50th Wedding ME. AND MRS. ELMER PEARSON / Alias lead. Iesaea's l‘ lifter. Pinned-3 The Guardian, Charlottetown, Mon. Aug. 20, 1962. 7 HAPPENINGS Anniversary Marked By Chelton Couple Friends and relatives gather- nd Mrs G —. 5-‘ ‘3 3 o :5 th wedding anniversary. Mrs. ' Pearson is the former Margar- Qt Wilson of Weetmoreland. nd Mrs. Pearson were North Congrega- 2 2 O = 3 O 5' = '1 G 1 53- ..:s F 33 as C o ‘I :- .. = ilir. Pearson was engaged farming. _ _ have four daughters: Esther. Mrs. Court; Muriel. . ‘aria Mabey: Mamie. Mrs. Earlc Oallbeck: and Wanda at. home. Mr. Roy Campbell acted as master of ceremonies for the Z 7: F occasion and called on Mr. Fred . Clarke who read an address to o the c o u pie. After this two grandchildren Allister Mabey and Ralph Callbeck pre- sented Mr. Pearson with a zy- boy chair and Mrs. Pearson with a purse of money on behalf of the family. The Women's Insti- _ tute presented the couple with . a chest of st lver and a silver tray was presented them by Mr. and Mrs. Ileber Myers. Mn- ny other gifts were received by e couple. The Women's Institute served a dainty lunch and the anniver- sary wedding cake was cut by the couple then served to the guests. The remainder of the evening was spent socially and music was provided by Carl Sorenson. Louis Pearson and Harold Mac- Quarrie. Miss Madelyn Clhrkin. presi- dent of the Charlottetown Busi- Ar- senauit, returned this week after spending the past month visiting ' the Scandinavian countries and in Germany. Switzerland and France. Wit in Norway they attended sessions of the Interna- tional Conference of the Feder- ation of Bu loose and Profes- sional Worr.~an’e Clubs which was held in Oslo from July 35th - sour. Dr. and Mrs. Carlyle Phillips and family. Halifax are spend in their holidays visiting Dr. Philips parents. Mr.- and Mrs. W. G. Philip. Arlington. Lot 14. and Mrs. Philips parents, Mir. and Mrs. Reginald Coffin. Roy- alty. They also spent part holidays visiting Cavendish. Irwin Brown of Toronto. Ont. at is vacationing his former home in Long River. lie of Mrs. Dollar and Miriam thanked is no- Good- eompanied by Mr. W. A. lELLEN’$ DIARY. in Grey Mist And then following in the wake of our quiet Lord's Day. another Monday was here. It came in a shower on the leaves beyond the window. and a mist of gray against the hills. "Oh dear!" the heart sighed. "Rain again — and so much hay in be saved to the barns!" Rain. yet withal. was a first day of a brand new works- _ week. what adventuring m i g h t lie ahead for us. through days yet unborn-nice happenings fio further fond plans. and to fos- tar our hopes and our dreams. And suppose. we reflected greet- lng this, we might be granted some direct gift from it. what would be our request? Silks and sntins — beautiful hrocades and rich. from far. fabled lands to clothe us’! Jewels in a great oiinrtion. scintillating like ’ osc which a winter-frost touch- ed by sunlight sets aglow along the white fields: rubles. dia- monds. sapphires. emeralds.and odd opais for an added witching touch. to bedeck us? A magic plane perhaps. to be our own, at a wish to convey us over distan- ces — to some calling. as do the birds at this and that flower’s door’! Coming to stop with you ~and you—and you. To see how are are faring: to walk in might come "up the creek." Not :- = 5. n. 3; as n. 3 lp the fax» “W3 list on with their belated haying. ‘ GRADUATES nil: mm «in. and Another Monday Comes From Hills “I declare, Missis. it's be- coming serious." Papa Starling observed. watching us lift. to prop higher the slim wiry length of brown alder-stick. which sup- ports our clothesiine. so that the spread pieces might catch such a wind. though none then stir- red - not a breath of one. He grinned. "I see you're try- ing to coax the wind. Doesn't seem as though . . .there'll come any today. But." he shook his head. "don't let me try to make a forecast. I can't. It's be- yond me these days!" But Monday did find the sun and a nice breeze. The mists lifted, dissolved. Was there ever a lovelier summer day? Now there is moonlight. If you had been with us when we returned from an outing which set us down at lane's end a while ago. you would have stop- ped on the lane-bridge as did we. to see the charming scene there. Pieces of night-blue sky. white cloudlets. stars. were re- flected on the bosom of the stream which was spanned in silver. On either side. the trees edging it wove their dusky sha- dows. And beyond. the moon caressed the roof and gable of the old mill. seated so serenely against its background of map les. So calm the night was. so lovely. it seemed that it had ga- And thered every loved night of for- mer summers together. select- - ing from each. some loveliness to make this one so perfect. "Come away home now-it's time folks were ahead." Scam- pie smiled. meeting us there. Past in bright buoy of star the Lady Moon sails now. shallop. kept to a western course above the night-hills. Until tomorrow - - Diary- Good-night. . . Dear Mary llaworth: I have a wonderful. intelligent. devot- ed husband and two lovely chil- dren. We get along perfectly and have a very happy family. When we visit his family. however, he ignores me: sel- dom even speaks to me. He says it's nothing against me. simply that he wants to g iv e them his whole attention to pre- vent hurt feelings. Ills mother is a wonderful person. quite timid. who sacri- ficed a lot for her family; but she is rather rude and makes sly remarks. She refuses to write or visit us; gets sick if she has to come to our house. My h u s b a n d continually throws up to me how much they've done for him. putting him through school. He wants to repay them by taking on r two-year-old daughter for fort- night-long visits quite often. He says it makes them happy and shows his appreciation. When we visit with them we never leave their house: all our time is spent with them. They would be hurt if we saw others. I am so uncomfortable at their house I never want to go back. What should I do? Trying to talk to his mother doesn't work so what will?— E.F. Dear E.Il'.: The story doesn't hang together. as you tell it. Your narrative is consistently self-contradictory. However. the gist of the prob- m does reak through be- tween the lines of what you say. Evidently you have a senti- mental. idealized concept of how marriage and in-law rela- tionships should and you try to maintain the illusion that such is the case in y o u r family life (or in your feelings. at any rate). But the truth and facts of ideal. it appears -- especially as regards your husband's sick- sick relationship with his mom- mother. Now for a flashback. to show what I mean: First. you de- .scribe your husband as “won- derful. inteligent. devo ." Then you give a play-by -play omit of his actions which show him to be a mama's boy, not a man: so closely tied to her. in an unweaned way. that he actually feels guilty (in her I O 0 ‘Spring Valley Couple Celebrates 25th Anniversary I<Il‘.NsING’ION—-Mr. and Mrs. t subsbury were honored at their home at Spring Valley on Saturday evening. August . on the occasion of their twenty- fifth wedding anniversary by relatives and friends. . sudsbury is the _former Edith Cole. and the comic were attended by her sister. Miss Annie Mae Cole and,l{ubert Caseley. at the weddrh twen - five years ago. Keith Harrlngon. MLA. as spoke pl are h d. felicltations on behalf of the commu . address was read on be- halfofthe family by a son Clair. and a trilight floor in p was vfresen by a son. Keith. Indi dual gifts. including as electric kettle and money. from relatives and friends were pre- sented a and .- son and thughtver of the cale- brants; and a silver butter dish from the grand. children Allan and Dagld sudsbury was pre-, sen y Inn. All address on behalf of the presence) about being y o u r spouse. As if he were hvolved inafurtivesexalliance; orse if he feared that mom might re- sent you as a rival in his priv- ate love life. Also y o u‘ say t h a t “We" (meaning you and he) "get MARY HAWORTH Visits With Husband's Fomily Are Great Triol To Writer fellow. organist and choir mast- Dentonia Park United Church in Toronto. On Wednesday evening the members of the Brookfield WMS met at the home of Mrs. Donald MacDonald to bid farewell to two their members. Mrs. Brenton Dollar and Miss Miriam Dollar, who are moving to 'Chas~ lottetown. Mrs. West MacDonald ex- plained the purpose of the gath- ering and called on Mrs. Perley Taylor who read an r . Mrs. Donald MacPherson and Mrs. Lloyd MacLeod presented the guests of honor with a beau- tiful coffee table and a step-end table. Mrs. Dollar was also made a life member of the society. a few well-chosen words (I '1 A dainty lunch was served and a social hour brought the. enjoyable evening to a close. l develop strong roots ofereal be- longing to your household. Amd unconsciously. perhaps. this is the underlying purpose of grandma's sly connlvance with him in promoting the too- fre- quent. too-lengthy visits for a child so young. The situation challenges you to grow up fast. psychologically. and bring mature insight and adult backbone to bear, in recog- nizing. defining and standing up for your inalienable rights as woman. wife and mother. When you are fulfilling these roles creditably. your mother-in-law will behave differently- cause she'll have to.— . Mary Haworth c o u n s e l s through her column. not by mail or personal interview. Write her in care of The Guardian. ill: ROCKY ISLAND About 1,400,000 people live on the less than 0.000.000 acres of rocky Sardinia off the western coast of htaly. St. James Church. Egmont Bay. was the scene of a pretty wedding recently when M a r y Viola. daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Guss V. Gallant of Urbanville. became the bride of John Alfred Arsenault. son of Mr. and Mrs. ohn L. Arsenault of Abram's Village. Rev. Philip Cloutier of- ficiated. Miss Angela Arsenault was in charge of the wedding music. The bride, given in marriage er father. was lovely in her floor length wedding gown of white net and chantllly la cc over satin. The elbow length veil of tulle was held in place with a tiara of sequins a n d pearls. and she carried a semi- cascade of red sweetheart roses and white carnations. Miss ‘Loretta Arsenault. as bridesmaid. wore a street length dress of yellow chiffon over taf- feta. a circular hat with pearl decorations. and she carried I O‘ '< 5‘ your situation are anything but ‘ PRINTED PATTERN 4922 axis :54 along perfectly and have a very happy family life." later you testify that be "con- tinually throws up to me" (grim phrase: revepling hostility‘ the exchange —- be continually suptoyon howmuch he owes his family. as if to say he fwes you nothing. comparative- Then. of his mother yon pre- claim that she is a wonderful peilson. quite timid and sacrifi- w writ vial your house. and in getting sick if she has to come is kind of neurotic tru port. in muddled husband's as helprnate and father. h doing }'0I.Il‘ OWI my indsmcnt. he the wrong thing for the wrong reasons. in virtually dividing the two-year-old child's between his parents’ care and yours. This amounts to denying $3tT:em/tiiiairii iiiiii :3’ gift ‘ii iii‘ °""‘ °W°"°"'V '3 ted M . 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ARSENAULT Young Couple Pledge Vows In Ceremony At Egmont Bay New .L'on'cion U Holds Meeting KENSINGTON — On ure- day evening the members at New -London UCW met at the home of Mrs. James M. Camp- bell for the August meeting. The worship service was led by Mrs. James E. Cole, based on the theme. “Praise Ye tb e Lord for His Wisdom". The de- votional period consisted of hymns. meditation and prayer. and scripture read by Mrs. Lewis MacLeod. The ‘special missionary prayer was given by Mrs. Harold Dunning. Twenty-four calls were made. thirty-six cards and four treats were sent. and one book w a I read during the month. The minutes of the July meeting were read by the secretary. Mrs..James E. Cole and roll call was answered by eight members with the word “wis- dom" in a scripture passage. The treasurer. Mrs. Ray Mac- Leod. reported that the pro- ceeds from an ice cream social amounted to $119.00. One thank you note for a treat was received. lit was de- cided to send twelve "world friends" for the coming year. Plans were made for the thankoffering. ‘ The program eonvener, Mrs. Louis MacLeod. took charge and called on Mrs. John MacGregor to present the chapter fr o m "The Signal of the Sixtys", on ~ ~ ' . .. . "The Rural Church Enlarging Community". Mrs. Ray Mac- — Leod will be in charge of the R program for next meeting. Mr. and Mrs. Roy Alonzo R , C] t Mrs.‘ Edward MacMurdo pre- Webster are shown following griiinmeris theexsrhlrinof still: sented a chapter of the study their recent marriage in the Mrs. A.M. Webster, Nonboro, book based on Salome. Mrg. KO!!! :1 erian ‘ Hamid 1) u n 51 n . Wu) 1, 3 V . Church. The bride is the form- charge of the study book for 0*‘ 5' Ann . da . C next meeting. leader will be ‘V °' M1“ "id Ml'5- Edllon a Mrs. Lewis Cole, ayer “for our missionaries". will be given A saggy: c?:,::?:Ehs" d._ F l;3"1dMt‘:"t J"m°‘:'mM- §""‘pb°ll; lhivgredlfive 05.000 - horsepower ""°‘d ‘ y ro-e ectrlc turbi bouquet of mauve and yellow Ml"-‘L Edwam M"°M‘“'d° l“"'“' Aswan dam ro ectmirsi E e ‘Carnations. Miss Donna Arsen- Ed the m9mb91'3l0 he!‘ home p 1 gym _ t ault. sister of the groom. aslfml‘ the Seplerniberkmeeting. e S flower girl, was attired in yel- 06 Cfeflm all C8 6 Was serv- low nylon with matching head- _ {id byLOtl;e Lllilostcss P I‘ Oud band and carried a bouquet of 1 rs. u s acLeod. yellow and green carnations. ‘ Your CHIC Pl'iC9d thMr. Cedric Gallant, brother of 31-_ LAURENT HONORED b 'd . b t . . , ' M5. a’.‘...i.~€"鑧...."i2.,".I.‘i‘.§‘.i...‘?3.-. OTTAWA <cP> — Former ‘ , . from low of the bride. ushered th e l Prime m l '1 l 3 t 9'‘ 1401113 5t- r guests to their newt Laurent has been named recipi- 1 .Mrs. Gallant chose for her 9"‘ °f the Caldlnal Newman daughter's wedding a two-piece ‘award for 1962- it W33 311' D I. print lnounced Friday by the Cana- dress of mauve floral C S ’ l dinn Federation of Newman you!‘ ‘lie can be V0111‘! It I P7100 mhuehfi f:sS(£f:a?1T,?.: cmirahg: lCiuhs. The award goes each _ YOU can afford. AND. on a pay- gmom-S mother wore a t 0_iyear to an outstanding Roman _ .. me plan that I fit piece dress of green floral print I Catholic _lay person for notable budget. Fur jackets are as- th white accgssorles and . contributions to the intellectual Y0“ “ll P3! 10“? km“! 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