Womeinits realm p;.;.- -.m- . i' If 1 ayanuuuru-uunwun Wife Provides Lots Of Water PAGE TWO TE GUARDIAN JANUARY 8, 1954 Loss Of Romance Penalty For Women's Gain in Intellect NEW YORK. (UP) - Today's woman is twice as brainy as her grandmother. but what she's gain- ed in intellect. she's lost in ro- mance, one authority says. Dr. Jolande Jacobi. of the fac- ulty of the Carl Jung Institute for Analytical Psychology, Zurich. Switzerland, says that modern wo- man does not hold man in awe as did the woman of two generations ago. "Woman has solved her infer- iority complex on the intellectual level." said Dr. Jacobi. who is lec- - 1 i i i 1 l i turing on marriage at the New School for Social Rescarch. But the psychotherapist She has become pal. nnd as a result. gallantry. und courtslup have gun out the Vi mdnw. Dr. Jacobi says men aren't in- clined to woo women when they are forced to compete with them, - for jobs or seats on the subway. Liking Elephants - - - Q. I, 1, 311 new (.9 dip the houses, snug in their sheltering Igs Q uullflcahon napkin into I. glass of water. after groves and hills, seem to move It or Hostess Job eating. and wipe the mouth and closer to each other, to be more gm; angers? be friendly and inter-deipenddent. thkan MON-I-REAL .(-.p. N, Am.,..,.,,, A.. If no finger bowl has en in other seasons. Pume smo es W15. Thor? mdy 1),, an Upe;,m: provided. it is proper to hold your brightened by the faultless brush for you in for-away Kenya if you have a friendly fer-ling toward el- lephants and if you are handy with .1 slin:-shot The quahfcntinns were among lthose ind down in rm advertise- merit 'pl:ic-rrl in Kenvzt newspapers famous by the Ti-ct-tops Hotel, jungle resort where the Queen an the Duke of Edinburgh while touring Africa. The nrivnrtisenicnt, sent here by lays that modern woman's equal status also has eliminated much of the fantasy and beauty from her life. too much of a protection, stopped A win painted h ahadu of pink and rose and coral. mule a. delightful background pt annact for the dark tips of the sprnou and ”va.I'n" that than Ilayl modestly display their sturdy loveliness here and than along the height and depth of this valley. In the other reasons their grsce often paeaea unnoticed. But now in their day. as darkly beautiful they take up the winter-watch singly or in a '(For Dishes) GREENSBORO. NC. (A?) Walter Adams. an insurance ex- ecutiva, believes he has the world's most considerate wife. Addressing a Boy Scout coun- cil, he extolled her virtues. saying. "when I come home at night my easy chair is ready. my slippers are laid out and my pipe is on the - company pretty against the white 31:;-ln And mules plenty of hot of the ilelda or outlined on the Pauslng. he added, "I never ” ' .changlng hues. Especially engaging we find them when as this evening the sunset colon burn and glow and linger in may embers until the night pours through her flood-gates the soft grey shadows of the twilight and the day is done. Silent then were the fields. which in a neat. pattern run up the op- posite slope-still and deserted. But now the neighboring farm- could wash dishes in cold water!" 8 of the afterglow rose in fresh vol- ume from chimneys. betokening the near approach of the supper-hour. In mind we could picture the fann- wives bustling about. busy in the preparation: moving shiny tea- kettles closer to the scented wood- coals; spreading the table, in a deft. movement. with A Dre"-Y cloth: laying each setting precisely, maybe glad at heart that the solid. stolld everyday dishes of once-even napkin in one hand and tip the glass enough to wet it. This is bet- ter than ”dunklng" the napkin in the glass. Q. Is it necessary for a bride- elect to reply to Il0iS expressing good wishes from her friends who have seen the engagement an- nouncement in the paper? A. It is not necessary for her to write notes, but she may telephone some of her friends and she most certainly should thank aill those d After Girl Make: Arrangements For Wedding. Her Beau Reneges DlA.R.uIssDIx:f..ut Ibocuneenga.godtoe.msnwho was about to enter on officers school. our wedding was in tube piece in two months. when hecgot his first furlough, End in the meanwhile I was to make all preparations. A Well. the preparations went along all right. and. two weeks before the wedding date, I had a letter from him telling me to hold up all ar- nuioementsuntllwchadachance forataikwhcnhe csmeholnchc said he was afraid of marriage. and needed more time to think it over. He left and I haven't heard from him since. The situation was, of course, very embarrassing to me: my friends had given me many pre- sents, and two showers. What. is hardest for me, however. is the fact that I still love him and would take him back at once. The only ex- planation I can think of is that he had an unhappy love affair. some- time before he met me. should I write him. or just wait? J'i'LTl'.lD ANSWER: From my vantage point. I'd say the young man just changed his mind for reasons best. known to himself. and he no longer wants to marry you. Perhaps the other girl came back into the picture. or perhaps there is a new one. There is also the possibility that separa- tion brought about a change of heart. or 3 new perspective simply made him decide you weren't the girl for him. Whether any one of these supposltlons is the reason for his silence, is for you to decide. The first step in readjustment, for a girl who has been disappointed in love, is to face the situation squarely and make up her mind to conquer it. The young man is no mere boy. subject to the whims of adolescence. At. 25 he's surely well able to make up his own mind. Writ- ing to him now would only be opening the wound wider. You'd be on ii-0"5i'ani Wilt”! T 01' 3 reply. hoping for that which will not materialize. Since he appeared quite definite in his decisions to call everything off, youd better proceed on that assumption. The time-honored cures for fractured hearts are prayer and new interests. but the first step is your own submission to circumstances. While there's always the posgi. bility that your sweetheart will return. penitent and ready for the altar. it. would be well for you not to count on the happy ending. he WIZEJARIMISS DIX: Last week I met. a very nice boy at a dance and Q11 be attentive to me. when we parted. he said he would phone Thai Bdy f i 315 W. Kim, KB. sl'l.'l'!NG DOWN To SD16-In! During World War I a young flying officer was admitted to our base homital who had fallen about 20,000 feet and loot moat of his lower jaw and many teeth. As sau- ior Medical Office I contacted two dental surgeons who made a good Job of repairing the young officer's face. What me was that they sat on high chairs to perform the operation. In the British Lancet. Dr. G. Sacks states that the practice of surgery is dominated by the pat- ient-hls core. his comfort, and his survival. No one bothers too much to consider the care. com- fort, or survival of the surgeon. suggestions are mode to lengthen the aurgeont days and to sweeten the atmomhere in operating thea- tres. Dr. sacks states further that the greatest need is for the surgeon to be relaxed whilst operating which can be done better with the surgeon sitting down. The ordin- ary stool in the operating mom does not suit the surgeon sitting down. The one used by Dr. Sacks has a. powerful spring for the ped- estal portion so that it accountin- dates itself somewhat to move- ment. The Cole-Rous position is me. but. I adapted in the following manu- for upper abdominal operations. With the patient lying on her back. a Iandbag 18 inches long and whom. 0 inches wide is pieced under the right side of the thorax so that the body of the patient is tilted to the left while leaving the pelvig flat on the table. The right arm is brought over so that it hangs over the left shoulder and the face is turned to the left. The patient lies close to the left of the table and the table is tilted slightly aide. ways. The surgeon sits on the left side. Operation on gall bladder or stomach from this sitting position is vastly simplified as the surgeon sits with his hands in the correct position to nnlah the operation. ”The surgical removal of the gall bladder fcholeoyltcctany) or the surgical removal of the atom- ach (, ttectomy) performed in this position become vastly simpli- fied." in removal of the stomach. the duodenum (first port of the small intestine into which the stomach empties) comes forward admirably and the surgeon sit. with his hands in the correct posi- tion to close its cut end. The most difficult case becomes easy. Scarce- ly ever are retractors (instruments to hold back tissues) called for in either operation. When we think of extensive op- erations with the surgeon having to operate for several hours, it is gratifying to know that many dif- ficult and extensive operations may be performed in the sitting-down position. ' he hasn't. I'll meet him again soon at the same place. should FANNY I ignore him. or give him a chance to explain. ANSWER: Don't ignore pnrently his promise to phone was him. and don't expect him to explain. Ap- a mere formality. and has already been forgotten by him. Be pleasant at the next meeting, and perhaps on a future occasion he'll make good his promise to call you. I though these had since become col- lectors"-prized items-had been succeeded by gay things, artistically decorated, colorful. O O SUNSHINE CAKE a former Mniztrr-nlcr, set. out these requirements for the hostess s0lif'l'.t by the hotel: "Qualifications-simlilar io those required of an air hostess includ- ing tact and personnlit.V- In addi- whom she meets. Q. Even if the wedding is to be very small and informal. would it be. all right for a bride to wear a white bridal veil? ill: till?! ll-IE3? '1 egg whites its teaspoons cream tartar Flbvouring to taste "Now, that plate." we smiled HOLMANiS Little Shop A. Y . I ided it i C h ' 7 '33 i,il"1k5 tion, there must he a friendly fecl- second :n.-E-,2; a no ex with a touch of apprehension Y0 I 1 mp our Hd bou unm 1, ins inwards 1-icpliant. "hl""' bub i visiting grandmother of last surn- Dimpw mg” 3 ' talc and other name: nhility to mer as we washed the supper ware, gm-mp, Add to egg whites. which have been beaten to a stiff froth. Beat 8 minutes, add cream of tar- tar, flavourlng and beaten yolks: then flour sifted 3 times. Rake in iingreased funnel tin for 1 hour in moderate. oven. When done tum aver hot towel. Cut with fork. -Mrs. Irving Iloomba. Bedeque w. I. "I wouldn't like you to drop it It's as old as . . . well. they're quite rare now." She giggled merrily. 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