. Victoria B. O. The rooms looked charming with Spring flowers and the tea. table was centered with n silver bowlof daffodils, freeslc and forget-me-ciots. Mrs. Wootton wore her wedding gown 1t was sunday morning in c mg)" f class in c. famous church school. "W111 you please tell mo,“ ma l member to the teacher, “how fai- 1n actual miles Dan is from Beersheba? All my life I have heard the fcm- _' lliar phrase "From Dan to Bear- ‘ sheba." but f have never known u“ I distance." Before the answer could be given, .‘ another member arose in the bu] ; of the room, and inquired; “Do I understand that Don and Bccrsheba are the names of places?" ' ayes-n "That ls one on ma. wife, like Sodom and Gommomb." mother-inflow. Mrs. a. n. Wootton. Mrs. R». L. Orr, of Seattle, and M", H. O. Curvy poured HI. and coffee, "id “WW1: in mnn: were Mn. ton, Miss T. L. Puldon, Min Ines Garey, Miss Ruth Jones, w» 411w Goff mdMlss Jun McLean. O O O Kennedy deeply regret her 111mm in the P. E. L Hospital and are looking recovery. of King's Bench in identical on Wednesday when the trial of 8am 8cm. Jock Miller, Iieopold Warren and Morris Wolnbcugh was continued. The Ohfef Jumbo n- celved u‘ warm welcome on behalf of the court and the l»! of Montreal. Mr. Justice O. A. Wilson who prud- 111d‘. declared he wuplulcdizosee the visitor tlke an intense in the administration of jmtlco in Quebec and naked the Gnu: Jwtlcc to take back with him the good whim u! the Montrccfoolu-ttotheytldgeaofbil province and in particular m. Ju- tlce Arscnsult, c frequent vhltm- to Montreal. O O O "Diamond can," consisting cf er- nammts fn ‘proefou stoma, futon- ed with an invisible screw behind the lobe and then following the entire line of the NA‘, life the latest fashion in Paris. The first pair wu womntatbcmtrebyayolmgwomm in a long black velvet gown. 1hr dark hair was drawn beck from her face, revealing her tfny em. out- lined in dlunonds. The sensation aha created was minimise. Moat of the women present wanted to tnnwl the new fashion more closely. m! her trolnwas nouden onceveroltlmel u she walked in the foyer‘. Fine for Constipation Best For Headache may oceans! TEE uvsn AND move 11m nownts wnmc YOU scnr. Don't stay sick or ulfngl Use W grand family remedy that l: 1n m»! homes today - Dr. Hamilton's Plllli they will give you pep, ambition. Iv- penn, good aim, mu: mrm - l" abort. good iiuini. You-can m l! of eggshell satin and was assisted in receiving he: many callers by her i: -_:__. _ lihlllnlflflcboxtlffllmllflofflwll 501d by Ill daalarslanncdlclne. \ iwllnclrvwwamncnl Iwuunkolnlfthon t ofSac Ind Chancellor, h. lc-Olaunm w-cmmunluldalk‘? Eczema Formed Tiny Water Blisters; Healed by Cuticura. “Salim! broke out on my neck. ‘.:.".f.’.'.."‘.'...‘.ti“:f.°. ti‘; Ell‘; 2;‘; 1153i... u... u» M’! c. I would break and a nary substance woul them. The “gain: body no: warm, and comedian "M other d ‘omvrlgilbwtn vhogugmcumusogmnnd Ointment and purchased cakes ha: of Ointment.’ z-m:.=~m.-.::..r~"*“ . f: name “lnILdRdlY doom from m: mud-m m "substratum-fibula. I always ‘I thought they were husband and ‘ Sydney Bu-ker. Mn. Arthur Woot- l ‘rho mmy friend! of Mme.- foiwudtnheu- ccrlynndoompim‘ Ohlcf Justice LA. Lhhbfeccmwu ‘ cdfsl-inlufahed visita- totbe oourtI