xuaiuuuuanuuy, “Qfiirfibm-‘wf-xl ~ltb~ki>vb§4 I Household Scrapbook By Roberto he moo-cavemen‘, I Yin (rust When the pie is taken from the liven. place it on a. high wire rack l0 6°01. instead of on a fiat surface. [t will help to keep the crust flaky. as it will not be soggy. Invert the wire drainer for this purpose if you to not have a regular rack. Driving Nails Nails will stay firmly in plastered walls if they are pulled out after driving them in. then wrapped in, a little steel wool and then driven ‘ ln again. lliocoughs l-liccoughs can sometimes be checked by putting the blade of a cable knife on the tongue for n few ninutes. i ___ais'lii'rii5i?i'iliyti§s DESIGN N0. 2-507 ‘These dainty colorful floral lDrays are embroidered on pillow cases or towels. Hot iron transfer pattern No. 112-507 contains B motifs from lléwby 10 to 21-5 by l5 inches with complete instructions. To order: Send 20 cents in coin to Needlework Bureau, Charlotte- town Guardian. Design N0. 15-50?! Name Address i>0l%f 0(’ l} Modern I Q- What are the bridegroom’; expenses for a weddnig‘! A. The marriage license. o. wed. ding present for his bride. a. per- sonal gift for his best man and eaeh of his usherspthe bride's bouquet, the Wedding rlnz. clergyman‘; fee. and the expenses of the honeymoon , trip. It he desires. the bridegroom l-YIIQY Purchase the bouquets for the | brtdeunaicls. but he is not obligated to do so, and these are usually the cxpenoes of the bride or her par- ems. Q. Is the correct form of intro- duction. “This is Mr. Smith. Miss JBrown," or, "Miss Brown, this is’ l Mr. Smith"? A. The latter form is correct, as the woman's name should always be spoken first. Q. Does it matter in which dir- ection serving dishes are passed around the dinner table? A. It is most practical to pass these dishes toward the right. or counter-clockwise. "$1! BettervEnglis/t D. C. Wlllnrnl 1. What is wrong with this sen- tence? "I will be back in a few mirrites." ‘l. What is the correct pronunc- iation of “petite? 3. Which one of these words is misspelled? Serpentine, pantomine, valentine. 4. What does tasy" mean? 5. What is a word beginning with my that means "to puzzle, or bewllder"? ‘ the word "fan- ANSWERS 1. Sayl=“I shall return Ln a few minutes." 2. Pronounce pattei. first e unstressed, second e as in m2. ac- cent second syllable. 3. Pantomime. 4. A product of imagination. “Is not this something more than fan- tasy?" -— Shakespeare. 5. Mystify. l 70km Quake Wllllll NIT ma! 70 ‘ and drag around ucll day. unable to doth: work-cranky with the c ' aelin; miserable. don't Home it on ‘nerves’. Yul kidney: may be out of order-m when i - I I ' lIIIIII-IIlfiQI-ifld llu .158- lurbotl tut. frequently follow. To help he your kidneys working properly-use Dodllh Kidney Pills-and no for younolf if Illa! ill-in’ looling is nofooon replaced by clear-headed one andpop. Gollntl fluDoddi Kidney ' lotloy. 140 Cit Province Dodds KidnevPills annanoqnldolhlhlacloooaaogadunnDlllqnwoeacanvmnnnnniaeanrininwlnaqncllnInsulin)! l! Etiquette y. ELLENS DIARY i By Roberto Leo‘ I l BY An bland Farmer’: Wile lOO I At Alder-lea. we continue to enjoy 19'" "W1 Visilfl". who come to 11nd m the flesh. the family that daily wanders along these pages, An ‘average everyday sort of Island , farm-family. dwellins in usual lfirm-hvllses. farming ordinary farms. Whimsically we recall words out of old Pages to (it u; . . . James and his wife, his two sons and their wives. and their children to the number of four- and their—only modest — flocks and herds. But now that we consider it all, James would not be one con- tent to sit of an evening at the dour of his tent in contemplation. He would gladly seize this delight- ful interval of time, when the sun has called home his shadows and night is commencing to spread sable widths of softness. in a. cool covcrlet over the countryside be off along the reaches of his val- ley, keeping an eye alert to the .conditi0n of his sheep and goats. ;Coaxing one of indifferent appe- tite with a handful of corn, won- dering doubtless ll that aged ewe was sufficiently nursing her pair of lambs, giving the smaller one a nip from the bottle of warmed milk he should carry in a capac- ious pocket. for James is ever one to be prepared for such eventuali- tics. not Wondering too if that raggedv animal he had recently bought would ever as he says "grow into something." and if that cloud bank afar meant rain or perhaps it in- dicated only wind. Considering too as the soft lights of the afterglow faded and in time the stars lit their myriad of lights. if they were not set loo closely to bring con- tinued good weather, though per- haps grateful of this to find therein a promise of delayed showers, to presently refresh the grass for his pasturing stock_ And then turning to come back along silent lanes to love his own dwelling. I O O This would ‘be James, husband of ours. in the early ages of time. or down to those that are ours. "And so this is James" a yester- day's caller remarked of the slim man out of overalls and into a version of his Sunday best, adding in a twinkling aside, intended for us “poor fellow!" It was a bache- lor's twinkle. with bewitching angles we confess, and expressing various sentiments. I I With some there ‘is a sigh over. fleeting years and lost opportuni- ties, over thoughts of what "might have been“ in the way of wife and family around their lonely hearth- stones, while others confess to a relieved you-can-haveJem attitude. and an Pm-not-a-family-man. This man, who could have written most interesting memoirs of his life as a schoolmaster in various places abroad but refrained because Continued on page 9 to! __1‘HE ‘cuaaouuv. cnamiorrarowu oman’ s REGlIHYSOClBl and Personal/Fashions!’ DOROTHY DIX SAYS- wQM-Q-o ocbooc-oooooau-m I Innocent Victim I Relationship of Girl. Benefactor. Misinterprcfcd By Wife l i l DEAR DOROTHY DIX: I am a girl 19 years old. Three years ago‘ I came to the city from a small town and got a Job in a department store, A short time afterward the big boss called me to his office and] talked to me. Found out I had little education and urged me to goio night school and improve myself. Which I did. He is old enough to! be my father and has treated me as a father might a daughter. Made , it possible for me to get. an education. Got me to join the church. l-le has been all that a Christian gentle an | should be to me, hut his wife has become very je lous of me, and make things very unpleasant at home for him. I feel that I should leave the city so that, there will be no further strain on their already strained re- lations, but he begs me not to. I want to obey his - wishes because he has been so good to me, but I never want to be a party to breaking up a home, even if I am not guilty of. any wrongdoing. What must I do? TRUTHFUL. ANSWER: Go. And at once. It is the only way that you can repay the kindness of your benefactor and save him from the scandal of a divc""~ and the anguish of a broken-up home. That you are both entirely innocent of any wrong-doing does not affect me wisdom of this move, The world does not see the heart of the individual. It only observes its actions, and it smiles cynically and puts the worst. possible interpretation on old gentlemen who take ii paternal interest in a pretty young girl employee. Nor will ull the prayers in the world cure the jealousy of n wife who sees her husband spending his money and taking delight in the companionship of a girl who is half her weight and age. SUSPICIOUS WORLD This is a suspicious world filled with jealous wives and scandal- mongers, and we have to meet it on its own low plane. We cannot change it. And it isn't enough to be good, we have to look good and avoid even the suspicion of evil. And that is why no young girl can have a platonic affair even with a man olQ enough to be her father. If you leave your kind old friend, he will miss you for n while. but that will pass and his name and his home will be saved. If you stay, you will wreck him as well as yourself. So go. DEAR MISS DIX: We are a group of young mothers who will some day be mothers-in-law, therefore we have made a list of the things that. our mothers-in-luw do that annoy its most, and we have pledged ourselves to re-rcad this each New Year's Day in order to ovoid doing the same things. to our daughters-ln-luw that our mothers- in-law are doing to us. So ‘iere goes: i1) Never find fault with our sons‘ wives‘ clothes, cooking, house- work, or how they bring up their children. <2) Never side in an argument with either party. t3)‘ Never ask either our son or his wife questions regarding personal matters, such as salaries. savings, cost of anything the couple may own, (4) Never drop in for an unexpected visit. Always phone or write in advance, so the son's wife may let you know if she has a previous engagement. (5) Never stay in the same room when the young couple read their mail, open packages, or when they discuss their personal problems with each other. (6) Never have the running of the son's houses changed to suit our ideas, such as cooking, washing, mealtimes. etc. (7) Never refer to the young folks‘ possessions as “my son's". (81 Never call upon our children when we don‘t feel well or are tired, as it is very upsetting to many women to have anyone lie down on their beds. t9) If possible try not to live with the young couple, but if we must, always act as a visitor. not the owner of the house. Remember ALWAYS that it is their house, not ours. (10) Never correct a daughter-in-law, no matter what she does or says. Every dnughtcr-in-law thinks she is Mrs. Solomon, and, anyway. mothers-ln-law and dnughtcrs-in-law just don't mix. WISHFUL THINKERS. ANSWER: Taking it by and large, the world's greatest optimists are the girls who marry and go to live with their in-laws and ex- pect to be happy ever afterwards. It takes a miracle-worker to pull oft that stunt. True, now and then Angelina and John's mother have the tact and forbearance to keep out of each other's hair, but for the most. part it justifies the Chinese ideograph of a fight—iwo women in ihc same house. Hence I commend these rules for keeping the peace to all pros- pective mothers-in-law. DEAR. MISS DIX: What is the unpardonable sin? Many writers give their conception of it as deceit, infidelity, falsehood, murder, eic., . and have based stories on them. A relative of mine insists that in- SEPTEMBER I 26. 1949 nnawrnwnrulujtj‘ u ljte 'W‘" raiure _ g ~ ~ flfihfill$fi§§§ I That‘ Body Of Yours James W. Barton. M. I). . BOTTLE!) UP ANGER MAY CAUSE CHRONIC HEADACHE I recently wrote about migraine- one-sided headache - in which re- search workers found that some emotional problem was the match that started the fire in the type of personality of migraine patients- overambitious. ovcrconsclelltious about their work. While ergoiarnlne tartrate relieved practically all cases of migraine, finding and re- lieving the underlying emotional Problem was the important part of the treatment. That chronic headache is often caused by emotional disturbances is reported by Drs. C. Brenner, A. P. Friedman and A. Cartez, Columbia University. They investigated sev- ~ cral hundred patients with chronic- headache over a period of five years. They state that a large percentage of such patients are supresslng or holding back. or are really uncon- sclous of strong feelings of resent- ment and anger, Such patients can he helped greatly by an opportun- ity to express these feelings to a doctor or by rearranging their lives Needlecraft 1 FOR THE HOME; CLASSROOM FAVORITES The short fitted jacket and the full pleated skirt make a smart suit for school-in timely tweed‘. Pat- tern also includes the popular lu-m- ber lmcket. — a good mixer in plaid. No. 2573 is cut in_ sizes 4. 6. 8.1 l0 and 12. Size 8 skirt aird jacket, 2% yards 54-inch; lumberjacket. 1 yard 54-inch. Send 25 cents for each Pattern which includes complete sewing guide. Print your Name. Address and style Number plainly. Be sure to state size you want. include postal unit. or zone number in your address. Address Pattern Depart-men’ The Charlottetown Guardian- ifll N0. 2573 Name Address City so as to avoid sources of anger. Thb was the treatment suggestedl for migraine by Drs. Marcussen and . n. c. Wolff. . Other patients suffer with an un-‘ conscious need of illness which would help them to avoid conflicts or problems. In these cases the family physician .0r psychiatrist must listen to the patient's accc-unt . of personal history WhlCh is so, helpful to the patients having bob, tied-up anger. In time the family. physician. by showing the patient how these little talks have helped him can persuade the patient to consult a psychiatrist who is espec- ially equipped to treat such cases of chronic headache. “The importance 0i the physic- ian-patient relationship is stressed as a method of treatment which ioperatcs unconsciously even when [the patient is unable to recognize ,or admit that the doctors person- ality has helped him. - The thought is that while most headaches are caused by disturb- ances of liver, ear. large intestine ‘and female generative organs. l. ‘large number of chronic headaches are caused by emotional disturb- larices such as bottled~up anger. [Once the patient realizes that this i is the cause he may be able to help _l1lmS6ll by bringing the problem iout to the light llis pent-up anger l causes his headaches. 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She claims; that we never think half as much as we should and that we should - till NE EXTRA BIBH UXYDUI. ron n1: a WASIIES YES! LIFETIME VIIIITEIIESSI LIFETIME IRIIIITIIESS for tin Ilia of your clotlmi lYoufilseean entirely new kind of white- nesamaparkling whiteneesmthe very first wuhl Then clothes keepumvnrr: Ion Lin: . . . sparkling white. Never again will your clothes get that dull gray look as long as you was "Lifetime” Oxydol. h them in new Extra-Rich / Try it-for extra soap value (extra tub- loedo of laundry from ovary package), for mildneu and extra more suds, foroctra wldtonou for the life o! your clothes. OXYDOl TODAY! pardonable tin? or ends. problems of _, develop every talent that we possess. What do you thing is the un-i ' EMMA. ANSWER: That is a problem that has been debated for centuries by the wisest men without their ever arriving at a conclusion. I do not think that there is any such thing as an unpardonable aln, because we are so much the hapless creatures of heredity and environment and circumstances that no one can say whose our responsibility begins I agree with your relative that. laziness is about the most aggravat- ing quality a person can have and the hardest to put up with, but it always seems to me that unkindness is the hardest sin to understand, the hardness that has no pity for suffering and that. wantonly hurts other people just for the pleasure of watching them suffer. DOROTK DIX cannot reply personally to readers, but will answer ll Interest; through her column, 914' Morning Smile s-tea-eo-Q-oo-b-ow SWQ "Do you realize your wife is tel- llnd "Wybody that you can't keep her in clothes?" ‘That isn't the half of it. I bought her a home, and 1 can't keep her in that. either." Tho neighborhood borrower sp- vmwhod Mr. Smith mmday noon and inquired: "Are you using your lawnmower this afternoon?" "Yes, I am." 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