I i rHoppenings of the Week i s Etiquette U IINIU l‘ l Dorothy Dix Letter Box u." . , ‘ “u; hostess mat mo at the door. l- irmpsging bread today." “tum, "but won't you come r1811! _.,';,,_- > m?» rrwnwso she led the way. 1.! Miss Paterson's l N. B. Rothesay Park. Rothesay, o c u Miss Mona Saunders, daughter of Premier and Mrs. A. C. Saunders of Summerside, has returned from a very pleasant trip of over four months to the United States and Upper Canada. Miss Saunders spent some time with her sister, Mrs. Floyd‘ Cleveland, who resides in Youngstown, Ohio, after- wards visiting in Atlantic City and other places of interest. Prom there Miss Saunders visited Ottawa and was the guest of Mrs. Creellrian Mac- Arthur at her charming residence there. While there Miss Saunders was one “of the guests at several lunch- eons and dinners given by members of parliament. In Montreal Miss Saunders was joined by her sister, Mrs. Harold Schurman and Miss Ethel Schurman, who came up from Sum- merside for a few days visit. After a. very enjoyable time they returned home together and are being welcom- ed by their many friends. O O O Mr. and Mrs. L. H. D. Murray are‘ being welcomed home from New York. Mrs. Murray has quite recover- ed her usual good health and en- joyed the motor trip home by way oi the White Mountains. ‘ "Into her kitchen shining bright ;""‘And there we chatted long” 0! politics, phlloeflPhy. ‘ '-- Of beauty, dreams and song. And all the while she watched herl bread Al it turned golden brown; I think a woman who can bake And talk has true renown. . s ' _ Queen Mary Sunday, celebrated her! " gang birthday with her family. The. ‘ observance of the Queen's anniver-l gar! was quiet. The Rflyfll Fanluy gathered at a luncheon and a simPle‘ I a tea. King George, the Queen, Prin- uegg Mary, Viscount Lasccllcs, the two . sons of Pincess Mary and Princcssj Elizabeth, the little daughter of the‘ Duke and Duchess of York, were wggent, Queen Mary received liund-j "u; d messages of congratulation 4mm m, day. The Queen, replying in a birthday message from Sir Kyh? ' 1 gstpn studd, Lord Mayor of Lohdvn» giegr-ephed her appreciation of the f7’ loyal affection of Londoners and their felicitations an the King's ICCOWBY)‘ from, his illness. The Queens message ‘aid: "'1 recall with heart-felt satis- .,. action the sympathy so Warmly 9X1 tended to me and my ‘children in paSi ' _,‘months. From the Valley of the‘ f... Shadow their King has been restored ‘"1’ to his people, and with a realization _‘ of the nation's faith and hope. I look d“ back with gratitude to the fervent" prayers and earnest good ivishes with, which it supported me and those dear 1g me in the dark days of our lfixiety." O Mrs. J. J. I-lornby and Mrs, Q Q_ Duffy who are visiting in Halifax u; being pleasantly feted by the many old friends. » O Richard Filliter, William Burnett and Robert Beer are being Iwngrgg. ulated on being the Scouts chosen u; the Intenational Boy Scouts Jamboree next month. In celebration of His Majesty's daughter Mrs J d birthday. Their Excellencies, the GovJ Toronto ‘who a‘)? ma?“ e Pemfler- "I crabs-General and Viscountess Wil-i . E ' 5p n“ “me We“ lingdon have issued invitations for a, ineggzildhzad ‘m 51h“ c°§unmtr _ garden party to be held at Govern-i Rlcharson expegtlsortio vgly :1. iiiffs. ' xrient House on Monday, June 3, from Province for the summer“ s‘: T": V° _ _ - a as een until half past six. _ her custom for many years. O O O O O O The Royal Scottish Academy, the. Mrs. Percy Pope of Stonehaln, Mass. Royal Infirmary and the College forl was cordially welcomed on a short Ministers‘ Daughters in Edinburgh,‘ visit to the City this week and was were visited by the Duke and Duch-l Widely entertained by her friends. ess of York Tuesday. The duke is i MYS- Pope i5 leaving ‘Tuesday on re- lord high commissioner for the gene turn and will sail in the near future oral assemb‘y of the Church of Scot-L IOFmF-‘rllgland where she _will remain land now in session. Later the duch-v "ll he last of October. ess visited the Queen's institute for‘, ' ' ' nurses in training and presented sf F01‘ both afternoon and evening long-service badge to a number of frocks several of the most exclusive the nurses attached to the institutioni deiiihere are using lace in the faint- v ~ l‘ est and most flattering shade n: “is Her Excellency Viscountess Willing-i Pink Since they are made with tiers an mtertgined the members of the; end fleunces. the effect is charming. jm on ouncilof the Presbyterian‘ ° ° e W. M. B. at tea Wednesday at Rideaul Rev. Mr. Littlejohns of Pownal, is Hall. The Dominion President of the. sailing next week on a holiday trip to W. M. 5., Mrs. Daniel Btrachan, who‘, England. ‘ '~ visited here last summer, was among‘ the guests. ‘. Mr. W. A. Weeks was receiving con- gratulations on Tuesday last, on ‘t. of York.‘ taining his 90th birthday. O O p The Duke and Duchess held a brilliant garden ‘party in the grounds of Holyrcod House Palace? Mrs. Roy Ihgs of Port Hill has been Edinburgh, last Sunday, which un- enjoying a pleasant holiday at her fortunately was cut short by a drizzle old home in Dorchester, N. B. of rain. Earlier in the day they visited I e v Redford barracks and witnessed a An interesting social event this ‘Q display by the second battalion of the week was the reception on Thursday, ‘ Cameron Highlanders. The Royal‘ when Mrs. Lyton Dalton received for couple were received by General silj the first time since her marriage at William Peyton, commander in Scot- hcr home in Summerside, which was land. tastefully arranged with vases of e beautiful roses and ferns. Receiving Miss Hilda Holman, cf Sllnimer- with the charming young bride in the side, is visiting Miss Zoe Paterson, at drawing room was her sister, Mrs. .,A.< a 5/” tidied to ewe, represent Prince Edward Island at to be held in Birkenhesd, England, i Mrs. H. A. Richardson and hei- Q. When children receive invita- uuu; u; utbend, parties should they write their own acceptances? A. Yes. it i.s excellent traini-fll. Q. At an afternoon tee, who pours the tea? A. The hostess. Q_.1Iow much space should one a1- low between each guesiist the table? A. Thirty inches. John. o.- Cobb, and they were alm- antly engaged welcoming the many visitors who called to extend their congratulations. Mrs. Dalton looked lovely in her wedding dress of deicon blus georgette and wore a corssgc bouquet of pink csrnatlons. Mrs. Cobb won a lovely gown of navy blue georgetfe and bouquet of pink car- nations. The dining room and tea table were attractively decorated in pink and ‘white. ‘rile charmingly ar- ranged table was centred with a. silver basket of cal-nations and lighted with _ u]; pink tapers in silver candlesticks. s-residing at the tea table were Mrs. they.) St. Clair Jeans and Miss S11v9- Sharp. Among those dispensing hos- pitality were: Mrs. G. C. Dickie, Mrs. Robert Mollison, Mrs. Floyd Bouill- Mrl. James Cobb, Mrs. Firth 50W"!- Mrs. C. Palmer, Miss Nina. Schurinan and Mrs. A. Murray. Miss Jean Cobb. tended the door. Buinmerside, arrived home on Thurs- Univeralty with very high marks I O O O Mrs. H. R. Large left on Thursday to spend a month in Toronto. the guest of her brother Mr. Arthur Poole. O O O Miss Anna McLaren, daughter of Mr. ‘and Mrs. W. W. McLaren. of Georgetown, is visiting in Toronto the guest of her aunt Mrs. I-LW. Mac- Donald. s Fishing parties are being greatly enjoyed now that the weather is finer and. everyone. who possibly can is gettin out for a day in the country. The Tennis Dance under the dis- tinguished patronage of the Lieut. Governor and Mrs. I-Ieartz, 0n Thurs- day evening was s. most delightful social gathering chsperoned by Mrs. J. O. Hyndn-lsn, Mrs. J. Simpso , Mrs. H. Is Spears. Congratulations were extended t Prof. S. N. Earle on Wednesday, the occasion of his 84th birthday. O O O Mr. Andre ‘Paturel, of Summerside. whose appointment as the first Con- sular Agent of France was announc- ed in Wednesday's Guardian, is a native of France and has been in Canada for six years, the last three at Bummerside, where he has now large fishing interests and has resid- ed at. the Queen Hotel. During the Great Wsr he served France with much distinction and was decorated with the Croix de Guerre. to which a. bar was later added for further distinguished service. His appoint- ment to represent his native coun- try here is very fitting arid he is being congratulated upon it by a host of friends. w. and Mrs. c. n. n. Llorigworth were ampng the guests st the Mc- Gill Garden party on Wednesday given by ,ths Principal Bir Arthur Currie. They were in Montreal to attend tbs McOiil Convocation when their daugh . Miss Norah B. Long- wurtb. had her degree of Bachelor of Oommaresconfsrred upon her. O O I The Gd! hostess this afternoon will be Mrs. W. E. Champion, Mrs. P. D. Williams, Mrs. W. A. Molnar- sn,‘ Mrs. I". W. ‘ndmarsh, Miss Hel- en A Grant. !br the King's Birthday on Mon- day the tea hostesses will be Mrs. B. M. McIntyre. Mrs. W. B. Muir, In. I. H. Ramsay, Mrs. J. W. Mc- HINDU- coo This week has ‘been distinctive m» its many graduation ‘ea and the accompanying social affairs for the graduates. O O llrl. Ilnjauiin Rogers who is the lult of Dr. and Mrs. Hunt in Mal- dsn. Mass, motored to laranac this week with firs. Hunt and s party atftilndntoqiladafcwdsys with sir: was irsslth is molt assuming to his‘ rcisttvss and friends. , ___ gourrmvln on no: is>_ the charming little daughter of Mr. and Mrs. John Cobb. dressed in a dainty frock of blue velvet prettily at- Miss Helen Manson, only dauzhter of Mr. and Mrs. E. W. Manson oi day evening from Wolfville, where she graduated this week from Acadia Miss Manson is one of the very 19W student: who have successfully taken the University course in three years. i An Inspiring Example of the Higher Type of Wom- anhood-should the Woman Who Resents Her Husband's Son Attempt to Bring Him Up Dear Miss Dix-I am a woman 31 years old. I have been married ni- toen years and have twelve children. Twin sons l4, twin daughters I2, a boy of 11, twin sons 9, triplet daughters 7, s. girl 5 and one 4—nve boys and seven girls. When I was married my father gave me a nice. well-furnislied home in my own name. but for years on end my husband grumbled and grouch- ed becauss I wouldn't work outside of the home. He never considered that I worked, although I cooked,‘ (ept house, nursed. sewed, raised a garden and chick- ens milkedtwo cows, to say nothing of bearing and rearing twelve children and seeing to their needs. My husband himself has never made any more than a poor pitiful little salary that barely fed us after he had bought his own clothes, his whisky and tobacco. ' Well, I got tired of being so poor and one Monday morning four years ago I took my S-rnonths-old baby and the other little ones under school age and left them with s. kind old neighbor who loves children and agreed to care for them. I got a job behind a counter for $15 a week, and. as I de- veloped s real talent for selling things, my salary is now four times what my husband makes. ' Besides that I carry on my former work at home with the help of the children, whom I have drilled into most efficient assistants. I have taught them to cook, sew and clean, so the house is as well kept as ever and my money buys clothes, good times and luxuries for them. Besides. I {eel that my work is good for me. It gives me new interest in life and it gives my children responsibility. A few hours‘ separation of mother and W516i 9M1‘! dfly 1S 800d for us all and how glad we are to get together at night! Now, here is my trouble. Now that. I am working my husband is furious with m-s because I won't give him the money that I earn. alid because I have succeeded betetr than he has. I-le insists on my giving up my job and taking the boys out of school and putting them to work, He says parents do not owe their childrfen anything after they are l2 years old. I think that parents owe their children the very best education that they can give them. My 14-year-old boys are so clever that they will graduate from high school in two years. They lead their classes and I mean to keep them in high school until they finish. Of course we are poor, dog poor. It is no joke to feed. clothe, rear and educate twelve children. but to take a little boy and put him to work at 14 when you could give him an education is criminal. 5o am I not right to hold on to my good job and rear and train and educate my children and make good men and women out. of them? I am young, healthy and strong and I can work for them and we do have such adorable years together. I feel that I am right, yet I was raised old- filshioned to “mlnd" my husband. I was only a silly young‘ idiot when I married, but Ir have to be wise now for myself and twelve others. < ' MOTHER OP‘ A ROUND DOZEN Answer: - I think that is the finest, bravest, most philosophical letter that has ever come to the letter Box, and I commend it to the careful consideration of all the neurotic ladies who weep upon my breast because their husbands don't kiss them when they go away in the morning or take them out, to the movies in the evenings or because they can't go to Europe or because itlggggusbands were polite to some woman at a dinner party and they are i . Here is a woman who is married to a man who not only can't support his family, but who is fault-finding and little and mean and jealous and nagging besides. I-fere is a woman who has not one or two children to take care oi, but twelve, and she has to do every bit of her housework and baby- tending. And besides that she has to go out into the world and make the money to support them. If ever a woman was up against it. it is she. If ever a woman had work and worry a-‘plenily, it is she. But instead of howling arid complaining over her lot, she thinks it is all perfectly grand. and is having a bully time‘ and getting more fun out of working all day in a store and half the night doing housework than most women get out of going to bridge parties and dinners and luncheons and riding around in an automobile. And what a job she is turning out! Twelve splendid youngsters who have developed strength of character and efficiency in their very bsbyhood; who have been taught to play the game and pull the weight in the boat; who have been taught how to do all sort of work and to do it cheerfully and get fun out of it. What splendidimen and women they will make and what a crown of glory they will be to their mother. My hat is of! to this woman and if I had the awarding of Carnegie hero medals I would pin one as large as a dinner plate over her brave heart. But as for your problem, dear lady, there is just one answer to that. Stick to your worth-while children and let your worthless husband go. Don't give up your good Job that makes it possible for you to provide for your children and keep them with you and that. above all, enables you to give them the education that will mean so much to them as long as they live. The first question that every boy and girl is asked who applies for a job is whether they have had a high school education or not, and on the answer depends very generally the sort of a situation they get. Bo it is Worth mlkins every sacrifice to keep your boys in school until they graduate. And don't give up your job because of y elf. Evidently you cannot depend upon your husband and when your children are gone you will need your work to supply you with an interest in life, as well as money so that you will not become r ndent upon them. You have shown that you have more enterprise and intelligence than your husband, so the idea oi obeying him is ridiculous. Perhaps when the biblical advice was given. ‘iwves, obey,your husbands." husbfnds were of a different calibre from what they are now in some cases. DOROTHY DIX Dear Dorothy Dix-I have been married just six months to a man I love dearly. We are both in our early 20s and have been very happy. but now he asks ma to do something I cannot do. He wishes me to adopt s beautiful 3-year-old child that is his son snd the result of an indiscreet love affair. I want babies of my own and not another woman's. The mother is dead. but feeling as I do I could not make a good stepmother. Don't you think it best to leave the baby with its mother's people? X. Answer: _ Undoubtedly it will be better for the child to remain with its mother's people if you feel that way about it, for no crime on edrth equals that of being cruel to a little defenseless babe. The good stepmother who tags mother woman's children to their hearts and mother them surely will have the rues-red seats in I-Ieaven, while as for the bad stepmothers-truly "it were better for him that s millstone were hanged about his neck and be cast into the sea than to offend one of thus little ones." ' . u Of course. then is no reasoning with jealousy. but inasmuch as this child was born before you had any claim upon its father ‘1 do not use why yeuabouldbeanymoreoppossdtoreoeivingituastepehildtbanyoli would h your husband's bringing his child to you if he had been s widower. [l .1! i I washed, scrubbed, ironed, washed dishes, made beds. . Fashion Hint I YOUTHFUL CHIC youthful sun back tennis dress is gaining more and more popularity is ry day. It. is worn for tennis and ‘iieiieral daytime wear, since the dir- out rays-of the sun striking the un- [rlntlied body, have proven so bene- l floinl to health. Everywhere in fash- ; {unable circles this smart dress per- sists. It isworn on the veranda of 3 tlieCountry Club, for golf, tennis. l lxiich and for porch wear at home. ' Styli No. 497 can also be made with llili_h neck at back with deep V at front and finished with applied bands thal tire perforated for contrasting to carry out tri-color scheme. Dotted lines on small back view show either of two depths for sun back. The cir- culacskirt is trimmed with applied scalloped blind. It is sketched in pale pink with light and darker red con- trast in washable silk crepe. Silk pique, printed cotton pique, linen. cotton broatbloth with polka-dots and checked gingham other favorite com- binations. Diisigned in sizes 16, iii, 20 years, 36, 31b 40 and 42 inches bust. Pattern priuv ~15 cents in stamps or carefully. ‘ We suggest with this babfl} - your home. st would certainly ‘tats great love and great nobility ofsoul m a woman accumulations ilieaitlrnatsohildandrearitsshsrownifitwas i_. Fashions coin (coin ispreferred.) Wrap coin that when you send for sometimes actual nuisances, what ls there about circulars and folders and other such things that are stufl- ed in our letter-boxes, to make us ac- tually so resentful against those who address these missivcs to us? Isn't it perhaps that we women dis- like the assumed familiarity which characterizes this second class mail and the tacit impertinence that takes it for granted that we shall be glad to enjoy the privilege of correspon- dence with anyone who can afford to buy a ‘fsuckcr" list of names plus a few thousand stamps and envelopes. The offerings of many of these’ are so palpably bait that the reading of Made Her Baby Plump And Well Nothing makes a mother more grateful than a benefit conferred upon her child. Mothers everywhere who have used Baby's Own Tablets for their children speak in enthusiastic terms of them. For instance, Mrs. Zeplierln Lavoie, Three Rivers, Que. writesz-"Babys Own Tablets are a wonderful medicine‘ for little ones. They nevcr fail to regulate the baby's stomach and bowels and make him plump and wcli. I always keep a box of the Tablets in the house and would advise all mothers to do likewise." Most of the ordinary ailments of childhood arises in the stomach and bowels, and can be quickly banished by Baby's Own Tablets. , These Tab- lets relieve constipation and indiges- tion, break up colds and simple fev- Literature Come In! Stay Out! Outside of the fact_that they are one means the destruction unread‘), the next score. say to nine-tenths of such direct mail approaches—"Stay Out." are our invited friends and we m for the privilege of their daily vgu We know that the contents will a]. ways be so much social news and g much advertising-the news of ti" shops. The other things, the bill board, the stickers and the circular-i try to stop ma on my outside um of life. The newspaper is on lntegni‘ part of our life and we say to it in. stinctively “Come In." Most of m. free contributions seldom really C105; our threshold. cup shortening (I use half butte. and half lard), then add 2 eggs am beat well. Then add 3-4 toaspeei soda dissolved in 2 teaspoons water and 1-2 teaspoon salt and 1 teaspool cinnamon. Then add 1 cup choppei large seeded raisins, 1 1-2 cups rolls: oats (put through food chopper) ant 11-2 cups flour. A little more flow. may be needed to roll out the dough Roll thin, and out in triangles sm bake in a quickoven. A date filling put'between two cookies makes| nice variation. ,UNE_1, 1m subconsciously w, Our newspapers, on the other hand For The Cook' ‘i OATMEAL RAISIN COOKIES Cream 1 cup brown sugar and l ,ers, expel worms, allay teething pains and promote healthful sleep. They are guaranteed to be free from iri- Daily Arguments jurious drugs and are safe even for the youngest and most delicate child. The Tablets are sold by medicine dealers or by mail at 25c a box from The Dr. Williams Medicine Co, Brockville, Ont. ditional for a copy of our Spring Fashion Magazine. It's just filled with delightful styles, including smart en- sembles and cute designs for the this patternnvou enclose 10 cents ad- a constant rqiuinder of his unfaithfulness to her, but such is not the case Surely you milst recognize that. it would be a. flne thing to help your husband atone to this child in some way for the wrong he has done it. But l! you feel that, you would be jealous of it and hate it. don‘t bring it into This poor little creature is better oi! where it is. and to have no father than to be the victim of a cruel sepmoth - TIA. new kiddies. Bl‘. DOROTHY DIX late ishing many folks them for lunch. delightful Walnuts d. Chocolate momitu Fudge. A creamy, tasty divinity fudge with walnuts, coated with deli-r cious bitter sweet chocolate Young and Old Aakfor-FATEMMA- sogood and so nour- AUNT HET BY CLAUDE CALLAN “If hell Is just a myth. 11h that city preacher said. l Ila‘ clan I don't know what's N“ to become o‘ some o’ Pa‘; folks.‘ Dill’ QC